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Last night Heather McDonald, regular comedian on Chelsea Lately, my favorite show, came over to watch the reunion part 2. We did a live video blog and talked with fans. It was so much fun that I will definitely figure out a way to do this all the time to watch my favorite Bravo shows with the fans Live. I will live video blog again on Tuesday night to watch the new Real Housewives of New Jersey. Check jillzarin.com for the secret location! If you don't know already, I am a computer geek. I love to twitter, Facebook, MySpace, blog, whatever with everyone. Last night I was on all of them at the same time on two computers. So if you were trying to figure out who was doing it all...it really was me! Yes, it is me posting pictures after a party at 3AM! What did I do before computers came in the 1990s?

I don't know what feelings came over me when I saw my mom during the reunion, but I started to cry. I am so grateful to have both my parents, not only alive, but also healthy and still married happily after 50 years. A few close friends have passed recently and it reminds me of how precious life is and to cherish every moment.

She didn't know how to retaliate so she was immature and said mean things about me AGAIN. Shocking.

I think Ramona is just mean sometimes. There was no reason to bring me up in the conversation she had with Bethenny when she called her the "underdog." I had actually been at a doctor with Allyson that day. She was in a lot of pain and Brad came with me to the doctor at Mt. Sinai. Ramona invited me over to see her new line of skin care. I didn't want to disappoint her, so I brought Brad and Ally with me since there was not enough time to drop them off. Ramona went ballistic and wouldn't let Brad come in. She said it was only girls. She was so rude. So I left. She didn't know how to retaliate so she was immature and said mean things about me AGAIN. Shocking.

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499 Comments
11/18/2009 - 11:11am
Mara Pizzi

Hello Jill!
I love your way espontânio and glad to see things and adimiro much to his mother Gloria. Here in Brazil we use a stick to draw a wonderful person of "MARA "!!!. This staff is perfeitona for you and your mother Bethnny.
You people are MARA!
Kisses

11/09/2009 - 6:48am
Ruth - Australia

Jill, you and Bethenny are the best. Love you guys. You are the only true real people on this show. You have hearts, brains and common sense. You are the stars that keep this show shinning bright. You go girls.....:)

11/09/2009 - 5:07am
Melbourne Mel

Hi Jill,
You are the reason my husband and I watch RHNYC. We love to sit on the couch on Monday night (in Melbourne, Australia) and have a giggle at what you girls have been up to. We just watched the reunion show and marvelled at your poise, class and humour in the midst of the chaos of bitchyness and hysteria. We are definatley "team Jill". My husband thinks I am the Jill of our social circle, and frankly, I could not be happier with that title - way, way better than a countess! Keep keeping it real, Jill. We are loving you!

10/10/2009 - 4:08pm
Dania

Dear Jill,

I am 14 years old, and I love this show. You and Bethenny are definitely my favorite. You both keep it real. Unlike a few of your cast members, you are modest and self-aware. You have a lot of pride in what you do, and you make sure to show that. Whether it is being a mom, or wife, or businesswoman, you show an immense amount of determination, care, and love. I think if there were more people like you, the show would have less drama, even though that is what adds the zest to the show.

Keep doing what you do!

09/30/2009 - 6:12am
mmc

Hi Jill, I wish some of you from RHONYC would have blogged once or twice this summer.I know it was your hiatus but it would have been nice to keep current.I would just like to know when the next season starts and who has signed on.I hope all is well with you and your family.

09/27/2009 - 9:02am
Fans From Detroit

Elaine: Shana Tova! You were the real reason we tuned into the show at all. You have a big heart. You are always doing things for others - whether it be for charity, or your friends, or special things no one else knew about. We love you here in Detroit. Let any negative energy bounce off because we can see who you truly are.

09/23/2009 - 5:18pm
Natsguy

Jill, I have to admit that watching the Housewives is very much frowned upon by my fellow men, but the truth of the matter is that relationships of all kinds are the essence of our humanity so I take my lumps from the guys and continue to watch. The reason I like you is that you have made mistakes but you never try to rewrite the story (as if the cameras would let you) and are always ready to admit to your shortcomings. Since when is it a crime to make a mistake? You have demonstrated how people should be HONEST about their actions, how they affect everyone else, and plot a course of action that is positive and helpful. Keep on telling it like it is but make us Honesty freaks proud of you as we always have been.

09/03/2009 - 7:26pm
Faith

I love the show!! My boss took all the girls in the office on a trip to NYC! I was so excited to visit Zarin Fabrics. The visit to your store was a highlight of the trip! The staff were very welcoming and helpfull. I was so excited to purchase an official Team Jill shirt! Best Wishes to you and yours!

09/01/2009 - 10:04pm
Viewer

Jill I feel like I know you but of couse I dont you are a wonerful sweet and very sincere women. Wonderful wife,mother, friend, and business women more power to you may you keep inspiring us all to be ...... more better,,,more perfect in evey aspect of our lives .thank you!!!

08/31/2009 - 10:59pm
Brooklyn

Jill You Rock! I love your forwardness, and how you can handle anything that comes your way! Your not only beauitiful on the outside your the same on the inside! I cant wait to come back to new York to try to meet you in person, you are really sweet! Your whole family is! Keep up the great work!

08/25/2009 - 3:11am
California-Sandra

Hi Jill: I think that you are truly a great person. I love the way you handle your self and the situations that arise. I truly love the Housewives of New York. Each one of you have your own styles and yours work for you. I love Bethany and thought is was wonderful for your mom to welcome so lovingly in her time of need (emotionally). Hope to see more soon.

08/22/2009 - 8:36pm
JOJO

Jill you look absolutely fabulous. Tell us all how you lost so much weight. You are beautiful. I love that you are so close to your mother.
I wouldn't trust any of the other REAL H/W of NYC. I thank God I don't have FRIENDS like that.

08/12/2009 - 3:13pm
Ainash

HiJill,
You are an amazing woman... You are my Favorite.

08/09/2009 - 11:36pm
Robert

Jill you and Bethenny are my favorites. You are so funny and opinionated but in a good way. I hope you guys come back because I cannot stand Ramona and Kelly they should really be kicked off tha show. I hope to meet you someday.

08/07/2009 - 10:18am
Sherry

Jill,
YOU are the best lady on this show!!!! I love your sense of humor and your compassion for life and family. Keep true to yourself and the others you can trust.

07/28/2009 - 9:04pm
jason palm beachj

Jill i saved the best for last.Your a LADY!!!you can see that the charity comes from your huge heart,Your mommy did a great job.KUDO'S to gloria.(bye the bye i wrote her first)I love the way you dont take any shit from anyone even Bethanny at the charity event,you didnt need to apoligize and you didn't.right on.you clearly have been blessed with a very nice life,husband and beautiful young daughter.No matter what your doing in your life you always have time to help other's with there problem's and give great advice.Everyone you help appears to listen because you offer such great suggestions.YOU ARE TRULY THE GLUE THAT HOLD'S THIS TOGETHER.YOU CAN'T EVER LEAVE!!LOOKING FORWARD TO NEXT SEASOON.!!!!!!YOUR THE BEST.

07/28/2009 - 9:04pm
jason palm beachj

Jill i saved the best for last.Your a LADY!!!you can see that the charity comes from your huge heart,Your mommy did a great job.KUDO'S to gloria.(bye the bye i wrote her first)I love the way you dont take any shit from anyone even Bethanny at the charity event,you didnt need to apoligize and you didn't.right on.you clearly have been blessed with a very nice life,husband and beautiful young daughter.No matter what your doing in your life you always have time to help other's with there problem's and give great advice.Everyone you help appears to listen because you offer such great suggestions.YOU ARE TRULY THE GLUE THAT HOLD'S THIS TOGETHER.YOU CAN'T EVER LEAVE!!LOOKING FORWARD TO NEXT SEASOON.!!!!!!YOUR THE BEST.

07/25/2009 - 5:00pm
jeanette

I just want to say jill and bethany are my favorites,jill has a big heart like me and she does not come off phony like some of the housewives on other shows. Jill is truely a real person. And bethany what can i say she is the bomb she is everything i wish i could be I come from a life time of abuse and dont know how to pull out of it mantally. So i will be watching and trying to learn from both of the girls. God bless you and you familys. Jeanette

07/23/2009 - 2:40pm
Michelle

Jill, I love you to death! I love your mom, Ally, Bobby, I love your life. Now tell us- whats the deal with Jon Gosselin?

07/22/2009 - 6:21am
Shelle B

Hi Jill. Of all the girls, I would love to be your friend. I grew up in Brooklyn and lived on Long Island most of my life. I am living now in Florida for the last six years and love watching you on Housewives is like a little slice of home, minus the matzoh balls soup. I wish you and your family the best, Shelle B.

07/17/2009 - 2:39pm
Carole

Jill, I admire you so much for you devotion to your lovely daughter, your husband, and your friends. You are one classy lady.

I enjoy watching the show. Living in a small town of 3300 in Kansas your lives are only something that can be dreamed of. Seeing the sites, the restaurants, the shows, and the fashion let me pretend that my life is a little more exciting then it is. Don't get me wrong...I LOVE my life. It just doesn't have the glamor that NY does.

I have a hard time understanding how you can be a friend of Ramona's when she acts like she does. I think she has a serious problem and I feel so sorry for her daughter although she seems pretty grounded.

I hear Bethany will be leaving the show for a new show of her own where she will be planning her wedding. I am so happy for her, but I can't imagine RHNC without your friend with you.

I LOVE you mom and I sat and cried while watching her talk with Bethany. How sweet of her. Now I know why you are so sweet.

Hugs!

07/16/2009 - 10:50pm
Meggie

Jill you are the most classiest of all the housewives of NYC. Having grown up in NYC which I love and now am in MO, you truely are the consument classy and wonderful housewife. Of all the "hosewives" series the women of NYC are the classiest. I am wondering how you feel or if you've watched the NYC Prep. I am totally shocked about how these kids live and where are the parents? They take priveleged to another level and don't care about others, they seem to only care that they have money and that's all and they live their lives that way. I am sad that their parents did not teacht them the meaning of life and helping others. How sad how sad.
Meggie

07/13/2009 - 5:13pm
anastasia

Jill you're the best i love you!!!!!!!!!

07/07/2009 - 9:58pm
Viewer

To Ally: Where did you get your dress for your mom's charity event on the show? It was ADORABLE! I know it's Alice and Olivia but I don't know where to get it? Also, how long ago did you get it? SOOOO CUTE!

07/07/2009 - 5:39pm
Lynn

Jill, you are by far my favorite NYC Housewife. You represent the epitome of the modern women, which to me is the woman who can successfully balance motherhood, relationships both with spouse and friends, a career, personal time, etc. I would like to respond to your comment regarding working hard = a happy successful life. While I do agree with this concept, I would like to shed an alternative light to the not so glamorous side of this phylosophy. I was very poor as a child. (Not looking for sympathy....just keep reading) My mother is a very intellegent woman (I'm talking she reads the dictionary for kicks and grins). However, she struggled financially as a single mother and worked two jobs for most of my child hood. We lived in some nice places and in some not so nice places (I'm talking a trailor about as big as your closet with a hole in the kitchen floor.) I made many friends, until someone found out where I lived. You can only imagine the ridicule my sister and I were faced with because of poverty. Fast forward a few years.....I get pregnant at 16. Bad choice right? Well, with the support of my family, I graduated highschool on time. I then obtained a full time job while going to college at night and eventually obtained a college degree. I bought my first home at 20 years old and thought I was well on my way to the financially secure life I longed for so much as a child. Fast forward to present, during my pregnancy with my son, my husband was laid off from a job of seven years. It played a huge negative domino effect for our family. Of course the rising costs of EVERYTHING did not help. I won't bore you with the details, but will get to my point. I agree that hard work is always in the equation of a financially successful life. However, I have come to believe that luck must also play a role in the equation. I know many hard working, smart, beautiful soles who are in the same situation I find myself in......wanting more. Please do not take this the wrong way, I do not begrudge your success. On the contrary, It gives me hope. (For myself and my two insanely brilliant children) I just want more people in your position to understand that my lack of success is not a reflection on my drive, sense of responsibility or desire to succeed. Who knows...maybe I will always struggle....or maybe I will get that life changing opportunity I have been searching for. Thanks for inspiring me and many, many other women.

07/04/2009 - 4:03pm
Susan

Hello Jill,

Greetings from Canada! I just recently got to see both seasons back to back and was immediately hooked. I've tried to watch other versions of the RH series, but didn't "meet" anyone whose life seemed to be about much of anything. RHNY is different, because there is so much more going on than people tanning by a pool, etc. Each woman/family has a dynamic life and lifestyle - and much like New York itself, there is a vibrancy that I found especially enjoyable. I particularly want to mention your charity work and how devoted you are to it. I know how much effort and coordination it takes to have a successful event, and was so glad to see how it all came together. (And yes, Ally was very eloquent and naturally confident that night - no wonder you are so proud of her.)

Can I also just say, you have THE most gorgeous hair, and the skirt you wore at the fundraiser was simply amazing... Each member of the cast has a sense of style, but for me you are the style icon of the program!

Wishing you and your lovely family all the best,
Susan

07/04/2009 - 3:42am
Butterfly

Hi Jill!
Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy your show. Got totally hooked on it this year. You and Bethenny are the reason I watch. You're both real people. Can't wait for the new season.
I'm neutral about LuAnn and Alex but I can't stand Kelly and Ramona. But I won't say any more 'cause if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all! :)
Take care and I loved seeing your Mom as well!

07/03/2009 - 1:00am
Joe

Hey Jill;

You are my favorite on the show and I am kinda embarassed that I watch, but I am hooked.

I think if Ramona went to a Psychiatrist, she would be diagnosed with something, she is really kooky, I would stay away from that wing nut and Mario, I really wish you would punch him out....
He is a tacky loud mouth like his wife and he sucks at tennis.

Take Care

Joe
PS...Alley is a cool kid, I like her, must get it from her moom.

Stay Real

07/01/2009 - 7:53pm
Viewer

Hi Jill,
I thought you and Bethaney where to funny as you both were trying to figure out a way to say sorry to Alex and Simmon.
I love the way you all take us places in New York and the Hamptons ya'll are always fun to watch.
However, I thought HWNJ was terriable. The down right intentional mean nature of those women was so hard to watch.
You are all my favs good luck and see you all next season.

06/26/2009 - 3:25pm
Aspiring Jill

I can't get over how patient, courteous, and loving you are to your friends and family. You are *the* role model for young girls. And obviously, you are my role model :)

06/26/2009 - 12:27am
Jonathan

Jill I must say u r a very classy and down to earth woman. U r all that wrapped up in beauty. I really enjoyed watching u and ur family on the show, but what the hell is wrong with Ramona? I think she might be a little jealous of u, I don't know. Take care

06/25/2009 - 12:13am
TeriB

Jill,
I think you and Betheney are so cool- you are a fantastic person. I love the show with you and B on it.You 2 are funny, beautiful and very real !!
Romona is a nasty one and her eyes look crazy when she speaks .She is downright mean and I cringe when she demeans people which she does on a pretty consistent basis. I actually think she has Borderline Personality Disorder.Yucky.LuAnn is a countess- I like her as well. She is kind.
Simon and Alex are eccentric, but I like them, they are very interesting. Romona was a wacko when she went after Simon.

Kelly is a dud.

06/24/2009 - 8:49am
Mercedes

Jill - Were you surprised to have your comment about children who are spoiled having a hard time adjusting read on the New Jersey reunion? Really, Jill, you of all people!!!!!

06/23/2009 - 10:37am
Valorie

Jill,
I think you are real. Your classy, charming, and seem to have morals. I love that you let your dog lick your nose on camera (it just shows you being you). I think your mom is great!

06/22/2009 - 8:03pm
Laverne

hi jill

I Think you are extraordinary,classy and down to earth,i would love to have you as my boss if i were to work in the USA. your energy, your style is to be admired.

06/18/2009 - 10:06pm
Viewer

Jill, love you, love the show...

I'm dying to hear more about your dress in episode 11 van kempen party - the aqua one, with the v. i'm not usually into fashion and i'm so obsessed with this one? anyone!!!??? thanks!

06/18/2009 - 9:20pm
Viewer

Jill, you are my favorite housewife in NYC. You are the most real person who truly has a heart for others and a good head on your shoulders. You are not mean spirited as some of the other housewives are and I enjoy your kindness and humor. I enjoy watching how you are a good child to your parents and a good parent to your daughter. With all the fame and publicity out there that goes to others' heads I trust you to manage life well and generously. I fear it sounds condencending, but I'm proud of you. Much continued success.

06/17/2009 - 2:41pm
dawny50

just wanted to tell you i enjoy the show and miss seeing you all when will we see more thank you

06/17/2009 - 3:02am
janet

hi jill,

well this is the first time i write to a real housewive. jill ur my favorite and of course Bethenny! too. ur both very honest and carring. never change. " jill and Bethenny" bffs!!!

06/16/2009 - 11:27am
jett

Jill I absolutely love you! You are my fav and you do so much for others even if they really are selfish like Ramona. You, your daughter, and Bethanny are awesome!

06/14/2009 - 3:58pm
sweetd

Jill, you are a treat to watch! I have no idea how you kept your cool at the party with Mario regarding the tennis match. My goodness, he really looked like an idiot and you my dear maintained such grace. He looked like a spoiled child-a suck! boo hoo! lol

06/14/2009 - 8:48am
Teresa

Jill - You are my favorite on the show.
Kelly on the other hand is my least favorite - I think her better than anyone attitude has to be stopped. "I don't use my name to promote anything" This was a charity event to support your daughter's illness.
My own daughter has stage four breast cancer and has been fighting the good fight for 5 years now. I think it is important for people to know that if you are young your breast's are dense and lumps aren't detected until it's to late. With doctors recommending mamograms at over 40 it's to late for the younger victims of this horrible cancer. My daughter was told just after her 30th birthday. After many operations and numerous chemo and radiation treatments it still grows on. The cancer went to her bones - first her hip bones then the left side of her skull-pelvis-spine and now the back of her skull. Even through all of this she continues to work counseling troubled children and their families. Her work keeps her going. I couldn't be more proud, she is a much stronger person than I.
She loves to travel and has been trying to go to as many places as she is able. Two years ago my son gave us a trip to New York. We had so much fun going to plays and shopping in SoHo. When she had radiation treatments to her skull her hair didn't grow back in some places and also one eyebrow. So she has to wear wigs all the time. She hates it, she told me once that it was one of the worst things about having cancer. But still she carries on. Keep up the good work with your daughter's charity- from one mom to another- Love ya

06/13/2009 - 8:46pm
Bitty

I ADORE you Jill!!! You have been my favorite since day one! You are the funniest, most down to earth of all the ladies (I use that term loosely on some). I can't wait to see what you are up to next. You make the show and I think the others could learn a lot from you. Keep on doing your thing and don't let the others HATE...tell them to CONGRATULATE! Rock on sister!

06/10/2009 - 8:55pm
Bill

Jill,
You are one classy lady. I admire you for standing up for what you believe. Please stay above board and don't allow the heat of the moment change who you really are: a great down to earth person. Would love to meet you and your Mom (another great lady) someday.
Bill from Long Island

06/09/2009 - 4:21pm
Viewer

Jill,
What did it feel like to be out of control?
The show was going well, and positive. Than, it went kinda psyco. It was sad.
I think you handled yourself well, along with the other original cast members. You hit the situation right on the nose. Theres a smart Woman, Jill Zarin!
Rock on!

06/09/2009 - 11:12am
Annett

jill i love you! u r honest and funny!

06/08/2009 - 5:40pm
california

Hi Jill,
I enjoyed "most" of the season, it did slow down a few places, Kelly time.
I understand BRAVO wants the controversy, hence Kelly, so Kelly stays. I find her and her life really slow. Kelly's laugh seems to be acting.
Thanks for the entertainment and best to you.

06/08/2009 - 12:51pm
Courtney

Jill you rock! I love you, you are so funny!

06/08/2009 - 7:22am
Cat

Miss Jill,
Just wanted to add to all the other comments! Love you and your family. You are a GREAT Mom and wife. Thank you for all the great work you do for other people! Your Mom is wonderful also, please pass the word that the world knows what a wonderful job she did raising you!!
Cat from Iowa.

P.S.
Love you new adopted sister Bethenny! ;) she is fab!

06/06/2009 - 8:45pm
Fredricca

I loved your style and spunk on the show. I believe that you and bethany have a really great friendship. Ramona, tried to throw a monkey wrench in your closeness. I am glad that the two of you talked. Because she never ever had anything bad to say about you.

I also thought that on the reunion that the girls were not accurate Bethany was very straight forward with whatever she had to say about anyone.

06/06/2009 - 8:03pm
Alexandra

Jill,
You are my favorite character on the housewives! I love your way of free speaking and your fashion sense. I am now looking for a guy with a big PP (private plan), I thought that was hilarious.

06/06/2009 - 7:27pm
Viewer

jill
i use to really think you was the most down to earth out of all of them .
this season i dont know what it was it was like you was sucked up in the popularity , gthe money the media the high school mess . Kelly never deserved the treatment , come on jill your too old for that , i thought you were classy . your family daughter and husband are nothing like that , what happen jill ?
please come back to the original jill . im not goiong to go there with bethenny she is a HATER . truly and a big baby ramona she is sooooo weird to me lamo
the countness PLEASE alex i love her she stays away from all the drama and i think thats why you guys make her an outsider . in other word jill if this continue im sure many viewers will agree we wont be back .

06/06/2009 - 2:41pm
Pamela Ann

I get a kick out of all of you. I do however wonder why people who say: "I say what is on my mind" but fail to understand how rude they are. You can say what is on your mind, but you need to do it with finesse. Ramona has none and it isn't cute. You are too old to act like this.

06/05/2009 - 10:30pm
Kym

Jill,

You are genuine, perceptive, generous, strong, gorgeous, smart and funny. You and Bethanny are the show. You two have great chemistry.I admire how direct and honest you are, especially how you deal with people. I strive to be more like you. I'm grateful you are on the only good housewives show.

Your Friend, (even if you don't know me)
Kym :)

06/05/2009 - 9:38pm
former nyc girl

Jill you are funny and I like yout daughter, she is a very sweet girl.
But I think more than detox it would help her arthritis regular exercise (swimming, etc), calcium, chondroitinsulfate and sorry weight loss.
I was very dissapointed when Jill asked that pleasant Nigerian orphanage director if they have TV and horses in Nigeria. It was embarrasing.

06/05/2009 - 12:24pm
Debbie

Jill I just adore you, your husband & daughter. My daughter is named ALI also, spelled differently I think. You are a class act, you speak your mind, you have a wonderful heart and obviously never take for granted the wonderful lifestyle you enjoy. Kudos to you. I also love Bethany. A real woman as well who speakes her mind and yet as you, tries to relay delicate constructive criticism. Not an easy task with that group! Hang in there and I look forward to next season and seeing you and Bethany maintain your obviously higher element. Deb

06/04/2009 - 11:07pm
manina

Hi Jill,

The show is very entertaining. I love the New York "accents", the "in your face" attitude, the fashions, etc. I don't love when you criticize each other, unless it is in person and don't love the meanness that some of the ladies spread, i,e, Ramona. She really likes to sow discord amongst the group. None of you should play her game. She is nobody's friend. Even though I don't love Kelly, she's kind of out of it, at least she is not mean spirited, just confused. If it was up to me Ramona would be out. Send her to the RHOC.

By the way, you daughter is so beautiful. I saw a picture somewhere in this website and I thought she looked like a young Sarah Brightman. She looks like a fairy.

Thanks for the entertainment.

06/04/2009 - 10:41am
jendalee80

Hi Jill,
You and Bethany are my favorite!!! I love that you take no Crap from anyone. You speak your mind, but in a classy way. Cant wait till next season. Take care

06/04/2009 - 8:30am
STEPH

JILL,

WHILE WATCHING THE FRENCH OPENS THIS PAST WEEKEND I THOUGHT OF YOU... WITH YOU FASHIONABLE (VERY) AND IN THE FABRIC BUSINESS - WHY DON'T YOU BRAND YOURSELF A WOMENS TENNIS OUTFIT LINE ??
U WOOD B FAB U LUS!!

STEPH
OHIO

06/04/2009 - 8:30am
STEPH

JILL,

WHILE WATCHING THE FRENCH OPENS THIS PAST WEEKEND I THOUGHT OF YOU... WITH YOU FASHIONABLE (VERY) AND IN THE FABRIC BUSINESS - WHY DON'T YOU BRAND YOURSELF A WOMENS TENNIS OUTFIT LINE ??
U WOOD B FAB U LUS!!

STEPH
OHIO

06/03/2009 - 9:26am
CA Whalen

Just watched Jill on Fox News. What a great woman. Integrity, class, ingenuity. Jill and Bethenny are probably the most real, worthwhile people on TV!! Thanks for having us in your livingrooms and lives! I wouldn't be on the treadmill if I wasn't watching you! All best for next season!

06/02/2009 - 6:26pm
phan

To Ally: I loved how cute you looked at the bowling alley!! Loved the checkered top/dress with the black bottoms. It just looked so cute on you. .. and, it was so sweet to see you and your family bowling together. God Bless Bobby!! he was so patient. You did a great job. I am an awful bowler, but.., it's always fun/funny when it is with friends and non-competitive. No offense, Jill.. but, you were on Bobby's case every frame!! He was doing a great job and Ally was, also. They were having fun and bonding and she was learning, step by step.. You were yelling at him so much and he must be a saint to listen to you!! You are lucky to have a guy who doesn't blow a fuse when you are on his case like that!!

06/02/2009 - 4:24pm
jackie

jill, i think you are a wonderful person and alli is a doll. i wish i knew her. i have r/a and i feel her pain. i have it real bad and because i have conjestive heart failure, i cannot take the meds for r/a, i can only take pain pills. not working like it should, but she is a doll you should be very proud of her.

06/02/2009 - 11:38am
Jeannie

Jill, I think you are great.....You have class and you are so funny. How you kept from spitting in Marios face is only because you have class. The man is a child and deserves Ramona, but I doubt that will last the way he looked as if he was going to have an orgasm as the women passed him while sitting with his Ramona. Yee gads, what a yucky.....Well Jill hope to see you back, but would love to see you change your apt., it really isn't you, sorry...Your daughter is a doll and your Hubby too.....

06/02/2009 - 3:17am
Nikki

Hi Jill:

I am sad to say that you are no longer my favorite housewife. You have an adorable daughter, a great husband, and a fabulous gay husband. You also used to be the most level-headed of the Housewives. However, now you are just letting that mean-spirited Bethenny drag you down. Do not allow yourself to get sucked into her bitterness. She's not alone by accident.

Your treatment toward Kelly during the reunion show was unforgiveable. Kelly may have some communication issues, but she in no way deserved the group tongue lashing that she received. I understand Bethenny, Ramona, and even the Countess. But I would have expected more from you.

Try to keep it classy.

06/02/2009 - 1:24am
Barbara J. Finch

Barbara:
So luv ya Jill..You are a very intelligent woman with a lot of class and a very big heart.. And I also think that Bobbie is the coolest,sharpest man on the show.You, Bethany, and Luann could do just fine being the only women on the show. I love the show and most of the cast. Don't know how any of you can put up with Ramonia! I believe that she is the real airhead out of the bunch.
You need to not even waste your breath on her.
As far as MISS KELLY she's only saying you are her favorite because she knows she got caught up in the lies she's told Luann,Ramonia and Bethany.I enjoyed the show better when she was not on it.Someone must have told her she looked good or something because she's got some serious PROBLEMS.........
I am really looking forward to seeing you all this next season. Oh well except for Kelly. By the way do you think she was first a man in her past life.....
Luv ya Jill. Have a blessed day.

06/01/2009 - 1:09pm
Viewer

Jill... I love you ..and Bethenney and Ally and Gloria, and, Lu Ann and Ramona are a hoot... Kelly... was just displaced and out of the loop... but.. I just want to say that as much as I DO love your family and cast.. YOU , out of all, do promote too much "stuff"/media .. YOU ALL do it.. Ramona has tons of promotions of hers and Mario's businesses, Bethenney has her baked goods, LuAnn has her book, and Alex has some, too. nut, you push and push yours.. It is getting obnoxious in this economy when most of us can't afford our bills to hear you down people for not being able to afford to pay a ton to charity parties??? Instead of paying tons to host them and spend extravagant amounts on food and clothes, etc. for these events, write a check to these charities where they will actually get the whole amount of money... You "spiel" about sponsors? Fine... but, that is moot to us who are struggling.. We still give what we have without getting to go to huge parties, dressing up, and paying tons for a dinner/cocktail party. Kelly acted like she was "charitable" by donating clothing? WE ALL do that yearly, and get NOTHING from it.. Charity is just that... WE don't get to promote our jobs or gain anything when WE... normal America..gives...but, we still give even when we have nothing to gain. That is charity. Let's see you do a "Walk-a-thon" and write a check.. like I and my family and friends have done for years for Juvenile Diabetes..that my son has... Yes... 4 or more daily needles for life...

06/01/2009 - 12:54pm
mmc

Hi Jill, I just saw the lost footage and I loved it.I think I've seen the reunion show at least 6 times and whenever its on again I'll watch it again.My Husband asked me whats so great about the show and I said the people. He looked at me and said but they're on T.V. and you don't know them, and I said yes I do and thats why I love this show. I feel like I do know some of you and could have some of you as friends. You're real people with distinctive personalities and a lot more money than I'll ever see in my lifetime.And yes I do have a very full life with Family and Friends.

06/01/2009 - 11:43am
PJ

Jill,
I love you and Bethenny! You two seem to me to have a great friendship. You guys really crack me up. I love the way you can both poke fun of each other and not get offended or hurt. That is true friendship. I hope you two have many more years of adventure and fun ahead of you.

06/01/2009 - 8:44am
Marissa

I just wanted to say that I really do love the show. Even though it doesn't always bring out the best in everyone, it stills shows that even wealthy people who's lives seem perfect, aren't. Out of all the housewives, I really think that you are the most respectful and classy. To me you are the "mom" of all the cast members, and have never been anyopne but yourself. I just don't how you can stand alllllllll the fighting and drama because it seems like you are way past it?

06/01/2009 - 1:48am
M-

Jill..Love the show..As much as I can't stand Kelly and think she's a total airhead, Alex and Simon give me the creeps, Ramona is looney and somewhat of a liar, Luanne is a snob and treats everyone as if they aren't good enough to be in her company, if it wasn't for all of them that would leave just you and Bethany...getting along, there would BE no show.. so a much as we dislike the others, we LOVE to HATE them.. and that's what makes your show so good. Thanks

05/31/2009 - 7:30pm
FelyciaMignon

Jill....I absolutely LOVE your style!! In my opinion....there isnt a thing about you that I'd change.....lol
Keep doing you and everything else will be just fine!!

God Bless

05/31/2009 - 6:02pm
Elle

Jill....You are such a beautiful person. From the first show I ever watched, you were my favorite. So honest you are...not phony. I just love when you and Bethany (also a favorite) get together...you are a scream! Your charity work is beyond reproach. Your parents must be very proud of you, was well they should be. I hope you always stay real as you are today and stay true to yourself. Don't get caught up in all the TV drama. Your beautiful daughter and wonderful husband are very lucky to have you. God Bless you and yours.

05/31/2009 - 5:52pm
Viewer

Jill,

I think you are the smartest of the bunch!...........between you and I think Ramona is the dumbest woman on T.V.

05/31/2009 - 4:41pm
Judy

Jill,
Iwill miss you most of all with the season ending now. I have watched over & over , I almost know all of your dialog! Bethanny comes in second only to you for you both have good common sense and are smart. I will be awaiting next season. Thanks for all the enjoyment I have had watching you.

05/31/2009 - 3:11pm
ratoncita

We need the 'ONE LINER BOOK by Bethany'

GIRLS LETS PUSH FOR THIS BOOK!!!

LOVE YA!

05/31/2009 - 11:17am
Jeannie

I personally really enjoyed you and your humor on the show. You are usually in great spirits and you always show alot of class.

I hope they have another season of Housewives and that you are on it as you make the show!!

Its refreshing seeing someone "honest" on tv.

05/31/2009 - 7:38am
Viewer

Jill, this season you look great. It tickled me when you said "I can fit a 0 in your designers clothing line. You have given me a rush to live a healthy lifestyle. Do not allow Mario words get to you that you do not work all you do is spend money. There is nothing wrong with your life, your husband has worked hard for you and your daughter to enjoy luxury and do not apologize to anyone for it. It couldn't have been me he was talking to. Love that your are involved in Charity as well as volunteering. It is wonderful to assist others, you begin to realize how someone has it worse off than you do. You also realize how fortunate you are. You have a terrific family.

05/31/2009 - 1:01am
Rhonda Burke

Jill:

I have a few questions for you. I will pose these same questions to Ramona on her blog later.

#1. After this season and after watching the show, has it put a strain on your friendship with any of your friends, especially, Ramona?

#2. I am so sick of Ramona using the excuse of her childhood as a reason for running off at the mouth whenever she pleases. I also was raised in a home where my father treated my mother very badly however, I would never ever dream of using that as an excuse to exploit someone at their lowest point in life as she did to LuAnn. I recently went through a divorce after a 35 year marriage and if she had done that to me, I would have absolutely knocked her flat on her ass. That's the way we roll in Texas.(Taking a few words from Alex).

#3. In regards to Ramona's skin care products, am I the only one who finds it very funny that she openly sees a skin care specialist on a regular basis and she feels she will be able to market this product as some sort of miracle cream??????? Who is going to buy it? Only the people who can afford both the cream and the regular trips to the dermatologist or whomever for all the extra work she has done?

I absolutely love the show however, when Andy asked the question about who you would vote off of the show, I did sort of agree with Alex. Flip a coin between Ramona and Kelly. Ramona is a crazy person in my opinion and Kelly appears to be heavily medicated at times and really can't remember what she says to people. Or, she just doesn't care what she said because she only feels what she has to say is the only part that is important in a conversation. I really thought I was going to throw up when she went jogging down the street with the cabs. CONCEITED???? I think so.

05/30/2009 - 8:54pm
VERENA

HI Jill
Yes you have been my favorite since the !st show. Why? You are real, you don't seem like you have to proof anything. You are You. But you have a great heart, and yes you may help the "underdog" ( Wished you were here). I love your family. Your daughter is so beautiful and kind. Your hubby is there when you need him,but gives you space to fight the Ramona's & company". dragons. You know , you are a "Long Island" (or New-York) Princess. Be proud of it, when Simon made the commend, I would have taken it as a compliment. (I don't even think he meant it negative)
Your parents gave you all the integrity you need, and a heart to boot.
lucky, lucky you. Enjoy every moment, and please spend all the money you want. Why would anyone deny you that privilege. If the 'well off' don't spend, who will?
Dont ever let anyone make you feel guilty. You worked for it, you earned it, spend with your hearts content. Love your new "digs" If you need help shutting up your gay husband call me:) What I am trying to say is, Jill you have it all, live it up! Like your housewives friends, (?) we all wished we could. Mazel tov!
Sorry I dont twitter or anything, just writing an email is an accomplishment, but great u are on-top. More kudos to you. Enjoy your beautiful life and your family.
Just to let you know, Simon and Alex are worth your time and effort. look closer, their
hearts are in the right place. Follow your" first instink", they will not make fun of you,
with malase in their hearts, errors are made, but of all of the "cast" they deserve your friendship and support. Well, anyway thats my opinion. Live it up. Verena/california

05/30/2009 - 8:03pm
Amber

Jill i just have to say you are the best house wife out of all the shows Go Team Jill

05/30/2009 - 11:03am
Gina

I agree Jill, Miss Kelly needs to go back into "Kellys World"and stay there! She has no personality and is completely inarticulate. She talks in circles! And the delusion that everyone wants to be her is hysterical. Sorry, but she looks like a drag queen. Anyway, I love the show and can't wait for next season. One more thing, ease up on Ramona. I find her candor refreshing and think that she is basically harmless. She is quite the character, like a bull in a china shop, but somehow it's endearing. Have a great summer!.

05/30/2009 - 6:50am
NJViewer

Jill I love love love you and a certain couple of others. But just want to point out one thing, computers have been around for decades, the internet, however has been around since the very early 1990's. The Information Superhighway as it was called in its infancy....I too wonder how we every got along without them. Your charity event was a success because of the blood, sweat, and tears you put into it. I would also like to comment about remarks people make when you are spending your money. It sounds like it is pure jealousy, as the world faces this financial crisis, and you are not blame for it...I would never to someone who has worked hard for their money and deserve to shop for whatever they like to be a bad example during these troubling times. You and Bobby should shop til you drop, you earned the money. And to those who are jealous, oh well, get off your butts and earn the money too ! It's those very people that are jealous that are probably living above their means and who bought into the whole mortgage scam the banking industry created and are now being rewarded with billions to bail THEM OUT ! You go girl ! Spend, spend, spend.

05/29/2009 - 5:59pm
Viewer

Jill,

I really believe that I like Ramona better than you.

PLEASE WATCH ALL THE EPISODES AND ANALYZE YOURSELF.

GOOD LUCK

05/29/2009 - 5:08pm
Rose1111

Dear Jill,

Bobby appears to be a real "keeper" and your relationship with Ally appears well balanced. Kudos! I identify mostly with you so have the following comments. Give Alex & Simon a break. Initially I was turned off by their Silex routine and Alex's "tone" when she spoke made her sound like a snobbishly arrogant individual. It turns out she really is likable and having them at a party would only be a plus to help loosen up the stiff shirts. Like your relationship with Bethenny, she's cool and your "adopting" her in the family is way cool. Ramona, like many, is insecure and after taking offense, attacks like a tigress. She's harmless. The Countess has a bright future ahead of her on her own terms if the gossip is true about her and The Count...ula. She's aces too. Finally, Kelly, Kelly, Kelly dearest. She is beautiful and evidently a very responsible mother, but nothing that comes out of her mouth makes ANY SENSE WHATSOEVER. I was really trying to understand/follow a logical train of thought on what she is commenting on, but I just can't grab on to anything sensical. Is it just me? I think not. It's like Wayne's World, but Kelly's World ... shaaaaaa and schwing! God bless her, but just a pretty face is embarrasing to watch.

Finally, I have to comment on the B purse (whatever that is). Jill ... $16,000???? Come on! We want you to spend what you have and let it trickle down various avenues, but $16,000 for a bag is just plain wrong. Jewelry is an investment, or maybe art. Have you actually used that bag? Sorry :( Guess it was just a little too blatant for me.

Here's to next season!

05/29/2009 - 2:05pm
IsthisHighSchool

I feel like the second season is like sophomore year in high school. Bethenney & Jill you were funny, cutesy, silly and getting a lot of ATTENTION in Freshman year - and NOW - it's sophormore year - and you've let it go to your head. Playing to the camera - plotting - getting totally caught up in "your" world. It's becoming a bit - shall I say - boring?

05/29/2009 - 1:54pm
Viewer

Are you proud of screaming at the other women and telling Kelly you don't want her in your classy "ensemble cast"?

05/29/2009 - 1:20pm
Mott

Jill, you are my favorite and I love your honesty.

When you go shopping spending thousands and thousands of dollars on clothes, jewelry, cars, and etc. I feel as if I am along for the ride even though on a teacher's salary I will never be able to make such purchases.

05/29/2009 - 11:13am
Viewer

CAN A MAN WEIGH IN HERE? (Without Getting Scratched?)
No one should be “voted off the island.” You are all terrific NYC ladies that represent the best, albeit, at times, perplexing and complex women in America. But that’s what makes you so special!

A lady friend of mine finds this show particularly entertaining, so I must endure it if I am to pluck the most delicate rose from its thorny stem. (Personally, for the record, I prefer “Army Wives”).
Whether scripted or unscripted, it is very evident that you ladies took (and presumably, will continue to take this series seriously). You came, you hollered, you vented.

FROM A MAN’S PERSPECTIVE:

KELLEY

Completely, misunderstood. Kelly is a single mother only struggling with attempting to look after her own herd. Yes, her beauty carried her so far, yet she now finds herself on her own. She apparently, is navigating herself alone in a fishbowl of sharks (and by that I mean the mean streets of NY not the other cast members). I find it intriguing that some (blogs) accuse her of being jealous of others in the cast. Yet, isn’t she the one with all the “resources” as evidenced by Jill’s comment that Kelly has the “big beach house” in the Hampton’s and the “most expensive condo in Manhattan.” (Hmmmm?)

In any event, without Kelly, how could Bravo continue the (regrettable) feud between Bethenny (B) and Kelly? I would only tune in to see that outcome. A previous blog profoundly observed that it was B that arrived with an attitude because of B’s perceived slight that Kelly tried to steal her man in a prior circumstance. It is equally understandable how Kelly felt defensive about B’s attitude towards her (perhaps knowingly or unknowingly, the facts are unclear) when Kelly attended Jill’s charity event and called her “Madonna.”
I
n regards to the subsequent visit at the Bar (and yes, Kelly, you did look like you might have had a little too much to drink when you met with B – might this account for your frequent memory lapses?), I’m not sure why you did not let B speak, she was only there (and waited over half an hour!) with a sincere apology which you never gave her an opportunity to present... (Yikes! I cringe at that film – which is evidence in a court of law)…

But as an attorney, (which Kelly likes to point out that her Father was/is?), I would have expected better behavior. When confronted with an angry individual, I always aspire to find out why? Yes, Kelly should have handled that and other situations with B better. I would certainly hope that my daughter would do so. That being said, being bereft of social skills does not make you a monster nor does it make you eligible for disqualification. It makes you conducive of a candidate that needs to remain and learn from the process. I know that Bravo producers see this and none of the ladies will “be fired.”

Excuse me now, but a rerun of Army Wives is coming on and I need to wrestle my lady friend for the remote!
PS: Aside from my semi-defense of Kelly, Bethenny, I wish you continued success in pursuit of your endeavors. I sincerely hope that you find that real man and family of your dreams.

05/29/2009 - 9:50am
Viewer

Jill,

Last night you could have been kinder to Kelly. So she is different, so what? Why join the others and say, in a veiled way, you want Kelly off the show? Ramona was trying so hard to be Kelly's best friend until the moment you all began to turn against Kelly. Then suddenly Ramona stopped begging to be Kelly's best friend. I expect better from you. I wanted to hear you say something like "We are all different, I don't see any reason why we can't all have our story". I usually adore you, this time I am disappointed.

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