Melissa,
I am kind of new to the show. I watched some of season 1, most of 2, and now all of 3 so far. I think you are a beautiful and smart woman. The way you and your husband love each other is obvious and wonderful. Your kids are beautiful too. My husband kind of looks like your husband, so I am a little biast. We have great taste!! I thought I read or heard that you were a dancer in the past. Was that exotic? You know, that is nothing to be ashamed of. If people pick at that, they are ignorant and jealous. I was a dancer on and off for 10 years. I still managed to have a lucrative career in accounting and met my husband who I love dearly while dancing. As long as you are okay with yourself thats all that matters. Also, good for you on singing. I like the way you acknowledge how lucky you are but also how lucky your husband is. You seem very confident in that respect. I know TV edits a lot, but the impression I get about Theresa is that she is a very unhappy and insecure woman. I feel for her being married to that stupid cheesehead, but it does not give her license to go after you and her brother. Seems like she wishes she had what you to had. Instead of acting like a b*tch, I would enlist your help. Keep your head up and be proud. You have much to be happy about in your life, and very well deserved. (-: Patti

Melissa.. you are a beautiful and talented woman. You take the high road and show how it is to be a lady. In time i really hope that your sister-in-law Theresa in time can learn to let go and learn that the one thing in life we truly have is family. I have lost my mother and i have a brother and a nephew. they are the most precious things in my life. Even my ex sister in law is very important because she is the mother of my nephew. Just because her marriage to my brother didn't work out ,doesn't mean that i still don't love and respect her for being the mother of my nephew. FAMILY is the most important treasure we will ever have. losing my mother has been the hardest thing in the world and i hold dearly ever the family i have. I wish i could just talk to theresa and make her see how blessed she is to have you as her sis-in-law and the beautiful children the you have as her niece and nephews.
god bless you and your family and i pray that in time it all works out. I can see how much you love Joe your wonderful husband and how much you loves and adores you.

Melissa, stay strong and stand up to Teresa by always being the better person. You worked too hard to let her try to destroy your beautiful family. I know that you will love to see your husband's & his sister built a sibling relationship but you have to remember that it takes TWO! Teresa is selfish and has a lot of growing up to do. As long as she can't stand on her two feet & continues being influence by her so called husband she's going to lose EVERYTHING! Remember, you are MELISSA and MELISSA is happily married to a sweetheart and has three beautiful stars. God bless you and you and your family are in my prayers.

Melissa,
I used to be a Teresa fan big time, but I no longer like her because as a woman its easy to see through female games. I saw you on Watch What Happens Live tonight, and you were asked if Teresa is jealous of you and your sweet hubby. You said no. I disagree with you. She seems to have a strange obsession for wanting to be the only woman in his life. She is very petty but you always show class, even tonight. I cant think of many things she could say that was worse than she accused you of. She doesnt listen! She is too busy formulating her next comment to stop, smell the coffee, and live in reality. She brought up the legal issues and the gifts and then gets upset with you for responding. She looks dumb as rocks when she takes on others to argue with. God bless your marriage! Keep being a class act!

Mrs. Gorga, I recently started watching the show and am currently watching the one about the solstice fight between you and your sister in law. I have to say that you are a strong woman in whom anyone would be lucky to have in their lives. Take a moment, look at her and look at you; large differences. She has many things to be insecure about or jealous of you about. It's very obvious you and your husband love each-other, you're an amazing singer, a great mom ( I wish my absentee mother was like you), you're also gorgeous and personable. I know i don't know you, so go ahead and pass this post up; but know that the only person able to judge you is YOU. haters will never stop hating and will do their best to tear you down. Teressa has some psychological issues in which i hope she can resolve. the best thing I see fit is to let Teressa stay busy with her B.S. and not involve yourself with people like that. You're better than lowering yourself to her level. She is the root of many many issues in your social circle and family life. let her be and allow yourself and your family to breathe. Don't loose touch with your nieces and nephews but, seriously, you do not deserve that kind of disrespect. Teressa wants her brother to leave you because your marriage isn't suffering as hers is. live your life for you and your family. you're smart, you'll do the right thing. and the people who matter wont mind and those who mind don't matter. stay happy and strong! and STAY AWAY FROM YOUR SISTER-IN-LAWS DRAMA! <3 take care

TERRESSA AND HER BROTHER DON'T COME ACROSS AS THE MOST BOOK SMART IN THE GROUP, AND I THINK YOU MESLISSA AND THE OTHER HOUSEWIVES TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS. I've seen that Melissa takes over and controls interviews on the red carpet, etc., because she's afraid what Tre's brother might say. All the woman are gossiping behind Terressa's back, and guess what, AMERICA LOVES TERESSA GIUDICE...SHE IS HONEST TO A FAULT AND HOLDING WHAT LOOKS TO BE MACY'S GIFT WRAP WITH DOLLAR GENERAL MASKING TAPE, AND WE ALL RELATE. I don't blame her for walking out of the summer solstace party, she was being ganged up on by everybody. Caroline, mind your own business!!!

Melissa dont listen to the haters.. I think you are trying hard to get along with teresa,, it would take a miracle for anyone to get along with her... she's too selfcentered for me..and she's selfish and mean.. she shouldn't of never wrote all that stuff about her friends in her cook book.. if you don't have nothing nice to say, she should of kept her mouth shut... she could of wrote what great kids you have and caroline's kids too..I love kathy too..she's a doll. God Bless you all,, if Kathy puts out a cook book I would buy it for sure.. I'm just not buying teresa's. noway. only because of what she wrote about everyone. she took her cook book to a whole different level..

This show would not exist without Teresa! So thank her for making your life interesting!

You made my day! Saying what you said to Teressa....thank you for being a lady and still saying what needed to be said!

PS Dont take any of these haters words to heart they dont know you and they are just trying to get you all pissed off, people are stupid that doesn't mean they are right! I think you are by a mile more real than Theresa, so all these people that think you are awful they dont know jack ignore and move on! I hope you dont think these mean people make a difference so good luck with there hateful words!!!!

You are so cute and I really see how much you love your hubby its so cute! You really love him to have to put up with his sister! You are doing the right thing with your sister-in-law! Just keep being real and dont change for anyone, you do have to put up with with her as long as she is Joe's sisssy, so dig in and stay you! So cute! Hope your family makes it!

Well u and your cousin managed to get folks on your side of hating Theresa. U would not have been able to make a song, it is not my flava, if it was not for Theresa opening the door. I do not make a habit to interfere with family but I just want u to know that I am on Team Theresa. At least she is attempting to turn something bad in her life to something good. It would have been really nice if u and her brother, genuinely, supported her. I guess u feel like u r on top well just remember who u stepped on getting. Family is MOST important and your heritage has held that point very dearly, Theresa IS your family stop being so hateful for the cameras. Oh this message is for Theresa's cousin Kathy as well, so tell her.

You're too old to start a "singing career"! Those who do, at your age, have a natural talent-not a computer generated one! Stop wasting your husband's money. Plus, you DO try to be like Theresa; and I believe YOU are the one that's jealous of her and your husband's relationship! There is no doubt that you were "Praising Jesus" of your score when you married Joe; comparing your "win" to your sisters'!!

We think you are very diplomatic, able to hold your tongue when most couldn't (and some don't). You are living your spirituality through grace and forgiveness. We really revere and honor you. And we love your voice. Best, The BBC (BRAVO-BUNCH CLUB) - Formed two years ago but our now over fifty members are getting a bit more active.

Melissa- wow, where do I begin? I think that there are good qualities about you, but you're a devious and sneaky woman. Your so talented but your also very vindictive and calculating. The drama between you and Teresa is of equal fault. You have played a large role in the situation too. She is not without fault and neither or you. I think she is much louder about her intentions and feelings, and she is overt with her actions. She takes a loud ownership of her feelings and ways. You mask yours with an innocents card. You play the unassuming wive that is just fulfilling her role. You made a comment on the reunion show when they were discussing Gia's song. " She has never seen me control him," referring to your husband. That summed it up for me. Your aware that you do have control over him and your aware of how to go about exercising that power. You have wronged Teresa and you have twisted things in presenting them to your husband. I think that if you focused on other things that the show would be different. Your a beautiful woman with talent from what little bit I have seen. You and T need to fix things. Let go of the jealousy and the animosity and be the beautiful woman that you are.

Melissa, the entire time I was one of your biggest fans. But the more I watched you the more its CLEAR you do copy off of Teresa. Photos of you prior to the show show you physically look different and it just shows how much you want to be like her. I dont know how as a woman and a wife you would not just hold your tongue to stand by your husbands sister. At the reunion you should have been woman enough to not attack her like everyone else. Even Andy is attacking her. Teresa is the only real person on the show, everyone has gotten jealous that Terea is a fan favorite and the only way yall can stay relavent is to attack her.

Can't wait till next season!

i cant wait till the next season

Melissa I dont watch NJ housewives to often but the episodes I caught you came off very jealous of Teresa's success with the show. Yes people change but is that really why you were upset because it came off like you were jealous and mad your family wasnt getting anything from Teresa's fame. Reading from the other comments they saw it too. You should be greatful you have this opportunity rather then focused on Teresa.

malissa,don''t quite understand all the comments made that were negative,toward you about teresa.guess the other fans and i are watching different shows.teresa is someone to be careful of,she can't be trusted.her and her husband need to find something else to do,get off the show i don't care for either of them.one of the blogers called tersa honest,WOW i missed that.
neither her nor her husband are honest.teresa is totally jealous of you,stay close to kathy she is a nice lady.family is the most important thing you have but you might want to limit your time with tresa and her family.i thought carollyn was the hater no its teresa

i feel for u...having a sister-in-law like Tre would be so exhausting! I also feel bad for ur hubby having to deal with the likes of Joe Gudice. He is a peice of work! i just saw that one of the buildings he owns, he was behind on the bills and those poor people had to be removed from their home. But he will never get it! If i were Tre i would be humiliated but she doesnt get it either so i guess they are made for each other! Just like u and ur hubby! But for the completely opposite reasons! Cant wait for the season to begin! Looks like its gonna be a good one!

Melissa, you came on this show SO passive agressively swinging and wanting to be a middle aged pop star..YOU were willing to destroy Teresa to get this and I am SO going to enjoy watching you chase this dream of yours when you don't have the talent or "it" factor to get it because you were so cold in your intent. It's called karma, keep chasing Melissa, and we'll keep enjoying watching Teresa soar! She has the "it" factor and a good heart. We SOOOO see the difference...

I am not your biggest fan. I like Tre better she is honest. Own to the fact you were a dancer and continue with your life. Every woman has done something in this world. The core of Christianity is forgiveness. Forgive yourself and ask CHRIST to forgive you and go on. Sometimes your spouse and his family will not view it that way. Tre's and Joe's parents are proud traditional Italians who are very big on modesty. Prepare yourself for the backlash from his family especially Kathy, her mom, rich, and their children. Rich, kathy's husband, is a modest Labaneese Christian and will side with the others. I have four sons and it would not bother my husband and I if our son married a former dancer. We are a modest family (my husband and grandfather are preachers). I believe that a person should not be judged by their past, because people change everyday and try to become better in all walks of life.
I understand why Bravo aired the scene. They cannot be one-sided and allow everyone to attack tre and her past and not anyone else's. kathy is not like you I think she got caught up in the drama and everything got out of control so as with you. I don't believe in family's divided and it is not of GOD. Bravo is showing feuds can happpen in all family's for whatever reason. Before I exit the site here's one peice of advice, you be careful allowing a third party to give you unsolicited advice abut your marriage especially when your family is feuding.
Bravo is a great network and I do not believe their exploiting you all. I believe once the cameras roll that's it. On another talk show, which I will not mention, a guess asked the host that question. He replied he could not make that up. I believe Bravo do not make up thesre line, because I watches all the RHWs except DC and Miami (horrible) the betrayal, hurt, tension, and other emotions are apparent. Cast members true mannerisms are revealed and you can't fabricate that at all. Once again, embrace your past and reconcile with your in-laws by being honest and loving their daughter. If you have not noticed, Joe is not the golden child Tre is. Her parents are very supportive of whatever she does. In the end, Joe will choose his family especially if finances become an issue.

Melissa, I think people are talking more about you an T now that the season is over then when it was playing. Listen up all you ladies you can't all gang up on a reunion on one person it is not fair. Andy take note. You and your beautiful family are entertaining enough.

Leave her alone, high emotion leads to low intelligence. Family will come first Melissa, you, Joe and the babies, and I believe in time/age; you grow and will someday laugh how stressed out everyone was back in the day with Teresa and Joe G. Yous all need to play nicey nice. :)

so happy for all of teresa's success inspite of your hateful efforts to destroy her.

LET'S BE REAL! Melissa I have nothing against you, but I sick of you playing the innocent card. You had a lot to do with the tension between Joe and Teresa and you know it! You gave Joe what he wanted to hear and you sounded so "sweet" ...he listens, because you are his wife and, wives are powerful! ( I should know.) YOU stop breaking up Teresa and Joe's relationship, because even though I'm not "team Teresa," their brother and sister relationship is very beautiful! Finally, I respect you dream of wanting to become a singer, but you can't sing. Those engineers altered your voice so much, it was pathetic. On a positive note, you would be a cool person to hang out with!

Melissa a blind person would be able to tell how hott u are, your beautiful inside and out....i saw a glimpse of teresas face in one episode i cant remember which one it was but she had no make up on and WOWWWWWWW... She is hideous! Anyways sorry needed to have a vent and a backstab after watching the reunion.... Lol Enjoyed watching you this season you rock! Your silly sister in law is insecure and JEALOUS! and dont let her pull you down into the ground cause thats where she is.....in the dirt where she belongs.

SOL09, good god,you gave me a chuckle... we're all "dump" (lol) there ya go Melissa....

Melissa,

These pple have no idea what they are saying about the relationship with Teresa and Joe. You pple on here are as dump as Teresa.... You dont know Melissa, you jst see little bits of Melissa's life....... and judge on it.
But clearly shows in Teresa's COOKBOOK!.... its a COOKBOOK!... not a BACKSTAB BOOK!...
Melissa I know you have been through hell and back wif Teresa. But GALFRIEND keep your head up, and keep praying for those that hate on you.
If you cant move foward in singing for now, jst start writting songs.... Give them out!!! There is money in this.... Slowly you can work at your singing career..... There is always hope, and I wish you all the best. God bless Solina

hey girl, i think you try as hard as you can to get your family together i mean my mother has the same thing going on with my fathers family sometimes so i kinda get what you go through, they just always to bring her down. i started off loveing teresa !! but she tottally turned mean or somthing she was so nice and loveing and then she just showed her colores i mean i still like her but seems like you are putting more effert in the family and thats a good thing. i hope when i get married i dont go through the same thing. just keep up the goood work !! and keep loving you family becouse at the end of the day there the ones that are on your side and wont ever let you down. <3

pmjebby, how you can say Melissa tried to stay out of the drama, is..well, it’s RIDICULOUS. There was no drama with Teresa and Joe before SHE joined the show! I'm sure there were hard feelings growing, because Melissa constantly feeds him negativity about his sister because she was SO DARN JEALOUS Teresa had this show, and all of the attention from the nation, but to say Melissa tried to stay out of the drama is BIZARRE…she spent the entire season passive aggressively making drama with and about Teresa to every single person on this show. Good lord.

~KimJ,~ I agree with what you said. When Melissa at the start of the show blogged TO Teresa, "Karma is a bitch" and about Teresa, "the best revenge is my success," well that told me all I needed to know about her. What stood out to me is the scene where Teresa finally realizes what Melissa is doing on the show with her singing career. You could actually see it click in her head. Melissa spoke of not letting evil Teresa take her voice before they went down to the basement and I was thinking the opposite, "Teresa! Don't go down to that basement, you'll never return in tact". And in some ways the family hasn't. I honestly don't know if Melissa is without conscience. I think the allure of paparazzi and $$ was too much and for Teresa to have that with the nation made Melissa jealous beyond reproach. She went full steam ahead, eyes wide open to get it. The most disturbing part is after Melissa has obviously viewed the season, and so has her Joe, the fact that they both continued to "play" against his sister, and move on like they didn't do a thing wrong is what makes me question their collective conscience. We'll see. All I care about as a viewer with this crew is Teresa and her immediate family. I hope her parents heal from Melissa and Joe, and I hope Joe distances himself from Caroline. Melissa won't, she needs her to continue her crusade, but Joe? Caroline and Joe, if they remain friends, absolutely deserve each other. She is a malicious, deceitful person.

Melissa, you can go on to do whatever it is you've set out to do now, keep you body absolutely stunning, face absolutely gorgeous, even work on your vocal skills---doesn't change the facts of how you crawled onto this show and what you did to your husband's sister, your husband's nieces and your husband's PARENTS. There is NO WAY your husband is going to not figure it out eventually. You were very manipulative, conniving, cruel and self serving and your family will never be the same- no matter how or what you succeed in now. The whole thing's a shame but it has given the viewers a new perspective into a life we all thought we dreamed of (as you said) but now pray we never get.

As an avid viewer of Bravo, I’d like to say - Congrats Bethenny and Teresa (RHNJ) on all of your accomplishments, I am so proud of you two! You both remind me of one another…I totally agree with Spwriting and Susie Q. The haters in your lives, (Teresa’s family and Bethenny’s friends) “thought” they could get the best of you, WRONG! The old saying stands true, S-U-C-C-E-S-S is the best revenge. Last season, Mellissa Gorga introduced herself to the world by writing negatively about Teresa in saying “Karma is b…” I guess she didn’t realize it was going to have a BOOMERANG affect, lol! Ladies, 2012 is your year!

Hi Melissa i think Teresa is jealous that you have and can have the same materials she owns and she does not want anybody to have them but her. I have a jealous sibling and she does not treat me wright, so i know how Joe feels with Teresa's husband and he's seems like he's made that yyour husband is go lucky with his career, to bad everybody has to work. I was a dancer for 18 years full time and i still look hot and so what if those people accuse of being one even though you set them straight that you where a bartender i find most people that worked in the bar industry take better care of their looks because of so thats a good thing. Joe is going to have to spend the times with his parents that they have left because Teresa and Joe let them go do what they do you can't control them they have issues.

You are very loyal to your own family, we see that. When you marry someone, these people (Teresa, her parents, her husband, her children) become your family too. Most people would feel the same loyalty and not do the things you have done. That's why people are so upset. In a MILLION years, if I had a sister in law who I tangled with, I wouldn't go on national television and air it all, which inevitably would affect her means of making money for her family because it was the only means to see your dream through. No way.The main reason I wouldn't is because of (in your case) my little nieces. My god, they can hear you know and feel everything and one day watch all of these shows. You are gossiping mean spiritedly about your nieces Mommy on television. Maybe the show went in a turn you didn't expect but you continued for fame. All of your children will watch these. The escapades in public bathrooms, the table flipping, who cares? These kids will know their Moms are passionate people, but the mean, vicious attacks and manipulative chess games are going to have lasting effects on them. I personally do not think Teresa has partaken in any of them. You are the poster child for such.

I didn't know people were blogging in once the season is over- but I like it because this NJ season left such a haunting after-feeling with me. I read on here "Melissa is a role model"and had to chime in. A role model??! Yes, please little girls everywhere: Please grow up to want fame so bad you will stop nothing short of having the luck of a sister-in-law land such a role, and after you see the attention she gets from it, please wreck your in-laws lives and completely manipulate your husband's relationship with his sister who before you was very, very close. Yup, that sounds like a great goal for all of our young woman with these reality opportunities. Come on.........

Melissa, I was completely team "Theresa" at the beginning of Season 3 and of course I love Jacqueline and Caroline, but I feel so bad now. Theresa true colors came out this season. I know you don't care about all these people making comments back and a lot of them are haters, but after I got to know you I love you so much! I follow you on twitter! You are so nice and down to earth! Your not fake at all and i love it, i don't know how you keep it together so well when theresa goes psycho. She has major issues and tried to make all viewers believe you started all the drama when really you were trying to stay out of it! I love you and can't wait to see you in Season 4!!

NYCgypsy, I was thinking the same thing when I read what prime events wrote "A beautiful friendship blossomed" Who are they kidding? That's not real friendship. What completely triggered red flags about Melissa and her motives for me, was when she wrote regarding Teresa,(paraphrasing) "Doing well, being successful is the best revenge you can have." Well, revenge works both ways. She's not taken seriously and we don't have to "keep watin on her, waitin on her, waitin on her to fall.." She fell.

I don't understand how Melissa can get any support. I really don't. While you may not be "Team Teresa," she really didn't deserve to have her own family come on the show to malign her all season. That's how she makes her money she's so desperately trying to pay back. That alone makes it so despicable and cruel. I don't know how Teresa will ever process that in her head, but I feel especially bad for Melissa's nieces. Oh well, can't change the past. All we can do is hope next season isn't so mean spirited and that the manipulation dissipates now that Melissa has her own notoriety. Not the notoriety she was hoping for, but notoriety all the same. Here's hoping it gets better.

Listen, I have no dog in the race, I'm not "Team Teresa" BUT my sense of decency was extremely damaged with Melissa Gorga this year. I know this one viewer pulls no weight but the women I know, ALL of them at least "say" they do not plan on watching again this season because of Melissa. If I'm hearing this so much from my circle of large viewers, we can't be the only ones. It just stands to reason. People are growing tired of what people will do for instant fame and the fact that Melissa engaged in this behavior with family really drove this inevitable stomach turning fact home. They are just as mad at her husband. I happen to think he was just a weak "dupe" but we'll see. Melissa needs to go and I think the end of season ratings will speak for themselves. signed "Team Nobody"

Hey Teresa, HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and Joe and your girls! Looking forward, you should title your next cookbook "Eggs BENEDICT," and dedicate it to you sweet little brother and wife. JUST kidding. Can't WAIT to see you on Celebrity Apprentice! Rise above all of the nonsense. Melissa has to keep the negativity fueling to stay relevant because, well, she isn't. You ARE the show and she knows that. We need you to have your own show! Can you imagine a show with just Melissa, Kathy and Caroline. It would be titled "Bitter Bettys" and their clawing, I mean climbing to fame. Imagine the scenes: Melissa posing and singing(ouch,)and rolling her eyes all the while Kathy multi-tasking (holding Melissa's mirror for her while figuring out how to open her baking business software on her new computer), and Caroline feverishly spinning in jealousy, so mush so that she actually embeds her heels into her kitchen floor. "Albie, get Momma out!" lol. There I go being petty and telling you to rise above it. Sorry, but those 3 women make me so infuriated. Not looking forward to them next season at ALL. They are soooooo tiring.

It breaks my heart that you are an aunt to Teresa's kids - that's who I feel sorry for first!! How dare you speak to their Mother and talk about her the way you do?? For a woman who "supposedly" loves Jesus, you're making a mockery of being a Catholic!! As a Catholic myself, I would never do the things you've done to a stranger, let alone a relative!! You're a disgrace and you definitely shouldn't be on display!! Go save your "wench" self and leave the show, the only talent you have is being a hyprocrite!! Take Kathy and Caroline with you, you all belong together!!

OMG viewer PrimeEvents - I will say your post made me laugh,

“Melissa has a loving husband whom does not sound like an ignorant highschool drop out, nor does he have a drinking problem. She has 3 WELL BEHAVED and beautiful children, beautiful sisters (minus Teresa), a wonderful relationship with Kathy as well as Caroline and Jacqueline, and a beautiful home”

Well, she does have a beautiful home. LOL. Obviously you meant to imply Teresa’s children are terrible. I adore them and those two of hers that seem rambunctious will be born leaders as that PriscillaW fabulous viewer pointed out on the best blog of the season below. Oh yea, when you wrote a beautiful friendship blossomed between Melissa and Caroline I about choked with laughing on my oj. LOL, yes that was indeed a beautiful blossoming friendship based on no ill-will, without agenda and pure friendship and commonality. OMG-LOL,LOL,LOL. “LeanneHplus’” we’re ALL with ya! I’m still laughing at primeEvents blog. sweet…..

To: Prime Evemts JNY

Hey, I think you were harsh on LeanneHplus4…this is a place to post opinions, not attack others who do so. The essence of your blog tells me a lot about you though, attacking Joe Guidice personally with just vicious, shock value statements makes anything you say after that without credit. Joe Guidice is filmed on this show because his wife signed up for it. He doesn’t do the confessional segments that are interwoven like Joe Gorga and that Walkile guy who both look absolutely ridiculous churning the gossip more like hens hungry for camera time like their wives! He is potryaed however the producers see fit and just takes it. He too could be on there, spewing his side but he doesn’t. He lets it all out there, and just goes on with life and protects his wife. I love their banter and relationship. Most couples would have disinegrtaed with all the gosip and malicious things going on, most of which came from their own family. Those Guidece’s have overcome Melissa and Kathy who attacked from within . They were completely willing to just crème them. They didn’t win. The Teresa haters have run thin with their “Teresa’s dumb, Teresa’s voice hurts”. She didn’t do anything to anyone so they now only have her husband to write about. I’m in an office of 17 women. ALL 17 absolutely love Juicy Joe. ALL 17 think Joe Gorga is an unloyal Italian (about 1/3 of the women here are italian for whatever weight that pulls:) I won’t write what they really call him, because unlike PrimeEvents, I don’t think name calling is constructive.

I think LeanneH WAS watching the show. Geez, Melissa's gang now is going after bloggers on a personal level. This show never used have hatred like this circling.This site is for opinions that these women signed up for on a REALITY show. It's fine with everyone if Teresa gets knocked on here but when someone speaks the truth about Melissa- guns blazing. Sorry, but you don't get to come on on a show, turn everyone's life upside down because you need attention to BREATH and then get upset because everyone sees through you. You can cut everyone's true feeling from facebook, or threaten to sue everyone from here to eternity, but you can't change the facts. You did destroy two parent's lives, because you didn't care how showing the world what you thought of your sis in law would come out. Melissa, they don't have that many years left, it was an unadulterated set up and this is what they have to live out their years in. You got what you wanted. (sort of, the pop star career isn't going to happen, I'll stop there with that comment.) It's simple to me as apparently it is to most viewers. Your sister in law, was on a reality show and famous. A place you always thought you should be. You weren't and by GOD you were gonna be, so off you went. However you had to do it, you were going to. Well you sure did. You sure did. This NJ show NOW makes me sad. You I understand, Kathy though? For the life of me, I can't understand how the gimmick of fame got to her, so much so as to spend an entire season bashing her cousin, she's too old for that, but I suppose seeing Teresa bask in all the attention for 3 years was too much. If my family member had that, I'd be ecstatic for them. Sure, I'd be a little jealous and kind of Lucille Ball myself into as many scenes as I could (lol)----- but I would NEVER do what you two did. Come through the back door with ill-will to my FAMILY. Never. And THAT'S the truth.

Ohhh, this is getting heated but I guess that's what these pages are for right? The last banter between LeanneHplus4 and Prime Events JNY riled me up. LeanneH, you were very astute and don't worry, the argument by JNY was crazy! The jealousy speaks for itself. I just couldn't stomach Melissa being called a role model, it actually hurt my barometer of decency and had to write in my support for your assessment. I'm glad you did instead of me but I was about to. I'll leave it at that.

Ok, 'Prime Events JNY,' now I'M writing in and I typically just read. I don't know how these things get printed but I'll try! LeanneHplus4 blogger,if you are reading this I absolutely agree. Because Melissa has money it does not negate jealousy. Primevents JNY couldn't have been more off the mark if she tried, and THEN some. You were spot in in everything LeanneHplus4. Don't let another blogger (probably Melissa's sister lol) deter you. I'm glad someone put into words what we all see. And I was never team anybody but I sure love Teresa after this season. Melissa a role model? LOL LOL LOL.Good gravy Noooooooooooo...Melissa is the poster child for envy and a cold one at that. So cold.

I am sorry, I often read the blog but I have never posted as I am now compelled to do. In response to LeanneHplus4 are kidding me right now!!!! Do you even watch the show?? The fact alone that you said those things leads me to believe that you do not. I ask you; exactly what does Melissa have to be jealous of? Is she in financial ruin? No! She has a loving husband whom does not sound like an ignorant highschool drop out, nor does he have a drinking problem. She has 3 WELL BEHAVED and beautiful children, beautiful sisters (minus Teresa), a wonderful relationship with Kathy as well as Caroline and Jacqueline, and a beautiful home. Perhaps we saw the friendship blossom between Caroline, Jacqueline and Melissa because they finally stopped listening to Teresa and her pitty parties. Joe Gorga puts his own wife and children first before his patheic sister as he should do! Melissa has much to "Thank you Jesus" for. I am proud of her and consider her a wonderful mother, and role model!!!!!