omg ...Jill I so love you and Betheny I think its great that we can see a real relationship between two women that isnt catty, you two crack me up and I love it when she mocks you, even in front of you, you always laugh! I didnt like it when she "came at you" at your event, that wasnt the proper time,,,,then she made up for it and calmed you down and apoligized ....I just thought that was great.....I SOOO love the New York girls! The OC ladies are so FAKE and the Atlanta and Jersey ladies actually scare me..!!! LOL Thanks for keeping it real!!!

Jill,

You are the best housewife of them ALL.

I love the great relationship you have with your husband, daughter, mother and sister. I also enjoy watching you and Bethenny interact--you're both hilarious.

No one really came at you on the reunion show, but I was hoping you would lay into Ramona about not coming to your defense when Mario attacked your character several times this season. They're both just mean, but make very good TV.

Until next season....

You are a real woman and we all love you! Keep it real like you do and help Kelly get some help...Hopefully she doesn't take time off the next season by being on...It was annoying to watch! TRAIN WRECK HONEY! But you are great and we really enjoy you!

I enjoy the time they show you on the RHW of NYC. I do think that sometimes you judge the others harshly. I think Kelly is not a verbal person and struggles with expressing herself that way. She is not a "galfriend" type. She likes being around guys and that's okay. Women keep a lot of crap going all the time. In comes Bethanny who is the worse at stirring up a bunch of mess. Ramona is a waste of time and needs to lay off the uppers. She's rude, obnoxious and just plain stupid. I think Alex is a nice lady but she's not interested in making a life long friendship and that ticks some of the others off. Just my observations. I also felt it was very mean to treat your "friend" LuAnn that way when she just got a divorce. That is the time to be genuine and caring and you all turned on her like barracuda. Not one person acted sad for her.

Jill!!

You're my favorite housewife! You speak your mind and are always honest. I also like watching you and Bethanny together. It seems like you two have a genuine friendship.

So here's what I think about the other housewives:

Bethanny - Beautiful, brillant and street smart! She is funny and yes she some of her comments are rude but they always seem to fit.

LuAnn - The Countess! - I don't understand how she can be a part of a reality show and not share the fact that her and hubby were separated. Yes I understand that it's her business and her marriage but you can't go on TV and claim to be married to your 'Soulmate' but secretly be separated. If this was the case and she wanted to keep that private than perhaps being on a reality show is not the place for her and her family during difficult times. She seems to be down to earth when she's not proclaiming to be the Countess to everyone and their mama!

Ramona - I truly don't have anything nice to say about this woman! Her and her husband should be cut from next season!

Alex - Last season I thought her and Simon were really trying to play up their life for the camaras but this season I started to see a different side of them. I think they really like spending all their free time together and if that's what keep their marriage going, then good for them.

Kelly - Seriously does this woman ever make sense? I can't believe Bethanny even tried having a conversation with her. She's boring and she really does come across like someone on meds!

Ahh Jill, I like and admire you so much as a viewer. Of course I don't know you personally but I feel you are a very real and honest person. You say you don't have many close friends but I do hope you and Bethenny are real friends. You two just seem to get each other and I can see she needs someone like you in her life. Your mother was so kind to her and it touched my heart. I totally got it on the reunion show when you teared up when your mom was mentioned. I lost my mom a couple of years ago and miss her so much. She was a good mom and my best friend by choice. I got teary when you did because I understood how much a good mom means to our souls.

I don't want to go on and on about the reunion show and all that went on. I enjoyed it and loved the support you showed to the real women that are honest and true. Thanks for showing what a good person can be.

Thanks for giving us a great season, Jill. You are my favorite housewife and I can't get enough of you! I think your mom is great, and all of your family. You are a hoot to watch!

Jill, While its not your fault I had you up on a pedestal, boy have you been toppled from it after watching this reunion show! It wasn't all the heated back and forth with Ramona but that question about who you would 'vote off the island'..you had minutes to consider your answer and I still have a sick feeling when I picture Kellys face as she listened to you. Maybe you should read that book about female bullying..'queen bees and wannabees'..that reunion show was a case study in it..truly awful to watch.

Hi Jill, The reunion shows were awful! What is wrong with you girls? Why didn't you stick up for LuAnn? You stick up for Bethanny who is as 2-faced as they come yet don't defend Luann's right not to air her divorce on the show because of her kids. How would you feel if Bobby dumped you via e-mail? Unreal that none of you sympathized with her.The only one left with any class is Alex. You are right to say Gloria would be appalled. Let's hope you find the gumption to be nice. Everything in life isn't about bragging about your jewelry,Mercedes SUV and $16,000 "B" bag. We all get that you are rich. Try showing richness of character like your mother. As for Ramona-just avoid her as she is the meanest person ever and who needs her bug-eyed rants about nothing.

Jill,

I loooove your mother. I can see why you are so close to her, everyone needs a mother like her. My hubby loves your New York accent and loves you. Thats saying something because he never watches reality shows. When the show comes on hes seems to be there watching most times. I have to say I love the way you put Ramona in her place LOL

I loved the line " wheres the social register" lol

Char

Your one of my favs! Got to ask though. What did you think of the way Kelly treated Bethany after seeing the show? I was hoping it would be posted here. I also wondered why did Ramona try to stick up for Kelly? It was obvious on the show how awful she acted! Turned my stomach. I have to say that Luann was treated badly just because she "had" something when married to the Count that made her proud. I'm sure she just came across wrong for some of you, but let me tell you the way I was brought up with 5 other siblings in the family and treated badly in school as a child growing up, I would have loved to flaunt someone like the title "Countess" to some who thought I'd never amount to much! Well, Hopefully Luann didn't have the bad childhood I had, but being noticed is not always a bad thing and I think she is very nice and a very good person to have as a friend. Feeling needed is important also to a lot of people. I get her and love her. love you and Bethany too. Kelly? She's got to go! lol

Nenan Ga.

Jill I just adore You and the NY Housewives...and Romona was out of Control at the Reunion. Romona can be So Mean...(Maybe it has something to do with her childhood)I also do agree with you about Kelly and Bethenny friendship...Who Cares???

I just hate when Kelly starts her crap with Bethenny, that's all...There is something wrong with Kelly...BiG Time Wrong...She's just a Big Lier...Everything she says about another person...It Ends up being her... if she said somebody did something wrong you'll find out it was Really Kelly that did it...she's so predictable and boring and she lies all the time...Can't they find a New Housewive...What about your girlfriend that owns the jewelry store "Jeri" ~ she would be Perfect!!! I loved her...or Maybe your Mom "Gloria"...somebody comforting, sweet, smart and just makes you feel good...Not somebody depressing like Kelly that makes your head spin around...Miss you all already...Can Not wait until Season 3. Peace!!! :)

I would just like to say I Love Love Love New York House Wives..... However it would be much Better if you Took Ramona off she just irritates me to death... As for Kelly ?? where does she get her dope from ??? she is way out there I wanted Bethany just to punch her and punch her back into reality I mean what is her deal. As For COUNTESS LuAnn, I never got the Impression she thought she was Better then anyone else or acted that way, she is a very lovely lovely woman, who expects and deserves respect, and I believe she would be that way regardless of a title. Alex and Simon are a riot I love the way they are together. The Way they are all about their uniqueness as a couple, they are out there but you have to love them, you wouldn't like Alex if Simon wasn't a part of her, just as you wouldn't like Simon if Alex wasn't a part of him. Bethany I so get her. I love her attitude, her humor I adore, just love me some Bethany. Bethany don't worry Kelly is she well okay do something me look at the bottom of your shoe ?? you Looking ?? that's Kelly compared to you in my book, don't even stress that loony girl. My favorite of the show is Jill, I relate to her, i love love love Jill, her accent, everything about Jill I love. I am a lot like her someone hits me I'm going to hit them back. she doesn't hold a grudge she gets mad, she gets even, then she is over it. But if she is wrong she is the first one to say hey I'm wrong.. I hope y'all do another season, minus Romona ( i agree Countess LuAnn she does have Crazy eyes ) and minus Kelly unless Bethany gets to punch her.. Y'all have a great Summer and Hopefully I will get to see it on TV

Haughton Louisiana

Jill, you and Bethenny are by far my favorites on the show. You're both so honest and genuine, which seems to be a rarity in the cast. I couldn't believe how rude Ramona was at the reunion and in her blog, but I loved how you defended Bethenny and protected her against Ramona's vicious comments. It was hilarious when you and Bethenny denied Ramona's high-five for agreeing that Kelly is delusional. It just goes to show that you actually have maturity and class. It's adorable how motherly you are towards everyone, but Bethenny in particular. I loved your mom on the show as well. We can all see where you get your big heart from. I also want to commend you on your fantastic work with charities. Sure, you spend a lot... far more than the average person could. But you give back, which is the most important thing. People forget that you don't have to do what you do, yet you choose to give out of the kindness of your heart. Don't let the ignorant comments of others get you down, keep being you. You're so fantastic!

JILL,

THANKYOU SO MUCH, YOU ARE WHAT MADE THAT SHOW,AND YOU SHOULD BE SO PROUD. I WATCHED EVERY WEEK, IT IS MY FAVORITE. YOUR MOTHER SHOULD BE VERY PROUD OF YOU JILL. YOU GAVE THE SHOW HEART, LAUGHTER AND TEARS..AND KINDNESS. I JUST WISH I COULD GIVE YOU A HUG...I WAS SO MOVED BY HOW YOU CRIED, ABOUT YOUR MOM....BELIEVE ME, I LOST MY MOM SUDDENLY,AND I STILL CRY. NO ONE WILL EVER LOVE YOU LIKE YOUR MOM.... WELL JILL, BEST OF LUCK AND THANKYOU.....

Oh ya...and I forgot...Romona never should of said all those mean things to LuAnn...I love LuAnn too, she is really classy and the Countess name fits her well...What about Mario staring at those womens @ss's when Romona and Mario were eating Lunch. Mario was so ignorant doing that right in front of Romona or even if Romona wasn't there... It was still ignorant! Mario looked like a pervert!! Sorry, don't mean to be mean but he did!!! So I wonder if Romona liked it if someone said Oh, Romona I thought you and Mario had such a good marriage...that would be mean, Right??? So Romona should keep that in mind and Not say Mean things to LuAnn about her marriage...Just not right!! Oh well I'm really going this time...Thank for letting me vent Jill...Love ya...Peace!!

Jill! I love your spirit - your humor and voice remind me of a young Barbara Streisand - any chance of your own show - I would love to see you in some kind of comedy - something like the I love Lucy shows - you are so funny -

I absolutely ADORE you, Jill. You are such a mother hen and want everyone to like you. I thought you were actually pretty quiet for the most part during the reunion. Ramona can be mean. But, at least for the reunion, there was alot of mean-ness being flung about. I still think you are one classy lady. I have the same sense of humor as Bethenny so I totally love her, too. (you're my favorites of the cast) LuAnn seems classy as well and tries to keep manners in mind in most situations (though, she seemed to forget them sometimes, but who doesn't). I actually started to like Alex this year. At least with Ramona, you know where you stand. And I really hope Kelly doesn't come back next season. I just don't see what she had to bring to the show. Going to a reunion show at the end of the season and NOT wanting to talk about the show...just stuff. REALLY?!

Jill,

You seem like a very classy woman, and Bobby seems like a real gentlemen. I think you handled yourself very well with a high level of maturity and dignity in some tough situations. I really enjoyed watching you this season, and I look forward to seeing you again next season!

Hello Jill, Can you remind me when, why and who was

pushed in the pool, you or Ramona? Thanks, Ron

Jill, last season I really liked and respected you. I think that this season you have become more mean spirited also. You seem to live just to jump on everything Ramona says. I am not, by any stretch of the imagination a fan of hers, but, you also don't know when to keep your mouth shut. I must also agree with some other bloggers that you are materialistic. Not to say you are not a good person who raises money for charity, you just love to spend. I think in this economy when people are losing their jobs and homes, we could have done without seeing you spend 16,000 on a handbag!!! Next season, tone it down. You so like the attention that is for sure!!!!

The most normal of the group, weirdly enough, is Alex. She is well spoken, considerate, rarely, if at all says a mean thing about anyone, and is honestly devoted to her husband and children. She is the only voice of reason among them all. My favorite is Jill, although emotional and speaks sometimes before thinking, as do a lot of us, she is a good hearted, loving, caring woman. She's the heart of New York and a large amount of credit is due her mom and dad. Loved her mom and her adoption of Bethany, who of course is my next favorite. She's sassy, a little hard around the edges, but underneath it all, she's a sweetheart as well. I wish only the best of all worlds for her. Luanne is my next favorite, third not because there's anything wrong with her, with the exception of a few 'countess' moments, she seems to be a wonderful person who obviously was disappointed by her Prince Charming, as a lot of us are! I wish her the best and know she will find happiness. Ramona has issues....obviously due to her upbringing, but come on...you make choices as you mature and change your behaviour. She's mean spirited, rude and downright ugly. I was appalled at her behaviour and the things that came out of her mouth. She was caught in various lies, she's delusional if she thinks her husband isn't cheating or about to, and she should thank her lucky stars that any of the women are still speaking to her. As far as Kelley goes, there is absolutely nothing to say. She's brain dead--possibly due to yo-yo dieting, drugs, sun exposure which shows, or she's just plain stupid. It was painfully obviously in each and every conversation she had with anyone. Why someone would pay her to write is beyond me. Please, please, please, find someone else for the show.

I just wanted to say that mario I thought was very goodlooking until this season! When he went after Jill and Alex the second he opened his mouth he became ugly to me and everyother time he opened his mouth my girlfriends and I agreed he looks alot better when he keeps his mouth shut!!!!

Jill, you are some piece of work! You are judge and jury when it comes to everyones life. You obvious take offense against anyone who have negative comments against Bethenney. The two of you sat there holding hands was the most pitiful sight being the two of you are over the age of five! Beth can cut down people and make nasty little comments and it seem to fine with you two. But if someone says anything about you, then all hell breaks loose. Jill you and Beth are not above being talked about or judged. Beth has serious issues, she is not a happy woman. She's a sad, bitter, hateful, lonely child trapped in a woman's body. The calmness and class her followers mention when dealing with Kelley, is in fact, rage! Her eyes, her posture and the tension in jaw show that she about to explode!

You are not helping her by throwing stones with her, she needs some real help and no matter what you do or say is going to change that (wait and see). After watching you this season I would never do business with your company! Your dirty secret will come to light, you know it won't be long!

I hope this show is over! I've watched both seasons and as a "housewife" from NY I can honestly say I was turned off by you and your friends this season. You all came off extremely condescending, spoiled and self absorbed. The lot of you were so out of touch with reality it was embarrassing! I always thought charity work was about the charity not about vapid primadonnas vying for attention. Since when is charity work all about Jill and Luann?? Amazingly enough Alex was the least offensive this go around and I loathed her and Simon last season.

Jill, I think you are great, I really do. You say what you mean and mean what you say which I find to be a very endearing quality in a female because as we both know, women in general can be so catty! Look forward to next season.

Hi Jill, You are by far my favorite of all the housewife shows. You're specialness (is that a word?) shines thru your family and what special people you are. I enjoyed this season because I got to know you better. I hope Allyson is doing well. I have a sister with rheumatoid arthritis so I know the constant battle against pain. This is the first time I have ever written to a TV show. It was fun. Peace and Love, Gwen Young

I enjoy watching the show with you,Jill and Betheny as my favorite. The nice thing about you Jill,a friend or not so close friend (haha) you call them out if they say something far from the truth. I kind of appreciate you for not showing false humility at the show. Pretending to be low key when you have the means and ways to indulge the luxury in life. as long as your paying taxes..giving some away for the less fortunate...to h*ll with those who think you should be guilty. duuhhh..anyways,good luck and more power to you and bobby!

Jill, You're awsome. You seem like such a kind, caring and charitable person. I loved this season and I'm sad it's over. You're my favorite.

Jill, you are so fantastic! Continue the great work on the show. You win the award for the most awesome NY Housewife! I hope that you, Bethanny, and Luann continue the show. You three make a great team, and I pray your bond of friendship continues outside of the show.

I've never written a comment to a blog in my life and I am a writer. After faithfully watching every episode of both seasons and parts I and II of the reunion, I would like to share a few opinions. Concerning Jill - her relationship with her mom is enviable; I myself lost my mother when I was 27 and we were extremely close. I can't imagine what could be in anyone's heart to put down this relationship or say anything negative about it. Jill is extremely fortunate and not because she has money, but because she has wonderful relationships, such as with her sister, mother, father, daughter and friends, e.g., Bethenny. I, like Allyson, suffer from Rheumatoid Arthritis and although the show only touches on it, the pain can be unbearable at times. The fact that a child is going through it breaks my heart; as does a mother watching her child in pain and not being able to take it away. Another comment I would like to make is about Kelly. I believe that given enough light, people and events come out to be seen exactly how they are. Thus, Kelly is as simple minded and inarticulate as she appeared all seaason. One might have thought it was edited that way, apparently it wasn't. Kelly does not know how to respond to a direct question, when she does answer it's usually a "non-sequitur' (someone please explain to Kelly what that means, as I'm sure she doesn't know). Kelly seems to forget what she has said from one gathering to another and sometimes in the middle of a conversation. When she cannot respond intellectually her typical answer is "Stop, stop" with a whining child-like voice. I honestly, don't know why she was added to the show, she is anything but a housewife, she acts holier than thou and I for one, don't get what she's so conceited about. Watching her is reminiscent of Junior High School. Lastly, I feel sorry for Luann, as it can't be easy to be left by your spouse of so many years in the public arena and in such a demeaning and quitedisgusting way. Just goes to show you, a title does not automatically give a person class. She may be a bit much at times, but her heart is in the right place, as evidenced by her many charity acts. I am looking forward to Season 3 as I find this a delightful, comedic and sometimes touching escape from real life!!

Jill, I think you are a nice person, and out of all the housewives I think you have the kindest heart. You really do try to help others and that says so much about you as a person. I hope one day I will be able to visit NY so I can visit your store. I love your dog "Ginger". Shes so sweet. I wish you and your family all the best. I've really enjoyed watching the show this season. Dorothy Canupp

Jill...Itotally love,love,love this show, and you are one of the big reasons, as you are honest,loyal and are funny as heck. I also love Betheny, she is great and what a great sense of humor. LouAnn is great as well, actually I really like all of you,(Ramona has her days though), but as for Kelly, what is she on, she actually does not remember conversations that she has or what she has said, and the way she behaved towards Betheny was just down right rude and unacceptable, I almost think she needs serious mental help. But enought of that, I wish you all the best and can't wait for next season. Best wishes to you and your family.

I was happy to hear your genuine, heartfelt apology to Bethanny on the reunion show, regarding your reaction to the advertising behind the bar at the Creaky Joints fundraiser. When you are wrong (as all human-types are once in awhile) I admire that you will fully own it and apologize for it. A rare quality. I hope all five of you will be back next season! Yes, I said five.

You and Bethenny are my favorites. Alex is moving up the ladder and was the only one to come out of the reunion show smelling like a rose. LuAnn better watch her status as the show's decorum authority because Alex could have given her lessons on the reunion show.

As I watched the show Mrs. Jill I got to like you. You are real and sincere. Most of all I don't think you are a show off. Excentric taste but you are funny,

jill i love you..you are my favorite for sure..you and bethenny..i hope i can meet you guys when i vist new york!!

You go girl! Keep that American economy going by buying $16000 purses (and hubby in real estate, wow, way to go). We're grateful the stores won't close. And all that charity work that lets the money go your way, so grateful. Me I'd settle for higher taxes.

A viewer commented: "It wasn't all the heated back and forth with Ramona but that question about who you would 'vote off the island'. You had minutes to consider your answer and I still have a sick feeling when I picture Kelly's face as she listened to you. Maybe you should read that book about female bullying 'Queen Bees and Wannabees'. That reunion show was a case study in it...truly awful to watch."

Truer words have not been spoken. I could not sit through the second hour. It was that nauseating. Did not even see your mother speak at the end (as if somehow seeing her makes up for all the absurdity that preceded it?). Don't know what else to say to make my point. I'm still shaking my head that grown women not currently vying for a spot on the Jerry Springer show willingly gang up on each other on national television.

As for the nonsense about your disciple Bethenny not opening the "vault" on Ramona...Is this actually a "plus" for Bethenny? She's able to keep a secret told to her in confidence? Really?!? You have very low expectations of that woman. But who did accomplish your goal: the implication is that if Ramona does not 'toe the line', Bethenny may not be able to control herself one day and will air the skeletons in Ramona's closet. Nice way to control the situation, Queen Bee.

Jill, I really think you are right, your mom would be disappointed. I have to admit that was my favorite episode this season the one where your mom came to visit - after that everything went down hill. I must admit I won't watch another season, last year it was fun to watch. Just mindless tv, this year it was just grown women acting like they are in junior high. Best Wishes

Jill I can picture myself being friends with you and Bethenny. You are very caring and generous and that comment about "do you feel guilty about the financial crash" was ridiculous. The economy is Obama's fault not the rich people's fault.

Jill it is almost time for Shabbat so I will be brief. I became very disappointed by your actions during the charity planning and event. When you perform an act of kindness, I believe it should be done and forgotten. The charity owes you nothing. You blew up at your loyal friend Bethenny after she brought in $20000 worth of product used for the event. Your concern was your enjoyment. I can't believe that Gloria approved of this JAPPY behavior. There is a difference between being honest and being rude. One more thing, please tell Luann that in is plain mean to call Ramona crazy eyes. She should be called by a more suitable name such as mashugah. I need to go light candles. Good shabbos.

You are a toxic, mean and hateful bully. Ramona may be odd, but she is sincere and she responds to kindness, not shouting and pointless attacks from vicious bullies. As someone who comes from Kenya where we are taught to respect everyone and treat others kindly, I'm ashamed that you even purport to have a charity building "schools" in my country. Please take your pennies and leave our country. We don't want another uncouth, know-all socialite from the west coming to drop her money on our people just for show. Love, Ramona's Kenyan fan.

jill, i wish you wouldn't try to fight all bethannys battles for her-i know you are a good friend, but i think she can be mean, and i don't like to see you associated with that---- ramona & lu ann went at it, but i think luann was worse---she was alos vicious toward kelly-i know kelly is spacy, but trying to embarrass her by asking if she had friends was mean, so was her criticiizing ramonas eyes--i aslo think bethanny calling kelly a "pice of S@#t" twice was wrong-this is what i mean by , you shouldn't be associated with that-you would never talk like that- i like that you are close with your mom, but you were wrong on one count--when you said your mom, would be appalled at all your behavior?? wrong, because of all of you, alex has nothing to be ashamed of and no one would be appalled, she was ladylike, not mean-spirited--i know you are smart enough to see this as well-take care jill and see you next season

Jill This season you showed real class. The friendship with you and Betheny is wonderful. Your mother is awesome and I was so touched when she was talking to Betheny. I also enjoy Luann and Alex. I feel that you are all strong and independent women. Ramona... I don't care for her. She says very hurtful things and then wonders why people get upset. Also, I feel that she is a shit stirrer. I enjoyed watching the charity event for creaky joints unfold. 7 years ago at age 38 I was diagnosed with RA. I have 2 wonderful daughters that I hope never get this disease. Kelly's comment about it being cute did not sit well with me. People need to do research on such things before commenting. Enjoyed the season!!

I think there's a lot of jealousy amongs all the women, I actually like Alex and Simon, I understand that some people may feel that Simon acts like a gay man, but you know what? it's their business, why don't people just mind their business, they seem happy, and they love their children. They may be a bit different but who cares, I rather hang out with them than with Ramona, Kelly, Luann and actually even Bethanny, she's too much over the top, and needs people to acknowlege her, for her to be happy.

I absolutely love your mom, she reminds me of mine, down to earth, and she will say it as it is. Bless her always.

Jill, You and Bethenny certainly have morphed into the two headed dragon this past season. You were so rude and mean at the reunion. So childish. Were kids mean to you in school? It seems that way because you are a very mean adult. It seems that you are getting back at people. Also, it is quite obvious that you "rule" the show according to Andy Cohen. He didn't ask you one question. He shredded Kelly and Ramona. I am sure that he was told by you that he was not to ask you or Bethenny any questions. BTW, she is a low class pig. You need to behave more like Alex.

Jill, What a disappointment this season was! The fun of the first season was learning about your lives. This season the celebrity and fame have gone to all of your heads! You are all out for yourselves, as your charity event demonstrated. If you didn't get the chance to advertise all of your(all of the housewives) industries would you even have bothered with the fund raising? Watching you argue about advertising space showed what your priority was that night. I won't be watching you guys anymore as it is too shameful to see what greed does.

Jill, I liked you all during the season. In the reunion there were times when you were just obnoxious. However, you are nowhere near as bad as Bethenny.

Jill, I saw the reunion today. This show really upset you. I could tell. You didn't seem happy at all. You seem to be the "Mother Hen" in the group. They are not your children. They are adults. You do seem to keep your cool though. I do like that in you. Your look is refreshing. Not over the top.