Amber is presenting as a consummate contradiction. Best evidence, quickest, shortest example is a woman with a masters degree from an accredited collegiate institution, repeatedly using the non-word etiquessey in place of etiquette. For every admirable insight, Amber has an equally mind numbing one. Is the hallmark of RHONJ intended to be demonstrating the worst cultural stereotypes attached to 'jersey girls' overriding education while being reinforced with wealth? Are they actively trying to embodie RHONYC LuAnn's song 'Money can't buy you class!'???? WOW!