Your sister in-law wants to be you,period she is very jealous of you.hopefully your brother will come to his senses,but if not that's there bad luck,always remember what's done in the dark,will come to light.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!
Another crazy busy couple of weeks! Did you see me, Caroline, and Melissa on Regis & Kelly? I can’t say enough how much I love, love, love Kelly. She is so sweet, she’s a Jersey girl, and she’s gorgeous! I have so much fun with her and her adorable husband. They invited me back in November when Regis leaves. How much fun would it be to guest host with Kelly?
Yes, I heard from you all that I looked a little tense on the show, but that’s because I was. Having issues with my family blow up even bigger because we’re on TV together is kind of a nightmare. It’s not fun for me. I can’t pretend it is. I’m not gonna sit there and be all smiley and happy that I’m on a talk show when I feel like crying. I’d rather never have been on TV and have a happy family than go through any of this. And it’s hard to sit next to people who obviously don’t feel the same way and are loving every minute of it...
Caroline pointed out that with all her brothers and sisters, someone is always fighting, and I’m sure that’s true. She’s maybe more used to not speaking to her sisters or brothers for awhile, but I’m not. It’s just me and Joey, and I can’t stand not having him in my life. Hopefully things will get better, but as long as Melissa gets attention for saying negative things about me, I think she’ll take it. Once it all dies down, I’m looking forward to having our family whole again (I’m guessing that won’t happen until she fulfills her Britney Spears dreams though. Please, make it quick and painless. Thank you, Jeezus!)
Your sister in-law wants to be you,period she is very jealous of you.hopefully your brother will come to his senses,but if not that's there bad luck,always remember what's done in the dark,will come to light.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!
I think you are fantastic as are Caroline & Jacqueline. You have 4 gorgeous kids & a very loving husband so don't let these petty bitches get you down. Your brother can't see what is really happening & believes everything Melissa is saying to him........its clear she is dripping poison in his ear all the time. I am hopeful he will start to see what his wife is really like & will one day give you & your parents an apology. Your cousin is one nasty piece of work & is actually causing more problems but it all comes down to one thing JEALOUS!!!! Keep doing the right thing because all your fans love you just the way you are xxxx
T you are keeping it real!!!! You are a wonderful kind hearted loving mother, wife, sister and daughter. You are too funny with the Britany Spears and Melissa dream. I do hope things work out for her and you. Keep the faith!
Monica--not much for brains ya think? Just another Five Minutes of Fame Whore....Kim G too bad, very beautiful old broad but, please enough!
Teresa, Joe love you guys...stick to your guns...all the vipers in the grass will eventually pass...Tony
Kim G needs to be taken off the show. She is such a two face instigator and does not deserve recognition or compensation.
You are not even trying to make things work. You showing up to events doesn't count if you just stand there with that bad attitude and bad look on your face or even worse...open your mouth and say something curt or dismissive to someone. You should not attend events where there are people that are going to be too much for you to act pleasant and respectful. Go when you can make an honest effort at mending things with people. You are not currently making that honest effort. It shows girl.....it really shows....and you know it shows....unless you truely can't get your head unstuck. That part is unclear.
Teresa, your kind heart has captured us all. You have a hot temper but very valid opinions. When watching, sometimes I ask myself why everyone always gangs up on you. Sometimes when seemingly perfect people go through real life hardships, people jump on the band wagon to judge.
Kim G IS far too old to behave in such a nasty manner. She has no scruples and she seemingly enjoys hurting people.
Ciao Tere, People who live in the past are usually the most depressed. People who live in the now, are the happiest. People who plan for and live for the future, are the smartest. Live for the future Tere. Leave the past behind you. Your kids and your husband and your parents are your family. Your brother is married and has cleaved to his wife. Which is what he's suppose to do. More often than not. sister in laws do not get along. The ones who do are few and far in between.Your Mom is right. Imitation is the biggest form of flattery. In the big scheme of life one day this will all seem so trivial to you. I pray for you and Joe. Your young enough to get over this hump. What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger. You should be proud, Youre an author. Youre accomplished. I have a feeling it's just starting for you. You have the midas touch.
Dear Teresa as some other viewers may say the brother you once knew is gone! I have two brothers that I love very dearly but since they have married they are vaugely unfamilier. I wish they can remember the times that I had with them. Like putting up the Christmas tree and decorating it. Crying with my brother, when my mom was hurt by my dad emotionally. Making his breakfast for him before he went to school. I was only two years older than him! Maybe some of these similar things and times are probably forgotten by your brother. Hopefully just hopefully these things will come back to your brothers mind. Maybe he'll ask for your forgiveness! Teresa I'm glad you let us in to your life I know it must be hard. Here's wishing for better times and safe trips for everyone in your life!
i do not like this season. The new people are boring and/or vindictive. Theresa you are just looking for trouble and i am sure you will find it.
I wish you the best. I hope that you can really let go of the past so that you can move forward with the future. From what I see on the show I believe you have good intentions and a clear heart but you are also extremely petty and competitive and that distracts from your wonderful qualities. It's hard to fake things so it is best to really clear your heart and let go. May be pray about it every morning and ask God to help you remove any emotions or feelings of hurt because otherwise you and Melissa will keep going in circles. All the best.
Tre - You really need to grow up - You get caught in your own web of lies - You walk around like you are all that and a bag of chips - All your so called fans - that think that you are not at fault - they must be walking around with blinders and ear plugs - GET OVER YOURSELF! You are such a argumentative person - very combative - Life is to short - Live, Laugh and Love - forget the small stuff - we have men and woman dieing over in Iraq and fighting for our freedom and you worry about your sister-in-law stealing your hair dresser - GROW UP!
Teresa, I feel for you and your family. Be strong as you are and you will come through this hole trying time. You are strong and you will make it. Gods Speed
Love you girl. Keep your relationship with your brother. Joe should try to be civil with your brother. I think you should be civil with Melissa, as it is your brother's wife. The ladies give you great advice but you don't here them. Listen to them, they are looking at situation from the other side.
I adore you girl! You are my favorite and all I can say is keep that pretty head up.....God throws us curve balls only cause he knows it makes us stronger! I really dont like your sis in law, but no one can pick our family members, be lucky we CAN however pick our friends, the ones we care to spend time with. God Bless my dear~
Teresa...you are just as bad as Melissa!!!!! You two should be ashamed of yourself. The constant digs are exhausting and you start most of it. Try being nice once in a while and forgiving others which is what you ask of so many others. PLAY NICE!!!!!
I think it is clear that the only reason Kim G is on the show is because she finds ways to involve herself in any drama. I think that the produces should not let her on the screen, Kim G is a joke and annoys everyone. Teresa, i think you should continue living the way you have, don't worry about anyone who tries to hurt you. You have a great family and a nice protective husband. Girl Power!!
Stop trying to control everyone. It's Melissa and Joe's party. You were lucky to be invited. By the way, your husband is as rude as you are. You two are so miserable. Wish you'd stay off camera.
It must have been very difficult to see your hubby call you a nut several times. Teresa I was hopeful that you would see yourself on TV and really see yourself. You do appear to be jealous of your sister-in-law. She is, beautiful, has a amazing relationship with her siblings, financially stable, and a supportive husband who would not disrespect her by calling her nuts and discussing her lack of bedroom talents in the presence of friends. And while I do agree with others that you appear out of control on many occasions I also have a tremendous amount of empathy for you.
Tre, You are beautiful, totally real and absolutely hysterical. Your brother is such a cutie - he seems worth it to put up with Melissa 'thankyoujeezus' and her fake crap. He married her because she absolutely is some version of you - it is so obvious. But he is head over heels for her and you have to be happy for that. I have a sister in law that stole my baby brother too, it stinks but its not as bad as not being together so just keep doing what you're doing. It must be very hard to navigate between your husband and Melissa's family - aye yay yay??? He is totally right about what he was saying with 'who was there for you'... Melissa wants to put out there that there is so much behind the scenes - screw them. Editing or no editing, what happened at that christening and the way she carries on about herself, everyone can see who the pot stirrer is. Melissa is jealous because regardless of how much money she spends on her looks, her house, her parties - she will never have your priceless personality! Keep smiling and come to Waterbury, Connecticut!!!
Teresa I LOVE YOU!!!! Time is short, and we'll never know what tomorrow will bring. So LOVE your family including your "sis n law"...I can only imagaine what drama you are going through. Alot of the problems lay with too many people talking & that causes more drama!! So let it go, my grandma always told me "the person you hate don't know & everyone else doesn't care so stop wasting your time" also she said "when you assume it makes an (ass outta u not me) hint the spelling "ass-u-me" I didn't understand that when I was younger but now that i'm older man does that make sence. So please always be you, and LOVE LOVE LOVE your family. Sometimes our family memebers do things that make us wana smack em, but choose your fight :-)
Hang in there chica, your a strong woman!!!!
Teresa, you are by far my favorite housewife and your hubby is by far my favorite too! I really love you guys and your children! Please ignore Melissa's attempts at putting you down and please work on your temper! When Kathy attempted to be nice to you, you lashed out in a bad way which only makes you seem intolerable, please work on your temper and your hubby must do the same too, most especially because you folks have a lot of fans out there supporting you guys in all endeavors! I didn't use to like Melissa & her husband but I do now, I think they are fun and even though Melissa tries to be catty in some circumstances, you are better than that, rise above it! Joe Giudice is a good person too, but needs to defend you a bit more, I was happy to see that both Melissa and Joe threw that lawyer out of the party. Kim G is a trouble maker who should NOT BE INVITED TO ANY EVENTS REGARDING the housewives, I loath her! What an id-iot, after going through cancer she still acts like that! What a phony! Teresa, love ya! Best regards
Teresa, omg stop it already, enough is enough. You are always instigating. I feel bad for you...almost...because you are such a nasty person. Actually, I feel bad for your family & friends. Isn't it a big red flag when even the other housewives & your friends are starting to question your actions.
Teresa I give you so much credit for keeping it together at Melissa's party when Kim G thought it would be a good idea to bring that lawyer to the party. I truly admired the way your brother stood his calm ground and made sure she left. Melissa also stood tall for you. Melissa proved to care about you and your brother was like your own knight in shinning armor. Please always love your brother and tolerate Melissa the same way she needs to tolerate you. Everyone is different and all have their own ways and it could be trying at times. I love you and dont want there to be problems between you and your only brother. Family is soooo important. Be very careful what you say to Kim G. Dont trust her. She is clearly a two face who likes to make trouble. Try to keep your distance from her. She is not anyone important and she knows that so she trys to step into the limelight by doing these things.
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU TERESA KEEP YOUR HEAD UP THIS TO SHALL PASS I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Teresa, You are beautiful and smart. I enjoy you on the show. I would stop letting your sis-in-law rent space in your head, just love your brother unconditionally and be with him when you can, try keeping your conversations to everything but his wife, if he wants to vent about her, let him, u just listen and agree. Most people when they vent about someone they love only want someone to listen and agree with them, but not really give advice or talk down about that person, just agree and listen, life will be better for you both. best to you
If you could concentrate to mend the relationship between Melissa and yourself...instead of worrying about who's friends are who's...it would do The Gorga/Giudice family good.
Let's remember - Family comes first!
Teresa, you have a beautiful home, beautiful daughters, a fabulous husband, loving parents, loyal and interesting friends, and a successful career as an author. That's what life is about. If it's more important to your brother and Melissa to "have more than you"... let them drown in their own shallowness. I realize you want things to be the way they were, but the more distance you keep from them, the more peace and happiness you will have in your life. It's obvious your brother is no longer the person he once was, and has bought into Melissa's ME, ME, ME, MORE, MORE, MORE and it's everyone else's fault if it's not that way mentality. That's not you. The brother you once knew is gone, and trying to get back to where you once were will be an uphill climb for you because neither of them are willing to meet you half-way... no matter how much they brag that family is the most important thing to them. They are an anchor around your neck.
Teresa you need a new PR person, or someone to teach you how to play the game. You are very abrasive and your timing on communication is horrible. Wish I could help you because I think your point of view is valid but your delivery is terrible. Refine yourself and maybe someday one of your sentences will make sense.
Theresa, Love you and your family. Hopefully your brother will see what the rest of us see with regards to Melissa's actions towards you...saying one thing and doing another. Well hopefully she sees her own actions and takes responsibility. We all love you here Theresa! Keep cooking! You rock!
Teresa, I just checked out Melissa's website which compares your home to hers. I'm sure it ticked you off that she is once again trying to prove to the world that she is better than you. Your home is beautiful, warm, inviting and looks like a comfortable place to enjoy your family and friends. Her's, with all it's unnecessary lavishness, is cold, uninviting and clearly looks like the Smithsonian or a Vegas hotel. She may think her lavishness makes her better than you, but it doesn't. You're all about family and your home reflects the warmth of that. Hers doesn't. If it gives you any peace of mind, just realize that all she accomplished with that website was letting every cat burglar out there know which house to rob.... hers. My father (rest his soul) used to always tell me... when you deliberately try to hurt someone else, you end up hurting yourself twice as bad. I guess this stunt of Melissa's would fall into that category.
What is wrong with this Kim G woman. Why is she even getting air time. What a two minute waste of time! Who cares what she thinks. She wants to be Caroline's friend so bad she can't stand herself and uses Jacqueline to accomplish getting her message to the family BUT- Hallelujah Jac shut this woman down. FINALLY someone told where to get off now if only the producers will stop giving her airtime!!
Tre dear, please do me a big favour, don't comment on Melissa again she is trying to bring into her negative Self which is not good, just b ur self n I am sure someday u will have d last laugh. Most important is to stay focus n close to God, say prayer to St. Teresa Of d child Jesus To c u through This hard time n mother Mary will intercede for u. Love always Namama
I am an AVID housewives fan. Although I really only watch Jersey and OC religiously. It's really the only t.v. I watch. I say this only because I want you to know that I LOVE you so much that I had to throw in my 2 cents. Even if some people try to act angry that you think this is your show... it is because it is! You literally make this show FABULOUS! I think even Andy knows that if you left it would flush down the toilet so fast. Everyone has to pick someone they don't like on these shows... and I have NEVER (out of my many years of watching) disliked anyone. However, I have to applaud your observations of Melissa. She is so self-centered, materialistic, and I would be mortified if my brother married someone like that. Her true character is shown in the first 5 minutes of her introduction in the things she talks about, might I point out, WAY before you were shown making any comments about her. Enough of that, because she doesn't deserve anyone's time or energy, let alone yours. You are very clearly and honestly a good person, and everyone makes mistakes. But, like everyone points out on reunions, the cameras don't lie, and you see what you get. All I see when I look at you is a wonderful soul! Just keep being who you are, because whether there is Karma or God, or both, you clearly have a good heart that shines even through all of this and you will receive the positive energy you portray. You are an inspiration to me and all the girlfriends that I watch this show with!!! LOVE
Omg...Really give Teresa a brake...She spent all day in court...Poor Teresa...She was the one living the high life on a complete lie and still lives in her fancy house and drives her fancy car and her scaling back has yet to be seen. They got them selves into this situation all on there own. She needs to realize that she has beautiful children and a wonder family and friends, that's more important than any amount of money! She is exactly whats wrong with the economy today. Spend it like you have it when you don't and than file bankruptcy. Teresa and her husband are cowards for taking the easy way out and as far as her getting into a fight with her attorneys wife,imagine that.Teresa has a problem with everybody because she has a bad attitude. Dont feel sorry for stupid people making stupid decisions. You claim to be a good mother well what are you teaching your kids by spending money you dont have a than taking the easy way out,your pathic and you and your husband make me sick!
Good Luck Your Gonna Need It!!!!!!!!
Theresa, why are you all so violent?
The show is a hoot and we started watching while my sister was recovering; but we both are puzzled by all of the screaming, fighting, and it upsets me that you all fight with the children there.
What's the story?
I really liked Teresa in all previous seasons I am so disappointed this season. I think you need to take a real hard look at yourself. I'm a Taurus and I can be stubborn myself, but you have gotten ridiculous. It's like you live in your own world and you're the only one that is right. I'm not saying that you are always wrong, but it seems as if you are blaming everyone else in the issues that you have with your brother and sister in-law. I know there is editing, but I am sure that there isn't enough editing in the world to blur the lines of the tension between you guys. You don't even seem to be trying. Keep it up you may really end up all alone in real life. The fans are nice, but family is what really matters you really should consider working on that.
Teresa, you're great! I would hate to have an in-law like Melissa. I mean who talks soooooo badly about family on t.v. (like Melissa does) she's so ick for that!
Melissa makes Danielle look like a saint. Keep your head held high sista, everyone can see that Melissa is so jealous of you and will stop at nothing to try and hurt you. Love you Tre!
I love you! I think you are a beautiful person. I can tell how much you love your family and am sorry you have to deal with all the negativity and drama. As far as Melissa I would love to see you girls close but it is very apparent that she wants all the attention on her at all times, not to mention I think her sisters get in her ear too much and just try and give her reasons to be rude to you. Melissa reminds me of the gold digger type for some reason, she is very beautiful but I just think she hasn't lived and learned enough yet. Everyone has issues! No big deal! What your family has went through will pass and God won't give you more then you can handle. As far as Kim G. wow! That lady really has a very cold heart, I'm guessing she's not much of a Christian woman. Never seen someone her age want to stir up so much trouble, their are more important things in life! I support you and will pray for you and your family! FYI I think you and Joe are adorable.
Thank you for keeping it real. A lot are having the same type of problems in this economy. Just makes us love you and your family more for showing reality is not always roses. This too shall pass, you will get through it and come out stronger and a better person! Life will be rich for you, rich is not always dollars, it is quality and substance...true love will make it through... Ciao Bella!
Theresa....... I just love love love love you!!!!!! From day one. You crack me up!!!!!!!!!!!! I know you dont have time to read these, nor want unsolited advice. Girl, YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE GOING TO BE JUST FINE. Lord knows I didnt talk to my sister for awhile, and ITS HARD........... It is, and it sucks,,,,,,,,,, it does. Just wanted to say I love you on the show, and Caroline, Jacquelene, Lauren, etc. I MUST SAY I AM ADDICTED TO NEW JERSEY, AND NEW YORK....... THE first being my fav. U KNOW. I wish you the very best. Hope you and yours are having a great summer, under the circumstances. ct
I agree with the gal up top! You should have your own spin-off show. I adore how you deal with all the B.S. and I think you make the whole family drama situation look easyier to deal with than it is, I'm sure;-/ Your sister inlaw is clearly inferior to you, (ruff ruff) and constanly competing. she is a freak show silent 'FART' and she doesn't appear to be very interested in your brother. Every time he touches her she cringes, he's constantly chasing her and its so sad! She fills him with her pain and anger and then plays the victim & martre so she can say "see, see I told you Tesersa did this or that".. She is playing everyone else too! I noticed the girls are all migrating toward her and she is slowly trying to dis-credit you! I think it's sad but now you know who your real friends are when they see you have money issues and the bunch of phonie's dont want to stick around and be supportive. How Sad! Love you doll & keep up the good work!!