I just adore you and your family Kathy!!  You're by far the most down to earth housewife and you and Richie are doing an amazing job raising respectful, grateful and compassionate children!

Please your husband hates Teresa and Joe just be truthful. I doubt he is sorry about any nasty thing hae has ever said about them. The only reason  you asked Caroline and Jacqueline so many questions is so you could find out dirt Teresa. you try and play the godd guy but you are a snake and the fact that now you know what was going onwith the phone call and you are still saying she left you out on purpose is ridiculous. You should be thanking Teresa anyone even cares about what you say or do if it was not for her no one would even know who you are.  I dont think we will have to worry to much about seeing you anymore anyway.  i think your time is coming to a close as soon as they find someone new I think you  will be the first to go.  Stop pretending to be sweet and inccocent in everything.

Kathy........I just love your classiness & Ritchie's sense of humor!!!!! Joe & Teresa can take a lesson from you guys on having love & respect in a marriage.......something their marriage is seriously lacking & will never have, as Joe is a complete moron & Teresa is on the biggest ego trip ever & in soooo much denial!!!!! 

O.M.G. You are such a pot stirrer. You knew Teresa was on Carolines last nerve. Teresa did not toast everyone at the table. She thanked her hoast, she wished Caroline a happy birthday and toasted her brother and wife that they shared a r.v. With. Do you hear your talking head interview, and the things you and your husband say. You dont want a relationship with Teresa because she is not in the incrowd. You are so despereate for Carolines approval, it is sickening to watch. I got a little tip for you, until you start standing behind your family, no matter if she likes them or not, you will never gain her respect.gs

Kathy, I'm really proud of the way you and Teresa handled the issue regarding who's recipe came from whom.  You set a great example for the show.  I didn't see the toast as a blatant insult, but it definitely became that way with Caroline going on and on about it.  I think that Teresa has a lot going on right now and by the looks of tonight's episode, more than SHE even knew about, but give her a bit of a break.  She's working on several relationships and family is always there for you.  Do I think you deserve to be at the end of the line of her affections and take a bunch of crap in the meantime?  No, of course not, but she'll realize what a gem you are when she's dealing with her hubby's indescretions.  You'll be there for her and she'll come around to realize who the most important people in her life are.  She's in a bad place, and from the ash, she will rise stronger....because of all of you! 

Kathy if you can't see by watching this show that Caroline is the real trouble maker then you are blind. Remember how she treated you and then blamed her actions on Teresa. She is the real fake. Richie is funny sometimes but so gross other times.

Sorry more cookiegate, I guess for those of us that know exactly what you did, it is very disturbing. I found it very telling when Teresa confronted you in the r.v. Your eyes ger really big, I personally think because she called you out on your very rude behavior, but anyway you smile and tell her thank for bringing this up, and not letting this eat at you, I'm glad we talked (big smile) talking head interview interjected right after that comment, where you say "back the f*** off. I GUESS YOU WERENT AS SINCERE AS YOU WERE PRETENDING TO BE!orry more cookie gate

I think the whole "amy of idiots" comment (whether made by you or other loyal fans) is quite unwarranted. Just because someone likes Teresa better over other castmates or empathizes with her in this particular situation doesn't mean they are "idiots". Every show on tv, every cast member on tv has fans for various reasons. That's why these shows are sill on air and do well. Does that make every person watching this show or every fan out there an "idiot" just because they don't share the same views?

It's called having a personal opinion. Everyone sees different things in people, different things they relate to or gravitate towards (let's not forget everyone has good and bad in them). Everyone should express their opinions in a respectful manner. Especially you out of all (being a tv personality) should respect the fact that the only reason you are on tv and getting paid for it is because of the viewers (the ones that are in favor of you as well as the ones that are not) . After all, Bravo wouldn't have a reason to have you all ladies on the show if you weren't creating some sort of reaction out of people (good or bad).

And before I get marked off as another "idiot in the army", let me say I'm not an all out Teresa fan. I do think she has her faults and I do believe she is responsible in some part for all the family issues and drama that is going on just like all of you other family members are as well...it takes two to tango!

However, it's never fun to watch four grown women bullying and attacking one person for every little thing possible. I, for one, am not a big fan of it.

to motorcitywife...there is no need to belittle everyone on this post because you so happen to disagree with our point of view...see there is a big difference between you and me...you call yourself a fan of kathy...Im not a fan of anyone...I call it how I see it and hear it...Iam fair and honest...sooooo next time you try to call someone a liar then I suggest you take off your rose colored glass's when it comes to kathy... and when you are capable of doing just that...then...and only then...will you be able to speak the truth and see the truth...Remember the  truth will always set you free! That is...if you want to be set free!  Take care now.

to mom leader,  While Kathy and Melissa are playing Teresa....Caroline is playing Kathy and Melissa...

Have a good day

As one of the ArmyofIdiots, I think I deserve an explanantion for your tweet.  Your silence is very telling.

Kathy, watch outfor Caroline's meddling. She's not happy that your family is getting along. Wow was that apparent.

Short and sweet!  You rock!  Love you, mean it!

Hi Kathy - You are an amazingly positive person, and I love your spirit...You always are so kind, even when others are not :)

Just wondering - are you planning on putting a cookbook together in the future?  I'm a huge dessert fan, in particular...and I'd love your recipes!  (and your mothers! lol)

Stay you - you're a beautiful person xx

Kathy!  I LOVE YOU!  You are my favorite person on the show!  You and Rich!  Keep on keeping it REAL!  I told Teresa to back up off you on your mom's recipes!  I BELIEVE you over her ANYDAY!  LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU! 

Please address the infamous "tweet" and the "army of idiots" comment! I think we deserve an explanation!

ATTENTION KATHY!! I'm quite concerned. I can't get a clear picture of  your husbands hands, but  your husband looks like he has "clubbing"  of the ends of his fingers!! It can be indicative of a serious heart or lung problem!! Like I said...I can't get a clear picture, but have him bring it up to his doctor.

kathy...well...Caroline could not control Jacqueline after she and teresa had the talk in the RV so she decided to go to her next victim "plant that seed" of doubt in your head by telling you that Teresa was moving closer to Melissa than you...and you fell for it! Caroline is good...I would have believed it myself tooooo...if I had not watched a episode of you and teresa having a great time surfing together..I have watched Caroline belittle you...bully you...put her digs in about you, put her digs in about Teresa and Gia and Melisssa and you keep buying into it....I have never heard Caroline say anything nice about your kids or you...and you do have some nice kids...Just saying..Caroline is always putting you in your place...and I just hope one day you wake up and smell the flowers..before it is tooooo late...Caroline is playing you and obviously she has outsmarted you!

Bottom line: Kathy is jealous that Melissa and Teresa are getting along and she can't be apart of that. Neither has included her in their new relationship, so she has no choice put to make passive-aggressive digs and to run to Caroleone for support. 

Well if Rosie was upset with you being called a traitor" before, she must be miserable now. Well maybe, if even SHE hadn't gone to Teresa's house, then come back to your house, where shocker of all shockers, you and The Gorgas were waiting to rip Teresa apart again, and MAYBE everyone hadn't continually forged ahead with the elimination route for your own $$ gain, maybe this all wouldn't have played out this way. It's just way too transparent Kathy---really transparent.

Has anyone else notice Kathy peculiar way of phrasing "wrapping up our time "

at the shore .This strikes me as a hint that they are actually filming season 5 with

the four bullies and their families. NO TERESA

All were invite to Melissa daughters birthday party last week...NO TERESA.

All 4 of the families are at the shore together and sharing hosting events,NO TERESA.

Lots of chatter on twitter with pictures of the four bully women together in front of Bravo banners NO TERESA

Then there are the multiple charity events where the four bully women are

fronting the charities banner they support and NO TERESA.

I predict that Bravo is filming and doing so without Teresa and her family.

They must love the fans of Teresa for being so committed to her that have

booted her from the show.

Ok-for all you passive/aggressive lovers!!

"Passive aggressive behavior should not be confused with passive resistance (also called conscientious objection). Passive resistance is a rational response to demands that may simply be disagreed with."

Teresa gets soooo many of these things wrong-so please can we put the passive/aggressive statements to rest!!!

What is your relationship TODAY with teresa,jac,melissa and caroline??

Kathy,

Congrats on concurring the California surf!   You kept workin' it girl, 'til you got it right.  Welcome to Cali.  Best wishes to Victoria as she makes the big transition to college.  She and your son will do well as they are blessed with loving parents and a support system that cares about them.

The "haters" are as usual out in mass, screw 'em.  Enjoy the remaining days of summer.  Love your recipes BTW.  With your patience and skill, I believe you would do fantastic with your own cooking videos or show.

Oh yeah, you were one of the few cast members who dressed appropriatelly for the Russian River adventure.  A good hate, boots or water shoes are smart camping attire.

I like how mild and un"passive aggressive" this blog is. But remember, just because Theresa did not mention you in her toast it is nothing to worry over. Apparently her lack of acknowledgement to you is her way of still holding a "grudge". The only thing I wish you correct is the  "Army of idiots going to hell" remark. EVERYONE, whether you agree or not, are entitled to their opinions. By you calling them out and calling them names then it puts you on the same mean girl level as Theresa and Caroline. Sometimes you can speak volumes with out you saying a word. Let Theresa have this moment with her brother and his family. When she really needs all her family, and it looks like it will be very soon, then you can slam the door in her face and say "Why come to me now?" Karma is a dish served best frozen and Theresa is about to get a taste of what is to come.

"Do you think Teresa was being sincere?"

Please! Stop! You are deliberately causing problems and I appreciate that Melissa did not take the bait.