Jacqueline Laurita

Jacqueline Laurita explains why she thinks Teresa was behind the set-up.

on Sep 23, 20120

Why I believe this was a set-up and will stick to that:

1. I knew Kim D. didn't like Melissa and neither did Teresa. Teresa talked obsessively about Melissa for the past two seasons, and it was NEVER good. Teresa would fake nice only for the viewers, to make them think she was trying to get along with her family. She wasn't. I was a witness to that on several occasions.

2.Teresa is very close to Kim D. To this day, there are recent pictures of them together hanging out. I am also friendly with Kim. We talk. She knows how I feel about all of this. Why isn't Teresa angry at Kim D. for setting up and destroying her family if she knew Kim was in on it? I thought she loved her family and was loyal to them? (Cough, cough...NOT!) How DARE Teresa try to publicly blame the set-up on me as if I would ever do that to Melissa. I like Melissa, unlike Teresa and Kim. Kim made it VERY clear that she didn't like Melissa, was involved in the set up, and was enjoying it, yet Teresa wasn't upset with her at all. God forbid Melissa chat with Danielle four times when she and Teresa hated each other. Melissa never even met Danielle in person and she never acted out on what Danielle wanted her to do. Nothing ever transpired out of that brief interaction, not even a friendship between them. Teresa was buddies with Kim while she was pretending to be so happy and close with Melissa. Teresa even joined Kim inside the restaurant AFTER the fashion show, after all the drama happened and even after Kim fought intensely with her brother, and they are STILL friends. Interesting isn't it?

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Sweetzzzs
Sweetzzzs

I don't usually take my valuable time to sound off about a tv show........however, I support Jacqueline 100 million percent! She is an excellent momma, a caring friend and a loyal and loving wife as I see things. I do not care if anyone in Teresa's group agrees or NOT, quite frankly I could not care less what goes on in any of there heads-if anything! NO ONE has the right to sit and pass judgement on any other living breathing person or beast. To hear them sit around and make comments about Kathy 'not fitting through the door' or about Jacqueline's size made me ill. They do not have any reason to talk, for sure......they do not make high marks for pageant queens! I do not believe in censorship nor taking away anyone's right to freedom of speech. I do, however, wish someone would have instilled values in them.  Please know Jacqueline that there are good and decent people in the world like myself, who would feel privileged to be your friend! Btw.... I am a pediatric nurse of many years experience and am very proud of your accomplishments with your darling son! God Bless You

msbellfox
msbellfox

reply to cdnvier: teresa is the most backstabbing person of all the h/w shows. she is out for one person only and that is herself!! jaaqueline has been a great friend to her. and shes not afraid of carloine. did u not see her stand up for daniell and go against caroline and dina (the night teresa flipped the table) because jacquelne was being honest. she had nothing! to do with setting anyone up it was ALL teresa and kim .jacqueline has nothing to be jealous of teresa and shes not. but teresa is VERY jealous of melissa.the way u think i would hate to be your friend!!!!!!!!!!!

CdnViewer
CdnViewer

Hope you took the time to re-read your blog The Grudge since the bald guy has come out and said he NEVER met Teresa before that day and that she had NO IDEA he was going to be at the event or approach the table.

 

You call out Teresa pretty badly & took the time to write quite a long blog about this & sounded like a tabloid yourself with "sources said" & "a close friend who I won't reveal". Isn't the truth that someone on production was telling you what was going down???? Hmmm...

 

Did you apologize after learning Teresa wasn't lying or take as much time & effort to backtrack with a whole blog dedicated to how wrong you were or that YOU should be the one ashamed?

 

No I didn't think so.

 

You talk about how Teresa has changed, the truth is YOU have changed & I really honestly used to like you but now I just can't. I really don't tend to respond much b/c I feel these shows are what my friends & I call guilty pleasures but at this point the Jersey Shore bunch look like angels & role models compared to you, Caroline, Melissa & Cathy.

 

Get over your fear of Caroline & see her for the true bully, control freak & jealous person she truly is.

 

Stop to consider if Melissa & Kathy could do this to someone in their own family how long will it be until YOUR HEAD is the one they go after or you become indespensible to them.

 

And grow up so you can be a role model instead of someone who appears pathethic, mean spirited & jealous. It doesn't suit you & I actually think you are the only cast member there is still hope for b/c you don't seem solely motivated by money & fame.

 

You want a story line for next season??? How about you do to Caroline & Melissa what they've gone out of their way to do to Teresa & used you to help them do it. Hey, you'll get more air time & you'll win back legions of fans who love Teresa.

 

Remember when Jill turned on Bethenny?

Rembember when the Atlanta cast turned on Nene?

Remember when Vicky & Tamra turned on Gretchen?

Remember when Adrienne turned on Lisa?

 

Do you see the common thread? That's right the ladies they turned on were the break out stars from the show. Take a lesson from Tamra who figured out who the TRUE BULLY & HYPOCRITE was. Last season fans who hated her for years became fans; why? Because she saw the light, actually enjoyed being friends with Gretchen & people fell in love with her for stopping the bull & joining forces with the "real & honest" cast member.

 

Teresa prob won't be too open given how you 4 women have slayed her for 2 years but approach her OFF camera & maybe just maybe she'll give you another chance.

 

Or don't, hey I don't know you personally so it really doesn't matter it's just a show. You just better hope someone doesn't get it in their craw to start talking about.

 

Anyway, you get the point right? Well maybe you don't but I do bet you are smart enough to understand karma.

 

Own up to your role in this disgraceful display & move forward positively. You owe it to yourself & above all you owe it to Teresa!

 

Besides the viewers are dying for someone to actually be honest for a change & admit what really happened like Tamra did.

WenB
WenB

You must have a Masters in Psychology!  You are SPOT ON about Teresa as far as what I've seen of her on TV at least.  I believe what you say is truth.  You have read her like a book.  It's very sad. She's obviously very delusional about her own motives and behaviors or does know what she's doing and is doing it because she's been caught in her lies, and that's even worse to know what you're doing and yet keep doing it.  

HW84
HW84

Your obsessiveness over Teresa is quite frightening.  You need help. 

yessie
yessie

Hi Jacqueline, although it has been a while since the last reunion aired i have been compelled for quite some time to post a comment to you. I'm not a person who blogs at all, but This season has really touched me. Melissa was right when she said people like the show because they can relate to the family issues we are witnessing on reality tv about all of you. The most important information I heard this season loud and clear was what you have been going through with your precious baby boy Nick. I want to send my love and prayers to you as a mother who has been going through it herself. I applaud you for sharing your story as i know it is not easy. I am 31 years old, and I have 3 precious boys 5,1, and 3 months old. My oldest son was diagnosed at 2 years old, I tell you keep faith because with all the help he has received he has come a long way!! Recently my second son of 1 year was diagnosed as well. when you shared your story I CRIED AND I CRIED HARD WITH YOU!!! God has put Nick with you because he knows that you and cris and your family have the capacity of education, love, and patience to take care of your special son. When I hear stars share their stories about their children with Autism, it takes away the feeling of being so alone in this. I am not far from you, I reside in Queens and I want to extend to you that if you ever need any advice or questions you can certainly reach out to me as a mother who has been going through it with two children on the spectrum. My boys are coming along and doing well, they are no different from any other child God blesses us with, I believe this is happening because they are here to send a message to the world that people take life for granted and need to be a little more compassionate and loving to friends and family while living our time. I thank god everyday for my husband who is sooooo supportive and my family as well, they have embraced my children and always want to know more about what Autism is and how they can help and im so glad that I see the same for you. You are in my prayers. Love Yesenia 

alohamadi
alohamadi

Okay is everybody watching the same show?! Jacqueline, I believe you've been an amazing friend to Theresa and I can understand how you wanted a real relationship with her.  I witnessed how Theresa just wants "soldiers" and people to side with her and believe her every twisted word.  This show proves how she's poisoned all the wonderful relationships she's had with every body.  It is evident of how envious, manipulative, and deceitful she is.  How dare she deny everything as you are a witness to most of it.  You just keep true to who you are and focus on your existing relationships with your family members.  

 

I cried when you talked about your son!  You have a beautiful family and loving husband.  No family is ever perfect and I think you've done a great job with all your kids.  

Jessica.Cohen954
Jessica.Cohen954

Your whole blog is again about Teresa. You have some serious issues, and thus the result of such a screwed up daughter. God don't like ugly and you are internally hideous.

 

In addition, the reason your sister in law Dina never liked you cause you fooled around with her friends fiance (Chris Laurita) and weaseled your way into their family. You need a career because all this time and effort you put into your blog about Teresa is sad and creepy, can you say Single White Female. 

 

Thanks for listening Jacko

jcourteaux
jcourteaux

where is jaco's post ,, still waiting

amyjohn6
amyjohn6

Jacqueline, again your being obsessive. You where obsessed with Danielle and now Teresa.  You do not know how to be a true friend.  You have showed us that from the beginning.  Teresa has not.  It's time to grow up.Your LUCKY to have Chris, he is sensible. As for who to believe, I believe Dina her blog and her tweets about what you do behind the scenes is proof enough for me.  I wish Nick Love and growth. I wish you sanity.

bpster
bpster

Time to stop television focus on your family. All your accusations are blowing up in your face as you are facing the very same things you accused Teresa of doing.......Take what pride you have left wish your family well.........Good bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ESinAZ
ESinAZ

Jaqueline- I happened to catch the "lost footage" show last night, and I can't help but to comment on your unusual behaviour.  I understand this has been a tough year for you, but to tweet about someone else's young chidren and your constant "under the breath" snarky comments are just nasty.  That scene with you trying on wedding dresses...

It was all just too wierd.

Maya2
Maya2

Why does Teresa have to disclose her  finances with you ? if she's shopping ,  adding a room and she's filing for bankruptcy SO WHAT? is she using your money ? and if magazines pay her to pose with dogs cat or  a sad face ?  WHY does she HAVE TO "come clean" TO U ? do you discuss your finance difficulties and your stripper past? NO ! you don't have any loyalty you are so jealous you have lost your mind, the comments you made about her husband cheating and telling him yo wish he went to jail ? divulging private conversations? then playing with your hair and shoes and swearing ON EVERYTHING? you need HELP you can't stand that she's more popular and famous how sad Jacqueline you are full of venom. scary !

mariasozaaz
mariasozaaz

In response to nida614, why should she butt out, Teresa never butts out of anyones business.  Jac you go giirrrrrrrrrrllllllllllllll!! So glad to see you stand up for yourself and not be intimidated by Tre!!! If anyone is a bully it is Teresa, but now the tables are turned, if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen with your moms receipe's Teresa. Oh I forgot and Kathy's mom's receipe's.HA!

mariasozaaz
mariasozaaz

Jac, you are such a lady and I admire you. You behaved like a lady with class at  the reunion, even under the circumstances.  You tried to be a  friend to Tre but she can't see past her next lie.  She is so in denial, don't even sweat the small stuff ( Tre)  I hope your son is doing well, it was heartbreaking to hear about his condition.  With parents like you and your husband he is the luckiest kid in the world.  Your family is beautiful and I am so happy for your daughter, she rocks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Remember you are so blessed with your family and your friends (the other housewives) they are really beautiful people.  Now you know I am talking about all except TRE,  I call her krewella.!  God bless

nida614
nida614

I just watched the reunion again and even andy was yelling at Jac to stay out of  it, that it was Tre and Joe's business not hers. she needs to know when to shut it. She's got MANY problems and people in her head. 

doubleb0224
doubleb0224

Jacqueline, ur much better off without Teresa's friendship. Who wants a friend that u constantly have to watch being stabbed in the back and cares nothing about ur worries and heartaches. If she was such a good friend to u as she alleges, she didn't know how u were aching regarding ur son???? U are good to be rid of her.  I loved ur wedding gown outing with Caroline, and I haven't seen u laugh so much since much earlier seasons.  Keep praying for ur precious baby and u know God answers prayers. Good luck and forget the haters. 

skykw1414
skykw1414

Jacqueline - your the worst of the lot, you and yr sister in law are kidding yourselves if you think it's just Teresa being the clown. U dish out comments on Teresa, seems your pretty comfortable to cut people off when it suits u.

fede727
fede727

Jacqueline my heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers everyday. I really hope you do not give to much credit to these negative irrelevant comments people leave. People were so involved in the drama they missed out on the only relevant topic which was your son's condition. You and Chris are wonderful parents and are more than competent to help your son through this. Have faith God is watching over Nicholas.

bela
bela

Jacqueline,

I was watching the lost footage reunion show, you are so mad that Theresa does not want to be your friend any more, get over it. When a friendship is over and you talk so bad about the person (telling personable issues, like you did) you will never get it back. Blame it on yourself, you have destroyed it and you have lost respect from your viewers. You are the one that is so hatefull, you dont hear Theresa talking about your personable secrets.

schivas
schivas

Oh my Jacqueline, your true colors were seen on the reunion!  I think your your own worst enemy!!  I felt bad for Chris as you acted like a bully, he on the other hand acted like a gentleman. At my house we waited and watched before we decided if Teresa was aware,  Its clear she was BUT also clear YOU were too.  Long story short we are Team Teresa, she held up good after all of you were teaming against her the entire season and reunion!!!

tandramarie
tandramarie

Hi Jacqueline,

 I am just catching up on RH, the Lost Footage.  I want you to take your picture of your wedding day to a professional to clear up the photo and have it nicely framed. Yeah still have a picture in a nice gown, but that old photo is special. Now a days old photos can be fixed. 

We love, love you woman!! I can't wait to see you, Caroline, Kathy & Melissa back!! We also love Rosie, Lauren & all the family!!

nursenj
nursenj

no follow up blog jacqueline?. LOL cant think up a lie fast enough? this is a lesson for everyone that if you're fake one day your true self will show. shame on you jacqueline. poor chris. hey chris give me a call i'll hook you up to a good woman.

Mespnz
Mespnz

Jaqueline get off the show. You are a bully along with Caroline. You knew about the set up Kim had against Melissa and you are as guilty as everyone else. If you really liked Melissa you would prevented it and then we would of seen what a good person you are like you claim to be! Concentrate on your family and stop the BS you and Caroline are creating.

Mespnz
Mespnz

Jaqueline get off the show. You are a bully along with Caroline. You knew about the set up Kim had against Melissa and you are as guilty as everyone else. If you really liked Melissa you would prevented it and then we would of seen what a good person you are like you claim to be! Concentrate on your family and stop the BS you and Caroline are creating.

clt.brady@gmail.com
clt.brady@gmail.com

Jacqueline was so nasty to Teresa all season but she really took it to a whole other level during the reunion!  It was so obvious she just wanted to hurt Teresa at any cost and she came off as unhinged.  Jacqueline really hasn't proven any reason, at least on camera,  to be that angry at Teresa.    It seems  like Teresa was shocked by her behavior and didn't know how to handle her at the reunion.  

AustinChick
AustinChick

I find myself cringing every time Jacqueline opens her mouth, points, and makes vulgar comments. I find it really selfish and cruel of her to hurt the others with those alleged confidences, to make her point. Hell I think we all speak badly of our own families when angry and venting, but never expect those weak moments to be barraged at our family or ourselves. She does not understand, that the only person that looks like a fool and truly did the hurting is herself.  

nursenj
nursenj

 @WenB

 last time i checked strip clubs dont give out university degrees.

kiwigurl11
kiwigurl11

@Jessica.Cohen954 love you Jac! You rock always, JAC!! Lol! Replace Jacqueline's name, put Teresa.... Stupid!

lilitalian
lilitalian

 @jcourteaux Its so odd that she is the only one who hasn't posted. She said on twitter that she did it and it was going to be up. That was 3 weeks ago. Just like the reunion she didn't show up to. She apparently doesn't do what she is contracted to do. If anyone thinks she reads these blogs. I seriously doubt it. She lives in a fantasy world that everyone loves her. Theses blogs would show her the truth.

nursenj
nursenj

 @Maya2

 you are my new hero!!!. love your post.

Jodibelle
Jodibelle

 @Maya2

 I don't think Teresa was supposed to disclose her actual finances to Jacqueline.  Jac wanted her to be truthful and say "we're having some money problems. I don't know what to do." rather than pasting on the phony smile and saying everything was fine. 

KimberlyF
KimberlyF

 @mariasozaaz did Teresa push for information, on camera, about the lawsuit involving Jacq's family, about the trouble with Ashlee, about Jacq's son or about Jaqc's ex husband's legal problems?  Somethings should be private and are personal.  Jacq didn't seem to care and wanted to air out Teresa's dirty laundry on camera

lilitalian
lilitalian

 @mariasozaaz You don't think Jacqueline is nuts? Have you watched her on camera. Not only did she mention Theresa's brothers g-string sniffing but doesn't anyone remember the show where she went with Lauren to meet prospective business clients and she ordered a screaming orgasm. She did this at a business meeting. She has absolutely no class. She also revealed private conversations between her and Theresa when they were friends that is a violation of any friendship no matter how the friendship ends. Its a good thing Theresa didn't reveal other confidential stuff to her. She is very low class.

seattle1984
seattle1984

 @mariasozaaz Thats all nice and sweet but you should answer dexter.pie and kimberlyF s questions.......... I think they are quite valid questions.. You wanna defend your girl, so defend her, lets hear it.

dexter.pie
dexter.pie

 @mariasozaaz Accusing someone of sniffing their brother's jock strap is such a classy ladylike thing to do.  Wildly screaming out prior confidences is pure class, and what lady doesn't viciously scream she hopes a family is broken and destroyed by a jail sentence for the father?

KikiLou
KikiLou

 @mariasozaaz

 Your idea of a classy lady must be so off. You cannot use the word class and Jacqueline in the same sentence when it comes to her CLASSLESS behavior at the reunion.

AustinChick
AustinChick

 @fede727 I think they all need a little compassion, Theresa has had a lot to deal with too, but Jacqueline regardless of her personal circumstance, is badgering through out the reunion, in her blog..beyond the point of reason.

nursenj
nursenj

 @doubleb0224

 jacko is better off without theresa's friendship and the whole world is better off without jacko's friendship or presence. wacky jacko please take your fiance stealing, family stealing self off the show. pls dont come back next year. and for those that say you have class i advice them to stop drinking your kool aid.

Trixiegirl
Trixiegirl

@clt.brady@gmail.com You are completely out of your Teresa obsessed mind. Jacqueline attempted ALL SEASON to get through Teresa's block head and J conducted herself as an educated obviously compassionate LADY. Perhaps if you take off your "fabulous" blinders, you may open your eyes to the truth and actually understand the season as so very many other viewers do. Best of luck.

nursenj
nursenj

 @Jodibelle  @Maya2

 does theresa have to say everything was not fine. who is jacko that she has to tell theresa what to do or say?. wacky jacko should face her own problems and believe me she has enough to keep her busy.

Trishapf
Trishapf

Each of us have friends for different reasons and circumstances, i.e. work place friends, neighborhood friends, school friends, church friends, etc. Each friend should be entrusted with the responsiblity of that friendship and all that is involved in the relationship together. Not all friends need to know everything that involves the personal fiancial business of that friendship partner. I have friends, even close friends, that I would never divulged my personal fiancial or marriage issues with because I know that it is not their business to know those facts of my life. We as adults can gauge from our different friends which can be trusted with personal information and which can not but that doesn't mean we are not close, loving friends. Some people just have "loose lips" while others know when to keep the information to themselves even when tempted to do otherwise. Teresa must have known that Jacqueline had a history of not keeping private information about her friends, private. It is sad to watch all of these women treating each other so badly and spewing personal confidences amongst each other and to the viewers.  I hope that they all see what damage has been done and realize what true friendship means in the years to come and not make the same mistakes.

dexter.pie
dexter.pie

 @Jodibelle  @Maya2 Not everyone is a boo-hoo cry baby.  Some people are stoic.  Some are proud.  That doesn't make them evil.

Karen62
Karen62

May be the reason T doesn't "butt" into other people's problems or ask questions is because she is so caught up in her own self-centeredness to care about anyone else. 

Jessica.Cohen954
Jessica.Cohen954

 @Trixiegirl  Using the word Educated and Jacqueline in the same sentence is an oxymoron. One doesn't have to be a fan or not to realize that Jacko is truly WACKO. The majority of the viewers (Teresa fans and non Teresa fans) think Jacqueline's behavior is out of touch with reality. To say to another grown woman that she sniffer her brothers underwear is bizarre. She is mentally unstable, stuck in a young frame of mind. I truly think she has a personality disorder and gets the help she needs.

AustinChick
AustinChick

 @Trixiegirl No double standards Trixie, ok for Caroline to talk to Theresa's family; ok for her and jacqueline to spill confidences, but not ok for Theresa to maintain her years long friendship with Dina.  Ok for Jacqueline, to badger, not ok for Theresa to maintain her privacy. Ok for Jacqueline, Melissa et al. to speak to the Tabloids not ok for Theresa. Ok for Jacqueline and Caroline to trap Theresa, Ok for Melissa to speak to Daniel... i think that is what the viewers see..they all have done the same type albeit different acts, but they are not accountable for their wrong doings, those get buried...and Theresa is continually held accountable past and present by those women... doesn't work for me

Christiann52
Christiann52

 @Trixiegirl

 perhaps if you take off your "wacky jacky" glasses you will see what most of the rest of "us" see ;-)