Enjoy your new life with Jason and the baby. I adore you and how bright and funny you are. I felt devastated for you while you were going to see your father. I look forward to you show and please just be you because you are so on top of everything and you really get it. Love to you all.

Bethanny ..when you look back over the events with Jill be open to forgive..She is trusting and sheltered and had no idea Luann manipulated her "royally". Count this ...everytime you two had
difficulties Lulu always found a chair or couch to pile out on and tell Jill how hoorible she was attacked or treated by You.
Remove sister lulu from the equation and get your best friend back. She prefers to rub shoulders with people with much more money than manners. Anyday...

TO NY FAN:

WHAT SHOW HAVE YOU BEEN WATCHING THIS SEASON!!!

YOU ARE SO OFF BASE I JUST HAD TO ASK???

Classic Cat:

You are so far off base in your comments!!

Team Jill huh???

Bethenny first off congrats to you and Jason and Baby too!!

I was beginning to think what a friend you would be to have, after all of the negativeness from Jill you still kept trying to get her to talk to you...
As I said on facebook soon you will be over it and may not want to accept her appology...What a loss for her!!

I say move on girl she is just upsetting you and bringing
you down, glad you can watch the show and see what Bobby had to say such a positive man with some sense to make out of this foolish fued...

Jill is wrong and when she figures it out she will realize what a good friend she lost in you!!

Jason is right surround yourself with positive people...

Your my favorite and I think your are the one that's
"Up There" and you are getting all the good things in life
and I am sincerely happy for you!!

I heard you were going to have your own show I'll be watching for sure...Please don't bring Kelly on as a guest. I'm beginning to be able to tolerate Romona and Alex & Simon the season going on now...

You have been honest and always spoke your mind and that is what a "TRUE FRIEND" does...

Jill is either not the person she portrayed herself to be in the beginning of the Housewives season and it looks like the true person is coming out...
Green Eyed Monster"...

I liked Jill and you as pal's but Jill has let this go way too far and should of accepted your appology the first time around instead of playing pick teams for the game...
Good Luck With The New Show!!

My best to you and your future with your new family!!
"May You Be Blessed With Happiness Always"

Country Girl

Hi Bethany,
I am a huge fan of yours please don't change, you are the main reason why I watch the show you are my favorite housewive.

Bethenny, I am so happy for you! In your case, you can have it all! A wonderful man, career, marriage, and mommy! The last one, a mommy, the thrill and love you can't ever imagine feeling. You will think of this baby every second of every day and not be able to function except for "the baby"!! You go no, I will be able to do all things I did before, yes you can, but the time you do things, when to go, are now going to be quite different! Its called BABY TIME!! You will be so much more heakthier emotionally without Jill in your life! Talk about being TOXIC, she needs to stand in front of the mirror!! I love her scene when she says "Ive been ambushed", she did that to Kelly!!!And I thought it was very big of you to admit that when you were around Jill that she had problems with all the ladies one time or another, and you know what she is "capable of" you were there and your part, or not part.
Don't feel guilty, you tried one more time to say your sorry and it was about winning. Even Bobby knows, he asked Jill if she was doing the right thing, good comes back!!Off with the old and In with the new, I hope your new show is awesome. I hope we get to see the baby and he or she is going to be beautiful, look at the parents. Congrats and I hope you send snarkey remarks to Countless Luanne, Mario gets a Gold Star for a funny.

Bethany, I hope you will forgive Jill. Life is way too short to carry grudges. Your mind, body and soul will feel better when you forgive. We all say things we wished we hadn't, we are only human and we make mistakes daily.

OMG, I just saw the banner and the new housewife is there, I don't like her spirit she comes from a place called HELL and I like heaven so bethenny I hope your new show is temporary!!!

Bethanny,
Alot of the bloggers say that you are "real" , they have forgotten to add the rest of the saying..You are real alright, you are Real Rude...You say you take responsibility for your words and actions, where was all of that when you went to Ramona's house to "attack" Jill??Yes attack is correct, you blamed Jill for everything, and what is with the crocadile tears, you sure can turn them on at will...It seems that it would be very difficult to be friends with you...Jill is better off without you...

Please don't become too appropriate for your brand. I could see you on a panel on a show that does social commentary where your snarky wit would make the audience hysterical with laughter. Please don't kill the best part of you. You are really bright. And quick. You are too good for just food. Maybe after you are super rich, you can do the snarky panel. I adored your cameos "Hey there Countess, no one's house has more . . . ."

Hi. Bethany--I think you hold your groud when it comes to jill and Luann--they are something else--the ex-countess thinks she is above every one else and jill is a fool for thinking she is really her friend. I am sorry things went wrong for you and jill, I don't she was really your friend at all--you heard Ramona say she likes the under dog--well you are not so moved forward--congrats on your marriage and pregancy

Whoa Milka step away from the PLACE OF NO lol

Bethenny called it like she saw it.

Congratulations on your marriage, baby, and career. I am truely a Bethany fan!

First of all, I am appalled by the lack of utilization of spell check by the bloggers! Second of all, I would like to tell Bethenny that I am one who has also not had the best of luck with female friends. At first, it is a love affair with women friends. We try to show our beautiful and giving side, and then things turn. Suddenly we are apologizing for things we didn't perceive we have done. Then, the apologies become more frequent until we begin to question our own integrity. We begin to wonder if we are the person we thought we were. We begin to reflect on our upbringing and wonder how we never learned how to become a good friend. Then, a huge blowout with a friend makes us think that maybe it is others who are in the wrong. NEWSFLASH: They are! Other women will take advantage of those who seem weak or in need so that they can feel superior and that they are the true rescuers and nurturers! Ramona was right with her "underdog" statement! Don't let other women use you to feel superior. You are an incredible businesswoman and soon to be mother--forget any past doubts and move on--your future son or daughter needs you to be strong. Incidentally--it looks like you are having a boy!

This reply is for Milka. I think you are thoroughly confused. She said that her husband doesn't understand the drama not that she hasn't been a part of drama. Each fight Bethenny has been in I felt she handled as I would. The catty issues the other ladies have dump over on to Bethenny. An example being that the ladies call her a "press monger". I think that the press probably prefers to talk to Bethenny as opposed to the others. I know that the reason I keep watching is because I believe in her as a person. I think she is good all the way to the soles of her feet. Through and through. She got the spin off because different, better things are happening in her life i.e. a husband and a baby. Please take your negativity to Jill or LuAnn's blog where it is appropriate. Cheers!

Congratulations Bethenny and Jason on the recent wedding and the baby on the way. Stay true to yourselves and you will continue to do great.

I wish you all the best and happiness for your life. You deserve it. Please realize that LuAnn is a jealous woman who has lost a lot in the past year or so and is clinging on the the one thing she has, Jill. This is a disturbing and unhealthy obsession and eventually Jill will realize that LuAnn has been manipulating her into not mending things with you. Pay them no attention. You are supported and loved by your those you keep around you, your husband, and your many fans. Good luck.

I don't like either you or Jill. You definitely are the Queen of Snark. You have something nasty to say to the camera about each one of the housewives. Jill on the other hand is a busybody, wanting to get in with everybody's business and wanting to be told first about everything. I think her mother preferred you to her, sorry to say.

Hey Bethenny,
You're the only "sane" one in the bunch!! So sorry you had to go through the "crap" you went through. I myself am dealing with my family in the same way you are with these
women!LOL! The only difference is I can't (necessarily) leave them as you can. Too bad you got mixed up with such a Group of unhealthy, unkind, uncaring women, (with the exception of Alex!) Congratulations with your new "hubbie!"
Ballet1

Bethenny,

Just wanted you to know that I think your are the most down-to-earth gal on this show. You continue to keep it real in a world of insanity. I wish you the very best in your new life with Jason. Enjoy being a mommy. Jill and Luann are ridiculous!!!!

Things that make you go Hmmm..........
"Jason comes from a very simple background. He doesn't
understand massive drama, catty interactions and anger."
Hmmmmm. Guess that means he's never seen YOUR OWN reality
show, drama queen antics over the last three seasons. Right? Please, Bethany. Your commentary is as scripted as your life.
You've had plenty of dramatic, not paricularly stellar high
drama moments on RHONYC the past three seasons. Veins bulging,
lips trembling while your yelling at Jill "just say you're
sorry, and it will be done" at her auction. Calling Kelly
"Madonna" while having a catty moment at Jill's charity
meeting. Tears falling as you spill all to Jill's mother about your tortured life in their Hampton's kitchen. Calling the Countess a "snake" and a "dumb drag queen" this season. The snarky comments and high drama moments just keep coming. You are not above it all, as you contend. You are wallowing in the muck with all the rest. It's called television, Bethany. "Good energy"
isn't what got you your spin off. Drama is. Be honest. At the end of the day, drama is what made you. Own it and embrace it. Cheers.

I Love your book Bethany, and my baby is due in July, I wish you show was on now, but I am sure it starts after you have the baby, which will still be so great to watch. It just would have been neat to watch a pregnancy reality show while pregnant too.. why can't they do this stuff in real time? LOL

Eating healthy is so hard when pregnant, that book will be great if you do one? Or have you? Im a little out of the loop.

So, you and Jill? huh? Too weird for us fans who just loved the Jill and Bethany show. Too bad, but ya know better than anyone what went down, and I think we totally don't know everything. I can see Jill perhaps wanting a little more recognition than you can really give her, you may not have ever been able to please her when it came to I guess, what... "helping you out"? From what I saw you were a busy hard working women, really what did Jill do for you? So curious, I would just love to know, so what you stayed with her that summer, she invited you and you cooked for her family, that's what friends do. I don't get it, and the comment about "Bobby putting food in your mouth"? Really Bethany? You were starving? LOL Us fans miss the two of you hanging out, but I am so looking forward to you new show, because I think you stand alone just fine, forget all these B's, they drive me nuts, really, sucha bore anymore.

Good luck with your new Husband and life, and I just can't wait to hear what you have baby wise, and see that little bundle of joy and love. I am on my second, and I am older than you by a few years, and it's so f-rigging fun and amazing your going to just DIE! I can just see it.. it's the most challenging thing you will ever do in your life, and if your a good Momma, and the most rewarding.. ENJOY! Only a few more months of the pregnancy, you can do it, and please don’t over do it girly, trust your limits.

Love ya always! So excited for you! Congrats on all your HAPPINESS! Mozel! is that right? I love that Andy!

Bethenny
I am so happy for you that you have found love and a child. I hope you have more then one so they will have a sibling. You are going to make a wonderful Mother. You really are a go-getter and have made a real sucess of your. Your pretty, your smart and have a bod that woman envy.
Not for nothing, you are very sarcastic. That was a terrible message you left for Jill. No wonder she cried and saved that horrible message. I could see your side and hers.
Watch what you say around your baby. Even at three they will become snarky like they hear others. Sometimes they swear. I have been a nanny for 15 years. I know them well. good luck to you

1st of all "CONGRATULATIONS"! You have worked hard and been very patient to achieve your current happiness level! Just like God put a new and better man in your life, he will also provide you with a true best friend (which Jill is trully not). When you cried, I cried, because you have done everything that a BFF could do under the circumstances. And the crap that she is doing along with countless LuAnn De Lessep (who seems to be a desperate housewife)is totally low class and infantile. You don't need it. It is stealing all of your positive energy away. Share your happiness with people who truly love you and forget about the ones who want to hold on to you to collect an unending debt. You will never be able to pay Jill back, she is like the mafia. Forget about her! She is a horrible individual. Cut her out like cancer. LOL Stay strong, wise, intelligent and witty. Enjoy your new family! Deal with the BS later. I just love watching you on the show!

Congrads to you and Jason. I cant wait to get your book. Wish I lived in NY so I could send Jill some cheese with that whine. One word would help Ramona (and I am not even kidding) lithium. Kelly, the sky is blue. Countess class with no couth is like vodka and no vermouth. (hey thats a goody)

BE HAPPY ALWAY!!!!! That is the real revenge. LOL

QT

Bethenny,
I was best friends with a woman for over 30 years.(Since high school.) We talked almost everyday; I took care of her kids, we traveled, etc.I was even good friends with her husband.(My Bobby.)At the time,I too was single. Then her sister moved back into town (a LuAnn type) and everything changed. She "un-invited me" to a party I was planning on going to, because her sister didn't want me there. We patched things up, but they have not and will not be the same. It was like a death and no matter how much time goes on, it still leaves a void.I am just happy for you that you have acheived all your well deserved romance, baby & book success, while Jill stews about every negative thing she can and hangs on to poisen people like LuAnn. She "runs" with fabulous people and then talks behind their backs. How mean & childish

Bethanny,
You hit the nail on the head when you said that everything was fine as long as you were willing to just tag along with Jill's life and it all fell apart when your own life started moving along.
I have had to leave behind friends and family members who acted the exact same way - As long as I just joined in with whatever was going on in their life they were happy and "supportive," but when I wanted to have a life of my own, without them, as they have without me, all hell broke loose. Suddenly, I was selfish, cruel, etc. - My only sin: Not being avaiable to them 24-7 and daring to do anything that doesn't involve them.
Sound familiar? Your story with Jill is EXACTLY what my life has been over the last 2-5 years - awakening to this pattern with many people in my life, doing what I could to have firm boundaries with them, and, ultimately, learning that these people don't respect boundaries. They want it their way, all the time and if you aren't willing to sacrifice your own life for their's, they will attack you, in increasingly more hurtful ways, until you simply cut ties.
Their story will always be that YOU are the horrible one, but you just know in your heart and stomach that you aren't.
I know it's hurtful to lose Jill's "friendship," but someone who truly loves you, recognizes you as a separate person with a life, needs, feelings, etc. The phone works two ways - Jill didn't pick it up and call you, either.
You were operating in the normal world where two separate adults have two separate lives and touch base when they can.
Jill is operating in Jill-world where everything must rotate around her and she doesn't have to contribute much, unless there is some pay out for her. I suspect she very carefully "keeps score" of what you've done for her and it is NEVER as much as she susposedly has done for you - Yes, she very "giving" and everyone views her as so generous, but you as her close friend - did it feel weighed and measured? I suspect that it did... She's not giving because she cares about you, like normal adults, she's "giving" because of what it will get her. This is clear in her comments. I also suspect she sometimes says "yes" to things when she really doesn't want to, because that is what she thinks is "the right thing to do." She thinks she'll get points for it and no one will know how she resents giving or doing what she did - But, anyone in her vicinity can feel her burning resentment. Sound familiar?

You, my dear Bethanny, are a true giver - you give from an open heart without calculation. And, when you can't give, you say no. How simple is that! You give your love and friendship, thinking it is reciprocal, but the truth is sometimes, it's not - there are selfish leaches out there who will latch onto you and then blame you when you don't revolve around them. Sad fact of life.

Go ahead with your life and be happy!

Bethenny, you don't need Jill to take care of you anymore, and she doesn't know how to be any other way with you. I hate to say it, but Ramona was right (in her weird way of saying things). There was a time when you needed nurturing, and she was there for you. But as soon as you started standing on your own two feet (emotionally), and things started coming together for you in a big way, she was lost. She still wanted you to be dependent on her and so she started grasping. Naturally, you resisted and told her (maybe too bluntly) to stop it. Jill took that as a slap in the face because it implied to her that you did not appreciate all she'd "done" for you. In truth, I'm sure you do appreciate and will never forget it. But how things change! You have flown away from the nest and she's pissed! Ali is going to fly away too one day, and she'll definitely need a new "project" then.

I'm sorry this break-up with Jill has happened via voice mail and speaker phone. It makes me recall the time you and Jill conspired and used speakerphone to disingenuously invite Alex for tennis. But guess what? Even after he "knew" he was the butt of a mean-girl joke, he conducted himself admirably, and came out looking better than all a yuz. That was bitchy. So neither of you should be surprised to have the tables turned, frankly. Jill always loved your sarcasm at the expense of others, yet when she is the recipient, not so much. What goes around and all that.

Even so, I am appalled that she is so insensitive to your pregnancy and engagement. Hello? Does she not recall how all-consuming those two major life changes are? You did NOT ignore Jill when Bobby was sick, but she ignored YOU. She could have called and told you how sick he was and how scared she was. But she didn't. Instead, she assumed "victim" status and held on to her resentment like a warm blankie. Well good for her. Let her keep it. She doesn't deserve your loyalty and friendship -- two things that obviously mean very little to her. It was appalling for her to use you as more victim fodder by holding up her speakerphone for LuAnn to eavesdrop on your conversation like that, and LIE to you about it. You were clearly reaching out and putting your heart on the table, only for her to throw it on the floor and stomp on it. To me, that is far more unforgivable than any impertinence from you. It shows her true colors. She is phony baloney. Where's the love, Jill? I'm sorry her friendship turned out to be just like she is... all glitter and no substance.

TEAM BETHENNY,
Don't cry Bethenny. She was never your friend. If she was she wouldn't of let one comment ruin the friendship. No one is perfect especially Jill. Jill used to be one of my favorites. She has dropped to a new low. Lu Ann is just trying to hold anything in her slowly crumbling royalty. Love doesn't die Love is understanding and forgiving. There must of been another reason Jill had you in her life. Doesn't seem like love. I know it hurts and truly does feel like a death. Hold on girl things will get better. Be prepared, the sharks will be out to take a couple bites at you in your sorrow. What doesn't kill you will make you stronger. Truly believe the it is totally JILL'S LOSS!

Bethenny,

You remind me a lot of myself. I don't take bologna from anyone and say it like it is. My favorite comment of yours was at Ramona's BBQ. When you said "Ahhhh, who are you, the caterer"? Why you talkin to me? Anyway, you really have been making a huge effort trying to patch things up with Jill. Each week, I feel you are treated unjustly, because you are not a follower. This happens to me in my life. I don't follow the crowd, I own my life. When I move off the "friend" path, I know it is frowned upon. You are my favorite lady on the show. You are REAL, honest and not a Hampton's snob. I think all of your success is because you are a leader. Don't ever take crap from the Countless. You are right, she is a snake. Luann and Jill are so immature. The speaker phone....that is a low blow and childish. Wish you all the success you deserve. Chin up skinny girl!!!!!

Bethenny, I liked Jill last season but this season she is Jeckyl and Hyde. I would stay as far away from her as possible. I think she is just jealous of you now. There is definitely something wrong with her this season. She and Luann are 2 nasty rats (snakes). LOL Big old LuAnn with that big tongue and Jill with that big flat butt, they both make me laugh every time I see them acting like they are ALL THAT. LOL Good luck with LuAnn finding a man. Jill's voice is killing me. That nasaly twang gives me a headache. You were right to tell Jill if Bobby was all that sick why was she running all over town having a good time. I'm sure Bobby was sick and it's never too late to call him. You don't have to send him a message through Jill. Now Jill is sending Kelly threatening emails about you. What's with this broad? Is she 12?? Stay away from Jill. I wouldn't wamt her for a friend. She always has to have someone to put down.

Bethenny - it broke my heart to see you reach out to Jill and be treated with disrespect. You acknolwedged the "problem" and wanted to talk it out before it escalted even further - however Jill blew you off and that is not acceptable. If you guys were that close, then she needs to respect you and realize that you took a huge step by reaching out to her. In terms of Bobby having cancer - can't say for certain that you not calling was the "right" thing to do; however been in a similar situation with some good friends and you just don't know what to do; you did email and send flowers and Jill did not respond back to you. Could you have gone the extra mile and made a phone call - yes; but Jill could have acknolwedge your email and understand that these situations are not easy for the outsiders either particuarly with everything you have going on. With that in mind, I am thrilled that you found someone to share the rest of your life with and about to have a baby! I believe you are a very strong, indepedent, loyal individual and you have been lucky to "get it all". Make it out to the Nebraska area for a book tour-I'll be there. Good luck Bettheny and Congrats!!!!!!

Bethenny -

I just watched the latest episode - I DO NOT understand how you can put up with any of those women, besides Simon's wife. I can't believe how immature Jill, Luann and Kelly are.

I am so excited about your success with Skinny Girl, your great relationship and your upcoming little one! I think all the women are jealous of your much deserved success in all facets of your life.

Jason is absolutely right - you need positive people in your life and there is no reason you should spend any more time than you are forced to with the other women on the show.

Best wishes - you are an amazing woman!

Oh yeah...I forgot to add (damn...never posted and now I can't stop!LOL)

Back on the same high school behavior theme I mentioned before...I find Jill's penchant for replaying private messages and putting people on speaker (specially in front of others) incredibly childish...quite sophmoric....she really does need a hobby!

I've never posted on one of these boards before, but watching this past week's show was difficult (seeing you crying on the sidewalk was heart wrenching) and this show (as well as the OC one) is my one guilty pleasure (I don't usually like realtity tv) so here it goes:

You are better off without Jill in your life (or the "jills" that could come into your life). She reminds me of those uber-sensitive, clingy, insecure High School friends that start to call you "best friend" before you know if that's what you really are, hang around you and ON you 24/7 and the minute you want to "breath" they get insulted and offended. They go psychotic if you talk to anyone else because they feel betrayed. She needs psycho-therapy in a bad way and to stop smothering people. She would have, eventually, swallowed you whole and spit you out (ok...she did it anyway...but it would have happened anyway and later you would have been even more hurt and confused) so good riddance to her.

As for Bobby being sick...she could have been more precise and told you what she needed. I'm sick and tired of people assuming that others can read minds. If she needed you there she should have said something. If it was really that serious she should have let you know...not wait until now to call you out...leave her and the "countless" in same psychic snake pit...they deserve one another.

Wishing you, your new husband and that wonderful baby you will have the very best in life...move on, stay strong...you deserve the happiness you have been gifted.

Bethenny,
You and Jill have always been my fave housewives up until now. The housewives that drove me crazy in the beginning have seemed to grow and try and leave drama behind, case and point, Ramona and Kelly. That being said sometimes the deeper the friendship, the deeper the wounds are when hurt in a conflict. I think you should both apologize and make nice, life is short, and every woman needs more in her life than just a man. Both parties were wrong, Bethenny for not being there for a friend, and Jill for dealing with the conflict in a child-like manner. Bethenny, I love love your sense of humor and sarcasm, but there's always room for improvement. Words are powerful, and you should maybe consider the fact your put-downs, jokes at other people's expense, and attacks on a person's character are wrong, not nice or becoming. You're more beautiful and classy than that. Lastly, give LuAnn a break, she may be butting in, but she has just gone through so much. I don't believe she had evil intentions, and I don't believe she deserved to be attacked the way she was by you.
Congrats and best of luck with your new family!

Bethenny,
Let the haters hate! the next time Jill or whomever throws shade your way, thank them for doing their job--hating on you because of your success. It is so evident now that because you don't seem to "need" them as much anymore that there's the root of the issue.

I loathe catty, childish arguments orver miscommunication. Keep doing yur thing. Focus on your husband, baby and business and I bet money that one day, Jill will come around trying to make nice. When this happens, remember your past--be cordial but keep it movin'. Putting LuAnn's ass in all that bullsh** and LuAnn so depserately putting herself into that drama is so pathetic.

You don't need it. Jill has a deep need to be popular. She said it herself on one of the previous seasons about how never being popular when she was younger has always bothered her.

Be thankful that God has revealed to you who the best people are for your life! :-)

Bethenny you are the best! I wish you and your new husband a long and happy life together. To see you upset and crying in the latest episode broke my heart, you deserve a lot better than Jill's silly teenage antics. She is acting like an ass, and needs to stop before she gets the boot from the show. A ton of people have turned on her, and are not interested in seeing her return for another season (ditto THE Countess).

Bethenny!

LOVE YOU! You will always be my favorite housewife.

No one is perfect, but you own your mistakes. You made a sincere effort to address things with Jill and she behaved ridiculously bad!

Putting you on speakerphone and then lying about the reason and who was there...yes, she lied. Love how she denied lying by just not telling the whole truth.

You are up against a very sad and childish individual who is used to bullying others into caving into her demands. Take the high road like you have been trying too!

And the Countess who behaves with very little, if any, class... don't get me started. You so have her pegged. I still laugh over the episode a season or two ago when she told you to always introduce her as the Countess and to not speak to the hired help... She's a nightmare.

So glad you'll have your own show!

Congrats to you and Jason - best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy and the birth of your first child!

LOVE YOU!

Holly

Hello Bethany,

I think the season really took off for me when I watched your attempt to resolve yours and Jill's issues. I wasn't sure which house wife I really liked until tonight. I am new to watching your show and I have to say you really showed class when you tried to reach out to Jill. After watching the other episodes I can see that you have shown to be a very classy lady. I saw your responses to these women through out this season which may not of always been great choice words on your part. However I have not seen any malice in your words or that catty gossip that everyone has seen among the women on the show. Your other half is right you should heed his advice in surrounding yourself with positive people. You will be very pleased with how peacful your life will be as a result. The women on this show have good sides to them but woa to the person who crosses anyone of them with the exception being Romona ( the one who met her husband on the internet). Sorry I am still trying to get familiar with everyone. She's someone who adds a slight calmness to some of the drama. Anyways I wish you luck and felt the need to comment. You appear to be a very kind, strong, and intelligent lady. All which are very great qualities that one would want in a good friend. I'm not saying your perfect or that you at times have not created drama but it takes a lot of character to try to resolve some of these issues.

Renee

Hello-
you will probabley never read this, and I have never commented on a blog, but just feel so strongley on how unbelievable these women are. I watch the show because I think that you are hysterical! Good for you for always being "REAL". Congrats on all of your success personally and profesionally you earned it. You are someone that I would love to have a drink with! Cheers!!

bethenny u were my fav since the beginning and you still are noww!!!!!! you are soooo much more mature then jill and "countess". i think they are jealous of you and want to bring you down you were busy and idk y jill is sooo envious of youuu? and luann needs a lifee she is a liar and snakke - you said it rightt!!!!! congrats and the baby and wedding and i hope everythingg works out perfect for youuu and stay strong and know we are all rooting for youuu :)

so not cool how jill was laughing and blowing off the steam with countess luann after she had totally obliterated any chance at a real friendship with bethenny. meanwhile bethenny was devastated and felt crushed. bethenny, you don't deserve that and jill doesn't deserve a good friend like you. congrats on marriage and a new baby girl on the way!

I AM SO PROUD TO BE ON TEAM BETHENNY!! I've been watching this show since day one, and I have always been on Bethenny's side. It's a shame that Jill isn't on the same team because I was a team Jill person until she decided to play the meddler between Kelly and Bethenny in season 2. I don't know why Bravo thought that the show needed her. I DVR this show, so, enless Kelly is in a scene with Bethenny, or Ramona, I hit the fast forward button. As far as Luann, other then the fact that she is Native American (I am part Native American and so is my husband), there is NOTHING interesting about her. And that old school, diva-esce, low down diggs that she is always giving can take a hike. The audience is not stupid, we know who and what she is. And it's not pretty. Ramona makes me laugh so hard my belly hurts. She tells it like it is, and if you don't like it, she doesn't care! I cried when she was talking about her father. She and I had a very similar childhood, and, what happens to you in your childhood can affect you in your adulthood.
But, I digress, back to TEAM BETHENNY!; I'm so proud of you Bethenny-the best revenge is success! You have a tall and handsome man in your corner and a new baby on the way. Tell 'em all to eat their heart out!!!

Bethany,
Suck it up, you were wrong not to visit Bobby in the hospital. That does not excuse Jill's behavior, but you need to own your misstep.

Friends come into your life for your life span or for a season. Figure out which one Jill is and make amends. Not for Jill for you.

Forget the camera BS and the photo opt moment and be true to the example you want to set for your baby.

Congratulations on your upcoming marriage and pregnancy.

Love you....smart, beautiful and funny! congrats on your marriage.Hope you can repair your friendship with Jill someday....

Bethenny, please stop making the Countess for Jill and your feuding. You said you want the old Luann back well I want the old Bethenny back. It's great that you are married and about to give birth but please do not forget where you came from and the friends that help you get to where you are now.

Dear Bethenny,

Hopefully you read this. I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry for everything you went through with Jill. I can relate to how you felt in so many ways. I lost my best friend last year too, and she "sided" with my other good friend, so I pretty much lost two very close people in my life in a very short time. I tried to reach out to them to make things right, and they didn't want to reconcile or meet me half way. It can be a very painful experience with a lot of tears. Just know that everything happens for a reason, and you have yet to meet a lot of people in your life who you will become close with.

Congratulations on your wedding and baby, I am so happy for you. No one deserves it more. Keep strong during the rest of the viewing of the Housewives show. You are great.

Bethenny!

Congratulations and All the Best! I wish that you and Jill would be able to resolve the issues, but I do not think this should be a one-sided apology, she should apologize for her disrespect and immature actions in the situation. I noted the same with Mario's countless remark, she felt he should have apologized to LuAnn, maybe. They like to dish it out, but they cannot take it; do not cry over spilled milk.

You've been my favorite house wife from the beginning. I can't wait to see you as a new Mom. I have a 2 year old & I find she has turned my life in a whole new direction. I'm so excited for you and Jason. (((HUGS)))