Teresa Giudice

Teresa Giudice went to Napa hoping for the best.

on Jul 30, 20120

Hi Sweethearts!

I had the best time last night on WWHL with Andy Cohen and Renee Graziano! If you missed it, you can find it online. Be sure to check out the After Show!



I love, love, love Renee and love her show. She was such a sweetheart. And Andy was on fire! I finally got to tell him about the dream I had after I read his book. Here's a hint: it was hot!

I loved this week's episode too. Finally you get to see my family how we used to be, having fun and hanging out. I'm so glad I ignored the therapist's advice and shared an RV with Melissa and my brother. I'm also glad I didn't know what they were all saying behind my back before we went, because I was able to go in with an open heart and an open mind, and I think you can see how that affected things. They went in expecting the worst, I went in hoping for the best. I think you have to go into situations (even difficult ones) with a good attitude, or you'll never fix it.

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jennifer.hammond.1806
jennifer.hammond.1806

I watched the Napa episode where you and Jaqueline "reconciled".  I don't know how she was suckered into apologizing to you or how you could have flat out told her you had done nothing to hurt her.  From what I see on the show, you have no self-awareness.  "I don't hold grudges", "I'm don't get nasty"!  You would think that watching your life play out on TV would give you some insight! Clearly not!

RHNYATL_FAN93
RHNYATL_FAN93

I'm not sure as to why every time someone posts something on the contrary to you a Lynch Mob forms, but its very disturbing. People should be able to post whatever is on their mind without the threat of WWIII being formed. That being said, here are my thoughts on the whole thing.

 

4 years ago we all tuned in to check out Bravo's newest group of ladies for their Housewive's franchise. We had Caroline ( The Tough, but Family-Oriented and Loyal one), Dina ( The Humble, Business-Savvy, and Compassionate one), Jacqueline( The Energetic, Free-Spirited and Perky one), Teresa (The Feisty, Funny, and Caring one) and Danielle, for what its worth, (The Troubled, Misguided and Vulnerable one). Flaws and all, these were our girls. We loved them, hated them and everything in between and after all of the dram that has taken place, I can honestly say that I would rather watch a marathon of Danielle's crazy antics than watch the train-wreck that this show has become. In my opinion, Bravo should have NEVER extended an Olive Branch to Teresa's family members because once the deal was made, there was no going back. This family obviously has issues and the stress of being on camera and allowing the world to chime in on all this foolishness has really only made things worse. Teresa, Joe, Melissa, Joe Gorga, Kathy, & Rich should all attend a group therapy session and handle their business OFF camera. I truly believe that somewhere in their minds they thought that the camera would help point out some of their issues, but as long as you have people in denial about the garbage, NOTHING will ever get resolved. As for Caroline and Jacqueline, they could use a little soul- searching as well. Jacqueline needs to find a way to get through to Ashley and identify where the hell things might have gone wrong in between her parenting, and Ashley's upbringing. There's some deep-rooted issues there that need to be fixed, ASAP. Caroline needs to figure out why it's so easy for her to dismiss someone, whether it be friend,family, or fan, just because of a disagreement. That's neither mature, nor rational behavior no matter how you look at it. All in all, what we're seeing here is everyone's shxt catching up to them and its only a matter of time before things get worse if some sort of Intervention isn't done. Neither Teresa, nor Jacqueline, nor Caroline, nor Melissa, nor either Joes, are saints. Some just do a better job at not being so obvious that shxt is hitting the fan. And while we are fans of each of them, we cannot jump on the same denial train that they're on and pretend that none of them have problems because they ALL do. The only one I can honestly say is in somewhat of a safe zone, is Kathy. Anyway, God knows how many episodes are left but honestly, I really do hope that they all work it out and come together because this is foolishness.. and that same dark element/cloud that manifested over New York(and caused a major recast), is started to slowly but surely, make its way to Jersey.

 

 

 

-Housewives King

Kylie81
Kylie81

Teresa, I think it shows some maturing on your part to have an open mind & heart.  It would be nice to hear you humbly admit you may have been wrong about something and sincerely  apologize... without following it with "but,.... (excuse)" or attacking someone else.  Your behavior on the last reunion show was horrific and narcisitc.  I haven't given up on you.  Just hoping I see more glimmers of maturity.  Just be 'real' because reality is... no one is perfect and we all are at fault and wrong at times....  We all get emotional, over react and make excuses at times.  If you want respect, show us your teachable and humble and move on. 

louise123
louise123

Listen everybody, it's up to Teresa how and what she will forgive (and no one but the people involved will ever know the whole truth) but Teresa has four young girls to think about and while I'm not making excuses, I cannot imagine what Joe has gone through seeing his wife have to bring home the bacon, THEN to have it compounded tenfold by her own family wanting to see her publicly ruined and her character assassinated, just because they wanted BAD, the fame she had carved out for herself, and because they danced on the coffee table when they were little (ps, we all did Melissa.) I think Joe Guidice could give a cr*p about Caroline and Jac, but he even told Joe Gorga this week while peeing together, (and I'm pretty sure if two men are holding their "souls" together and speaking, it's kinda like a pinky promise with women,) that the only time he and Teresa fight is when Teresa tells him what Joe and Melissa are DOING to her. He's a man of few words so I believe that is the entire problem with Joe. We've seen it. Geez, look how mad WE all are at what they have done cold stone sober to her, imagine if you really loved Teresa as he does? I think he's at the end of his rope, he's facing a prison sentence with 4 small girls and his family is rooting for their complete demise on this show. Her family seems like they are back peddling now FAST, but the damage is done, and it's easy to back peddle, once you have everything you dreamed about, fought in the dirt for, and ruined lives over. It's just too late, and it was too hateful and PERSONAL. Hell, Ramona talks cr*p about everyone, Kyle is the mean girl, Tamra fights when feels inferior, NeNe is a egomaniac smack talker, but they are all harmless maneuvers at the end of the day. That's why the reactions here are not the same as the other shows. THIS show is so different because the end result they were trying to make happen to Teresa, was to downright kill her persona, thus her life. And they did it so personally. seeping into her "every" area,friends, fans,show etc. And she and Joe know this. But as far as Teresa and Joe are concerned, it's up to her what she will make happen with her immediate family, and I hope whatever decision it is, it's the right one for her..AND for Joe. And I hope she realizes the fans are behind her, where her own family failed her, and threw her under the bus.

valgal62
valgal62

Teresa just keep being you. You remind me of the saying, when the going gets tough, the tough get going. A marriage is between 2 people and no one else. I have been married 30 years, and we went through are share of those "for better or worse" I made a vow and I took them seriously. Working on your marriage does not mean you are a doormat. You have to know the difference of what can be worked on and what can not. That is different for everyone. I wish it were as simple as where there is love there will be forgiveness.I wish you and your family much happiness, you are a strong women, and will come out on top. I am truley sorry that you have had to go through so much the last few years, but everytime you have landed on your feet.

God Bless

 

LadyK2507
LadyK2507

TEAM TERESA!!!!! Please continue to be yourself and be the best person you can be!

real1housewife
real1housewife

Teresa, teresa, teresa, what has happened to you. You need to get rid of your husband he is no good. Also when you do a magazine article, think before you speak. it may help you with your so called friends. Some like Kathy care for you, others are jealous because you are the most popular, but not always in a good way.

bella216
bella216

Teresa maybe you should ask Jaqueline what she wants in a friend and try to be that for you because it seems that you both have different views of what a 'friendship' is and to be on the same page you have to know what the expectations are.....Jacqueline reads things on magazines and doesn't get a full story from you just the 'everything is fine' look and no discussion and then wonders what is true and what is story.....so transparency in any relationship is going to make the bond stronger....

 

it is a great thing with you and your brother working together to strengthen your relationship...

good luck with that too...it is a positive step you are family

samisa07
samisa07

I'm already looking forward to the excuse she's going to blog regarding joe's behavior for next week's episode....DENIAL CENTRAL!!!

JanetDowney
JanetDowney

Myself I think Theresa is a little self center

 

EjadeS
EjadeS

Teresa was being real & open with Jacq.  Jacq was being ridiculous as usual!

LisLwr
LisLwr

I'll answer the new repeated question: Well Teresa has so many followers because we've watched a person get publicly lynched and slowly tortured and humiliated out of nothing more than all ecompassing jealousy.She's handled it amazingly well, and they are all scrambling because she hasn't fought back low and dirty and we the "fans"  ,,get that. She doesn't have the manipulation gene that these ladies do, she just doesn't. We get that Teresa can be tunnel visioned, and self centered, but she's not malicious. Not even close. Everyone knows what this is all about. That "family" of hers wanted what she had, and they set out to just ruin her in every aspect of her life to GET IT. Bottom line, end of story. Yup, Joe Guidice got caught in a horrible call, though I can't help but think after what these people have done to his family for two agonizing years, that that phone call is ALL we have seen him do that is erratic. My god, he had to break bread with people who want his family RUINED, and he has to sit there while the cameras document what these people are doing,  while everyone pretends it something it isn't. It sure seems he lied about who he was talking to, and even if the implications are true, it takes NOTHING away from what these people have done and who they are. I'd STILL take Juicy Joe over thesee piranhas ANY DAY. No one knows what he's done, it sure doesn't look "good", but he didn't intentionally try and systematically destroy another human, he did perhaps try and destroy a "tree," but I'm betting there wasn't forethought malice. The fact that it's posted NOW, and Joe Gorga's rant behind closed doors wasn't posted, a rant that equaled anger and language in equal fervor, shows me exactly what this show is doing. The viewers are smarter than you think and we know the good guys from the bad guys. Isn't it odd, how when Melissa was screaming last night, in a fearful panic and running from underwater enemies she couldn't SEE, that that's the same state she's had Teresa in for two years. Screaming and running from an invisible enemy. My god it was symbolism at it's finest. And even more ironic is that Joe Guidice is the only one who reacted with a "reach out." Oy, thesee last two years with Melissa has been brutal, and I'm so disgusted I now dread Sunday nights when I used to enjoy them so. I will not watch next year with Melissa on, I just won't.

EjadeS
EjadeS

Teresa is awesome! I don't see her holding any grudges but is always cordial until someone is nasty to her, then it is on!  I have watched from the beginning & she always has acted the same! Why is Jacq mad again? Doesn't make sense.  It's obvious they all got together & tried to take her down.  I highly respect Teresa! She is a hard worker, she doesn't complain, she always has a smile & a positive attitude! I hope the Giudices get their own show! Teresa is clearly the star & she is tired of being around these negative, crazy, jealous people.

Jazz22
Jazz22

Teresa you rocked surfing last night episode!! But I noticed that the other ladies were cheering Kathy (who couldn't even get up on the board), and not you!!! You did catch a few waves, and did a great job by not quitting, and what did you get? Jaqueline talking trash about how competitive you are!!!! 

 

Keep on showing that you are not a quitter, and give the best of you in everything that you do!!! I think they're all jealous because you are hot AND athletic!!!! xoxo

LynnfromMN
LynnfromMN

Joe gets a "work" phonecall?  Does this guy have a job?

Rebek
Rebek

Teresa, why do you make nasty comments regarding not just everyone but Jacqueline? Why did you say that she was faking her worries about you when she was trying to reach out to you and Caroline showed up to leave some clothes ...huh? she wasnt faking...and it isnt just tears that shows concern it is actions and Jacquelines seems to be very worried about you..What is so disheartening is how selfish and blind you are. Do you think that your walls aren't going to crumble, IF they havent fallen apart already.  You are very selfish and I wish everyone would stop walking around on eggshells worried about YOU when you dont worry about them! You only want to hear what you want to hear ..and that is why you called certain people friends or family. When they ENLIGHTEN you about YOUR WAYS< then they are not important, or dont care or jealous or this or that..you have a label and a title on everything..... at the end of the day your bank account maybe full but you are going to lose what truly matters.  You know the truth in y our heart ...ALL that is true..... embrace it and grow from it.

LynnfromMN
LynnfromMN

Teresa, get real and admit that you have made alot of mistakes with your friends.  See yourself from other people's point of view.  Holding on to your scumbag of a husband is just holding you back.

coloitalian
coloitalian

Yesterday I went out and looked to the references that were supposedly reliable regarding this situation and the character of the individuals involved.  What I saw was nothing reliable, but a bunch of rags.  Let me just talk about one that was referenced by name on this site more than once.

 

When you type in FameWhorga in the search engine, it brings up a site called FameWhorgas.wordpress.  The title would lead you to believe it is some type of formal journalism site, given the word press in the address.  However, if you look into what wordpress is, it is a tool that any genius or lunatic can use to put their blog on the internet.  All this FameWhorga site is is a blog by an individual, (who doesn't name themselves anywhere that I can see) who is either consumed by obsession of Teresa or consumed by hatred of the others, as is obvious from its content.

 

The content is this; a slanted narrative of the show and copied and pasted comments, mostly from this site, all by those who love, love Teresa.  There is also some copied and pasted articles from on-line tabloids.  There is nothing on this site that is credible or even journalistically responsible.  Really, it is rather pathetic.

 

It is bad enough that we live in a world in which the sources we have for news are in question given the slant that is out there and also given that trusted news anchors are caught manufacturing stories to discredit political candidates they don't like and therefore pump up those they do, if we are going to start believing even sources that have no credibility, than I can do nothing but shake my head and feel lost.  Not about this situation as much as what it says about all of us as a whole.

 

I did find some information about the Laurita bankruptcy which did seem to be credible and also some information that when they knew they were going to file, they pillaged the company, along with their rap star partner (I do think it is fair to say they are not accused of frauding their partner).  At this point, they are contesting that; we will see what happens.  If they end up withdrawing their bankruptcy, I will have to wonder if they were really guilty.  At any rate, whatever consequences they face are theirs, and they will need to face them not, I.  Let's see what happens.

valgal62
valgal62

Teresa, you are one strong person, and I give you credit. Your loyalry to your friends and family is something we dont see to often these days. I have been married for 30 years, and took my vows for better or worse pretty seriously. Your marriage is your business and no one elses. You know what your brother and his wife did to try to harm you, yet you still try to make peace, my guess is you are doing that for the sake of your parents. Surround yourself with good people who will be there for you and are truley happy for your sucsess! As you say, when times get tough you really know who your friends are.

coloitalian
coloitalian

gessie:  No, you are wrong as I was when I originally stated that Joe Gorga was the one who said that if you believe what is in the tabloids you were an idiot.  Joe Guidice said that in the little men's meeting before the trip, and I mistakenly type Guidice rather than Gorga, which a few people corrected me on, rightly so.

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

Here we go on a sideline goosechase...This has become such a witch hunt all I can think of is Gia's day at school after this episode. Bravo, come on! You posted Joe's phone call early so the viewers can watch it over and over with subtitles. How about posting Joe Gorga's rant with subtitles behind closed doors? That one would make adults blush. So now we are to believe the reading between the lines is "Joe is having an affair"?- okay, but what does it have to do with proving the point that Teresa is Satan, and must be destroyed? The point that her FAMILY came on desperately trying to prove and the other ladies joined in because she's a huge success with us? Joe knows these people (including his FAMILY) want him and his wife ruined, on a VERY PERSONAL level, and he had to go on this trip? I'm surprised there wan't an emergency room visit. I don't know how he broke bread with these people? All this has done is make me support Teresa more than ever. People really need to get on facebook. The cause of all of this, MELISSA, is getting away with ALL of this, releasing her video today, writing blase niceties while loving what she's created. And she's receiveing kind, nice blogs, meanwhile because of this episode, Teresa is receiving blogs attacking her family and GIA today--- and they're hideous, cruel comments. Melissa and Joe, I'm sure couldn't be happier. Congratulations Gorgas! What despicable people you are. "Reading between the lines"---okay, so say Joe is having an affair- it takes NOTHING away from the fact that you all want Teresa gone and her products gone, and her happiness gone. All because she was where you want to be. There's strength in numbers and not ONE of them had the decency to stop the bullying. They fed off each other like vultures, and her own brother and wife created this. Shame on all of this cast and the witch-hunt they have seen to fruition.  And shame on Bravo for posting Joe's call on the homepage. Are you waiting for another husband fatality on one of your hw shows? I suppose this won't be printed.....which just proves my point. Didn't work on me, not even close. I couldn't be behind Teresa more. This has gone too far...Melissa's greed and narcacisstic "wants" are why we're all here.

MomLeader
MomLeader

Okay, so the "reading between the lines" is: Joe is having an affiar? Uhg. Teresa's family came on this show and forced the "hand" of the sole argument being Teresa is bad. That's IT, the bottom line. SO it's a game of points and smearing the other "side" And make no mistake, the sides are Teresa against everyone because she had the fans, and the fans buy the "stuff." Whole and entire bottom line. Congratuations Joe and Melissa, you won making Teresa's life hell, her girl's life hell and Joe Guidice is at the end of his rope because you wanted Teresa's LIFE.  Another phone rant? Big deal!  I can't believe he hasn't caused bodily harm after what that family has endured at YOUR hands. Joe can say every word that can't be printed, talk to SIX ladies on the phone-- and I'd way rather know he and Teresa, then The Gorgas, Lauritas, Wakiles and Manzos who set out to prove to all of us that Teresa deserves to be crucified simply because she succeeded where they failed. Joe Guidice has not intentionally hurt anyone, except MAYBE a "tree,"...and I'm pretty positive he didn't hate that tree. All this has done is show us all how despearte they are to remove Teresa from the fan base's pocketbooks and I for one am behind Teresa more than ever. I'm sure The Gorgas are most lieky having the rest of the cast over for a party, or at the very least texting like crazy gleefully as their plan of ruining Teresa they "think" has been seen to fruition. Teresa's facebook page where she announces something lovely about Gia today is FILLED with shock bloggers "hate" and nasty stuff,,,meanwhile Melissa is posting lovely comments and receiving them, with a smile like the Cheshire cat. How horrible.....

cehemise
cehemise

So, things are all over the web about what was said in tonight's episode.  Reporters are feigning surprise.  There's no surprise here.  Joe is a rude fellow with little to no respect for his wife or women in general.  He's been rather flaunting an affair under Teresa's nose on the show with many implications.  He's acting like a fellow who is having an affair, being all pumped up in his dealings with his wife.   She, on the other hand, seems to be saavy enough to know what's going on and she tolerates it on camera.  They have a non-relationship going on.  He goes to jail in December.  She goes to a lawyer.  Next story line please.

louise123
louise123

The reason Teresa has so many fans now, and the reason they will never leave is because against everyone's best efforts, we realize that she DIDN'T HURT anyone. Teresa didn't DO anything to anyone, and the "rag" magazine "resort argument" just isn't working because the masses aren't "dumb." The entire reason she and her family are forced to endure horrible, spiteful, really sick blogs is because her family joined. She didn't receive these before, and her family joining, trying to tell the nation how terrible she was, so they could have a shot at their money making endeavors, is the reason she's going through HELL and Teresa knows it.  Now the show has turned into attacking her husband, catching him on a private conversation where he's using words we already heard Joe Gorga use off camera. Now this week, we'll endure the haters speculating it was an affair just as everyone speculated about The Lauritas and Manzos asked Teresa to invest in BLK, she said no, and THAT is the reason for the rift. I think it's time Teresa plays fire with fire and lets everything she knows out. They know Teresa doesn't play this way, and I think THIS week's disturbing attack, and the aftermath I'm sure she'll face should give her guilt free conscience to do so. It's TIME Teresa, tell what you know,  as your FAMILY has turned this show into a witch hunt and I can only imagine the day Gia will have at school tomorrow. The fact that the rest of the cast is gleeful that this points towards an affair is the most disgusting part of this whole thing. Wow, and Teresa knows darn well her family has gotten her here, and that's why she's not in their lives. Her FAMILY came on and sprung every blog, board, and conversation out here into us vs them, and there has to be an argument, and the argument they set up is proving how "bad" Teresa is adn somehow Joe's actions prove that. Ridiculous and cruel. I hope she has cut them out completely and forever. Is Bravo waiting for another husband suicide on their show? Seems it. I'm sure this won't be printed, which just shows me exactly who's been in charge of this storyline since The Gorgas joined. The whole witch hunt has been ugly and unnecessary as Teresa never DID anything to receive it. Meanwhile, Melissa's on her facebook page today receiving lovely comments, as Teresa's is filled with haters and her life this week and her GIRLS will be hell. It sickens me how all of this is since her family joined and Joe is absoluetly atthe end of his rope. I can't belive he hasn't wrung necks. Another rant phone call? BIG DEAL! .All Teresa did was fight her way out of a financial hell hole, and she WON---but her family and the other two families on this show wanted the "win"-- the only way to get it was to destroy Teresa. Was the "reading between the lines" that Joe is having an affair? Sick! Teresa's a strong woman and doesn't go down easy because she knows she didn't intentionally hurt anyone SO her immediare"family" has been attacked. Congratulation Joe and Melissa,,,you've diverted ALL ROADS to the destruction of Teresa's family. A family you are no longer part of, and deservedly so.

LisLwr
LisLwr

I had a "breakfast" this morning with friends (who 7 out of 8) watch this show. We were all on the same page, and left in a "pact.,"  What's really troubling and SICK to us, is how the "haters" will use Joe's conversation to attack Teresa with nasty blogs that are OFF POINT of the real issues of this show. It's bad enough Bravo sought out a scene that will damage a relationship, but to then choose to AIR it shows me exactly who's been in charge of this storyline. BUT, to then have the "haters" use it to help these women on this show who want Teresa eradicated is more disturbing than anything to date on this show. You know Jacqueline and Caroline are loving it, and most likely having a party tonight around their tv's....but the sick part to ME, is how much her own family, The Gorgas, and the Lauritas are loving tonight's episode, earning a point for their "team," Listen, they all know how harmless Joe is, that he uses idiotic language to camolfauge his soft heart and feelings of helplessness regarding this show that has attacked his life. Caroline has even TOLD us he's harmless, but now we'll be forced to endure a week of he's a "moster" from the haters that his own FAMILY created. I don't care if Joe uses the F word, the C word, or spoke to a woman OR a baboon on the phone,,,,I would way sooner know Joe Guidice, then the two men who tried to attack, ruin, crucify and flatten their own sister and cousin to the nation.....simply because they want their wives to reap the benefits of this show which Teresa had, and she was in the way of. This show has taken a whole new low, and I for one will support Teresa now more then ever. MORE THAN EVER.

elle1309
elle1309

Teresa,

My heart really went out to you when your husband disrespected you while on the phone. It's so obvious that he does NOT have your back, nor doe he have your best interest at heart. What more evidence do you need that the man doesn't respect you???? Anytime you have any doubts, just play back this scene from the Napa trip. What a jerk. It was painful for me to watch, so I can only imagine how painful it was for you. It was definitely a cringe worthy moment. You have been trying to dig yourself and your family out of the mess that he put you in and for him to treat you the way he did was a low blow. Mind blowing actually.  

FanViewerNJ
FanViewerNJ

Well hooray for The Gorgas. It appears the show has caught Joe in a horrible conversation, where this man, who's had the worst year of his life, compounded with his wife's family trying to crucify them on national TV, is obviously at his breaking point with jail time looming. And whoever he is talking to, Bravo sure did "catch him" didn't they? Nice Bravo, Joe Gudice had to go on a trip and break bread with people who have longed for and helped happen the demise of him and his family. And NOW, the Teresa haters who've been made because The Gorgas have started a movement that ended in having to PICK SIDES, will rip she and Joe apart on these blogs, on a very personal level...ALL of this is the culmination of two very ugly years with The Gudice's at their breaking point in every aspect of their lives,,,and SHE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO ANYBODY BUT HAVE SUCCESSFUL PRODUCTS!. Wow, Gia is sure gonna have agreat day at shool Monday. Nice Bravo. I hope the Gorgas are happy, I KNOW the Lauritas, The Wakiles, and The Manzos sure are. Shame on them all. This has been the most disgusting show I have ever witnessed, and the motives are all greed. .All this has done, is have me support Teresa more than ever! What a bunch of hateful, jealous people.  

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

I am really sorry to see the coming episode of Joe taking a private call.  He must be really stupid; becaue he must know he is being taped and has a microphone on.  What comes to my mind and I am not excusing him, is when he was talking to Teresa in their bedroom.  Teresa was telling him that Gia would hate him if he was cheating.  Joe said "Tre this is what you wanted".  I have been watching RHoNJ since season one.  I truly believe Joe loved Teresa, even Caroline stated that he would be happy living in a cardboard box with Teresa.  He seem like he would do anything for Teresa.  I truly believe that is why he jeopardized his livelihood for her to be happy.  He always seemed he wanted to please her.  Now, I think he resents her for all that he went through to mak her happy and now she is being successful.  Teresa seems to care about material things.  I think she will realize what she had to pay for with being on TV.  I really feel bad for them and their children.  Joe always appeared genuine, he says what he things and feels.  At times I didn't like his delivery, but he was being honest.  He doesn't have a filter.  I think that people get on the Reality Shows for different reasons, but I think for the most part they lose family and friends.  I truly wish that Teresa and Joe can work things out, but Teresa need to learn to truly listen and understand the other person's feelsings.  I always liked Teresa and I miss that happy go lucky spirit of hers.  She changed and I can sympathize with her.  Her family personal business was for all of us to see with her and her husband.  Then she had to deal with her family coming on the show to air her family dirty laundry.  Then she had her so call friends siding with her famil members.  Yes, I understand some of the change, but he has to also take responsibility for her deciding to come on a reality show and for her pitting her brother and husbamd against one another.  She also has to realize she pressured her husband into things.  He wanted to please her and he didn't want to let her down.  This is only my oinion.  Again, I hope the both of them can work out their personal problems privately.

smedly151
smedly151

love you.

very positive blog!!!!

lhuggett
lhuggett

ALTHOUGH I DON'T DRINK ALCOHOL MY SELF, I SAY FOR ALL THOSE WATCHING THE NEXT EPISODE , GRAB A SKINNY GIRL DRINK AND ENJOY THE DRINK FROM A PERSON WHO DID HER OWN WORK, AND NOT JUST DECIDE ON THE COLOR OF A DRINK LIKE TERESA DID,,,

melsmom
melsmom

I cant believe Theresa has so many followers. I have been watching the show for 2 years, and the last thing I would want is to have Theresa as a friend. Karma is her husband treating her like she treats everyone else.WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

ptucker
ptucker

@louise123 But thats thing noone is doing anything to her she is doing it to her self go back to season 1,then come back and talk.but until then she gets what she deserves point blank

louise123
louise123

 @bella216

 that won't appease Jaq, cuz it was never about the magazines.,,,,,she just needed a verbal "excuse" to cover her jealousy that deemed her unfunctionable...

Noodlebomb13
Noodlebomb13

 @EjadeS Well...for one I liked that she finally admitted she was trying to get Jaqs to go against Melissa...she finally told some truth!!!

Mommyjam
Mommyjam

 @LisLwr

 Come to think of it, you're right!  Thatt closed door rant wasn't posted here.  I know Andy loves the Manzos and pretty much is under Don Caro's spell, but I guess he loves everyone but Teresa....

mmb-FL
mmb-FL

 @EjadeS

 The prolem is that Teresa 'imagines' that everyone is 'nasty' to her.

She and Joe go after EVERYONE!

According to the Guidices they are all stupid and not as 'smart, good, good-looking, etc etc.' as the Guidices.

louise123
louise123

 @EjadeS

 she forgave Jaq the day after she read the book to Gia. We saw it! Jaq never talks about THAT. Oh wait, she said she "didn't beieve her."

valgal62
valgal62

 @Rebek

 sorry I disagree, I think the fake worries were the whole set up scene. Teresa stated that they had the usual morning phone call, and Jaq didn't mention a thing. I truley believe Jaq is prety guilable, and was used in a set up, she was hurt because someone convinced her that the entire friendship was fake. When Teresa said that they should part ways, I dont think it was malicious. It seemed to me she was saying this is who I am, same person I have always been faults and all. She also stated that if Jaq is expecting her to share all her personal court and finance stuff, she doesn't feel the need to share that, and would never ask Jaq about that kind of stuff. If my friend was getting ripped apart like that in the tabloids, first of all as a friend, I wouldnt insult my friend for one moment thinking it was true. I wouldnt accuse my friend of putting horrible stories about herself, and I would be there for my friend. I would not expect my friend to need the comforting over the horrible stories, she read about me. Jaq is the one who has tweeted and said some preety bad things in her talking head interview. I dont get her tag line: I am a vegas girl and will call your bluff? She has nothing to say directly to the person, just behind their back. I have friends that talk about themselves, don't really care to listen, when I have problems. The reason we are still friends, is because I have chosen to accept them for who they are. They are not being rude, mean or uncarring, it just doesn't occur to them to ask. When I have a problem, I adress it with a different friend, who always gives me good advice. i really enjoyed watching T & J, they were fun lighthearted, silly and liked to drink wine together and shop, so whats wrong with that? Teresa seems to be very close with her mom, as I am with mine. I discuss financial issues with my husband, and family issues with my mom. So I guess I am not a good friend to anyone. I do have friends that discuss personal things with me, and I feel very uncomfortable about it, because I feel like it is not my business. I guess I am just that kind of person, but because I am, I totally understand where Teresa is coming from, and am confused as to why Jaq had a friend like Teresa for years, and is suddenly finding so much fault with that. It just doesnt make sense to me. I do believe there is more to the story and would not be surpised if it is BLK, and her favorite SIL

melihilton
melihilton

@DeeDee5304 well said. I couldn't agree with you more. People need to realize this is a reality show! Nothing is private when ratings are involved.

Jazz22
Jazz22

 @melsmom I think people relate to Teresa because she have been up in life, but also down, and now working hard to build her family and financials up again. Also, people that have been victims of bullying (like me) can relate to her too, the other cast mates are always ganging up on her, and even the editing and production crew make her look awful on the show.

cndaneli
cndaneli

 @melsmom I think what's messed up is if she's dealing with her husband cheating(as men do) and coming out of a financial meltdown and family breakdown and keeping her 4 kids grounded, her best friend abandons and confronts her NOW when she needs her the most. now that is gonna be some bad karma ..... 

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

 @melsmom

 Teresa has so many follwers because we watched her sister n law and brother come on the show to take her down is a dispicable way..It was ugly and personal. Melissa's Gorga's narcassistic, CRUEL personality and she and her husband's desire for fame has brought us all here, including tonight's witchunt on Joe, following him eavesdropping on private conversations. What's next Melissa? Teresa's children? Wait, they've already been ripped to shreds. The fact is NONE of this negativity chased Teresa, and NO ONE needed to PROVE Teresa a "bad person" until Melissa joined, because that IS what MElissa brought--this us aginst them show. Congratulatons Melissa, I'm sure you're waiting at home tonight to watch Joe's private phone call with popcorn and Caroline and Jaq on speed dial. This has gone too far and Teresa should never allow Melissa or her brother in her life again because she orchestarted this massacre. Teresa, you have out support NOW more than ever.

Claudia660
Claudia660

 @melsmom 

I hope so too!  Teresa is such a well-wishing lovely person.

 

 

debharrington
debharrington

 @melsmom I've never noticed her treating people badly. She isn't touchy feel-ly and up in everyone's business. She doesn't openly talk badly about other cast mates and if she does say something unfriendly, it's only in response to something done/said to/about her. I don't think she's a bad friend, she's just one of those friends who isn't always present and if you are the type of person that needs a friend to cling on to, then she probably isn't the type you want. She's what I call a low maintenance friend and that would be fine with me.

Tu_Madre
Tu_Madre

 @melsmom How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours... Teresa is reaping what she sows..  

chioma
chioma

@melsmom That is a nasty thing to say.

valgal62
valgal62

 @Noodlebomb13But do you blame her? If my friend had her family do what Teresa's family did to her, I would be with her all the way!

 

Jazz22
Jazz22

 @viewer99 Are u blind?!?! Kathy couldn't even stand straight!!! lol Teresa did actually surfed

coloitalian
coloitalian

 @viewer99

 Wow; you are right and I feel so bad.  Although my point was to discredit as a source, giving it more attention so that more may go out to view this garbage was not a good idea.

docis
docis

 @cndaneli But she does not let anyone help her! Everybody would love to! And nobody likes a person who can't admit that they are wrong. And Therese has been so wrong so many times..

nananina
nananina

She might have the fame and $, but she's cleary in an unhappy marriage!

Tu_Madre
Tu_Madre

 @smedly151 That's too bad, cause her life seems pretty confusing and lonely to me. I hope things get better for you both.. : )