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Last week I dedicated my blog to all my fans and let them take over talking for me. (If you missed it, you can read it here. I didn't just do that for the fans though, I also did it for the haters. Before you judge any of us, think about this:
More than half a million people follow me on Twitter. (I know they don't all love me, but that's OK. I love the ones that love me, and I respect everyone's opinion.) With all those followers, and lots of people who don't even follow but still talk about us, it's a good bet that there are hundreds of thousands of comments about me and the RHONJ show on Twitter, right? They all exist. They're all real. But there are too many of them for me to put them all on my blog.
I only have so much room for my blog each week, so I had to pick and choose which tweets to use. There were thousands of good ones and thousands of bad ones, but I chose the ones I chose because I had something to say. I was sort of telling a story. I wanted to point out certain things I thought were important or interesting or funny or ridiculous -- things I thought would make for a good blog.
I'm sure if I had 10 different people pick out tweets for me, I would have had 10 totally different blogs. You could chose tweets that make me look great, or tweets that make me look bad. Can you see where I'm going with this? Welcome to TV!
Please stop blaming your bad behavior on the fact that you're Italian. You're ill-mannered, rude and ignorant. Being Italian has nothing to do with it.
Teresa, I hope to see a kinder and more caring girl this season. I think you have gotten a taste of the lime light and have let if go to your head. Girl, get over yourself. Beauty fades but true friends don't!!!
You own nothing. We should make a drinking game called "Teresa doesn't own anything." Every time you deflect blame, we drink. We'll be wasted within the hour!
You can barely formulate a sentence verbally. You expect ME to believe you write your own blogs? As my girl Lauren called you out on...Napalm .
You are a truly delusional person. Please seek mental medical help. As is napalm , you too are also a flammable agent ready to explode. You get angry and start yelling when ANYONE disagrees with you or call you out on your B.S. Will you EVER take responsibility for your words or actions. You have Nothing pleasant to say of anyone . You throw DIGS then try to dispute what you said. God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth so that we may All listen more than we speak. Please, stop listening to all those "yes" people that are hanging on to you. When your 15 minutes are up, they will also be gone. I'm sure you don't read these post, but had to say my peace. Good Luck To You
You are a strong independent woman. You have beautiful children. At times life can be hard, but you're doing really great! Don't let NO BODY bring you down or tell you otherwise!
With the new season coming soon, I hope to see a changed you. I do not know what happened to you last season. You have to take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming everyone around you.
I certainly hope you learned something from last season. You have had time enough to at least start therapy to deal with your twisted reality issues. It cannot all be jealousy....I think there is something deeper bothering you. Anyway....if you have not changed, this will be a hard season to watch. And stop obsessing over your sister-in-law.
Don't judge because you never know what somebody is going through. The 8 min they show on the tv is not all of her life!!!!
@nadejdalancaster @rosyposy honay...you couldn't be going through too much if you wake up for hair and makeup at 5 am.....and film all day....people who allow a personal life to get in their way of filming is obvious to the public.....this is not true reality...as we know it..but is their reality in the context of filming this show...
nadejdalancaster: Sorry, but nothing anyone has ever gone through justifies their constantly starting trouble in their family because they are jealous of their sister-in-law. Teresa seems to have some sort of personality disorder that blocks her from seeing reality.
rosyposy Really? Teresa didn't push her way into Melissa's reality...Melissa and JoeGo came into Teresa's reality...Get it straight.
lasvegaswifey: Sorry, kiddo. This show is about all the housewives. "T" just happens to keep all the drama going with her bat-spit crazy antics. I thought she was going to have a stroke last season over her insane jealousy of Melissa. Melissa can't help it that she is younger, beautiful, and more liked than crazy cow Teresa.
vegaswifey: What a joke. Teresa was exposed as a liar, and a jealous, delusional harpie last season. We USED to like her. Of course, some people still do not see clay feet on their idol. Pathetic
lasvegaswifey: OMG....you are as delusional as crazy "T". That means you are not worth responding to. It is a waste of anyone's time dealing with the delusional. A borderline personality disorder precludes one from any reality.....and leaves them immersed in their narcissic "weird" world. Buhbyeee
Teresa: I hope you and your brother were able to heal your relationship. My relationship with my brother changed too. We grew up, and we don't do the things we did when we were kids. We're not supposed too. Seems like you want the same type of relationship you had when you were a kid, where you could tell your brother everything you are thinking. You can't necessarily do that anymore, especially if it includes telling him his wife will leave him someday for a guy with more money. When things change, you have to change with them, but some things are simply not the right things to do. Best of luck to you.
Congrats on winning the Ryan Seacrest poll... Jacqueline, Kathy, Melissa, Caroline eat your hearts out!!!!!
Teresa you are a hot mess. You lie, back stab, you are jealious and envious of your sister in law, and you are spiteful. First, Melissa has NO reason to want to be like you. Melissa is gorgeous, talented and a sweet person. She is honest, a great mother and a great wife. You are either completely stupid or naive, not to see Joe has lost interest in you. Your children run amuck and you are so judgemental of others, you cant see the mess in your own life. NO ONE wants to be you. I seriously think you are in need of some mental health treatment to address your inability to see reality or be truthful. It is scary to see that your own daughter sees your drama. God help you.
Tre I think you r fantastic as a reality star, mother, wife and even freind and relative its not your fault that fame mongers are trying to make you look bad, ok here is what I dont get - Why does Jac think its soooo wrong to talk to tabloids about your fam and marriage yet she talks about her son (God bless him he is innocent in this) and her husbands money woes, she gets cranky that you wouldnt talk about your money troubles with her on the show but yet it was understandable that she doesnt want to talk about her son on the show. I think that she is well in her right to her privacy but why does she so harshly judge you for wanting the same privacy she wants???
Im sorry but I cant see yor relationship with your brother improving as Melissas whole place on the show would be in jeoprody, she is only there because of you she should be on her hands and knees thanking you not driving bigger wedges between you and Joe if it were not for you her song wouldnt had of mad it to a recording studio let alone on the itunes charts pffft pleeaasee!!! keep on keepin it real we all see you for the sincere person you are forget the haters :) Im sending you my love all the way from Australia mwah!!!!!!!!
My name is Leonie and I am an Australian fan.
I don't agree with everything you do but I don't believe you are a malicious person.
I do agree with you in some of the things you say about your sister-in-law Melissa though. It shows that she wants to be famous (with her singing etc) and so I do believe that she was jealous of you and went on the show so gain the fame she so wants.
I don't know what happens in your marriage that is only something you and Joe should be concerned with and no-one else.
I must say I find it hard to believe that the other housewives all seem to turn on you - please don't take this the wrong way but I believe you are too basic a person to deliberately try to hurt anyone.
I do believe that you love your brother and if it does not work out between you just carry on - their loss.
@leonie Why do you think ANY of them got on the show? Just for something to do because they were bored? The only reason ppl do these reality shows is to become "known" and for the money. Melissa definitely wants fame that is for certain, but so do millions of other people in the world. You're gonna have to find a better reason to hate on her than that.
I really want to hate you, but I can only pity you, I think you are very unwell and suffering from denial. I hope you can sit down and open your eyes and ears to what comes out of your mouth and see what a tragic individual you are becoming.
All is not lost though, everyone is redeemable, I hope you find yourself in the next season and beyond and remember life is not about 'memememememe' (maybe you might think about some charity work to get yourself back to basics and appreciate what life is all about).
Good luck to you, I have a feeling you may need it.
Jennifer (Melbourne, Australia)
Teresa, you need to wake up and put your 4 girls ahead of everything else which means joe. maybe in the old world your moms age women put up with his crap but you know better it"s in your face on tape, photo's friends speaking with you. You seem to think we can't see what he is doing to you and the girls. Hey ask DR. PHILL you know he tells the truth no matter what! Your girls need you to wake up and teach them what real strong women look like a man won't make you but he will break you!
Unfortunately I'm not drinking the Teresa juice or towing the line. Teresa you were deplorable this past season. You couldn't keep your lies straight to save your life. You can't blame it on editting because you spewd lies in the same breath. I don't get why you are so insecure with yourself and over compensate by being hateful to your family and friends. I feel for your children because Gia sees the turmoil and has brought it to your attention and you blow it off. If you don't get some help either with counseling and/or medication, you're going to push everyone away including your children.
What show were you watching ? Teresa is doing great and her girls are going to do great things
@gladys.brown.777 @maggiemay01 surely you can't possibly be serious.....you are delusional, Teresa is out of control.
Ha Ha Ha..those poor girls are seeking attention! But there mother is too busy seeking it as well to pay attention.
@ccwriter are we watching the same show, who came on here to bash their sister. Teresa was not involved in the setup. Melissa got what she wanted fame and no contact with her inlaws. Ps Caroline wasn't nice to Danielle either.
You were an absolute witch to Danielle Staub, and I think this is karma for the way you treated her. I was relieved to hear you say how you regretted the way you treated her (that was very big of you, Teresa, and I commend you for doing so). Overall, I started to like you in season 3 (and I even like you in season 4). I would like to see you take more accountability for some of the things you have said and done (like making certain comments about Melissa in front of your daughters). Honestly, my heart went out to you during this season's 3 part reunion special (It was like EVERYONE was gunning for you)!!!!!!!!!!! Teresa, I think you're afraid of being alone (everybody, including STEVIE WONDER can see that Joe Guidice is cheating on you, AND YOU DON'T DESERVE IT, you're so much more than that). Teresa, for whatever reason you and Joe Gorga aren't getting along, please understand that you only have one family, so PLEASE RECONCILE WITH JOE, you both love each other, and at the end of the day, that's all that matters. In all honesty, I believe a major reason for some of your complications could be your OWN HUSBAND!!!!!!!! I think you and Kathy could have a great relationship again, but SHE WAS OUT OF LINE talking about your parents (calling your mother a "liar" and your father a "coward"... WHO DOES THAT)?????? Then you had to deal with Rosie, who is a sweetheart, but was FAR TOO VOLATILE BACKSTAGE, after hearing your response. In conclusion, Teresa you seem to be a good person, but some of the problems you're experiencing at home seem to be affecting other areas of your life. Keep your eyes on Joe, and stay away from Jacqueline (the way she behaved at the reunion was DISGUSTING).
@JRoc85 a sweetheart does not want to rip someone tongue out. Kathy's comment was much more hurtful.
Jerseygirlforlife I wasn't condoning Rosie's actions AT ALL, what I was saying is that Rosie was a sweetheart throughout the season until the reunion!!!!!!!!!!
I felt so sorry for you especially at the reunion when your own cousin trashed your parents. I noticed that when you mentioned her father she sure didn't like that and rosie went bonkers. Its ok for them to be hateful and mean and what you said was that your father was more of a father to them than their own was, not like kathy and just trying to hurt you. Your brother is an idiot if he allows kathy around after saying that about his own parents. Melissa and kathy were so obvious about what their agenda was and it still didn't get them anywhere. Caroline for whatever reasons needs to be the momma of all you girls..silly because she has caused so much drama considering she is the first to say she isn't about the drama. She feels the need to attack you and to get everyone on the bandwagon all because you are friends with dina and she isn't. It says something when your own sister wants nothing to do with you...think about it you all. Teresa would never had been able to drive a wedge between those two sisters, it was something wrong between the two and caroline is mad because teresa remained dinas friend. Caroline and jacky getting all buddy buddy with kathy and melissa was a way to pay teresa back...anyone can see it. These girls need to focus more on themselves and their families instead of how to destroy teresas. Teresa is doing good...way to go!!!
sonnyboy First off sonnyboy Teresa was the first one that brought the parents into the argument during the reunion when Teresa said that her mother said that Kathy and Richie were going to divorce, If Teresa hadn't said that then the parent s would have never been brought up, Then when that back fired she brought up how her Father was around more then Kathy's and Rosies Father, Teresa can't seem to control what comes out of her mouth. Now as far has NEWS and this is a RUMMOR that Teresa is DIVORCING Juicy Joe after the Holidays thats from Radaronline. Now MsCommonSense the only one OBSESSED with Teresa is Jacqueline she's also a twitter junkie.
2rcom4t sonnyboy I think whoever brought up the parents first is irrelevant. Sonnyboy is talking about the fact that Kathy trashed Teresas parents. Regardless of who brought who up first she shouldnt have done it. Kathy admitted she was wrong so trying to defend her actions is redundant.
@lambyjj @2rcom4t @sonnyboy Kathy admitted she was wrong because she is a person with integrity. She didn't wait to hear the vote of public opinion but said she was wrong during the reunion. It does matter who brought it up. Teresa threw her mom under the bus which lots of folks seem to forget.
Motorcitywife lambyjj 2rcom4t sonnyboy If she had integrity those things wouldn't have come out of her mouth in the first place.
Motorcitywife lambyjj 2rcom4t sonnyboy Kathy revealed her true self during the reunion...The one Teresa knows all to well.
Calling your aunt an f***ing liar and your uncle a coward on national television was completely out of line.
Kathy showed no integrity whatsoever...Period.
@lambyjj @2rcom4t @sonnyboy Oh please. So you've never said anything in the heat of the moment that you regretted? Remember, not long before this exchange Teresa called Kathy a f'ing piece of sh*t when Kathy replied to a question by Andy about the cookies. This was completely unprovoked and came out of nowhere. Bottom line, they both said mean things (Teresa said hers first) and only one of them apologized. In most folks opinion it would be pretty clear who possesses more integrity. Yet another example of a situation where you crazy people go all ape sh*t about the behavior of someone else while conveniently forgiving Teresa for anything and everything.
Yes she did admit she was wrong and said she was sorry. Teresa never did say she was sorry for implying their father wasn't there for them.
Motorcitywife lambyjj 2rcom4t sonnyboy Saying something in the heat of the moment cannot compare with what Kathy did. No matter how much I was pushed I would never disrespect elders in my family. Never. To me, that's about as low as you can go. Maybe I'm just more "old school" than Kathy.
Motorcitywife lambyjj 2rcom4t sonnyboy Teresa didn't call Kathy's parents any names.
Kathy disrespected (Teresa's parents) her aunt and uncle...
lambyjj Motorcitywife 2rcom4t sonnyboy I don't agree with what was said, however, it was in the heat of the moment. Kathy does have integrity because she did admit she was in the wrong. Where as Teresa wouldn't admit she was wrong to save her life. Karma is a bitch and I see it coming straight at Teresa.
After watching some of these shows yet again, trying to find some shred of doubt about Teresa; I continue to come to the conclusion that Cryoline and Smackleen are OBSESSED with Teresa. Every time i see Teresa making a mistake it's in defense of herself. The other ladies have tuned into her weaknesses and they continue to take advantage of them. They also do this under the guise that they are doing all the right things. Keep watching folks; its all very obvious.