Caroline I'm tired of you getting into everyones business. You have  your own family to focus on.  What do you care if J. and T. become friends again?

Team Caroline all the way I have much respect because you have morales and values and you stick to them as do I I just say karma will come and I hope all the fake chicks are ready. I firmly believe family always comes first and I have watched you every season and you have never wavered from your class and who you are as a women I just wish the other girls that are petty would take a couple lessons from you on being loyal and a lady

Understand one thing - we are not watching the show to see you. You just all happen to be one the same show as the stars - The Giudices. I really wish you weren't as you've made my favorite show unwatchable :(

Team Caroline forever and always. I love how classy you are and I can definitely read through the lines with T. Always stay true to you!

Hello Caroline,

Although it is definitely sad to see friendships end,one must follow what there hearts says, as a viewer I think and saw that Teresa burns her bridges in the name of fame. Hang in there Caroline, out with old and in with the new.

Caroline,

You used to be the sensible, strong one of the group but you have taken a dramatic and unflattering change. A true friend can see one's weaknesses and know when to forgive and move forward. Your conversation with Theresa was painful for me to watch. You are cold and extremely judgemental. Theresa is trying her best to reach out to you and apologize in her own way but your self centeredness and demeanor don't offer her a chance!

Caroline, I love how strong you are for your family, I don't understand why people make you seem like a bad person when you are only protecting them. My mom would do the same for all of us kids. Your family reminds me of mine except the southern version. I wish you the best in your health and I am stoked for this season! Love 'ya'll! -A

Caroline, with regard to your menopause, you're going to "go with the flow?" Seriously? Maybe you want to rethink your word choice?

hr saying she sorry was all about her and how she was feeling it was so crappy hr heart beating fast its not healthy 4 her she had a bad year everything was about hr\er

Dear Caroline - Love it when you and yours are on-air. Interesting and great role-models. Thanks. PS Do the recipes in the cook book work? No doubt T is a great cook but writing a book, well, good for her. Now if she should share that Italian cultural sense of pizannes (sp). Best, Marie (50% Italian and the BBCs/BRAVO-BUNCH CLUB).

Caroline, I saw you on "Watch What Happens Live" tonight and I must say you look absolutely MAGNIFICANT(not saying you didn't before)!! I love the new hair style. Your skin looked glowing and you looked extremely happy.

Just wanted to share a little bit of positivity with you before the season starts unraveling and the negativity comes rolling through. lol.

Thanks for letting me share! Here's to the suspense of a whole new season!!!

Caroline I can respect your decision for not wanting to be friends with Teresa. 1. What I don't respect is you aligning yourself with the Gorga and the Wakilies. 2. What I don't respect is you adding your 2 cents in Teresa's family fued. 3. What I don't respect is your kids complaining about Teresa comments in the Cookbook, but they don't take any responsiblity for slamming her 1st cookbook 4. What I don't respect is you made a nasty comment about T's bankruptcy in the reunion when your own brother filed for bankruptcy. 5. What I don't respect is when a friend tells you something in confidence you aired it out because you are no longer friends

Hello Caroline, I am great fan of the housewives, in particular, the new jersey housewives! There were a few comments I had regarding last season and none of it had to do with Teresa. You call it pathetic that Gia would wright a song for her mom and uncle, however you disapproved of what Teresa said about your son. I think the reason why you didn't feel comfortable about the answer Teresa gave you is because you might* have also been a little paranoid. Because of your relationship with you sister and other things that probably increased your paranoia. I am interested why you are so adamant for viewers to find out why you have so much distaste for Teresa. Do want the viewers acceptance? You say that Teresa has been changed by the media, but here is my two cents I think you all had been shaped the by media one way or the other. Instead of pointing your finger at someone know that there is three other fingers pointing back at you. I also predict that in the future, you and Teresa will be civil with one another, because if Dina is the godmother of Audrianna then that will make you the godaunt? if family means everything to you then you should think of that and please stop making excuses that will cater to yourself. Jacqueline on the other hand, I predict that Teresa and her will become more then great friends. This is because they haven't really fought, as Teresa stated, and Jacqueline seems to be more forgiving then you.

You are my absolute favorite!

While I was deployed I watched the New Jersey House Wives. It would take about a week to down load a new episode but it was a piece of home and an entertaining escape. After the reunion show and this 1st episode plus the preview of what's to come, I am sickened by the girls behavior towards one housewife. I had a lot of respect for Caroline, but the ridiculous fights over rumors and a comment in a book by teressa is laughable to me. I thought you were the mature woman? Now I see you as a clown wanna-be mob wife attitude, it is really quite dumb. Anyway considering what others are going through and myself having to be away from my very close Italian family for 12 months at a time makes the "huge" issues of the NJ crew look pathetic and I feel pathetic for watching all 4 years, the show has turned into a fight fest and all against Teresa. So not good to watch, it's painful actually and enough for me to write a comment. Carolin your Blog is 3 pages of defending your stupidity over a rumor and a comment in a book, get over it. No one is perfect. All anyone will see is just a jealous spiteful immature woman fighting against a former friend which causes all the others who are followers to jump in o. It. Anyway I could go on and on, I'm so disappointed in the show now. I'll stick to the more innocent fighting and making up of the orange county women. I wish Teresa and her family all the best and it's too bad that the others will paint her in a bad light over very petty things I am sure. I hope Teresa has all the success in the world especially more over her cast mates! I will not be watching the rest of this season.

Unhappy fan

You were once my favorite...no more.

Caroline, I've missed my favorite housewives and I'm glad that your all back.. WOW is really all I can say. I was disturbed hearing the things Teresa was saying about Melissa not at all surprised but disturbed that she could try and poison her brother's marriage.

Regarding the cookbook comments, and her saying it was funny ha ha, drives me crazy because it wasn't funny period. It's always been IMO put in there to sale more books, I don't believe that she really cares period how it makes anyone feel.

Best of luck I look forward to watching.

Caroline, I've missed my favorite housewives and I'm glad that your all back.. WOW is really all I can say. I was disturbed hearing the things Teresa was saying about Melissa not at all surprised but disturbed that she could try and poison her brother's marriage.

Regarding the cookbook comments, and her saying it was funny ha ha, drives me crazy because it wasn't funny period. It's always been IMO put in there to sale more books, I don't believe that she really cares period how it makes anyone feel.

Best of luck I look forward to watching.

Caroline I love you and your family! Your real people and it is such a joy to see how close your family is and how loving, caring and supportive you are all, who needs (DRAMA) People are jealous of how your children respect you and their father, you enjoy each others company and when one is hurt you all hurt, many people are jealous of the strong family unit you all have! I watch ever episode and sometimes what repeats to make sure I hearing and seeing how envious certain fellow cast mates are jealous of your family! Don't take anymore crap and as they say nip it in the bud, for you sanity and cut the dead smelly fish off! I adore you and I was raised as you raised your children and I wouldn't want to change a single moment. You are a hero and you are a rare beauty inside and out!!!!

I am so glad you all are back! I enjoyed the show tonight. I am hopeful everything turns out okay for all. How are your kids? They weren't part of the show tonight. Are they going to be in this season? All the best Caroline!

Love you Caroline. You are the voice of reason.

Caroline that is a pathetic excuse to not forgive

Anyone with a brain can see what is real here. You are always an amazing lady in my book. You are at your best when you are not censoring so it's hard to see you holding back initially. I hope you let loose later in the season.

Teresa is just not very bright and seems to has some sort of auditory processing disorder. I still have sympathy for the woman but you are right to pull back and self protect because the family you have built is really unique and special. Guard it like the crazy pitt bull that you are. However, Teresa (while admittedly slow to the point of ridiculousness) seems emotionally abused so please always leave a window cracked open for her in your heart.

As for the Dina thing, I have no idea and don't want to know, but whatever it is.....fix it. You know where I got that advice? You. :)

Caroline,why dont you take some ownership instead of making everything seem like some big high profile case going towards the Grand Jury? I could see right through you from the beginning,when others thought you were the Grand dame. I believe you got a case of thinking you and your family are the show,but thats farther then the truth. I also believe you bullied your way into getting people axed,and was trying it with Tereasa. Caroline,you go back and re-read between those lines,and watch how manipulative your family really is. You guys are the biggest bunch of backstabbers and gossip queens and kings there are!

Caroline, You remind me so much of my stepmother ( which is REALLY good :-) ). Always straight to the point and keeping it real. You have been REAL since day one of Real Housewives of New Jersey and that's what I've always admired about you. I am sad to see what Teresa has become, but I hope in time someone slaps her back into reality because it really seems like she is living in a fog. BTW I think you are the greatest mother to Albie, Chris, and Lauren. They are so LUCKY to have you as their mother and I know that they know that. I am looking forward to all of the upcoming episodes.

TEAM CAROLINE ALL THE WAY!!!!

Love you, love you. I don't need to wait until season's end ... I'm team Caroline from the get go!!

Sorry Caroline, while I can see your annoyance at Teresa, I can not see how you could be so unkind with a woman having so much going on in her life. She truly needs her friends to hold her up. Look at her home life while they are with each other. The children are fighting, Teresa looks scared to death and perhaps she's trying to keep a job for herself and four kids. Do you really believe unkie Joe will step up to the plate. Neither do I. He has his own ego involved. Give her a break and by the way, menopause makes you do things you wished you hadn't later. Maybe you should be looking in the mirror when more that one person is having problems with you.

Caroline~ I love your devotion and loyalty to your family & friends, if it makes you boring then Oh weLL:)) To the people that stick up for Theresa they must be as dumb minded as her:(( You have been to gracious when being asked about her (as for seeing her on celeb apprentice, LoL) She is sooo fake, snagged in lie after lie then its poor me (this aint healthy hearts pounding) HAHA stop LIEING ding bat!! God bless you and your family and Im saying a prayer for Jacli & Ashley, you & Dina:))

I love you Caroline. You have such a wonderful and close family. At first I was really upset with Theresa last season, and what she wrote in her book was wrong, but after looking over last season's episodes, I believe YOU owe Theresa an apology. You DID stick up for Theresa with her cousin but all season long, you were harshly commenting about her and Melissa. I know you give advice on the radio but you got a little too big for your britches. Re-watch last season, as I'm sure Theresa did, and you will see that you were constantly commenting and without love with comments like "put your big girl panties on", etc... If you were MY friend and saying things like that about me on national television, my feelings would be hurt too. Not everyone needs tough love. Some just need love and YOU were lacking last season. I'm sure that's why Theresa wrote about you in her book. It was passive aggressive and wrong, but you didn't show her love either. Beyond this, I still think you're a good friend and a great mom. I'm looking forward to next season!

I don't care for Teresa but why BRAVO has allowed her to be "kicked" around by so called former friends and family is nauseating.

Welcome to the world of menopause. However, and this is a big "however," your reaction to the Teresa nonsense is just plain normal. No hormones involved. How could any sane person not react to her that way?

Teresa must be really scared to say and do the things she has done. Her usual behavior pattern is to repeat back whatever the other person says to her. For instance, you could say "You're crazy," and she would mimic "You're crazy," with more emphasis of the "you're" part. It is her response to every criticism she gets from the other women. Now, I ask you, how do you have a conversation with that? You might as well be standing in front of the mirror.

You're fine, but I fear Teresa is going off the deep end. I think her brother was right when he said she was in denial.

Love your family.

Never was a huge fan of T. I get that she was fun, but way before she ever sparred with the ladies, I got a sense that she was not the type to ever take personal responsibility for anything. She sort of reminded me of a Jersey version of Marie Antoinette. Later, she made so many digs even when people offered hospitality. The need to one-up was strong and unattractive. It was rude, shocking, and often displayed her ignorance and total lack of humility. Even forcing people to sit and watch her model countless swim suits was so narcissistic. The others are more low key. Melissa might like attention and "stuff" but she never appears to compete - she is gracious to others. That is the difference.

Caroline, I simply love you, love love your kids and husband!!

So far I see the continuation of Teresa bashing. My heart goes out to Teresa due to the general feel of the negativity from EVERYONE!!!! Who wouldn't feel the constant need to defend themselves against such wolves!!! Your kids and their friend Greg were constantly bashing Teresa last season (Greg just loved him some Melissa). It's no wonder Teresa and her family can't work things out...there are so many outsiders flaming that fire. I see so much ignorance....it's so sad to see. You all need to grow up!!

Caroline, Yeah, I see it coming.

Caroline, it seemed to me that you were being a little sensitive (as well as Melissa and Kathy) over the things said in the cookbook last season and then at the reunion, but after tonight's episode, I definitely believe you... that there's much more to the story. Tonight I was floored when Joe told Melissa what Teresa had said about leaving him for someone richer. From 1st season I thought Teresa was pretty over the top, kinda "cute" w/her daughters and juicy... but something has always been "off" with her (and him). Her thinking is really TWISTED and OMG, twisted people are not good to deal with during menopause... believe me, I know.

I dont have to wait till Sept to see, what you see is what all of us, will see. I used to like Teressa, but l honestly feel she is a different person, Caroline you be the same person you are, you are honest, and a good person, i really admired you alot, and Jackeline, but of all the housewife you are the most real of them all.

What takes me back is Caroline's behavior. Instead of letting it build up and talking about it to other people whom have nothing to do with the incident she could have talked to Teresa and told her what specifically bothered her and what could possibly resolve it. If you are going to take seriously what an idiot writes about you in a book then you are just as ridiculous as that idiot. No offense to her intelligence but its not hard to see that Teresa isn't the brightest bulb in the bunch. Why would you account her for anything she said? When she pulled you aside, she straight up apologized. She came to you when she first saw you, like an adult, to talk to you about it and apologize. Her exact words "If you were hurt by it, I apologize" Did you not want an apology, then why didn't you tell her what you wanted? What would have cleared it up? Instead you chose the route to be fake, irrational, and gossiping to others. By the way, your daughter Lauren said how Teresa could have at least said sorry for hurting you, that is when YOU should have said she did. Instead, you kept your mouth shut. So basically, all this drama took place because a menopausal woman is coincidentally the known 'matriarch' so if she is upset the rest just get behind her like her sheep(no matter what voice they think they find, sheep are sheep) This could have been handled logically but I guess they need some drama now that Danielle is gone. So why not let the bimbo be the guinea pig.

Hey Caroline ... you've always been my favorite. I gotta say that I am sorry your are estranged from Dina ... always loved her as well. Hope you two can work it out. Debbie

Hey there Caroline (: Out of all the housewives I have the out most respect for you. From a wonderful mother, cook and giving advice on the radio you are absolutely amazing. I admire your the strength you put out season after season. That's what you call real. I know you would probably hate to discuss questions regarding you and Dina . But I can't get it out of my mind, I'm so curious to know what happened ! But .. whatever the situation might be I hope you two sit down and work things out. Because family is important. Can't wait for next week

CAROLINE,

I KNOW THAT YOU ARE GOING THRU MENOPAUSE, BUT YOU HAVE REALLY COME ACROSS AS MEAN (TOWARDS THE END OF LAST SEASON AND THE SEASON 4 OPENER). I HOPE YOU CAN FIND SOME PEACE, AND SMILE--IT REALLY IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. GET A GRIP, WE ALL HAVE DIFFICULTIES IN OUR LIVES, AND SOME WOMEN HAVE ACTUALLY LIVED THRU MENOPAUSE. I THINK YOU ARE ACTUALLY VERY UNHAPPY AND IT COMES THRU TO THE VIEWERS. WEARING YOUR HEART ON YOUR SLEEVE IS ONE THING, BEING UNHAPPY IS ANOTHER..... PLEASE GET OVER TERESA'S BOOK THING---YOU CANT CONTROL EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE........

do u, )

Thank you for standing up for what's right, Caroline. You have tried so hard to help Teresa, and it's obvious she doesn't want to accept it. You are the example of what healthy communication should be, and I applaud you for sticking to what is true and right. Don't ever change!

Good Morning Caroline, It is good to see you all. Welcome back. Last night I saw the show twice. I felt such STRESS and NERVOUSNESS with everyone. It is sad that you and Jacqueline are not friends with Teresa anymore. I would like to watch carefully what has happened. I do know that things got complicated when you and Jacqueline took Melissa and Kathy's side last season. I also understand that Teresa has been going through a lot of problems especially with her Husband. I am expecting for the Program to start and find out why is there such stress and anxiety.

God Bless you and your Family,

Yolanda Garcia-Berdecia San Juan, Puerto Rico

You looked great on the premiere episode and on WWHL afterwards, so whatever is going on with "the change," you look great!

Well I must say I really don't see nothing wrong with what was in the book. So I am really not liking you right now. You said its been a lot of things that led to this well I hope to see them because you changed over night which is not like you at all. I would think you would of approached her when these rumors started spreading about. I still love Teresa and you are losing points but still like you lets see what the season shows.

Caroline You have always been a good friend to Teresa and I feel that she took shots at you and your son in her "family" cook book that were unnecessary. I can not for the life of me understand why those comments about any of you guys was necessary. It made me giggle that she flipped everything and became the victim. Last season i felt sorry for her cause I felt her husband played a hand in ruining her relationships with family but now I see that she brings alot on herself.

I love you and your family, please keep being you!

You are my favorite housewife. I aspire to be just like you in my life. You're very level headed and know who you are and who your friends/family are. I can't wait to see what happens this season. I would watch a whole show with just you & your family.

Have always been a fan of yours, but right now I am not seeing why you are so angry over the cookbook....she did try to apologize but you weren't having it. Seems kind of petty and to be talking about it over and over...just get over it.....it wasn't the worst thing I have seen you people say to each other. And considering your kids take jabs at everyone....they should be able to take a jab or too back...toughen up.