hi bethenny. we are currently on season 3 over here in scotland but enjoying it so much. iam soooo sad about jill and you i so wish you could kiss and make up. i truly believe that had you got the chance to talk in private at ramona's house without the "countess" having her little tea party then "we have a car waiting darling" speech that you and jill could have made up. i was so sad watching that episode my heart went out to both of you. i don't know why jill was being so stubborn as you could see it bothered her you two not talking because she always wanted to know who was talking to you and who wasn't. the "countess"unforunately got her hooks into her and manipulated her. her friendship with jill is soooo false as she is! i just hope that at some point in the future you can kiss and make then you WOULD have it all. by now you will have had your baby(congratulations.xx) you have jason you have afabulous career all you need now is your friendship jill. i wish you jason and you new addition to your family all the best for the future and hope all works out well for you. as you say GO BIG OR GO HOME.xxxxx

Dear Bethenny:

I feel like we are sisters! We are soooo much alike!
Anywho, just wanted to say your husband seems to be sooo supportive of you and he is better.... all the way around then your last boyfriend. (sorry, just being honest). He is much more nice looking!! I wish you guys blessings with your new edition, Baby Bryn!

However, Bethenny... I do feel like you should eventually forgive Jill, in your own time. If we want forgiveness then we have to forgive! I do understand your point of view. I believe the fight happened at a bad time. She is guilty of holding the grudge, allowing it to continue, sensationalizing it, talking to others about it and being unforgiving instead of trying to work it out and trying to communicate and get an understanding.
But all in all, Bethenny you must admit, Jill is a good person under all of that. She is human and make mistakes and I do believe that she loves you and valued your friendship. I think she has learned her lesson! You guys have to keep the lines of communication open. You cant now be guilty of not letting it go too or being unforgiving like she was. Start slow and build the relationship by constantly talking and letting know each other know how the other one makes them feel.
My advice is life is too short. I dont think that your friendship has to END and be soo FINAL over something that started off sooo Stupid!! It did escalate into something unneccessary, but it is definitely salvageable.

You guys are worth it. You guys and the relationship is worth the Work!

Angela

Really it is very interesting for me to read that post. Thanx for it. I like such themes and anything connected to this matter. I definitely want to read a bit more soon.

Bethenny was hormonal! so for those that don't get that by now, pfft. I blame the whole LuAnn outburst etc. on that and I'm glad you apologized. We should all be blessed to be pregnant, engaged and happy and I'm happy you have all three.

This is for "Cathy in LA": Oh my God, get over yourself!
The Balls comment is meant to be funny ,get used to Bethenny's sharp wit, it's part of her appeal. Don't confuse it for being mean-spirited that's more of Jill & Luann's MO. (Perfect example: Jill's comment about Ramona's non-milestone marriage and having to be married to her). At least BF calls it like it is, to their faces. She extended the olive branch first but was abruptly dismissed.
Bethenny doesn't need a lecture from you.

Bethany I've always been a fan of yours.. but sadly I saw some of your conceit come out when Alex delivered your message you referred to her as a whined up doll but it does not stop there. You actually continue to say she has your balls as if she does not have a spine without you. Do you poke at everyone in your life. I'm sure it gets tiresome and very old. When you and Ramano was walking the bridge I felt bad for you, now I'm starting to think maybe Ramona had a point but bad delivery.
Goodluck and remember the golden rule, treat ppl how you want to be treated.
Cathy in LA.

Hello Bethenny,
Given your commitment to health and fitness, I assume you'll be breastfeeding your little one. Is this the case? And, if so, I hope you'll consider sharing about your experience. Americans need to see more breastfeeding to realize that it's the normal (not just the best) way to feed a baby, and you're in a great position to contribute to this.
Thanks!

I am so sorry about your fathers death. He was who he was , so let things go. I am 67 years old and still miss my Dad. But you can go make things turn aroung with your child ,learn from mostakes. Love and happiness to you and your. Now JILL and RUPAUL the countess ,you can do without.

I really love watching you and Jason interact. He is so clearly not media hungry and while I wouldnt say you are...you are never one to shy away from press its clearly good for you to have someone in your life to put things into prospective like the club scene. I found it hilarious that Jill only cared about speaking with you till after she found out you were engaged and was worried how leaving would make her look. As if she could do anything more to show us what a terriable person she is this season. The Countless Countess was so on par that night. What a silly woman LuLu has turned into. Congrats on your new life...may it be everything you want it to be.

Congrads to you and Hubby !!! Can't wait for bambino to arrive. Jill, lil lulu and kel gel are just not worth your concern.....onward and upward my friend and God Bless you and Your Beautiful Family. Ramona needs to get a grip, but I do like her honesty as well as yours and I think the two of you will help Alex acquire that quality in her personality also. Can't wait for your new show Bravo to Bravo for giving you this...So glad Alex and Ramona are coming with you.
I shall stay tuned....

Bethenny, I have really grown to admire you this season. Last season was good but I feel as though we've watched you go through some real challenging stuff these past few episodes. I can't say I totally agree with all your choices but overall I do believe that your intentions are good. I truly think that Jill's head has gotten too big and that she can't see past her own head!lol.

Keep your focus on your family...YOU, YOUR husband and Your baby!! Your immediate family should be your number one priority. This show seems to breed negativity.

I just admire & really like you Bethanney. You seem so down to earth and real. You & Jason are gonna be fabulous parents. Congrats on all of it!

Bethenny - does Jill and LuAnn even realize how
stupid they look and sound? I mean, they're being
filmed. It's like Junior High all over again. When
LuAnn brought up the snake remark at that time, I
thought, um yeah, you're doing it again, you're
acting like a snake. Foolish women. Run Bethenny
run and don't look back. Good luck.

Bethenny you are my favorite NY Housewife! Congratulations on the engagement and your pregnancy! Jason is a great guy and you are so lucky to have him in your life. I like the way he puts things in perspective and how he takes care of you. You deserve that and so much more. It's too bad Jill is behaving the way she is. She's missing out on so much, but that's her problem for concentrating on herself and not listening. For her to think the worst of you before giving you the opportunity to talk to her is unconscionable. She is obviously not the friend she kept saying she was. I thought it childish the way she and Luann got up and left when you entered the Gotham Party. I think Mario may have been right about the Countess. What is that saying? Having money doesn't necessarily mean you have class. Hang in there and I'm looking forward to the remaining episodes.

Bethenny,

You are such a strong woman! What I love about you is how you are real...your emotions are always genuine. Bottom line is with friends like Jill seriously who needs enemies... She has got to be the most catty women in the world...

You are insanely gorgeous

congrats beautiful

remember this baby will have the unconditional love for you that you missed out on as a child....

-Heather

hi bethany:)
first of all "CONGRATULATIONS" on your pregnancy:) my dear like everyone said you are a true honest loving person im glad ive got to know on tv, you keep being the way you are because in my book you are so true to the heart and you are very real as a person...im not worry about you, i just feel sorry for the other housewives they really need to wake up and smell the true meaning of a friendship...by the way im sorry for your lost, keep on being strong for your family, God Bless.

If there's any chance that you are reading this Bethenny...Just wanted to let you know that I am loving these last few episodes where we get a glimpse of Pregnant-You in the interviews. You are already gorgeous, but you pregnant is tearfully beautiful! Congrats and keep making US laugh!

God Bless You B..Congratulations and your husband seems like a gentleman a truly nice Guy, that is what matters you need a real man like Jason H....good for you SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE..I can not wait to see the pics of your gorgeous blue eye baby !xoxoxo

Does Jill realize that her actions are being video taped and the world sees what a liar she is? For her to say that she went to get Bobby and that's why she got up and left when Bethenny came in was such a joke. Can't wait until the reunion show and I hope B calls her out on all that crap!!

Go bethenny. im so happy for you, forget those mean girls who think there the boss. How do you like that LuAnn's new song we all know money did not buy her class or jill they have none,and the third stooge kelly. Best of Luck

Bethany, congrats on all your blessings. I just want to say you're a hoot. You crack me up. I like listening to your off the cuff comments because you come up with the most hilarious things and I have to laugh. If you had your own show, I would be there in a New York minute.

Iam so happy for u. You will be a great wife and mom . As far as Jill , Jill who??? She is drama and who would even want to be around that. You are way better than that and her. That's what's wrong , she cant take you being happy cause she is not happy with herself. She is mean and acts likes she 14 . You need to worry about your family and new life and forget thoes kind of friends. At our age who needs that. Your baby will fill you up with time and love .

First of all Congrats on both your marriage and your addition to the family!
However, I am very disappointed in you. Did Alex really need to be your messenger? It was immature and nasty, don't behave like a school girl. I agree that Jill is acting a little pompous this season, but she was always there for you, and so was Bobby; did you really need to be this nasty? Also, shame on you for being mean to Bobby and not acknowledging his Congratulatory wishes last week. You appeared to be very cold toward him as well, isn't your beef with Jill? Please get it together, your beginning to come across as a ruthless, selfish wench...I know your not. Good luck and Best wishes.

Bethany, I think you are such a great person. You look like you are the only one on the show that has her life together. I say forget about Jill she only wants to be your friend when it works for her and makes her look good. So congrats and good luck!!! =)

I thought more of you until you had Alex deliver your message to Jill. I have enjoyed you for always speaking your mind but why you couldn't speak it to Jill's face yourself? Still have lots of love for you-Good Luck with the marriage and baby!!!

Beth...I am so happy for you & Jason!! Now it's time for you to move on with your wonderful life with Jason.. Forget about Jill & Lu Ann.. you don't need them in your live sweetheart..

Love you Bethany. U r our favorite housewife ever. But u r getting too famous for the show. Having Alex as a messenger maybe not fair to her but u were in ur 1st trimester. Still love u. Please don't lose your edge!

Ok let me say this, I watch the show for the housewives not for the assistants. PLS reduce the time that Bethenny's assistant is on camera because It is not good TV it looks too fake and scripted or false, don't know; maybe they're just not that close, but there is something awkward about this that makes me fast forward it. I'd like to see Bethenny but I just can't stand the dummies conversation with her assistant.

You are my fave Housewife! Some of the women cannot stand that all of your hard work and good character has paid off in a good way. Keep being yourself.

Hi Bethany,

I am is so happy for you. My advice to you... Don't try to repair your relationship with Jill. She is nothing but a control freak. You have good things going for you like Jason, Baby, your books and more. Keep smiling and count your blessings. You look more beautiful when you smile. God bless.

Congratulations on the baby and your nuptials. I'm sorry about your Father, that's tough, but you have so much to be grateful for and to look forward to. Just try to enjoy this new life that you've been blessed with, you certainly deserve it.

What breed is you dog?

Bethenny....What are you doing sharing a private personal e-mail from someone with another friend as we saw you do with Jill's e-mail you read to Alex? We were very surprised you would do that after the fit you had when Jill shared yours. We all wish you well, but you have a good deal of maturing to do and I hope you get there. You are way, way too interested in the cameras. There are times when you just don't need to broadcast everyting. Some things are dear enough to keep out of view. Like I just told my girls and their Mom, I have to stop watching this stuff. PLW

Bethanny you are on a reality show and took a pregancy test on camera and you did not think it would get out. Really?? Jason also knew this please you being upset really came across as unbelievable.

OH! BETHENNY WE LOVE YOU. OF ALL THE HOUSEWIVES EVERYWHERE, YOU ARE THE BEST!!!

Bethenny, first off congrats on the baby and marriage, I have a son and he is my world, and I'm sure you will feel the same. =] second I have to tell you that you are my favorite house wife out of all the house wives even the ones in the other states. I love your humor, and your sarcasm. I would be your friend in a heart beat if I could, haha. Anyway good luck with your life, and be yourself! =]

Cajun queen,
Bethenny's NEW boyfriend is also named "Jason". Remember when Bethenny joked "I only date guys who's name is Jason"
Different guy...never married, no kids. hope this helps

YOU ARE PREGNANT, WHY ARE YOU DRINKING!!!

Bethenny- you are my favorite NYC Housewife- You are the funniest and the most real! Love your witty sense of humor and sarcastic comments about some of the other fake housewives, like Jill and LuAnn!

I adore you! You are real and are such a positive image for all women.

Congrats on the Engagement and Baby!! Shame on the people talking about you in a negative way. I think you are a inspiration to those still looking for love happiness and babies!! :)

cajunqueen1959
Is this the same guy you were dating last season. I am confused. Wasnt his name Jason also, but he was bald and short. Or, is the one you are pregnant by a different guy!

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She is married to and is having a baby with Jason 2.0. She broke up with balding Jason 1.0 in season 1.

I'm so happy for you! Congratulations for everything (wedding, pregnancy, career success)! Focus on the wonderful things that are happening to you. Jill is not the type of person you need in your life. I don't think you should hold a grudge against her, but I don't think you should ever consider her a true friend.

Congratulations on your wedding and pregnancy! I, too, was expecting when I got married. Boy, is it hard to find a virginal-white-wedding-maternity-dress.... but I did. That was almost 14 years ago and I have 13 year old twin boys who are my hearts! Bethenny, you are entering into the most magical, wonderful and fulfilling time of your life. Don't allow jealousy, pettiness and small people cast a shadow on you. You are tough as nails, girl... as I like to say: you have brass ovaries! Claim it!!

To: cajunqueen1959

Payyyy Attentionnnnnnnnnnn, Have you not been watching this year. This Jason is a wonderful man, they are now married and expecting a baby. The show is on Bravo, T
hursday nights at 9:00 P.M.

What a rude comment this is.

Bethenny, you are great, but why haven't you opened up about the fact that your father has passed away? People keep writing that there is still time to reconcile with him, and I think it should be known that he is no longer with us. It would clear up some confusion. Good luck to you and Jason and the baby. Maybe the old saying you will forgive but you will never forget applies to Jill.

BETH GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE IT IS GOING SO GOOD . I RESPECT YOU FOR SPEAKING TO JILL YOU ARE STRONG FOR THAT ,BUT NOW IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON FOR YOU AND YOUR NEW LOVLEY FAMILY.

You are my favorite New York housewife! Enjoy the great things that are happening to you. Jill is just a trouble maker and is trying to make everyone pick sides. She acts like she is in highschool and you were right when you said there is always something with someone with her. Alex is a true friend.

Dear Bethany & Jason
First of all I would like to say CONGRATULATIONS on the wedding & pregnancy!-:)
I hope all is well with you & your Father. My hats off to you for the efforts you put into trying to reconcile with Jill but I would cut her out of my life @ this point. Jill is just showing her true colors.,remember what they say about keeping your friends close but keep your enemies closer! Best of luck to you & Jason & your new bundle of joy!