Melissa Gorga

Melissa thinks Penny and her husband should focus on their own lives.

on Sep 24, 20130

Hi everyone ,

Sorry for not getting my blog to you sooner. I’ve been on a jam packed tour promoting Love Italian Style. It’s such a great feeling to finally have the book out there and I can’t tell you how amazing it has been meeting fans each night at my book signings. I am so grateful that so many of you are taking the time to come out. I love hearing your stories and chatting about the book! You are the reason I wrote this book, and I’m so glad that you love it! There are lots more signings over the next few weeks, and I can’t wait to see you at one of them. Check out my website to see where I’ll be next.

OK onto the episode. UGH! I don’t know about you, but I am so over the he said, she said. It’s getting very old if you ask me. The fact is I came onto the RHONJ scene talking about sprinkle cookies and re-done homes. How we got to gold-digging, stripping, and cheating is beyond me.

For me it’s not so much about the actual rumors, because they are ridiculous and almost laughable. The people that came on the show to spread them when confronted and asked for proof have NONE. The people that shout from the rooftops on Twitter and in blogs, promising to “Bring the Truth” never do! Know this: if you were in my past, you remain in my past for a reason. Contrary to what some may say, I’m not spending my time talking about you, and I honestly wish everyone well.

538 comments
FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Melissa where do they find those rough looking blondes like Penny and Kim D.?   the Jersey Turnpike rat den?  Penny looked like she stepped out of a salon wearing every piece of blond hairpiece they had.....I haven't seen that much hair on one person's head since Dolly Parton performed last.....Kim D. thinks she is 19 and people are buying that she has long blonde hair.....what possessed her to believe a woman her age could pull off that hair?  Even she looked better with the shorter style....she has aged herself and looks like a desperate stripper on the truck stop circuit...the kind even a woman would make her husband tip.....you have to admit, out of all the housewife shows, Jersey has the roughest looking bystanders....when I say rough, I mean beat up, banged up, drug out of a deep sleep with mussed hair .... sorry to be so general.....but we do love us some Jersey

Cdg7496
Cdg7496

I'm actually getting tired of telling you how wrong you are. Your husband is obviously a real slow coach to not see how wrong you are. You should be congratulated for your crafty and deceitful nature. Wow how good you are at putting the blame on others. Great job. FYI you have zero singing talent.

michelle.lynnekohls
michelle.lynnekohls

Melissa you look very ugly on the inside this year. You hold this terrible grudge. This can only create bad results for you and your family. The way you are acting makes people empathize with Teresa who looks like she's offered the olive branch dozens of times this year and apologized just as many. I'm not saying she's innocent. I'm only telling you how you are perceived. Your husband looks like a stubborn little boy who took his toys and went home because his sister didn't play nice. I see he has a softness for her and her girls, he should show that side more and not the Knucklehead fighting machine he's shown. Just sayin.

MizzVee
MizzVee

and by the way I think all the rumors are true !

MizzVee
MizzVee

Its funny how you believe these people when they say Teresa had something to do with all the rumors but they are lying when they talk about you ??? Okay Melissa that makes sense !

Janadill
Janadill

Nobody cares who said what, who repeated it and when. Grow up and stop pretending that you just want to get to the bottom of the rumors, you're not in high school anymore! It's interesting how you can blatantly trash Teresa on national television, but if you think that she might have said something about you, you cry "victim". We all know that you don't like Teresa, and every time Joe and Teresa come close to mending their relationship, your insecurities come out loud and clear.

Ruby-Lena
Ruby-Lena

Judging from the show, it seems very obvious: Penny and her husband are driven by an insatiable appetite for attention regardless of ethics or any fair play.  Maybe you all should ignore them and all together stop all talk about the incidents? Plus, it's just all so "done," to quote Teresa. Y'all need to move on because it's getting boring. Joe & Melissa, you both seem very unforgiving during part 1 of the RHONJ Reunion Show.  It's getting like a broken record. I hope the show moves onto another focus. If this nonsense continues, I 'm not going to watch anymore. Best of Luck. 

crystal.rosie.7
crystal.rosie.7

I believe you feel as though you are the cats meow, and you are trying to be in the spotlight over everyone else. You are getting somewhere because of your show. Your sister in law creates a book, you create a book. Teresa does something, and you have to out do her. I love the show before you came on it. I fast forward anytime you are on. I am so sick of you playing the feel sorry for me act. This is not high school, and you need to grow up! You need to be real, don't be fake! Own what you have done! If you have cheated, own it, if you are jealous of your sister in law, own it! If you cant own what you have said or done, then you need to get off the show! You don't want to hear negativity, all you want is praise! Well sista, you put yourself out there to be criticized. There are negative people out there and you are one of them. Any other of the women on the show can say the exact same thing about you and you would NOT take it in a negative way, but when Teresa says something, you so take in negatively...You say" Oh she is just twists her comments to where they sound negative". Get over it, your don't like her, and you are going to bash her no matter what!!!!!!

This comment is constructive criticism. If you don't like the negative aspects of this show, then by all means, leave!! It will be better without you!!!!

janhill
janhill

You say you are over the rumors and yet that is all the show is about, even the reunion.  And you still blame Theresa. You sat at the reunion making faces at her. If you want your 15 minutes of fame (hopefully not much longer) grow up and let the rumors slide off your back. Denying and getting mad about it only makes you look guilty.

elaineolivia
elaineolivia

Melissa what kind of review did your book get?

M. you really want to keep up the rumors.  You continue to say something about T. I am over you.  Now I'm wondering if there is any truth to the rumors.  Don't like you M.  Love your husband.  He's the victim because you never shut up.

larsonsandy
larsonsandy

I just saw the first reunion episode where you said, Melissa, that you didn't know that there were so many mean people out there. I love you! I think you are a strong, sweet, talented, beautiful woman! You are one of my favs. I would say that I have noticed a change in your attitude as getting a little jaded and I don't blame you in the arena you have been in. Please try to focus on all the people who are on your side and think you are fabulous! I would just hate to haters change  you! Much love and support!

kjjohnson
kjjohnson

Melissa, stop listening to these women until they can show you some hard evidence. Just walk away and let them know you won't listen until they can prove what they are saying. Teresa will deny it all until the day she dies unless you can show her the proof.

OnyxPearl
OnyxPearl

No wonder the music industry is in the shape it is... you sounded awful.  I see AutoTune in your immediate future.

viewerlainie
viewerlainie

Saw you and your roid rage husband on the Wendy Williams show. Are you going to apologize for talking badly about Teresa. Have you noticed every show you go on to push your book, they all just want to talk about Teresa. Oh well serves you right, you are a total copycat. Pathetic, you two have really ruined this show.Please go away.

p-note
p-note

So let me get this straight when Penny is talking about you she is lying?! but when she accuses Teresa of starting these rumors she is telling the truth?!! Girl please!!! 

MoTy1
MoTy1

I just need to say this. You came on this show and immediately started trashing Theresa. Last season you all openly bashed her when you were all together in front of MILLIONS of people. Yet, you and Joe are upset with strangers tweeting things about you and who put them up to it? I see, it couldn't possibly be due to your behaviors right? I mean you came on the show to take Theresa down. If she spoke with people about you and they took to Twitter in her defense that's a problem.

ireallydidnothearthat
ireallydidnothearthat

your reaction ....the longest reaction i have ever seen to something that doesn't matter.  sounds like there is some truth to the rumors and i believe this is what is bothering joe.  he wants so desperately to believe it is someone elses fault ..anyone elses fault ..and that his wife is perfect ...he loves his family...and i feel sorry for him.  Melissa..maybe it is time for you to come clean. where their is fire their is fuel.  Joe will forgive you but at least you would bring the family back together.  Teresa..she is just a confused person wanting to protect her brother and not having one clue how to go about it.  The only thing she can do is support her brother and eventually all lies and dirty laundry will come out in the open.  Karma Melissa. Karma. No reason for joe to get angry..

KatiainHB
KatiainHB

Drop it already sheesh this is boring

Have2Say
Have2Say

you are the last person to be calling out trust issues.   You went behind your SIL back to join a show to take her down and you have the balls to say you can't trust her.   You're pathetic.     Oh, but you were hormonal so it's OK in your book to do that to someone.  Get over yourself and stop being a victim

berry_interesting@
berry_interesting@

Hi Melissa, don't think about the negatives. You've got a beautiful family, and life is good. That's all that really matters.

The promotion of your music is fun to watch, but if that aspect fails... so what? You're still fortunate in every possible way.

Blessings to you and yours.

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

Has the book made the New York Times Best Seller list yet?  Nope, didn't think so.  Joe would have to buy a "sh*t load" of books to make that happen. 

rosyposy
rosyposy

Glad to see that you and Joe are just moving on from the fiasco caused by Teresa, Kim, Penny, and whatever the other witch's name was.  Teresa proved that even when confronted with the facts by her co-conspirators that she is totally uncapable of ever accepting blame.  Joe was wise enough to realize that his sister has been like that all her life (and who would know her better?),  and just accept the half apology that he got.  She still tried to blame you for her sick, twisted lies.   The viewers were just sick of the whole thing.  So, just accept the twisted sister for what she is because she is family and she will need both of you when her legal problems reach their peak.   You have a strong marriage and an adoring husband.  Teresa actually started bawling when she had to admit that it was only right that your husband put you and your children first.  That was the root of her problem the whole time.  I am glad she realized it.  Keep smiling and ignore the haters.  No telling what is in that koolaid.  LOL

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

I also heard that the star of the show Teresa Giudice turned down for her fourth time her own spin off...Wise decision on her part

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

Now why was it so important to you and your husband to find out who told everyone you did not go to the hospital to see your father in law....Why blame Teresa if she did say it....no one would have cared if you were not the one who burned the bridges with Penny, Jen, Kim D....it just so happens that Teresa was in the wrong place at the right time...but you are the reason why these women went for blood because you are known all over Jersey to burn your bridges...You have a lot of growing up to do!

Janadill
Janadill

@MizzVee Right, they're huge liars when it comes to Melissa and totally trustworthy when they trash Teresa. But, it's definitely to Melissa's benefit to keep the drama going. If she let her husband have a meaningful relationship with his sister and nieces, what would Melissa do with herself?

annalarry3@hotmail.com
annalarry3@hotmail.com

 @kjjohnson

 Melissa, don't let Teresa get to you. You are a strong person. I would move my family just like you want to. I agree with kjjohnson that Teresa will deny everything. What people say to her does not sink in. She lives in a world of her own.

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @MoTy1

 Now according to Joe the reason he went bat shit crazy at the christening is because Teresa signed her contract & showed up to film.  It make him crazy.......!  Teresa supposedly was keeping him from functions while she was filming & it made the "bitch baby" mad.  Dr. V. is so correct when she said he needs anger management.  I wish Melissa & Joe would get their stories straight.  Little Joey was crying "bitch baby" tears to his father claiming he was his son & that it was Joe Giudice who ruined their relationship, now it's Teresa fault that he went crazy - I can't keep up.  When do Joe & Melissa take responsibility for their OWN actions.

mistydog20
mistydog20

 @MoTy1

 I must be watching a different show than you...Teresa and her worthless husband are the trashers, matter of fact I think he is behind her attitude towards everyone else......

Norluv
Norluv

 @KatiainHB   I think the same..If you are not guilty, let it go...Don't keep protesting so much

MoTy1
MoTy1

 @D-Ann Amen! If this was me I'd be wondering why the hell people are saying this stuff about me and just devastated about the lies. I'd be much more focused on ensuring people knew I wasn't a cheater than on WHO was spreading these rumors.

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @D-Ann And that's why she deflected the attention on everyone else, and away from the REAL SOURCE, JAN!!!!!!  Melissa THINKS she's clever, but we're way ahead of her!

Norluv
Norluv

 @bittersweet4 What advice can Melissa give?  I dont care.. I think she stirs the pot a lot with all the people. She can't sing and she is just pushing that part of her life.  Let the talk go and just move on..they keep looking to find out what else Teresa said..who cares?? If you are innocent, dont worry about it..I dont think Melissa is so innocent

Glimmer88
Glimmer88

 @rosyposy So you have nothing to say about Joe and Melissa not apologizing for ANYTHING they said this season??  What about every single talking head they were trashing Teresa--what about the bus trip where Melissa was saying Joe G cheats and how ugly Teresa's green dress was (such pettiness)--what about how Melissa made fun of Teresa's "cheesy" products....  What about all that (and more)?  Melissa went after Teresa FIRST ---or are you not familiar with what she tried to do via Danielle??  Do you know about that????  Teresa has EVERY right to feel negatively towards Melissa.  Yet you didn't see Teresa bashing Melissa all season long.  I mean come on---so Teresa listened to people saying that Melissa is a stripper and may have cheated on Joe and liked hearing some bad things about her because it made her feel vindicated---is that sooooooo much worse than the things they have said about her????  They have based an entire season on that, and every one on the show has bashed and maligned the hell out of the Guidices but no one--absolutely NO ONE has taken any accountability for it.  I just do not understand that at all....  No wait ---I DO understand it somewhat.  Andy dislikes Teresa and there's the reason behind it all.  Even though T is the main reason everyone watches the show.  Makes no sense at all....... NONE. 

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @rosyposy

 Seems to me at the present time, Melissa has a whole new set of problems to worry about besides her "twisted sister-in-law".  The book.......you know the one that required writing is causing her some extreme stress & not just because of the archaic passage of "taking".  Oh no, there is just so much more than just that insult as the book is filled with moronic advice.  Pretty sad when a copy can't even fetch $5.00 on eBay.  Kind of reminds me of that commercial of the old man with the fishing pole with a dollar on the end of it - "you got to be quicker than that to catch it".  Yep, old Melissa and the stump served it up hot and sexy. 

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

 @Debbieinmissouricitytx

 Why would she need to get a SpinOff? If not for Teresa there would be no RHoNJ, she is the star of RHoNJ.  All the rest of the cast does is  talk about Teresa, if they didn't they wouldn't have anything to talk about. 

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @Debbieinmissouricitytx

 Because the girl wouldn't have a storyline.  It was all over Twitter & Facebook - people were calling her out about not going to see her father-in-law.  I don't even know Melissa & I wondered why her husband was sick & dying in the hospital, her father-in-law was sick & Melissa was getting a hair blow out.  You can make this stuff up especially if you post it on a media outlet. 

elaineolivia
elaineolivia

 @Debbieinmissouricitytx I so agree with you!  I'm left wondering if there is any truth to the rumors.  why are Joe's buttons pushed so easily?  Maybe he really knows what M. did.  Either way M. is a waste of space.

rosyposy
rosyposy

Debbieinmissouricitytx:  I might buy Teresa's lame excuse of just being in the wrong place at the wrong time.....but I have a problem.....my brain works too well.  It could not have been a coincidence when it happened over and over and over.  All we saw of those little meetings was the scripted part on camera.  Kim actually cannot keep from smiling when she is saying her "lines".  Teresa embarked on a campaign to bring Melissa down simply because SHE IS JEALOUS OF MELISSA.  Jealousy is a self-destructive thing when taken that far.  I actually feel sorry for Teresa.  Karma is kicking her in the butt big time right now.  Sad

Nastybaby
Nastybaby

 @Debbieinmissouricitytx  In almost any other situation, I'd agree with you, but , now that the last show has aired, I can see that it was important for them to push in some respects: Theresa needed to acknowledge her part in all of the attacks against Melissa and Joe in order for them to truly move forward, whether it was amicably or not.   I don't think she would have done that if they continued to sweep it under the rug.  She would have continued to deflect blame and there would have always been this underlying current of resentment.  

 

 

 

 

miabella12
miabella12

 @southern_goddess  @D-Ann

 I can't stand the site of Melissa and her new nose job. Am I the only one out here that finds are so unattractive inside and out?

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @Norluv

 Book sales are so low because partly of the "marital rape" passage that now her PR team is pushing the part of how Joe & Melissa were so very poor that they could hardly afford to buy diapers, but they could afford to buy that lot in Montville.  Desperate is what she is becoming. 

howdy29
howdy29

 @bittersweet4  @rosyposy

 I was wondering since she did have someone wrote the book for her, did the writer  actually put Melissa in the bad light specially about the marital rape intentionally? I mean, someone should/would've re read the book before they finalized it and start printing??? Think about it... maybe it's a million dollar question, right? Ok, maybe not a million dollar question, but I'm just trying to make a sense about this whole 'marital rape". Oh btw, Melissa clearly lied about her family not tweeting negatively about Teresa... BUSTED. But anywho Melissa just want what Teresa have/had, just like her husband and Teresa's brother JOE whiney Gorga... smh

 

canoraj@yahoo.com
canoraj@yahoo.com

@rosyposy maybe you should give your good brain a rest ,since its working on over time ....because you are delusional !!!!

Nastybaby
Nastybaby

 @rosyposy I think that she said a lot to many people and didn't care what they did with the information.   She may not have asked them, but she probably caught wind of some bad posts about Melissa and Joe and didn't do anything or even said something like, "do what you want to do" and people ran with it.  Then, Penny and her husband placed the blame on Theresa.  

Debbieinmissouricitytx
Debbieinmissouricitytx

 @rosyposy

 but who showed their true colors of jealousy first? MELISSA GORGA! She went after Danielle like a stalker...feeding her lies about Teresa and begging to get on the show to take Teresa down...out of Danielle own mouth....and she has proof to back up what she is saying...Melissa swept that under the rug so fast! So really I think my rosy posy dear...you got this one wrong....Karma is biting Melissa on her butt beginning with her book...need I say more....

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @rosyposy

 In your well working brain, Teresa is the genius behind two seasons of "let's take Melissa down".  The coincidence of Kim D., Penny & Johnny the Greek had to have had the sanction of the producers.  What you are implying is that Teresa has a bigger say in what is shown & what isn't, making Andy & the producers pretty much at her beck and call.  I could maybe believe Melissa's "victim" role the first year, but again the following.  Then the book comes out & we find out that Melissa has been a victim most of her life.  The varsity cheerleaders picked on her, the boca bitches picked on her, her BFF turned on her, her sister-in-law doesn't like her, her headset is static, she can't sing in an octave higher, it's hot outside, it's cold out.  I believe she has cried wolf just one to many times to be believable. 

NABNYC
NABNYC

 @Nastybaby  @Debbieinmissouricitytx

 I disagree.  Theresa and Joe were obviously trying to make peace with everyone because their attorney told them to do so.  They knew they were going to be hit with serious criminal federal charges, and the result could be prison for both, and eventual deportation for Joe.  They need public opinion to be on their side, and that's why they have spent the season trying to make nice.  Further, Melissa and Joe both know that, and they  used that situation to grind their vendetta against Theresa, refusing to let go, going that extra mile to attack her again and again.  Did anyone ever wonder why Theresa and Joe's parents spend their time with Theresa, seems to have sided with Theresa?  Is it possible that's because Theresa is a good daughter, and Melissa can't be bothered to spend any time with her husband's family?  I think that's the truth, and I think Melissa and Joe should be off the show.  They contribute nothing other than whining about Theresa and talking about their sex life.

Nastybaby
Nastybaby

 @bittersweet4  Never in my post did I write that Theresa had to monitor anyone.  What I wrote was a statement that gave her the benefit of the doubt.  Had you better reading comprehension, you would have realized this. 

bittersweet4
bittersweet4

 @Nastybaby  @rosyposy

 Why is it Teresa's responsibility to "monitor" what other people say or do?  Melissa sure didn't monitor her "evil" sisters and their tweets.  Gossip is gossip & people believe what they want to believe even if the truth is staring them in the face.  Get over it.

Glimmer88
Glimmer88

 @DeeDee5304  @bittersweet4  @rosyposy  That's what makes me so sick is that lots of these people that worship Melissa have no idea what the real story is.  They don't know that the Gorgas moved into that house they were building to be closer to Teresa in the hopes of filming with her (seasons 1-2) and all the crap Melissa did with Danielle and the sneaky conniving way they got onto the show---making a video that said "We will take Teresa down"........  Melissa is such a fake lying  fame seeker and I just don't see why people cannot see that. 

DeeDee5304
DeeDee5304

 @bittersweet4  @rosyposy

 I have never believed a word Melissa had to say, the reason is because of her character, actions and all that she did to get on the show. She contacted Danielle and sold herself/her soul to Bravo/Andy. If she didn't, she would not be on the show with her husband and Kathy.  There is no money in the world that would make me do what they did and believe me I need the money.

Nastybaby
Nastybaby

 @murphy1 Did YOU not watch??? Did you not hear Theresa admit that she co-signed on what people were saying about Melissa?  Did you not PAY ATTENTION to what she alluded to?  She may not have told Penny and her husband to post, but she certainly didn't stop them.  She knew.  

 

Don't come at me with such a condescending question.