Melissa Gorga

Melissa was happy to see Joe really try to work through his issues with Teresa.

on Jul 2, 20120

Teresa’s talk with the therapist didn’t surprise me too much. Of course it was all about me. She didn’t say one negative thing about herself or her brother. Just me. Yes, I’m used to it by now, and I really just don’t know what to say anymore. I think it is very obvious that I have never been the problem here. She makes me the problem and she constantly blames me for everything. I guess she doesn’t want the world to think that it’s her family or her relationship with her brother that is failing, but instead the problems are because of someone who is not part of the original family (like me). Well I know a lot of you are frustrated with it, and I am too. I am trying to stay positive and just remember what is really important.

I want to thank you so much for all your supportive tweets throughout the show last night. It really does mean a lot to me and Joe that you all see what’s going on, and your tweets just make me smile. Thank you!

296 comments
ExJerseyNowTexas
ExJerseyNowTexas

If either you or your husband think Teresa is going to change and the bitterness is going to end, you're delusional. 

fleurs
fleurs

Melissa, I love you and hope that you stay on RHONJ a long time. 

highdesertblue
highdesertblue

Hey Melissa,

You and your husband have a great relationship. He is so secure in his masculinity that he can joke about it! Not many men can do that.  I enjoy watching both of you on RHONJ. Best wishes.

j1217
j1217

A point that I think a lot of people are missing here is the although Melissa may have reached out to Danielle back when things were really bad SHE ADMITTED IT!!! She admitted and apologized for it! Teresa has never admitted she was wrong about ANYTHING and doesnt believe that she has done anything wrong! Both parties have done things to get to this point. Teresa needs to grow up, be the 40 some year old woman that she is and be a good role model for her daughters and admit that she has made some mistakes as well. She also needs to stop holding her grudges and actually let the past go and try to start over instead of continually just saying it. Actions speak louder than words and her actions and words this season have been extremely contradicting.

mjstets
mjstets

SWEETHEART, Your heart is as big as America.... I'm just taken aback how much you're willing to forgive. Bless you, and beless your children. I hope your husband sees what an ANGEL you are. Bless you Melissa.

Athena88
Athena88

I am team Melissa & Joe. No, they are not perfect, but they are sweet down deep.

BGonzo
BGonzo

Melissa your marriage is a beautiful blessing, loving marriage. I love to watch you and joe during the show. I really feel bad for Joe, I know that he is really wanting a relationship with his sister. When you first came on the show I thought that your were the problem, you were trying to come between Teresa and Joe, but as time has gone by I see what an amazing support you are to your husband and Teresa. Although i dont believe that Teresa is a genuine person and her husband isn't either, i really hope that you and your husband will protect one another through this transition. Teresa is a fake, not only as a friend but as a sister. She has no loyatly to either of you on the show. She is selfish and crazy....watch your back...What is so sad to watch is that she is now looking for her family; Melissa, Joe, Kathy, and Rosie....WHY? because she has no friends and it is so horrible and sad to watch her try to squirm her way back into your lives, when she wanted nothing to do with you all in the first place!

Continue your dreams Our Dear Lord will guide you always....

emcee
emcee

It's pretty obvious that Teresa wants the love and adoration that you have and she's not getting it from her husband despite the support he is to her. She's just a different breed, more old-fashioned and a less reflective type of person. She won't see that she has some big feelings to overcome, I don't think she'd admit or realize that she's jealous, not of you but of your relationship. Keep being cordial and brushing off the comments. I think you know not to take it too personally. Do you really condone all of the trash talk behind her back though? It seems that every conversation has to somehow turn to how horrible Teresa is and you know what, she never takes it to heart, she still remains friendly with everyone. I'm sure if someone made the 'drowning' comment that Rick made about her to Caroline that there would be war. How would you feel if someone made a comment like that about you?

Kaboom
Kaboom

Love, love, love Melissa! Easy to see why Theresa is so jealous! Stay classy, girl.

JohnnyBarrToons
JohnnyBarrToons

Melissa... Joe is trying no harder than Teresa... he said negative things about her Joe just as she said about you... it's therapy... that is what it is for! Maybe if you went you would understand something.... but you are obviously so perfect you do not need therapy, right? 

 

I think you ladies have it so easy to sit around and gang up on Teresa... Even Joe goes into it thinking he has nothing to fix in himself... "angel of God" ... you are all just as messed up and should try more forgiveness... I think that would be more angelic.

 

Congrats on your music... it's not my thing but congrats for living a dream... 

Johnny

lesliann44
lesliann44

I do not think Melissa copy cat's Teresa.  I think she only wants Joe and Teresa to get along.  Melissa is a very beautiful woman.  She has a big heart and wants to get along with everyone.  She is the type of person if she has a problem with someone she will talk it out with them.  I think she is right Jacqueline has so much on her plate to be dragged into the Gorgas problems.  Jacqueline has to big of heart.  She has her issue with her daughter and she has her family to worry about.  Teresa is the problem of all the drama on the show this year.

WandaP
WandaP

Hey girl, I think ur a class act, I mean Teresa throws her digs in and acts like the queen of the family.. She is jealous of the fact that her husband doesn't build her things, it's shut up teresa, swear this and that, have another glass of wine JGudice. It's really sad to see, that Teresa is trying to save the family from a sinking ship, with a 200lb cannon taking her down pathetic. As for therapy, it will never work unless all parties actually listen, digress, here and act. That did not happen for Teresa, she's right right. She's not and unfortunately the kids will suffer from her not being there. You keep being you, take the high road, and ignore the haters. I have been married 30 years, my tip always do something special for each other, other than poison removal lol! Have a great summer

RachelleFromOhio
RachelleFromOhio

Ah ha!!  I think the last episode exposed a lot when it comes to Joe Gorga.  HE IS THE JEALOUS ONE.  I noticed something about him in that episode that I had overlooked previously.  It's this thing with Joe Guidice and his parents.  I believe that he has a BIG PROBLEM with them having strong, loving feelings for Joe Guidice.  One thing I can say about being a parent with adult children, you want them to be happy with their spouse, and that spouse to bring happiness to them.

 

I think the Sr Gorga's were leary of Melissa from the start, but gave her a chance because their son loved her.  I think as they got to know her their suspicions were confirmed when she began to whisper things into their son's ear about the family dynamic - and their relationship with Teresa/Joe Guidice.  In Melissa, Joe Gorga found a wife that not only fed into that jealousy, but jumped on the bandwagon and steered him in all kinds of crazy directions.  Joe Gorga behaves like a spoiled child that hasn't gotten his way.  For him to constantly talk about what he has done for his parents, and how he has paid for this and that - is just down right tacky.  We all do for our parents when and if we can.  It is what is expected, after they have raised and cared for us. For this little twerp to come on NATIONAL TV an put the Sr Gorga's business out there like that, was so uncalled for.  Stuff like that stays within a family and I can only imagine how this has hurt the Sr Gorga's.  

 

Joe Gorga and his wife Melissa have a lot to atone for. When it comes to their family they have shown a lack of any common decency.  It is shameful and I for one am SICK TO DEATH OF THEM.   

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

There is NO WAY you want this family back together. No way. When you all were talking with the Wakile's,  when it was said Teresa said she would go to therapy, you were rolling your eyes, and only became happy when the conversation came back to how awful Teresa is. Your husband is a horrible man! The things he said this last episode weer unforgivable. He is up to his neck in envy of Teresa and came on here, I think, to show his parents they are wrong in their relationship with The Guidice's and not you. It's true, the first thing Joe said in therapy was his kids aren't treated the same. The first thing when asked what the trouble is. How could they be with YOU at the den door. And I think Teresa isn't holding a grudge on her PAST, I think she's reacting to her PRESENT. You two continually try and sabotage her at every turn. Joe takes one step forward and then slams her with two back with cutting, vile words in the talking heads. Not move forward??? DO YOU THINK TERES HITS THE MUTE BUTTON WHEN JOE IS SPEAKING? yeesh. She hears it ya know? Teresa needs to cut you both out forvever, this is too deep rooted and neither of you will change unless Joe has an epithany and figures out what you did and who you are that is making being close to your family impossible for them. Sure, her parents will be sad, but they're not dumb, they will get over it. This was too far and too hateful. Her first responsibility is to her girls, and they should not take one more day with either of you in their lives. Joe Gorga uses the emotions of this show to make their processing of it really hard. Each day this continues damages them.  Teresa, if you are reading---CUT FOR YOUR LOSSES!!!!!!

nonaNJ
nonaNJ

Hi, Melissa i  think you should consider working whith Kandi from RHOA . You  can sing ,i like your music ,you are a million  times better than  Kim  from rhoa .  Every one can see that you have a very happy life ,your husband loves you and respects you , your SIL  Ter. is jealous , dont ever trust her ,GOOD LUCK  with your music.

Brooksy
Brooksy

I hope your trip Napa worked I quess we will all find out!  Also, I hope you, Joe and your little ones wil be able to stay close to Jacquline and Caroline you seem like you all would have good times together I don't think anyone can have fun with Joe Guidice it's best to keep friends and family seperate especially if the children are involved they don't need to hear his hateful comments.  Good Luck and God Bless

notsonice
notsonice

Melissa what you've done to tear apart this family is evident for everyone who isn't blind or jealous to see.  You would have had no show to go on if Theresa weren't a housewife,...you would have no one to copy,....the biggest betrayal is to Joe's parents how can you both shame them and draw out the dirty laundry?  Seriously, when you smear crap you smell like,...crap.  i will be cheering loud and long when you've run Theresa off this show and no one watches because the Laurita/ Manzo's are boring, boring boring!  

 

MomLeader
MomLeader

I think everyone is overlooking something very obvious and the actual root of the ENTIRE problem. I know I'm not a doctor, i understand that, but this is a blog for opinions. I think I have it. Melissa is easy to figure out, dime a dozen. I live in Los Angeles and work in the biz. The measures by which women go to, to become famous is shocking. Melissa is right up there with the unthinkable, but certainly no surprise for me. Now mind you, the ones picking up her tab are The Gorga Sr's. That part is gutwrenching but Melissa couldn't do it alone. She couldn't. Yes, she had Kathy, and that was a feather in her cap because both women so desperately wanted what Teresa had on this show for all those years in that little town. Most cousins, at least mine, would NOT have helped someone they hadn't grown up with, someone who clearly needs to have all eyes on her, but Kathy did, she did with enthusiasm. Teresa was the center of attention to the world, and not bringing them along. She was going to "pay." Think about it, even Rich Wakile came on badmouthing his wife's cousin? Who does that? Even if they think it, who does that, unless you want her destroyed? That''s a fact to me. But JOE Gorga is the one. Joe Gorga is why this was allowed to happen. I couldn't figure out why a man would allow his wife to go on like she did in carrying out something so malicious and so blatant to his sister that he loves (on some level.) They were both moving for the same goal, "Teresa must fall," he said it himself, but why? He knows every move Melissa made and he helped facilitate many of them. Why? I'm sure he was jealous, we all see how much he loves "fame." He's absolutely ridiculous on twitter with his "fan base." But Joe Gorga was the one who really allowed this to happen, his final reveal of their private conversation was the crucial "blow" that worked for him fior a while, until that very thing made him lose his sister forever (she will never forget, even if she forgives.) But why did he let it go so far, and still is for that matter? I believe we found out this last episode.

 

Joe and Teresa go to the psychiatrist. After ALL of this, all of this hate, and destruction of a family, and really dispicable circumstances that they all are in the middle of with Joe helping to sell out his own sister, and enjoying her demise on national TV because it boosted his image, I couldn't figure out why at the root, how did destroying Teresa boost him? Why did he keep working for points? (I'm going to paraphrase but I'm very accurate) The FIRST thing the doctor asked, his VERY first question was: "So WHAT is the problem?" The answer was very telling. The FIRST thing Joe said when asked "what is the problem" was, Joe SAID:   "When Teresa had her children, I embraced them and loved them like my own, don't you think she should have done the same to mine?" {SCREECH} What?? That's the FIRST thing out of his mouth as to why the trouble? "Why didn't Teresa embrace his kids like he did hers when they were born?" The doctor looked befuttled. Look, I think Joe knows who he's married to and I think family IS very important to him. He wants more kids and Melissa doesn't. His family (which is only his sister and his parents) don't like Melissa. They don't like her. Haven't for a long time. When he had kids, he thought it would erase everything about her, and suddenly poof, his family would now embrace the snake. Everything is gloroius at Teresa's house with the grandparents. Problem is, you can love children, which of course his parents and Teresa do, but it's not the same feeling in his house. Come on, let's be real. We see Teresa's parents at her house, it's just heartwarming. Melissa has been so horrible in that family OF COURSE it's not the same feeling in their home and it drives Joe MAD. Just MAD. HIS whole family is his parents and Teresa. That's it for him. They don't want to be near Melissa and for good reason I think. She's sure made their case! Teresa said to Jacqueline and Caroline that Melissa never gave the love back. She just never did. Joe was screaming at his Dad the very first episode to recognize him, "I'm your SON!" "I'M YOUR SON". It was a spectacle. I think all of this is because Joe knows what he's married to and he so wants it to be different in his own home. He wants the Grandparents and Teresa to excuse every and all deceitful, self absorbed actions Melissa does because he loves her. At the gymnastics meet, we saw how "Grandma" didn't even want to give the grandchildren their presents in person because Melissa was there. She said on the second episode to Caroline and Melissa "why are you doing this to my family?" But no one ever talks about that. The grandparents see Joe's kids once a week so they can love on their grandchildren but you can just IMAGINE how surface it is. They know who Melissa is and what she's willing to do to their family to get it. They've known for a long time. The gymnastics meet was at the start of season one! Sorry Joe, but this plan to take Teresa down to show your parents how great Melissa is and how awful Teresa is backfired. Big time. Joe ended up giving his wife the platform to show MORE of exactly why she is despised. All he did was confirm what they thought, what we all thought.

chadjones803
chadjones803

You are nice and genuine and I can tell you are trying to get along with Teresa. She and her husband are not helping. You just keep doing the right thing.

Tdtorre03
Tdtorre03

I stopped watching the show because of Melissa and Kathy. To come on the show to with the whole intent of trashing your sister-in-law and cousin is simply evil. Shame on Bravo for allowing, and even encouraging, this. I'm surprised Theresa hasn't had a break down. No joke.

misg12
misg12

Do I think you came on the show to get your 15 minutes...yes I do. Do I think you are manipulative, fake, the devil....no I don't. I find you and your husband so entertaining.

Yvedben
Yvedben

I hope this was all worth it for you and your ON DISPLAY AUTO TUNE SONG .Because you are definantly  on display now and been voted the meanest most coniving backstabbing money grubber house wife on diplay!!!!! 

darlu
darlu

You seem pretty straight forward to me. I just love how much you love your family. Keep it real.

FunEblonde
FunEblonde

Disregard the haters Melissa. Teresa is delusional. She totally does not or will not see she is the one carrying the "stirring stick". I feel bad that you have to deal with a cuckoo like Teresa. I hope the therapy works to mend the family. The children have been exposed to too much family chaos already. Joey is a sweetheart to go along with Teresa's plan to fix "him".  Really?????  

tammyj
tammyj

Melissa please give me a break I don't dislike you but you and Teresa are a lot alike.  You two compete with each other.  It finally came out that you and your husband sold yourself to the devil (Danielle) to make yourself relavant and get a spot on the show.  Why haven't your husband or anyone else address you about what you did. That's why you said you didn't blame Teresa for selling all those stories because she has to take care of her family.  You and your husband both were jealous that Teresa was on display and you wasn't.  Your husband will do anything for attention.  The platform is big enough for all of you so please stop all the bashing and drama but I guess you have to because there would'nt be a need for you on the show!!!!! Jac is involved in your family drama because she wants to be and she wouldn't have a storyline because Ashley is off the show.  Lets keep it real.

Carmella3
Carmella3

Enjoy your singing career. Money can buy anything, not Jesus.  I really would like to hear your voice not a programmed voice.  People will be demanding this if you expect to make it in the music world.  If just for a short while it makes you happy, enjoy. 

MomLeader
MomLeader

I think everyone is overlooking something very obvious and the actual root of the ENTIRE problem. I know I'm not a doctor, i understand that, but this is a blog for opinions. I think I have it. Melissa is easy to figure out, dime a dozen. I live in Los Angeles and work in the biz. The measure by which women go to, to become famous is shocking. Melissa is right up there with the unthinkable, but certainly no surprise for me. Now mind you, the ones picking up her tab are The Gorga Sr's. That part is digusting but Melissa couldn't do it alone. She couldn't. Yes, she had Kathy, and that was a feather in her cap because both women so desperately wanted what Teresa had for all those years in that little town. Teresa was the center of attention to the world, and not bringing them along. She was going to "pay." Think about it, even Rich Wakile came on badmouthing his wife's cousin? Who does that? Even if they think it, who does that, unless you want her destroyed? That''s a fact. But JOE Gorga is the one. Joe Gorga is why this was allowed to happen. I couldn't figure out why a man would allow his wife to go on like she did in carrying out something so malicious and so blatant to his sister that he loves (on some level.)  They were both moving for the same goal, "Teresa must fall," he said it himself, but why? He knows every move Melissa made and he helped facilitate many of them. Why? I'm sure he was jealous, we all see how much he loves "fame." He's absolutely ridiculous on twitter with his "fan base." But Joe Gorga was the one who really allowed this to happen, his final reveal of their private conversation was the crucial "blow" that worked for him fior a while, until that very thing made him lose his sister forever (she will never forget, even if she forgives.) But why did he let it go so far, and still is for that matter? I believe we found out this last episode. 

 

Joe and Teresa go to the psychiatrist. After ALL of this, all of this hate, destruction of a family, and really dispicable circumstances that they all are in the middle of with Joe actually setting his sister up, and seemingly enjoying her demise on national TV because it boosted his image, I couldn't figure out why at the root, how did destroying Teresa boost him? Why did he keep working for points? (I'm going to paraphrase but I'm very accurate) The FIRST thing the doctor asked, his VERY first question was: "So WHAT is the problem?" The answer was very telling. The FIRST thing Joe said when asked "what is the problem" was "When Teresa had her children, I embraced them and loved them like my own, don't you think she should have done the same to mine?" {SCREECH}  What?? That's the FIRST thing out of his mouth as to why the trouble? "Why didn't Teresa embrace his kids like he did hers when they were born?"  Look, I think Joe knows who he's married to and I think family IS very important to him. He wants more kids and Melissa doesn't. His family (which is only his sister and his parents) don't like Melissa. They don't like her. Haven't for a long time. When he had kids, he thought it would erase everything about her, and suddenly poof, his family would now embrace the snake. Everything is gloroius at Teresa's house with the grandparents. Problem is, you can love children, which of course his parents and Teresa do, but it's not the same feeling in his house. Come on, let's be real. We see Teresa's parents at her house, it's just heartwarming. Melissa has been so horrible in that family OF COURSE it's not the same feeling in their home and it drives Joe MAD. Just MAD. HIS whole family is his parents and Teresa. They don't want to be near Melissa and for good reason I think. She's sure made their case! Teresa said to Jacqueline and Caroline that Melissa never gave the love back. She just never did. Joe was screaming at his Dad the very first episode to recognize him, "I'm your SON!" "I'M YOUR SON". It was a spectacle. I think all of this is because Joe knows what he's married to and he so wants it to be different in his own home. He wants the Grandparents and Teresa to excuse every and all deceitful, self absorbed actions Melissa does because he loves her. At the gymnastics meet, we saw how "Grandma" didn't even want to give the grandchildren their presents in person because Melissa was there. She said on the second episode to Caroline and Melissa "why are you doing this to my family?" But no one ever talks about that. The grandparents see Joe's kids once a week so they can love on their grandchildren but you can just IMAGINE how surface it is. They know who Melissa is and what she's willing to do to their family to get it. They've known for a long time. The gymnastics meet was at the start of season one! Sorry Joe, but this plan to take Teresa down to show your parents how great Melissa is and how awful Teresa is backfired. BIg time. All he did was confirm what they thought, what we all thought.

Rini
Rini

Melissa, my take on Rosie and Kathy's relationship was just Kathy said.  Teresa just reiterated it.  Again, you read something negative into it and twisted it to make Teresa look wrong. 

Had to laugh when I read that you are not the problem with Teresa and Joe.  Really!!! Not from where I am sitting as a viewer.  Joe is walking aroung with blinders on.  Men have no intuition like women do.  And, Missy I am older than Caroline and I can see thru you and your evil sisters.  You have manipulated Joe and now you are standing back loving the fact that Teresa is the villain and everyone else agrees with you.  Melissa you are not a good person.  No integrity and lacking in character.  Look up the definition of both those words.  What you did to Teresa and her family is dispicable.  And, all it took is for you to tell her that you hated her and you were going thru a pregnancy that is why you contacted Danielle to take Teresa down.  Boy, you got off easy!  Oh my God!  What you did by joining this show and attacking Teresa on the first episode along with your sister is almost too hard for normal to grasp.  Who does that to their family on National TV.  It has become obvious to viewers the disloyal intentions you and Kathy had.  I use the word loyal because you, Joe, Kathy and Richie keep saying that Teresa is not loyal to her family.  You've got to be kidding? 

It's also quite obvious that the reason that Teresa and Joe are going to Napa with everyone is because Bravo told them they had to go.  Otherwise, there is no drama.  Afterall, what all of you talk about!  Every scene is centered around what Teresa said or bought.  Have you bought a dress or purse lately?  You have stated that this is not the Teresa show.  Well you and your other cast mates have made it that way.  She is the villain and you are loving it.  I saw that look on your face at your party when Jacqueline and Teresa were arguing.  By the way rewatch the episode again.  Jac approached Teresa at the party to discuss where they stood.   Well, if you take off your rose colored glasses you would've seen the week before Jac tell Teresa that she was distancing herself from her.  What did she expect Teresa to do at the party.  That was your party but Jacqueline didn't care and was totally focused on arguing with Teresa.  Jac could have called Teresa at home and met her for coffee to talk but Oh know she just had to make a scene.  And, as always everyone assumed that Teresa was ruining your party by fighting with Jac. 

I have lost respect for you, Joe, Kathy and Richie.  You came on this show with an agenda and it was not honest.  You wanted revenge to get back at every wrong your SIL did to you on NATIONAL TV.    You don't care about Joe's parents or Teresa's children.  You were only thinking about yourself.  I wonder Melissa once the cameras go away and you go back to being a housewife my take is that you will become bored with your life.  You have now gotten the attention you so need and it will never be enough.  Good luck to your husband because one day if you leave him he will have to face the fact that he destroyed his parents on National TV.

Maybe you and the "ANGEL FROM GOD" should go to confession and ask for God's forgiveness.  I for one would hold a GRUDGE and never forgive you.  When you said to Teresa I want us to like each other, oh please.  If I were Teresa and Joe this would take years to forgive what her brother, you and her cousin did on National  TV.  No wonder she hasn't seen any of you since last Fall. 

I pray for her at the ambush she will have to face at the reunion.  You will truly push everyone of her buttons hoping that she will make a fool of herself.  Maybe she should  have a breakdown like Jac did last season.  Afterall, she is facing a firing squad!

andebrown70
andebrown70

I don't think the Teresa is scheming.  I just think that she has always had her way and now she doesn't.  My theory is that her brother always catered to her and now he caters to his wife and kids.  WHICH IS NORMAL!!!!  Come one you guys!  Don't you think it's weird that Teresa has such an issue with Melissa?  Melissa didn't make any underhanded comments!  She stated facts.  Teresa was very OBVIOUS in her therapy session about when her issues with her brother started.  It's when he settled down with Melissa.  It's when Teresa was no longer catered to.  This was what caused issues between Teresa's Joe and Melissa's Joe before Melissa and Joe got married.  Teresa always put her brother before her husband.  I think that Melissa (who is younger than Teresa) acted like any person would act when brought into a family and is put into a situation where the ALPHA female (Teresa) is threatened.  She (Melissa) lashed back.  See Melissa's Joe expected everyone to accept her like they accepted Teresa's Joe.  He didn't realize the powers of the ALPHA female when she is threatened.  Melissa is a survivor.  She went into survival mode.  She protected what is hers.  Come guys, we have all read Teresa's blogs... they are pretty bad.  I would say that she doesn't really take the high road and she doesn't play the victim very well either!  Two strong women... don't make for a good mix....  Ya'll be nice in the sandbox!  Teresa would have had issues with ANY woman that JOE settled down with... WHY because he would have picked a strong woman... He likes strong women...  DUH!

cehemise
cehemise

Melissa,

 

Your husband is a good guy.  He carries the family financial load and never lets his parents down.  Teresa goes out and implies that he's some sort of bad guy and she has to step in as the hero and fix things.  Completely untrue.   Her nasty ways are becoming so tiresome.  I don't think she's ever going to stop as long as she has a venue in which to do so.

 

I like Joe.  He's a bit emotional, but so what?  He's a good guy, dependable, and open and upfront.  I have never seen him do anything underhanded or sneaky like his sister does.  She's so filled with hate towards everybody that is better off than she is...and that's everybody else on the show.

 

The Giudice's short-lived show of wealth has come crashing down like the house of cards it really is, and the real people are showing now.  She's so mad about that and is taking it out on the rest of you.  The Giudices are an example of "there's no short-cuts or easy ways in life."  You have to work for it and work to hold onto it, not think you're smarter than everybody else by cheating.  It catches up with you.  You guys work hard.  You've earned what you have.  Good for you. And, shame on her for trying to taint it.

Susieunderpants
Susieunderpants

You make the most backhanded comments in your blogs and think the viewers won't notice. Jacqueline didn't get 'pulled' into your familys drama, she PUT herself right smack dab in the middle!! She is always asking questions and placing herself in the middle of other people's lives, we have seen it happen since season 1! And you were more than happy to allow her to do it. If you really cared about this family becoming close, you would not have fueled the fire and joined the show when you already had issues in the family. Why would you? Money and fame. Plain and simple. Its obvious to anyone who has a brain that bashing Teresa is your platform. Way to sell out family. 

kmk9
kmk9

 "I think it is very obvious that I have never been the problem here. "

 

WTH? Was that supposed to be a serious statement? Most of us saw thru you and your husband from day one. Other's are just seeing it now...

 

Either way... the majority of people have figured you out for what you really are. 

 

Sad and pathetic. 

 

 

 

 

beandip54
beandip54

wow! comments on here are hilarious!  Some people clearly have their blinders on.  They don't see any good in any other housewife than Teresa! Sad, sad world they live in.  I think some viewers are just attracted to the hatred, jealousy, mean spirited, instigating, lying BS that Teresa is.  I think it's great that Joe initiated the "therapy".  Hope it works. 

santerra
santerra

 @nonaNJ

 Yes, Kandi is good at auto tuning peoples voices for records.

IsItJustMe
IsItJustMe

 @jilly4 I agree with you on everything except the Joey (mini-man) Gorga.  He is just as bad, if not worse with his words about his sister, Teresa.  He makes my skin crawl.

IsItJustMe
IsItJustMe

 @notsonice The Manzo's are not boring they are all bullies!  I turn the channel when they are on!

cherryhillpt
cherryhillpt

 @MomLeader I agree with all you said. Can't wait  for the episode where Melissa gets outed for having stripped in the past. Not that there is anything wrong  with that. I  just want her to fall off that holier than thou pedestal she put herself on. As Melissa always says, THANK YOU JESUS.

IsItJustMe
IsItJustMe

 @MomLeader WOW!!!  I love and agree with your post 1000%!!!  

 

The sad part about this whole fiasco is that Melissa, Joey, Kathy and Richie destroyed their own family to a point, I am sad to say, will never be repaired.  Sad......  

dbizzygal
dbizzygal

 @chadjones803 does being genuine include contacting someone on the show to hurt your husbands family becuase you "hate" them? or geuine in the "oh we'll take one for the team" comment or was she genuine when she did the fake singing in her first season that her husband never heard her sing before or last but not least the " she leave you for someone richer comment re-created in the closet. Justy trying to clarify your definition of genuine <shrug>

 

vanessa2277
vanessa2277

 @Tdtorre03 Shame on Bravo? Shame on you! You are taking this show way too serious. 

Robinlynn
Robinlynn

 @Tdtorre03

 Real classy post!  I see why you love Teresa!  Melissa and Kathy does not need Teresa's permission to do anything!

santerra
santerra

 @FunEblonde

 Why is it that Teresa appears to be genuine about mending this realtionship as you and your husband and then wham you try to publicly humiliate and embarrass her at every turn. I don't believe you or your husband>

ronkefada
ronkefada

@MomLeader Preach on sister. You summarized the situation pretty well. My thots exactly.

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

 @MomLeader

 Excellent blog! Very insighful. The Gorga Sr's love Juicy Joe, he may be a loudmouth, but they know he has a good heart. This DOES explain why Joe would be so hell bent on sticking it to Teresa on this show. He has brought it up more than once and it is the first thing he said when the doc asked whats the problem? And yup, at the gymnastic meet, Melissa was a sourpuss and she could care less about their feelings. Your point explains why Teresa said all of a sudden Joe Gorga hated Juicy Joe---it's because the Gorga Sr's have unconditional love for them at that home, but who could look past all Melissa has done???????

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

 @andebrown70

 

"Melissa doesn't make underhanded comments"???? OMG, once you wrote that, I just had to stop reading!!! LOL, DUH!

santerra
santerra

 @cehemisea bit emotional, LOL who carries on and ruins their own son's christening and publicly humilates their own parents on  national TV because they are mad at their sister??? unforgivable!

 

Christiann52
Christiann52

 @kmk9

 so true, we do see right through Melissa's act and know exactly who she is.  Funny, Caroline and Jacqueline got along with Teresa before Melissa & Kathy came on the show.  That tells me exactly who poisoned the pot! 

chadjones803
chadjones803

@beandip54 im with you. I'm not buying all this love for Teresa and all the bashing of Melissa. It wouldn't surprise me that Teresa has a team of folks creating accounts and posting nasty comments. Surely there are intelligent people that watch this show and can clearly see Teresa and even MORE her husband are evil and care only about themselves. You can see Melissa trying to make things work.

LisLwr
LisLwr

 @beandip54

 YOUR comment is the hilalrious one. I got news for you, we SEE the other housewives,,,,,we just don't like them because they are horrible people. Teresa may not be perfect, but she's not a horrible person, far, far from it.

acoreschick
acoreschick

 @beandip54 If you check out Meliss's sister Kim Pirella's first twitter page, she flat out states that Melissa didn't like Teresa because she didn't allow them to be filmed with them during Season 1 and Season2....hmmm..now? but hurry quick, I'm sure if this gets read that original twitter account will dissappear and only her her current one she started this year will come up. 

CC1921
CC1921

 @beandip54 Joe initiated the therapy because he knew Teresa was old school and never believed she would do it. Did you see his face when she agreed? He looked like he pooped his pants. It was not sincere....all you have to do is watch the episode again and listen to the way he talked to her after the therapy session when he thought the cameras were away....

suzyq1234
suzyq1234

 @beandip54 Did you hear him after the therapy session?  Teresa could have had that purse for 10 years for all he knew.  He jumped down Teresa's throat just the way he did the time he called her garbage.  There aren't many people that would say that about any of their parents children. With his attitude therapy doesn't stand a chance.  You are correct about hilarious comments though. 

Tdtorre03
Tdtorre03

@Robinlynn The truth hurts. Who said anything about asking "permission?" That sounds like the same kind of logic that Melissa and K would want you to believe. Except the public is not buying their bs. The fact is that both sold their souls to Bravo the minute they agreed to bash their SIL and cousin in exchange for 15 minutes of fame. Those are the facts!

JMRN
JMRN

@chadjones803 Please stop with the Teresa has and pays for people to blog and tweet negative things about the Laurita's, Melissa, Jac and nasty Manzo's. Is it so difficult and ignorant to believe that people like Teresa.

LisLwr
LisLwr

 @acoreschick

 wow, you have way too much time on your hands..you're actually chorographing future menauevers in your head. And if you wanna open up the melissa sister can of worms, anyone can google their name with fame whorgas and you'll see a whole bunch of things that Melissa would sure like deleted...

JMRN
JMRN

@suzyq1234 @beandip54 Yeah, kind of wierd that Joe AND Caroline had to make a snarky comment about Teresa's pocketbook. Confirms that the Manzos, Gorga's & Laurita's are on the same page. What freakin "brother" mentions a nasty comment about a pocketbook and puts out all his parent's personal information "on display". Disgusting.

JerseyG
JerseyG

 @LisLwr It's not  the art of choreographing anything, just the simple fact in how future behavior can be based on PAST behavior.   Why are you on any board commenting/reading/in-the-know,  if YOU don't have "too much time" on YOUR hands?   Who exactly ARE YOU to call anyone one out on anything?

suzyq1234
suzyq1234

 @JMRN  @suzyq1234  @beandip54 You said it JMRN.  What a son or daughter do for their parents should be done out of love for them.  If it is done out of love then you don't think of throwing it up later (much less broadcast it on TV).  That is the way a family should be.  Thanks for pointing that out.