This is a reality TV show, and I really don't believe anyone is telling the truth. I believe it's all drama for the camera and it is scripted for audiences to watch. The housewives are actors for the ratings.
If this was in fact real, I believe there needs to be evidence, not heresay. Mark Consuelos mentioned it was all a game of "telephone," and who knows what was really said? Teresa did not actively participate in front of the camera. If she did off-camera, who would know but her, Kim D., and Angelo? Ask all of them. Maybe she was the black sheep. OR maybe she did set this up. Either way, what motive would there be to lose your brother and sister-in-law's family? Who can live in a torn family? No one.
As far as the relationship between Melissa, Teresa, and Joe G., I am devastated that it is now torn apart. There is nothing worse than losing family/friends, especially when you are accused/guilty of doing something to hurt them.
I really feel for both sides. Both sides have their own issues. If this is real.