Teresa Giudice

Teresa doesn't have the time to purposefully or publicly hurt anyone.

on Jul 3, 20120

And good grief, two weeks ago I wasn't implying anything about Jacqueline's husband in my blog! I was literally trying to give an easy but emotional example I thought she might understand since she didn't get why me forgiving Melissa one time didn't count for everything I didn't know she'd done over the last two years!

I don't know how many times I can say sorry. I'm sorry I can't take the blame for everything in everyone's life. I'm not trying to take anyone down. I'm too busy trying to live my own life, trying to make myself a better person. Right after this season, I went on Celebrity Apprentice to find a new side of myself, and I think I found it. You all saw me there, and how I handled the pressure of that challenge. I learned a lot, and I will hopefully keep learning. Leaving the drama behind and raising money for sick children for NephCure put everything in perspective for me, and I'll never be the same. Our time on earth is short, and I want to spend it helping people and raising my beautiful girls and enjoying my marriage, not trolling on Twitter to hurt people I'm mad at.

I'm going to just keep moving forward, continuing to open my heart to new people and new opportunities, and pray for the best for everyone.

I hope you're all enjoying the summer! I'm loving the beach and the sunshine!

Here's how you can help NephCure: http://nephcure.org/

Here's all the places that sell my super sparkling wine Fabellini:
http://www.teresagiudice.com/fabellini/

Here's my website with photos and my appearance info:
http://www.teresagiudice.com/

And finally, follow me on Twitter @Teresa_Giudice. Love, love, love to you all!

Tanti Baci,

Teresa xx

426 comments
Starlight985
Starlight985

You named negative reasons of how you and your brother are alike. Than you named negative reasons about your brother that you are nothing like, but you fail to name negative reasons about yourself that your brother is not like. Now do you see how you are kinda the problem.

viewerlainie
viewerlainie

For you people who like Melissa, I want to know how you would react if you found out that your own family member, out of pure jealousy, contacted your enemy and told them about your forclosure,and made up a lie that you did not see your nephew in the hospital, all to get on to the TV show you were on. Now she and Stumpy send in a tape dressed like Godfather folks saying how they will bring the drama and take her down a notch. First day on camera with them, at the Christening, they called her garbage and started fistfights. Teresa and Joe's parents hate her for a very good reason. Now that Danielle called in to Andys show and told Tre the truth, she should have kicked the living crap out of Melissa, the bottom feeder, but she forgave her. I would not have and I don't believe there are many that would.

cindy1963
cindy1963

GET A CLUE TERESA!! IF YOUR BROTHER SAID HE WANTS TO GO SEE A THERAPIST AND THEN YOU TELL JACQUELINE "HE WANTS TO GO SEE A PHYSICAL THERAPIST." REALLY TERESA, WHERE IS THE PAIN YOU'RE HAVING IF YOU NEED TO GO SEE A PHYSICAL THERAPIST? YOU REALLY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT?EVERYBODY IS ON TO YOU THAT ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU WANT TO MAKE THINGS ALL BETTER WITH YOUR FAMILY JUST BECAUSE YOU DO NOT HAVE YOUR OTHER "FAMILY" ANYMORE!!! YOU ARE SO FAKE AND TRANSPARENT!!

mustangshirley
mustangshirley

I watched RHNJ a few times on season 4. So then I decided to watch the beginning of the first show so I could catch uptodatel. I saw the part 1 and 2 reunion for season 3. It really was too bad that Teresa did not have anyone to support her and she handled the other 3 who were constantly piggybacking off of each other.  Because of RHNJ and Teresa, these womens' lives have changed tremendously; networking and referral and contacts from just being on the show with her. And two more things: 1) I wish someone in Lauren's family would tell her she's beautiful. In that regard she gets no support from Caroline. It seems as if the Manzo's are all about the sons and the Brownstone and while Lauren has her shop, she's like tagging after the family all the time for her bread crumbs of validation and her physicalo beauty.

2) Jaqueline and Ashley. In 3 seasons and a partial 4th one, I can truly appreciate Ashley's pain, depression and aloneness.  The parents should've called in a counselor to help with the intervention. No parents are perfect and those of us who are parents know the burden of love and the joy of love that surpasses all understanding when we are given children to live in our lives. 

 

Hands down Teresa, you got it going on and keep up the good work! Oh yea, Jersey Girls rule.

corky1121
corky1121

I've read through most of these posts, and it seems there are many people who see Teresa as the bad one.  What most of us viewers don't understand is that we are only seeing a tiny bit of their daily lives. Teresa could sit in those interviews and say gloriously things about her family and never say an unkind word on camera in other situations, but off camera, she could be a devil. All this can be said of the others as well. It seems to me that most of them are being honest in their interviews, about whatever was going on in the clip they are referring to. However, I do believe almost all of them have their bad sides. None of us are perfect. None of us should judge ever. If you are posting from what you see, then to me, what I see is the rest of the cast going after Teresa. Now, Teresa does put her foot in her mouth and I know she does not like Melissa and probably never will. But for the cameras she's showing now that she's trying. Melissa feels the same. Look at the horrible way she contacted Danielle; look at her coming on the show and airing all this family stuff. Teresa never wanted them on and exposing their problems. Melissa and Joe made it worse. To me that means war.  Each and every one of them at times tries to fake it for the camera and appear saintly, then they forget and their true colors and snarky comments come through. All of them do it, even Teresa. I'm a Teresa fan though, but she does it too. But they all are guilty of mean, vicious comments. This year, Teresa has not made as many nasty comments as the rest, so she's getting smart about her on camera interviews, but like I said, behind the camera, she could be a smart, devil. Before the Melissa/Joe invasion, it was Danielle Staub, and everyone was after her, and for good reason; although at the time they didn't know much about her except that there was that book, and then Dina, Caroline released that into the crowd and they were out to get her. Teresa stood by her friends and gave it to Danielle. This year, when Teresa was upset about the Melissa invasion, she warned her friends to not get friendly with them, but they were not loyal to her, and this year and last year it's been the gang after Teresa.

Now behind the camera there may be things we all don't know. Maybe Teresa did terrible things to Caroline;  and maybe not. But we don't really know everything from these people. But from what I've seen, they all went after Teresa for some reason, and maybe it is jealousy because Teresa is fun to watch.

colloctor
colloctor

When is Tree and Joe lying........................when they move their mouth!!!!  awful people!!!

lily-one
lily-one

I loved when you had Ramona eyes after Milania so wisely pointed out that your Joe never wants to see the kids.  If you truly want your family to get past this fighting then why aren't you starting right in your own home with your husband.  Those kids are his niece and nephews too.  If you blame Melissa for breaking you and your brother up then why don't you see that your Joe has a part in it too?  Stop with the nonsense.  Not all of the viewers believe the stuff that comes out of your mouth.

RHWvwr
RHWvwr

Wow Teresa, I now see why you were so blindsighted at the last reunion. What people don't understand is ALL OF THIS, all of this that we are seeing before our very eyes was taped before the last reunion. Think about it people, that bloodbathreunion we saw, was after this season. This proves to me BEYOND A SHADOW of a doubt that your family, this group of vultures has a plan and orchestarted vengeance to take you down. Where you guys are right NOW is where you were when they all sat down in those chairs at the reunion and decided to rip you apart because we the viewers hadn't seen this. Does anyone else need to know anything more about your family??? Teresa, just cut them out of your lives. This is not healthy for yoru girls. They are truly scum. Move on, you've made a name for yourself, and trying to salavge a relationship with your piece of trash brother and your sis and cousin who orchestarted these two seasons is NOT good for your girls. It will destroy them. You brought none of this on. Sure you may react wrong, or become tongue tied with your words, but after knowing what your own family did to you, you are handlinhg it way better than I ever could. Move on and do NOT film with them. 

SassyRN
SassyRN

To say that you have never said anything bad about Kathy or her family on the show just proves how delusional you are.  You think if you say something, people should believe it.  When Rosie came to talk to you, the first thing you did was blame Kathy for the three of y'all not spending more time together.  Do you not think that would be hurtful to both Kathy AND Rosie?  As far as the negative tabloid stories, if you would quit doing photo spreads that appear with these stories, it might be a little more believable that you aren't getting paid for them.  Especially since you admitted as much on the show.  Start remembering the stories you are telling, Teresa. 

LasVegasHousewife
LasVegasHousewife

 Teresa:  I have seen you grow into such a different person.....You had the life of reilly in the beginning to becoming a business woman with alot of hard work and missing family moments that you can never get back.  I am not saying I blame Joe for your misery about money problems, but you stuck by Joe and knew you had to step up and take your life into a different direction to help support your family. Just love your little girls and knowing Gia is truly understanding what is going on....the only thing I would hope you can stop is Joe's disrespect "shut up, your a whore, etc." as we all know as viewers your husband loves you, but loving you means showing respect at all times.  If you can discuss with him that those nasty things he says to you, not only lets your fans think he's a verbal abuser, but it also shows your little girls that it's ok when Daddy does that.  I truly do not think you want that but next time you have a heart to heart with Joe, maybe by telling him that's not nice to say, please stop it, it will get him to think about his choice of words.

 

Now, about the other ladies.  Caroline is completely off her rocker this season and showing so much disrespect, she is losing viewers on her own.  Jaqueline is she worth saving your long time relationship?  You can see in Jaqueline's eyes she does miss you and really wants her friend back, but again is this friendship worth it?  Melissa, has now learned to keep her mouth shut to a certain extent, but it's obvious that she does want all of the children to grow together, but can you really have a good relationship with her now?  The tit for a tat for years is now blown up so out of proportion that Gia sees her as an enemy because you feel she's an enemy.  Children need to decide for themselves, not decide based on what others do.  Sometimes it's best to put all into the past and start over.....it's possible it may surprise you that all the children will see a valid effort on all sides.  Kathy, why is it you were truly mad at Kathy?  I see your pissed they joined the show...Got it....I see Richie saying alot of BS....that just shows him as insincere at times to others feelings.  But again, as you said you were like sisters, what is the truth about why you are still distant?  If you don't hold grudges it's got to be something that happened currently and I just don't see it.  Kathy has endeared alot of pain herself from things you have said.  Throwing her under the bus about Rosie was just as disrespectful, that conversation could have been done privately.  So another tit for a tat?

 

Now, in regards to your brother.....He's a Ham....a good ham.....he's funny but can you and Joe put the past away and start a fresh?  I do not feel your personal finances nor your parents finances are any of our business, but it was your brother that put that out there.

Life is so short Teresa....I realize your business life takes alot of your time, but having a baby brother that always looked up at you, it's time that you and Joe look at each other and see the nice things and the loving things you meant to each other.  Forget about spouses, children, other family members, just talk about the two of you, then the rest can come on the conversation and then you two discuss it and FINALLY move forward.

 

It doesn't matter what happened yesterday, this is all about today and tomorrow and watching all the children grow up into their own identities.  Being an Aunt is an honor not just a give me.

 

Now about our lucious Teresa.  Your beautiful, smart, intelligent (except when you say those funny words...LOL).....you have alot to be thankful for.....you are most of the time so entertaining......being yourself will allow us to be apart of your life for a long time.  I wish you nothing but the best.  As far as some of these idiots on this blog badmouthing you....shame on them.....yes, you have changed, but part of growing everyone experiences growing pains....in your case, your lifestyle of not being an at home mom and having to make money to support your family is admirable.....so shop and shop if that's your way of getting threw the bad times.  It's none of our business how you spend your money....I personally like when you go shopping....as it's a shopping experience full of laughter and enjoyment......God bless

LisLwr
LisLwr

Dear Tersa, I loved last night how you said "The world can be falling and I still smile for my girls". I think you are going to have four very strong, very unique young woman because of you. Not only did your world fall these last two years, your own BROTHER, sister-in-law, and cousin made it happen. They did, they made it happen and they were a tag team with Caroline and Jacqueline when they picked up the jeaousy ball. I hate how everyone keeps saying you need to forgive the past,.. What past? It's your present. The things your brother has said in the talking heads bit are unforgivable. This has all been generated by your brother Teresa. All of this, his being "caught" on camera, and the things he has set you up with, combined with his cocky nature thinking the veiwers were "with" him has made him slip. I'm sorry but he's just a jerk. Yup, he IS the worst brother in the world. All of this was him being jealous of you, and you on this show, and he and Melissa were waiting in the wings to swoop down and just ruin you. I really think you should not forgive them and you should not FOR YOUR GIRLS! I know you spoke about worrying that if your girls saw this, then they would learn to "give up" on one of their siblings and you didn't want that BUT Teresa, I think the odds are a KA-trillion to one, that you could EVER find a person, as loathesome as your brother, who would be willing to do to his sister, what your brother did to you. I don't think such a disgusting sibling could be found again in their lifetime!  I think we have a better chance of Richie winning The Sexiest Man Alive than we do of one of your girls turning on one of their sisters like your brother did. Sure they will have fights, but Teresa, now that you have seen how this played out, it wasn't just "a fight." Your brotehr wants to see you hurt. He does.

 

I think the lesson should be learned, that sometimes, sometimes a person (Joe and Melissa) can have such dark motives in their hearts, and such an ill-willed soul which their actions have proven over and over, and they AREN'T slowing down, that  keeping ties with them will not only sustain and nurture horrible negtivity in their lives, it will most assuredly affect all future realtionships and future realtionships are all your girls have. I think Joe and Melissa have gone too far, and keeping them in your lives will only hurt your girl's EVERY DAY hence forward, as Melissa and Joe are not changing. very moment they live is to get on camera, and every camera miment is wrapped up in deswtroying his sister. Your kids know this, there's no way they don't. They aren't stopping. Last night on The Clubhouse, Melissa had Andy bring up how she joined the show AGAIN. Please. Forgive your past?  She reiterated it last night, and we all know how she's playing with the words "two days" after. She had been in talks with them WEEKS before but she's saying she called you two days after her call to be interviewed. MY GOD, she's a piece of work playing the technicalities. They just don't stop! And there they were, sitting all smug and fresh out of the make-up chair, once again rolling their eyes at you, and bringing the conversation back, every time they COULD to how horrible you are.They are in those chairs because of you and the way they got their air time was unforgivable. They are really just horrible people. They don't care about your girls, they don't, or they wouldn't continue. Listen, on the Clubhouse the comments Richie made were shown again (his vulgar coment) and Melissa and Joe lauged and thought it was funny. Had that been your Joe they would have been rolling thier eyes and saying how horrible he is and how Melissa's father would never have stood for it with her eyes cast downward like a saint. Uhgh, and the reason they lash at at your Joe, and not Richie is because they CONTINUE on the push my sister's face in the MUD plan. CUT them out, it's the right thing for your girls, as this will never change. They will grow up to have their own brother in laws and families, do you want them to be treated as horribly as you have been? That's the lesson you're teaching them: Accept all toxicity in your lives. Sometimes, even FAMILY can go too far. Do you want them to accept all evilness, even if it's family, because make no mistake, what your brotehr has done is evil, I know that sounds harshbut its true. That's the question you should be asking when you're worried about the lessons this will teach them.  CUT Terea, cut! Move on with your glorious life and cut this cancerous tumor off- they won't change, and that's a fact!

CathyC.
CathyC.

All I can say is "funny", Get it??  You my dear are a liar.  You know where the stories are coming from.  You are the one who holds grudges! You take everything everyone says and twist it around to your benefit.  You don't listen..Can you see?  Don't you know that everyone see's both sides of the story?  You need help, seriously you really do!!! Your brother doesn't need the Therapist, you do..

christina.shafferwyman
christina.shafferwyman

Teresa:  Although you were at one time my favorite personality on the show. I regret to say that no longer. I am not sure what on earth is going on with you the last couple of season's, but you are off your rocker.... You need to look at at previous show's and see what you say before trying to tell people you didn't say that... You talk about your family as if they are not people. You have alienated your friends who have been there for you especially Jac.... All she ever did was love you as a friend and like a sister and all she wanted was to hear from you the truth of what was going on with you instead of the tabloids telling her.. She actually cared what happened to you and you dismiss her with, I will give you my attorney's number. What the heck is wrong with you..you should be ashamed of yourself.... you should feel lucky your brother and cousin even want to have a relationship with u...

charlie@company
charlie@company

Mike Tyson described you & Joe to a "T" tonight on Watch What Happens............"how can 2 people who are financially bankrupt........look so good?!?!" Tooooooooo Funny!!!!!!

j1217
j1217

I really just wish that you would admit that you don't want a relationship with your brother as long as he is with his wife. That way you can save your family a whole lot of time as well as stop making every single episode surround you and your family issues. Every episode is about the same stupid issues and if you claim the issues all started when they joined the show (which I find hard to believe) that is the most absurd thing I have ever heard! Seriously?! Get over it that is so freaking petty! And to say that youve been working with your charity from apprentice I would think you would realize how important family truly is and how fast life can go by as well as see that there are a lot bigger problems in the world than sharing the spotlight with your sister in law and cousin. You have a very fortunate lifestyle that you seem to take for granted regardless of your bankruptcy issues and that is truly sad. I only wish working with a charity did actually change you like you claimed it did but based on your past two-three weeks of blogs it doesn't seem that way. You are full of anger, hate, spite, and jealousy. And by continually saying you do nothing wrong or weren't implying anything negative is completely untrue and you know it and or how often as you say it it sounds like you are trying to convince yourself as well as us.

DEVINDA
DEVINDA

Theresa - I hope you read these comments.  I have watched your show from the beginning.  I have to say that the other women are driving me nuts.  I don't know what happened to them.  How dare they be so angry and unfriend you simply because you don't want to discuss your financial affairs or personal feelings with them?  They keep demanding that you cry on their shoulders about your situation, and aren't happy unless you do.  If you tell them everything is ok, they call you a liar and are mad at you for being Fake"  What ever happened to the concept of privacy?  They seem to think if you mention something that gets shown on the show while you are with your attorney or your husband, that makes it fair game for them to dig into and require you to give them every detail.  If you don't, then you are not a good friend.  If you say you are ok and they know you are having problems, you are not a good friend, and they calll you a liar.  I see you as someone who is working through the issues and trying to get on with your life.  People can be friends and still have privacy at some level.  I loved Jacqueline and Caroline, but am very disappointed in them this year.  They need to back off, stop talking about you behind your back; let you know they are there if you need them, but otherwise, just discuss other things with you.  In the meantime, you don't need friends who are only happy if you are sobbing your heart out.  And good friends don't complain about every word you utter, while all the time they are stbbing you in the back in every conversation.  Your brother needs to understand that it's not just you that's the problem in your relationship... HE is part of the problem too... he thinks going to therapy will cure YOU... it takes both people working on a relationship to make it better, and improving communication means that BOTH people have to change.  Wishing you all the best, Theresa.  You are a very strong woman.

amorenomore
amorenomore

It was weird to me that the night before Rosie was loving on you & Joe.  The next day she shows up at your house...blaming you for what others write about her sister???  Why didn't she go straight to the tabloids & complain to them.  Then she questions why you didn't put out a story saying "I didn't say this..."  Goes to show these women are NOT listening to you...YOU told them you don't read that garbage.   If they spent less time reading them & tallking about you behind your back, they might not have such negative,  irrational & stressful lives!

greatl1
greatl1

Teresa you are annoying but that Melissa is a snake in the grass. 

She has brainwashed your brother actually I think your brother is a little slow and he always been insecure about it.

He married that high maintenance know body just because she is pretty , to make himself feel like something.

 

She knows he is insecure and she plays off it

AlissaJohnsxo
AlissaJohnsxo

Teresa you deserve a great summer! My sister and I love you and you are our favorite housewife! It's so sad how jealous the other cast members are of all the press and publicity that you get! I used to like Caroline but this season she's nothing but a jealous hater, Jacquelyn too!

BGonzo
BGonzo

Teresa you need some serious help. You for once need to woman up and take some responsiblity for your actions and the hurt you have caused your family and friends. You are not a geniune person and you have let fame get to you. What is so sad is that you can be so fake and unloyal to your only brother. Trying to get him back into your life now is not a genuine gesture its a selfish one, its only to your convenience. 

hermosagirl
hermosagirl

I really likedk Teresa during the first and second seasons. Now I don't know Wtf happened to her. Troublemaker, liar, constantly denies reality, denies she says things when confronted ALL THE TIME. And what's up with that therapist??  Who knows who's fault it was, but he should have spent time with each of them and ask the tough questions to make them realize their part. No wonder they said, "it didn't work" - the guy dismissed them after saying what they already knew, and didn't press either of them. I'm SICK of Teresa's b.s.  Sad

parsons123
parsons123

First time here.  Can someone explain how Terese is o sdominated by Joe?  She can talk to everyone else?  I get she is delusional about herself but how blind can you be?  I know neither she or her husband are at the top of the brain scale but this goes to absurd.  She wouldn't know a friend if they came up and bit her in the neck.

emcee
emcee

Melissa and Kathy are very different on the show this time around. They're not trash-talking about you anymore but they still sit back and let it happen. Maybe they realized that they were cruel. It's easy for the viewers to forget how it was last season but I understand that you still have feelings of animosity towards them. Caroline obviously has it out for you this season and is planting seeds in peoples minds - "Teresa is lying to you" and "Teresa is a bully".. When she says something, everyone else jumps on. It's not right that she turns everyone against you when she always wants people to decide for themselves.Stay strong, keep supporting your family but  realize that others, like Jac, need your love and attention in their tough times and want to talk about it unlike you. She's always been a really good friend, I hope you've patched things up. She's someone to have on your side and her love for you is blatant. 

N.brown
N.brown

Teresa I really feel for your situation.  I know you must feel incredibly hurt by those that were suppose to be your friends.  Joe was right about friends come and go in your life.  I was proud of you for attempting therapy - I Hope it helped.  I can tell through it all how much you LOVE your brother.  I wish that he would stand up for you around others and not let them bad mouth you - I think seeing and knowing that would heal a lot of the hurt you have felt by his abandonment in the past.  You guys were so close and are family so no matter what I pray that you can mend fences and  find that strong relationship you had before. I will continue to pray for you and your family.  May God Bless You and Your Family!

itznia
itznia

I can't even stomach this show anymore.....but I still adore you Teresa!!!!

mibon
mibon

It looks to me like she is being abused by her friends. And being abused is the definition as I know it of "bullying".  If you don't see it, then you don't see it.  However I do.  They are talking badly to her, she is being nagged about her bankrupcy, a situation that I am sure is hard to go through without your friends constantly bringing it up.  She is being ganged up on,   that whole sit down looked to me like a browbeating and to me again that is "bullying".  So, you can think what you like, you dont know me so please don't come at me like I don't know what bullying is.

lesliann44
lesliann44

I think Teresa is so much in denial about her and her brother having problems.  Her brother has tried talk with her about the issues.  Her problem is she tells her husband everything.  Her husband is a jerk.  

mrsd@13
mrsd@13

From Boo Boo's corner;

I say all I know is I like all of you on the show, especially Kathy. She's so sweet. Teresa, I hope you and your brother will listen to the therapist and do as he says. Atleast try it ok. Therapy is good, it helps. I went to grief counseling once. The drama does get old, especially the same old stuff between you & him but Ill watch awhile and see if it gets better. Thanks, have a good one!

TootsinMN
TootsinMN

Do you even watch the show??  You are the worst of the worst! Watch the reruns, try being a viewer, then write a truthful blog.  Thanks!

louise123
louise123

Okay, I'm sure my comment will not be embraced because Rosie is such a lovable person, and I happen to agree- I like Rosie a lot! However, I found it just bizarre that Rosie would go to Teresa, cameras rolling, and complain and be upset about the rag magazines and the things they were printing about HER sister (Kathy.)  Excuse me, but all she had for the worst thing printed was that her sister is a traiter. Pulease, on some level I absolutely agree that Kathy came on not caring what she was doing to Teresa or her parents and was a traiter to these people, her FAMILY. And after all of the articles written about Teresa over these last few years, especially AFTER Kathy and Melissa joined, MY GOD they have been brutal. Big BOLD PRINT and WEEK after WEEK for 2 years saying "Teresa's husband is cheating" "Joe Guidice is a Monster" and, "Teresa Going to Jail" "Joe going to Jail" "Joe seen with another woman" "Teresa Hated By Family",,,my lord,that's just a few of the hundreds! The headlines Teresa has suffered through are endless and she and Juicy Joe survived them!

 

And Rosie has the nerve to complain to Teresa about Kathy being called a traiter in one magazine when Teresa has been dragged through the mud ---by "sources," friends and family! It was just crazy to me, just crazy. And Rosie went right back to the brat pack and told Kathy, Richie, Melissa and Joe, that she felt Teresa was being nice now because her other family had ditched her. She made this point at Teresa's house, asking Teresa, "weren't they like family to you", and then she reiterated it back at Kathy's house. She diefinately was trying to get the "point" across and playing the game that STARTS these articles.Rosie was playing the game to catch Teresa too for the cameras. I claim "foul" on Rosie for getting right in the mix and exasperating the problem. Insted of going back to the "pack" after shaking hands with Teresa and LOOKING RIGHT INTO HER EYES, and saying "let's stop this together" she raced back to the "pack" and got the conversation turned around to how bad Teresa is and how bad her motives are,,,,again, looks like Teresa has another family member wanting in on the "Teresa is bad "storyline to further theirs. Teresa just can't win. And I'm positive that this Kathy vs Teresa regarding Rosie will be the thing harped on at the reunion.  The ladies will all latch onto this one because the viewers are in love with Rosie and it's not right. It wasn't malicious, or even relevant. Teresa was set up again---now Rosie's in on the game.

SAC
SAC

To quote you - "Are you kidding me?"  "Are your serious?"  I just wached your session with the 'shrink'...you actually said that you do not hold a grudge?  You have been holding the same grudge since your brother got married....since Kathy and Melissa joined the show; since Melissa and Danielle tweeted.

 

You talk out of both sides of your mouth and you forget what you have said.

 

Rosie hit the nail on the head when she asked if you wanted to be closer to your family because you had....ummmm..pissed your other 'family members' off so bad that they want nothing to do with you?  I don't believe that they will forgive you or take you back.  You earned that.

LalaOnfire
LalaOnfire

have you ever talked about finances?? Umm yeah! rewind back to season 3 when you told the world about Joey being sued for owing money to a plumber. And Melissa called you out on it at season 3 reunion and you apologized. Ring a bell? 

have you ever had a war with Kathy?

how about the "unattended" dispute. that was the huge fight last season. And on this season you guys were still at odds from all the drama at the reunion.

And your'e not suddenly interested in family? you said yourself on the show that now is a better time than ever to make up with your family because your friends have turned on you. Then all of a sudden we see her meeting with Rosie and Kathy and wanting to do therapy with Joey (something she was so against by the way and when Jacqueline told her she should go, she said her husband didn't want her to and "I would never go against my husband!!"....... yet she did?)..and the whole family saw through her like glass........ they all knew that she was reaching out to them because her friendship with the other ladies had crumbled. 

And it's funny that she saying she has all these other family members. But according to Teresa, Joey is the only family she has. That's something that Richie, Kathy, Melissa, and Joey have all brought up on camera. Because Teresa sees Joey as her only family but she has other family members and they're trying to make her understand that cause they want to be there for her too. they watn her to know "hey we're your family too! we can help you with issues! you don't always have to go to Joey! we're here for you too!" But Teresa doesn't see it that way (just my opinion) 

 

scrapper
scrapper

I was'nt sure in the beginning if teresa even realized the comments she was making were insulting,but, then when she said maybe thearpy can fix my brother but i dont need it and when she was talking to her brother she said maybe im doing something wrong. she gets it , she knew not to say that TO her brother. there are so many times she does that wich means she knows exactly what she is saying, and she did accuse jacquline of the tabloid apartment story. very simply she can dish it out but cant take it. the gorgas are not innocent either by far they know exactly what to say on camera, and richie, PLEEZE he is not joking so kathy needs to stop defending him.teresa needs to stop defending that horses butt of a husband of hers to. we have a rule in my family, our spouses can complain to us about our family but just to us, we can complain to each other, you know i can talk about my family but dont anybody else,LOL

Bravo never prints my comments and i see some ppl have two or three comments each time, WHY? mine arent bad or anything.. 

mu_doc
mu_doc

DANIELLE STAUB cared this show in Seasons 1&2, and when she left TERESA has took the load. What the Real Housewives of New Jersey be if Teresa wasn't apart of it now and Danielle then? The jersey housewives have to be by far the most boring group of housewives. They have had the same story line since it began. The Manzos (CAROLINE to be exact) declare war on a person and everyone else joins in. TERESA has always been my favorite but, Karma. She joined the "We Hate Danielle" club in season 1 and now she's in Danielle's position. I'm ready to see some new Housewives. So sick of living in the Manzo War Zone! 

FanViewerNJ
FanViewerNJ

Okay, I'm not a therapist but I believe I had the answer to ALL of this. This is a place for opinions, so here's mine. Hear me out. Joe wanted therapy so bad, and did anyone else get sick to their stomach when Joe said "he just wants to go so Teresa will see where she's wrong" Days before he said "I want to know if I'm doing something wrong" Listen, that "man" is just as manipulative and snake-like as Melissa. No wonder the two of thenm together pulled off something so hideous to his sister. And now Teresa, you have to sit and watch what he is actually saying on the talking heads bits about you. This last week was BAD. No one EVER talks about it, but YOU never say unkind things about your brother in the interviews, not ONCE, and this last week, boy, he was really cruel and really said how horrible he thinks you are. They are getting cocky, and they're slipping. I wouldn't forgive him and I completely understand if you can not move past it. The things he said on this LAST epsiode were unforgivable. After he tells the henchmen in their once AGAIN, "dissect Teresa" pow-wow, he tells Melissa, Kathy, and Richie that you said "maybe I'm dong something wrong." Only Kathy says "great" which instantly puts your brother into "I'm an angel from God, and I'm just going so the therapist will tell her what she's doing wrong, and you have no friends, and that you're a horrible person." I couldn't believe it. Man, people are asking you to forgive your NOW, not your past. That MAN does NOT want it to work out, he's scum, jealous scum. There is no way after watching this last talking heads bit that you can forgive him, no way! I think I have the answer as to why this year happened- WHY Melissa was allowed to come on and do what she did, why she was able to pull it off and it's because your brother is as manipulative, and as Melissa is, and he HELPED her, crucially helped with every move and here's my opinion why:

 

This entire season built to therapy, your brother wanted it and he FINALLY sits in the chair. (I'm paraphrasing here, but ACCURATE) The FIRST thing the doctor asked is: "So WHAT is the  problem?" The answer was very telling. The FIRST thing Joe said when asked "what  is the problem" is....."When Teresa had her children, I embraced them and loved  them like my own, don't you think she should have done the same to mine?"  {SCREECH} What?? That's the FIRST thing out of his mouth as to why the trouble?  "Why didn't Teresa embrace his kids like he did hers when they were born?" Suddenly my mind flashbacked to the Christening when he begged your dad for acknowledement, screaming at his knees. Look,  I think Joe knows who he's married to and I think family IS very important to him. His WHOLE family is his sister and his parents. And they don't like Melissa. They don't like her. Haven't for a  long time. When he had kids, he thought it would erase everything about her, and  suddenly poof, his family would now embrace the snake. Everything is gloroius at  Teresa's house with the grandparents. Joe sees the nuances at Teresa's house with his parents and ther unconditional love for Joe Guidice. Sure, he's a loudmouth, but thy know he's harmless and has a big heart. Problem is, you can love your granchildren, which  of course his parents and Teresa do, but it's not the same feeling in his house.  Come on, let's be real. it's just  heartwarming at Teresa's house with The grandparents and cooking with the girls and the ruckus. Melissa has been so horrible in that family OF COURSE it's not the  same feeling in their home and it drives Joe MAD. Just MAD. HIS whole family is  his parents and Teresa. They don't want to be near Melissa and for good reason I think. She's sure made their case! They tried Teresa said for years. Teresa said to Jacqueline and Caroline that  Melissa never gave the love back. She just never did. Joe was screaming at his  Dad the very first episode to recognize him, "I'm your SON!" "I'M YOUR SON". He was furious that they have embraced Joe Guidice and not him (he THINKS because no one likes Melissa.) It  was a spectacle, that scene. And THEN Teresa has the nerve to land a reality show where this is showcased! I think all of this is because Joe knows what he's married to  and he so wants it to be different in his own home. He wants the Grandparents  and Teresa to excuse every and all deceitful, self absorbed actions Melissa does  because he loves her. At the gymnastics meet, we saw how "Grandma" didn't even  want to give the grandchildren their presents in person because Melissa was  there. She said "No, you give it to them later"  She said on the second episode to Caroline and Melissa "why are you doing  this to my family?" But no one ever talks about that. The grandparents see Joe's  kids once a week so they can love on their grandchildren but you can just  IMAGINE how surface it is. They know who Melissa is and what she's willing to do  to their family to get it. They've known for a long time. The gymnastics meet  was at the start of season one!  Joe came on this show to humiliate and put his sister and their family in their place! We ALL know why Melissa came on. Then the perfect storm of Jacqueline and Caroline's seething jealousy, wow, Teresa didn't stand a chance. The EXACT same thing happened to Bethenny. When Bethenny was starting to get all of the attention and success, Jill Zarin told all of the women not to film with her, and Bethenny said "she had to stop telling Jill the good things that were happeniong to her beause Jill would start plottong and planning to take her down with whatever it was." Fortunately, Bethenny got her own show the next season. That was ugly to see within friends, but to have it happen in a family? Sorry Joe, but this plan to take Teresa down to  show your parents how great Melissa is and how awful Teresa is backfired. BIg  time. All he did was confirm what they thought, what we all thought..Melissa is not going to change. I think her narcissism and needing to have attention are deep rooted and will always be cruel

 

You NEVER hear Teresa say ANYTHING bad about her brother,EVER This last talking head bit by Teresa's BROTHER after The Wakile's and Gorga's ripped Teresa apart again was unforgivable, it just was, uhg, Teresa, don't ever forgive him or Melissa, cut them all the way out. This was just too much and they will not change, your girls will be the ones to suffer. Your parents will be sad, but your GIRLS are your first priority. It's time. This has been too far. All out of jealousy.

Susieunderpants
Susieunderpants

I just watched the episodes with Jacqueline and you on her deck with the falling out along with Melissa's release party. After reading the others blogs one thing strikes me as odd.

 

Jacqueline makes some sort of reference in her blog about how you went to Dina's after the fight and snarks about it. Yet Jac and Caroline talk to YOUR family about the fight and about you basically through the whole party and have also done so on previous episodes. 

 

Jac also says she is going to distance herself (which I would have taken that as basically breaking up our friendship), yet gets in between your discussion with Melissa at the party,

 

As much as Jac and Caroline and everyone else want to blame you, I have watched about 25 different instances where your family, Jac and Caroline have been complete hypocrites.

 

The other thing that ANNOYS me to no end is how they twist conversations and words to try to say you are lying. You said you get paid for pictures if you POSE for them. Jac and Caroline then say you said you are getting paid to put out articles and have a contract. They clearly are manipulating and twisting conversations, but its all on tape. We have the ability to rewind and watch again. It will ALWAYS be out there for the public to watch.

 

I don't know how you have handled this with such grace, I know I wouldn't be as nice as you dealing with these wack-a-doodles!

Leiko1
Leiko1

Teresa, I think your very misunderstood. I don't think you maliciously wanted to hurt anyone. Everyone on the show new how your personality was. Keep on being yourself. Don't let them bring you down. I can see how your show mates have turned on you.

traemont.leiontre
traemont.leiontre

ANYBODY ELSE EVER NOTICE WHEN TERESA IS LYING OR NOT TELLING ALL OF THE STORY AND ADDS IN HER OWN THAT SHE IS CONSTANTLY BLINKING HER EYES! BODY LANGUAGE READS BETTER THEN WORDS ALOT OF TIMES!

Starlight985
Starlight985

 @corky1121 I have only witnessed her being closed minded and completely missing the point. She has put herself out there in this way for people to judge. She is sweet but she for sure has issues, most of us do, but in her case she is blind to the real problem

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

 First, let me say Teresa is in her own world. I believe in family loyalty, but family must be honest to one another. As I say to my family, we don't have to agree with one another, we can disagree and still be cool (respect one another). I am not going to agree with family when I feel they are wrong. I don't want my family or friends to agree with me if they feel I am wrong. I personally think that the Guidice's, Gorga's and Walkile's are all characters that could have been fun watching, but how Teresa's family got on the show was trifling. I know the Gorga's and Walkile's wouldn't have been a part of the show if they didn't bring the negative drama about Teresa. This is where I have a problem. They disrespected their entire family on national TV. I don't know why people don't understand; Melissa finally admitted what she did to Teresa. She stated she hated Teresa and wanted to get back at her by talking (via twitter) to Danielle. This showed what level Melissa and/or Joey and Kathy would go to get to bring down Teresa (their family). As we all know, even though Teresa says she forgives Melissa, she doesn't. Teresa will always blame Melissa, who she should really blame is her brother Joe and her cousin Kathy, because they are her true blood. I know if they truly want their family to come together they all need to forgive each other, but what Teresa's family did would be a hard pill to swallow.

Educated2012
Educated2012

 @SAC

 Have you ever heard blood is thicker than water!  Her family will take her back regardess.

tammy.harper2
tammy.harper2

 @FanViewerNJ  Hi. Teresa may not have actually come out & directly said anything negative about her brother, because she does it in other subtle, manipulative ways. I'll give you a couple of examples. When she spoke w/ her husband Joe about going to counseling, did she stand up for her brother & tell him that this would be a good thing? A way to see his & her problems in their relationship? No. She only went by stating that it was for Joe's sake because of his own problems. They both even sat there at their house and had a good old time talking about what an idiot her brother is and gay like because he is seeking therapy. Okay, that is number one. Then there is the reason for their whole messed up relationship in the first place. Teresa's husband. From day one, he wouldn't say one kind thing about Teresa's brother Joe & both Teresa knew it and her brother. But she would act like she lost her memory when her brother would bring it up. Why didn't she ever stand up for her brother when her husband unnecessarily insulted her brother? Oh yes, and then there is the time when she tells her brother at the pool that they will never be the same because he spoke w/ his wife about their issues & now she can't trust him to keep things between themselves. I guess it is okay for her to talk to her husband Joe all the time about everyone, behind their back, but they can't do it to her? She is a hypocrite. The REAL reason she & Joe don't have a strong relationship is because of her jealousy over Melissa. She has said it herself, that everything changed once he married her. She wasn't her brother's number one anymore, and worse, the number two was prettier and younger. Triple threat. But does she admit this as one of her areas of problems? No. Does she ever apologize or take credit for doing something wrong? No.

I think you have Joe all wrong. I really do. If he didn't love and care about his sister, he would have told her to go hit the highway after Caroline and Jacqueline told her to pound sand. And we all know she went to her family because she had no friends. She didn't want anything to do with them until her friends left her. 

I haven't been watching the show as long as you have, so I don't know as many intimate details as you do. But it is very obvious to anyone watching that Teresa is a very jealous person, cannot take any accountability for her actions & thinks it is okay to tell news magazines her personal information but not her own best friend, Jacqueline. That is so suspicious to me. 

I also think deep inside Teresa really does want to get therapy with her brother because it is obvious she loves him dearly, but I don't think they can mend until she can admit some of her faults, along w/ Joe admitting some of his. And I don't see her doing this.

Teresa will never be able to move on or make friends until something is done about her husband. He is a bad man & it bothers me that people like him. He calls his wife a whore, at least twice, on their way to Caroline's brother's wedding. When she tries to talk to him in bed once, he sat there and told her he didn't care. He doesn't. He is a jerk. A quiet, dirty eye giving, controlling POOP!!

He went to jail for impersonation charges by making a counterfit photo I.D. How much worse can you get?

I wish her the best. She has a hard road ahead of her, along with her daughters.

Also, I think it might be good for Joe to keep their therapy lessons between them and not go to Melissa telling her what was said. Hopefully she will respect him & not ask. I think Kathy will be the one to bring them together. She has the class and she cares. I don't believe it is make believe at all. If it were, why would she have the diaper that Teresa made for her daughter in her purse, to show to Teresa? Teresa forgot about making it, but Kathy sure didn't forget. That's class.

Okay, done w/ my novel now..  :)

tkelovalova
tkelovalova

 @traemont.leiontre

(1) she blinks uncontrollably (2) she flicks her hair (3) she licks her lips repeatedly (4) and she stares open mouthed whie trying to think of a good lie... um i mean... "truthful" comeback. she's a huge liar and the worst at it.

tammy.harper2
tammy.harper2

 @traemont.leiontre  <Laughing> Yes, and also her voice goes up a few octaves. The lovely shrill! And she will answer with a question.

Susieunderpants
Susieunderpants

 @traemont.leiontre Read my lying notes and then pay attention to Caroline and you can see who the clear liar is. BTW, maybe you should use something called the internet to educate yourself on things such as this before making uneducated comments.

Susieunderpants
Susieunderpants

 @traemont.leiontre Most people HAVE to blink their eyes....just sayin. Also, most times when people lie they touch their face and look away from who they are talking to. Blinking is not even close to a sign of lying.

traemont.leiontre
traemont.leiontre

 @tammy.harper2

 SHE DOES ANSWER WITH A QUESTION!!! LOL!! I NOTICED HER VOICE GOING UP ALSO! I LOVED TERESA THE 1ST 2SEASONS NOW SHES JUS CHANGED SOOO MUCH...I LOVE HOW FULL OF LIFE HER BROTHER IS

tammy.harper2
tammy.harper2

 @Susieunderpants  Hi Susie, I don't think he meant just casual blinking. Teresa will constantly blink, while looking into any other direction than the person whom is speaking w/ her, and then will usually squeal out an answer that most of the time makes no sense and eludes the question in the first place. Excessive blinking, looking away, extreme changes in the pitch of the voice and trying to elude the original question are all definite signs of lying. 

gregjolinn
gregjolinn

 @Susieunderpants You are wrong - People blink their eyes repeatedly when they are lying - just saying.  You can c her body language and you can tell she is lying when she talks about certain things.