jill, your treatment towards betheny was inexcusable. you laid the jewish guilt trip on her by using your husband's illness rather than really state what your "real" issue is with her . She did email and she did send flowers . she had no reason to think things were serious because you did not tell her.. why did you not tell her if you considered her a bff ? friends confide these issues with one another and do not manipulate and test friendships by playing games. you purposely and intentionally did not tell betheny how serious bobby's illness was becuase you wanted her to be shown as an uncaring self centered person . your husbands illness is not something that needs to be put on a speaker phone when someone is trying to extend an apology for something you did not tell them and everyone in the background can laugh about. you have taken illness and friendship to it's lowest level by using your husband illness to try and show you as the victim. How dare you use cancer or illness to hurt and manipulate others . People who have family members and friends with serious illnesses ( self included) would never behave this way . You need to talk to your mother who i beleive will tell you, you are wrong ! I am embarrassed for you for being so calculating.

Jill you have such a big heart and you have so much class and character. You are beautiful inside and out. Your daughter Ally is a beautiful girl and so well spoken. When she spoke at the charity benefit I thought she was awesome. Too bad people were too busy talking to listen to her. Anyway, I hope to see more of you on TV. I have to say that Ramona has got some issues, to say the least. She definitly has a problem with you and behaves herself like an idiot. I think you handle yourself like a pro. Best of luck you and your family.

I typically cannot even stomach those Yenta accents from NYC. BUT, this Jill and crew grew on me and I loved every last minute of the show. Jill is a real character, and reminded me of several of my friends and their Mom's from Miami. I love Jill, I'd love to see more of her and Bethany doing something! Kelly whatever her last name is needs to get a grip and Bethany was right, she is a Bitch from another Planet! Who is she anyway, a 40ish old model, whom once was married to a killer photographer. I believe all the news rumors or whatever u wanna call it she is a skitzoid, bi-polar alien from another galaxy, the only thing that would have made this season a GRAND SLAM OUT OF THE PARK, was if Bethany had welted her one across her leather skinned fact.

Jill you look fabulous! What is your weight lost secret. You are so real...I would buy your book anytime. Love your response to Romonas' Hubby, your husband is the hot one not hers. Love all the Ladies, except Kelly. (NO VERBAL COMBAT SKILLS)LOL. I will continue to watch My New York Ladies, I can't wait for Tuesdays!!. I will not spend 30,000 on a dress, but I will for a cause. Let's know more about your charity and Luanns. Thanks for the DRAMA. Sarah

Jill i think your doing a great job, on the charity you chose to help especially since it has hit home, as far as kelly, you don't need her, and her name, Im sure in NY there is all kinds of people who want to help....

all i have to say is you are my favorite!!! you have the most class out of all of them. bethanney too! the "countess" is so phony. i hate her line "my love" it reeks of sarcasim. keep it up jill, you and bethanney are what keeps me hooked!!

Jill,
I am so glad that you are involved in charities. I am asking for advise. I am putting together an event for Homicide Survivors, which is a non-profit organization that helps the families of murdered people. My brother was murdered September 17, 2005 so this group is very important to me. I am asking for advice on how to get really good people to donate and help us out. Thanks and I love the show!!!!

Jill,

I have never been one to really comment on these things but after watching tonight's episode (March 24th) I felt like I should. I was diagonsed two years ago at the age of 21 with rheaumatoid arthritis. I must say I feel great but it was definitely tough and is a total life change. It is much harder on my mother as I am sure it is on you with your daughter having similar problems. I think it is so awesome that you had a charity event for the arthritis foundation. There are so many kids and young adults with diseases that aren't focused on as much as others (not that they shouldn't be) but there does need to be a voice for those other foundations. Thank you for showing that, I truly appreciated it. Love from Texas!

Jill, it always wonderful to see you on tv. You are so classy. I think that you handle Ramona very well because she is not nice to you at all. Ramona said to know you is to hate you, shame on her because I feel that holds true for her. Keep doing what you do best, being nice. You're great.

Jill you're one of my favorite housewives but Ramona has to leave the show. She is so insecure & jealous that she constantly has to show off & flirt to build herself up. She has so many issues and is rude. There is another housewife this year let her replace Ramona. Thank you.

Jill,
I love your Mom! She should be on the show more often. I was touched by the conversation she had with Bethanny. It brought tears to my eyes. What a lovely woman. NYC Housewives is my favorite show.

Jill I think you are the best. I would love to meet you. I think you have a very big heart.You are so fun it is like I know you.

Man! I wish you woulda been there at the "Ramona vs Luann" dinner!! I know that Luann is a friend of yours, BUT, I prefer you and Bethanny so far. Yeah, you may like to be in the drama or whats going on but truth is, you set em straight! Ramona is hilarious, but she holds no tongues. She does well with the word thrown at her, its almost like everyone has a reason not to like her, but you know what I do like? You don't see her in a corner crying about it. She hasn't yet that we see. She did really well with the whole Luann bashing, the Countess of Manners lashed out about Mario not being all that great and Ramona took it with a grain of salt and apologized anyway while Luann was having a meltdown over Mr..de Lesseps! You and Bethanny keep em straight and narrow and on their toes! One more thing...I wanna come stay at your house too!!!!! I love it, leave me there while you all go to the parties just as long as I get to hang at MOther Hen's and listen to it all! You Rock!

Jill,

You are so wonderful.. I love how real you are. I think you, Bethanny and Romona are the most real of any of the house wife series. Romona sometimes has diarrhea of the mouth and says things she shouldn't (i get embarrassed for her sometimes on the show it is hard to watch), But at least she is real. Now alex and Luann they are in a whole different class. When you try to be someone you are not it comes across all wrong and just sad.... Alex she is just trying so hard to be so perfect in her husband's eyes. Luann is just mean and thinks she is better than everyone else. I have gotten that vibe about her from season one. She really has no class at all in my point of view. For one thing this is an american show and who gives a S#*& weather you are a countess or not. We don't have a class system like europe does.. maybe she should live in France where someone gives a hoot about that.

I never stop laughing at you because of how fun you are. You are one of the most beautiful women on the show because your true self shines through. I love it that you truly care about others and want to see them do well also. It is not in your nature to put someone down to make yourself look good... you look even better when you support others for who they are. I LOVE YOU and I will keep watching because of you, Bethanny and Romona (just to see what she will do or say next she is still very real.) I can live without Alex or Luanne, but then again Luanne with her better than thou attitude gives me someone to hate on the show.. I hope every week that she falls on her face and makes a fool out of herself. I know that is mean of me but I can't help it.

Looking forward to every show this season.

In the first season of 'Housewives', I thought Jill was unique.

Jill should have her own sitcom.

I love Jill.

Jill, you are the best. You are the most sincere and real of the bunch. Your wit and concern for others always shines through. You are a classy lady and I wish you the best.

Jill,
I think you are fabulous in every sense of the word. You go through life with such positive energy and everyone around you is better for knowing you.
I love that you like to mix it up and that you are comfortable being yourself and admitting your flaws.
You are a beautiful person. You are an inspiration to all people, not just housewives or mothers or daughters or friends.
You have so many talents and you spread so much love, there is no end to the good you will do in this world.
I do not like watching the drama of the show and the pretenses people put on, and the pettiness of some of the fights but I do love to be inspired by the way you have chosen to live your life.
PS - Ramona is prettttttty out of control... TEAM JILL!

Jill.....will you be my bff? I just love you. You are so real and sweet. I just love your house at the Hamptons....it is beautiful. And your mother is FABULOUS...cna she adopt me too? I'm not kidding ...she is the high maintenance QUEEN. I need lessons...Say what is on your mind..keep it real.

Jill,

Just want to stop by and say you are by far one of my fav's! You are just a blast... I think you and Bethenny are so great to watch! Keep doing what your doing! You are Fabulous = )

Jill!!

You are the best!!! The absolute best friend, entrepreneur, mother, daughter, wife, hen & housewife! I wish you & your mom would adopt me too!! You have a very nice family. You should be very proud. I own a teeth whitening business & if you ever want to have a teeth whitening party you just let me know! It's on me! I do home parties! You can invite your friends over! : ) ALso, just so you know, I never take the time to write or comment on these websites. Just too busy. However, I just had to take a moment to write & tell you how much I like you!!

Take care of yourself & watch your back!

Jill, You are the reason I watch the show. You are real, honest, caring, great mom & wife. How do you stand this new lady, Kelly??? The only other person that is real is Bethany... the others are so fake and if this is how they really are...very sad.
Proves that just because a person has money doesn't mean they have class or substance. I raised my son myself and didn't ship him off to a boarding school (I don't get it).
You are a joy to watch.. you, your mom & Bethany should have your own show.

You are soo funny! I love watching you, and btw I ALWAYS agree with you.

Jill I so admire you and all you do. You are an honest person who says how you feel (how I wish I were more like you). I truely admire your charitable work and it's so rare to find such and honest person.
Meggie

Hi Mrs. Zarin,
I am such a fan of yours, you are funny, outspoken and a business woman on top of that.. I think that you are the biggest breathe of fresh air on any of the housewives shows. Thanks for letting us into a small part of your life, we as your fans appreciate so much.

PS. if I lived in New York, owned a large business and had a lot of money to spend, Zarin Fabrics is where I would go!

Team Jill all the way, love you much I see where you get your good spirit your mom she was great and that trinket she gave you was a beauty. Can't eait for the rest of the season.

Ok let me first start off by saying HOW MUCH I LOVE AND ADORE.....how you are Jill!!!!......I mean i feel you represent yourself like Hey this is me Love it Or freaking Leave it!!!.......anyway I would love to have a Jill Zarin in my life!....i kinda do but he's my gay husband!...lol anyway i love the way you handle some of these bitches on the show.....your the realist person keep it up!.....p.s i love your New Yorker accent!!!!!oxoxoxo

Thanks for being real. It takes fortitude to not allow a little fame to define your existence. At least, we don't have to worry about your title when you visit the local McDonald's. Perhaps, LuAnn could be a spokesman for Burger King. Afterall, they both have about the same royal lineage.

Jill,

I absolutely love you. I have watched all of the Housewives, OC, NY, and ATL. You are miles above the rest in character and your life as portrayed on the show. I must say you are my absolute favorite. You are the epitome of what it means to be a real housewife. You are upfront and honest, and open about your feelings. You seem to be a great mother as well. You are truly the "Connector". I enjoy watching and you are a woman to be admired.

Jill-

You are truly hilarious and have made me laugh out loud more times than I can count. When you and Bethany are together and in full effect, I am laughing non stop. I love that you are so open and honest, it's very refreshing and makes you such a relateable member of this show. Please keep up your wonderful sense of humor!

Smiling in Seattle

You're awesome Jill
You have it all, i just dont know how you deal with Alex, Simon, Ramona and Luann and now, god help us, kelly. Bethenny and you should get your own show called interesting and funny because that's what the rest lack.
Work it lady
luc New York, NY

Dear Jill,

Just in case they don't post my comment to Bethany.
What kind of Arthritis does Allie have? I have Rheumatoid, and it is very important
that she exercises everyday-yoga and water are good. Also, she must watch what she
eats because some foods will cause inflammation.
As I said to Bethany, you two are my favs-being a former Queens girl the moment I saw
you I said to my husband, "I love Jill Zarin." Your the girls I grew up with.
Regards to Allie and Bobby. Loretta Cox

Jill,

I wanted to tell you how beautiful I think your daughter is inside and out. She has beautiful eyes and and warm and kind personality. This is a tribute to you and your husband and how you are raising her. As a mother of a 13 year old (boy), I am trying to raise a well grounded boy with a strong faith and respect for all. It is refreshing to see how you love your daughter and are there for her for anything, yet you let her make her own decisions and encourage her when needed and praise when needed. As for the scene in the recent NY Housewives espisode when you told her to wear her sneakers , instead of high heels because it is more practical...I loved it. This is what my hubby and I are trying to promote to our boy also..practical living, yet class and kindness to all
I think many would agree with me that if viewers looked closely, your daughter is very beautiful...again, inside and out.

Jill,

PLEASE, don't do your lips. Yours are perfect as is. Injected lips look like one has been hit by a bat and the swelling never went down. UGLY, LUMPY, UNEVEN. Don't do it!

Hi Jill,

You are funny one of the group, and you keep a level head not like the rest. did not let the rest of the group change you. Keep it realy

Jill, you are tuly a class act. You deserve everything you have. All the best in life.

Jill, you make the show fun. If you weren't there -- god, I can't even imagine. You're the nicest one and the peacemaker and diplomat.

Love you, love you, love you! You're a great mom and I admire your work for charity. Show's you have a heart, and you are setting a great example for your daughter. Your husband seems like a great guy as well..and your mom...well, let's just say,,we should all be so lucky!

jill,
i think you are my favorite person! you have such a heart of gold and you can tell that your family is everything to you!

meeting you would be an honor! i think you and bethenny are the most real on the show! wow this is the best housewives seris.

i wish you and your family all the blessings in the world! meggin billmeier

Dear Jill,
i think you are such a real person. meeting you would be so meaningful to me! you are my absolute favorite!! i hope you and your family all the happiness in the world!

Jill you are totally different in comparison to the other housewives. You are a classic and you seem to be so realistic and down to earth. Watching you is great you remind me of someone who was a close friend and a wonderful person, but she passed away a few years ago, however you are so much like this dear friend that I have become a true fan of yours, I hope you stay that way, you are great.

I like you but wish you would stop tooting your own horn.
I do understand making people aware of charities but when people start patting themselves on the back and bragging they have forgotten the golden rule, when you give from the heart you don't expect anything (including praise) in return.
I do not understand why you made negative comments about someone else's choice involving a charity, it's not your money and it's really not your place to dictate another person's interest or choice.

Jill!!!!!!! Oh my God you are hilarious!!!! I think the best part of watching the show is your facial expressions - especially when Ramona is around? Your "gay husband" is soooooo fortunate to have you - I'm jealous! LOve, love, love the show!!!!!!!!! The real housewives of OC and Atlanta are so boring compared to you ladies!!!!

You are by far the best one on the show. You are awesome!

Jill, I absolutely adore you. I wish I had a mother like you or even a friend like you...You're caring, loving, funny, intelligent and very real. May you always be happy and surrounded with love and the people you love

Everyone forgets about your father...
What a fabulous guy!
He lets Gloria be Gloria.
No wonder you were smart enough to pick a sweety like Bobby.

Did Bethenny have an affair with A Rod?

Jill, love you and love the show. I am a native New Yorker from Long Island, now living in Florida, and watching you makes me feel like I am home, amongst friends. You are so grounded and normal next to the rest of the group :) Is it just me that thinks that although Ramona adds alot of drama to the show, she is way too much work for me to have to deal with. I don't think she is wrapped to tight actually. Her eyes alone, give her away...Scary...lol

Hi Jill, I live in Southern Cali but the NYC wives are my favorites. Jill your mom Gloria is great on the show. I was thinking of my own mom, when your husband and dad had to go out to get another car for her. I hope you get to spend much more time with your parents.

Jill,

Thank you so much for being on the show. You are such a bright spot in a dreary world. Your beauty is truly not just on the outside. You rock gorgeous!!!!

Your Great

Everyone should be so lucky as to have a Jill Zarin in their life!
You are there for your friends and try to make the world a better place....but you are not a pushover.
You need your own reality show.