It took me a minute to process what Teresa said and I wasn't sure, at the time, what I thought of it or if I should even respond to it. It confused me, because Teresa was being so nice and acting so normal around me that I forgot we were ever fighting. I was having fun with her again just like old times.
When Teresa called me up during the gong ceremony, I felt very emotional because I started to see a more vulnerable side to Teresa that I appreciated. I felt like she was finally opening up to me and inviting me back in her life. It felt sincere. I wanted to believe that all the past nonsense had been forgiven and forgotten, and that we were sincerely starting our friendship over again with a clean slate and going in a positive direction.
My instincts say that Teresa is more harm than good, but if you feel better mending things with her, that's all that matters.
You dumped Theresa & Joe to go over with Melissa & Idiot Joe. What kind of friend does that? If I was Theresa, I would look at you like "keep my enemies closer".
Jacqueline you need to realize that your friendship with Theresa will never be the same.... I think that you both are forcing a friendship that can not be mended.... U both will still be talking about each other behind your backs, I wouldn't want a friendship like that... Be friends with the ones that have shown you their true colors... Theresa still hasn't shown all her true colors... Keep doing what you need to do for your family..... Ohhhh and yes stop the damn surgery you don't need them.....
Jacqueline stop over thinking everything about everyone and pay attention to your own issues. It will keep you sane. Your poor husband has endured so much with your meddling. Give him a break. Your kids need you. Understnd that jealousy is a bad thing. Be thankful and aware of your blessings. No surgery could ever get rid of envy.
I think you think too much. I don't care how shady Teresa could get (not that she has compared to most of your cast members) but I am absolutely 100% NOT convinced her karma comment was towards your son, autism, or anyone's kids for that matter. I really liked you Jaqueline but the past two seasons you have proven to be very unstable and a horrible friend (Teresa & Danielle). I don't think Teresa owes you a damn thing. As I watched you all sitting in a circle, pushing Teresa and her brother to talk about such negative stuff (again) it boggles my mind how you can sit there and not see Melissa manipulating her husband to the point where he becomes enraged! Jan is/was Melissa's so-called bff. It's very clear that private stuff has gotten out that Teresa would NOT know about because they aren't close sister in laws. It doesn't take a genius to see this which is why it looks shady on your part!
I think you need to take some time to yourself to deal with your own issues. Writing 3 pages about a Karma comment is beyond strange; you were right the first time, you and Tre should not be friends, it will not be genuine, especially not from you
I for one and am glad to see the two of you are working on your friendship. I truly believe you guys compliment each other and are true friends. I am going through something like this with my best friend and seeing the two of you let your walls down gives me the strength and desire to want that for us. If is very hard for me to do though but I am now willing to try. Thank you both for showing a mature, true friendship on this show.
Jacqueline, you are a very forgiving person to forgiving person to let teresa back in your life. even though you forgave her, don't forget all that she has done and said. She is more of a frenenemy than a friend. Be careful.
You sound like you really have things together, I hope everything works out for you and her. I am also very happy to see your son, Nicholas, doing so much. Your families love and hard work really have shown through. I work at a place where we take care of special needs children and it is amazing to me to see there progress each and every day. Lots of love to you and your family.
SylviaS I would love to know how you came up with the idea that Jacqueline doesn't consider her son a blessing. What a terrible thing to say. Just so you understand what happened, it wasn't about Teresa's concern of something terrible happening to her son with autism. Oh no. Teresa already knew before saying this to Jacqueline, that someone had already said this to her before & she had told Teresa earlier about how upsetting it was to her. After stating already that she thought Jacqueline was evil & that she had done all these terrible things to her, then she told Jacqueline that the evil people do comes back to them, onto their children because of karma. Why should Jacqueline have accepted her saying this, when it was blatantly obvious to anyone with 2 eyes that Teresa said this to hurt her. And, for that matter, Jacqueline handled it pretty dang well. She didn't attack Teresa. If it were me, I wouldn't have handled it so maturely. I am truly amazed sometimes how people can be so blatantly blinded by others who do cruel things, or have their friends do it for them, just because they don't want to believe they are manipulative and only an innocent victim who could never do wrong, even though the woman would have sex on TV, in a vineyard, knowing her kids would see it someday, just to try and prove her husband isn't a cheater. Now that is sick. Since season 3, have you ever seen Teresa once, sit there and listen to another friends problem, without making it about her and then comparing how she is more of a victim? I have never seen it once. What does that tell you about her character? Have you ever seen her once acknowledge even partial blame in any situation that has happened? If so, please enlighten me.
tammy.harper2 SylviaS I don't think Teresa meant anything about nick when saying that. Teresa barley knows English she just responds before thinking. Shes always in trouble for saying something wrong when she don't even realize it herself.
It is obvious while you and Teresa weren't speaking it was tearing you up inside and consuming you. It reminded me of a girl being blindsided when the love of her life dumps her and she just can't accept it and move forward. It was really sad to see. You clearly were very hurt.
I hope things continue to improve with You and Teresa because I hate watching you spiral out of control.
I have issues with your emotional reactions to people and your Twitter rants. Hopefully with your heart a little repaired you can work on being a little more loyal. Otherwise you seem like a sweet person.
If i was the whole Cast of the show i would worry about Teresa , she alowes other people to sit and talk about her family and friends when she should get up and tell them that if thats what they are going to do then she has no time for them she talks all that talk about family but then sits and lets other people talk about them and put them down is just wroung and Kim D she needs to tell get out of her life all Kim d is there for is to cause trouble if she dont see that she is blind,if she puts her kids first and her brothers kids first then she would not sit around others who put her love ones down she needs to think her kids will see this they will learn what is going on and does she want them to be like this with thier own sisters and cousin she really needs to stop out siders from trying to bring her family down
DianaNRayNTiffanyAnnLRay Are you freaking kidding me?! All Teresa's family and friends ever do is SIT around and talk about her! Ad nauseam!
I think its awesome how Chris and Jacqueline get along. I don't think I've ever seen them fight with each other. Chris is my favorite and he's cute.
cgon1977 He is a great guy, but he really should get Jac some counseling. She really needs to grow up, she is as mature as a fifteen year. Pretty sad that Ashley is more mature.
Mar51 cgon1977 I agree about her emotional issues. Is there ever a time or episode when Jacqueline does not cry? She needs more help than any other cast member with her emotional issues.
You can almost predict when she is going to cry. She's like a little baby. I would like to see her get some help. Yes, Chris is a great guy but he should really push her into seeking out professional help. It's getting depressing to watch Jacqueline.
You are such a wonderful wife and mother and most of all a loyal family member. Keep Tre at an arm's length but leave lots of room in your heart!
Jaq- I hope you and Tre are friends again (or currently) I love your guys friendship because its so real. Real friends have fights and ugly ones but things always happen. I didnt take teresas comment as bad or toward baby nicholas. My mom always says no to do bad things or they come back with your children, so basically dont do hurtful things because your kids will end up doing it to you and theres no greater hurt than a child putting you down. Im south american so i took it in that way. Hope all is well :)
Oh sweet Jacqueline.... I am so afraid you are setting yourself up for heart ache again. Be careful.
I see so many posts favoring your rekindling w/ Teresa & I just sit here knowing it unfortunately isn't going to last. I don't think it was fair for everyone to kind of force your two's friendship. Teresa did & said terrible things & hid behind her allies while they destroyed Melissa. That karma comment was no accident & I think you know in your heart & mind that this is true. Even your husband knew it. I just hate to see you open yourself up just to get hurt all over again. She has already shown twice now since you two started talking again that she is a mean person w/ cruel intentions. The comment in the restaurant about evil people, aimed right at you & then the karma statement, aimed at you & your innocent children showed you & us that she is evil and cruel. What kind of person, friend or not, tells another person (knowing that you heard this statement before & how deeply it hurt you) that their misdeeds will fall upon their children because of karma? And if that isn't bad enough, a parent with a special needs child. There is no excuse for that. I hope you find the courage and strength to realize you are a good person who deserves better than this. Nothing you ever did to Teresa even remotely compared to the terrible things she did to you and other family members. I do wish you the best. :)
I truly love the friendship you have with Teresa. I miss it. You have shown to be such an amazing person. Despite the rough patch (that's putting it lightly) between you and Teresa recently you've managed to forgive her. You've looked passed it and embraced her apologies with open arms. That says a lot about your character. You are a true inspiration. You have so much love in your heart and it shows. Continue to be who you are and greater blessing will come your way. I hope Teresa realizes one day what a great friend she has. xx
Jacqueline I like you and I'm a fan of your's. I liked your blog also. I think though that you are sooo depressed because all you do is laugh and cry all the time. I'm no doctor but, I'm sure you watch yourself every Sunday night. All the best to you and your family.
I'm not a teresa fan nor will i ever be a teresa fan as I am a clear thinker. Jacqueline, it doesn't matter what many of these thoughtless/negative people have to say about you or how you run your life. My opinion of you has never changed, and I would really appreciate to have a caring, honest, and trustworthy friend like yourself in my life. You're open and you allow yourself to be vulnerable. You had feelings and you felt a certain kind of way. I was happy that both you and teresa was able to clear up a miscommunication. I must say that i have the same issues sometimes with my husband and some friends on some sensitive subjects and i may take things wrong. I have found that it is easier to just talk to the person about you felt, so that, you can get a clear understanding for them. That's a very HUMAN behavior and concept. I can also understand how you missed your friend for the over the course of time. I had a friend that we had a disagreement and stopped talking for a year - from no where - we didn't have the back and forth of course with people hwo didn't want to see us together - just out of no where we saw each other at Ross, and we walked up and gave each other a hug. We missed each other dearly, and we talked about our issues. There are times when we can be stubborn and hot headed - it is good to see that you guys are moving forward. Hopefully, you are able to keep it up. Enjoy your week - until next time.
I like that you are trying to rekindle the friendship and that you seem to be more emotionally stable. I am just worried that Teresa will be mean to you again....
Everybody breathe, it was so nice. Teresa supported and encouraged you when you went to the horse, and I thinkshe's sincere about the friendship moving forward. Kudos to Chris, he loves you and sees the good in Teresa. I loved his comment about that he loves that Teresa and knows that you do too !!!
So glad to see that you made and assumption about the Karma issue but instead of running with it, you discussed it with your husband and at the next appropriate opportunity you addressed it with Teresa. This is what adults do, misunderstandings happen but how we handle them is what determines how much growth we've actually managed to go through. People will say what people will say but you handled this like a champ and I'm glad that you seemed so much more together this last episode.
I hope you stay friends with Teresa, whether she tells you everything or not. That really should not matter.
Teresa is just using everybody because of the trouble she is in and is needing all the "friends" she can get.
And like Caroline, Jacqueline, Kathy, Richie, and even "little" Joe & Melissa Gorga didn't have a real swift change of heart after last years Teresa bashing? They found out real fast how quickly the viewers turned against them. You don't honestly think any of them give a rat's behind if they like Teresa? They needed Teresa to stay relevant on an otherwise boring show, so they are playing nicey nice. They know who butters their bread & stuffs their cannoli's.
bittersweet4 gracealine I think Caroline, Kathy ,Rich ,Joe and Melissa but hold up most of all ROSIE all figured that out . They know that if they don't stop they will have no show especially if Teresa does go off the show . Rosie is faking also, I watched a interview Rosie did I think in march of this year and she is bashing Teresa saying that she ruined Joe because she wanted too much on twitter none of them ever tweet Teresa
they tweet love and everything else to Mel and everyone else . Jac is the only one I think is going off of emotion's and not fame and money I really do think she is hurt over the loss of a friendship that's why it's hard for her to hide it and play to the camera but the rest are faking because of the backlash. I am a Teresa fan I hate a bully but Jac is the only one that is hurt about the relationship between her and Tre and I think Tre knows that and that's why she is trying with her . I hope you guy's make up and make it work and by the way this was filmed before the charges so Tre was not making up because of that.
@justsayin2 @bittersweet4 @gracealine I would choose Rosie anytime over Teresa. Rosie had every right to be upset with Teresa - Teresa was talking ill about her father and she was defending her sister. Rosie is loved by the majority of people that watches this show. If i may add, loved way more than Teresa! Facts are Facts!!!
ccollier08 justsayin2 bittersweet4 gracealine Without Teresa, there is no show. You need to check your scorecard again.
@bittersweet4 @gracealine if teresa leaves the show, i will still watch the show. Teresa doesn't make the show. Everyone on the cast makes the show - not just one person! Jill found that out on RHONY- just like vicki will find it out as well when she is, gleefully, removed the show.
gracealine this was taped well before her recent troubles....this show is from last year and the beginning of this year...it's not taped one week and aired the next...so no, she's not just 'using' people so she can have friends....
LOL!!! Their self inflicted troubles have been going on for more than the past year.
I am so happy y'all are moving toward a happier place! I'm happy the karma comment was cleared up. Honestly, I don't think Teresa spoke in reference to Nick when she said that. She really seems to want to mend things with you, too!
Why does you and your husband CONSTANTLY blame all of YOUR nastiness on Teresa? And why does Chris feel Teresa has to apologize to YOU? YOU should be the one begging for her forgiveness, after talking to her so horrifically last season, and on twitter! And for Chris to say Teresa is the horse and you're afraid to trust the horse again, because your afraid of getting kicked is a BUNCH OF BOLOGNA!!!! He's become just as delusional as you are!!!!
You are so right ..that's why jac will never get the help she needs ! he just pacifys her and blames everyone else for behavior.first Ashley now Teresa..he needs to wake up!
firstname.lastname@example.org jdrflorida southern_goddess I think he just loves her and wants her to be happy. He is always asking her how she feels, and seems to want to listen to her thoughts. While Juicy has been much better this year, in all honesty, he has never wanted to hear Tre's thoughts on anything. For the last two years, any time she brought up anything that was bothering or hurting her, he always said, "Tre, who cares". I will take a guy who cares, even if he is enabling a bit, to a guy who really doesn't give a sh*t.