Kathy Wakile

Kathy Wakile loved the rush you get while surfing.

on Aug 13, 20120

Hi friends. Summer has really been flying by so fast, and I hope that everyone has been enjoying it. We’re wrapping up our time at the Jersey shore this week, so I’m going to make this brief. I don’t want to spend any more time than I have to at my computer and miss the best time of year here!

Talking about the shore, did you all catch the view of Half Moon Bay in California? How silly did we all look getting ready to surf? We were clearly out of our element, and wet suits are not my thing, but thankfully we had them. We all got tossed around by the waves, but I was determined to do my best. I can’t believe the rush you get when you get up and ride the wave. It was exhilarating and very gratifying. Lesson learned: It’s never too late to try something new; try it and surprise yourself.

123 comments
tjohannesen
tjohannesen

I just adore you and your family Kathy!!  You're by far the most down to earth housewife and you and Richie are doing an amazing job raising respectful, grateful and compassionate children!

Lex1020@twitter.com
Lex1020@twitter.com

Please your husband hates Teresa and Joe just be truthful. I doubt he is sorry about any nasty thing hae has ever said about them. The only reason  you asked Caroline and Jacqueline so many questions is so you could find out dirt Teresa. you try and play the godd guy but you are a snake and the fact that now you know what was going onwith the phone call and you are still saying she left you out on purpose is ridiculous. You should be thanking Teresa anyone even cares about what you say or do if it was not for her no one would even know who you are.  I dont think we will have to worry to much about seeing you anymore anyway.  i think your time is coming to a close as soon as they find someone new I think you  will be the first to go.  Stop pretending to be sweet and inccocent in everything.

charlie@company
charlie@company

Kathy........I just love your classiness & Ritchie's sense of humor!!!!! Joe & Teresa can take a lesson from you guys on having love & respect in a marriage.......something their marriage is seriously lacking & will never have, as Joe is a complete moron & Teresa is on the biggest ego trip ever & in soooo much denial!!!!! She treats her friends & family in the poor manner that Joe treats her. The disrespectful language that he used on the phone about her to his Mistress was just downright discapable, but nothing surprises me anymore about both of their behaviors!!!!!

valgal62
valgal62

O.M.G. You are such a pot stirrer. You knew Teresa was on Carolines last nerve. Teresa did not toast everyone at the table. She thanked her hoast, she wished Caroline a happy birthday and toasted her brother and wife that they shared a r.v. With. Do you hear your talking head interview, and the things you and your husband say. You dont want a relationship with Teresa because she is not in the incrowd. You are so despereate for Carolines approval, it is sickening to watch. I got a little tip for you, until you start standing behind your family, no matter if she likes them or not, you will never gain her respect.gs

texasmissy35
texasmissy35

Kathy, I'm really proud of the way you and Teresa handled the issue regarding who's recipe came from whom.  You set a great example for the show.  I didn't see the toast as a blatant insult, but it definitely became that way with Caroline going on and on about it.  I think that Teresa has a lot going on right now and by the looks of tonight's episode, more than SHE even knew about, but give her a bit of a break.  She's working on several relationships and family is always there for you.  Do I think you deserve to be at the end of the line of her affections and take a bunch of crap in the meantime?  No, of course not, but she'll realize what a gem you are when she's dealing with her hubby's indescretions.  You'll be there for her and she'll come around to realize who the most important people in her life are.  She's in a bad place, and from the ash, she will rise stronger....because of all of you! 

zocola
zocola

Kathy if you can't see by watching this show that Caroline is the real trouble maker then you are blind. Remember how she treated you and then blamed her actions on Teresa. She is the real fake. Richie is funny sometimes but so gross other times.

valgal62
valgal62

Sorry more cookiegate, I guess for those of us that know exactly what you did, it is very disturbing. I found it very telling when Teresa confronted you in the r.v. Your eyes ger really big, I personally think because she called you out on your very rude behavior, but anyway you smile and tell her thank for bringing this up, and not letting this eat at you, I'm glad we talked (big smile) talking head interview interjected right after that comment, where you say "back the f*** off. I GUESS YOU WERENT AS SINCERE AS YOU WERE PRETENDING TO BE!orry more cookie gate

nuttyz
nuttyz

I think the whole "amy of idiots" comment (whether made by you or other loyal fans) is quite unwarranted. Just because someone likes Teresa better over other castmates or empathizes with her in this particular situation doesn't mean they are "idiots". Every show on tv, every cast member on tv has fans for various reasons. That's why these shows are sill on air and do well. Does that make every person watching this show or every fan out there an "idiot" just because they don't share the same views?

 

It's called having a personal opinion. Everyone sees different things in people, different things they relate to or gravitate towards (let's not forget everyone has good and bad in them). Everyone should express their opinions in a respectful manner. Especially you out of all (being a tv personality) should respect the fact that the only reason you are on tv and getting paid for it is because of the viewers (the ones that are in favor of you as well as the ones that are not) . After all, Bravo wouldn't have a reason to have you all ladies on the show if you weren't creating some sort of reaction out of people (good or bad).

 

And before I get marked off as another "idiot in the army", let me say I'm not an all out Teresa fan. I do think she has her faults and I do believe she is responsible in some part for all the family issues and drama that is going on just like all of you other family members are as well...it takes two to tango!

 

However, it's never fun to watch four grown women bullying and attacking one person for every little thing possible. I, for one, am not a big fan of it.

 

 

 

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

to motorcitywife...there is no need to belittle everyone on this post because you so happen to disagree with our point of view...see there is a big difference between you and me...you call yourself a fan of kathy...Im not a fan of anyone...I call it how I see it and hear it...Iam fair and honest...sooooo next time you try to call someone a liar then I suggest you take off your rose colored glass's when it comes to kathy... and when you are capable of doing just that...then...and only then...will you be able to speak the truth and see the truth...Remember the  truth will always set you free! That is...if you want to be set free!  Take care now.

 

to mom leader,  While Kathy and Melissa are playing Teresa....Caroline is playing Kathy and Melissa...

Have a good day

Christiann52
Christiann52

As one of the ArmyofIdiots, I think I deserve an explanantion for your tweet.  Your silence is very telling.

KrissyB
KrissyB

Kathy, watch outfor Caroline's meddling. She's not happy that your family is getting along. Wow was that apparent.

andebrown70
andebrown70

Short and sweet!  You rock!  Love you, mean it!

limeybean
limeybean

Hi Kathy - You are an amazingly positive person, and I love your spirit...You always are so kind, even when others are not :)

 

Just wondering - are you planning on putting a cookbook together in the future?  I'm a huge dessert fan, in particular...and I'd love your recipes!  (and your mothers! lol)

 

Stay you - you're a beautiful person xx

PaigeT1027
PaigeT1027

Kathy!  I LOVE YOU!  You are my favorite person on the show!  You and Rich!  Keep on keeping it REAL!  I told Teresa to back up off you on your mom's recipes!  I BELIEVE you over her ANYDAY!  LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU! 

rockinrobintil
rockinrobintil

Please address the infamous "tweet" and the "army of idiots" comment! I think we deserve an explanation!

LisaPH
LisaPH

ATTENTION KATHY!! I'm quite concerned. I can't get a clear picture of  your husbands hands, but  your husband looks like he has "clubbing"  of the ends of his fingers!! It can be indicative of a serious heart or lung problem!! Like I said...I can't get a clear picture, but have him bring it up to his doctor.

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

kathy...well...Caroline could not control Jacqueline after she and teresa had the talk in the RV so she decided to go to her next victim "plant that seed" of doubt in your head by telling you that Teresa was moving closer to Melissa than you...and you fell for it! Caroline is good...I would have believed it myself tooooo...if I had not watched a episode of you and teresa having a great time surfing together..I have watched Caroline belittle you...bully you...put her digs in about you, put her digs in about Teresa and Gia and Melisssa and you keep buying into it....I have never heard Caroline say anything nice about your kids or you...and you do have some nice kids...Just saying..Caroline is always putting you in your place...and I just hope one day you wake up and smell the flowers..before it is tooooo late...Caroline is playing you and obviously she has outsmarted you!

TiffM
TiffM

Bottom line: Kathy is jealous that Melissa and Teresa are getting along and she can't be apart of that. Neither has included her in their new relationship, so she has no choice put to make passive-aggressive digs and to run to Caroleone for support. 

 

louise123
louise123

Well if Rosie was upset with you being called a traitor" before, she must be miserable now. Well maybe, if even SHE hadn't gone to Teresa's house, then come back to your house, where shocker of all shockers, you and The Gorgas were waiting to rip Teresa apart again, and MAYBE everyone hadn't continually forged ahead with the elimination route for your own $$ gain, maybe this all wouldn't have played out this way. It's just way too transparent Kathy---really transparent.

2ptk2jz
2ptk2jz

Has anyone else notice Kathy peculiar way of phrasing "wrapping up our time "

at the shore .This strikes me as a hint that they are actually filming season 5 with

the four bullies and their families. NO TERESA

All were invite to Melissa daughters birthday party last week...NO TERESA.

All 4 of the families are at the shore together and sharing hosting events,NO TERESA.

Lots of chatter on twitter with pictures of the four bully women together in front of Bravo banners NO TERESA

Then there are the multiple charity events where the four bully women are

fronting the charities banner they support and NO TERESA.

I predict that Bravo is filming and doing so without Teresa and her family.

They must love the fans of Teresa for being so committed to her that have

booted her from the show.

biancala
biancala

Ok-for all you passive/aggressive lovers!!

 

"Passive aggressive behavior should not be confused with passive resistance (also called conscientious objection). Passive resistance is a rational response to demands that may simply be disagreed with."

Teresa gets soooo many of these things wrong-so please can we put the passive/aggressive statements to rest!!!

morgank2
morgank2

What is your relationship TODAY with teresa,jac,melissa and caroline??

ChaCha2@peace
ChaCha2@peace

Kathy,

Congrats on concurring the California surf!   You kept workin' it girl, 'til you got it right.  Welcome to Cali.  Best wishes to Victoria as she makes the big transition to college.  She and your son will do well as they are blessed with loving parents and a support system that cares about them.

The "haters" are as usual out in mass, screw 'em.  Enjoy the remaining days of summer.  Love your recipes BTW.  With your patience and skill, I believe you would do fantastic with your own cooking videos or show.

Oh yeah, you were one of the few cast members who dressed appropriatelly for the Russian River adventure.  A good hate, boots or water shoes are smart camping attire.

 

kat.bostonsteines
kat.bostonsteines

I like how mild and un"passive aggressive" this blog is. But remember, just because Theresa did not mention you in her toast it is nothing to worry over. Apparently her lack of acknowledgement to you is her way of still holding a "grudge". The only thing I wish you correct is the  "Army of idiots going to hell" remark. EVERYONE, whether you agree or not, are entitled to their opinions. By you calling them out and calling them names then it puts you on the same mean girl level as Theresa and Caroline. Sometimes you can speak volumes with out you saying a word. Let Theresa have this moment with her brother and his family. When she really needs all her family, and it looks like it will be very soon, then you can slam the door in her face and say "Why come to me now?" Karma is a dish served best frozen and Theresa is about to get a taste of what is to come.

simeon
simeon

"Do you think Teresa was being sincere?"

 

Please! Stop! You are deliberately causing problems and I appreciate that Melissa did not take the bait.

Juli1964
Juli1964

Hey Kath, Open a desert shop already will ya! You should have a website so ppl can order them online. They look soooo good but I'm not driving to Jersey to to visit your shop. I'd end up using all my desert money on as! Lol

cjoanne
cjoanne

Nice blog.  Thank you for keeping it positive.  

 

About the tweet.  I was disappointed that you did that.  When you stoop to their level you lose credibility with your fans.  Don't fall into that trap.  "Army of idiots"?  maybe they are but the key word is "idiot"  You will never change that so you need to ignore them.  It has been shown in different polls that the viewers like you alot.  Never mind about the "army"  I'm not so sure about that anyways.  I think it is the same group of "people" who post over and over again.  You have done a good job of not engaging them and you should continue to do that.  The "army" may think you are listening or even care about what they say but most people know better.  

 

Be nice.

selena78
selena78

I sometimes don't get along with my cousins or even my sister, but no one will ever be allowed to talk bad about them...I will always take their side against someone outside my family whether they are right or wrong...they are my blood plain and simple and I stand by them even when they piss me off...I am an Italian Jersey girl and I thought this is the way we all think guess I was wrong

Nicki.G
Nicki.G

Kathy Why do you have to make faces when Teresa & Joe are making a toast? Why do you have to ask Melissa if she thinks Teresa is being genuine? Why do you get upset that she doesn't include you.? Your time will come when is ready to work things out with you. She can only work on one relationship at a time & it's important she fixes the relationship with her brother. You're a big girl don't get your feelings hurt. Stay positive & have patience.

ocdeb65
ocdeb65

@KrissyB I don't see it that way at all. I think she's just tired of being in the middle of it all.

ocdeb65
ocdeb65

@Debbieinmissouricitytx I think you're mistaken about Caroline and her intentions....and she hasn't been anything but nice to Kathie.

Diane69802
Diane69802

 @TiffM

 Wrong!  Kathy has been nothing but supportive o Theresa and Melissa getting back together....Melissa ad Kathy will always be closer than Melissa and Theresa because Theresa can't be trusted

maritzka
maritzka

 @2ptk2jz Truthfully, I enjoy watching much more when there is NO Teresa,  

gessie
gessie

 @biancala Sorry, but if you look up the definition of passive-aggressive, there is a picture of Kathy Wakile in the dictionary..  

randie
randie

@biancala

"...Passive resistance is a rational response to demands that may simply be disagreed with."   Passive resistance...  Demands? What demands?

 

Clearly, you do not understand  the definition of passive aggressive behavior. Anyone can copy and paste from Wikipedia. My suggestion, look at the definition of passive aggressive behaviors again.

 

Teresa and the "passive/aggressive lovers" are  correct in the conclusion that Kathy OFTEN exhibit's passive aggressive behaviors. She is the QUEEN of subtle digs. 

 

MomLeader
MomLeader

 @cjoanne

 

"their level"? Nice try. Teresa has not ONCE tweeted or said anything negative, NOR has she said anything mean or nasty in the talking head's chairs. The only time Teresa has said anything is when defending a direct attack. KATHY used every talking heads chair they would let her SIT DOWN in, to rip Teresa apart, and so did her husband. They sunk to a level week after week, after week with really cruel direct hits--- and they encourgaed twitteres to slam Teresa's family- there's your "army" of idiots. Teresa fans are positive and hate to tell you, the overwhelming majority. I dont see you getting much support here from your "army."

MeganNYC
MeganNYC

 @Motorcitywife  @JerseyG

 

I don't know, Motorcitywife.  Don't you think it's odd that he's all up in her business.  All the time?  Seems odd to me too. 

 

mzjulesAZ
mzjulesAZ

 @Alycat9705 Yes I do blame her.  Regardless of what anyone thinks of the cast of the show, we are the viewers and in essence without us she won't get a paycheck as we won't watch or buy her products.  She needs to make nice with Tre and get Twitter 101 lessons including how to treat all fans of the show.

valgal62
valgal62

@randie @biancala Passive Aggressive describes Kathy to a T. :-)

danotoriousr
danotoriousr

 @randie thanks. i love when someone who thinks they are educating the masses are actually wrong. lol. without teresa.................who'd tune in?

mzjulesAZ
mzjulesAZ

 @Motorcitywife I actually agree with you on most of this. I have no validation/confirmation of what the producer's do but I agree -- I'm sure they are stirring pots as much as possible.

eroxgarcia
eroxgarcia

 @pjs Well not to Kathy anyway... Every time Teresa tries to get close to Kathy or apologizes...bam...another passive/aggressive dig.

Every episode.