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It’s Tuesday afternoon and I am racing to get my blog in before the end of the day. There are no children around me at the moment though the keyboard situation has not been resolved…little thief!
The first big scene involves Ramona asking Kelly for advice regarding Simon. I have to say, this scene reeked of contrivance. Could you ladies please have a green room conversation? About…let’s see...oh, how about Simon? It seemed so stilted, and all anyone ever has to do when approached by someone they’d rather not speak to is to greet them calmly and excuse themselves quickly – that’s what I always do with Ramona.
I’m not a grudge holder unless I care about the person, and even then I don’t really hold onto things. Life is indeed too short – if something happens that you don’t like, dismiss the event, dismiss the person if you feel strongly enough, but don’t let things fester inside you. That’s one way to ensure a rotten outlook on life and sometimes that stress can even manifest itself as disease. When Simon and I have an argument (of course we do, even though you might not see it on camera) it’s usually about something completely banal like who has to put the garbage cans out or be the one to get up with the early-rising boys after a night out. Slightly off tangent here – was this episode about arguments? Oh, yes! Yes, it was!
- 05/05/2009 - 3:26am
- Viewer
Alex:
I am going to miss you guys when the show is over. I thought I was the only looser watching other people's life. I guess not. I have lots of company:) You and Simon make an incredible couple.
I was watching the bathing suit episode and can very much relate. I am from South America (went to the beach every weekend) and grew up surrounded by Speedos. It's a matter of fact. speedos are used in Europe, Asia and pretty much everywhere else that I've traveled. It was sort of shocking that people here in the USA did not like them at all. It's a matter of different cultures and perceptions. It was very comical to watch Simon debating wearing the Speedo vs the Shorts at the beach.
I also know what you mean by beaches closer to the Ecuator. Nothing like blue calm waters and white sand...oh yeah..great for scuba diving. If you ever are around Australia for a while take a trip to Thailand/Phi Phi Island. The diving is to die for. It is a hell of a trip from New York with your kids, buy it's paradise once you get there.
Just wanted to share that with you.Alex, you are very graceful. There is something about you that is calming (Contrary to Ramona, she drives me crazy)and grounded. As everyone else said here; you guys don't waste time with gossip and you and Simon are very much in love. I think there is an underline envy from the others. By the way, I think that your kids are adorable, but kind of out of control:>)....Congrats on the logo. You are tre' magnific!. (not sure if spell correctly)
Besos,
Jackie
- 05/04/2009 - 9:20am
- Viewer
Hi Alex,
I just admire your relationship with your Simon. He seems to be very caring, planning surprises for you, wanting to go shopping with you and hang out with you like a best friend. I am not married, but I hope to have someone who likes my company and wants to spend time with me, even shop together b/c as we know it could be a time consuming process, and to have a mate that wants to do those things are priceless. In the past I have found that my girlfriends and I all want the same qualities in a husband. People talk badly about other people to make themselves feel good...it appears from watching the show that some of those housewives don't feel good about themselves so they have to have something negative to say about someone (and you and Simon have been the topic of many). I read Luann's blog where she described Jill's home renovation/makeover as being suited to Jill and her family, she didn't take cheap shots and was not nasty in her description. You, Simon and Luann are my favs....I think Kelly needs to seek some kind of therapy, the girl is clearly a little off....the entire cast is fun to watch though, I don't get to watch on Tuesdays but I do record all the episodes and catch up ont he weekend...great job on the reno, great color scheme, I am more of a beige type person, but I am thinking of doing red and black in one of the rooms in my home......
- 05/01/2009 - 9:55pm
- Judy
Alex, you are simply a positive and likable person. If I had to pick one person on the show to have lunch with it would be with you. The way that you and Simon handle Ramona and Mario is with class. They are the most annoying people and such hypocrites. You, Simon, Jill, Bobby and Bethanny are my faves. You Totally Rock Alex. A Class Act.
- 04/19/2009 - 8:57am
- Corona
ALEX....what can I say....I watch the show and try to figure out what it is about you and your husband that makes me keep watching...well here it is...YOUR HAPPY...no on likes a happy couple...there always has to be something wrong...my husband and I were married 39 years and then I lost him last year...so when I watch you and your Simon together I say this.....The other couples seem so disjointed somehow....Not real....I enjoy you and simon shopping together...Lots of husband do that ...mine did...Why is when a man enjoys shopping ..hes gay...No..Lots of manly men enjoy shopping..you keep doing what you do and stay true to yourself and your marriage...all will be fine...PS...your children are so cute.....
- 04/12/2009 - 8:17pm
- Mafe
Alex, if anyone has set a good example on this past week's episode it was you and Simon. Regardless of the fact that the other's have talked negatively about the 2 of you on several occasions, there you were to help Bethanny with her logo, and there was Simon to help out Jill. I also admire the fact that I have not heard you guys talk badly behind anyone's back, which is something that dominates the show, it seems. I agree with many other viewers, the more we get to know u guys, the more u grow on us. Can't wait to see the finished logo!
- 04/11/2009 - 4:06pm
- Vtfan
Team Alex and Simon all the way!!
- 04/08/2009 - 9:45pm
- Nora
Alex, I'm definitely a "Team Silex" person. I love you and Simon, and have great respect for the two of you. Question, I've checked out your website, and still no updates on your job situation. Hopefully, it is going well and you are getting the offers you deserve.
On Bethanny's behalf, I apologize for her. I just read her blog and she made me cringe with her ugly comments about you and your husband. I adored B on season one, now not so much...it appears she has a very sad and lonely life...she trahes Silex at every opportunity, yet she asks you for help? She even made a dig at not using your logo!
I think B and Marona should join the NJ Housewives. They'd be a perfect fit!
- 04/08/2009 - 12:58pm
- Viewer
"If she was not prone to kissing her ex-Playboy model girlfriend on the lips in front of her daughter, threatening to throw dogs in pools, dancing by herself and one-upping government officials, I’d have more sympathy."
Love it!
My boyfriend wants nothing to do with my Tuesday night tv habits, but whenever you and Simon are on he seems to always wander into the room! You two are the reason we watch the show for sure!
- 04/08/2009 - 10:25am
- Candace
You are growing on me. I think you are a little weird (and so is Simon), but you're kind and unconcerned. It was nice of you to help Bethenny, and it was also nice of Simon to help Jill by playing tennis while sick. I also noticed that you guys don't waste your time talking about other people, unless you're specifically questioned about it in interviews. You take the high road, and I like that. Yeah, you and Simon are a bit strange and you do act a bit pretentious at times -- but I am beginning to like you guys!!!!
- 04/08/2009 - 1:23am
- cynymin
Alex,
You totally rock!! You are composed and smart, and you don't feel that you have to explain yourself. You have been thrown into many diffrent situations and have been able to hold your own in every one. I totally admire that. As for Simon, who doesn't want a husband who spoils them rotten and worships the ground you walk on? I could only dream of being as well rounded as you are. At least you aren't boring like Jill and Romona who are doing the same thing every episode. (sorry Jill)
- 04/08/2009 - 1:13am
- Maren
Alex-
I absolutely love you and Simon on the show. The other housewives talk so much behind everyone else's backs I don't know why Simon and you take all the heat. You two are so real and really make the show for me. I look forward to Tuesday nights every week now.Simon was such an awesome sport throughout the tennis match. I cant imagine playing Ramona and Mario after everything that has gone on between you and them. Ramona is so rude to you two. She has no class, not the other way around.
Keep creating good wholesome drama!
- 04/08/2009 - 12:43am
- Debra
Alex, the more I watch you, the more I like you fot not being judgemental and love you on the show. can't wait to see the house
- 04/07/2009 - 10:53pm
- Viewer
love you guys
- 04/07/2009 - 9:38pm
- Deborah McCabe
So sorry to read about your job.....This show gives you exposure and hopefully, you will find a position worthy of your talent. Don't be embarrassed by your continental mentality. I lived overseas for 12 years and trust me, I was startled how natural Europeans are and the comfort level with nudity. Hope your home is nearing completion and you all are well. I look forward to the next season.
- 04/07/2009 - 8:51pm
- jennifer
Hi Alex,
I agree with alot of your messages. You are growing on me and I respect you. It's hard being in front of the camara, especially with little one and adults accursing you of alot!!!!!! Focus and continue to be real and calm.
- 04/07/2009 - 8:50pm
- Viewer
Alex, your candid honesty (at the Central Park event with Bethenny) was refreshing. I applaud you.
- 04/07/2009 - 7:39pm
- Erika
Alex, stop trying to be something you are not. Live within your means, and enjoy what you have. You are way out of your league with the other housewives, your purse just doesn't hold what theirs do.
- 04/07/2009 - 7:15pm
- Beishu
Can I just say, that though I don't know if you and Simon and me would be friends...I love you two. You are authentic, down to earth and are so clearly in love, I just think you guys have gotten a bad rap from the other housewives....Keep on keeping on though I know I don't have to say that...I have every confidence you will. Of all the cast you two no doubt will be rocking in your adjacent chairs on the front porch as you watch your boys carry your heritage to the future.
Thank you for sharing this private view of your lives with others.
- 04/07/2009 - 6:57pm
- Katie PArker
Alex, i do have to say i did not like you during season 1 but now i realized you are the only one who stayed true to themselves. I also noticed that all of the other women talk about each other behind backs and you never do! Everyone has the right to appreciate this and that you are truly kind hearten. I think you are beautiful and don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise.
- 04/07/2009 - 3:15pm
- Viewer...Melbchattin
hey Alex,
First of all..I love you...you and Simon are adorable..and the others are jealous...never change...
I have a question...I was just watching a re-run..and saw you wearing black sunglasses with a skull in rhinestones on the sides...can you tell me where I can get a pair???..I love..love them..Thanks in advance
- 04/07/2009 - 9:47am
- Bill
Alex,
I have to admit that you were not one of my favorites in Season 1, but I have learned to respect you for always doing what you want and not letting what others think worry you. You may get upset over things, but it seems you get over it very quickly. I am the same way. Just keep doing what makes you happy.
- 04/07/2009 - 9:14am
- Mz.Jones
Hi Alex (and Simon too!) I think you two are fabulous, you have confidence, class, intelligence and cool........to say nothing of an obviously wonderful family and relationship.
A couple of things: 1) congrats on the Brooklyn renovation and keep finding those architectual treasures...Jill is Jill and she can be snobby and opinionated, actually, I find her scary sometimes. 2) spending time with your husband when you're not working and taking care of personal matters is what I call a relationship......I would think it would be sad to not want to spend your free time with your husband when you can.......not real sure why this is a problem for other people, hmmmm.
Bottom line, I think you guys are the bomb.......really secure personally and you have kindness and objectivity, to say nothing of style and wit.
Keep being true to yourselves, it really plays out on TV as the most charming and loveable of personalities.
- 04/07/2009 - 8:14am
- Jo-Anne
Alex and Simon,
Way to go, I think you guys are the most real on the show. Even though at times you seem to be a little pretentious you balance it with being compassionate, loving and caring. I think some of your cast mates could learn a lot from you both. You always seem to be having fun together and enjoying each others company no matter where you are, even in a blow up pool which would be below some of the other Housewives.
Keep it real and always be fair dinkum. A metro sexual Aussie male is a nice change to the stereotypical macho crocodile hunting Aussie.love ya both
Jo-Anne and Aussie living in USA
- 04/07/2009 - 7:39am
- LISN
Alex & husband(?);
It's clear that Ramona lied about why she dislikes you. Her true reason is so ridiculous and last year; that it would make her look more foolish than she already does. She is still miffed about the party crasher GNO event. That stuck in her craw. In addition, she's just not that into you! However, since you seem to have won over the rest of the NYC crowd, she would look assinine for admitting that. She decided to take a perceived moral high road. Unfortunately, it backfired because it was nonsensical.
- 04/07/2009 - 5:50am
- msviewer
Team Ramona!
- 04/06/2009 - 2:53pm
- Viewer
I have had things to say in the past about you and Simon, but the pettiness of recent episodes has at least let me see that you two can keep a level head when things get downright silly. My advice is stick with Jill and Bethany. Avoid Ramona (and Mario) and Kelly at all costs.
- 04/06/2009 - 2:41pm
- Viewer
Hi Alex & Simon!
You are obviously the smartest of the entire cast for
choosing to restore an older place in Brooklyn rather then
buying or renting an over-priced apartment in Manhattan.
I lived in Manhattan for several years and couldn't have afforded it without being fortunate enough to have great rommates! My friends in Brooklyn seemed so much more happy and content because they lived in REAL neighborhoods. You both seem way more well-adjusted and REAL because you are genuinely happy. I know a lot of men with class who are "metrosexuals" and are married, care about their own and their wives' appearance and are NOT called "gay" by what are supposed to be, friends.
Dump that crowd. Oh, that's right, you need to put up with their SH** because of the show. Know that there are lots of real folks out here watching who like the two of you and appreciate your sensitive and intelligent reactions to the phony acting ninnies on the show.
- 04/06/2009 - 8:45am
- Viewer KK
Hi Alex and Simon: I think you are much wiser to have a house in Brooklyn as it is continuing its way "up." And yes, the older homes have a lot of work associated with them, but they are charming. Take your time and do as you wish, without having to jam everything in...delays will happen. Love your clothes, fashion sense, and I do think a lot of people would enjoy having a husband like Simon accompany them on shopping excursions and adding his good taste commentary. BTW, his blog is the best written...more in a reporter's style than in a "dear diary" manner!
- 04/05/2009 - 7:32pm
- Viewer
You are wonderful!! I love you, even when you are acting pretentious. Love it.
- 04/05/2009 - 7:01pm
- Jan
Alex
I love it. You make me laugh. Like I told Simon, You are a very classy lady.
- 04/05/2009 - 6:01pm
- Nashville TN fan
Thank you for posting my previous blog.
I am a fan of the whole cast, I do like Alex and Simon the best, I would love to have a husband that is into fashion, I have never seen a time when I thought Simon was gay, Like I said "The others are jealous of your body Alex, and also jealous of how Simon treats you...........So they will say mean things, they have not grown up yet.
Your fan
Angie
- 04/05/2009 - 4:38pm
- Real Housewife of Kansas City
Hi Alex,
I have to tell you that I admire your relationship with your husband. I also have a fantastic relationship with my husband and we are totally best friends. I love the way you want to culture your children and teach then well.
Sincerely,
Kansas City
- 04/05/2009 - 4:36pm
- Juls
Why...oh why does Simon have a blog?!?
- 04/05/2009 - 2:42pm
- Rosalie
Alex,
I judged you too harshly and quickly at the beinning of the show. Mea culpa. You and Simon are obviously devoted to one another and your children. Although you're not seeking apologies, Ramona owes you and Simon a sincere apology for her cruel and baseless comments.
Best wishes from a new-found fan.
- 04/05/2009 - 12:01pm
- highflyer
Alex,
Interesting week for you and Simon. Overall, I get the two of you and you seem genuine. Ramona did seem like she was "reaching" for a reason why she was angry at the two of you. I didn't buy it. I think she just doesn't like Simon.That said, the one nit I have to pick with the two of you is your inclination to pluck motives for other people's behavior out of thin air. You did it over the Jill disagreement on the magazine/newspaper article where you, on the phone, said you thought she was jealous of the publicity. Sorry deary, it didn't appear to me that that was the reason AT ALL. And then Simon did it with Ramona when he implied her problem was with men. Sorry again, it appears her problem is with Simon. Reasonable or not reasonable, I don't think you can extrapolate that to all men.
Anyway, good luck with the renovations. It will be nice to see the final product.
- 04/05/2009 - 8:20am
- Sophie
Alex,
I thought you and Simon handled yourselves perfectly when you were confronted by the most obnoxious insecure couple Ramona and her husband. Ramona seemed to start squirming when Simon called her out on her past actions. Maybe now Ramona will think before she opens her holier than thou big mouth.
- 04/05/2009 - 7:52am
- Sybil
I'm warming up to you and Simon this season...I think you both have more deepth than what is shown on television. Saw you on Huckabee and was pleased to see a side of you that shows you have more going on in your head than cloths and social events.
- 04/04/2009 - 11:42pm
- Viewer
Hi Alex, I am a lot like many people and have changed my mind about you. In the beginning you were trying too hard to impress and network. You and Simon kept dropping info about languages, books,art and clothing. It's not necessary to tell us all at once the "things" you and your children are capable of doing. I can see why your son did not get into a private school, having been on a few school boards. Take it down a notch, be more independant of Simon-think he may get nervous and drink a bit too much and it comes off badly--The biggest error on your part was that entire conversation regarding having all the "classic" books for the children to read . That sounded so pretentious. Then to add that you were so appauled that you had 2 TV's which is some of your bread and butter and giving you exposure to some of the "uppercrust" of society. You can't have it both ways! Good Luck
- 04/04/2009 - 11:06pm
- Madge the novice
Alex,
I think you and Simon are a lovely couple and of course you have two beautiful children. I think you both are pretty down to earth. I especially like the fact that you patronize up and coming designers. And you buy art pieces not for prestige but rather for enjoyment.
- 04/04/2009 - 10:31pm
- mytwocentsworth
but...at last season's reunion you lied and said your nude pictures were from the waist up. They weren't. If you were welling to go that far, why hide something that was bound to become so public?
- 04/04/2009 - 10:06pm
- GailF
Alex and Simon,
You can really grate on someone's nerves with your over pretension. But, you know, I think you are genuinely kind people. You grew on me, when you are being down to earth you seem like good people. And god bless you for enjoying each other.
I think Ramona is ridiculous, she has no business judging anyone. Why is it her business if you have posed nude.
I love that you are oddly annoying and endearing at the same time. By the way, I absolutely adore Francois!
Gail
- 04/04/2009 - 8:11pm
- Dana
You guys are fine, no worries. It is TV after all and no one with any real sense ever takes that seriously. But maybe, for the sake of your boys, you should avoid another season, lest any lasting reputation be either tarnished or embellished (depending upon the goal). Friendly advice from an observer.
- 04/04/2009 - 6:50pm
- Abigail
I think the reason you were unlikeable at first was the fact you nationally dissed people that live in suburbs which is over half the population or people watching the show, and that the show is called desperate housewives; not desperatly wanting to get on TV husbands. No other husbands get confessional time.
- 04/04/2009 - 6:37pm
- Jack
Alex,
I can respect the fact that your whole life is trying to get into what you consider a different social class, but why do you continue to deny where you are now. Let's be honest honey . . . No socialites live in a townhouse in the condition yours is during construction. If you're really an upper class socialite, get out of your Walmart blow up pool and check into an executive hotel or apartment while they do the heavy construction at your place in Brooklyn.
- 04/04/2009 - 6:11pm
- Lori
Alex and Simon,
I love the show.
I am pleased that you, and especially Simon, were able to respond to Ramona's self righteous insults so effectively. Simon gave Ramona every opportunity to be a decent person and she just couldn't do it.
I appreciate your down-to-earth sophistication and your love for one another. I think anyone would be lucky to be friends of yours.
- 04/04/2009 - 6:06pm
- Viewer
Alex,
I think you and Simon have a beautiful relationship. It reminds me a lot of the relationship my husband and I have. I really think it is great, and you two are wonderful role models. There are not enough caring, loving, and affectionate couples on television. Your relationship is real and really heart-warming. I almost cried watching you talk about your wedding night. I love the devotion you have for your family.
I would also like to say, I think Ramona's anger toward you comes from jealousy. Looking at her marriage, I find it lacking the warmth you and Simon share. I don't believe a woman happy in her marriage would flirt and carry on the way she does sometimes. As far as the pictures go...That is nobody's business other than yours and Simons. You are beautiful and have nothing to be ashamed of. Your class by far outshines Ramona. Stay real and don't change for anyone.Peace and love
- 04/04/2009 - 3:25pm
- DANNYE IN DALLAS
Alex,
Hats off to you and Simon for STILL attempting to be polite to Ramona. However, at this point, I feel that a simple nod and smile is all that is called for in their presence. Now Ramona has brought in Mario and they are both behaving like 7th grade girls! They are abusive and you and Simon have done your best and they deserve no more attempts at common courtesy.
- 04/04/2009 - 3:17pm
- chloe
Alex, you deserve a lot more credit than you get. Your honesty with Bethany about your marriage was refreshing and revealing. I think Ramona hates that you and Simon are so happy. I suspect she isn't. You do, however, get yourself in trouble when you try to act high society. It doesn't work for you. Your honest moments are the most fascinating and entertaining. By the way, the introduction of Kelly makes you look like a saint and a rocket scientist. Keep us entertained!!!
- 04/04/2009 - 2:57pm
- Viewer
Alex,
I totally can relate to you and Simon! My husband and I have been together for 9 years and we love spending every minute together. We are like you and truly enjoy each other's company. I can tell that you two really love each other and I love you on the show. You have always been one of my favorites. You rock!
- 04/04/2009 - 1:45pm
- B-reel
p.s. some times when you try to be funny the editors make you appear to be pretentious--the most unforgiveable NY sin in a heartbeat! Just embrace your socio-economic status and hold your head high! It appears no one was born into affuence, y'all a bunch of working stiffs, some just luckier than others, that's all.
- 04/04/2009 - 1:37pm
- B-reel
U R the only 2 who are nice!!!!
love how tender u r with the kiddos!
- 04/04/2009 - 12:48pm
- Viewer
I see everyone giving you compliments and I'd hate to be the hater but... you two really are dry. I understand completely why Ramona flipped out when Simon arrived with you on your girls night. I mean what were you guys thinking? I think its fabulous that you two have a wonderful marriage and one day I hope to have a loving marriage like yours. But sometimes you need to be your own person, It seems like you keep yourself hidden and are hiding behind Simon. I have read another one of your blogs somewhere and I was quite surprised how much I learned about you. All good things! You should really try getting to know the other ladies and expressing more about yourself as ALEX- Not Alex and Simon on the show- I think people would have more respect for you.And for god sakes, if there is a ladies night- do not bring your husband! Its ok to tell your husband NO you cannot come. IF your husband had dinner arrangements with all men in his field do you really think the men would want you there? Or that you would think it was ok for you to go?? Probably, because you live in Simons shadow. I don't mean to put him down but honey- thats no shadow to follow. U might not agree to anything I say but if everyone keeps telling you the same thing.. then its time to open your eyes and consider they might be right.
Where is your personality? This is the second season and I have yet to see anything from you. I find you quite boring, to say the least.
- 04/04/2009 - 10:04am
- Simonfan
Your husband really earned my respect this week. What an amazing person to listen to and I LOVED how he called out Ramona, who has no "filter"...You both are unique and interesting. I love that!
- 04/04/2009 - 8:52am
- Viewer
You and Simon are clearly thoughtful and analytical people. You handle "cringe-worthy" situation with class. I dont know if it is editing or what the disconnect is between these images and the slobbering pretentious image of social climbers. I hope its all editing because you 2 are smart and fun. Can you imagine Jill shopping in Williamsburg with that fat daughter and yenta mother? no way....
- 04/04/2009 - 12:31am
- Indiana girl
Alex (and Simon!),
I have to say I think you and Simon are the only cast members who learned anything from watching yourselves in the first season. That's very honorable. It shows your humility that you were able to see the negative things from season 1, analyze them, and turn it all around to show your true selves in season 2. Kudos to you both for that. If only the other "women" (and I use that word lightly because most of the others act like teenage girls--except Bethenny, for the most part, she tends to keep it real) had done the same! Then, perhaps, they wouldn't have to make such desperate attempts to project their own feelings of inadequacy away from themselves by preying on you and Simon in hopes that the viewers' eyes will look away from their flaws. Well, I've officially unleashed the psychology major in myself, sorry about that! :)
Oh, and don't worry about the crap they give you for your kids doing what kids do at the dinner party. Apparently these people who are criticizing you and Simon about that one incident have never had toddlers! I think they all need to look in the mirror and remind themselves that no parent is perfect, and neither is any child. This isn't Pleasantville, after all. Sheesh.
- 04/03/2009 - 8:15pm
- Mary
Alex, I agree with lynrook. Again, you rise above the rest. Keep it up. You and Simon live your lives the way you want. I liked that Simon stuck up for you all this week.
- 04/03/2009 - 5:56pm
- Grant
Alex,
I've enjoyed watching you and Simon this season--you really come across as people who live your lives and pursue your interests unapolgetically, and don't engage in backstabbing and gossip. I look forward to seeing your completed house later this season, and I was sorry to hear about your layoff. On to bigger and better opportunities!
- 04/03/2009 - 5:32pm
- Sandra
Alex,
Thank you. I too felt that you both were focused on social climbing last year and didn't take to you and Simon at first. You owe Ramona and Mario NOTHING and she is rude. I have been waiting for the answer to her aggression and to hear it spoke volumes. Im just glad that Simon can now stop trying with Ramona. Hope your through the renovations.
- 04/03/2009 - 4:36pm
- Viewer
Alex,
I think you and Simon are the best. You are wonderful parents and a loving couple. I wish you only knew how much everyone loves you. Simon is precious,and so are you. The others should be grateful that you guys will give them the time of day.Don't let the hypocritical comments from Ramona and others get you down. Trust me -- they fool no one. You guys are terrific.
- 04/03/2009 - 4:35pm
- Sue
Good Lord, Alex...you are adorable. And I admire your constant good manners in the face of the absurdity you face when dealing with some of your co-stars. Hang in there, my dear. You always appear the lady and I think it sets a good example....p.s....your relationship with Simon is amazing and thank you for sharing your request of him on your wedding night and his fidelity to that request. Love, love love it....
- 04/03/2009 - 2:06pm
- Raiza◊Team Bethenny◊
Alex&Simon
I didn't like you much at first but i am big girl and can admit when i am wrong and the more i watched the show is Crystal Clear how much you 2 love each other and defend each other against those who feel they have the right to judge you( hint hint Ramona&Mario)The way Simon put Mario in his place was priceless loved it!!!WHOO HOO
- 04/03/2009 - 12:16pm
- lynrook
Alex and Simon,
Well done! You both conduct yourselves with such grace under fire and this fact becomes even more evident as time reveals the real truth and the big picture of past events is clarified. You are changing the stereotype of New Yorkers as loud, pushy, aggressive, inconsiderate, and demanding bullies into a perception and hope that others exist there, with you, that are also more reasonable, more consistently easy-going, more kindly,and of a more gentile society than your hot-headed, argumentative, hypocritical and self-inflated co-stars.
We find your blogs well written, intelligent, poignant, and funny. Simon's recaps are the best we've seen and your column/blogs in the Huntington Post are very good reading from which, I hope Bravo will consider a new reality show about unemployment impact on families.
- 04/03/2009 - 10:47am
- Franny
Alex, Everybody should be as lucky as you and Simon! To love eachother so much and wanting to be together all the time isn`t a bad thing. People in this world would be lucky to have the feelings you and Simon have for eachother! It`s a feeling like no other!
God Bless you both!
- 04/03/2009 - 10:37am
- Big fan of NYC HW's
Alex - From day 1 of the NYC show, you have been one of my favorites. I think you stand out because you are different from the other housewives, but in a very good way. I'm sure that there is a lot that is not shown on the air, and that the public may have an inaccurate impression of who you are. But in spite of that, I only see good, great qualities about you (and Simon). Most of the other ladies are so wraught with insecurity that they have to pick on the one LADY who carries herself with TRUE CLASS (having nothing to do with $$) and confidence. My theory is that, once they saw your self-confidence, they had to find a way to TRY to knock you down. I read somewhere that you have been laid off from your job. I have been there. Hang tough! It will get better. I'm sure you are as professional and qualified as you appear based on your demeanor, your class, and your overall attitude in life.
Best to you, sister!
- 04/03/2009 - 10:11am
- Fellow NY Mom
Alex,
I love watching you this season, and even more enjoy your blogs! I am also renovating a rowhouse in a borough and have 2 small rambunctious sons. Oy… the hassles of construction whilst living with work, kids and life – I can relate!
While I can’t relate to the fabulously expensive wardrobe or party circuit (that’s why you’re on TV and I’m not!) I find that you are one of the most ‘real’ housewives on the show. I am also a fan of Bethany and Jill.
Can you share more about fun NY-area activities you do with your kids? Us fellow moms are always looking for tips!
- 04/03/2009 - 8:11am
- jan
Hi, Alex. Sorry that RaMEANa keeps trying to humiliate you on the show by bringing up the nude pictures. It is, oh, about the third time already, NUFF SAID! It is none of their business and you certainly do not owe an explanation to her or to anybody! These photos can be beautiful and very tastefully done and hope that yours were but if not I'm sure you have learned your lesson. You and Simon are the ones who are kind and civil to everyone, showing true INNATE class, the kind you are born with. I'm so glad that Simon finally spoke up about RaMEANa's hypocracy having a Playboy Bunny for a close friend. I noted that he refrained from doing so the first few times Meana brought the photo topic up. Finally, he spoke up, and good for him! You have a wonderful marriage, are attentive and loving, and easy-going parents. You are very lucky in that regard and I like seeing that aspect on the show.
- 04/02/2009 - 10:00pm
- Mary Haskin
Alex~
I'm not sure why people have a negative reaction to you & your husband...the behavior of your children at the dinner partying was unaccaeptable but other than that I think you & you husband are the most "down to earth residing in reality" folks on the show!
- 04/02/2009 - 9:18pm
- Kathleen Beebe
Alex,
I've become a fan of you and Simon more than the other housewives. I love the fact that you both just live your lives. In no way have either of you gotten into anyones busness. You are just living life enjoying your babies and I guess the other housewives and their spouses can't stand the fact that you both do not them get under you skin.
I also have a question for you and Simon. My 23 year old son Christopher, works as a manager for Pink Berry on the upper west side. I live in NH and worry about where he lives in the big city. Currently he is living in Flatbush. He loves Brooklyn and would like to find his own place without 2 other maile roomates. He is interested in a 1 or 2 bedroom apartment in Brooklyn close to a train for transporation to work. Do you have any contacts for a worried Mom in NH who just wants her baby boy safe but allowing him to grow into a fine man. I'm use to both of my chirldren being on their own. A divorce with split custody and they both went to Boarding school. With Chris being in Brooklyn I worry differently than when they were in away at school and younger. I would appreciate your input for any contacts regarding housing.
- 04/02/2009 - 9:13pm
- Essence T.
Hey Alex,
I loved you last season and I love you this season. In my opinion you and Simon exude much more class than the countess pretends that she does. You and Simon have a standard to which you hold yourselves and your children and I wholeheartedly respect you for that. I also hope that everything works out for you and don't worry about what everyone says about you, I think you're great!
- 04/02/2009 - 7:14pm
- Christy Garner
You and Simon just continue being who you are. Maybe others are jealous of the wonderful marriage you have with a supporting spouse. I do think that some of his outfits are out there but in the big picture that doesn't matter. Stay loyal to eachother
- 04/02/2009 - 6:04pm
- nancy
Alex, How refreshing and pure Simon and your love is.It's great to see. I'm so thankful to have a husband who thinks the world of me to. People are jealous of it because they don't understand it. Thats why they have to talk junk. Keep letting it roll off your back and taking care of your babies.If only the other ladies where as intelligent as you. Loved you and B-Frank on Huckabee.
- 04/02/2009 - 5:50pm
- Viewer
Hello Alex,
I would like to echo the many compliments written about you on this blog. You seem like the nicest person on the whole show, and you, Simon, Jill, Bobby and Bethenny appear to be the least pretentious of the group.
I also am pleased to notice that you are the best writer of the blogging bunch. I have taught college writing and public speaking for several years so I feel qualified to comment.
Keep up the good work,
Susana in Kansas
- 04/02/2009 - 3:59pm
- Viewer
You know i might not always like you in the episodes, but more and more each episode this season i respect you. I hope you won't take offense to this because you seem to be the person who rather be respected, because they know not everyone can be liked.
First off, i love how honest you were to Bethenny about how you met Simon. You know it just kind of happened between the two of you, and the love you two have for eachother truely shows. When you cried about your wedding night i felt it was geniune.
Second, when you and Simon pulled out the card of "Well you kissed a playboy bunny" to Ramona.. i was so happy. I like Ramona kind of, well i like you all but jill and Bethenny the most, but it was true. Ramona was being a hypocrite, and i read in her blog about how seh didn't want her daughter to be affected...what about the playboy bunny.. i mean your daughters friends could just as easily look up that ladies pornographic pictures..where as yours where art. Just saying.
- 04/02/2009 - 1:53pm
- SAT
In terms of relationships portrayed on the show, you and your husband seem to be the happiest couple. I like that about the two of you.
I'm confused about why Simon felt a need to confront Ramona at the fashion show. If she doesn't care for him, she doesn't care for him. Simon seems to be a peacemaker which is fine. However, remember everyone doesn't like everyone.
The nude photo argument was strange. Your business is your business. I don't "share" much information about myself to acquaintances either. I understand your feelings there.
- 04/02/2009 - 1:35pm
- Julie in PA
Alex, I absolutely adore you and Simon. You are the least full of yourself people on this show. You have the money and style to act like pompous jerks, yet you don't. I hope one day I find a man who loves me even half as much as Simon loves you. You're a great couple and great, down to earth people. Don't let anyone tell you different! Props to Simon for not belting Ramona. I think there would be enough people to put in money to see that we could pay for your renovations :) (and probably the boys' college!)
- 04/02/2009 - 12:07pm
- cima
I love the relationship between you and your husband, you guys seems to stay to yourself, until your forced into conflict. I love how Simon defended you against Ramona's erroneous allegations, he's a real man. Clearly she has already made up her mind not to like you guys, and is just searching for reasons. She is pathetic and desperate,and good for you for calling her out for being a hypocrite.
- 04/02/2009 - 11:53am
- Monica
Hey Alex!
Let's just read between the lines here. When you first met Ramona you didn't have to tell her anything about those nude pictures. At the time she was an acquantaince. She's angry because some one in her circle came back to her after the pictures were exposed. We all know that she feels embarrased after hearing from her cirle, "Do you belive Romana brought that Alex around? What kind of people does she hang out with?" Rather it be right or not, it's the truth. No offence, but that's what happend. And now she has make sure that everybody knows that she does not hang out with any kind of "Alex". Whatever Romana! She's trying to save face.
- 04/02/2009 - 10:54am
- Paula
You and Simon are down to earth and seem to mind your own business until you are pulled into something you didn't initiate in the first place. I like the way you two try to handle a situation and you seem to do so with a lot of eloquence too. Keep strong!
- 04/02/2009 - 9:37am
- Isabel
Alex - you and Simon are classy, respectful individuals and are always so intriguing to watch. I love that you are happy and secure in your family unit, and you feel free to enjoy you lives as you see fit. Ramona and Mario are very unlikeable people. Simon went out of his way to be nice to Mario despite Ramona's continued bizarre behavior, and all Mario and Ramona could do was be utterly rude and yap like two annoying little wind up toys on crack. I enjoy watching your family, as you're both refreshingly honest and warm.
- 04/02/2009 - 8:41am
- Viewer
Alex, I have to admit that when the show first aired I wasn't a huge fan of yours. Fortunately for me, you have since warmed me over and I find you interesting. I liked the recent episode with you and Bethenny at the health fair. You were sincere, thoughtful and kind towards her.
I especially appreciate the relationship you have with Simon as it reminds me of my husband and I. If you want to write a book may I suggest your relationship be the subject? It's fascinating.
By the way, my husband and I go nearly everywhere together.
- 04/02/2009 - 4:16am
- Viewer
Alex,
You are my favorite NYC housewife. I think you and Simon are a darling couple. Maybe some of the snide comments from the other housewives are motivated by pure jealousy. You and Simon seem to really communicate and love each other very much. Sending you good thoughts for a happy life together - the children are just precious.
- 04/02/2009 - 1:36am
- Brandi
Alex, i love you, Simon and your adorable kids. You guys are so wonderful to watch and so sweet and real. The Singers are mean and nasty people. Please stop trying to talk to them. You people are so much classier and better than they are. Love you guys..Keep it REAL !!
- 04/02/2009 - 12:58am
- Theresa
Hi Alex and Simon!! You two are really the classy couple of the bunch. And I love the way Simon really cares for you and both of the boys. You can see he cherishes them and you too. Stay strong. You both were right at that party.
- 04/02/2009 - 12:50am
- Carol
Hi Alex. I have watched this show from day one. Out of all the "housewives", you are the only one to behave like a mature adult woman. I've not once winced at something either you or Simon have said or done to anyone. You seem to be wonderful parents who dote on their boys. The two of you are inspiring to watch, and I wish you both all the best.
- 04/02/2009 - 12:48am
- Nashville Tennessee
ALEX,
THE WHOLE CAST SEEMS TO BE JEALOUS OF YOU, HANG IN THERE, YOU ARE THE BEST ONE OUT OF ALL OF THEM, I LIKE YOU BECAUSE,
YOU SEEM LIKE THE TYPE THAT WOULD DRINK A COLD BEER WITH A REDNECK OR A GLASS OF WINE WITH THE QUEEN,WE LOVE YOU FROM NASHVILLE,
YOUR FAN,
ANGIE
- 04/01/2009 - 11:52pm
- Love and Logic
Alex,
Ramona doesn't make sense. It appears that she has decided on a side of a wall and will do anything to defend her decision. How one takes ownership of a problem defines their true character.
With that said, your two little boys are adorable. You do live in an outrageous circus of entitlement. It is obvious that you only accept the best for your family.
With all the excess in your world, I'm sure you do not want your boys to grow up being over entitled. Check out Love and Logic at loveandlogic.com. They have several books and audios (great for the ipod) that will give you some fabulous ideas on how to up the odds of raising responsible and respectful kids. The program is psychology based and I thought it might be something that you and Simon would embrace.
I do not work for Love and Logic. My husband and I have used it with our two sons (9&8) for the past 6 years. It is not punitive and it is not permissive.
Something to consider. Mom of two boys to mom of two boys.
- 04/01/2009 - 11:33pm
- jane
I'm for team Alex and Simon!!!! You two are just so much more real and down to earth than anyone else on the show. Plus your both snazzy dressers!
- 04/01/2009 - 10:03pm
- Viewer
Alex you are a great role model to girls everywhere! With all the "sexting" going on lately with teenage girls sending pictures to their boyfriends and their boyfriends sending them around the school, it's good that they can have someone to look up to in the limelight whose been there and who has survived rather magnificiently.
- 04/01/2009 - 9:24pm
- Popeyes Girl
Alex,
I have to say, I am enjoying you more as this season progresses. You are honest, dedicated to Simon and boys and seem so down to earth. Last season---well, I wasn't so sure about either you or Simon :)
I was quite pleased you stood up to Ramona last night---she is becoming more and more crazy lately. Kelly? I had never heard of her before this show, and though all of the RHoNYC are a unique and unusual mix, inserting her in the show was a big mistake, IMHO.Looking forward to more seasons...and The A-List Awards!! Hope you all win!
- 04/01/2009 - 9:10pm
- Sunni
Alex... I love you girl~ You just hang around some real stuffy b*tches LOL Find some better friends if you need to but who needs friends when you have a hubby/friend like Simon!!
***What website did you meet your husband on?????????
PLEASE answer this.......
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