I am now the oldest on this site. I am 63 and have been living with a man for 16 years. My husband was killed in a auto accident when I was 45. I have 2 married daughters and grandchildren. My daughters are my best friends.My Mother was my true best friend,but I lost her 9 months after my Father died. I always speak to her. Since she can not answer, I am asking you my question. Should I get married? I feel there is no reason to. We. have made it work for all these years. We are terrific together.
Our love has grown with each passing year. He would like to marry.
He is 67. It is not a necessity and he will understnad if I do not want to. I changed my life when I met him. Moved from NYC and E. Hampton to Denver,Co..because he is an avid skier. Should I change it again?
Hi, Where are your children located? If you feel that by marrying him, it will make your relationship stronger or that for financial reasons it would be wise, then by all means get married. If not, go on as usual.