Seriously Melissa, you need to give up singing and your "super star" career. Your songs are obviously written by some money hungry producer and do not come from your heart and none of your songs are relevant to your life. You are by no means a rock star no where near a rock star you play no instruments or even write your own songs. You don't know the first thing about being a rock star nor do you know one thing about rock stars and I bet you can't even name one rock star or rock song. You have no clue about Janis Joplin, led zeppelin or, jimi Hendrix. So please stop embarrassing yourself. Your a typical new jersey girl who's a stay at home mom who hit the jack pot by marrying joe who obviously does some sort of illegal money making scheme to get the house and cars you guys have it's so obvious there's no way he's acquired that much money doing what he does. Also hate to break it to you but he most deffinatley cheats on you I know girls who have slept with him and I've seen him leave numerous clubs and massage places with younger women. You have disgraced yourself and your family and his family by joining the show to get your name out there and your sick attempt at trying to become famous. It's really sad to see people sell there soul to the devil for fame and fortune so stop thanking Jesus and start thanking lucifer because the way you live your life is the way of the devil and you commit the 7 sins daily. Also the way you dress for a mother and wife is very provacitive so very innapropriate your husband and kids should be ashamed. Move on with your life and get out of the entertainment industry. And this next saying goes out to all the new jersey house wives --> just because you have money doesn't mean you have class!!! Ciao putana ce la vie.

Melissa, my feelings has always been that you are a very nice person who has stopped at nothing to try and get Joey and his family together. My reason is very simple you've not done or said anything that would make me believe that you are less than truthful. My feelings won't change unless you get caught up in a lie or do something sneaky. Until then I believe that you and Joey and your family are awesome.

It's sad to see that people are going to hate you no matter what, they don't have a reason they don't have any back up to prove that your less than honest. I hope that you also know that they are just repeating Teresa's dumb remarks and running with it like its the truth. Teresa has been caught up in telling lies, trying to meddle in your personal life with her brother. Please look at it as nothing more than Bulls***. Think of their brains being of the same IQ as Teresa's.

I've of course heard Joey say that therapy isn't believe in as far as his family is concerned and I do understand but I also see that he's willing to go through with it for the sake of his relationship with his sister and try to mend it. It's clear to see that he really does want to get the necessary help in order to save it. You don't have to say to much about Kim D because most people have her number, she's not even close to being a good person, she is just going to add fuel to the fire. At this point it says a lot about how Teresa really doesn't have any close friends as she once did if she's hanging around a person like Kim D. I think about the night that you got in an argument with Teresa and as Teresa was trying to leave Kim said ( You know what I would do run them over ) what a great friend she has there in her corner, she's as crazy as Teresa is or she wouldn't want to have anything to do with Teresa. I can't see normal people having a relationship with Teresa all due to her behavior. I realize that you are family and it's not so simple for you to just walk away completely. I do however, believe that it would be the best thing for you and your family to do so, don't leave the show. She's not make the effort that you and your husband have made in trying to salvage some type of relationship with her. It's also clear that Teresa doesn't care about you, it's jealousy that's just a fact. I seriously have to give you props for hanging in there as long as you have both you and Joey, the situation is so horrible, Teresa wants to afflict nothing but misery.

Just remember that these people that are saying stupid things are just not worth the time to read any of them. If it starts out negative then just move on to another post, let them all continue to look like a bunch of Idiots. You and Joey bring humor to the show. Teresa's Joe is beyond disgusting, he drinks to much he did say something so vile to Greg that just wasn't funny period. He's a fat ugly moron. Hang in there...

Melissa, my feelings has always been that you are a very nice person who has stopped at nothing to try and get Joey and his family together. My reason is very simple you've not done or said anything that would make me believe that you are less than truthful. My feelings won't change unless you get caught up in a lie or do something sneaky. Until then I believe that you and Joey and your family are awesome.

It's sad to see that people are going to hate you no matter what, they don't have a reason they don't have any back up to prove that your less than honest. I hope that you also know that they are just repeating Teresa's dumb remarks and running with it like its the truth. Teresa has been caught up in telling lies, trying to meddle in your personal life with her brother. Please look at it as nothing more than Bulls***. Think of their brains being of the same IQ as Teresa's.

I've of course heard Joey say that therapy isn't believe in as far as his family is concerned and I do understand but I also see that he's willing to go through with it for the sake of his relationship with his sister and try to mend it. It's clear to see that he really does want to get the necessary help in order to save it. You don't have to say to much about Kim D because most people have her number, she's not even close to being a good person, she is just going to add fuel to the fire. At this point it says a lot about how Teresa really doesn't have any close friends as she once did if she's hanging around a person like Kim D. I think about the night that you got in an argument with Teresa and as Teresa was trying to leave Kim said ( You know what I would do run them over ) what a great friend she has there in her corner, she's as crazy as Teresa is or she wouldn't want to have anything to do with Teresa. I can't see normal people having a relationship with Teresa all due to her behavior. I realize that you are family and it's not so simple for you to just walk away completely. I do however, believe that it would be the best thing for you and your family to do so, don't leave the show. She's not make the effort that you and your husband have made in trying to salvage some type of relationship with her. It's also clear that Teresa doesn't care about you, it's jealousy that's just a fact. I seriously have to give you props for hanging in there as long as you have both you and Joey, the situation is so horrible, Teresa wants to afflict nothing but misery.

Just remember that these people that are saying stupid things are just not worth the time to read any of them. If it starts out negative then just move on to another post, let them all continue to look like a bunch of Idiots. You and Joey bring humor to the show. Teresa's Joe is beyond disgusting, he drinks to much he did say something so vile to Greg that just wasn't funny period. He's a fat ugly moron. Hang in there...

Melissa, my feelings has always been that you are a very nice person who has stopped at nothing to try and get Joey and his family together. My reason is very simple you've not done or said anything that would make me believe that you are less than truthful. My feelings won't change unless you get caught up in a lie or do something sneaky. Until then I believe that you and Joey and your family are awesome.

It's sad to see that people are going to hate you no matter what, they don't have a reason they don't have any back up to prove that your less than honest. I hope that you also know that they are just repeating Teresa's dumb remarks and running with it like its the truth. Teresa has been caught up in telling lies, trying to meddle in your personal life with her brother. Please look at it as nothing more than Bulls***. Think of their brains being of the same IQ as Teresa's.

I've of course heard Joey say that therapy isn't believe in as far as his family is concerned and I do understand but I also see that he's willing to go through with it for the sake of his relationship with his sister and try to mend it. It's clear to see that he really does want to get the necessary help in order to save it. You don't have to say to much about Kim D because most people have her number, she's not even close to being a good person, she is just going to add fuel to the fire. At this point it says a lot about how Teresa really doesn't have any close friends as she once did if she's hanging around a person like Kim D. I think about the night that you got in an argument with Teresa and as Teresa was trying to leave Kim said ( You know what I would do run them over ) what a great friend she has there in her corner, she's as crazy as Teresa is or she wouldn't want to have anything to do with Teresa. I can't see normal people having a relationship with Teresa all due to her behavior. I realize that you are family and it's not so simple for you to just walk away completely. I do however, believe that it would be the best thing for you and your family to do so, don't leave the show. She's not make the effort that you and your husband have made in trying to salvage some type of relationship with her. It's also clear that Teresa doesn't care about you, it's jealousy that's just a fact. I seriously have to give you props for hanging in there as long as you have both you and Joey, the situation is so horrible, Teresa wants to afflict nothing but misery.

Just remember that these people that are saying stupid things are just not worth the time to read any of them. If it starts out negative then just move on to another post, let them all continue to look like a bunch of Idiots. You and Joey bring humor to the show. Teresa's Joe is beyond disgusting, he drinks to much he did say something so vile to Greg that just wasn't funny period. He's a fat ugly moron. Hang in there...

Melissa, my feelings has always been that you are a very nice person who has stopped at nothing to try and get Joey and his family together. My reason is very simple you've not done or said anything that would make me believe that you are less than truthful. My feelings won't change unless you get caught up in a lie or do something sneaky. Until then I believe that you and Joey and your family are awesome.

It's sad to see that people are going to hate you no matter what, they don't have a reason they don't have any back up to prove that your less than honest. I hope that you also know that they are just repeating Teresa's dumb remarks and running with it like its the truth. Teresa has been caught up in telling lies, trying to meddle in your personal life with her brother. Please look at it as nothing more than Bulls***. Think of their brains being of the same IQ as Teresa's.

I've of course heard Joey say that therapy isn't believe in as far as his family is concerned and I do understand but I also see that he's willing to go through with it for the sake of his relationship with his sister and try to mend it. It's clear to see that he really does want to get the necessary help in order to save it. You don't have to say to much about Kim D because most people have her number, she's not even close to being a good person, she is just going to add fuel to the fire. At this point it says a lot about how Teresa really doesn't have any close friends as she once did if she's hanging around a person like Kim D. I think about the night that you got in an argument with Teresa and as Teresa was trying to leave Kim said ( You know what I would do run them over ) what a great friend she has there in her corner, she's as crazy as Teresa is or she wouldn't want to have anything to do with Teresa. I can't see normal people having a relationship with Teresa all due to her behavior. I realize that you are family and it's not so simple for you to just walk away completely. I do however, believe that it would be the best thing for you and your family to do so, don't leave the show. She's not make the effort that you and your husband have made in trying to salvage some type of relationship with her. It's also clear that Teresa doesn't care about you, it's jealousy that's just a fact. I seriously have to give you props for hanging in there as long as you have both you and Joey, the situation is so horrible, Teresa wants to afflict nothing but misery.

Just remember that these people that are saying stupid things are just not worth the time to read any of them. If it starts out negative then just move on to another post, let them all continue to look like a bunch of Idiots. You and Joey bring humor to the show. Teresa's Joe is beyond disgusting, he drinks to much he did say something so vile to Greg that just wasn't funny period. He's a fat ugly moron. Hang in there...

Melissa, my feelings has always been that you are a very nice person who has stopped at nothing to try and get Joey and his family together. My reason is very simple you've not done or said anything that would make me believe that you are less than truthful. My feelings won't change unless you get caught up in a lie or do something sneaky. Until then I believe that you and Joey and your family are awesome.

It's sad to see that people are going to hate you no matter what, they don't have a reason they don't have any back up to prove that your less than honest. I hope that you also know that they are just repeating Teresa's dumb remarks and running with it like its the truth. Teresa has been caught up in telling lies, trying to meddle in your personal life with her brother. Please look at it as nothing more than Bulls***. Think of their brains being of the same IQ as Teresa's.

I've of course heard Joey say that therapy isn't believe in as far as his family is concerned and I do understand but I also see that he's willing to go through with it for the sake of his relationship with his sister and try to mend it. It's clear to see that he really does want to get the necessary help in order to save it. You don't have to say to much about Kim D because most people have her number, she's not even close to being a good person, she is just going to add fuel to the fire. At this point it says a lot about how Teresa really doesn't have any close friends as she once did if she's hanging around a person like Kim D. I think about the night that you got in an argument with Teresa and as Teresa was trying to leave Kim said ( You know what I would do run them over ) what a great friend she has there in her corner, she's as crazy as Teresa is or she wouldn't want to have anything to do with Teresa. I can't see normal people having a relationship with Teresa all due to her behavior. I realize that you are family and it's not so simple for you to just walk away completely. I do however, believe that it would be the best thing for you and your family to do so, don't leave the show. She's not make the effort that you and your husband have made in trying to salvage some type of relationship with her. It's also clear that Teresa doesn't care about you, it's jealousy that's just a fact. I seriously have to give you props for hanging in there as long as you have both you and Joey, the situation is so horrible, Teresa wants to afflict nothing but misery.

Just remember that these people that are saying stupid things are just not worth the time to read any of them. If it starts out negative then just move on to another post, let them all continue to look like a bunch of Idiots. You and Joey bring humor to the show. Teresa's Joe is beyond disgusting, he drinks to much he did say something so vile to Greg that just wasn't funny period. He's a fat ugly moron. Hang in there...

Physical therapy.....and whose husband has "big kahuna's"? The same one who sings "wench like me" and wants a "grammy" for her acting?

Glass houses, Melissa. Glass houses......

Wow !!! Can't believe all these haters on your blog (Teresa must have hired them)I will say what another blogger said.i wasn't a big fan of you and joe in the beginning ..but after seeing you guys on watch what happens live I really felt like you were both a lot of fun and really done to earth ...I come from a large Italian family and I know what it takes to keep peace.Caroline Manzo is right on target with all her comments about Teresa and Joe...I can see how Caroline has gotten to the point that she can't even look at Teresa because I feel the same way ..unfortunately for you your stuck .(we can choose are frends but not are relatives )you have a beautiful family ..all the best to you ...Teresa ,Kim D,Dina (birds of a feather flock together )

I just want to say that I absolutely love you! You and your husband have an amazing relationship and I love watching you all interact with each other and your kids. I think there has been too much negativity focused on you for far too long. Clearly you and Joe are trying to make it work with Teresa but it just ain't happening. I wish you guys the best but at some point you guys may just need to cut your losses.

I'm slightly embarrassed for commenting but I would like to pose a question to you and other fans... Is Teresa campaigning or having people comment on her blog enthusiastically begging Bravo to let Teresa have her own show? Its interesting because the writing style and wording are similar throughout all those comments...each one begins and sounds as if its a complete set up? Either people are completely delusional or this is a campaign to get her her own show. Btw...your husband is great!

you and your husband are fake.com. and your little performance at the abandoned wear house was just another ploy to try and get famous. stop selling pathetic no one is buying!

It's a TV show. Way too many of you followers have way too much time on your hands. I really love how all of you get to ride a high horse in and be critical of these "real" houswives. You're actually criticizing everything about them, including them being critical of each other. Your all delusional. What would you prefer? To watch the lazy fat housewives of "everytown" with no drama, no arguing, no life issues? C'mon. Get real. Stop bitching about what's going on in the show. It's friggen TV. You should know drama gets ratings, you idiots. Maybe take your own advice and focus on yourselves instead of ridiculing any of the RHoNJ. You be doin a lot a finger pointing and your guilty of the same thing.

You think you can act, just as you think you can sing. You are hoping to achieve more fame from the show like an acting/singing career. That would be fine, if you didn't do it at the expense of your husband's family. Very shameful. You are a very jealous person as shown in the shore party scenes with Heather. Your true colors would written all over your face. You and your husband think you are clever, and that no one realizes that your scenes regarding Teresa and the family relationship are so staged for the camera. It would be so much more honest if you would just admit that you don't like Teresa and that you are happy that there is trouble between Joe and her. If your husband really wanted to fix his relationship with his sister, then he would and not in front of the cameras. The two of you are transparent as to your agenda. I am not a Teresa fan, just a person with siblings and an honest desire for a good relationship with them.

I have to admit that I wasnt so crazy about you at first. But you have proven me wrong. I cant beleive how nasty people are and the awful things they say about you. I mean its one thing not to like somebody but I read some of the comments and they were awful. You werent my favorite person the first season but you have grown on me just like youve grown on other viewers. But about the last episode, I thought you were funny as hell in that old wharehouse. Especially when Joe asked if you had been drinking. Dont let all the negitive post get to you. You have been a breathe of fresh air. And I hope we get to see more of the lighter side of Melissa and not so much of fed up melissa. Not that you dont have a reason to be fed up. I dont beleive you havent just lost your mind because of Theresa. Good luck with that!

I think the only thing I have ever agreed with you on is Kim D. I feel as if she is not a friend to Teresa she is just kissing her booty so she can stay on the show. As long as she is friends with a cast member then her and her fashion shows will be featured. She is only taking advantage of Teresa and will say whatever to stay in her good graces. However, there are things you like to exaggerate on. Teresa did not say Kim does anything she tells her to do. She also didn't say that Joe wasn't sure he was going to marry you. She was refering to herself and their parents due to his broken engagements. Was it right no. I am not sure what she saw as relevant to going to therapy. You praise Joe for accepting therapy and are discouraged by Teresa's dis interest. Joe had a few days to bounce around the idea of going. When Rich first mentioned it he shut it down. Teresa shut it down when it was mentioned, maybe she just needed the time to think on it as well. (We will wait and see) I feel like you calculate a lot of things you do and say. That way when bad things happen you can walk away with clean hands.

WOW!! I can't believe all the ignorant and judgmental people on this blog?! Did you all miss last season when it became completely apparent that Teresa changed? I used to be a big fan of hers but it's very clear that she has not been honest with herself or others regarding her role in all these feuds. The common denominator isn't Melissa, Joe, Caroline, Kathy, etc. It is however Teressa. Settle down people! Lol as for the person who blogged earlier stating that it wasn't "a big deal that Rosie came out", get it right! She wasn't coming out to the world she was sharing her story and was coming out to Kathy's kids. I thought that was such a moving clip and Rosie is absolutely awesome! And I loved Joseph's question! Lol @Melissa, I have to be honest I was skeptical last season because I was still trying to hold on to being a T fan. But as last season ended and this 1 continues I have to say that I think you, your Joe, Kathy (and her family) are such a great addition to this show! I'm a child and family therapist in the Seattle area and watching your husband's struggle to try and work things out with T seems very sincere and heartbreaking. The sad truth is that he can't do it on his own and if she doesn't step up to the plate and own her part of it things may not get better. I truly hope that things have improved between the 2. You and Joe are such an amazing and supportive couple!

To be honest I really didn't like you in begening.. I was always team Teressa, but as you watch the season unfold you see her true colors show shes just a hateful person. She needs to take her own advice about her marriage and put it towards hers. You and Joe are so lucky to have each other you have beautiful kids and a great relationship with each other. I think that you and your husband should be done with Teressa all she does is cause problems for your family. And she's really crazy and totally delusional she needs therapy just for herself. Lol can't wait till the next episode.

Love you Mel! Hang in there and continue to shine. You and Kath are the best. Love your kids and love the relationship you have with your husband. Teresa is seriously mentally ill and I give you a lot of credit for keeping your head and showing you are a classy woman. I would have decked Teresa a long time ago if I were you. God bless you darlin. You and Kathy are in my prayers to stay strong and loving, just they way you are!

Melissa, I believe you are trying to bring peace with the family and it shows. I have to agree with so many of your fans that Theresa is very jealous of you and your family life and she has to move on with her pettiness. You and Kathy have brought a fresh angle to the show and I only watch this show because of you and Kathy. Stay true to your beliefs and keep your head held high. By the way, I am also a fan of your songs. I do believe you have talent and hopefully your music will get more exposure. I hope to see more of you and Kathy on this show in the future.

I have to agree, if Joey wanted to fix this, why did he allow you to come on the show and trash Teresa, why did he call her names and why did he bring up something she told him 2 months ago on camera when you two were getting along?

Doesn't sound right to me. I agree with Teresa, maybe Joe needs other type of therapy by himself or with you, because brother/sister therapy is rather weird to me.

I just don't understand all the hateful comments from viewers. You and Joe are funny, sweet and a great addition to a boring cast! I don't believe some of these people commenting are real. Keep doing what you are doing because I am a REAL fan and I will keep watching you and Joe.

I am team no one. I see there are things all of you could do to make things better. Some things are tried but don't quite succeed but there are always things to be done better. My comment is more about these comments. Does bravo check IP addresses? soem of the comments bashing you look like they are from the same person, first they are always grouped (as though they a posting one after another) and second they tend to use the same words in their descriptions. people dont tend to repeat other peoples words when they are bashing someone the "hate"..lol To "Seasoned Viewer"... Homophob much. to state that you can tell if someone is gay by the way they look and/or act is ignorant. Maybe you should take some therapy on what you have against them. Rosie seems like a sweet girl and like her millions have to deal with these issues everyday. Grow up and stop bashing people. We are all human even if some love the same sex. you are a homosexual bully and should be ashamed !!!! Those who agree should say so

Melissa can't you and Joe agree to disagree with Teresa. Something has to give and someone has to be the bigger person. They"re children involved and I don't see anyone taking their best interest at heart. Is fame that important to everyone? Well if it is, I'm sure there's a more tasteful way to do it. Don't get me wrong I love all of you on the show and that is why it makes me sad to see all of you go through this. It's bad enough we need to watch outsiders hurting us but our own family. Someone please help!!!! Your children are BEAUTIFUL by the way. Good luck on your success!!

I thought your playing around with your husband in the building was adorable. That is what keeps a relationship going humor is key. I agree with you about Km not a good person.

No Melissa you are changing Teresas words around to benefit yourself AS USUAL. Teresa was just saying Kim D has her back, nothing more. Melissa you are just annoyed because you couldn't turn Kim D against Teresa so you're trying to make her sound and look bad, you are very manipulative that way and seem to have mastered talking behind peoples backs to other people in hopes of ruining their reputation. Melissa you have been caught in so many lies that you have no credibilty to anyone so please stop talking about your husbands family. And please let Teresa and her girls have some peace, you have been literally pounding away at them for 2 years to bring attention to yourself. Enough!

You made it a point to say Physical therapy but what you failed to say is that you said grammy. Do you mean an emmy??? GET HER OFF THE SHOW!!!!!!!!!!

You looked so jealous of Kathys friend. I LOVED IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Melissa sorry but you are not in American Got Talent. Not good. Just keep trying to bee a MOM you do a great job.

You and Joe "seem" to have a good relationship, but something usually seems "off" to me. Your acting scene was weird because you seemed to be auditioning for something. I was intrigued to see what it was that Joe did in his work and then I was literally thinking "what the hell is she doing" and then you snapped out of it. What the heck?

Well said @Tankers I don't believe for a minute that Melissa wanted to sing all her life and now I'm sure she's going to tell us she has wanted to be an actress her whole life. You are terrible at singing, which is obvious when we watch you "in the recording studio" before you are autotuned.

Melissa you are so quick to bash Teresa and Joe's financial situation on TV but you and "Joey" are selling that museum you call a home to build a bigger home? Why the need for so much space? Are you trying to upstage Teresa again? The rumors are you and Joe don't even own that house that you were living in a $500,000 home before you "moved in" here because you were going on the show. FAKE

You come off so fake and Joey too. everything you do seems scripted and calculating. This show has honestly turned into a joke. If no one talked about Teresa there would be no show this season. I haven't even watched full episodes because they have become boring and old.

you need to go so you "aren't on display" anymore... Let me guess you wrote Rockstar too before you were "famous".

The Emmy's should create a category inspired by you. Best Actress in a reality series, for the part you portray on this show. Not that your husband is an abuser, however, their classic m.o. is to excuse their own behavior by saying that the victim knows how to push their buttons. Your husband is embarassed by showing his behavior on tv (as he should). What justifies your reasoning, by the way, that's it's ok to complain to and discuss the details of your issues with Teresa's friends? Was it so important that they and all the tv viewers think you're right or is it more important to deal with it sincerely in private? I'm curious.

to be honest I had decided to stop watching new jersey housewifes last year until I heard about you and Kathy...I think you and Kathy and your families are the saving point of this show. It was never Teresa's show and you should never have to feel like you couldn't come on the show because of her. I am really tired of people saying Teresa's under a lot of pressure. Boo Hoo...pressure she and her husband created . They are liars and manipulators...pure and simple. If Teresa put some effort into being a good person and stop with the lies she might be something. By the way , from season one Teresa didn't fool me...she is just much more open about her craziness. And I can't for the life of me figure out why anyone would think Melissa should be jealous of Teresa???? Be jealous of such a trainwreck of a person. For the Teresa fans , keep buying her family cookbooks and whatever else she peddles . Bet the family that actually came up with recipes will never see a dime of the money either.

One small point I’d like to make here is that just because someone kisses your ass doesn’t make them a good person or a good friend....LOL RIGHT!!!!!

my goodness melissa....give it a break. you can't sing without the help of autotunes and now you want to give the producers the idea that you can act... you are relentless. it was scary and pathetic. please bravo make it stop!

You and your husband are the best part of the show!!

The acting scene was perfect for you! I've posted a few times but Bravo doesn't post my comment. It is SO obvious that all your scenes are staged. You are an actress...Teresa is real, faults and all, she shows us her true colors.

I've about had all I can take of The Gorgas. They both are completely transparent. BOTH of them, and that makes for terrible reality television. No wonder they gravitated to each other. Not hard to piece together. Why would Teresa go to therapy with Joe? If she's honest and says anything he cane use about her, he'll release it on the show in yet another phony scene. He knew before that telling us all what she said in private would devastate her reputation, so he did it. I wouldn't trust him now. Why should she? How long do we have to keep playing this boring game Bravo? If The Gorgas are back on next year, I won't be watching, bit I'll keep my attention on hold until Teresa gets her own show. And Melissa's performance at the wharehouse? Wow, that really showed us who she is, I always suspected it, but it was nice to see her slip. Now, she'll be very careful not to do that again which simpley means-------BORING. Uhg. And the life insurance remark? She was spot on Melissa that whole scene. Careful Melissa, you're slipping.

Melissa I feel so bad for you because you have to deal with that trash talking monster (Teresa)... Eventually Joe will get sick of her again and you will have a few years of peace again :) LOVE YOU!!!!!!

It's very clear how competitive YOU are with Teresa and how effectively manipulative you are. Can't you just let her be? You've already driven a wedge between her and your husband, forced yourself onto this show and turned the others against her. You win! You don't have to bash her anymore! Maybe you need the therapy.

Your true colors came out on the last episode. You didn't care for Heather stealing the spot light and it showed on your face.

I really think that every time anyone else on the shows bashes Teresa its "a joke" but as soon as Teresa's uses that term - she's not joking she's just back peddling. How can Kathy allow her husband to say the things he does about her cousin but when Joe speaks about others he's this horrible person.

I use to be a fan of Carolyn's however I do side with the fact that I believe that she is jealous.

I think you're just smarter than Teresa and you know how to play the game in front of the camera's. Teresa just says as she feels and doesn't care who's around.

I think you like to also light the fire and walk away and you know how to make jabs. I'm honestly surprised the rest of the case haven't seen through you Melissa.

Hello there, I dont understand how ppl can have so much hatred and mean things to say to someone they dont even know personally. This is my guess on why Teresa is not getting along with her brother. I think that she is just upset that she kind of lost her best friend. Thats all. Instead of her just saying Joey I miss my brother. She tries to cause friction because you stole her best friend. It's as simple as that. I think your "acting" in the building was hilarious. I think you and Joe are cute. Good luck with everything!

I really hope Bravo posts this!

Melissa, REALLY, did you have to mention the "physical" therapy comment, we ALL caught in, not to mention Jac corrected her on scene! BUT, you did forget to mention your Grammy vs. Oscar comment! I firmly believe you should treat others the way you want to be treated or that great Karma will come and bite you in the butt! Now, onto two more things: 1. That acting scene, OMGoodness! It was just awful, I thought I was going to barf, then my teenage daughter, had to rewind it as she too could not believe what she was seeing. Your acting was HORRIBLE! 2. The scene with Heather was priceless, I am sure those few fans of yours, caught a different glimpse of you, pure envy and jealously. IT was too funny!

Your best bet is to be a good friend/sister in law to Teresa, cause with your own skills and fakness you are going nowhere!

Bravo - please stop tourtouring us with the Gorga's scripted scenes, so fake and utterly boring!

You are losing my respect in each episode. I have always been a Teresa fan but wanted to give you a chance. The acting was so staged and so annoying. And your true colors came out when someone else was getting all the attention at the party. Can you please start being real for a change?

OMG!! I feel like I am in HIGH SCHOOL again, I started getting on these blogs and participating because It was OBJECTIVE and a way to debate in a mature way (so I thought) Teresa's fan base has got to be between the ages of 12 & 21 there is NO WAY they can be any older or wiser for that matter! In this "DIVICE" generation, the younger people, can't seem to SPELL or develop a sentence very well, which is why I say they can't be a day over 21! This is so ridiculous, people! We can dislike a certain person and still be objective and look at all sides of what we SEE!

You people are not taking into account that these reality shows have to roll tape for up to 85 hours just to get 45 minutes that you see! There is definitely editing, there are definitely things we are not seeing, it is called BUSINESS! Bravo is going to twist it in whichever way is going to get ratings, that is what pays the bills, (for those of you who do not know what that means, it's a responsibility, a way to keep what you have going) ! My God, this is getting so beyond ridiculous! The housewife franchise was a guilty pleasure, a reason for my Colleagues and I to get together twice a week, drink some wine and watch how the other half live and what they do to get to that magnificent point in their life! Not anymore! Now it's like watching High School kids go at it! (besides Kathy and Rosie!) Anyone who bashes Kathy, has got to be a 12 year old, looking to lash out for NO REASON!

Melissa: I am not positive, but I would be willing to bet you are the youngest out of all of your siblings, is this correct? The youngest child (as many of you are) has an innate characteristic to be "the center of attention" this comes from always being the one that receives the attention. The oldest child (Teresa) is usually controlling, nurturing, very organized, but one main characteristic that Teresa lacks in being the eldest, is the organic feeling to protect! I see it in Kathy COMPLETELY, (don't know if she is indeed the eldest child) but I do not see it in Teresa AT ALL! That is the part of this whole thing that is bothering me, with her and leads me to believe she is getting very greedy! Greed is a whole other issue! Melissa; you do try to be the center of attention and you do not like it when others are stealing the spotlight, I'm not trying to be rude at all, as I do like you in general, but you do try way to hard to be in the spotlight... BUT.....

Does this mean that everyone needs to get on these forums and RIP these people apart? They are still human, they still have feelings! Could any of you endure this? Would any of you not take this opportunity? Come on, get real people! If Joe and Melissa really are as "evil" as all of you seem to think they are, then they will have to live with that, they will have their own karma to deal with, but it doesn't show much of Teresa to sit back and let all of these people say these HORRIBLE things about her family and supposed friends, but mostly her Brother! If I was on this show with my little Brother, no matter how angry I was at him, my blogs would consist of telling people, to lay off my Brother,and that if they "love love love" me as much as they say they do, they would have enough respect for me, to leave my Brother alone! I would never allow this kind of "talk" to go on about my Brother or his ife (mother of my nieces/nephews) ! What does that say about her? All of you Teresa lovers, what does it say?

Melisssa; when it comes time for the reunion (as there is nothing you can do now for what you have already done) PLEASE be authentic, be YOU, don't try to be in the spotlight, don't try to be the victim, don't try to bring up things you know are going to make her look bad, JUST for the sake of making her look bad, when you're provoked it's different and we all see it, but when you're bring things up that are so petty and off topic, just to make her look bad, it has the opposite effect! I don't know how you do it girl! Keep your head up! xoxoxo

Why would Teresa go to Jacqueline for advice? She is NOT her friend. Just because Jacqueline might say she is, her actions speak to the contrary. And you, how about the jealousy you showed the HOT girl in the hot tub scene? You are very insecure, you can't sing and now we know you can't act either. Please go away and give me my favorite housewife show back!

Many people have said that Teresa is clueless to how she is around people! Am I right? When you did your little acting scene of "Melissa being frightened in the haunted warehouse," that was just sooo not cool, do you realize how that came accross to viewers? Well, you did what you think Teresa does. It didn't come off well. It was a very affected moment of you thinking it would be entertaining or SOMETHING! When in reality to the viewers, excluding Caroline, it was quite annoying & presumtious! Get a real audtion the next time you have the need to show off for a network camera, or keep it to the family videos!

When I heard relatives of Teresa's were joining the show, I was worried. I thought if they behaved with her temperment and lack of personal liability, we were in for a world of hurt in viewing this show. I am glad to say now, that I am so grateful the Gorgas are not a reflection of bad behavior in the same capacity. I find it amazing that Melissa continually tries to mend Joe Gorga and Teresa Guidice's brother/sister relationship - even in spite of the devious attempts by Teresa to derail her. She is so unhappy and I am guessing her philosophy in life is - if she is not happy - no one gets to be happy. I understand her family choices including her husband's life choices have brought her to be miserable and very selfish. I understand, everyone faces hard times, but it never seems she wants to accept the reality of the situations she is in and sugar coats everything - your problems are real, just like everyone else's and facing them head on with total liability and honesty is what might make her a likable person. She lashes out at everyone and everything and behaves like the biggest BRAT/BULLY we all knew on the playground in Elementary school. Until she gets in touch with self acceptance and Truly going back to her Faith she professes while blindly making the sign of the Cross (a true disrespect , in my opinion) she will be tormented all of her life.

Melissa and Joe - I see a true spirit of Faith in both of you and your children are lovely. I wish you peace and happiness and peace to Caroline Manzo and Family - remember not to let Teresa make you look soo sad - it is heartbreaking when someone you trust/ tears you down. But you are a beautiful strong woman and I hope to see that beautiful smile and that strong woman I admire back on the show soon!!!!

I think it is disgusting what you all are doing to Teresa, that woman is carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders right now, she is holding it all in and I feel that she may just have a nervous breakdown before it is all said and done, and all you care about is that maybe I can get a recording contract if the right person tunes in and ehars me sing kind of attitude or "Acting", (that scene in the warehouse was unbelievable even for you) you are self centered and care only about what benefits you, and all Caroline cares about is what kind of jab can I get in about Teresa this week, being a friend to her face then talking like that behind her back, Caroline is nothing but a 2-face pompous azz, you all should be ashamed of yourselves.. I felt very very sorry for how Teresa gets talked about off camera, we all know who is real on this show and who is fake..

A grown man with a wife and children who exposes himself on television does need therapy.

Melissa, I soo relate to your story line as I also have an older sister-in-law that has four children(the oldest named GIA...weird, i know) My husband also has issues with this sister, and I (the wife) am frequently blamed for the problems he has with his family. I have never done anything but try and support a relationship with his family, and knowing that it does not work out breaks my heart. Watching how you take the high road when it comes to the relationships with your in-laws has inspired me to do the same. People on here need to stop being so hateful towards Melissa and saying she enjoys the turmoil. NO ONE enjoys not being able to see their children have a relationship with their aunt, uncle and cousins. It is heartbreaking, so leave her alone in aspect to that. Ya'll are just jealous