The show is behind here in Canada - just watched the Gym scene and was impressed with brother Joe finally standing up and saying what we all have thought ! How on earth can Teresa not realize that having a relationship with her brother will involve NOT constantly talking about his wife ! It is ok for her to continuously be saying not nice things about Melissa, but Joe is not allowed to say anything not nice about her husband. It is true what he said - we all heard it on TV . . he called his wife a 'cun- ' and the reasoning she gives that its ok because he didn't actually say it to her face is ridiculous - saying it to his mistress on live TV is just as bad or worse than saying it to her face. /And hilarious her face when he said ' you can't cook' ! What a hoot . .that's what she is most mad about, since she is making a living selling cookbooks and can't cook !!!!! I don't think Teresa will ever learn, because she has a block in her head that will not allow her to see reality. And by the way, Kathy can talk about your father all she wants, it is her uncle. And isn't it ironic that it comes out that her own father does NOT talk to his own sister for years . . guess the apple didn't fall far from that tree. Teresa constantly talks about her father, and tries to USE him as a bargaining chip against her own brother. If she really did care about forgiveness she would stand up as a grown woman, mother of 4 and sincerely apologize to her brother and his wife for all the horrible things she has said, and allowing her husband and her children to do the same. Then perhaps this family can be healed.