Teresa Giudice

Teresa explains where she was coming from in her previous blog post.

on Jul 29, 20130

Hello Loveys!
 
What did you think of the Miracle at St. George? I think I haven't cried that much in my whole life. I cried all over again watching it. All this nonsense about our family not getting along for 10 years just isn't true. You can tell from how we were at the end of the episode -- cooking and laughing and enjoying each other like close families do. I wish I could have had every one of you in the room with us to feel the love. You deserve it after watching our darkest moments! Thank you all so much for keeping the faith in my family!

I have called Melissa directly to talk about this, because like Dr. V said, I want to keep the communication lines open, but I wanted you all to know as well: I never meant to sound like I was threatening her in my last blog. I was very shocked and upset to watch the episode and see Melissa talking about my marriage and my products -- two things I work really hard at and am really proud of! We don't know what other people say about us when we're not around until we watch the show, and it is hard, like opening up an old wound.

754 comments
soonermom
soonermom

Teresa we love you! You are a good person who speaks from the heart! Anyone with half a brain who has watched you from day one knows the truth! Everyone vilifies you to have relevance on the show so they can earn a paycheck and put food on their jealous tables! Every episode in which you are ripped is so annoying since its obvious they have to bash you to get ratings. You are such an inspiration through all of this...people with any sense at all can see how you are sincere and genuine about trying to stop the hate within your family damaged by all the spin for TV! Melissa should be ashamed of herself for spilling evil hate about you and you marriage. It's so disgusting and she really needs to leave the show and go try to be the rock star that she will never be. I am proud of your career and your savvy business planning. That's why they are all so jealous...you rose to the top and shined liked the diamond that you are and always will be! Go Teresa!!

Diez
Diez

Bravo has been working hard to rehabilitate its star this season, but the real Teresa keeps coming out, e.g., Dr. V gave Caroline an attagirl for helping at the retreat, but not Teresa.  It's all about Teresa.

 

When Teresa first came on the show, I loved her.  I thought her husband a bit abrasive, but even he has been rehabilitated.  Last season and the one before, as her various business ventures began thriving, so did her ego and the real Teresa came out.  Bravo has been running several shows from earlier seasons recently to show us the Teresa they want her to be. 

 

To blame her sister-in-law or to claim some of the women are there to hurt her is not believable to me.  That isn't to say all of the women are wonderful, but it will be a very long time before I believe in the good Teresa.  Maybe Teresa has learned that her behavior was unacceptable and is working to be a better person, I hope so.

NCDee17
NCDee17

I am really proud of Teresa and Joe! I've always been Team Teresa, and your sister-in-law's true colors are really glaring--not that her true character wasn't always showing. Teresa has always reached out and tried to resolve the family issues, and I am disappointed that Kathy, Rich, Rosie, Joey, and Melissa haven't given her credit for that. Melissa is in the one who has been in the way of a brother and sister salvaging their relationship. She needs to take ownership of her part. Melissa really gets on my nerves!

Mila1
Mila1

When you have a sister in law that criticizes everything about you and puts you under a microscope, it's hard to make good choices, it feels heavy on your emotions, it eats you up inside, it hurts.  Hard to believe your family and friend couldn't see what Melissa is doing, and especially hard to believe your brother is so brainwashed by her to see how she is damaging your family.  Try your best to keep yourself out of her hair and not give her any reaction to her crazy.  When you stop giving her attention, she'll move on to someone else.

Wish you all the best with your current challenges.  Do what you have to do to make it right and keep moving forward :)

fglare
fglare

Tre, you are crazy and that is not meant in a good way. you have an altered version of reality and quite frankly that is scarey. you blame everyone else for doing what you do. you hold grudges, you stab people in the back, you are out only for yourself and will try to take down anyone you see as a threat, which apparently everyone else. 

val214
val214

Teresa,

Accept responsibility for your actions. Your victim role is so tiresome. 

Jacqueline was a much better friend to you than you ever were to her.Your husband was on the phone with another woman and he called you a c--- on TV. You are in denial. I never thought I was say this but you are worse than Danielle. All of this drama and ugliness is aging you, Teresa..it's not a good look for you.

Donmomma
Donmomma

Dear Theresa and Joe. I wish u all the luck in the world. I pray all this goes away and both you and your wonderful children have peace. Maybe this was meant to bring you into reality. And just a noteMellisa is a bitch and a lair. She is a bad seed and I wish they would cut her out and Jacklyn right behind her. What a narcissic sick person. Love love love Donomma

phillychrista
phillychrista

Teresa, please you used to be my favorite but this whole thing with Melissa and your brother breaks my heart. Maybe it is the show but it always seems like you are getting your friend Kim Douche to put these horrible things out about Melissa so you can sit back and say it wasn't you. You blamed Melissa, Caroline, Jaqueline, Kim D, Cathy and Richie, it is always everyone else's fault but yours. Stop already!!! Your husband acts like a douche and you take up for him every time. Tell him he needs to get on board too!! You do say mean things about your kids aunt in front of them and then they repeat it. I would never say anything bad about my kid's aunt. Please Teresa I miss the old you, when I saw you cry with your brother it broke my heart cause I felt I saw a realness with you again. And the fact that you brought up the way Jaqueline was with Danielle, REALLY??? Come on, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?? Stop being hipocritical it isn't helping your case. You and Melissa need to stop tweating your feelings and actually talk about them with each other so I agree with you. Melissa isn't as innocent and victim as she plays, I see that. But you BOTH are wrong. 

 

Jag1128
Jag1128

Guess all the legal trouble is why you are finally coming down to reality huh

EMC59
EMC59

It seems that the same problem exists with Teresa EVERY season. The problem is that basically Teresa is extremely insecure. When a person is truly comfortable with themselves they don't have to constantly prove that they were the first at doing everything or that they are the best . The most telling trait of her insecurity is the extreme jealousy Teresa shows towards ANYONE who might have some success in life. If she was secure and content with herself, wouldn't she be HAPPY for those who had success in their life???? Her saying of "love, love, love is the most hypocritical phrase coming from a woman who truly does not know the meaning of the word! The phrase "when we practice to deceive oh what a tangled web we weave" certainly sums up how Teresa operates. Teresa , try to live an authentic life and maybe your present situation and life might improve.

Phifites
Phifites

Jacquline is so on spot, T never owns up or admits her fault in the whole scenerio. T is the one that hits below the belt.

drakey
drakey

I think it was T's husband who done all this shady stuff and T is a believer of her man! I'm sure she stuck her head in the sand and signed anything he put in front of her. He thinks he's more clever than anyone else! The Federal Bankruptcy Court will take all her earnings and he will do some jail time JMO!

tanya.rand.16
tanya.rand.16

the miracle that happened is the fact that the words I am sorry actually came out of your mouth. I doubt that you were sincere about it thou

 

pammypam
pammypam

teresa i love love love you and your family! haters are gonna hate so just love love love! all these people think they know your situation have no clue what goes on in your life. just ignore all the negativity . i know you and yours will come out on top and i cant wait so all these people can eat all their nasty words!!! love love love you !!!!!!

MAHernandez
MAHernandez

You are still not to be trusted! You show no true remorse. Every conflict that occurs, YOU'RE at the 'butt' of it. You enjoy lighting the match even if it's not your fire. Be care girls, looking back, she'll manage something to stir up, but if a miracle occurs, still enter gingerly into her den.

Mar51
Mar51

Hang in there!

kcat
kcat

OMG are you kidding me?? Your uncontrollable, loudmouthed 13-year-old is going to be telling off her uncle in the next show????

kcat
kcat

You Blink a lot when you're trying to lie or think of a good answer.  Have you ever been completely honest??

RevLALAAA
RevLALAAA

Crazy and delusional as ever Tre!  I will start listening to you and caring when you take 1 oz of responsibility!

backfires
backfires

Just want to tell you how much I enjoyed watching Joe and Melissa and the kids come to your house for dinner.  That segment of the show was so entertaining and happy.  The kids are all so adorable and delicious I want to grab each one of them and kiss them!  Melanie is SOOOOOO hilarious, I adore her.  All the kids are really funny and the joy watching your families together is the most entertaining part of the entire series.  I truly wish you well....

kcat
kcat

OMG I am watching this - Theresa, youre kids are brats and your husband wants you to STFU and you just keep blabbing and blabbing your crap!

Whatnow
Whatnow

"WTF is a sociopath? Is that it like, a crazy person or something?" Hahaha! Teresa!

Whatnow
Whatnow

I love quoting Teresa! Nip it in the butt? Hahaha!

ellyn127
ellyn127

 @soonermom

 Sorry honey, you are the one that is blind, Teresa is the one who has caused all of the problems from day 1. She is not sincere, look at the expressions on her face. She is always uncomfortable, guilty, only concerned that she not be blamed for anything. This is not a wonderful, loving, caring person and anyone who thinks so is blind as a bat. Get real, do not support this horrid person. Do you see her children, do you see their behavior, these children are nothing but spoiled brats, who do not respect their parents, surely Gia will be in therapy in her future. Take a good hard look folks, and hopefully you will see through her.

ellyn127
ellyn127

 @Diez

 I'm with you Diez, and I hope others see the real Teresa who is not or does not have the ability to change because in her mind it's all about her always.

MaryPerez
MaryPerez

 @NCDee17 You can notice one more thing about Melissa.  She doesn't want her husband to have a relationship with his own sister.  I just think she can move on if she really wants to.

titonura
titonura

 @fglare

 She is a maniac out of control, and her people put her in a pedestal she thinks she is a DIVA ,we all know she is not one but trashy ....this show make money of this people, made them millionaires and use them ,they put anyone who will bring rates to their pockets and they love it , when they fell it is much ratings and money that is the name of the game!

Lizbaby
Lizbaby

@fglare WHAT? This comment is funny as hell. Hold grudges?? Let me tell you something, if my family came on a show and humiliated my family, holding a grudge would be the least thing I would do! I wouldn't look at my brother or his evil wife. That witch wouldn't be a part of my family if she came back begging me. Humiliating Teresa's family, degrading her at her every head shot from the moment she arrived! Oh, and let's not even talk about the christening! Please...I raise my fabellini glass and cheers to Teresa for even speaking to them again. With family like that who needs enemies. Good god you people amaze me. And tell me flare, what exactly did Teresa do to take them down? OMG going to her brother in confidence and telling him all the rumors that people are talking about? And HE is the one who brought it up publicly to make his own sister look bad. What a great freakin brother! I think you got it all wrong babe, it was everyone trying to take Teresa down, she is btw the most popular and successful one out of the crazy bunch. And they hate that......ciao Bella xox

MyFriend
MyFriend

 @Donmomma

 wow, I was so impressed with your first sentence then you went into 'Teresa' mode and started a hateful rant and then ended with Love!!!!  Sooooo Teresa!!!

 

Panda007
Panda007

 @Donmomma Seriously?  You are actually praying that their law breaking actions go away and they have instant peace?  Love, love, love???  You are scary!!!  

Lizbaby
Lizbaby

@Phifites Open your eyes your blind its sad

titonura
titonura

 @drakey

 Hope so and soon! tired of seeing  this people make money and use and abuse the system ,while we regular honest people work hard for the money and STILL pay their TAXES!

17summers
17summers

 @drakey I think Joe Guidice is below the bottom of the barrel.

maskedblogger
maskedblogger

 @drakey You people don't give her any credit.  She's not stupid, she knows exactly what she's doing.  Seems like you all want to throw her husband under the bus.  She's the one with the extravagant tastes and she's most likely the one who would do whatever it takes to get what she wants.  Don't kid yourselves, she's not a victim.

Motorcitymom65
Motorcitymom65

@drakey If you believe that, I am afraid you might have your head in the sand. Sorry to be brutal, but there is going to be some stunned fans if folks don't understand exactly what she is accused of.

cindy1963
cindy1963

 @tanya.rand.16 Are you kidding me? She said those words because she felt that she "had" to not because she wanted to. Those words are not sincere when she says them. 

Mila1
Mila1

 @RevLALAAA  If you were ever on the receiving end of a narcissist like Melissa, you'd be able to recognize Melissa.  Melissa is a bully and manipulator.  Keep watching and you'll eventually get it.

cehemise
cehemise

 @Whatnow

 Something like that, T.  It is a person with no conscience, no remorse, no guilt, no personal responsibility for their actions, and a compulsive liar.

 

I was struck by that comment, too.  She was serious about that question, as you already know. :-)

cindy1963
cindy1963

 @Whatnow I thought I heard that but then I said to myself, "no I must've heard wrong." But it is Teresa and she does have her own vocabulary!!

Lizbaby
Lizbaby

@17summers @drakey Innocent until PROVEN guilty!

Jag1128
Jag1128

@Motorcitymom65 Apparently you have no clue what u are talking about. Stay tuned

Lizbaby
Lizbaby

@cindy1963 @tanya.rand.16 Can't blame her, I would have disowned my brother before apologizing to him or to his nasty wife if they did to me what they did to her. Please in your own words write down exactly what she did to them? I'm listening..and Mae it snappy please

Motorcitymom65
Motorcitymom65

It is really so funny.  If someone doesn't like Tre, and calls her out on her BS, they are haters.  It is very ironic, because most of them hate pretty much everyone else on the show. 

rosyposy
rosyposy

Jag1128.  I read a list of the individual charges in the indictment. No way did Teresa not know what she was doing.  I suspect that she simply felt entitled.

fglare
fglare

 @Lizbaby  @cindy1963 tre is just mad because Joe and Melissa's world does not revolve around her. thats the bottom line. how terrible they are to have a life outside of Teresa the Queen of New Jersey. she should focus on her family, namely Gabriella who doesn't get any attention from her and leave Joe and Melissa alone.