Bethenny...love you on both shows. Stay away from Kelley. I know crazy and she is crazy...for real...not your standard girl with a little neurosis.
Bryn is adorable and looks like you have a great husband. Don't ever lose focus on them. Regarding Jill and all her flaws...we all have them...including you and me and everyone else in the world...however...when friends are going through serious shit you are supposed to show up. I had a friend for 25+years and when I got married she wasn't there, when I was in the hospital about to give birth to my baby who was very early ..24 weeks...she wasn't there. When my daughter passed 2 weeks after being born she wasn't there. When I gave birth to my 2nd child she wasn't there. Not once did I hear I'm sorry and not once did I see proof that she was going to be different in the future. I had resentment too. Give Jill a break and apologize. Let feel her feelings and show her you want and will be there in the future.

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Bethenny Congratulations on your baby girl you really deserve this happiness on your life.. Please please Bethenny try resolve the obvious demons and issues you have so you can regain the good person you seemed to once be. You are coming across as a bitter, angry almost Bipolar person...Success as a human is not how much money, how many books you have etc etc, but the difference and love you can bring to others. You seem to be only concerned at your success and telling people how successful you have become...a little humility always goes a long way...Its very sad that you have to tell people how successful you are...

Bethenny its a shame that when Jill and Bobby were going through their hard time after giving you a home and being taking in bye Jills mother like a child that you repay them with a bunch of flowers. Are you kidding, what a disgrace...You have been portrayed rightly or wrongly in this show as the biggest user of people especially Jill and Bobby. Bobby has always seemed to be extremely nice to you and you owed it to him, putting aside your relationship with Jill. Sending flowers and a text is such a fake and disgraceful action, I can't believe it. My god I wouldn't do this to my worse enemy. Bethenny its time that you had a good look at yourself and get over this success. You once seemed to be a nice person but in this case pertaining to bobby's health you are so far removed to being a decent human being words fail me.......

Dear Bethenny....You Rock. What a fun, darling and honest woman you are. I love your integrity and kind heart. Thanks for being a good role model to the other silly women around you. Thats why God blessed you with your own GREAT show. Love watching that! Care and hugs to you and your darling husband, Wendy

Jill was the little girl pampered princess expecting all to be watching her every move and jump to her aid in anticipation of her least discomfort. In reality, Bethany would have had to possess psychic powers to perform as Jill expected. The problem is not "a big fight between Jill and Bethany". It was that Jill had unrealistic expectations that could not be met.
Jill often acts as the expert with clear directives to others on what they should do, the smoky eye, bla bla bla. Yet when it came to acting like an adult by expressing her own needs to someone close, the mouth muscles were paralyzed. Quite ironic.
Jill needs to spend some serious time getting in touch with the different sides of her personality and evaluating each. The little girl side could grow to the next level and state her needs. "This is what's happening and I need you." The expert adult could learn how to better frame the directives into useful shared information. "In the past I was in a similar place and this is what worked for me."
People showing-up at your door as your night in shining armor generally is not how life happens. Telling people what to do is almost never received well. People do appreciate friends who take the time to appropriately share feelings and information. Perhaps Jill could benefit from some communication skills training.
Until Jill can come to terms with how hurtful her actions were to Bethany (unrealistic expectations, multiple rejections, conversations around her and not to her, etc),
the relationship will not progress. The work here is up to Ms. Zarin.
Bethany would be foolish to again position herself as the potential recipient of this junk. I do think Bethany is wise enough to recognize genuine growth in a person and kind enough to give people a second chance. Bethany has done no wrong having reached out several times. At this point she owes Jill nothing.

Congratulations on your baby, and your marriage.

I was thinking about this episode, and how the news could've leaked out to the press. The thing is you took the pee test on camera, so you have whoever was in the apartment with you, the show producers, etc... who knew about it. Reality TV is about the 'drama', and what's better drama than leaking that you're pregnant before you can tell anyone and causing a big thing on the show? I'd look at the people working the show for the leak.

I suspect you're doing this reality TV thing to help promote your business, which why not? But now you have a guy who doesn't exactly seem comfortable with it, and a baby. If the guy and the baby are what you've always wanted then I'd take a step out of the reality TV thing. You don't want to John and Kate your life.

I am so happy for your success and all the good things going on in your life right now just focus on you and your new family.I know you and Jill have had rough times but do you it's your world lady B!.

i think that the drama with kelly lu and jill is getting out of hand. love the way alex told her the truth (jill) and jill cant listen to anyone but herself the three of them realy making the show be to much to watch. im not in high school anymore.

Bethenny
When you thought you would never find a man, or have a child. Jill was there to encourage you. As a freind should be. To me, it seems like whenever anyone on the show is going through soomething, you are never around. You have no room to talk about anyone not keeping thier mouth shut. You are such a drama queeen and you say lots of nasty things to people. Everyone is attacking Jill, I beleive that both of you share in the blame.

You certainly are not the nicest of the housewives, or people, but you are honest and appear to be sincere about your feelings. When you are "mean" you fess up to it and apologize, and you hold yourself accountable for your actions.

All I can say is that I really like you. Your wit, charm, humor and patience keep me coming back. I cannot believe no one has knocked Kelly out, she is like nails on a chalkboard, ANNOYING!

Good luck with all your wonderful life events:)

TEAM BETHENNEY all the way you rock lady love you i am so excited for you with your baby and your husband.... keep it real.... TEAM BETHENNEY

Congrats on the new baby.

And a big thank you to the cast of RHNYC for making my friends look sane and normal.

Congrats on all that is in your life. New baby, husband, marriage.
You don't need Jill in your life right on she is not a true friend.A true friend is someone is there for you when you need they. Sometime to talk to,cry with, laugh with, or just sit there with..You don't keep count on what they have done for you or who call who last or where they went and you didn't or how much money they have that you don't. You don't even have to talk to a true friend everyday, everyweek, or every month. Just be there when they need you with open arms an open heartand listen to them. I have a friend like that we have know each other for more than 40 years. We don't talk every day, every week, or even every month but if one of us call the other we stop and listen. I know she would do anything for me and I would do anything for her. We don't always see eye too eye on everything but that just fine. We will always for friends until the very end of time.

Okay. I told this to alex too. I just figured it out about Kelly.

she lives in a pretty girl bubble. She has no girl friends so there is no one to tell he the truth of things. Guys aren't honest with her because she is pretty and they are trying to bang her. I've seen people like her as movie or tv sitcom characters, but i've never seen one for real.

There is an episode of 30 rock where she is dating a male model and he lives in a model bubble where he says the stupidest things, and has no concept of anything in reality. And it is totally Kelly! You have to see that episode of 30 rock if you haven't before. I Swear. They nailed her. her and her La la land of cartwheels.

by the way. I'm sorry about you and jill, i know that was painful. I do think Alex is a better friend. Interesting that jill wants to be friends again when you have a new show coming out.

I really like you and Alex as friends. it really feels like a much better match as a viewer.

congrats on the wedding and baby. Sorry about the crazy Kelly pulled on you. I think you know by now it really isn't bout you, and just about her own insecurity. You are a threat because she is jealous. And she is crazy. I would be more afraid of her going after you, then the visa versa she was yelling about. She seems the kinda that would just go off the deep end.

Who knows what the F the voices are telling her to do.

Bethenny, I am a huge fan of yours but I was not happy when you sent a message for Jill by Alex. I know you are pregnant and need to eliminate stress in your life but I think you should have emailed her, or wrote her a letter.

I agree with you ending the relationship with Jill, I think it should have ended long ago but I hates the way you sent her the message.

Congrats on the marriage and the baby, I can't wait to see your show.

I LOVE YOU BETHENNEY!!!! Just watched the last episode and you are freaking hilarious. Kelly is seriously crazy but I find it entertaining...You are by far my favorite housewife EVER! I am so happy for all the great things that are going on in your life!! Counting down the days until your tv show comes out!

Bethany; Congratulation on being pregant. Best wishes. Sorry to hear about your father's passing.

Your argument with Jill is way out of porpotion. Her and Bobby gave you a home and alot of support when you needed it most. When he got sick you needed to be there for both them. Don't you think that Jill would have needed her best friend when her husband was sick? Not flowers and a text message. You being there for them. Being a business women Jill would have to keep up with the running of Zaran Fabrics business trips ect... that does not mean she was partying while he lay in the hospital; she had a business to run. You on the other hand may have cookbooks to write and your own business and even though you got a boyfriend you could have made time for your friend in a time of sickness. You need to learn what comes first. A friend or a man who you barely know.

You took a pregnancy test in front of a camera crew. Just because it hadn't been edited and shown on tv yet doesn't mean the cat wasn't out of the bag.

Congratulations on the arrival of your baby girl!

My husband and I watch the show together. (I'm so lucky to have a hubby to watch my "vice" with!). We both adore you and are very iritated with Jill and LuAnn - who both used to be - or seemed to be - pretty cool.

Good luck and best wishes with your family and career!

~ Heather from central NY.

hey bethenny, congrats on your new baby girl may she be filled with Sugar Spice and everything nice! i think you will make a great mother, because of what u remember from your childhood. my childhood was not great either. my grandparents raised me and my mother resented me for the love i felt for them and not her because she never gave me any attention. u have more courage than i do , i would never have given my mother or father(whom i do not know) the opportunity to hurt me all over again, before he/she died. thank you for sharing your feelings with us. i can't wait for your new show! congrats on that. say hi to Jason for me. what a Cutie! christine from ohio

I will say this~~ Im a big fan Bethenney BUT asking Alex to deliver your personal message to Jill was not only out of line for you but also out of character, I thought. Alex definetly DID NOT handle the sitaution properly either! There is a time & place for everything, I was very disappointed in both of you I must say. It could've been handled alot better than it was, dont you think?

Bethenny, You have been my fav and my son's fav since we started to watch last year. I am so happy to hear about your baby girl and you will awsome mother. This year I have felt upset with Jill Z. she has no right to be mean to you or be part of your life unless you want her to be and share what is happening in your life... She does need a hobby she is just worried about being left out of the loop on all the gossip she wants to be the one telling the "stories". You are a good person and live life chick.... "It is what, It is!!!" thats what I say.....

My condolences on the death of your father.Isn't it amazing the damage parents can do to their children.May you find the peace to let go of the past and enjoy each new day as it unfolds.
I wish you and your husband much joy as you create a wonderful existence for your precious baby girl. May she be blessed with health and love in her life. Savor every moment with her because our babies grow up mighty fast. Forget all the insignificant actions of the other housewives and embrace your new family.I wish you joy and peace.

Congratulations Bethenny on your marriage and the birth of your baby girl! I am so happy for you and Jason and I know that you will make an amazing mother! I was really pleased that you chose to announce your pregnancy to Alex in the way that you did. Out of all the housewives she has consistently been by far, the most supported of you. And it's quite obvious that she, (unlike every other housewife) is nothing but genuinely thrilled for you. No strings attached. And that's the type of friend that everyone needs. So again, congratulations and my God bless you, your husband and your beautiful baby girl! And Happy Mothers Day!

I am sure I was watching the same episode that everyone else was last week and you DID ask Alex to deliver your message regardless of how it was done. Own up to it Bethenny, time to grow up. As for Jill, "kick her to the curb." You will have so much more going on now that she is simply the "past."

Geeze, I don't know,
when Alex was going to give the message had the kakamame idea she was going to ask JILL to be the godmother
Jill's mother is hovering around the edges, B should have called her

but in our tradition, each day you are born anew Baal Shem Tov, and during the Days of Reflection between New Year and Yom Kippur, Jill, in case you forgot, but since it is genetic you seem not to, at least deep in your heart,
these days are for correction, forgiveness, of those injured knowingly, unknowingly, between fellow women and men, the Old Man takes care of our bonds and surfeits and forfeits between He/She and we, we are to take care of each other. Each year we forgive. Not easy,
And forgive ourselves.

Gossip, high school, scores, kids, money, arrogance,
life is the game of telephone when you say one word across the room and wait to hear what it comes out as on the other side

You and Jill are a bit like that Cannot believe I actually was on the polar opposite of that message,
but I also agree you would have patched something at Ramona's if LuAnne had not interfered, insufferable, so melodramatic like a 19th c romantic tragedy let me help you off the stage, sob sob

Congratulations! What a joyous time in your life. Focus on your new family and positive things will transpire. That being said, I really miss you and Jill together! I always thought the two of you should have your own SHOW! Is there any chance for a Jill and Bethenny reunion? NOW THAT WOULD BRING THE RATINGS! Again, congrats on everything in your life. :)

Bethenny,

Congrats to all your success and your beautiful baby!
You deserve nothing but the best.

I adore you and Alex on this show...it is clear that you two are genuine and favorites to many fans!

Kick the negative out, preferable in the butt, the door!
(Jill, bad press, and that really sums it up ;) )

Mucho amor,

Lisset :)

Bethenney, Betheney, Bethenney--you go girl...cream always rises to the top! Not until after that fateful day when you plead with Jill to talk it and she acted like you were gum on the bottom of her shoe, the day you cried from your soul as you stood outside having been rebuffed once again by your (so called) friend Jill Zarin. You were absolute exquisite in that beautiful, stylish red coat. Aftermonths of watching the show, I realize what a true winner you are. The claws are out. You are right, your success has become thorn in her side-not to mention a few others. Jill can not figure out why you are more popular than her. She hates and that's why when she has her moent on camera she has to try to tear you and everyone else down. She is very very insecure.

Now that you have your own show coming up, she won't be able to retract the fangs. Keep your guard up and your West Coast sisters will keep watching.

By the way I thinks its time Jill stop playing "Oh how I took her in when she had no where to go" card. It old. That's what friend's do and they certainly don't throw it up in your face every chance they get.

You are strong, talented and Jill didn't deserve to know about the baby. If she had made up with after the many advances you made, she would have been one of the first to know.

Cudo's to the great catch (husband to be)...that has some of the women on edge as well. Notice that Romona's not the hater she used to be. She's happily married to a fox and successful in her own right. She doesn't need to pull you down.

I think Alex is the only real friend you have. As you climb that latter you will need to know that!

Hi Bethenny,

I absolutely love & adore you!!! Congratulations on finding such an incredible man & I know you both will be awesome parents! I finally realized what might be the underlying reason Jill has become such a horrible person...could it be that you, Bethenny, got your own show and Jill didn't? The green-eyed monster is rearing its ugly head!!! Think about it. I know that I am so looking forward to watching your show, can't wait!!! I hope Alex crosses over to your show, she has been a true friend to you:) Take care & God Bless

Bethenny --
I just read about the birth of your little girl. (today is 5.10.10) -- congratulations!!
Ignore all the bad stuff out "there"...this is a great time in your life and I wish you all the best.
The first few seasons, I was a fan of Jill -- that has all changed. She's gone off the deep end with her emotions and how she treats people. How many times has she sent people to stand up for her -- keep Alex and your side and enjoy your new life.

Bethany...you don't need Jill or any of the phony housewives!!Between the Countess, Kelly and Jill they are a cruel and snotty bunch of biotches!! Horray for Alex for standing up to them!!

Congrats on your new baby girl! I wish you the best. Thank God you're done with Jill...can we add Luann to the mix as well. I don't like either of them because they are truly nasty people. Jill talks out both sides of her mouth. She is the true nasty gossip on the show. The sad thing is...she can't see it. Doesn't she watch the show? Luann will stab any one in the back and she loves to stir the pot. 'Countless' indeed! No wonder he kicked her to the curb. Ramona is another one that needs a mouth check at the door please. As long as Jill is a spokeswoman for Kodak I will never buy any of Kodak's products.

Hey B-
Congrats on your marriage and new baby! Enjoy it! :) You're definitely my favorite on New York and I can totally relate to your issues with Jill. It's hard when you've been friends with someone for so long and you finally get a chance to be happy with a man and your girlfriends don't truly support it. Selfish women have no place in your life or your friendship circle. Be strong girl! You're fantastic!

Well I was just flipping thru and saw this I never looked at this particular houswwives, but what I got from three episodes I feel Jill is sincere and that in real life you two should make up I have friends that i fight with and on some deep stuff, true friends get over those issues. Stop listening to Alex, she has her own negative feelings about Jill so she is feeding off your problems with her and just making it worse You are older than me Im 26, If I can see this I know a lot of people do. I don;t think you really meant that you were done because you could have told her yourself, thats what a real woman or friend would have done in my opinion, there is hope, you make your own descision, if you feel that it is over u shouldnt have to second guess yourself. No relationship is perfect be it intimate or friendship, If it is thats when you should think that something is wrong, and for you two have been friends for so long I know it hurts, don't cut her off, i dont know all whats have transpired because I just saw the show this season, but u can still be friends from a distance I just dont think u should cut her off because in real life all of the housewives talk about each other, and none of them are talking by themselves if you get what i am saying But good luck on your baby and marriage

Hi Bethany,

Congrats on the new baby, I hope after going through such a wonderful experience you will find it in your heart to forgive Jill and move on...I think you both had a really good friendship and should not give up on it so quickly, I know Jill has done and said some awful things...but what the heck everyone needs a second, third or even a fourth chance....ps...this show rocks...too much drama....

Your so fake...

So happy to see Jill finally got what she deserved!......It's OK for her to put it out but when it comes to receiving it, she is destroyed...wawawa.........& now she won't even accept an undeserved apology from Alex...why am I not surprised!

Bethenny has been the target of Jill's biting remarks for way too long and finally Jill could be the butt of her own actions! Bethenny and Alex will always be my favorites!

WTF!
Congratulation on all the good things going on in your life.

Enough already with the Jill thing! Jill got what here hand called for!

I am Team Bethany all the way! You are great to watch! As a lot of other people wrote, it saddens me to see your relationship with Jill. I do also really think she means well and really think she cares deeply about you, just has a hard way of dealing with all of the crazy drama. Her loud mouth personality is just her, so her email to you about your pregnancy and to keep it quiet was her way of reaching out to say she cares. Good friends should be held close, they are hard to find!

Life is too short to fight over something you really don't even know why you are fighting. Alex is a sweetheart but any time she has had to confront anybody she becomes a stuttering bumbling hive. LuAnn thinks she is better than everybody with all that countess BS, the last time I recall, we live in the United States of America, and there are no royal families. So I am not impressed with the countess stuff. But, you, Jill, and Kelly are real. That's why you and Jill should make up. Again, life is too short to be at odds with each other. Oh by the way, tell Luann - her song sucks.

As a JAP from LI I truly bonded with Jill the first season. Being an only child, I also had a strong connection it fall apart was Jr. High. WTF! I am a thyroid cancer survivor myself and although nobody wants to hear those words, you have cancer, it's not that big of a deal. I had a 15 mos. old daughter at the time and it crushed me. I made it through with , reach out. ordeal. Did you really have to send in Alex to deliver the message?! How Jr. High!!! Jill deserves better and you are worth better. I hope you both come out with a sense of growth and foregiveness. Best Wishes!

True friendships do not involve keeping score, or taking notes on what the other person has done wrong. It is effortless, it is forgiving, it is loving someone for who they are. If you can not do that with someone, then you are not a real friend, and have nothing.
Bethenny knows how to keep it real! You are the best one on the show! I am so happy for you, all good things and best wishes to you Bethenny...

Congratulations!!!!! you are my favorite.

I fell bad for you and JIll. I really think she means well. We all have issues, but she has been there for you and you there for her as well. LuAnn is bad charma for the group.

Bethenny,
I wonder if you read these blogs anymore?? anyway I watched the show last night and I love how Jill is crumbling. I am not a mean person, but hey she caused this misery in your life! Alex just delivered a message. Publicly, heck they all signed up for this to be public?? Jill is way out of control, blogging, public appearances with her bashing everyone. Alex is her new enemy. PS. Love Alex, she is a true keeper where friends are concerned. Don't be upset with Sonja, she is great. Her only comment was to be understanding, relax--she is one of the good-girls. You got Kelly scared, she is fragile and a single mom-cut her some slack. She is having dreams about you?? if true-stay clear you don't want to be the cause of any nervous breakdown! I'm sorry to hear about your Dad's passing, he is in a better place.

Love the dynamics between you and Alex, I know you adore her and vice-versa. Remain true to yourself, and do what you want when it comes to Jill. I think she is headed to a true negative place right now. Surely she is not a favorite to many viewers, and it is all of her own doing. Her mouth and lack of compassion is her true enemy. Very low self-esteem. I'm embarrassed for her when I see her on talk shows! Overkill is one word that comes to mind when I see her. Jill needs some help and I hope she gets it. Reach out to Sonja if you get time. I sense she is her own woman and doesn't get manipulated too easily. A good sense of humor and large hearts is what you should be surrounding yourself with. Jason is a doll by the way-congratulations! See you next week.
Love Jewel

Sorry to hear about your father's passing and hope that is a door you can now completely close and move on.

Congrats on the baby!

Congrats on the dissolution of your friendship with Jill. She is going to isolate hersefl with the rest of the housewives, just wait and see!

Congrats on the your new show. I bet Jill is envious as hell.

Bethany I watched the show last night with my husband and reminded him that you were on the Martha Stewart apprentice show about 4 years ago? I think that you should of won!! Totally loved ya then and do now! I just can't believe all the bickering these ladies are doing. You are my favorite on the show. You stay grounded even though you are navigating through some major events in your life. You are aweseome!! Agree with other viewers.. love your new friendship with Alex :) She's cool too! I am so happy for you and your hubby plus baby.. you go girl!

Bethenney,

Congrats on your marriage and new baby!!! Now, I feel that what you and Jill had or have is real friendship... She was like your older sister and you sometimes don't get along... We are human!! We all make mistakes... Jill is your friend, but something about Mrs. Mccord makes me cringe. She is quiet but you know what they say about the quiet ones... You have to watch them. Anyway, all the best to you and your family.

P.S. I pray that you and Jill can reconcile. God Bless You!!

Bethenny

I am so sorry for the loss of your father.Now it is time for you to look forward of thanking care you your husband Jason and the coming of the most chariest baby.

For all those so call Lady will get there time,what go around comes around twice over.
Thank you
Bobbie