Bethenny...love you on both shows. Stay away from Kelley. I know crazy and she is crazy...for real...not your standard girl with a little neurosis. Bryn is adorable and looks like you have a great husband. Don't ever lose focus on them. Regarding Jill and all her flaws...we all have them...including you and me and everyone else in the world...however...when friends are going through serious shit you are supposed to show up. I had a friend for 25+years and when I got married she wasn't there, when I was in the hospital about to give birth to my baby who was very early ..24 weeks...she wasn't there. When my daughter passed 2 weeks after being born she wasn't there. When I gave birth to my 2nd child she wasn't there. Not once did I hear I'm sorry and not once did I see proof that she was going to be different in the future. I had resentment too. Give Jill a break and apologize. Let feel her feelings and show her you want and will be there in the future.