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Alex,
I really like you and Simon. You are educated, interesting, and interested and I find that compelling. My husband and I are really close and love being together. We are best friends, and I can't imagine not being with him when we go out. We don't see much of each other during the day, and we also have young boys so when we go out we want to be together. We have been married 14 years strong. I hope none of Ramona's antics get the better of you two and I hope you both just keep doing what you are doing and being true to yourselves.

Alex,
First of all, I want to tell you that I really like you and Simon. I agree with a comment Bethenny made on one of her blogs that you two "...have good hearts" (paraphrasing). Also, your blogs are enjoyable. It is nice to read the writings of someone who has a command of the English language.
Tell Simon he should not be concerned about Ramona's ridiculous opinion of him. She and Mario made asses of themselves when they attacked you and Simon regarding the photos of you. As you mentioned, it was none of their business, she is a hypocrite, and frankly, what in the world do photos of you have to do with them? Paleeeze! She needs to get over herself.

Alex,
You are not my favorite housewive, but I do like you. While Simon is slightly annoying, he is interesting as well. You just seem so nice and you never mean any harm. But gosh, it seems as though all you housewives care about is being in the higher society. Why? In the end, these things never matter. You honestly do come off as a wannabe, but besides that I can tell that you are a really nice person who is in a wonderful marriage.

Dear Alex,
I hope that you and your wonderful husband don't pay too much attention to Ramona. She truly has no tact. The way her husband verbally assaulted Jill tells me that those two belong together.
Good luck to your family.

You and the countess are the ones I like on the show because you hold yourselves well, and you don't fall for the ridiculous cattiness!

Wow, this just goes to show how a show can shape how you view someone, yet you dig a little deeper and find out so much more than what you're "allowed" to view on TV

This only the second Alex blog I've read (I read a snippet of Simon's on another site - very perceptive and funny), and I'm thoroughly impressed. Not to say that she didn't seem intelligent before, but the insight that she has provided is very enlightening. And the humor she obviously possesses is refreshing, too! ("...or else Jill showed up at her apartment and threatened to have Ginger clean her nostrils if she didn’t come to the meeting.")

I was already becoming more of a fan of her and Simon during this season (I've seen a lot of very "real" moments that they were involved in, i.e. the "I hate packing" scene), but their blogs just cement it. Go, Silex! I apologize for ever underestimating your team.

i think alex and simon are classy they really should have their own show

I felt so bad for you when I saw you in your blow up pool after watching Ramona and her husband in their REAL pool. Usually I just laugh and make fun of you with my boyfriend, but at this point we just felt really sorry for you and how you said you thought you were "privileged". Awww poor Alex.

I think you and Simon are so cool i really like that your husband stood up to Ramona I cannot stand her she is pathetic God Bless you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love the fact that you and Simon are the power couple on the show, your relationship shines compared to the others and you both are great as a team.
If I was your friend and you brought your husband to almost every event that you were invited to I would get irritated too. It is nice to fluff your husband's ego but not when it is time to hang out with your girls and include him.You should have a life outside of your husband.

Alex,
I think it's great to see a couple doing things together like you two do.. You and Bethenny are the best part of the show...

I have no idea why Alex and Simon are even on this show since they don't even live in the city. Living in Brooklyn is so much different than living in Manhattan and they are not even apart of the Hamptons crowd. They are such wannabes and don't even belong on this show.

I really like you and Simon and also Jill. I really believe Ramona is rude to you and your husband because you husband worships the ground that you walk on. He truly loves you and he is not too masculine to show it. I have been married to 2 "masculine" men and they were jerks. If I decide to get into a relationship again, it will be with someone who is not so masculine and can express himself emotionally. Ramona's marriage does not seem that solid. When her and her husband met for lunch, he was staring at some woman that passed by right in front of her which is rude. Simon has his eyes on you. And like I wrote to Jill, Here is to you and Simon! I wish you and your children the best and you have the relationship that most people wished they had. But my philosophy is learn from a couple like you not be jealous and avoid you like Ramona!

I just wanted to say that you and Simon are alright with me. People have their own opinions about you two and I think it's great that you don't let those negative comments affect your relationship with each other. Second, i think your boys are soooo adorable! Oh one more thing i think that a lot of the wives(Rameana)are jealous of the relationship you have with each other. I think you both really love to be together and alot of people wish they had that or wish their spouses could stand to be around them that much.

It great to see a couple enjoy each other and their children so much. Your living life to the fullest and having the time of your lives. You both have a great attitude when it come to the haters. Bravo ....Now a marriage I question is Roberta...theres something wrong there in my opinion.

Alex,

You and Simon are the most "down to earth" people on the show. I liked you guys from day one. I think you guys could fit in anywhere, whether it be helping out in a disaster, or rubbing elbows with the "rich and famous", which you seem to do a lot of.

Good luck, I enjoy watching you guys.

I love you guys!!!!

I was sent a link by a friend of mine to a TMZ video of you and Simon. In it Simon is trying to flip your dress up to reveal your panties to waiting paps. I applaud you for the way you handled yourself. Simon was obviously drunk and you were not. I felt awkward watching the video because it reminded me of something Jill said in one of the first episodes this season about Simon drinking too much. This was obviously one of those nights I hope that you took his a** home and put him to bed and then let him have it in the morning. Good luck with the job search. And don't let him bring you down

Alex, I personally think that you and Simone are the most real people of the show. I only advise you both to stay away from negative people. Stay away from the DRAMA because it can hurt you in the long run. I noticed that you both reside in Brooklyn, can I ask where in brooklyn?? I am from Williamsburg and I am happy that we have Brooklynites on the show.

Your lifestyle may not be one that I would enjoy, but you are true to who you are and what you want from life. Brava to you! I guess the real reality of life will hit now that you are layed off from your day to day job, and still have to be on this high end reality show!

Hi Alex,
I don't get the level of animosity some of the women have for each other. The show should be called "Frenemies". Do you recall that episode from Sex and the City? I believe you see the glass as both half full and half empty. Am I wrong about your personality. You are sweet, patient and loving. You match well with Simon because he is clingy. (All men should be that way). I don't get all the whining about him liking clothes. He lives in New York after all. I also like LuAnn for her maturity and grace. Keep enjoying your family, kids and all that the adventure "Housewives" brings your way.

Alex, of all the people in the group, you and Simon are the most "normal" to me. Both of you are warm, caring,intelligent and kind. Those attributes far outweigh who you "know", where you "go", and what you "wear". It is nice to see the balance that you and Simon show in your lives. It is cool that you love all the fashion and thrills of New York, but the example of kindness and love, you show your children is the life lesson they will appreciate the most.

Alex- I caught part of a rerun in which you talk about how you met Simon, and what you said to him on your wedding night. It is so sweet that I got a little choked up watching you get choked up. You continue to be so endearing, and you're a great writer too. Let's just hope Johan doesn't make off with any more of your laptop keys. Ha! Love it!

name drop much?

Dear Alex, I felt like this season you and your husband were the outcast of the group. I am sorry for that yet who needs to be put down at every turn. I think you are very nice. You have more character then the other women.
You seem to be more mature than Bethnay and Ramona. Bethnay you can understand she is not a mother, but Romona I think her daughter seems to be the mature one in that family.
I hope your renovation turns out beautiful and Jill eats her words. I was never impressed with Jill's place.
I live in Franklin Lakes, in May the new Housewives of New Jersey will be from Franklin Lakes, I only know of one. I have no clue as to who the others will be. I'm hoping they will be as interesting as you ladies are. We shall see.
The best to you and your family

I was never interested in the show until I watched you and Simon. I love your relationship with your husband and your kids. You guys are the most classy and educated out of everyone in the whole show. Ramona is jealous and crazy. Simon knows how to deal with her. Keep representing bklyn where the most classy people come from.

Alex,
Your blog is well-written and an amusing read. You seem to possess both intelligence and self-confidence, so perhaps give the viewers (and readers) a little more Alex, and a little less "Alex and Simon". YOU are the "Real Housewife" after all.

Alex, OH MY GOODNESS GIRL,,, you get a good bit of criticism about your marriage to Simon. I just have to tell you that from my point of view you have a beautiful family and a husband who adores you! What a wonderful world this would be if wives and husbands took their relationship seriously! I feel certain that you don't need me or anyone else to tell you that your marriage and family is an inspiration to most people whether they admit it or not,,,as I see it,,,you are truly blessed in more ways than one :o)

Hi Alex, I love the fact that you and Simon share so much. I much rather go shopping and to dinner with my husband over friends. Your relationship with each other and your children is refreshing. Stay true to yourselves. You two are grounded, and have more depth then Ramona. I do think she is the one that is shallow, and has a problem.

Alex,

I just wanted to say that even though I don't agree with everything regarding you and Simon I am so excited to see someone who can stand up there on camera and be so "real". The way you handle yourself in awkward situations is refreshing and inspiring. I appreciate your honesty and how you stand strong in your convictions! :-)

i love you guys. last season i was unsure but i think your relationship is wonderful and it seems genuinely happy.
and as for the other women, they are sometimes mean and their insecurity tends wash over their common sense.
i am too in love with a wonderful man, we live in Brooklyn, we work, we love art, we love music and our lives in New York. i really get the same sense from you guys. and i feel sorry for others that spend their time consumed with bad energy to themselves and each other.
good luck with the house repairs and the boys.

cheers!

I think you and Simon are absolutly WONDERFUL. I think any problems you both may have with the others os the jelousy of your relationship with each other. You both are still in honeymoon phase, which is great. I lovex5 how you both do everything together, you are best friends and lovers and are just "That close" The others do not show that side of themselves. As to your renovations, Kudos for staying in the house, sure you could have went to a hotel or rented a place, but you know what, you're not about spending your money on just anything. To me you both are sophisticated yet can carry on like some of us normal. less fortunate folks. And I have not heard anything about a Nanny, which you are probably the only ones who are raising your children or are deeply involved with your childrens lives, which to me, makes you fab parents. I watch the show for you both, bevause the others pick each other apart along with picking you and simon apart, but i have not seen either of you act the way that they act, whic of course makes you the better person(s). Needless to say YOU ROCK!!!!!

I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! You are a greta couple! Of course you should write a book on chil rearing. You are raising your children to be individuals, intellectuals, and thinkers...not clones socialized to the norm. Who wrote that book on education..about the boy who was raised with no restrictions? In the country? Maybe William James. I also am impressed with the authentic nature of your love and how much you like and enjoy each other!!!

I wasn't sure about you at first, Alex, but I've come to rather enjoy you. You seem to be the most normal "Housewife",which is why I usually enjoy watching you. Good luck getting those keys back! I know how little boys and toilets are. :-)

If you want to meet an honest-to-God housewife, I will be in Manhattan next week closing on a condo across from the Federal Reserve Bank. Meet a real woman without a make-up artist or hairdresser on retainer. Married 24.5 years with 3 children AND from the south. Good luck trying to out-cook me! No one turns down an invitation to my house and my cookies are legendary. Did I mention that I am also a grandmother?

Love you Alex...You're so elegant and authentic. Your marriage is so awesome and inspirational...You really honor each other. Tell everybody to lay off Kelly...She's replaced you guys being misunderstood this season.

If the heavens smile down on us, Johan will steal the "I" key from Simon's keyboard.

If you and your husban own the hotel move in there while
your remodling, would be safer for the boys and yiur sanity.. Love Jill...She is very helpful and your right just cause it not richy gem you fine who to say what you like, I like the moldings and would incorprate it in to my remolding...

You kinda remind me of Elizabeth Montgomery from Bewitched. Yah you kinda come across as a little needy, however editing does have ways to slant how you are shown. Wish you all the best, you're definitely seem like a nice lady.

I'm guessing you're a friend of Alex. When you sign on
to a blog to comment on other peoples opinions, words and
to check for what I'm guessing litter, check your own post. The only "little" I've read on here is your own post. Spell check would not have even caught that error.
I'm not betting any money on Harvard with you.

What patch of woods did they pull the two of you out of?
Go back to Hickvill Patch. NYC is going to eat you up
and spit you out.

Alex your blog is great! You and Simon are my favorite. you should have your own show.Love your boys!

can not stand Alex or Simon...to much a couple of wannabes

Alex,

The main thing I "like" about you is that you seem to be easy going and take things with a grain of salt.

The main thing I "dislike" about you is Simon always hanging around. I only like to see Simon when all of the other husbands are present/attending.

Great. You are Simon enjoy one anothers company. But the majority of the viewers don't like Simon trying to be one of the housewives. Simon obviously doesn't want you to be on camera unless he is on camera with you. What's with him.

Love it! I wish you and Simon had your own show.

you impress me more and more each week. you are the only one (including simon) who doesn't get into the drama and catty comments....

good luck with the job search....

Alex,

I love that you and Simon support small businesses and under-the-radar designers. I only wish more people would do the same. Although times are tough right now, they are not going to get any better unless people get out and spend $$$. I used to work in a thriving men's and women's boutique for over five years, and sadly I watched it slow down and eventually shut its doors last year. The owners had been in business for over twenty years, and it was one of the very few independent stores in the area. Small businesses are unique, charming, and intimate, and unless we continue to support them, we won't have many left. With that said, thank you to you and Simon for recognizing this and shopping!

So sorry to hear that you lost your job. I, too, am going through that at this time. I hope that you can, at least, enjoy your time at home with your adorable little boys. I worked when my 2 sons were little and I now wish I had been able to stay home with them more. The time/years flew by and now they are 18 and 23!! Good luck to you..

I like you Alex however Simon needs to step it down a notch. Why does he care if Ramona speaks to him. He tries to hard with people.You seem more down to earth at times than he does.As for Ramona yuck is all I have to say about her. Just try to keep it real and not worry about being in high society.

Alex you are a very, very classy lady. Tell Simon NOT to lower himself to the likes of Ramona. She is nothing but a fool. She is so far beneath him that it is not even funny.

OMG I was just watching tv with my son, "Cyber Chase" on wttw kids in Chicago when I saw you on the after show...the 5 minute real life episodes that they do. I was just wondering if you were an actress...or what???

Alex, I like you and your husband. You don't backbite like many of the other people on the show. So what you are a social climber! Did everyone start at the top? You are making your own way and what is so wrong with that? People need to get over themselves. Jill did not have to talk about your place last week like she did. I didn't see any squaller. That was so uncalled for. And that comment about that chair. You and Simon just seem to take some of the rude things people say to you. I think you need to give some back, sometimes. They don't care about your feelings-just trying to make you feel bad and themselves better. I am glad you went to get your husband. Anyone that claims to be a friend should also be able to treat your make in an amicable way. He shouldn't waste his time on her negativity.

Alex,

Last season you really took a beating. I'm glad to see you're back.

This is the first time I've read your blog and, if it's truly you writing (who knows with all this made-for-tv stuff), I have to say that I really enjoy reading your stuff!

You're a wonderful writer and your blog really adds perspective about you. Not you-and-Simon, but you. And you seem like a gem.

Alex, I must have temporarily stepped off the planet. I had no idea you were laid off from your job. Have you had any success in your job search? Have you been contacted by any of the major "head hunting" groups? I am so impressed with your intelligence and demeanor. With all your many talents I am confident that the job for you is "just around the corner". Best of Luck!!!

It appears that you and your husband, especially Simon, want desperately to be accepted by the fabulous crowd or society. The sad thing is that your efforts seem to be in vain. They will never really accept you unless you are one of them. So save your money and time and just be yourselves. Be happy in your own skin and stop trying to impress people that will never be impressed.

Hello Alex,

I just love you and Simon; your marriage is authentic - that is easy to see. There is an intimacy that shines through; there are many times it is like the camera isn't even there. I love your story on how you met. Your transparency is one of the things I appreciate about you. As far as being late to the benefit planning session, please let this be the first and last time you compare yourself to Kelly. You have more depth in your little finger than she has in her whole body! Speaking of depth, Ramona is so phoney and crazy-looking/acting, I am almost beginning to feel sorry for her. I certainly feel sorry for her husband - he will NEVER know the kind of love Simond has with you!

You guys are embarassing

You are a funny woman with a lot going on. Please don't make the mistake of thinking that being a "socialite" is something to aspire to. Be happy and be a great example to all of the women who watch this somewhat silly show as a way of destressing!

I agree with the comments posted by Tish (12:50 p.m. on 3/26). You and your husband are the embodiment of pretension. You can try as hard as you want to claw your way up into Manhattan Society, but you'll never be anything but hangers on. I have news for you, Alex, it is not "classy" to confront someone in public (much less on camera) as your husband did. A truly elegant, well-born, and well-behaved member of High Society would be socially adept enough to turn on the charm, while at the same time make it known to the offender that she was below consideration. It's a skill. I think it's passed along with the family silver.

Alex,
I dont understand why all of the housewives aren't huge fans of yours! I think you have a great sense of humor and I love that you just take all of the negative comments from the other women with a grain of salt. I think you are truly a sweet lady and I love your blogs, you're such an excellent writer! I also think that even though the relationship between you and Simon might seem strange to the outside world, it's very apparent to every viewer how much love you two have for one another. If only every couple in America had what you had...anyways keep being the "real" housewife Alex, and don't let the other housewives bring you down!

i LOVE YOU BOTH! You are intellingent and authentic. The episode before last I thought it was so rude when Jill critizice your house. Who does she thinks she is. She was there to offer professional advice in decorating not bully you around

You are one classy lady! Ramona is not. Your husband dotes on you. Ramona's does not. Even Ramon's daughter is embarassed by her mother's behavior! Both you and your husband have class. You are both honest that you both want a better life. What is wrong with that? evderyone wants abetter life!

I wish Alex & Simon were on more! They seem to be on less this season - which is not good!

Alex, I've really enjoyed watching you and your family this season, we are getting more insight on the both of you, it's been interesting to say the least.

That's just too funny about your laptop, oh those little darlings! I have a young little one, and I know all about the little surprises they can pull. Everyday is an adventure! Why the semi-colon and the D??? Only he knows, and I'm sure he has a reason!

I wanted to tell you, I really felt for Simon when he was asking Ramona "why she didn't like him", and "what did he do to her", sorry I forget which, both perhaps. Anyway, her responses left me totally cold. I couldn't believe my ears when I heard her say something about him being too "feminine". And then not finished with her moronic view point, she manages to blather on. Happy with herself she feels like she has finally the answer, and matter-of-factly states, "you have no depth". Um, it's called, being shallow Ramona. Was that her infantile attempt to make her crude comments nicer? What the heck? Well for sure, she is laughable at the very least.

I do want you to know, I was in Simon's corner, I appreciate that he insisted she be direct with him. It was so obvious because of Kelly, she had every intention to embarrass him that day by snubbing him, or so she tried. It seems that all that she managed to do was to make a big fool of herself.

If the tension between Simon and Ramona is merely an act it's sure got me fooled,and if it's not, well then my condolences on having to deal with her while shooting.

Regards,

s

Alex, you seem like a nice person. It is wonderful to see what a great relationship you and Simon have. However, the problem between Ramona and Simon is YOUR fault. You insisted on bringing Simon to what was clearly a girls' night. It was rather presumptuous of you to even ask to bring him. A polite hostess is not going to say no, although B. did say in gest that if he could wear a cocktail dress he was welcome. That was code for, it's not really appropriate. I also have a wonderful relationship with my husband, and I understand the feeling when your husband is your best friend. Unfortunately, just because you feel comfortable bringing your husband everywhere with you, doesn't mean your girlfriends will feel the same way. You didn't clearly explain to Simon what was obviously a girls' night, either. YOU fed him to the wolves. Ramona's behavior was terrible; however, all could have been avoided had you just adhered to the evening's invite.

ALEX,

I AM WITH YOU. I WOULD NOT HAVE MADE THE EFFORT. SIMON ALWAYS CONDUCTS HIMSELF AS A GENTLEMAN, EVEN IN LIGHT OF RAMONA'S CONTINUAL ABRASIVE RUDENESS. GOOD FOR YOU!

Alex,

Not sure if you read the blog of yourself on Bravotv.com, but I am an interior designer and a big fan of the show! My boss and myself run an interior design firm and have done many celeb. homes from Boston to LA! I assume that you finished your renovation this past October and if you are still in the process, or could use any help with the interior finishings I would love to offer out our services.

And I can promise that we are not like Jill's "gay husband" we work fast and always work with our clients much more personally and more professionally then him.. I was horrified of that past episode. If you are at all interested I would be happy to email you a list of some of our celebrity reference and can insure you that we do the best, for the best price, and always have satisfied customers!

Please email me at designing_america@yahoo.com, I would also be happy to send you photo from recently completed jobs or any other information!

Good blog. Refreshing to see text that is well-written with good punctuation and spelling (there's so little on this site!).

Alex, you are so real and your demeanor is very calming and elegant. Hang out with LuAnn and Jill, as the others have major issues. Ramona is a freak with money and an extremely bad example for her daughter. Laurels to you and Simon.

I enjoy watching you the most, Alex. You are authentic, and confident. You know who you are and you are proud! To me, that's class!

Alex,

You are my favorite person on the show because you are real, and you and Simon are darling together. I am married to an attorney who loves to go shopping with me, and it's a wonderful thing that I thought I would never have in a straight man. He is also my best friend, and that's so important. Your relationship reminds me of my marriage, and I am so happy for you to have found your other half.

In the south, we call people like Ramona "tacky", and she would not be invited to anything because evidently, her mother never taught her how to act. I know that she must be wounded from her childhood, but she just has a mean streak that is so viciious, it's not fun to watch or cute. She does not have any boundaries with other people, yet she is seemingly the easiest person to offend in the room.

Well, looking forward to the rest of the season. My husband laughs at me for watching the show, but I catch him watching it too when he is supposedly reading. hehe

Take care,
Wendi

Alex,

You and Simon don't rub me as wrong this year but still appear to be social climbers. Perhaps it is because financially you are not in the same income bracket as Ramona, Jill and the Countess.

It doesn't matter what Simon wants, he was a guest at the show and no one has to talk to another person. He would have been better off just walking by Ramona. He really harassed her.

Alex,
Watching this week's episode, viewers were regaled with Ms. Killoren Bensimon's virtuosity in name-dropping; until I read your blog, I did not realize what an amateur she is. What a plethora of heretofore unheard of designers you know! How fabulous you must be! I do believe the word "pretentious" was created for you and Simon. Simon calls people out when they are being facile? How much more shallow could you be, to accost an acquaintance at a fashion show, demanding to know why she "blanks" you? The only thing more absurd is the notion that the two of you are writing a book on child-rearing. You are certainly qualified to tell us what not to do, unless we also want unruly, ill-mannered and spoiled children who own, but will never comprehend, the complete works of Dickens.

Alex-
I am liking you more and more each week, I have to agree with the lady who posted that you are the only one on the show who really seems to get what the word 'class' means. All the other ladies always talk about having class but their bahavior at times is very tacky and classless not to mention I always go by the old adage : if you have to brag about it then you are lacking it or something to that effect. People who truly have something whether it be money, fame or class don't have to talk about it, they just are. You handle yourself with poise and grace in all situations, you seem to be very diplomatic, intelligent and above the fray, kudos to you honey and keep it up.

I do think and Simon are great together. I think it's unfortunate that Simon didn't have more respect for Russell Simmons' fabulous fashion show and discounted his generous VIP invite to have a round with Ramona. I think that the two of you have an opportunity to raise the bar and instead Simon insists on stooping to Ramona's level. As a man, he will set a better example to let Ramona make herself look like an azz instead of joining her. Since your kids are the center of your universe, think about when they see this what would they be more proud of--mommy and daddy choosing which battle to fight or mommy and daddy fighting every battle.

Alex,

Name dropping is so declasse. Your wife's behavior at the fashion show was also classless. You really need to encourage Simon to seek professional help. His attack on Ramona was unacceptable. He would never had done that to Mario...

I found it interesting that the 2 pieces you already owned from Christopher Deane were not attractive. I thought the frock was an old shmatah (house dress) you had lying around. The little jacket did not flatter you at all. You may spend mucho dinero on your wardrobe, but it doesn't mean it looks great. Your "wearable art" comment simply means that you put all your money on your back than into something more meaningful or long lasting. That's quite a value system you have developed. Conspicuous consumption all the way. Good luck in the economic downturn.

You and Simon are the only people on this show with intelligence. I loved your comment last week about making sure you have Dickens on your bookshelves just in case. This show needs a dose of intelligence, creativity, and people not afraid to leave the isle of Manhattan for inspiration. Thanks! How ironic that Ramona thinks Simon has no depth.

Hi Alex! Your blog was great, very well written...informative, honest and witty:) You have a lot of class and grace. You also seem very laid back and down to earth, despite the label of socialite wannabe that has been given to you, perhaps a little bit unfairly. You seem to be peripheral sometimes. I think that you actually benefit from being a little on the outside of things where the other wives are concerned...sometimes it is better to be just off the radar especially with all of those lasers firing away at will. I must admit however that I would have been annoyed if someone brought their husband to a girl's dinner party, it just changes the dynamic and is unfair to the others who have signed up for a girls only evening. You have definitely grown on me this season. Let people see just Alex a little more often...not always Alex and Simon. You and Simon do have a nice relationship that is loving and harmonious and that is refreshing in this world. Best of luck with the renovations, I can't wait to see the finished product.

Into the second season, you and Simon are the only two tolerable people on the show! Please don't do anything to screw that up! ;-) You are comfortable with your relationship, know what you want, and don't seem to get bothered by what your housewive "friends" say about you.

Having said that, Simon should forget about Ramona. It is her unfortunate loss if she cannot get over her hang ups.

Thanks for writing an intelligent, enjoyable blog!

Alex, your blog is very well written and informative. Thanks for all the details about fashion week. I had no idea that you are so funny!

Alex you are a class act and handle the drama perfectly! YOUR AWESOME

I think you and Simon are adorable. Despite what anyone on the show says, it really shows that you guys are committed to each other and your marriage. That's a rare find these days. Anyone would be so lucky as to marry their best friend :)

Alex, I love how you and simon have this way at looking at life that is very simple and different almost unique and beautiful! I love how you guys just dont give a crap what other think and say about you!

Hello Alex, You have been blessed with very adorable kids and a very loving and attentive husband! However when I see the show I find it a bit too much for Simon to attend events where most housewifes attend alone. But then again it might be the way the show wants us to think. Just wanted to comment on your fun blog! I enjoyed reading it alot and don't let Ramona or the other housewifes bully you or Simon. They seem to take advantage of your laid back personality. Your fan in Houston!

Well I am not sure this will get posted! BUT I have to say I just love you more and more every episode....I love the way you deal with all the other women and I love the way you support your husband.....I am with you....I like to be liked by those I like and to the rest "who cares"...you go girl...From one mom of two boys to another keep it up...stay real

I never thought I' say it, but i have to agree with the comment below me (sher) although, it probably wont be below mine, since you have to approve comments and im sure comments have been submitted since hers and will appear before mine, but anwaysss, you are kind of starting to grow on me too. I kinda hated you last season. I thought you were so pretentious. But now i don't hate you. You guys are just kinda... querky.. or something. I don't know. If there's another "girls night" don't bring Simon. Have a girls night. I think you will find fewer enraged viewers.

Alex,

I seldom respond to anything I see or read on TV. But after being sucked in to watch this series I must say something in regards to you and your husband.

Alex, of all the individuals on this show, you are indeed the most real person I've seen. Both you and Simon come across as honest, open, non-judgemental people. You do not spend your time talking badly about others--you actual have other interests. I feel like Ramona must be jealous of your relationship with your husband and sweet little boys.

I enjoy both you and Simon but can see where you really will never really fit in because of an elevated degree of maturity and self-worth.

Don't change>

Alex, just wanted to let you know that I always love reading your blogs! You are a great writer!!

WOW Alex- I just came back to your blog from Malan's website and you were right!! His clothes were beeee-yoo ti ful and it's great to see him show, even though he didn't win Project Runway! Real clothes for real women!

You are an excellent writer - even without the "d" and semicolon.