Jacqueline Laurita

Jacqueline talks date night and Chris' very personal coming of age story.

on Jul 29, 20130

Before I write anything, I want to apologize to Joe Gorga and Teresa for my comment about them that was in bad taste. I'm talking about the comment when I told Chris that I hoped it wasn't Teresa that Joe Gorga lost his virginity to when he was 9 years old. That was my sarcastic sense of humor coming out. It came from me thinking back to the awkward flirty comments Joe and Teresa made to each other last year waiting for their therapy session together. "You smell good." and "Red is a sexy color." It was kind of an inside joke between us all that Teresa and Joe were in love with each other and maybe that is where all the jealousy was coming from. That comment really wasn't meant for public viewing, because it's something my husband and I would joke around about in private. We have even teased Joe Gorga about it before to his face and he laughs with us. Do I REALLY feel they slept together? Of COURSE NOT! Don't be silly. Moving on…

I LOVE date nights with my husband. It's our down time that is just for us to share together! It's when we can unwind and enjoy each other's company without disruptions from kids or household chores. We catch up on things we may have missed about each other’s lives during our hectic week, we plan our future goals, vent to each other, offer each other advice, reminisce, and flirt. Food is something we really enjoy together.

257 comments
gamesgirls
gamesgirls

Ignore haters. Marriage is hard, be proud to still be in love.

 

piperbeau
piperbeau

Jacqueline anytime that you ever bring humor into a situation, your usually being mean!! just saying! that seems to be the only time you attempt to be funny! I guess you use humor to embarrass and belittle people?! Not cool....

TreFaninFargo
TreFaninFargo

I don't get it, are you two in a good place or not???

kalak
kalak

Jac,

I so get where you are coming from with Theresa.  You two remind me of me and my recent ex-best friend.  We used to have a close relationship and then it changed because she quit opening up to me.  To her, everything was fine.  I was missing that deeper connection.  I wanted to talk about it and get it resolved and go back to how it used to be.  She just wanted to move on as things were.  It didn't work out for us.  If you want things to work out for you two, I hope they do!     

grandislandmom
grandislandmom

You can't even go on date night without talking about Teresa. Get help.  Almost everyone that comments on here has had and seen ENOUGH of you.

Focus on your family.

And, get a hair cut. You can't wear that look much longer.

Crzycut66
Crzycut66

Karma is a Mother! I love all these ladies and when bad things happen to them you can't help but wonder if its karma. Everyone has their own personal struggles and we see their lives as an open book, although most of the nitty gritty is not aired I'm sure, this is what makes the world go rond. Everyone getting personal pleaser out of someone else's struggles. It really sucks! I'm not perfect nor are my children or my family. Some things we may not agree about and some thing may resonate with us. I've learned in life that you NEVER speak ill about anyone, it could happen to you. I've always taught my children ( they are in their 20's) that you never judge a book by its cover and never ever talk ill of other people. You never know what the big guy upstairs has in store for you. Those of you who have small children and those of you you want children doesn't know what's to come. Lessons learned the hard way I guess you could say. I have children and me sticking my nose n others people's business and stating my negative oppinions about other people may come back to haunt me someday, in some ways I'm sure it has, this is for ur entertainment and for any of us to judge is wrong. We don't live their lives and certainly don't all in their shoes. People who think they are better than the next person are absolutely whacked out of their sneakers because every las one of us puts our pants on the same way every day. Sorry just a little vent, just needed to put that out there.

Annhere
Annhere

Knowing Teresa for so many years, you must not be surpised by the resent Giudice drama. Chris and Joe are good friends how does this affect their frendship.

Jessica.Cohen954
Jessica.Cohen954

If Bravo decides to keep you, I am completely done with this franchise. You do not deserve to be on a show that reaches millions of people. 

24hrhousewife
24hrhousewife

I'm hoping you are close to closure with all this too. I'm tired of hearing about it, all. Of course, there are stages of hurt and anger. You both need to get past the petty things, back to who you both know each other are and move on.

Hulali
Hulali

You have two sons, so why is it we only hear you talk about Nicholas or see him on the show?

TeflonDiva84
TeflonDiva84

I was really loving your blog and how you started off by apologizing for that nasty and off setting comment you made about Teresa and her brother on your date with your hubby.  But then I got to page 3 where you started talking about trusting her again.  I'm sorry but do you not remember on the other seasons where she did trust you and tell you things personal about her marriage with Joe.  Then on this last reunion you put it all out there everything you could possible think of.  What I find interesting is that when you was into it with Danielle  you did not even want her name spoken in your house.  But you always speak of Teresa even when you are suppose to be working out.  I really hope you guys work through your problems and get it all out there next week.  Because I really loved seeing you guys together

Playnicepeople
Playnicepeople

Wow! I can't believe all the harsh and negative comments on all of these women's blogs. Sure we all have our favorites based on whose personalities and past and current life situations most mirror or own, but people...we need to remember that I'm guess most of us don't personally know these women and they are in a reality TV show designed to provide entertainment, to us the viewers. We get an hour a week a couple months a year with these ladies and I'm sure there is all kinds of editing from producers which can skew some of the situations. This is my first time reading any of the blogs as I'm home sick today and it saddens me that there are so many mean people out there. The name calling of these women, especially where ones mental health is being made fun of me is disappointing, as taboo as we are as a nation with mental health, I can see why with comments like these. How about just providing positive feedback to the cast you do like and try and leave the name calling of others out....actually many of you are like the pot calling the kettle black when you slam these women for doing something you yourselves are doing by being so hateful. I also wonder what some of you do for a living or if maybe you are a few of the lucky ones who don't have to work, as there are a handful of you that are very busy bashing on all of the casts blog sites. I will give a positive reason why I like something about all of these ladies and I will just go in alphabetical order: Caroline, she is a straight shooter and tells it how it is, I find that very refreshing. Jacqueline, she wears her heart on her sleeve and is very genuine about her feelings. Kathy, truly tries to be a peacekeeper and I do believe her intentions are pure and good. Melissa, it's obvious she loves her husband and she is spunky which is a nice change of pace and fun to watch. Teresa, is very protective of those she loves and she can make people laugh her her fun loving sense of humor, again refreshing. See, that wasn't so hard:) bottom line don't be so judgmental and try to enjoy the show and those on it for what it was meant for entertainment!

cranberry40
cranberry40

Jac - Love your family and my prayers are always with you.  It's wonderful to see how much more drawn together you all are through this challenge God threw your way.  You, your family have truly been an inspiration to others.  When the chips are down, there's hope (in faith), strength (in tears) and unity (in loving)...that's God using you, working through you.  Happiness always Lauritas, don't let go.

 

miriam662
miriam662

i think you and your family are great !

DebraJ
DebraJ

Jac,  If what you posted on your twitter account is who I think it is for I am going back to liking you.  Very supportive of someone in a very difficult time.

Bonz25
Bonz25

 Sarcasm has now become your personality. Is that what you are shooting for? So unattractive 

Mallie.N
Mallie.N

I really like you, Jacqueline. You seem like a lot of fun!

No need to apologize for your comments about Joe and teresa, I´ve said numerous of times that teresa acts like a jealous ex-girlfriend rather than a sister towards here brother.

Keep living your life and stay away from the toxic people!

ladyfromthebay
ladyfromthebay

I used to like you, but you've appeared so shallow and mean spirited over the past two seasons... Sigh...

shannabrown32
shannabrown32

Jac I think you saying your sorry shows who you really are and shows you the bigger person and mature... Love ya

 

elicat
elicat

This is one viewer who believes you have so much more to apologize to Teresa for than that one comment.

theprincess1
theprincess1

Jacqueline, I hope that you can move on and honestly you don't need Teresa in your life.  She blames you for her own troubles and all you ever were was a friend.  On the other hand I am a high school teacher and do a lot of work with special ed students including teenagers with autism.  I really hope that you know that Nick will be just fine, and please continue to work with him daily. All in all, keep up the good work, and remember "work with the disability, and not against it."

Kristieeanderson
Kristieeanderson

You need to emotionally mature, I noticed how in your interactions with Ashley it was impossible to tell which one was the teenager which one was the mother. Your husband deserves a grown up for a wife as do your children. Stop taking everything personally, it is never all about one person. Remember the scene where you confronted Teresa demanding she confide in you. Friends are not required to confide everything. Confessional is for church not friendships. It is one thing to express pain in a relationship, it is another to name call, mock and insult. You don't express your pain you attack. Try using these words what you did/said made me feel like... Ashow one person can feel is not always the same as someone else's intent. You all seem to be upset that Teresa maintains a public image, when you should all realize this is a public image.

winterbluebella
winterbluebella

Oh, and uh, Jacqueline, if you are going to continue to sob during each and every episode you should consider paying each and every viewer a salary.

 

After all, what you are doing is getting free therapy at OUR time and expense.

 

I don't like it, and I know I'm in good company. 

 

 

winterbluebella
winterbluebella

Mrs. Laurita,

 

I'll be it's a really happy day for you, eh old girl? Is that what you mean on Twitter when you tweeted "good things are happening!," just days ago?? What were you referring to??

 

I'll bet you're just licking your chops over the daily news. Don't crow too loud, Darling. After All, Tre isn't the only one with 'problems' right now.

erica8123
erica8123

You sound more grounded in this blog compared to previous weeks.  I hope things are getting better for you and the Jacqueline I used to find so sweet and kind is actually in there somewhere.  My fingers are crossed.

JessicaLayne94
JessicaLayne94

Jacqueline...It was really nice for you to apologize where you were wrong. Clearly that was a joke, though. 

 

Chris seems like the most ADORABLE husband ever. He seems so sweet, sincere, and 100% in love with you. You two really make a great couple. During your dinner date, when Teresa and Joe kept being brought up, it was clearly visible (as a viewer) that you all were missing each other. 

 

 

 

dholmes
dholmes

don't let haters get you down focus on your family and your beautiful children

DACANTL44
DACANTL44

I hope things go well for you jacqueline, I really do (:

skikat87
skikat87

If I never have to hear you cry again on this show it will be too soon!  Don't go away mad, just go away!

Maria573
Maria573

You are a great person, mother, wife, and friend. Keep up the great things you do.

TerraCeia
TerraCeia

Whole conversation was disgusting! Some things are better left unsaid.

Pixiestuf
Pixiestuf

I get your comments in the spirit that you make them in. My hubby & I both have a morbid or dark sense of humor, too. Too bad too many simple minded people take the jokes at face value.

DebbieinPhila
DebbieinPhila

I NEVER liked you. And each week you keep proving to me why.

mscgibbs
mscgibbs

 @Jessica.Cohen954 I hope they keep her.  At least she is sincere when she says something and when she know she's done wrong she will admit it.  That is as a real as it gets.  Plus I am much more informed about autism because of her. 

WhatACrockItAllIs
WhatACrockItAllIs

All she ever did in the BEGINNING was be a friend. Jacqueline knew that something was going to happen that night, did she warn Melissa? No, she sat and waited so she could blame Teresa, smiling the whole time. NO ONE is innocent in everything. Both of these women need to admit what they did, apologize and move on. Jacqueline seems to enjoy watching Teresa suffer at this point, it's very sad.

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @Kristieeanderson

 I think that is the very one thing that turned me off with Jac.  Demanding that Teresa "confide" & try to trick her into saying things that could be used against her.  What kind of a friend does that?   I believe Teresa was a true & loyal friend to Jacqueline despite what was said.  Like Joe Gorga said "hang with trash, youse become trash".  And that straight from the mouth of an "angel from God".  It appears you have taken on that persona of "trash". 

Motorcitymom65
Motorcitymom65

@winterbluebella Good Lord. Turn off the damn TV if you don't like it.

AwShux
AwShux

 @skikat87 what is your beef with Jacqueline? Have you watched all the seasons? I just can't imagine that someone who has watched the full story unfold from season one would have have so much hate for her. 

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @Maria573

 Be sure to keep the "bleach" and "wax" close by as you never know when you will need them.

ccollier08
ccollier08

@TerraCeia why didn't you turn your tv off or change channels..

ssajewski
ssajewski

 @Pixiestuf I think it is simple minded to appreciate a dark and morbid sense of humor.

 

Stop making excuses for Jac for being hurtful and mean. I do not think Tre OR her brother would find that comment funny even in the best of situations, let alone how damaged and fragile the relationships are at this point. Humor should lift spirits, but not at the expense of others. Yes, Pixiestuf, we should be able to laugh at ourselves but incest? So not funny.

Would it be funny to insert an autism joke here? ABSOLUTELY NOT. 

 

ccollier08
ccollier08

@DebbieinPhila so why watch her show? why comment on her blog? no one is forcing you... who cares if you dont like her, she has thousands of others who do like her!

Whasup
Whasup

@grandislandmom @winterbluebella too late,they are

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @AwShux  @skikat87

 The whole situation came to a head the night of the fashion show.  Jacqueline, instead of warning Melissa or Teresa that baldy was going to confront Melissa, she continued to text with "their mutual" friend.  Then Kim Grannytell is tweeting that Jacqueline came to her house, dranks tons of alcohol & spilled the beans on everything.  Why wouldn't Jac just go home & be with her husband?  Kim Grannytell has had it out for Teresa ever since the "old lady" remark.  Teresa was right in saying "you just made matters worse". 

Marisol7
Marisol7

 @ccollier08  

 because she feels like it. Why dont you voice your opinion and stop questioning others as to why they watch this or are on her blog.

ccollier08
ccollier08

@Whasup chris has already said that this story of broken engagement was lie... so why are your repeating it and throwing it against it... the Dina and caroline spat has nothing to do with Jacqueline as Caroline herself has said it... even caroline blamed teresa for it... So stop hating

Whasup
Whasup

@LuvBravo. @AwShux @skikat87 she is responsible for the Dina/caroline spat and Caroline took jac's side.she broke up the engagement of Chris and Dina's best friend .she allegedly bilked all the money out of their company with Chris and his brother.