Teresa, Over and over I've tried to think the best of you, but actress you never will be. That staged nonsense between you Kim D. and Baldy is just so beneath you. Why?

You know what it is like to have trouble in the home. Your husband can't stand to be near you or have you touch him even for the cameras, your children don't respect you, you have no one on this earth, except perhaps the Lord Almighty to hear the truth from you.

You aren't honest with anyone - not even yourself.

Then, maliciously, you continue to try to undermine your sister-in-law and malign the people who have stood by you for years?

Make millions. Smile all  you want. You're a sad, lonesome, shell of a person, and only somewhat really in trouble would be so malicious against her own family.

I'm sorry for you and throw up a bit in my mouth just seeing that ridiculous act you tried to put on at the fashion show.

was never a fan of Theresa before this season.  Really don't like any of them. As a "Real" housewife of NJ, this pack does not "represent".  That being said, my reason for siding with Theresa is because of the Gorgas.  If what I have read is true, and I have no reason to beileve it isn't, the Gorgas did everything in their power to get on this show for two years.  Hounded the producers to put them on.  They finally got their way when they sent in a tape, promising to bring their personal family drama to the show.  If anyone doubts that, re-watch the first 10 min. of last year's first episode.  Who would invite his sister and family to the Christening only to immediately attack his sister in the very first scene.  The names that he called her when she went over to congratulate them was offensive and appaling.  That first scene is proof to this viewer that the Gorga's delivered what they promised.  It was a disgusting, totally planned, well rehearsed scene that Theresa clearly did not see coming.  The Gorga's are phony who had no intention of moving into that monstrosity of a house as Joey is a builder until they pushed their way onto the show so that they could be "on display" (Worst song ever).  Joey built that house on "spec" with a no interest loan and now that the interest is due, they can no longer afford to be on display. 

Each and every one of the other cast members are all trying to cash in with their own brand, i.e., Caroline, aka Tony Soprano-pushing her kids "Black Water', lasted about a minute. Black Water? Come on.  Chris, who is the only one whom I respect is hawking his wine., Kathy with her dessert drink and I guarantee a dessert book, and last but not least.......Melissa "Gag Ya".  Never before have I seen such a "display" of embarassment. Every time she tries to sing, the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.  Maybe Theresa doesn't come off as the sharpest knife in the drawer but she is alot smarter than she appear.  And she's laughing all the way to the bank. Good for her as she is going to need it with her husband and their future legal problems.  The jealousy for her is so thick, you can cut it with a knife so if anyone out there believes that the Gorgas and Wakilies have any good intentions toward Theresa and cannot see what their real motive was,contact me because  I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you!

Teresa, I am not a hater but you are really in your own world this season!( love love love your styles this season, way better then 1st and 2 nd season!) What happened to you? you can't let fame get to your head and that's what it looks like, sorry its true. And it will be gone before you know it. You were so nice, now you are bugging out!! And we can tell when Joe screams at you, you don't like it. You really should flip a table at him! lol. And your girls should have their own show!!! They are great!!!!

Spot on Tre. 

How dare you! I am sick to my stomach that you have tried to come between Rosie and Kathy. Telling Rosie “remember how Kathy use to treat you?” What gives you the right to put in your 2 cents in? Oh I know you need more drama for the soap opera. There is always sibling rivalry you should know. You don't listen. You are who you are and God bless for the friends you have left who really just kiss you’re booty and not worry or care if you’re really O.K. like Jacqueline and Caroline. Chris was willing to purchase all your auction items and return them to you. You cannot find any better friends and yet you don’t listen and treat them like chit. I’m done being the mean girl. Your therapist is right, you need to listen more and talk less. Good luck, I love my soap opera I just wish you were a little nicer to each other.

I used to like you Teresa. Now, not so much.  you come across as being very insincere, and really not very nice.  You don;t show much of a soft side, nor does it appear that you are a very good friend.  Do you ever ask how your friends or family are doing?   Your husband is rude, ill-mannered,  I agree with your family and former friends..YOU are not a good friend or good to your family!  Maybe celebrity has gone to your head!

Hello:  This post actually goes to the next week, but I was having too much trouble with that blog, so here it is.  Really wanted to share this with you.

I wrote this great post and then, apparently, erased it.  It has entered the netherworld of orphan postings.  So the gist of it was this:  Your blog was one long gripe-fest if ever there was one.  I mean from start to finish, I don’t think anyone was immune.  You are truly an equal-opportunity complainer.  The difference here is that I don’t see you as any kind of victim, no way, no how.  I know you set things up that way, but hey…I call them as I see them.

This tabloid business:  You’re the only one doing tabloid stories and posing for tabloid photo shoots.  You’re the only one doing tabloid interviews, so when things pop up in your stories about, say, other people on the show, well, it sure does look like they come from you.  But, okay, let’s say, for the sake of argument, that somebody else gave every single piece of gossip to the tabloids, and they just magically got dropped into your stories for some strange reason.  Let’s say that somebody else had a disparaging word about every other member of the cast.  Who do you think that was?  Your brother?  Melissa?  Kathy?  Rich?  Caroline?  Jacqueline?  That makes about as much sense as Anderson Cooper dating Angelina Jolie.  Nah, it all points to you, dear.  Just you.  You and nobody else but you…and we could break into song.  So, man up as they say, and just take responsibility for what you did.  Otherwise you leave us thinking it was a mysterious tabloid fairie with a penchant for gossip.  But (!) a penchant for gossip about people you happen to be mad at, carry a grudge against, feel  they done you wrong,  or …fill in your grievance mode here.

Then there’s that story about your parents:  Let’s see, Joe kicked them out of their house and you “had” to step in as the good child, and build them an apartment over your garage.  That sure did make him out to be an ogre and you the hero.  Now, we all know that’s not what went down, don’t we?  He sold the house that he owned, got them another house first and all is well.  There was no family crisis and no need to step in and save the day, so to speak.  Beats me how the tabloids screwed that puppy up so  badly.  And speak of…nah, we’ll just leave the puppy business alone.

Last, but not least are the comments about bags—handbags for those out of the “know,” ladies handbags.  Not just any handbags, but really, really nice, expensive ladies handbags.  Is there any other kind?  Actually, there is, but I digress.  You were carrying a really, really, I mean really, nice (re:expensive) handbag to the doc in the last episode.  Really nice (cue the dollar signs) handbag.  The thing is about the comments is that these really are very, very expensive (thousands) handbags, and well, we know you’ve been struggling a bit lately, yes?  I mean I like a good bag as much as the next materialistic woman, absolutely!  But, I’m not in bankruptcy, so ahem, there’s the diff.  Carrying a multi-thousand dollar handbag sends a strange message to the public, especially that part of the public that works in the court system there in N of J.

Teresa, keep doing you. You are a wonderful, hardworking mother. I've seen some people make suggestions about you being away from your girls, but I don't think even they can doubt your love your children. Let the haters hate and you stay positive!! if it weren't for you, the rest of the cast would not have anything to talk about. The way your brother has spoken to you is awful. I have 2 brothers and if they ever (even though i know they wouldn't have) called me names like that, we would need a year long cooling off period because that is not acceptable. Then Caroline has the nerve to say 'Those are good people!". maybe they are, but good people do bad things and she never points that out. From day one Melissa started talking down about you, as well as Kathy. But, they blame you for EVERYTHING. It's all your fault says your brother. He puts no responsibility on his wife. No one does. Whatever she's done, is in the past...It's time up for jacqueline and Caroline. How dare Caroline have the nerve to talk about you mentioning her kids indirectly, when her kids talk trash about you directly and she never corrects them. Although, I have never heard you insult them ever.

You are the perfect example of stand your ground & my any means necessary. I'm not on anyone's side after this episode. You all deserve each other and all the drama associated with being so called family & friends. Sheesh!

I see you as swirling around in a big bowl of hate, and you need to get out of it!!! As entertaining as this show is, it's getting so toxic that the the show is no longer fun to watch. When this show is over (for good) what will you have? Friends? Family? I hope the fifteen minutes of fame are worth it... 

Reading this piece of....shows that your eyes reflect what you are: c r a z y.

Did not like one bit of what you said to Rosie. Now that you are losing your friends you go back to make up to your family. Family is Family, but I wonder how long they are going to take the knock downs on them. What a great "supportive" husband in Joe you have. Everytime you want to talk to him it's.." shut up already..who cares...I don't want to hear it...get rid of them"...just wonderful. If only you could just think of what you say before you say it  because once it out, you may apologize, but the words will always be out there.

Teresa loves Teresa!!once Caroline and Jac had her number then she went to her next victims....

I am trying really hard to understand where you are coming from..but with every turn at a corner it seems like you are always playing the role of a victim while millions of viewers are watching and in actuality you are the one causing most of the problems. You're trying to make things work with your cousin Kathy and in the next scene, you're reminding Rosie of how bad Kathy treated her in the past...How can anyone side with you when you are the one who is talking bad about her own flesh and blood ... As for your brother, if you love him like you say you do then you need to accept his wife and children..Plain and simple, if you can't do that then you need to let him go...I don't know about you but what goes on in this show with you and your insensitive husband is a shame.

All the people out there who "love, love love" Teresa are as evil and delusional as she is. It kills me when I hear people say, "she is going through so much and then they give her a pass on her behavior. She and her husband created all of their problems consciously and with malice.  She writes a cookbook, takes the name (the first book) from Bethany Frankel's Skinny Girl, then people actually BUY those books.  Did anyone catch what she said in one episode?? Talking to her husband at their pizza place, which they walked away from...she said "at least I won't have to cook now" (when they decided he would be an "at home dad"). So she writes cookbooks????Really??? And she doesn't like to cook, okay, got that people?? She has not been a friend to Jacqueline, Caroline or anyone. She has treated Melissa with meanness and expects her brother to put her before his wife...??!!!!!  The list goes on & on. She is really pathetic.   Ugh. She needs to go away. 

You've become so mean this season, I just dont understand what happen to you. I think the fame got to you and personally I just don't like the person u have become. YOU and MELISSA need to get over the jealously you guys have towards each other and GROW UP!!

Oh boy you are hard to watch. i have tried and tried but to no avail....you are hopelessy miserable with yourself therefore you cannot get along with others. Its actually really sad for those girls of yours. I fear what they are being exposed to and all your toxic relationships are not healthy for them to witness. They are young controllable now but I am nervous about the future, remember kids are a product of their environment.

If I was your mom, I would urge you to get off this show and "fix" your life, your marriage, yourself, and all your many broken and failed relationships with friends and family. This kind of personal drama as much as some love lapping it up does NOT belong on TV for all the world to watch. How you do not see that is just beyond me, Teresa.

Wow teresa it is crazy how i really liked you the first two seasons and now your becoming the next danielle who resorts to bashing your friends and your family especially melissa. I mean cant you stop with the blame game and not think thsat you dont have a problem and saying that everyone else has problems. Instead of being grateful on what you have you yourself are causing so many problems and joe really needs to stop insulting your family plus the manzos and lauritas. Just stop being so nasty and maybe you might get more fans i hope that all this drama woth your friends and family can stop cause at the end of it all you could wind up all alone and that would be quite sad im team everyone else sorry

You should be so embarrased and ashamed of yourself for what you say about family members.  Rosie came to you as family and you deflect blame then insult her relationship with her sister.  Horrific!!!

I thought the look brother Joe gave you when he said you looked nice, and that red was sexy.....KINDA GROSS!

It is good that you and your brother are seeking help but you are still in denial! Why do you think that you ahve not done anything! You continue to blame everyone else but you are the one who created this mess with your family! It's very sad that you are so jealous of your sister in law Melissa. I understand how she feels being the one attacked and blamed for ruining a family. I hope that you are being sincere with your brother. It's not right that he's the only one who wants to make things work with you. Be honest and stop denying things! Therapy is for the both of you not just him. What really matters here is that you both see clarity and stop with who said this and who said what! Now you lost Jacqueline as your friend. Why would you behave like that with her? All she wanted was honesty from you. You felt defensive and you lashed out. You cannot handle the fact that weveryone around is right about you, you do make money off the articles, c'mon everyone knows that! Jacqueline was right , you have been caught in so many contracdictions and lies! Own up to what you do! Stop being so defensive and stop competing with your brother!

If i look up "in denial" im pretty sure I would find your name in there!! You serously need a reality check!!!

can i just say, YUCK

I just saw you three on The View.  It was so obviouse that Melissa is as fake as they come.  You may not be perfect, but your NOT FAKE.  Im so sorry for all the troubles your own family has put you through.

No one is held up to a microscope on this show like you are. I know that none of the other women could handle the trials you have gone through and held up to an impossible standard as WELL as you have! I am sure that if every move that Melissa, Jac, C, or Kathy would make while going through financial attacks, and every thing else you have gone through, they could not even begin to handle it with dignity like you have. You are able to get past the ptty gossp so much better than anyone on your show. C is impossible to watch, the way she talks about others causes her to be now, be looked at on every acount, that she has held you up to. She would fail at the end of the day! Truly at a time as ths all of the ladies would say to you if any of the others were having the same diffculties, cut her some slack, she is in a very emotional difficult time. Yet, all they say to you is repulsive things like "nice bag"! That isn't even worth dignifying. In the world you r in, have they taken the time to watch the apprentice and see you in your fashion design element. There ar tons of labels that want opportunities to have thier product on Tv free advertising! Don't get me started on th gifts bags that go onat any premere events, AND THEY KNOW ALL ABOUT THIS! The way your brother commented about your bag, it was weird, why not shoes, or lunch or nyc trips. It is as if they all got together and said look at her expensive bag, lets bring it up on the show for all to see how hypocritical T is. Really quite pathetic. The day you waste your time gossiping on your reality show's precious 7 minutes of time, per episode about someone's article of an outfit they are wearing while in bankruptcy is about never!

It's so stupid the way the others on the show want to attack you with "you have an expensive handbag!"  WHO CARES?  It's so obviouse they are BITTER and wanting to TEAR YOU DOWN.  You are paying off what you have to.  And what you buy is YOUR BUISNESS! They need to shut up with the 'STUPID' remarks.  It just proves they are JEALOUS and dont want what is BEST for you.  They dont seem to want to see you succeed. But forgive them their jealousy and continue to move on. Change what you need to change in yourself, we all need to change and grow into a better person, each and every day. And continue to be kind to your brother and Melissa.  You have to, if you want a relationship with your brother.  There's no other way around it.  Im still "TEAM TERESA"!

First of all Teresa, you say you want to work things out with your brother, what about Melissa? Don't you think you also need to work things out with her too? You know I never hear you call your brother "Melissa's husband" or call Melissa my brother's "wife". I think you hate her and are soo jealous of her you can't stand the thought of your brother being married to her let alone acknowledging it verbally. And your husband, blah! He is really into name calling how mature. Tell him that when he grows up (if ever) he needs to apologize to Joe and Melissa for every bad thing and every bad name he has ever called them. He is soo immature. He thinks he's a bad ass but he's really just a dumb ass and a bully.

Secondly, I remember last year Teresa when you said if Caroline and Jaqueline jumped ship and started siteing with Melissa and Kathy it was ok because you had "lots of friends". Well where did they all go? You are now running to Kathy and your brother (not Melissa since you said you wanted to work things out with your brother) since you no longer have Caroline and Jaqueline because you said they were all you had left. Did you screw all of those other friends over too?

And lastly, instead of throwing your brother and sister in law's gifts to your children in the garbage give them to charity or are you and your husband so self centered you can only think about yourselves?

TERESA, when everyone keeps saying that you are selfish, that you are destroying your relationships with your selfishness, when your own family and friends are saying it, everyone except your husband (who doesn't want you to have friends or family) when are you going to stop saying, it's not me, it's them.  Teresa, IT IS YOU. You are selfish.  You don't deserve expensive handbags, despite what you think, no one else in mainstream America can afford them, and we are all good mothers, too,  You seem to have this idea of entitlement, that you deserve things.  That's BS.  American people are starving on the streets, kicked out of their 100, 000 dollar homes and starving.  How dare you think you are entitled to something more?  Jaqueline was your "friend" for years and you only asked her about her daughter one time??? Come on.....Don't you see you have a very selfish trend going on?  No wonder no one likes you.  All the drama on Bravo for 3 seasons about Ashely and you only asked about her one time?  Don't give me some BS about yeah I asked about her 2 times. We all can see that you did not ever  care about Jaqueline and her struggles with her daughter, that were so important to her. You just wait til your girls get older and see who comes running for you, after how you treated them.  Just saying, what goes around, comes around.  Stop thinking only about your own world, your own problems, your own needs.  Take a step back and realize that other people around you have their own problems that to them are more important than yours ever could be, yet they step out and reach out to you, but you never return the favor.  Time to grow up.  Reach out. Forget your stuff for a while and try to consider what your friends are going through and try to empathize.  I laugh cause I do not think you are capable of that.

First of all Teresa, you say you want to work things out with your brother, what about Melissa? Don't you think you also need to work things out with her too? You know I never hear you call your brother "Melissa's husband" or call Melissa my brother's "wife". I think you hate her and are soo jealous of her you can't stand the thought of your brother being married to her let alone aknowledging it verbally. And your husband, blah! He is really into name calling how mature. Tell him that when he grows up (if ever) he needs to apologize to Joe and Melissa for every bad thing and every bad name he has ever called them. He is soo immature. He thinks he's a bad ass but he's really just a dumb ass and a bully.

Secondly, I remember last year Teresa when you said if Caroline and Jaqueline jumped ship and started siteing with Melissa and Kathy it was ok because you had "lots of friends". Well where did they all go? You are now running to Kathy and your brother (not Melissa since you said you wanted to work things out with your brother) since you no longer have Caroline and Jaqueline because you said they were all you had left. Did you screw all of those other friends over too?

And lastly, instead of throwing your brother and sister in law's gifts to your children in the garbage give them to charity or are you and your husband so self centered you can only think about yourselves?

I really used to enjoy watching the show but what happened to you Teresa.  I can't stand to hear you say every episode that you have been trying everything to resolve your problems with your brother and he's the one with the problems.  I can imagine what it's doing to the people around you.  You really sound crazy.  You put people down in your book and turn around and say it was just a joke.  I'm waiting for you to wake up and take credit for all the bs that you have caused.  All jacqueline wanted was her friend to tell her if all the bs in the smut magazines were true or not and quit lying about not getting paid for the stuff in there.  You know you are so why lie.

Actually it was Caroline And Jacqueline that were done with crazy Teresa.

 I actually think Caroline and Jacqueline were done with Teresa first. They cant argue with crazy Teresa.

Your obsession with your brother began when you were replaced by melissa as the most important person in his life.  You have said that you put your brother before your husband which is disturbing but if I had to live with joe guidice, i'd be a little crazy too. 

Jeez what a low blow from Teresa to say to Rosie "do you remember how your sister used to treat you?".  That was so awful and I can really see how Teresa is probably responsible for the rift between Caroline and her sister, why else would she run straight to Dina's house after her meeting with Jac and Caroline?  Teresa is so hypocritical I don't know how anyone can deal with it - she said to Rosie that it is better to communicate but yet when Jac wants to talk about all the problems she is reading in tabloids Teresa tells her she doesn't like to talk about personal stuff.  Then she goes and calls everyone else out on their personal issues!  Round and round in circles!  Same thing with her brother - whining that he didn't call her when Joe 'went away' and then telling him that she doesn't need him or want to talk with him about it. Teresa keeps saying she's change and this was all last year and look at how she behaved on Sleb Apprentice but look at the blogs each week and she is still trying to blame everyone and drag everyone else down.

Teresa You need to look at your own behaviour and not others You can not change others but you can change yourself. I do feel you can not be a true friend to anyone because you are jealous of everyone and seems to want to up everyone. I do feel you are not secure in your own skin yet and need to prove yourself to everyone. You need to let your guard down and be happy for others and not want to up what they are doing. You have beautiful children and need to be a good role model and i feel you are not there yet./ Stay in therapy and listen to them You don't know everything Let someone else be right and take their advice and you will begin to grow.

You Go Teresa! Keep doing what you do. That's what's killing em. Envy and jealousy rules them all.. You are a great loving mother and friend. They do Not deserve you! May God bless you and your family.

Teresa,  have you seen the person you have become.  A self absorbed unkind person.  You do need therapy, not just with your brother but with your friends.  Your behavior is appalling.  In the beginning of the show i really like you, I now think you are in desperate need of help.

Teresa, do you realize we (your friends and family included) see the things you do and say?  Because it sure seems like you don't get that.   It's almost like you can't see what you are doing.  But it's just like you said "I dont' keep things in my brain."   You SURE don't, that is for sure!

Teresa, you are officially all alone.  Your actions speak louder than words.  You always claim you are only concerned about family, but you have caused so much pain and drama to your own family.  It is abundantly obvious you are jealous of Melissa.  I wasn't a fan of Melissa's last  season, but it is Melissa who really cares about her husband and the family.  Your whole family is together except for you , don't you see that?  You have lost your family & your friends, please re-think taking advise from your husband.  I think you would fare better taking advise from a rock.  

I am amazed at how people like to kick people who are down.  Caroline is a scary person and Jacqueline is just plain weak and bamboozled  by Caroline.  Just take care of your family and don't worry about them.  If there is a team  I am definitely on yours.