Melissa Gorga

Melissa shares her thoughts on the confrontation at the Milania Hair Care event.

on Aug 19, 20130

Jan and I, along with a lot of other people, hung out when we were young. We partied and went to clubs. I got married at 25 and had my baby girl at 26. My partying days were behind me and a lot of my old friendships faded. It happens.

Accusing me of having “skeletons under my bed” is just ridiculous. Like what? When I was a teenager, I went to clubs? I kissed a boy before Joe? Stop the freakin’ presses.

It’s all true. Once upon a time, I was young and had fun. You got me! Now I’m older and I have another kind of fun with my husband and three children. Yes, I’ve changed! As bad as I am at counting, I know there’s a difference between 21 and 34.

The bottom line: Jan and I were friends for five minutes, a million years ago. We grew apart. She chose to lie about me for 15 minutes. Whatever. I wish her well and God bless.

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caroline.cotter3
caroline.cotter3

I would think that if you are so upset about the trouble that your sister-in-law causes for you and her brother you would stop talking about her,have absolutely nothing to do with her  and move on.

celia.veston
celia.veston

Melissa you are one malicious cheating wife and the only one who does not know it is Joh!

bfair
bfair

Melissa I am on your side right now for the simple reason, Teresa was not by your side helping you find the truth, for all we know they are friends, they had lunch together, what else did they share?

rebels18
rebels18

You are an attention whore! You never take responsibility for anything you say or do. Get over yourself you are not that great. You like the drama between you and Tre because it keeps people looking at you.  Do you think Penny and Jan do not know you? Jan is your BFF remember. She is the one who says  it to your face you were cheating on your husband. No one had to tell her that. Get real lady or move on. You acting like an innocent victim and your husband being a bully is so old news!

queenbravo
queenbravo

your friends no all your private stuff so if your going to do something never tell anyone or let anyone see you because by time it gets back to you its so twisted you start to believe you did something wrong.

NLK522
NLK522

Wow. A lot of Melissa haters here!! Personally, Melissa and Joe are 2 favorites. I love they're relationship and I can't believe the nasty comments. It's sooooo obvious Teresa has been the one with the problem all along. You can see it written all over her face, in her tone, and the words that come out of her mouth. I think we are seeing some different attitudes from Melissa and Joe this season only bc after dealing with the BS for so long they are fed up. The attitude is basically "we're done". I would be the same way. As for Teresa I don't think she's a bad person. I just think she got way to big of a head after all this attention from the show and didn't know how to handle it!!! She seems to be coming around and recognizing her faults. Hopefully it will stick bc honestly she WAS my favorite for so many seasons!!

debbilou
debbilou

You keep saying you have made peace with Teresa but the girl can't win.. she is wrong for saying anything, she is wrong by not saying anything... lose lose situation!  The core person who is enjoying all this drama is Kim D.  she is arranging lunches, meetings etc and enjoying every moment of it.... she is stirring the pot and Teresa is getting the blame.  I do not think you are as innocent as yo clam to be either.  This has just gotten to be a predictable mess!!

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

Tonight, tonight, Melissa being called out by the "horse whisperer".......!  What a priceless look on the "diva's" face.  Shake that money maker, shake it.

BkZay
BkZay

Melissa please note that when Teresa is not telling the truth or the whole story, her eyes become very wide, cannot stop blinking and tongue moves from side to side licking corners of her mouth.  IT NEVER FAILS!

gina.royer.9
gina.royer.9

A couple years ago Joe Guidice  said to Teresa to get over her brother, that she needed to stop putting him (Joe Gorga)  first and to start putting him, Joe Guidice first.  I think from that comment Teresa likes her brother more than a sister should, and in the wrong way.  That is why I think Teresa is so jealous of Melissa, because Melissa is married to Joe Gorga, her brother.  Melissa took him away from her.  Joe Guidice knows it that's why he made that comment.  That's why he always says crappy things about  Joe Gorga, because Joe Guidice is jealous of Joe Gorga.  Bottom line, Teresa is jealous in every way of Melissa.  Teresa has gone out of her way to cause trouble for them both.  Before Joe & Melissa joined the cast we don't know what happened and why Joe Gorga hit the table the way he did, but I bet it was because of Teresa & Joe's crap.  Teresa  & Joe Guidice turned her parents against Joe & Melissa Gorga with all the lies.  The difference between the two couples couldn't be more evident.  The more I watch the show the more apparent it is.  To me Teresa & Joe Guidice aren't even decent people.  Their kids act awful except Gia.  They are in trouble with the law.  Joe isn't even a citizen.  He used his brother's name to get a license.  That shows bad character, bad decision making, lying.  Melissa & Joe Gorga on the other hand behave decent.  Their kids act decent, they aren't out of control.  The proof is in the pudding as they say.  Melissa is everything Teresa will never be.  Joe Gorga is everything Joe Guidice will never be.  Teresa & Joe are always doing things for attention because they are insecure.  Melissa and Joe get attention because they are a confident, sexy, vibrant couple.   I love you Melissa & Joe, your kids are cute and I love watching how in love you are.  <3

Pete333
Pete333

Melissa, don't believe any of the negative posts.  When it's time to take out the trash, those people will be gone from the show.

erica8123
erica8123

You are not that good of an actress, that is shown by your Teresa storyline.  That is why I think you are a liar.  It's written all over your face.

Honey, Normal people don't have this reputation, friendships and these kind of family issues.  I believe the rumors the more and more YOU defend them, not because people are saying them. 

In the words of Heather Debrow (who I like much more than you, which isn't hardly at all) "If everyone says you're dead, it's time to lie down"

s.martin
s.martin

Wow everyone gets along when you are not around... 

Danielle24
Danielle24

I saw a quote today that really made me think of your situation. "Don't tell me what was said about me... tell me why they were so comfortable saying it to you." I think that really relates to all the drama and all the gossip that you've been going through. Something to think about!

Pete333
Pete333

Don't listen to all the negative posts.  I am sure they are just envious of you.  You are a beautiful girl that has a good heart (unlike Theresa) and a beautiful family. 

Pete333
Pete333

Melissa,

Sorry you were sick on your birthday.  That was a bummer!  Just a word about the gossip.  I would still keep my eyes open around Theresa.  She was interfering in the conversation you were having with Penny, and stuck around way too long for her to be believable that she didn't have anything to do with Jen and Penny.  I'm not convnced she has changed overnight!  I don't think your husband believes it either.

littlemsdivadiva
littlemsdivadiva

anybody notice that when melissa doesn't want to do something she gets 'sick'...she didn't go visit her father in law at the hospital because she was 'sick', eventhough she was at the gym with kathy. kathy even told her "you're not sick, you don't look sick"...as soon as she arrived to arizona, she starts feeling 'sick'...she doesn't go hiking; says she can hardly swallow 'spit' but she's tanning outside and having a drink with Lots of ice!" lol...c'mon girl!

Christiann52
Christiann52

Very interesting how EVERYONE got along without Melissa in the mix...best episode of the season!

petras
petras

everybody was happy hiking without Medusa  Mellisa.....

selena78
selena78

Everyone got along so well when you weren't there. Hmmm.

Luna31
Luna31

I too get "sick" when I have to be around my husband's family. migraines are a great way to get out of a stressful get together.

texashottie1229
texashottie1229

 @bittersweet4 Amen to that.  I laughed so hard because he saw right through her.  Fake and manipulative.  And what was with that walk up to the horse?  As we say in Texas, bless her heart.

Pete333
Pete333

 @BkZay  AMEN to that!  It gives her away every time.  And if you noticed, she got up and walked away when her husband's phone rang.  Probably thought it was his girlfriend. That was her excuse to not wanting to participate.  How convenient.  Such a liar.

littlemsdivadiva
littlemsdivadiva

 @chris120  lol i actually thought that their first season on the show, but now i see that couldn't be farther from the truth...these two were mad teresa didn't give them "enough" camera time season 1 & 2, they got mad at her just for that it's ridiculous and shows these two were just fame hungry....melissa's own first blogs prove it. melissa is the one trying to make the viewers believe that teresa must be jealous of her...and the whole joe being so into melissa seems so acted out. i think these two came in with a plan to be the 'perfect couple'...

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

 @Pete333

 Well thank goodness that beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Because I have never thought she was pretty, or even cute....and that is not coming from a place of envy, but from a place of truth. My truth.

erica8123
erica8123

 @Pete333 Oh yes I am so envious!!

See I don't know about other people but I live by the belief that family IS EVERYTHING and my ACTIONS prove that, not my words.  I believe my character is worth far more then looks and money and BTW I get no complaints in the looks dept, nor do I have complaints on making men happy ;)

Shanara
Shanara

 @Pete333 Probably because if Melissa were to get rear ended at a red light by a stranger from Alaska, she would construe that to be Theresa's fault. I would stand there too if I were Theresa to see the look on Melissa's face when she heard Theresa wasnt "in" on anything...but I guess English wasn't Melissa's first language that day, because she missed it.

Ronica
Ronica

 @littlemsdivadiva

 She was sick on the plane if you noticed.  When Teresa saw her sucking on the lemon on the flight she said her throat was really bothering her.

 

As for her being outside when she is supposed to be sick.  I am guilty of the same thing.  When I have a cold I feel the need to be in the heat if it's warm outside and for the burning throat I like to drink really cold drinks because it soothes the burning in my throat.  People don't all follow the same regimen when they are not feeling good.  I believe her because you could hear it in her voice

piperbeau
piperbeau

 @littlemsdivadiva  I honestly think she was sick! She is too much of a narricissist to miss a day of filming! Besides she is so insecure she really doesn't want her husband alone with Teresa or Caroline!! 

erica8123
erica8123

 @Christiann52 I hope Bravo notices and realize Melissa has ruined the show and gets rid of her before viewers quit watching like other cities.

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @Christiann52 That only PROVES how Melissa and Josephine has ruined this showed!  Ever since they've arrived, it's become extremely dark and unbearable to watch!

Marni511
Marni511

 @selena78 you werent sick!!!! you just wont make peace!!!

..and FYI this was the BEST episode because you werent there!!!

selena78
selena78

 @D-Ann

 Of course not...she just keeps saying that someone is behind all these rumors while silently referring to Teresa, which is funny because the "rumors" are coming straight from the people's mouths and to Melissa's face. No one is hiding.

littlemsdivadiva
littlemsdivadiva

 @Luna31 and she was even sick when her father in law was in the hospital, actually they both got sick remember lol

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @Luna31 Melissa got sick the FIRST time her husband told her about the trip!  The look on her face said it all!

Liznorris
Liznorris

@erica8123 @Pete333 but Teresa and Joe Guedice have proved that their character is NOT worth more than money. Money is obviously everything to them.

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @Shanara  @Pete333 totally agree... I mean if Jac and Tre fell out as best friends, Tre did not command Melissa and her brother back her up and confront Jac... she handled it and removed Jac from her circle until she could get over it. Now that Melissa's friends are out to get her, why the he** is it Tre's job to defend Melissa and confront people she doesn't even have a relationship with? Seriously???

NadaFan
NadaFan

 @piperbeau  @littlemsdivadiva Ah but she did get airtime....in a bikini! Just the way she likes it, she's such a show off!  And she didn't have to share her airtime with anyone, it was just her....: ( poor sick lil actress

 

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @piperbeau  @littlemsdivadiva She surely wasn't "sick" while tanning in the sun!  Melissa KNEW she would still get some camera time, that's why she hurried up and put on her 2 piece bikini!  WHO DOES THAT?  Melissa still wanted her camera time, WITHOUT having to share the spotlight with anyone else! When I'm sick, putting on a swimsuit and prancing in front of the camera would be the LAST thing I would want to do!  She was "sick" alright!

littlemsdivadiva
littlemsdivadiva

 @piperbeau 

 

good point lol, but for a minute i even thought joey didn't believe her, when he was like c'mon you've had 3 kids and then walked away...maybe he knows she's always doing this when it comes to his family...we've all gotten 'sick' to get out of something but this is his family and i think she just wanted to make it all about 'poor melissa'. Anyway, I'm glad joey still went out hiking with the rest of them...

 

on another note, richie complaining about everything on a 'free vacation'? jeez! lol and his comment to melissa's "camel toe" was disgusting and soo inappropriate! 

erica8123
erica8123

 @selena78  @D-Ann and coming from MELISSA"S friends and people that MELISSA has confided in....

You're only as good as the company you keep Melissa because normal people do not have friends like that

Pete333
Pete333

 @southern_goddess  @Luna31

 I think she was more dissappointed that he arranged an outing with everyone else to celebrate her birthday instead of just going with her!  Men are so stupid, they never know how to treat a woman.  If it was my birthday, I sure wouldn't want to go somewhere with a bunch of people, especially if Teresa and Joe were going to be there.

texashottie1229
texashottie1229

 @southern_goddess  @piperbeau  @littlemsdivadiva I agree.  I LOVE lying out in the sun but when I'm sick, all I want to do is lie in bed.  I tend to agree partly with the the other comment though, where she is too narcissistic to miss filming so this one is a tough call.

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @littlemsdivadiva  @piperbeau I missed this episode, but I can just about figure that Rich is gonna be a loud arse jerk as usual. He needs to see a shrink, because his ego and stupidity makes him pathetic! GEEZE

piperbeau
piperbeau

 @littlemsdivadiva Rich is all sorts of inappropriate! He's gross!  I do however think Melissa was totally lying about being sick when her father in law was in the hospital...  Joe is probably a lil pissy with his wife!! Don't forget while they were filming this all the websites about Melissa Gorga were just coming out!! She was trying to blame Teresa for it all... I think Joey Marco wants to believe his sister is responsible for all these rumors!! Therefore he doesn't have to hold his wife accountable for anything!! It helps his ego out! He would rather his sister be responsible for than rumors!! this way his wife looks innocent!!