You didnt listen to anything they said to you! When everyone is say it you maybe just maybe EVERYONE can not be wrong- You really are watching a totally different show than everyone else- you really took danielle place
I can tell you the whole thing was brutal. We filmed twelve hours the day before, I only got two hours of sleep, and then we filmed the reunion. I didn't go with an agenda. I didn't go in to attack anybody. I was pretty shocked that everyone else did.
It's weird that we filmed the Season 3 reunion after filming Season 4, not after Season 3 -- that's never been done before. As you saw in the finale, after months of heartache on both sides, my family and I were in a great place. We're still a work in progress, but I had no idea Melissa and Kathy would come to the reunion for Season 3 with guns blazing. They had made little lists of how I hurt them, they were throwing jabs at me all over the place. First I was confused, because it didn't make sense. In real life, we've gotten over all that tit-for-tat stuff, so I didn't know why they were bringing it up again. Second, I didn't see how it made sense for the Season 3 reunion when we all just made up. Why don't Melissa and Kathy want to show our family as happy and reunited for even one week? It makes me so sad.
It was clear pretty quickly that everyone was out for my blood. I don't know why. I really can't keep up with it anymore. One day Melissa is at my house for dinner, the next day she's saying we don't speak. Kathy and I made up, then when Andy asks her if we're good, she looks at Caroline to see what she's supposed to say. And Caroline, wow, Caroline, I don't even know where to begin on that one except to say that I really did think her head was going to start spinning around...
You didnt listen to anything they said to you! When everyone is say it you maybe just maybe EVERYONE can not be wrong- You really are watching a totally different show than everyone else- you really took danielle place
I only have one brother..who's been married 6 times, and NEVER have I EVER said anything negative about who he chosen to bring into our family. Shame on you...I've watched you say so many bad things about your sister n law. I would tell you to take a GOOD long look in the mirror, but I know it wouldn't do any good. I'm soooooooo glad I don't have a family member like you!
tre you made plenty of mistakes and i think were either scared or to overwhelmed with stress to own up to them. i really dont think you had anything to do with the Posche drama and im sorry no one believed you. just move on and try to make your life better. Praying for you and your family.
The stay strong and I know u we're working on hard Getting you family I am sorry this happen to you I hope you Can get your family back and love each other I know u love your brother it was all Kim D
Teresa you haven't blogged yet,but you are well liked.
Stay strong and enjoy your kids,stay away from negativity and people that clearly envy you!
YOU MAKE THE SHOW **** the rest (drama) Family first and animals that feed on your destruction will fail quicker. Re-find your soul.
Seriously? The reunion was 12 hours after the Posche fiasco and you can't imagine why everyone was angry? It looked like everyone made it pretty clear what they thought of you and your behavior at the time- did you think they would just pretend it away because the reunion was for the previous season? Frankly I give them all great credit for showing up and playing along as well as they did. I think your 15 minutes are up- please go away and take your disgusting husband with you.
How can it hurt anything Teresa, nothing wrong with trying it, open your heart and mind. God is giving you the opportunity to work things out with your brother ~ Take it.
Teresa needs to go with her brother to talk with a therapist, to me if she doesn't then she is in denial of her true feeling's and her brother's true feeling's and she does not really what to work things out with him. Just saying!!!
Hey, teresa just saw the show and way to go girl stand up for your self dont let those other girls bring you down there just hatin on you! life is to short to be around drama so just enjoy life and have a good time with your family.... love ya girl.....
Just saw the show (May 13) . Keep it up Teresa. You're doing a great job. Soon you will have no friends and no family members still speaking to you. If I were your brother Joe, it would be over. You are so blind to the truth that I'm beginning to feel sorry for you.
You really need to stop and realize you are the reason for the separation from your brother. Every slight, imagined or otherwise, is enough to start WW3 with you. You can't let go and move on. You keep harping on everything and it gets old, wears people out and antagonizes everyone. I think you need professional help.
I think this whole group of NJ folks really overdo the "Family" thing. I wouldn't put up with half the crap these people do from each other, family or not. Ya can't pick your relatives and friends are chosen. I think they use the "Family' thing due to personal insecurities. Especially true with Caroline and Teresa.....omg.....so co-dependant on their families.
I cant stand to watch the person Teresa has become and shes the reason I don't watch that show anymore. She needs a reality check.
Teresa! I just read this blog and I say way to go girl! I love you, I think you are ABSOLUTELY fabulous and amazing. Keep it up! Because you are inspiring me to stay positive through tough times.
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Keep doing you all the way to the bank!!! Teresa keep your head up and realize that all the drama comes from you being the most successful housewife on the show!! God Bless you and your family! And get mad at your brother and his wife look at the bright side their jealousy issues helped make u a star!!!!
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Teresa, things with your brother are never going to be the way they were before he got married and you are going to have to accept that. Maybe someday you can all agree to disagree and keep the peace for the children involved.
Your husband on the other hand is a complete looser. I cannot even stomach watching him, he has no respect for you as a person or a mother and treats you and the girls like dirt. He is a slob who never appears to do anything but complain sleep or grunt like an animal. DUMP him and free yourself from that 250 Lb. noose around your neck. Once you do that, you may find life to be a whole lot more peaceful. Your bother may even come around; it cannot be easy for him to see you with such a contemptible person.
Of course you didnt watch it. You will never grow emotionally if you dont start to self-reflect. You refuse to be accountable for any of your bad behavior and continue to exhibit communication tactics most children know are dishonest. It is always someone doing it to you. You dont even know how to apologize. You are mad at others for making YOU feel bad when you are deceitful and hurtful. I do love your wig, though, and we wouldnt know it was fake if it wasnt so low it gives that low brow look.
Teresa i know it's hard when things happen in family's (you and Joe) financial etc. But you are on the success road and that is good don't let it go to your head! Family and good friends who were considered family are what life is about! Don't keep stepping on toes to get to the top. I didn't read your book but the comments on the show about what you wrote are really not good. I don't understand why you even put that stuff in the book! It's not funny to insult or make fun of others ( you know the people you love) remember karma, you have children they do not need to see or hear that stuff. Go forward and be grateful for what you have. And believe me no one is jealous. Peace and Love
Teresa keep doing your thing and please dont let negative comments bother you!! Its just jealousy of how you have made through it all .You are a very strong woman and you are better of, Caroline is just the worst!! P.S love you in apprentice .
you did insult all of your friends in the cookbook. the comments were not funny. each one was a "dig," meant to embarass and injure. i cannot believe anyone can see it any other way. you are lively in a crowd. i can see that you are fun. but you are venomous.
You used to be my favorite. You were sweet and funny. You seemed genuinely kind and caring. You have changed. You went from the nice girl to the mean girl. Find happiness and get back to whol you were! :)
Dear Theresa, Starting with Season 1 I rejoiced in your life for you: Joe and your beautiful girls, your talent, style, wit, and the smile revealing love of life. However, “editing” cannot hide what is below the surface: insecurity turning to hate, most salient on the Season 3 Reunion Show. Please, it can be okay. Most humans learn from such challenge. Consider seeking guidance for self-reflection, by a clinical or your faith-based professional. Only insecurities or self-desperation causes us to lash-out (e.g., citing Deena to Carolyn; compromising you’re the peace and joy of your brother (“who I put before my husband?”) versus accepting Melissa who has not been shown to have ulterior motives against your relationship with her husband (unless it’s been edited out)! Perhaps you act the villain for the popularity and the money. If so, the egregiously HATEFUL, HURTFUL statements are deserving of an Emmy. Yet you said “I am just being myself.” Really? Maybe that’s just editing. Still, you appear protective and supportive of a sweet and vulnerable Jacqueline, and your marriage appears committed amidst significant challenges that would break most couples. Really? Editing? Like virtuous Carolyn and Melissa, who sometimes snap when they get caught in the malicious part of your vibe, we of the ‘BRAVO-BUNCH CLUB’ (BBC) have increasingly struggled to maintain our practice of acceptance and non-judgment amidst the emotional strength of your negative vibe. You appear unhealthy mentally and spiritually to watch – and the BBC never felt that way about Danielle! So please look inside and try to remind yourself that, as John Lennon implied, we all need love. Those who love the wonderful parts of you need love from you. Until then, we may find it difficult to watch the show without using the technology to fast forward past your scenes. Sad but true, but we all learn in our own ways. We have confidence you can remain strong and beautiful without undermining those who threaten… Remember, no one can threaten a spirit with so much good, even when it’s temporarily buried. Sincerely, the BBC
I think you should have your own show with your girls. What happened with Carolyne? She seemed so close to you then turned. On the last reunion everyone was ganging up on Danielle and then it turned to you. Are they jealous because of your book and CA? That is all the good stuff, now you need to stop shopping. Keep up the good work.
I think it is a real shame the way everyone attacked you. Melissa and Kathy are acting like cold, calculated, jealous jerks, and I thought it was quite ironic that Melissa called you evil, what a "victim" she was at the reunion, and she is as close to evil as it comes. Those three women are ridiculous. I feel sorry for your brother, they really manipulate the you know what out of him. And we all know Jaqueline can't think for herself, so no one missed her drama. Keep your head up, I know it is sad they have the sheets pulled over your brother's eyes, but you're too good to have to put up with their nonsense. I wish you nothing but the best in the future.
Dear Theresa, Starting with Season 1 I rejoiced in your life for you: Joe and four beautiful girls, talent and beauty, wit and love of life. Yet, editing cannot hide the insecurities causing you to HATE in the Season 3 Reunion Show: Only lashing out in self-desperation could cause someone to hurt family to the core, like brining up Deena to Carolyn, and putting the child you remain before your brother’s happiness with your jealousy of Melissa. May Season 4 find you digging deep, relaxing, and developing VIRTUE and good character – all that matters life. For give those who have hurt you and forgive those whose buttons you have pushed so violently that they responded with shock and impulse, overcoming the virtue and character they do possess. Shame on bringing up Deena to Caroline and allowing your fear and jealousy to hurt your brother’s happiness (“who I put before my husband”) by hating Melissa! While it’s true the villain spices up reality TV – and you may have adopted this role for the popularity and the money – you cannot be acting all these flaws affecting your character. You are mistaken that “I am just being myself,” because we are all good inside. But, you have seriously compromised your Heavenly soul. May you please look inward, ask for guidance, for yourself, for the mental health of your daughters, and to begin to add more positive energy in this world, which affects me. It may be too late for viewers to see in Season 4, but as soon as you can. Like Carolyn, who has responded out of her good character towards up you, I now have trouble with the virtue of ‘non-judgment’ towards you. Watching you on the show can be used as a good spiritual exercise (i.e., reminding myself not to judge). But unless you try, at least, to open your heart to all, and to behave at least as well as Danielle, the sadness, and admittedly, the bits of judgment and anger tha1t creep in before I remove it, will prevent me and the significant group of family, friends, and neighbors who share these sentiments. Namaste
Teresa, you claim to always "own" it, but your response to situations or direct questions are amazing. You have no loyalty to Melissa, you've thrown her under the bus without thinking twice. You should learn from Caroline. She is a classy lady and shows her loyalty. Everything is a joke to you..I believe you wrote those things in your cookbook to majestic it more interesting. You're a disappointment.
I just watched the reunion show again what a beat up job on Teresa. The rest of the housewives have no secrets and never do anything wrong. Caroline get off your high horse you never lie, do anything wrong wow! Andy Cohen should be ashamed of himself for being so unprofessional. Why don't u just become a house wife, and get somone in your job that know how to run an interview and not allow them to be such bullies.
Teresa, I don't know if you read these but I LOVE YOU!! I just want to hug you because I feel so terrible for how your family treats you. I know you know you're not perfect but the way they are to you breaks my heart. If I were you I would go CRAZY on them. I don't know how you do it and I respect you so much for how you handle it. To me, Melissa seems like she is out to make you look like you are a terrible person and tries to act like she's an angel, When, in my humble opinion, she is an incredibly unattractive, materialistic, stuck up, shallow, thoughtless, selfish person. It's crazy to me. And how ALL of them reacted about the cookbook is crazy. If I were them I would no where near be offended. You included them in a cute witty way and I would be flattered and laugh. I just want to be like you guys need to calm down. I'm not in there head but it does seem like they are jealous and why wouldn't they be? The only difference is they don't have to treat you like that. You are a hero to me for how you handled all of that. God Bless you!!!!
OK - I am watching RHONJ reruns - I hope this season finds you - Theresa - in a better place -- and your daughters on better behavior because they along wiht you have become ill behaved children.
Teresa leave the housewives!!! You can move on from the show and do better things. All this show and the people in it sadly its your family is making you look like a terrible person. Kathy and Melissa's intention to go on the show was to damage you. Be a strong person and remove yourself from nonsense. Maybe you can do your own reality show with your daughters. Good luck with everything and one day your brother will realize he married the devil.
Hey Teresa, you know what Teresa, inspite of all the hardships going on in the family and friendships I love you all and do not want anything to come between yal. I see how you still press pass all of it to live your dreams, I'm impressed by that and inspired I don't know who's right or wrong and don't care to know. All i know is i love you on Celebrity apprentice and the last project for the puppets leads me to say that you should look into lending your voice which is so distinctive to doing voice charcters you know like for childrens stories or even the big screen i think you would be great in this area. Well I pray that all will go well for family and friends situation and you continue to blossom. I even hope you do a tv cooking show regarding the recipes from your book. Continue to live big Teresa your good and sweet regardless.
Hi Teresa! First of all you are so beautiful, so unique, so funny...I just can't get enough of you in RHONJ! You are seriously amazing.Please, please, please try to make amends with Caroline&Jaqueline.Melissa is a different story, do as your heart tells you about her...I wouldn't like having them as my sister in law either.Think about Caroline&Jaqueline though, I really like them, show them how beautiful you are inside and out. Big hug from Spain Teresa PS: can't wait for season 4
I just recently started watching and catching up with the housewives of new jersey and I have fallen in love with you! I watched all of last season and looking forward to the new season but I have to say I feel Sorry for the comments that the others have made. I think you a beautiful person and mother and wife. Keep being you and doing what your doing. I don't know how at the time you dealt with some of the comments ur sister in law made toward you at times, I fel some Of them werent funny and like she kept trying to cut you down at times. Be you, and enjoy the path u are in your life. I for sure became a big fan
Teresa, honestly whatever drama is between you and everyone you all need to let it go. Ya you may not agree with each other or like each other but at the end of the day your all family and you should always have each others backs and act like family no matter what. Let by gones be by gones and move on.
Teresa, I couldn't believe how everyone on the reunion show was ganging up on you! Those women act like they are so perfect and don't say anything bad about people? Yeah right?? They sound like a bunch of two faced, jealous women. You make that show. If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't even watch the show. Your a strong beautiful woman so you go girl. Melissa doesn't even come close to your beauty. I lost a lot of respect for Caroline. Who does she think she is?? Your husband is a great guy. The two of you have been threw some very tough times and you are always there for each other. The family pictures are so beautiful. I'm looking forward to watching you on season 4 so go get them girl and hang in there. At least you are real!! Be happy :) xo
I'm watching the episode when you guys ran for charity...and caroline and her kids and their friend were making fun of you, your cookbook and your husband. I wouldn't even try to make peace with them...I'd just never speak to them again. You and your husband are happy thats all that matters. Keep doing you...and make that $$$$. Those woman and I see Andy is out for you...he showed that at the reunion.
I just read all the comments. The thing I see from all that has gone on is that you (Theresa) need good people behind you to help you move on to your goals. All the talk, talk, talk is so much nonsense and I am so sure that you and your husband are on board with that and do not let TV invluence your choices. How to pick out what is important for you and your family spending time on things works - as long as it has benefits to your core family. Core family - you, your husband and your children. Here is the other thing that I must say: Other people have things to say that may have some validity. As we say in my family, kind of doesn"t matter as long as you move forward from it. It is not necessary to answer every this that and the other thing because everyone should be moving on. The validation of the hurts and pains in a close knit family with close knit friends shoud have the same treatment. Owww, that hurt, now let it go and move on. I will stop now because my French teacher from high school warned all of us about the dangers of what he called "driveling on." That means going on with the tags of a subject but continuing with the dregs of the subject. This may be something to consider by the people in this Bravo group. Props to my French teacher - Nick A. He knew what was what.
Teresa, you are right on calling out melissa. Unfortunately she feels her actions are justified and its so sad when everyone else can see that she is jealous. Maybe you just need to part from the show and do your own thing like Bethany!!
Teresa did what Teresa had to do which was defend herself and her family. Everyone attacked her, even Andy, who by the way should be ashamed of himself for acting the way he did. He attacked Teresa based on words her husband used, Wow what a man! Horrible of Andy to attack a woman that way. I guess Andy was never taught to respect women! Teresa you handled yourself great considering what you went through. Teresa should get her own show on Bravo and get rid of the riff-raff!
Please post!!!!! You are great on Celebrity Apprentice. Great respresentation of Bravoo! i am watching last season's preview episodes that will lead to the big Season 4 which is Sunday. I am tired of the bullying it is apparent we saw the real you on Celebrity Apprentice. i thank you for taking the heat during the reunion and respecting Andy by answering his questions. I hope Bravo stops caroline from bullying the reunions Andy Cohen is a great and fair man but Caroline disrespects him. They need to replace the Manzos with some new blood. They should bring Dina back after they leave she and Andy gets along very well. I watched them on WWHL. Some realities shows have brought back previous cast members who they felt were unjustly treated. Continue to have fun and represent Bravo on the Celebrity Apprentice!!! W watched you have fun, endure financial and personal trajedy, and become an upcoming successful woman on camera. Bravo exposes those things to help us in some form of our lives. Bravo you are awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reading these posts are making me SICK! R we watching the same show? How anyone can like and support Teresa's behavior is mind boggling! I really feel a lil dumb after hearing Teresa speak. How can u think it's cute to sound dumb "un-ducated" (uneducated) as Teresa would say. Your friends and family don't ALL turn on u 4 no reason. I can't believe it took so long for them to see your true colors. What is this country coming to? To watch someone who's becoming famous/wealthy for being a spoiled bratty dipstick who is so clueless about her own actions is awful! Face it Melissa isn't going away, she'll always be younger, hotter and #1 in your bothers eyes so get over it!
Teresa, I hope you actually read these and take them at heart. No one is a loser or a winner if family isn't together.. Your parents live with you and you can't honestly say that they beliveve that you are all winners if your family is not together. No matter what has been said you yourself knows that you care for your brother and his family just as much as he cares for yours. You both need to come togehter and there for one another and your parents. They are not getting any younger and you and Joe need to both step up and take good care of them. What happens on this show does affect them and you both need to be the better for it and say no more.. Take good care of your parents you don't realize what you have until it's gone. Be there for eachother from now on both of you and love one another always...
Teresa, I have been watching you on Celeb. Apprentice and love you in it, I am writing because I do not know how to write to that show I was so sad on how they all ganged up on Lou for the Entertainment Video and felt that Donald T. Had set him up and it just brought out how some people who do not want to work with you can make it look like he did nothing. If Donald T. wanted a straight answer about the video which your team did a great job in he should have not used his answer against Lou. Lou did not feel a part of a team because they left him out and knowing about his hearing issues they did not answer him and take the extra time to let him give his opinion. I really do not like the show and I am only watching it for you and I am a great fan of yours and I can't wait tell the new season 4 starts I do hope you win but I did hate and that is a strong word the way he was treated and the guy who left to go to an other job for the night he did take the time to work with Lou but leaving him to the ladies was just mean. Bullying is the word and discrimination is the other word. It did make me cry sorry to say. I won't be watching it if they vote you off. They need to bring him back not fair. Now for Season 4 I saw the quick peeks and can't wait and hope you have a lot of support they seem to be after you again. I hope I do not see how religious they are because forgiveness is not something they know about. Love watching you - Char from Utah and sorry to use this comment section to get out some upsetting news about the other show.
Teresa, love seeing you on the Celebrity Apprentice. Not looking forward to the ganging up on and bullying I see coming your way this season on New Jersey. Looks like everyone picks up where the digusting Reunion left off. I believe the woman we have been seeing on Celebrity Apprentice is who you really are and I'm proud of you! Finger crossed that you win :)
Hey Teresa, Been watching you on apprentice, and I am so proud that you are still on the show. I saw the reunions from last year, and think Caroline had become a bully with her little entourage, who are supposed to be your family. I find something your brother said last year about you has come back to him. He said your family was the Manzo's, well now he & Melissa & Kathy have their noses stuck up the Manzo's asses. As long as you have Joe & your girls, & your Mom & Dad, everyone else on that show can kiss your butt. You are a star, I have & will buy all your cookbooks. I will only watch NJ Housewives if you are on there, I have no desire to see the others, omly you. You are beautiful & smart, that is why all the haters on the show are jealous. Keep going and know you are loved in AL.
Teresa,we love,love,love you and your beautifur family,be strong,keep the good work on the Appretice and the good $$$$$,you deserved,Melissa is nothing,do not waste your time and energy on the loosers and fake people,you are strong and the best,next for you Dancing with the stars
We all luv you Tre. You are a good mom, daughter and wife...your girls are gorgeous. Look who is winning now
Regarding "AEH": Go blog somewhere where you will be happy...Teresa has done no wrong to you or anyone else!!! Go see Melissa's Blog we r not buying what you're selling over here on the "Good" side! :)