Kathy Wakile

Kathy shares her thoughts on the reunion and opens up about her relationship with Rosie.

on Oct 8, 20130

Hello friends!

Before we get into the episode, I want to say thank you to all of you dedicated viewers who have become so emotionally invested in our families, friendships, and our lives. Your endless support means more than you know.
 
During the episode I tweeted, "I don't talk just to hear my own voice! Not worth my time to talk nonsense to those who don't get it anyway!"

That is how I felt sitting on that couch and how I decide who gets my air time -- if it is worthwhile conversation I am the first one to speak up, if it's not, then in my classic, old school style, I'd rather say nothing at all to people who don't get it. Health and happiness and the big picture -- that is what is important. Not the petty crap of who said, who texted, who tweeted.

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kimberlyjohnson
kimberlyjohnson

Now this is HILARIOUS! I find it funny that of all the blogs I’ve browsed through, Kathy’s blog is the only one with a skimpy 100+ responses.  Yes, I agree, Kathy is soft-spoken and doesn’t have much to say, but when she speaks, it’s ironic that her voice is firm and strong only when referring to any issues with Teresa. She was quiet as a church mouse when everyone was jumping on Teresa throughout the 3 seasons she and her side-kick slithered their way on the show.  I clearly remember when the viewers first met Kathy following the Christening, she was the first to go and demand that Teresa apologize to her brother.  I wonder if she EVER made that same appeal to Joe Gorga? The world, according to Kathy, seemed to always believe that it was Teresa who should apologize to Joey, never, ever, the other way around.  Sadly, this was the beginning of a long 3 seasons for Teresa, with the worst sister-in-law and cousin ever.  I hope the rumors are true that Kathy isn’t returning to the show.  She seems to be a great dessert chef, and a devoted mother/wife, but fell waaaaaay off the band wagon when it came to being a loyal cousin, so sad.     

 

TinaM123
TinaM123

Oh Kathy, you're so full of crap. Who do you think you're talking to, a bunch of idiots? You didn't speak much at the reunion because Andy practially ignored you. You're not important enough. You had no problem yelling and screaming at Teresa on other reunions, didn't you? You had no problem joining anyone that trashes her, you jump right on the bandwagon and love every minute of it. How ironic. You came on this show to destroy Teresa and instead of you succeeding, she became more popular and now you're demoted. Don't you feel like a fool?

Octoberquilt
Octoberquilt

I noticed Rosie's twitter account has WakilePr as a contact. Now that she so popular shouldn't she have her own. Maybe since you got a piece of Teresa's pie and that was profitable for you, you now want to make sure you cash in on Rosie too. Rich is sooo sleazy.

Catherinski
Catherinski

It's actually good news that (supposedly) Bravo didn't want Kathy back as a primary housewife.  It means she has too much class. She and her immediate family are much too healthy and well balanced to live their lives tabloid-style.  I guess Bravo thinks healthy is boring.   She should take it as an inadvertent compliment.

TinaM123
TinaM123

Hey Kathy being demoted couldn't have happened to a more deserving person. Congrats on being the biggest trouble making snake on the planet. Pay back my dear and I'm loving it!

gracielibra
gracielibra

Kathy, you handled the meeting with Teresa at the charity event with class and dignity as opposed to your classless cousin.  Brava!  She's like a dog with a bone ... she'll never change.

Noholiday
Noholiday

Kathy...you need to take your twitter account away from your husband asap!

rosyposy
rosyposy

hopefully the three new wives will be someone you can hang out with and not be involved in your twisted cousin's purposfully created drama.  I think you are the most genuine, loving person on the show.  You are a little too soft hearted for you own good, but I guess that is a good thing.  I hope you return to the show full time, because it will not be the same without you.  I remember how the koolaid chuggers "put it out there" that you would not be there this season.  Thankfully, they were spreading rumors as false as those Teresa is  famous for spreading.   I had lost interest in another season, but now plan to check it out due to new cast members.  If they are clones of Teresa,  I will be OUTTTAHERE.

la12ce
la12ce

Over everyone! Kathy is supposedly now "friend of Housewives". Over the Tre/Mel feud. Over Richie/Joe Gorga instructing Joseph....disgusting, poor kid. He had more sense than the slime Bucket Dads and left. Over how they all don't know Penny and Jan but then go to functions those People are having where horrible fights break out...over and out! Caroline gone, Kathy gone,Jac maybe...any decency left the show. Can u say tanking?!!

opusv
opusv

Heard you and your family including Rosie were demoted to "part-time". Too bad you're not totally gone.

 

uniquegal1
uniquegal1

I think it was totally cool how Teresa just waited for Kathy to finish her comment that had nothing to do with Kathy and than just kept on talking as if she never even spoke.LOL

Leah008
Leah008

You still tried to be passive agressive at the reunion. This whole show is about Teresa and her relationships to others. So, Kathy no body listened to you cuz nobody cares. Get a clue and get lost. 

Octoberquilt
Octoberquilt

The Project ladybug with Dina, teresa and the twins sounded like sooo much fun And now at the last minute you worked behind the scenes to get yourself included. I hope you and Rich are not planning to secretly do something to cause trouble for your cousin like you did with Penny and johnny. You guy are such troublemakers.

HW84
HW84

“As for the parents, I think things are going to get exposed. Maybe not this season, but down the line. I hope it does. Right now, the parents are still not involved.”

 

That is a direct quote from your husband.  You two are scum, you knew exactly what you had to do to get on the show and you did.  Bet you have many sleepless nights, I hope your new house was worth it.

Gymratz
Gymratz

You and Rich are so fun together. It was so good to see you benefit from that Arizona retreat. You seemed to gain understanding and insight. Your dinners always looked delectable, so I was happy to see that you started your desert line. I think you should do the same with your meals.

ESinAZ
ESinAZ

Kathy, I think you started out looking bad and it's hard to get past that.  FINALLY Teresa brought up the christening and they showed the video of that.  4  hours after filming started!   And we know whose butt you had your nose up...

 

It's time for  Rosie to stop taking sides and get off the Gorga bandwagon.  I was so disapointed that, after all that has gone on this season, she was still (on reunion2) trying to tell Teresa to "just admit what you did".  Sorry, Rosie, but at that point, Teresa should be the one telling you to go shove it where the sun don't shine. 

If you and Juicy Joe are such good buddies, you should be respectful enough to just keep your mouth shut when it isn't your conversation.

weinoooo
weinoooo

Kathy You and your wonderful kids and Rich, grab Rosie and get off the show like Caroline! You don't want your Grandkids in the future to see this either! You all are too go to do this... Get out before you loose your soul like Teresa, and Melissa

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

Kathy...I am not buying it...from one Libra to another....you know good and well....you cant fool a LIBRA girl! And you do not fool me! I honestly believe Teresa when she said that there was a time that you did not accept your sister....you can spin it and you can lie about it and you can sweep it under the rug...but you need to own it! You see what you did to Teresa....and her brother...playing the game and putting the wedge between them and taking sides...will happen to you and your family....when your kids get married....you will end up with the same hurt that you caused Teresa...your children will marry someone and your daughter and son will fight with each other like Teresa and Joe did and their will be a presence in their life that will be a thorn in their side like you were a deliberate thorn in Teresa side....I have seen it happen....I said it here first....YOU will feel the pain that you made the elder Gorga's feel....Pay day coming. Hope you are ready!

purplepride93
purplepride93

Kathy, you are just great! You have a very sweet and genuine spirit. I think you need your own show as well! True class! Beautiful inside and out.

thaliajen
thaliajen

Great job, Kathy. You're classy and smart and I love how you mother your kids, how great you are with Richie and especially, your relationship with Rosie. Couldn't Bravo give her a spin-off?  Honestly, I'd love to see her more on the show. You 2 are amazing. Makes me wish I had a sister! I don't know what to think about next season, but my idea of a great cast would be you, Jacqueline, & Rosie, now that Caroline is moving on. And we'd let Tre & Melissa come on if they behave, ;) Thanks for such a great role model. Your kids are great, your hubby loves you, and those cannolis make my mouth water every week! I don't cook but I wish we lived near anyone who made them. You make it look so easy that even I could do it. My 4 yr old & hubby would love that. I hope & pray Bravo doesn't mess up this cast like they did RHONY! It's bad enough that Caroline is leaving, I sure hope you (and Rosie) stick around. If not, how about a Kathy/Rosie show? I'd watch!!! God Bless and keep on being yourself. :)

louise123
louise123

 @kimberlyjohnson

 Agreed--her entire mission from the gate was to have the audience hate Teresa. It's what motivated every friggin scene she was in from the very start. EVERY SINGLE SCENE with The Gorgas. I actually think they wanted Teresa to be ruined as MUCH as they wanted to be stars themselves. They certainly put as much effort and fervor into both. It was so methodical, so planned and so cruel, if I was Teresa, I would never, ever forgive or forget. The stakes were too high, and it was for three seasons----continually. Just vile. She may be a nice person in some aspects, but anyone who can do that out of pure, unadulterated jealousy to a family member and small nieces has something really rotten inside. It's the three seasons that gets me--cuz when they thought they had their goal in sight, they went in for the kill. It backfired. Thank God. I'll never forget when the Wakilies and Gorgas were around the backyard BBQ table for yet another planned camera time family gathering to bash Teresa, they were talking about Joe Guidice's legal problems and jail time-- Kathy said 'What ever happened to people taking responsibility for their actions" when someone brought up jail time. Kathy was smitten at the thought of jail time! She came alive and forceful-she wanted it!!--Her own Mother shut her down quick in front of the cameras. Kathy wanted Teresa down and destitute once and for all. Just scum. All because they wanted her stardom--and most importantly, for Teesa NOT to have it.

piperbeau
piperbeau

@Catherinski Its all speculation! One can only hope! Richie rebutted it via twitter! but who knows??! They should make a new position for her, cousin of the show!! I wont respect Kathy until I hear her accept some responsibility for how she came on the show!! Right now in my book she if full of sh*t...

spvati
spvati

I also thought that Kathy showed class when she approached Tre at the event, but I agreed w/Rich that it was I bad idea only b/c I figured Tre would not accept Kathy's olive branch in a positive way....and that's just what happened. Tre, as usual, portrayed herself as the victim and Kathy as the vicious predator....please!

 

Tre always has nasty, negative things to say about others and loves to stir the pot....the problem is that Tre likes to dish it out but doesn't want to take it. I'm not condoning what Kathy said about Tre's parents, but Kathy did apologize sincerely. (She's certainly more sincere than Tre is w/her fake apologies, her "lip service" b/c she merely wants someone off her back....remember in Napa when she/Jac reconciled and later that same night Jac was heartbroken to hear Tre saying she "hated Jac, couldn't stand her f-ing face!"). Tre also claims that she "doesn't hold grudges"...WHAT????

 

When Tre icily brought up Kathy's remark about Mr. Gorga, Kathy reminded that she'd aplogized & meant it...she also stated something like, "Everyone says things in anger, you know that." Tre immediately took offense and shot back, "Oh, IIII know that???", upset at Kathy's "audacity" of implying Tre ever says/does anything wrong (gasp!)

 

When a defeated Kathy finally walked away, Tre had a smirk on her face as if she'd "won"...well, congratulations! So many people call Kathy a "bad cousin" (including Tre), but Tre's definitely no compassionate sweetheart herself. It took a lot for Kathy to approach her and Tre flung it back in her face. If the situation were reversed, Tre would be calling Kathy "evil" just like she did to Jac and saying that she was "attacked" just like she did with Caroline.

 

One thing I found very interesting was that Tre made a remark like, "I don't say things in anger"..hmmm, just what does that mean? Does it mean that, as usual, Tre refuses to accept that she could possibly do anything negative and puts on her phony "love, love, love" act OR does it mean that Tre purposely says things to hurt others? If she "doesn't say things out of anger", does that mean that all of her insults are heartfelt & it isn't just in the heat of the moment (a mistake that can happen to anyone)? I found that comment quite telling.

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @gracielibra

 Teresa didn't ask Kathy to come over, Kathy did that on her own!  TERESA was the "classy" one, for staying out of the path of someone who called her father a coward, and her mother a f'n liar!  A person could only be a punching bag for so long, and Teresa has been beaten by those jealous hounds long enough!

piperbeau
piperbeau

 @rosyposy  OMG!! What drama did Teresa create?!  I'm curious?! Please elaborate?!  The christening?! or maybe her book signing you know where Kathy accuses her of using / stealing her moms recipes?!  I guess all the degrading comments Richie made are Teresa's fault as well?! Oh yeah I guess it was Teresa's fault that Melissa's former best friend accused her of being a cheater ?!  We might as well blame that on Teresa too!! while we are at it....

amandanyc
amandanyc

 @uniquegal1

It was priceless!

Actually a little sad watching her chime in now and again with her comments. She tries so hard to fit it, but always ends up looking awkward.

By Andy's lack of interest........the Wakiles days are numbered.

Crimsontide
Crimsontide

@uniquegal1 I agree, I feel like Kathy and Rosie have inserted themselves between brother and sister at every turn. They have done nothing to help and everything to hurt.

amandanyc
amandanyc

 @HW84 

Sleepless nights require some moral integrity.

People like these two sleep just fine.

And the house....good luck finishing it without the Bravo Bucks!

Crimsontide
Crimsontide

@weinoooo She sold her soul to get on the show.

TinaM123
TinaM123

@Debbieinmissouricitytx Exactly correct. Let me add it was Rosie herself who confirmed the fact that Kathy didn't accept her for 10 years and Rich wouldn't allow her near his kids. Now all of a sudden Kathy & Rich are taking her to gay bars? Give me a break. Teresa didn't join this show to destroy a family member but the Gorga's and Wakile's did. They are the lowest of the low. I'm gloating and smiling from ear to ear thinking about Kathy and Rich being demoted, LOL. I can just hear them complaining and being totally devestated over this news. Yipee, it made my day!

skizzy79
skizzy79

 @Debbieinmissouricitytx

 Good lord, who kicked your cat?????  You sound like some gypsy fortune teller putting a curse on her. Drama much?  "Pay day coming, hope you are ready" (can almost see you rubbing your little hands together).  You are taking this far too seriously to be healthy ...

Fromtheshowmestate
Fromtheshowmestate

@southern_goddess @gracielibra Teresa gave as good as she got with regard to insulting their parents. Kathy, per usual, took the high road and apologized immediately.

Basic101
Basic101

 @piperbeau  @rosyposy

 Let's not forget it was Melissa's brides maid that turned on Melissa.  Eventually, everyone learns about Melissa.  What kind of person reveals her Dad cheated on her mother while filming on TV?  That was between her mom and dad.  All for fame and money, first priority to the Gorga's.

Leah008
Leah008

 @amandanyc  @HW84  Kathy should be thankful to her cousin for the new house, At the expense of wanting to bring down Teresa. 

CrazyKoolaid
CrazyKoolaid

 @Crimsontide  @weinoooo

 Crimsontide,

Kathy did exactly what ALL the housewives did joining this crazy dysfunction.....to stroke their individual ego and prosper financially.   One is no different from another!

Fromtheshowmestate
Fromtheshowmestate

@TinaM123 Please. Rosie never said that. Please tell the rest of us where we can find this information. It looks to me like - whatever their past issues - Richie and Kathy love Rosie and she loves them. Why do people feel the need to find and exploit drama where there is none?

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @Leah008  @purplepride93

 Define show?  What could she possibly do in an hours time that would be worth watching?  I mean really?  She dresses like she was looking for the last hippie in SoHo, & when she manages to put on a dress, her bra is sticking out.  When she starts to talk, she pauses & waits to say anything & then screws up her face.  Oh God know especially if the husband would be with her.

REBECCA9247
REBECCA9247

 @Leah008  @amandanyc  @HW84 Wonder how they will pay for the house now that Kathy is history( thank you Bravo), Rich doesn't seem to have anything to do, and Kathy's cannoli's won't pay for it, even if they were good,

TinaM123
TinaM123

@CrazyKoolaid @Crimsontide @weinoooo They are not all alike. None of the other housewives joined with intentions to hurt another. The only ones who did that were the Wakile's and the Gorga's

TinaM123
TinaM123

@Fromtheshowmestate You haven't been watching closely. Rosie said that to Teresa at Teresa's house outside sitting in the yard. I don't know what episode it was but it was during the time when Rosie and Teresa were trying to make-up. She went to Teresa's house to talk things over.