Kathy Wakile

Kathy shares a positive experience that came out of being on the show.

on Jun 19, 20120

I am now, and always have been, a loyal family member. I can honestly say that I understand why Jacqueline was feeling worried and concerned for Teresa and her family. It’s what we were all feeling. Teresa would tell us all one thing  and then the press would say something completely different. It’s very confusing. Wouldn’t you all be confused too? The only crazy one here is the person trying to get all of the people around her and the public as whole to believe that when a magazine puts your words in quotes you didn’t really say it and have no control over it. That’s nonsense -- own what you say and do.

I am a proud woman and I will never let anyone hold something over my head, so once and for all, Teresa, I did not ever go behind your back or actively peruse any position on this show. I resent the fact that you continuously put out false stories to the press to try and convince anyone otherwise.

I have lived through many difficult situations in my life, from losing my father-in-law suddenly to watching my father suffer and loose his long battle with lung cancer. Shortly after that was the most difficult time in my life -- when my daughter was diagnosed with a brain tumor. These trials surely put things in perspective. I pray to God that no one should go through such a rough patch like that in their lives. The most important things are not things.

On Saturday my daughter and I led the walk for the National Brain Tumor Society. Among those walking were families that lost their loved ones to brain tumors, others were walking and living everyday with their tumors. There were others that are fortunate like my daughter, Victoria, who are brain tumor survivors and thrivers. We shared our stories and cried and hugged one another. That is what is truly important in this world, human connection.

59 comments
lesliann44
lesliann44

I think Jacqueline was in the right to approach Teresa about the what the tabloid wrote about Teresa and Joe might be going to jail.  I would be upset if one of my friends were going to jail over money issues etc.  What Teresa did and how she treated Jacqueline was in the wrong.  I think what isn't shown on the show is the really story. 

Elizabeth18
Elizabeth18

@trelub

Yeah its pretty unloyal for Kathy to be caring and nice to Teresa, forgive Teresa's husband for trash talking Rosie, try to talk to Teresa and fix things, take her kids out of danger when theres an eratic fight, invite her to her home for a party, and talk about how she misses the litter girl (Teresa) that she use to be so close with.

Kathy is soo unloyal.

HA!

Elizabeth18
Elizabeth18

@trelub

Yeah its pretty unloyal for Kathy to be caring and nice to Teresa, forgive Teresa's husband for trash talking Rosie, try to talk to Teresa and fix things, take her kids out of danger when theres an eratic fight, invite her to her home for a party, and talk about how she misses the litter girl (Teresa) that she use to be so close with.

Kathy is soo unloyal.

HA.

SZara
SZara

Your blog is awful.

 

Why are you so surprised about magazine headlines...your on TV. That's what happens get over it.

The press is usually to tell you something different from what is truly happening.That's normal...do not try and act so naive about it.

If Teresa doesn't want to tell your her business, that is her business not to tell. By you gossiping to Melissa and co about  Teresa there is no loyalty why would she come to you with all her problems. Does not make sense.

irenep
irenep

kathy you are a great person. Tre gets what she deserves..

DebKenna
DebKenna

Shame on you. It is none none none of your business what Teresa is doing. You and Mekissa are trying to destroy Teresa s family. Shame on you all.

smedly151
smedly151

everyone believes their own story to be true.  I think you are kind and I think you wanted to be on the show.  Teresa did not convince the public of this your actions have.  

I am very glad that this show allowed you the opportunity to chair something so wonderful.  

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

louise123-sadly to say...Kathy has tried so hard to fool everyone...and you are right...she has had a very big role in the Melissa/Teresa saga but she forgets that she has 1 boy and 1 girl and I can promise you that Kathy will meet the same fate that she has caused between the Gorgas and Teresa..and Kathy will  have the same problems with her children spouses...when they marry...the spouse will cause the same friction between her children and between Kathy and her children.. and they will have a  relative that will stir the pot the same way Kathy did...You know how I know this? I dont believe in Karma but I do believe in the Bible and it clearly states we all reap what we sow...Kathy has been  doing plenty of sowing and she will be receiving plenty of reaping..soon....and I have also been a witness to so many relationships with friends and families that have gone thru the same thing and have done the same thing Kathy/Melissa have done...I was sitting out in my backyard last weekend for a couple of hours with family and I have a sister in law Cindy who was just like Melissa and Kathy...and my sister in law Cindy was about Melissa age when she put the family thru hell..Cindy at that time was the daughter in law and sister in law from hell...well cindy and I eventually became best friends and she continued to put my in laws thru hell...I told her that she has a boy and a girl and one day they will marry a spouse that would be just like her and put her thru the same thing she has put everyone thru.....well she laughed it off...so here we were in my backyard...Cindy and I were sitting out in my back yard with the Texas wind blowing ever so gently and sipping on a couple of margaritas..and Cindy began to cry on my shoulder about her daughter in law Jennifer...cindy,  son wife...Cindy told me that Jennifer was the daughter in law from hell...Cindy told me the problems Jennifer was causing...the very same problems Cindy caused...Jennifer now is the reason that Cindy son and daughter are no longer speaking with each other..Cindy said it was so painful for her...what goes around does come around and we truly do reap what we sow on this earth...So Kathy better buckle up because Kathy will eventually feel the hurt and the pain that she has caused to others because Kathy will have to sit and watch her kids go thru the same exact pain..when they marry...they will marry a replica of Melissa...then kathy will see the pain she caused and it will be tooooo late...I really hope all ends well in this saga that Melissa/kathy created but the writting is on the wall.... 

IsItJustMe
IsItJustMe

Kathy, you are very disappointing with what you are trying to justify..

rosanne.fisher
rosanne.fisher

Kathy,  You say family  is so important??? Really, every epsoid you and your husband who should shut his mouth, have so many nasty things to say about Teresa...him more than you, however I would never let my husband speak so mean and nasty about anyone in my family, So why do you allow it? Could it be it's for the show?  You are really something else...you or your family would not even be on the show if it were not for teresa.  I think you all expect her to be crying every time and asking for help and you see that you may call her names but she is taking care of her family and not acting like "poor me".  That really gets you, because I don't think you or Malissa, Jacq. Caroline, could take control the way Teresa has...you should be proud of her.  Instead you play the game that Malissa plays with her domb husband, against his own sister.  Maybe you should watch the show a few times and then you can see how wrong you and those nitwits are, including your husband.

kimberleyssmith13
kimberleyssmith13

 Kathy, you pulled the wool over my eyes a little last season, but there is just no getting around a few REAL truths, not opinions, not gossip, but truths. You claim that you have always been a loyal family member and good cousin. But you KNEW that this was your cousins show. You KNEW that this show and the opportunities that come from it are how your cousin was supporting her family. You KNEW that she was having financial difficulties. You KNEW she was feuding with her family. So what do you do as a "loyal" and "good cousin"? #1 You join the show with her begging you not to because she knew what the producers were up to and that the family feud would be the main storyline. #2 You put the spotlight on your cooking abilities, which puts you directly competing with your cousin and #3 you joined in on the bashing. So if this is your definition of a good cousin, then the whole family makes more sense. You say that people have to "own" their stuff, well here's an idea - you start?

Carmella84
Carmella84

It's too late to go back and change whatever is in the episodes.   You were probably very hurt when you drifted away from Teresa.    It doesn't make sense that  if all of you are concerned with her welfare that you would react the way you are.    Kind of opposite to what you would think.   She's dealing with her problems the best she can.   You must know that verbally she doesn't defend herself well.    I feel sorry for her - she needs an interpreter.    If I know what she's trying to express, and if I do so should you.    I don't know if I could hold up as well if I were under attack by all these people.     Shut Caroline down at the reunion - Teresa's your family.    Your mother had the best instincts and I think you probably do too.  

trelub
trelub

Are you a loyal family member? I think not:)

dina.joviamahler
dina.joviamahler

So I am to believe Brad and Angelia were paid money for their stories too? Thats interesting! Give me a break people! That's funny. Think about it! Shame on her family for thinking that. They all need to go. Tired of the bull. It's sickening to watch week after week.   

TCB
TCB

I had told myself I wouldn't watch this seaon of RHNJ for the simple fact of how Bravo targets Teresa to be bombarded!!! With all the stuff she was going through I found that to be distasteful and cruel. BUT, I did watch the last two episodes and saw the very things I feared.

 

I think with all T has gone through, I can see how she doesn't make a lot of sense at times. Don't get me wrong, I'm in her corner 100%. But you have to admit, she's not an easy person to talk to these days. I hate how her and J friendship is no more. I think they both need one another with what their personal lives are going through. But when two people are drowning, you cannot save one another, so hopefully, down the line the can make ammends.

 

As far as Kathy, I really like her. I don't see her as a phoney or someone who likes to flaunt their $$ around like Melissa does!! I have nothing for her, she's as fake as fake can be. But I don't see that in Kathy, even tho they do pal around together. I think she sincerely cares and worries about T, but T won't put aside her negative feelings in order to hear what kathy is really saying. Kathy, you are real and respectful, don't let all that other drama fog your thinking.

 

Now as far as Caroline Manzo, I think SHE needs to GO!! Like Joe said, she's boring!!! I'm so sick of seeing that bulldog face of hers and hearing her try to tell other people how to live. She makes me sick!! I think she's jealous of the others on there who are very attractive and dress stylish. She doesn't fit in any more. Take her off and bring Dina back on!

4Girls1Boy
4Girls1Boy

I think you and your family are great Kathy. I know we only see an edited version of your lives but I think everyone is sane except for Tre. Keep raising money for charity and take every advantage you can from being on the show.

AHHAHAHAHA
AHHAHAHAHA

Always keeping in classy Kathy - love you and your dignity!  

jessica920
jessica920

you are so right when you say you have perspective and the most important things are not things. Teresa is struggling to save face and ironically worries about what people think while running her own name through the mud in the press, because that gets her the money she needs to impress others. Who is she impressing? Who is she fooling?

MaxJK
MaxJK

I thought that you were a breath of fresh air to the show, but low and behold you are like a jealous out of control high school girl, talking behind Teresa’s back every chance you get. Because a magazine quoted something and then put their own spin on the situation, from watching the show I might add, and this is being done to your family! Who reads this garbage? You and Melissa…. Pathetic! What has Teresa done to you personally? The constant betrayal has surfaced and you are a huge part of the problem. I can’t imagine the pressure Teresa must be under, and instead of her family giving her words of encouragement, you are ripping her apart. So sad and you are a disappointment to say the least.

JanicePrado
JanicePrado

Come on Kathy. The word is misquoted and it happens all the time. Also, do you believe everything you read? I expected more from you. Misquotes and statements taken out of context happen EVERY day. Just a little dose of reality for you. On the other hand. I love you and your family. The ONLY sane ones in the bunch. Don't let yourself be manipulated into becoming one of those other ladies who have nothing better to talk about than Teresa.

Amiegura
Amiegura

Kathy I think its time for you and everyone else to live teresa alone,she will never get it she prefer to play the victim will never agrees that she has fault.and there are lot of her kind out here who thinks they are self entitle they expect people to say yes to whatever foolish or craziness they are doing.....hey Kathy just check teresa's blog you can tell there lot of people that are enabling teresa because they are just like her.love you and your family,you guys rock.

OneEyedFlurry
OneEyedFlurry

We adore you & your wonderful family.  I'm so glad that a single tweet led to something so positive and productive for you, your daughter, and the others who are affected by brain tumors.  Truly, you have your priorities straight, and I know you'll get through these difficult times in your family.You're the best, Kath.  Lots of xoxoxo to everyone in your home!xoxoxo,OEF

amckeziah
amckeziah

Kathy,

   I'm so glad that you daughter fought through and that GOD gave the doctors the knowledge to give her the treatments she needed to save her life.  I can't imagine what you & your husband must have gone through during that trying time.

   I know you love your cousin but, you need to distance yourself from her because, she's so self absorbed and can't see past the end of her own nose.  She takes everything that's said and twists it to suit herself.  She speaks out of boths sides of her face.  Watch your back with that one.  She's hateful and I'm not sure she knows how to love anyone but herself.

louise123
louise123

There's a reason you hear this so much: You sold your soul for money. These blogs always refelct the truth in their commonality. Tell me Kathy, when is your cookbook coming out? I have no doubt that that is the first and foremost driving force in your every move, comment, and flip, flop attitude that has you playing the "hate" Teresa game. It's the "gal" you rode in on with Melissa, and you're surely not getting off now!   You women just don't get it, but that is the difference between you women and Teresa, and why WE have her as a huge success. She reacts, and lives as herself, the good and the bad, but all HARMELSS in regards to other people,  and we have led her to her great success for that. You "jealous pack" plot, you plan, you manipulate and you manufacture. I mean Kathy come on, the camera come to your house, set up, come with you in the car to Melissa's house where you just happen to show up, to once again, talk about Teresa and how phony she is without here there. We don't believe the story about Teresa and how bad she is because we have seen firsthand all of this story you are tring to get us to swallow to be NOT TRUE. Do you understand? We aint buying it Kathy. Please,everyone knows exactly what you have done. And this blog is unfuriating. Why on earth would Teresa go to you regarding her problems when you have done NOTHING but help Melissa attemt to destroy her on camera? It was really ugly Kathy and we don't have amnesia.Do you remember all of your scenes with her? We do, they were ugly and they came from within her own family, with a woman who married her brother. You two knew exactly what you were doing. Melissa says Teresa just wanted to say whatever she wanted about us, and have no one there to prove oterwiose. Hate to tell you, Teresa never MENYIONED you two the three years she was on the show!  I  think you are actually worse than Melissa because you're blood; you grew up with Teresa, Melissa just happened to be lucky enough to marry into Teresa's family where she could find a platform for fame. She sure as heck wouldn't have gotten it on her own. You're mad and hurt that Teresa wouldn't "come" to you.  Exactly HOW STUPID do you think Teresa and WE are?? She can watch the back episodes you know? I'm pretty sure they have a TV. You debate with Melissa and her sisters (eeew) about talking to Teresa to "help" her, after every scene you have been IN, has been tailored to crucify her. I hope you just fizzle out. I'm sure your home is still all about how bad Teresa is. People talk about how warm your family is when all I have seen is one common denominator taking place in there. Teresa's "fall." You now see the reaction you are getting when you lighten up and it rings false with the people who make this show run---us- nobody wants to say it but I will--The Teresa fans. Everyone knows I am right, and that' just the way it is. Another viewer wrote a sleeping giant has been awoken and they are right,. It's decency and we couldn't be behind Teresa more. It wan't right, it just wasn't right and you were a pivotal plyer. Shame on you. I assume you will play a guarded role on the renion, playing on the fact that we love your sister, but we will not forget what you have done yourself. I can't wait to see you struggle in the middle with your "pack of wolves" and the image you now want to play after you have caused so much harm. I really wish I could be a fly on the wall when you ladies have your "meeting" before the reunion on how you will collectively take Teresa down again. Shame on you Kathy, nothing has changed, no matter how hard you are tryoing to make us belive it has. You slipped with this blog.Nothing has changed, Get to work on that cookbook now.

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

kathy...from a libra to a libra...you by far have disappointed me the most...sometimes there comes a time to build bridges and heal old wounds, and to be extra sensitive to others. It is always nice to use our charm to cast a net out and bring in the hurt and the wounded...I lost a 34 year old cousin in January of this year...He died in his sleep...Although we were close...I just wish I had another day to spend with my cousin...Life is way tooo short for you to continue to refuse to reach out to your cousin Teresa...somewhere thru your journey of life...you have lost your sense of perspective in life...you have become complacent to the trials you went thru with your daughter...Try to go to Teresa house with flower in tow and an apology...you know...like the one you did for Caroline...after making a fool of yourself at the Brownstone...remain neutral between Joe/Melissa and Teresa, be sweet and charming to Teresa like you are to her friends..you can do it...Do it before it is tooooo late...because one minute we are here and the next minute we are gone

JMRN
JMRN

You confuse the heck out of me...there you are on screen saying you're trying, and during your talking head interviews, bashing your cousin Teresa, but loving vile Joe Gorga. And...now this blog, which you have to dish on Teresa again. One question, why would YOU be wondering or caring about Teresa and her magazines, when you were hardly even speaking to her? You've since jumped ship and joined the Manzo/Lauritas...for what?

Fdeck
Fdeck

sadly this was my favorite RH show... the family/friend drama in this and last season is pretty disrespectful of most of the "character" I think your one of the more normal ones but it truly is hard to come to grips with who is truly saying the truth and who is not.  I used to like caroline, and jacqueline, but im second guessing their true intent and their truth if any.  I think one has to step back and think what is the purpose of making so much out of nothing.  There is so much animosity from Caroline and I feel is rubbing off on Jaqueline and its not making me like them.  I unfortuneatly feel that Melissa is not all that cracked up to be either  - i had a sister-in-law like her and was happy when the divorce happend and her true colors even came out further.  Its funny the one that barks out the loudest (T) are prob more innocent then the one that acts so sweet and innocent (M, C,J) who usally end up being the biggest of the bullies.  I'M SO DISSAPOINTED in the whole show that it saddens me to not really want to watch and I am finally airing this on these blogs just because you all should know - there are many viewers who may not blog that feel the same, have class you can still get ratings and interest w/out so much gut-wrenching person family drama :(  SAD!

Charlotteatnight
Charlotteatnight

Kathy, Sometimes you have to cut family loose, Teresa has made it clear she only cares for Teresa.

sabbym76
sabbym76

In the end of the day you turned on your cousin thats not cool

MomLeader
MomLeader

 @Alycat9705

 Wow, I recognie your "handle" and you have been writing really mean things for a long, long time. I read all of the people who disagree with Kathy as repsectful, not warranting being called nasty names like you did. "Trolls"? Really? Teresa's fans lift her up on her page by writing nice comments, not by slamming other fan's and calling them names. Teresa has the overwhelming majority and calling all of thos people trolls is just immature. I happen to think Kathy is very hypocritical for writing she's upset with Teresa for not coming to her, when Teresa and Kathy have had a horrible realtionship all year on screen. Kathy was just writing about what the "hot topic"was and it was very transparent.  I also think Kathy is worse than Melissa because Teresa is her cousin, Melissa happened to have married in, Kathy grew up with Teresa, and jumped right on the bandwagon to just ruin her and really stick the knife in behind her back from the gate, all because Kathy wants a cookbook career too, and thinks she is more deserving. Maybe she is, that isn't the point. The point is she teamed up wih Melissa for two seasons and it was cold. . And Teresa never DID anything to Kathy, she just didn't. It's all out now, my glory we see what it's about, and Louise 123 wrote it brilliantly. Read her blog below. ALL of this mess is indeed about the "get" since Bethnyy Frankel hit big with skinny girl using this bravo vehicle. I resent being called a troll, because I, like the overwhelming majority of the fans, see right through Kathy's blog and motives.

tamara5
tamara5

 @OneEyedFlurry

 I agree Kathy so happy your family is fine. I love Rosie and think she might be the saviour of this show! 

 

beanie@STL1216
beanie@STL1216

 @louise123How can Teresa be taken "down" if she's done nothing WRONG? Nobody's wishing ANYONE harm...just the right to DISAGREE with Teresa and have HER respect the difference of opinion. (Like most grown-up people learn how to do.) Teresa DOES NOT seem to want to learn!!!! (Or maybe she's unable?)

That's not the fault of Kathy, Melissa, Jac or Caroline. And if Teresa feels like she doesnt WANT or NEED to learn anything new, then screw her, let Teresa go find another glob of "friends and families" who will "yes" her... til they finally get sick of her selfishness and lies and tell her where to get off. But Teresa will always find more kind-hearted people to jump on her bandwagon. (People she can manipulate and suck the life out of..... because she's always taking..... never giving.)

 

BettyBoob
BettyBoob

Wow, what a rant!  Is that you Teresa?

LauraLovesBravo
LauraLovesBravo

Sold her soul for money? This post is disgusting and hilarious. I couldn't disagree with you more. By the way, throughout your entire post, you kept saying "WE" and "US".......Who is this "WE" you are referring to? If you were being realistic, you'd say "In my opinion" ........None of your comments even have any truth to them. It is all based upon obvious malice for people you DO NOT EVEN KNOW!!!!!!  You do realize that they film over 80 hours worth of footage and cut that down? OBVIOUSLY we are only going to be showed certain parts. And OBVIOUSLY the storyline right now surrounds Teresa and OBVIOUSLY they are going to talk about it. So yes, we are going to see people with these magazines. Common Sense 101. BUT at the end of the day, Unless you are Teresa, who really cares how she got onto the show???? Who really cares if she writes a cookbook, wipes her a$$ with Teresas magazine interviews or WHATEVER it is she wants to do? How does it affect YOU and YOUR life? Oh, thats right, it doesn't. Regardless of what you think her intentions were, Why dont you take a look at some facts? Like, for instance, she just raised over $500K for her charity. Do you think people go on this show because they want their dirty secrets exposed or they want to fight with other women?? I am sure they put up with it and are involved when they need to be, but at the end of the day, This show is a PLATFORM to get exposure and do bigger and better things. (Case in point: Bethenny) ....At least Kathy is doing something meaningful with that platform. Do not let your love of all things Guidice blind you. You are being hateful.

nvt
nvt

 @louise123Very well said.I am sure many more agree

 

KatDelroy@gmail.com
KatDelroy@gmail.com

 @louise123 Wow, you said everything I was feeling. Thanks for that, I am not the only one. I think Kathy is the most dangerous personality because of her passive aggressive ways.  People won't see her nice act as fake. 

gessie
gessie

 @Charlotteatnight No, Teresa has made it clear that she will no longer put up with family and "friends" who have the full weight and blessing of Bravo, use her as a punching bag and a stepping stone for their fifteen min.

riddhi
riddhi

 @BettyBoob

well I am not Teresa and I agree to everything louise123 wrote

SunnyAZ_1
SunnyAZ_1

 @LauraLovesBravo IMO (to be politically correct) I don't feel the post was of the mark.  Kathy did come on this show to make money, Kathy does want a dessert cook book deal, Kathy does make passive aggressive digs about Teresa,  Kathy did conspire behind Teresa's back and Kathy, by her actions, is not LOYAL to her cousin.  Seems crystal clear to me.    The fact that they are all consumed by tabloid magazines is suspect to me.  Kathy, Melissa, Jaqueline and Caroline are the one's throwing out the names of these magazines and holding up the cover page.  Being paid to advertise much?  Making money off your friends/relatives woes much?  I'm not saying Teresa is innocent but she clearly did not ask or want any of this to become public, but with the help of her family it did.  Let's see how the other cast members do when their personal lives are finally dissected.  In Melissa's words "  KARMA is a B****!"

 

D_Nichs
D_Nichs

 @LauraLovesBravo

 Its interesting you have a problem with her using the word "we" then turn around and use it yourself in the exact same context. Its really ridiculous to attack another persons opinion on a blog.. You are the one being hateful and a hypocrite to boot not the original poster.Imagine that, exactly like the people you think you are defending.  lol

louise123
louise123

 @KatDelroy@gmail.com

 I know,,,it's sad.It's all about the "get" now on these shows since Betheny Frankel, BUT, Teresa arrived ta hers organically; meaning we steered her to cookbooks. I love how people write "ignore all the Teresa''" and then calls them/us a mean name and says we're dilusional. LOL,  Um, yea, riiight, and they proceed to then say they are the ones with class on this show. I happen to be a pediatrician with a successful practice.This show is my guilty pleasue and I am just appauled at what these women have done to another woman, nevrmind a family member for fame and money. It's really sad, and I'm not name calling at fans. The Melissa, Kathy fans are.

beanie@STL1216
beanie@STL1216

 @gessie Oh, I forgot... this IS the Teresa Show, after all!!!! Poor, poor helpless, defenseless Teresa... she's just a poor victim... LAUGHING all the way to the bank, disregarding all she steps on in the way!  

 

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

 @D_Nichs

 "D-Nichs", you are spot on. Lauralovesbravo? omg, please, what a hypocrite-THEIR blog was disgusting and hilarious, talk about knowing people who lives don't affect them, yeesh, "LaurelovesBravo" is telling us how much money Kathy just made, I bet "louise123" doesn't look up their latest 24 hour movement and actions. lol.  And I think louise DID talk about facts, quite well actually and obviously people agree with her, look at the reaction it got. Of couse now, people will fill up the "remarks" but the honest, gut reaction after her post got more return comments than any other, saying she said everything they were feeling. I agree, I don't think "louise123" was being hateful at all, "lauraslovesbravo" was with sarcasm and ridicule. "louise123" was reacting to all the facts, and can see the big picture, duh.  Why is it the people behind the Melissa group like hearing just horrible things about Teresa, and write them, but if someone questions them, they go all nasty.  Hey Louise, your blog was spot on and that's why it caused you to be attacked. I mean the blogger is attacking you for saying "we",--can you say reaching?????? You were so RIGHT ON THE MONEY,and taht's why it got the reaction from the blogger that it did.Well said!!!