It’s pretty obvious to everyone that we talk to our kids about growing up and the world we live in. Our approach as parents is to talk to them as much as possible. Often times we put a different spin on the subject we are addressing. You never know what they will relate to best. So we change it up and try to add some humor as well.
I always try to find a creative way to get the message through loud and clear. My talk with Victoria was more about her responsibility to herself. How making the right choices has an impact on perception, sending the right message and knowing how to handle the reactions you receive. That’s why I thought dress shopping was a creative way to start the conversation. The choices that we make as we grow up always have an impact on our future.
It’s so hard to find the right words when we talk to our kids. I think that’s especially true for mothers and daughters. No matter how hard we try, sometimes one word or the tone in our voices can turn a pleasant conversation into a shouting match. All we ever want to do is protect them. However that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes we just lose it.