After watching this show from day one through today...I am convinced that you are the liar...not Theresa...your personality is much more manipulative and conniving...I believe Theresa completely...and understand why she has never felt you were good for her brother. I believe your bestfriend that all of a sudden turned on you and sold your secrets out to the public...I believe you have cheated on your husband at some point and now...the truth is bubbling to the surface. I think Theresa has always wanted to protect her brother and hasn't known how to handle you because you are smarter and much more manipulative than her and her brother. How horrible you are to continue to tear Joe, his sister, and their family for that matter, a part. When you first came on the show, I thought you were going to be a nice girl; however, after watching you throughout the seasons...the true Melissa is revealing herself...vile...jealous...superficial...and yes...you appear to be a cheater...still unsure about the stripper stuff at this point...but your bestfriend (by your own words) selling you out speaks volumes. Why would she be your bestfriend at lunch and then "make up that you cheated on your husband the next day"? Bestfriends do not turn without a reason...it appears your bestfriend turned on you because she was tired of you lying and making yourself out to be someone your not. Instead of you continuing to say Theresa should come clean...wipe your own conscience and come clean yourself by apologizing to your husband and his family for YOUR dishonesty and vile behavior...instead of continuing to rip his poor family apart.