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Alex McCord

Clash of the Cast

Alex talks arguments, tennis matches, and controversial pictures.

March 31, 2009

It’s Tuesday afternoon and I am racing to get my blog in before the end of the day. There are no children around me at the moment though the keyboard situation has not been resolved…little thief!

The first big scene involves Ramona asking Kelly for advice regarding Simon. I have to say, this scene reeked of contrivance. Could you ladies please have a green room conversation? About…let’s see...oh, how about Simon? It seemed so stilted, and all anyone ever has to do when approached by someone they’d rather not speak to is to greet them calmly and excuse themselves quickly – that’s what I always do with Ramona.

I’m not a grudge holder unless I care about the person, and even then I don’t really hold onto things. Life is indeed too short – if something happens that you don’t like, dismiss the event, dismiss the person if you feel strongly enough, but don’t let things fester inside you. That’s one way to ensure a rotten outlook on life and sometimes that stress can even manifest itself as disease. When Simon and I have an argument (of course we do, even though you might not see it on camera) it’s usually about something completely banal like who has to put the garbage cans out or be the one to get up with the early-rising boys after a night out. Slightly off tangent here – was this episode about arguments? Oh, yes! Yes, it was!

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260 Comments

I love it! Could perhaps be a tad more polished, but it’s far better than what we use at the moment, nonetheless

Very good article I enjoy your website keep up the great blog posts

Admiring the time and effort you put into your blog and detailed information you offer! I will bookmark your blog and have my children check up here often. Thumbs up!

Someone I work with visits your blog frequently and recommended it to me to read too. The writing style is great and the content is top-notch. Thanks for the insight you provide the readers!

Alex:
I am going to miss you guys when the show is over. I thought I was the only looser watching other people's life. I guess not. I have lots of company:) You and Simon make an incredible couple.
I was watching the bathing suit episode and can very much relate. I am from South America (went to the beach every weekend) and grew up surrounded by Speedos. It's a matter of fact. speedos are used in Europe, Asia and pretty much everywhere else that I've traveled. It was sort of shocking that people here in the USA did not like them at all. It's a matter of different cultures and perceptions. It was very comical to watch Simon debating wearing the Speedo vs the Shorts at the beach.
I also know what you mean by beaches closer to the Ecuator. Nothing like blue calm waters and white sand...oh yeah..great for scuba diving. If you ever are around Australia for a while take a trip to Thailand/Phi Phi Island. The diving is to die for. It is a hell of a trip from New York with your kids, buy it's paradise once you get there.
Just wanted to share that with you.

Alex, you are very graceful. There is something about you that is calming (Contrary to Ramona, she drives me crazy)and grounded. As everyone else said here; you guys don't waste time with gossip and you and Simon are very much in love. I think there is an underline envy from the others. By the way, I think that your kids are adorable, but kind of out of control:>)....Congrats on the logo. You are tre' magnific!. (not sure if spell correctly)

Besos,
Jackie

Hi Alex,

I just admire your relationship with your Simon. He seems to be very caring, planning surprises for you, wanting to go shopping with you and hang out with you like a best friend. I am not married, but I hope to have someone who likes my company and wants to spend time with me, even shop together b/c as we know it could be a time consuming process, and to have a mate that wants to do those things are priceless. In the past I have found that my girlfriends and I all want the same qualities in a husband. People talk badly about other people to make themselves feel good...it appears from watching the show that some of those housewives don't feel good about themselves so they have to have something negative to say about someone (and you and Simon have been the topic of many). I read Luann's blog where she described Jill's home renovation/makeover as being suited to Jill and her family, she didn't take cheap shots and was not nasty in her description. You, Simon and Luann are my favs....I think Kelly needs to seek some kind of therapy, the girl is clearly a little off....the entire cast is fun to watch though, I don't get to watch on Tuesdays but I do record all the episodes and catch up ont he weekend...great job on the reno, great color scheme, I am more of a beige type person, but I am thinking of doing red and black in one of the rooms in my home......

Alex, you are simply a positive and likable person. If I had to pick one person on the show to have lunch with it would be with you. The way that you and Simon handle Ramona and Mario is with class. They are the most annoying people and such hypocrites. You, Simon, Jill, Bobby and Bethanny are my faves. You Totally Rock Alex. A Class Act.

ALEX....what can I say....I watch the show and try to figure out what it is about you and your husband that makes me keep watching...well here it is...YOUR HAPPY...no on likes a happy couple...there always has to be something wrong...my husband and I were married 39 years and then I lost him last year...so when I watch you and your Simon together I say this.....The other couples seem so disjointed somehow....Not real....I enjoy you and simon shopping together...Lots of husband do that ...mine did...Why is when a man enjoys shopping ..hes gay...No..Lots of manly men enjoy shopping..you keep doing what you do and stay true to yourself and your marriage...all will be fine...PS...your children are so cute.....

Alex, if anyone has set a good example on this past week's episode it was you and Simon. Regardless of the fact that the other's have talked negatively about the 2 of you on several occasions, there you were to help Bethanny with her logo, and there was Simon to help out Jill. I also admire the fact that I have not heard you guys talk badly behind anyone's back, which is something that dominates the show, it seems. I agree with many other viewers, the more we get to know u guys, the more u grow on us. Can't wait to see the finished logo!

Team Alex and Simon all the way!!

Alex, I'm definitely a "Team Silex" person. I love you and Simon, and have great respect for the two of you. Question, I've checked out your website, and still no updates on your job situation. Hopefully, it is going well and you are getting the offers you deserve.

On Bethanny's behalf, I apologize for her. I just read her blog and she made me cringe with her ugly comments about you and your husband. I adored B on season one, now not so much...it appears she has a very sad and lonely life...she trahes Silex at every opportunity, yet she asks you for help? She even made a dig at not using your logo!

I think B and Marona should join the NJ Housewives. They'd be a perfect fit!

"If she was not prone to kissing her ex-Playboy model girlfriend on the lips in front of her daughter, threatening to throw dogs in pools, dancing by herself and one-upping government officials, I’d have more sympathy."

Love it!

My boyfriend wants nothing to do with my Tuesday night tv habits, but whenever you and Simon are on he seems to always wander into the room! You two are the reason we watch the show for sure!

You are growing on me. I think you are a little weird (and so is Simon), but you're kind and unconcerned. It was nice of you to help Bethenny, and it was also nice of Simon to help Jill by playing tennis while sick. I also noticed that you guys don't waste your time talking about other people, unless you're specifically questioned about it in interviews. You take the high road, and I like that. Yeah, you and Simon are a bit strange and you do act a bit pretentious at times -- but I am beginning to like you guys!!!!

Alex,

You totally rock!! You are composed and smart, and you don't feel that you have to explain yourself. You have been thrown into many diffrent situations and have been able to hold your own in every one. I totally admire that. As for Simon, who doesn't want a husband who spoils them rotten and worships the ground you walk on? I could only dream of being as well rounded as you are. At least you aren't boring like Jill and Romona who are doing the same thing every episode. (sorry Jill)

Alex-
I absolutely love you and Simon on the show. The other housewives talk so much behind everyone else's backs I don't know why Simon and you take all the heat. You two are so real and really make the show for me. I look forward to Tuesday nights every week now.

Simon was such an awesome sport throughout the tennis match. I cant imagine playing Ramona and Mario after everything that has gone on between you and them. Ramona is so rude to you two. She has no class, not the other way around.

Keep creating good wholesome drama!

Alex, the more I watch you, the more I like you fot not being judgemental and love you on the show. can't wait to see the house

love you guys

So sorry to read about your job.....This show gives you exposure and hopefully, you will find a position worthy of your talent. Don't be embarrassed by your continental mentality. I lived overseas for 12 years and trust me, I was startled how natural Europeans are and the comfort level with nudity. Hope your home is nearing completion and you all are well. I look forward to the next season.

Hi Alex,

I agree with alot of your messages. You are growing on me and I respect you. It's hard being in front of the camara, especially with little one and adults accursing you of alot!!!!!! Focus and continue to be real and calm.

Alex, your candid honesty (at the Central Park event with Bethenny) was refreshing. I applaud you.

Alex, stop trying to be something you are not. Live within your means, and enjoy what you have. You are way out of your league with the other housewives, your purse just doesn't hold what theirs do.

Can I just say, that though I don't know if you and Simon and me would be friends...I love you two. You are authentic, down to earth and are so clearly in love, I just think you guys have gotten a bad rap from the other housewives....Keep on keeping on though I know I don't have to say that...I have every confidence you will. Of all the cast you two no doubt will be rocking in your adjacent chairs on the front porch as you watch your boys carry your heritage to the future.
Thank you for sharing this private view of your lives with others.

Alex, i do have to say i did not like you during season 1 but now i realized you are the only one who stayed true to themselves. I also noticed that all of the other women talk about each other behind backs and you never do! Everyone has the right to appreciate this and that you are truly kind hearten. I think you are beautiful and don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise.

hey Alex,

First of all..I love you...you and Simon are adorable..and the others are jealous...never change...
I have a question...I was just watching a re-run..and saw you wearing black sunglasses with a skull in rhinestones on the sides...can you tell me where I can get a pair???..I love..love them..

Thanks in advance

Alex,

I have to admit that you were not one of my favorites in Season 1, but I have learned to respect you for always doing what you want and not letting what others think worry you. You may get upset over things, but it seems you get over it very quickly. I am the same way. Just keep doing what makes you happy.

Hi Alex (and Simon too!) I think you two are fabulous, you have confidence, class, intelligence and cool........to say nothing of an obviously wonderful family and relationship.
A couple of things: 1) congrats on the Brooklyn renovation and keep finding those architectual treasures...Jill is Jill and she can be snobby and opinionated, actually, I find her scary sometimes. 2) spending time with your husband when you're not working and taking care of personal matters is what I call a relationship......I would think it would be sad to not want to spend your free time with your husband when you can.......not real sure why this is a problem for other people, hmmmm.
Bottom line, I think you guys are the bomb.......really secure personally and you have kindness and objectivity, to say nothing of style and wit.
Keep being true to yourselves, it really plays out on TV as the most charming and loveable of personalities.

Alex and Simon,

Way to go, I think you guys are the most real on the show. Even though at times you seem to be a little pretentious you balance it with being compassionate, loving and caring. I think some of your cast mates could learn a lot from you both. You always seem to be having fun together and enjoying each others company no matter where you are, even in a blow up pool which would be below some of the other Housewives.
Keep it real and always be fair dinkum. A metro sexual Aussie male is a nice change to the stereotypical macho crocodile hunting Aussie.

love ya both

Jo-Anne and Aussie living in USA

Alex & husband(?);

It's clear that Ramona lied about why she dislikes you. Her true reason is so ridiculous and last year; that it would make her look more foolish than she already does. She is still miffed about the party crasher GNO event. That stuck in her craw. In addition, she's just not that into you! However, since you seem to have won over the rest of the NYC crowd, she would look assinine for admitting that. She decided to take a perceived moral high road. Unfortunately, it backfired because it was nonsensical.

Team Ramona!

I have had things to say in the past about you and Simon, but the pettiness of recent episodes has at least let me see that you two can keep a level head when things get downright silly. My advice is stick with Jill and Bethany. Avoid Ramona (and Mario) and Kelly at all costs.

Hi Alex & Simon!
You are obviously the smartest of the entire cast for
choosing to restore an older place in Brooklyn rather then
buying or renting an over-priced apartment in Manhattan.
I lived in Manhattan for several years and couldn't have afforded it without being fortunate enough to have great rommates! My friends in Brooklyn seemed so much more happy and content because they lived in REAL neighborhoods. You both seem way more well-adjusted and REAL because you are genuinely happy. I know a lot of men with class who are "metrosexuals" and are married, care about their own and their wives' appearance and are NOT called "gay" by what are supposed to be, friends.
Dump that crowd. Oh, that's right, you need to put up with their SH** because of the show. Know that there are lots of real folks out here watching who like the two of you and appreciate your sensitive and intelligent reactions to the phony acting ninnies on the show.

Hi Alex and Simon: I think you are much wiser to have a house in Brooklyn as it is continuing its way "up." And yes, the older homes have a lot of work associated with them, but they are charming. Take your time and do as you wish, without having to jam everything in...delays will happen. Love your clothes, fashion sense, and I do think a lot of people would enjoy having a husband like Simon accompany them on shopping excursions and adding his good taste commentary. BTW, his blog is the best written...more in a reporter's style than in a "dear diary" manner!

You are wonderful!! I love you, even when you are acting pretentious. Love it.

Alex

I love it. You make me laugh. Like I told Simon, You are a very classy lady.

Thank you for posting my previous blog.

I am a fan of the whole cast, I do like Alex and Simon the best, I would love to have a husband that is into fashion, I have never seen a time when I thought Simon was gay, Like I said "The others are jealous of your body Alex, and also jealous of how Simon treats you...........So they will say mean things, they have not grown up yet.

Your fan
Angie

Hi Alex,

I have to tell you that I admire your relationship with your husband. I also have a fantastic relationship with my husband and we are totally best friends. I love the way you want to culture your children and teach then well.

Sincerely,
Kansas City

Why...oh why does Simon have a blog?!?

Alex,
I judged you too harshly and quickly at the beinning of the show. Mea culpa. You and Simon are obviously devoted to one another and your children. Although you're not seeking apologies, Ramona owes you and Simon a sincere apology for her cruel and baseless comments.
Best wishes from a new-found fan.

Alex,
Interesting week for you and Simon. Overall, I get the two of you and you seem genuine. Ramona did seem like she was "reaching" for a reason why she was angry at the two of you. I didn't buy it. I think she just doesn't like Simon.

That said, the one nit I have to pick with the two of you is your inclination to pluck motives for other people's behavior out of thin air. You did it over the Jill disagreement on the magazine/newspaper article where you, on the phone, said you thought she was jealous of the publicity. Sorry deary, it didn't appear to me that that was the reason AT ALL. And then Simon did it with Ramona when he implied her problem was with men. Sorry again, it appears her problem is with Simon. Reasonable or not reasonable, I don't think you can extrapolate that to all men.

Anyway, good luck with the renovations. It will be nice to see the final product.

Alex,

I thought you and Simon handled yourselves perfectly when you were confronted by the most obnoxious insecure couple Ramona and her husband. Ramona seemed to start squirming when Simon called her out on her past actions. Maybe now Ramona will think before she opens her holier than thou big mouth.

I'm warming up to you and Simon this season...I think you both have more deepth than what is shown on television. Saw you on Huckabee and was pleased to see a side of you that shows you have more going on in your head than cloths and social events.

Hi Alex, I am a lot like many people and have changed my mind about you. In the beginning you were trying too hard to impress and network. You and Simon kept dropping info about languages, books,art and clothing. It's not necessary to tell us all at once the "things" you and your children are capable of doing. I can see why your son did not get into a private school, having been on a few school boards. Take it down a notch, be more independant of Simon-think he may get nervous and drink a bit too much and it comes off badly--The biggest error on your part was that entire conversation regarding having all the "classic" books for the children to read . That sounded so pretentious. Then to add that you were so appauled that you had 2 TV's which is some of your bread and butter and giving you exposure to some of the "uppercrust" of society. You can't have it both ways! Good Luck

Alex,
I think you and Simon are a lovely couple and of course you have two beautiful children. I think you both are pretty down to earth. I especially like the fact that you patronize up and coming designers. And you buy art pieces not for prestige but rather for enjoyment.

but...at last season's reunion you lied and said your nude pictures were from the waist up. They weren't. If you were welling to go that far, why hide something that was bound to become so public?

Alex and Simon,

You can really grate on someone's nerves with your over pretension. But, you know, I think you are genuinely kind people. You grew on me, when you are being down to earth you seem like good people. And god bless you for enjoying each other.

I think Ramona is ridiculous, she has no business judging anyone. Why is it her business if you have posed nude.

I love that you are oddly annoying and endearing at the same time. By the way, I absolutely adore Francois!

Gail

You guys are fine, no worries. It is TV after all and no one with any real sense ever takes that seriously. But maybe, for the sake of your boys, you should avoid another season, lest any lasting reputation be either tarnished or embellished (depending upon the goal). Friendly advice from an observer.

I think the reason you were unlikeable at first was the fact you nationally dissed people that live in suburbs which is over half the population or people watching the show, and that the show is called desperate housewives; not desperatly wanting to get on TV husbands. No other husbands get confessional time.

Alex,

I can respect the fact that your whole life is trying to get into what you consider a different social class, but why do you continue to deny where you are now. Let's be honest honey . . . No socialites live in a townhouse in the condition yours is during construction. If you're really an upper class socialite, get out of your Walmart blow up pool and check into an executive hotel or apartment while they do the heavy construction at your place in Brooklyn.

Alex and Simon,

I love the show.

I am pleased that you, and especially Simon, were able to respond to Ramona's self righteous insults so effectively. Simon gave Ramona every opportunity to be a decent person and she just couldn't do it.

I appreciate your down-to-earth sophistication and your love for one another. I think anyone would be lucky to be friends of yours.

Alex,

I think you and Simon have a beautiful relationship. It reminds me a lot of the relationship my husband and I have. I really think it is great, and you two are wonderful role models. There are not enough caring, loving, and affectionate couples on television. Your relationship is real and really heart-warming. I almost cried watching you talk about your wedding night. I love the devotion you have for your family.
I would also like to say, I think Ramona's anger toward you comes from jealousy. Looking at her marriage, I find it lacking the warmth you and Simon share. I don't believe a woman happy in her marriage would flirt and carry on the way she does sometimes. As far as the pictures go...That is nobody's business other than yours and Simons. You are beautiful and have nothing to be ashamed of. Your class by far outshines Ramona. Stay real and don't change for anyone.

Peace and love

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