Melissa Gorga

Melissa couldn't believe all the rumors being spread about her.

on Jul 8, 20130

I should have seen it coming. I write about marriage, so I’m accused of cheating. If I wrote about gardening, I’d be accused of planting plastic trees. I should write about friendship, something like, “The friends you make as a lonely teenager are not necessarily who you want in your life later on.” I thought I was being a good friend keeping ties long after we’d grown apart. Good intentions can get you stabbed in the back. It hurt to live through it, and to watch it play out. I’m still a bit in shock.


 
I’m not going to defend myself against what was said about me. I’m innocent of every disgusting thing those scheming ladies cooked up about me. I know who I am, and what I’ve done. My family and friends know it too. Like I said in the episode, I don’t like to put everything on Teresa and I DON’T. But there is something to be said about the company you keep. And when an accusation as disgusting as giving BJs is being discussed on national TV about your own sister-in-law, no matter how much you “don’t like her,” I think what most people would do is: immediately get up and walk away, reach out to their family to give them the heads up since the last time this happened it caused such a divide, and maybe not tweet that “It was a good night” so that your brother and his wife don’t think that you enjoyed hearing this.

951 comments
brimonmc
brimonmc

your not a victim. stop the behavior of blaming and playing innocent.  none of you are innocent.  every single cast member made mistakes.  that is life.  i don't like your music, and i don't care for your personality.  i don't want to see you on the next episode. 

Lauriejean
Lauriejean

People need to mind their own effin' business regarding you & your hubby. People make mistakes...Even if you did, who are WE to judge?? Only God can judge you Melissa. Don't fall apart, stay STRONG...And you don't have to explain diddly SQUAT to NOBODY. Ignore the haters...They thrive off of creating drama & chaos, and you don't need that b.s. in your life. I know that it's tough, but it takes TWO people to perpetuate an argument right? So ignore them & WALK AWAY. The only person that you need to impress is yourself. As long as you believe in yourself, love yourself, and know that you are brilliant and you project that self-confidence to the world, then NOBODY can mess with you.

celia.veston
celia.veston

Does anyone like Melissa except for her husband!  She is the most vile person I ever saw on the screen - please get rid of her from the show!

bobotte
bobotte

Shame on you..shame on you...sounds familiar. That's what you were egging your hubby to say to his sister in the season finale last year. I knew then, you were the culprit in all of this. You see how Bravo showed you were whispering that in your hubby's ear...shame on you!

hopeplunkett
hopeplunkett

Wow what a 2- last episodes. I would like to say that at 1st I was starting to not like Caroline, BUT let me say this I really am admired by her for dropping and going to help. That my friends shows a lot of class, love, loyalty and compassion. I really am glad she done that, because Like Tre said JOE DID REACH TO HER FIRST!!  I also think the world of Miss ROSIE boy we just love and laugh at her through the whole thing, BUT must say she and her sister are trying to stand beside tre through this all and that show a lot... I think Jac refusing to go was a wonderful idea, because that would have just made everything worse. She needs to stay out of the Gorga's ear about things, because she seems to always stir the pot. I do feel that JOE GORGA is stuck between making his wife happy, and loving his sister, which must really suck. Because he seems to not be able to go either way. Melissa truly shows she doesn't want them to work through there issues and she only tries to make things worse. That is the whole reason for not wanting them to talk in the first place. Just like on the bus she was talking so much crap, and then they got her saying things about joe and tre there kids, marriage, and abuse... WOW but she doesn't do no wrong right?? Can I ask when people are around her talking mess when has she ever walked away, said oh that is my sister in law dont say that or what ever?????????????? NEVER!!! she adds in her input and goes along with it all. So why again should Tre have to defend her??? I think Tre feels she lost her brother when he got married, and in all honesty you can see that... But he has to find a happy medium with it all and work it out to suit him... I hate him and Joe fought, that sucks cause you can tell they were friends. 

Gizmoboy
Gizmoboy

Melissa, just leave it all in GOD's hands and do not give anyone reason to think you are to blame for any of this mess Teresa is causing - turn your back on all that.  Leave it all in GOD's hand's - HE's never intended for you to pick up any of this - HE wants your hands out of it, so only HE is working this all out for your best.

 

Boopit
Boopit

Melissa you are "poison" !

threesistersx3
threesistersx3

Don't trust those women that met for dinner!  Don't trust that evil real estate agent.  Anyone who spreads gossip (thinking to gain your trust) so she can benefit by getting your house listed is evil and under cutting.  I can't believe she said on National TV she said that.  Shows what an unprofessional idiot she is.  That Kim D...don't even look in her direction.  I thought it was wrong to invite her to sit down with you.  You should not expect  an honest response from her, she is trash.  Throw Kim D out with the garbage.  I can't believe she can stay in business with a foul character that she is.  So there that's who you don't trust.  Oh and yes, Teresa and Joe....

they will never like you so just move it on.  They are not in laws, they are out - laws.

 

VLV13
VLV13

Melissa, just continue to be a class act. Shame on Tre - I admire Kathy and Richie for trying to bring balance - they are your family. Although, Tre needs professional help try to let what she does and says roll off your back and remember she needs help. My heart goes out to you and the rest of the cast. Tre needs to go!

angryinny
angryinny

I can't believe how many people out there are against you. After ten years of savage jealousy and nastiness I think you have every right to go on the offensive.  You have the right, but I see you as better than that.  I would let Joe handle his sister.  He doesn't side with what she may or may not say so you have nothing to worry about.  She will always despise what  you and her brother have together and there is no (unfortunately ) no changing that.  You are not dealing with a rational person. I hope you sell your house soon.  As with most family tragedies, its the kids who wind up suffering the most.  But your children will move on and resolve things with their cousins their own way.  My heart breaks for the pain that Joe is going through.  Even though I don't know him, his sensitivity is so beautiful you hurt with him. I know once you put distance between the craziness and yourselves life will get happier and more peaceful.  Best of luck and God bless.  Your my kind of people.

vanillaaries
vanillaaries

I am a big fan of the show and It is hard to believe that all these rumors go on about you but you, your husband and God know the truth and that is all that matters. At the end of the day haters are always going to hate, that is there job, it just is really horrible that some of your biggest haters, landed so close to your heart. Just keep your head up, They will all see their evil ways and feel sorry about it. Don't let them keep hurting you and your family, I don't know what I would do if I was in your shoes, but I pray that you and your family finds peace and happiness

rebels18
rebels18

You are kidding about Tre coming to you about what was being said behind your back? The last time she did that her brother did not speak to her for over a year and her good friend Jac accused her of setting everything up and you went along with her. Get real. You can not even act innocent.

charlene66
charlene66

this message is for joe, you are so out of line for calling your sister scum, you are no better than her husband. for real you need to crawl on your knee to your sister to say you are sorry, what if your mother was watching i sure it would break her heart. you are so pig headed like your father its not funny. make it right before your own kids start acting like your guys because it going to happen. your daughter is already forming her own opions about you and your wife, respect will be no more. You say you respect your wife, than show some respect for your mother and sister.

Helensezz
Helensezz

Melissa you do a very professional job of pole dancing...eye contact etc. yet you worked @ a strip bar waiting tables? C'mon...really?   Then a cookbook oh no it's a nookbook about keeping your marriage happy Lolll :)  Love, respect and affection are the most important ingredients in a marriage and I'm not writing any book about it.  It's common knowledge that all the superficial stuff fades and handholding lasts forever.  Strong trusting bonds are very important.  Sex is an important bond.  Your drama role during the last episode was terrible as you begged Teresa to leave your family alone, stop hurting them please...was to egg your husband on and give a good show, but you are a terrible actress and that is not a fair way to communicate.  Put a blouse on to cover what only your husband should be looking at that you show ALL the time.  A small amount of cleavage is ok but you have others fantasizing about you and I bet you LOVE that more than your marriage.  No apologies, I call a spade a spade..

mary.ward.12327608
mary.ward.12327608

I have been watching this show for years now...well since Danielle Staub was on there. I have noticed that alot of the the rumors being told are being told by Melissa's own "friends". The last episode when her brides maid was saying that she was cheating on her husband, I do recall Theresa saying that she already heard that, that was an old rumor and she didn't think it was true. Kim D. however likes to stir the pot, and Theresa ends up guilty by association. Just like at the salon when the guy said Melissa used to dance at his club, Theresa got up and left the room b/c she said she did not want to her gossip about her sister in law. I know Theresa has her faults, she isnt totally innocent, however she isn't totally guilty of what she is being accused of. I think Melissa and Joe Guidice need to step aside and let Theresa and her brother work on patching things up. Once they can do that then slowly they can work on their spouses. I hope this season ends on a positive note. 

Lavendar2
Lavendar2

If u watch the episodes u will see Teresa had nothing to do with any of that stuff, but u seem to be such a drama queen, and u don,t promote healing, u wanted Teresa to get between two men fighting. What are u even talking about, your husband is so violent, and your such a drama queen getting on your knees your so stupid and an embarrassment. Your husband rushed Joe, and I can,t believe you want them to be friends. Your jealous of their relationship. I see now after watching all the episodes who the problem is. You really need to apologize to Theresa.

donna.simpkins.7
donna.simpkins.7

Melissa, I am glad that you feel good about yourself but I have to warn you that no matter how sexual and beautiful you are your husband can still (down the line) cheat on you. You tend to blame the woman - even in one episode you seem to think that if your mom had been better to your dad he wouldn't have left. I get it - you are young. But don't blame the woman - blame the relationship and what ALL of the issues are within the relationship. You will age as well. Oh, that's right - you have money so you shouldn't age at the same rate as other women!

 

rustyrusty123
rustyrusty123

writting a book about a great marriage LMAO Try doing that after you earn the respect of a long Marriage.   You only just began.  You use sex to controll Joe.  We already know that by watching you! lol  Anyone can do that.  Just have a little more respect for our self.

rustyrusty123
rustyrusty123

Serious Melissa your mad because Teresa does not stand up for you and beat people down for speaking bad of you? All i hear is you and your friends Bad mouthing Teresa.  Who Are you.  I think y ou and your bestfriend set Teresa up.  That was your BFF bad mouthing you after Teresa wanted to set up a retreat to mand things with her brother. You never stick up for her.  Just a way to take the attention off of the subject.  Why wouldnt you call your best friend first and confront her???? Think we know the answer to that!! Her brother and her were very close before  you came into the picture.  That scared you didnt it.  There has been nothing between her and her brother.  Just you!! Shouldnt have gone on the retreat just her and her brother should have gone. She has to listen while you bad mouth her and acuse her of setting you up.  Yet she is to stand up for you!! Just who do you think you are? Queen? 

homesick4louisiana
homesick4louisiana

It's been my experience that SOME rumors have a foundation of truth but the walls and the roof are made out of lies. Just saying...

diannantexas
diannantexas

Will not be ordering that book because you are fake so that makes you book fake.

diannantexas
diannantexas

Jacqueline did lie:  TERESA DIDN'T KNOW AND TERESA DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR OR KNOW:  BUT JACQUELINE SAID TERESA SET IT UP!  SO JACQUELINE YOU DID LIE: When Kim D insisted on having a Q & A with Baldy about Melissa, Teresa didn't listen.  The when he showed up at the Fashion Show and said something to Melissa, Teresa who didn't know he was going to be there, took Melissa to the bathroom to tell her what he had been saying and asked her to confront him together.  Melissa decided to blame Teresa, as she always does:  Blame Teresa First.  And what did you do?  You intimated that you had inside information that Teresa really did set Melissa BUT SHE DID NOT!

JenniferFM
JenniferFM

So in MelissaLand, It's absolutely unforgivable for Teresa to be present when people are speaking negatively about Melissa.

 

But when you're Melissa, it's perfectly OK to be present when people speak negatively of Teresa, and to call Teresa a "witch" and "poison," and to gossip about the state of Teresa's marriage. 

 

Did I get it right, Melissa? Am I correct in defining your double standards?

KathyO.
KathyO.

I don't understand how anyone can blame you for what is going on.  It's plain and simple....everyone BUT Teresa has apologized.  And everyone BUT Teresa has acknowledged what they have done wrong.  I am in the same boat as you.  I have a sister-in-law that causes all sorts of problems, and then acts like she did nothing wrong, and we're the crazy ones.  I fee for you.  I really do.  

Mdrbmass
Mdrbmass

You've done it....I am actually team 'Teresa & Joe' now!  (which are words I never thought I would say) YOU are the reason Tre and her brother don't speak.  YOU.  Your husband is trying to make YOU happy and CLEARLY you don't want Tre arounds unless it on YOUR terms.  You  need to stop talking to Joe about his sister.  And I find it SO IRONIC that you complain Tre doesn't stick up for you when someone is speaking bad about her.  When have you ever stuck up for her???  This last episode she was ripped to shreds and you & Joe let it happen.  Over and over.  Shame on you.  Grow up.

brimonmc
brimonmc

 @hopeplunkett Caroline is a Martyr that wants recognition for her so-called angel behavior..give me a break. She needs to spend more time with her absent husband.

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @VLV13 You are clearly not watching the same show as me. Also have you missed a few seasons? Melissa is poison, vile, vindictive and had her claws out for Tre since her first appearance on the show. 

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @angryinny Really? ten years of jealousy? Melissa was nothing before she married into the GORGA LIFE! Something Tre was born into. A piece of paper makes her a Gorga and a piece of paper will put her right back on the pole!

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @rebels18 Totally Agree: It's not Tre's responsibility to fight Melissa's battles of her past ghost! Melissa has 2 older sisters...why is it Tre's job to fight for her? In the word of Daniel Staub PULEASE!

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @mary.ward.12327608 Exactly: it is not Tre's job to fight Melissa's battles! Seriously, Melissa is a grown woman, with a past! Her guilt is trying to hide her past behind this facade life she's inherited by marriage...TO TRE'S BROTHER, BTW!

evelynmulero
evelynmulero

 @mary.ward.12327608 correctamundo, people will always talk, so what, the past is the past, you all have skeletons in the closet, so stop acting like your innocent and don't have anything to hide, people have a right to change and live a good life happy with someone who loves them and give them that opportunity, maybe one of you have had that opportunity, so what, she has a good man standing beside her, screw those of you who hate her for it, props to her, you guys aren't doing anything for her so mind your business, and shut up, nobody cares...Like I said, her and Teresa will be fine in the end..

randrew
randrew

 @Brookie244

 Oh goody, I'm in la la land! No wonder I feel so good, yeah right...

rhwotx
rhwotx

 @rustyrusty123 totally agree.. those booty shorts she wore to that family barbecue at Jacqueline's house last year was repulsive! 

Stacy1
Stacy1

JacHO also lied on Dina.  She lied about Dina to Danielle, that's partially why Danielle hated Dina so much.  Jac LIED that Dina was responsible for uncovering the infamious book about Danielle, but Caroline had already said that their nieces found out about the book during internet searches and told ALL of them about it at a family function. I wanted to see who (more like what) was joining the show with them.  JacHO is famious for throwing her rocks then hiding her hands behind her husband.  

mracz
mracz

 @KathyO.

 Same!! Noone has apologized except Kathy.

littlemsdivadiva
littlemsdivadiva

 @KathyO.  i used to feel bad for them because of a similar situation with me but now that i've seen them for 2 seasons, i see right through them...melissa is no victim...c'mon would you go join a show your terrible sister in law is already on, only  to bash her and say bad things about her and play victim? victims don't do that only envious people who want a piece of the pie. like nene said, they have to admit they wanted to be like teresa because they saw her success on the show. and that's the only reason they got on the show because of teresa's name

corinne.carlman
corinne.carlman

 @Mdrbmass Teresa always accuses Melissa of complaining to her husband about her but she does the exact same thing. She also is constantly telling her parents crap like she does nothing wrong.

 

c.a.tmetwin
c.a.tmetwin

 @rhwotx  @VLV13 clearly u don't watch the show, Teresa is vile to everybody. When she makes her rude comments and then says I'am kidding, she doesn't like when things r said about her. She's  VILE.

Teresaisnuts
Teresaisnuts

@lambyjj @KathyO. Listen you already know the answer, and your response will be something along the lines of "they didn't mean it", "or they were just doing it because the fans were angry". You know very well that the two main things that Tre Groupies bitch about non-stop is Joey calling Tre "garbage", and Mel texting Danielle. You also know that they have apologized for both. You might not like the way they did it, you might not think it was sincere, you might not have thought it was elegant (we know that Teresa likes shiny, expensive things with her apologies), but at least they did it. Show me when Tre has done anything similar??

Teresaisnuts
Teresaisnuts

@lambyjj dis you read my comments? I told you what they apologized for. When? At the first reunion for the garbage comment, and at some club for Mel's deal with Danielle. I was respectful enough to answer your question, now why don't you tell me when and where Teresa has ever aplologized for anything she has done/said about them. Or is your comment the best you can do??