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Kelly Killoren Bensimon

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Kelly talks about her foray into street fashion, the hardships of reality TV, and more!

April 8, 2010

 

Oh, my God, sorry God you have nothing to do with this, but there is no other person who can understand what I am dealing with. When Bravo asked me to be on this show, I had no idea where it would take me. I have been raked through the press, my reputation has been slandered, and my entire personal life has been effected by complete strangers who have made a business out of being on reality television. But, I am so incredibly grateful for if it wasn't for BRAVO, I would never be in the position to show you a slice of my real life or have the opportunities that have come to me as a result of the show.

Before I ever even heard of reality television, I was an editor for a magazine. I helped start a magazine owned by Niche Media called GOTHAM. It is a lifestyle magazine that covers and explores different people in major metropolitan cities. I decided to take another leap of faith and try a new craft. My idea was to take to the streets, explore what real people were actually wearing, write an article based on how the street influences fashion, and photograph the interviewees. Yes, I have no idea how to take pictures. But, why not try something new? The worst thing that could happen is that I bag the story. I believe in celebrating life, thinking outside the box and trying new things. You can only blame yourself for not making the effort. The experience was fun because I was able to explore many areas of New York and meet a lot of different people, mainly handsome men. I am single, so I was just having fun flirting, why not? More importantly, I learned that people define themselves by their accessories. No matter what size, age, or shape you are, accessories give an immediate impression of who you think you are or the feeling you want to convey. To get the look on the streets check out GOTHAM magazine's February issue. Thank you GOTHAM for always believing in me and my crazy ideas.

As far as the rest of the show, I refuse to comment on scenes I wasn't in. I wasn't there, therefore, I cannot judge. You shouldn't either. Have fun with each of our characters and stop taking sides. We all work really hard, and have a lot of fun making the show. Enjoy it, eat lots of popcorn, and drink beer or take a shot every time I touch my hair or say, "like." It makes it more fun. You can always ask me anything anytime on twitter @kikilet. Enjoy the show.

Kelly Killoren Bensimon
@kikilet
kellykillorenbensimon.com

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Comments

168 Comments

great information you write it very clean. I am very lucky to get this tips from you.

Kelly, you never make any sense when words come out of your mouth. It's sad as we approached the middle of this season, you ended up taking sides with the mean girls, Jill and Luann (barf!). Clearly you attacked instigated the fight between you and bethenny during Ramona's bachelorette party. I am so happy for bethenny in regards to finding love, happiness and success and wish her the very best. Classy, intelligent, beautiful and funny Bethenny. Love her!!!

Kelly is super hot and looks amazing in her age. I don't think she's that dumb. But I didn't like the comment that she's saying people shouldn't judge and be
someone's side. If we don't what is the reason watching the show.

To "oclocale"...who are you...am I back in school?

To "Kait"...your comment cracked me up.

To "Maria Marino"...I liked your comment.

And to Kelly...I liked your blog, especially the last paragraph.

Kelly's style is amazing. Does anyone know what bracelets she is wearing. They are the two cuffs with the colored stones. Luv them!! Need to get them.

Deflate? PR 101 if you don't know what you are talking about keep your mouth shut!!!!!

HI honey, I have enjoyed you so much, think you are awesome and that people are quick to judge when we only see a snipet of what is really going on. It looks to me like you are an amazing Mom..and that counts for a lot. Don't let the haters bring you down. The show would be a sadder place without you in it. thanks for sharing your life with us.

As someone in a position to influence fashion trends, please reconsider your decision to wear fur.

Go Kelly fur rockin' the fur! :) You always bring a fun energy to the show. Your girls are super cute! By the way, if I did a shot every time you said "like", I would be shnockered by the end of the show !!! lol...KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

if you really are this accomplished editor as you claim to be then you should know the difference between affected & effected.
When “affect” is accented on the final syllable (a-FECT), it is usually a verb meaning “have an influence on”: “The million-dollar donation from the industrialist did not affect my vote against the Clean Air Act.”
The real problem arises when people confuse the first spelling with the second: “effect.” This too can be two different words. The more common one is a noun: “When I left the stove on, the effect was that the house filled with smoke.” When you affect a situation, you have an effect on it.

Kelly...you are totally out there LOL! That is all I can say about you ROFL!! I hope you can always be wrapped in your own little Kelly world!! Real life sucks!

There should be a disclaimer on everything that Kelly says, does or writes, that says "Warning: The following content may not make sense, may offend you, and is guaranteed to be a waste of your time."

I find it interesting that you won't comment on the Jill/Bethenny feud, even though we all know who's side you are really on. You bash Bethenny constantly in other interviews. Why don't you have the guts to comment about her on your blog?

Kelly's father was a lawyer... so maybe. LOL

Hey there Kelly! I watch the show religiously and loved the Gotham clip where you took to the streets. I know its a long shot and that you probably don't even view this but I need your help. During the clip when you were on the street you interviewed a punk guy with the skull ring. He had on the most AMAZING pair of sunglasses I've ever seen! Any chance you know what they were? I HAVE to have them! THanks!

Hi Kelly! You are Great! Are you really going to be in Playboy?? Love your curves and your awesome personality! My wife and I watch you every week..I am glad that you speak your mind to Bethany..and Ramona..if her eyes were any bigger,NASA would land on them.Keep up the great work! I want a signed copy of your layout in Playboy! Your sensational!
Best
Craig
Hull Mass

Kelly, With the outpouring of anger on the show between J&B, at the end of the day you are really giving the viewers what we want to see...an authentic glimpse into a NYC housewife's life...As you say on the opening of the show, "you've created a great life and love living in it". AGREED!
I think you are the best.

Kelly,

I really like your new attitude this season. I have to admit, you were not a big fan of mines last season, but I'm loving you right now. Besides Alex, looks like you may be the peace maker of the bunch. Keep up the good job, and we loved to see you dating and being happy. Also love the wardrobe and the comments you made to the other housewives. Having beef at a fashion show is CRAZZZY!!

good luck

Hi Kelly,

I give you credit for not siding with anyone and minding your own business. Because no one is ever 100% right. It takes two to tango. Even though a lot of people are coming to Bethanny's defense, she has her own faults as well. I think the part where Jill looks really bad is because she is not forgiving Bethanny and is trying to get people to understand her and be on her side. I know what Jill e-mailed you was inappropriate but I think she just feels so emotional when it comes to Bethanny. I think Jill had high expectations from Bethanny like a sister.

Wishing you and your daughters the best!!!

you are so right kelly taking sides is child like.i really like you and alex and now this season i really like bethenny better.last year they were all not very nice to you at the reunion show except alex.do not put up with any crap.stand your ground.thanks bevy!

Since you don't like taking sides . . . Do you still have your Team Jill mug?

Once again, great blog. I like what you said about not commenting on situations where you were not there. Good for you. It's great that you've been trying to keep above the fray. The thing that I've had to remind myself of is that this show has been edited. The scenes that are shown are there to get the most reaction out of the viewers. It's a shame that the scenes seem slanted to the worst drama and create more sympathy for some of the housewives and vilify the others.

Kelly, I loved the knapsack you had over your shoulder while you were taking pictures. What brand is it, and where can I find it?

Gee, Kelly. Your idea--"to take to the streets and explore what real people are actually wearing"--rings a remarkably similar bell to the website, Beautiful Stranger.tv, on which I swear I saw you featured way before you were a Housewife. Just in case you forgot, here's the link...http:www.beautifulstranger.tv/snaps/kelly-k.aspx

Gee, Kelly. Your idea--"to take to the streets and explore what real people are actually wearing"--rings a remarkably similar bell to the website, Beautiful Stranger.tv, on which I swear I saw you featured way before you were a Housewife. Just in case you forgot, here's the link...http:www.beautifulstranger.tv/snaps/kelly-k.aspx

Kelly,
I am sorry but, you are very passive aggresive. Like the other viewer I agree you are secretly laughing about B. You say you forgive her but twice you have rehashed what she did to you. When you forgive you do not keep bringing it up. Also you try to make people think you are so big and not a press mongrel like the other housewives, but why are you on the show? YOU ARE ON A REALITY TV SHOW did you forget that? And the only reason you aren't taking sides is no one can justify Jills behavior towards B. Your hatred for her is so obvious, it is killing you that so many people are taking her side on this. Bitterness will eat you up take some advice get rid of it.

Kelly, I have heard both Jill and Luann comment that they want to go to the party at the Playboy mansion. I get the feeling that if you don't include them you will bear the wrath of the mean girls. You will be treated like Bethenny next season.

Ok - you decided to learn a "new craft" and "take to the streets, explore what real people were actually wearing, write an article based on how the street influences fashion, and photograph the interviewees." You then describe how much fun it was and "More importantly" In the process you state that you were "able to explore many areas of New York and meet a lot of different people, mainly handsome men." You then state that based on your experience you "learned that people define themselves by their accessories." How absurd! Is it possible that people use accessories in order to "fit in" by following the current fashion trends, no matter how unattractive they might be? Take for example your "trendy" knit hat? Do you define yourself by that hat?

Perhaps you could re-evaluate this statement and clarify what you mean.

Kelly,

The first season, the show depicted you as a person to dislike, because of the Bethanny scene. But seeing how Bethanny is treating everyone this season, forsaking her friendships for the sake of a man, I can see why you said and acted the way you did. Some people think you're in your own little world, but I see a person who's living her life the way it's meant to be. You are a little out there, for sure, but then again, who isn't in their own little way. It's kind of refreshing that you are trying to smooth things over with Bethanny, but found it disturbing that a so called "friend" had to send you a "text" that truly sounded threatening. It was childish for Jill to send a text that basically sounded like, if you talk to Bethanny, you can't be her friend or be a true friend. You don't need drama like that in your life. You're doing good by trying to keep the peace!

Why are you on reality TV? I really don't understand. You always complain, but then IMMEDIATELY follow your complaint with a statement about general gratitude/appreciation; it doesn't come off as authentic. You seem like you just decided you want to come across as the nice girl, so you throw in that line: makes you very two-dimensional. I don't, therefore, understand why Bravo keeps you. You are not very interesting to watch or read...though you may be both nice and interesting in real life. I would suggest you edit your blog. I'm embarrassed for you because you say you are a writer, but you make really basic mistakes.

Your friendship is probably a love and jealous one. You are smart, gentle, and probably the most geniune. Raising kids is hard. That is my own job. But please help these apples take the high road and stop making jabs at each other. I am not voyaristic but I love the horse in you apartment.

M

get off the reality show if you don't like it and you can't blame B for your bad rap - just replay season two!

Bravo Kelly,

You are trying hard to be honorable in this endeavor...so continue to listen to yourself. The problem is that America has come to believe that they get to chime into everybody's life and comment or criticize. You have never been as cutting and as cruel as Bethanny ...given her really nasty mouth, one wonders how she cries after giving others a tongue lashing.

The episode with the guy interviewing you was embarrassing. And these are the mixed signals you give off and end up letting some of us think you are a total airhead. I am surprised the writer wanted to still date you. I thought you sounded exactly like you wouldn't ever want to be seen....as a great body with no brain what so ever. The manner in which you responded to his questions or at least the one they chose to put on the show make you look like a flirting twit(to me). I think it is often to understand the context of some of your responses...they seem totally unrelated to what is going on at the moment. Did somebody tell you never say anything that could be held against you or that you could be sued for? Because you responses are so often disjointed rather than a simple direct responses. You must be attempting never to have to be legally held to anythng you say...I don't know...its is weird?

But I always have a soft heart for any working singl/divorced mother...so I do wish you luck....I suggest you sit with a good friend and watch the show and ask them what they would have said instead of what you said in a given situation...get the feel of what the audience might have seen as an appropriate or normal response.

Love you this season!
You have come such a long way from last season. You are staying true and honest. Now if Jill and LuAnn can stay off your back for making up with Betheeny.
This is a power struggle and Jill and LuAnn are making everyone pick sides. Such High School.
Keep doing what you doing and find another journalist
and date that guy - you guys make a cute couple and he makes you just light up. They do not come along everyday.

People are clearly jealous that you are beautiful, wealthy, stylish, and attract hot men like Max. Ignore the haters & keep "enjoying the beautiful life you have created". (love the horse in your apt.)

Kelly I love how you are trying to change from last season. But sometimes I think you are in a different world. I really don't understand why you are on the show.

Great blog! And love your attitude.

Hang in there as it can't be easy with profoundly egocentric Bethenny & Crazy Ramona. Then there's catty Simon & creepy Mario~~eeww.

Popcorn & beer are perfect accessories for Housewife watching!

Hope all is well in Kellyland!
Be careful. Jill has already put you on her radar, and you are stuck in a petty game of battleship! She insinuated you were a "liar"....that would be enough for me. Game over! She lost any and all her points. Do not let her back you into a corner, and make you look foolish and weak. Sink her battleship doll! And bring extra life jackets in case LuAnn grabs hold of your foot when her ship has sunk....
Be well!
aly in D.C

i want a reality show just about you love your part you are honest and a great person

We all need a few more Kelly figures in our life! You know how to have fun, but can call it out when someone is showing disrespect, I love it!

KELLY, one word: WEIRD!!!!

I adore you! You're a very sweet woman whose life seems fulfilling. I think a lot of jealous women criticize you because they resent the fact that you have been quite fortunate. I adore you and your girls. :)

Kelly,
OMG! I'd be so "like" drunk, if I took your advice on your drinking game idea. (you need a new script)
Your youngest daughter cracks me up. They should give her, her own show...

Kelly, it is so apparent that you are suddenly wearing fur - which we've never seen you in before just to take a jab at Bethenny and her PETA campaign. I guess because she looked better in her pics than you did in yours. You smile and act silly and dumb and happy go lucky - but you are sneaky and have a dark side that shows. I wish you would get the fight you are begging for w/her - she will back you right back down and make you look even more stupid than last time. Sunshine, skipping, rainbows and animals skinned alive! Kelly Land.

I lived in Rockford, Illinois for three years. Don't know how a person like you came from such an awful place, but I really do like you and think you're genuine!

I was on Playboy's website to purchase your mag. for my fiance (HE ADORES YOU!) because it is off the newstands! Only TO SEE THAT IT SAYS THAT YOU ARE AN

EX REAL NEW YORK CITY HOUSEWIFE!! Is there any truth to this???????

Hello???? Is anybody in there???

Think you're great! Bring culture to the show, like you did last season with the walk-through of the Richard Meier exhibit, or the fashion shows you attended. Your girls are adorable. :)

Kelly,

No one is perfect. But you really know how to enjoy yourself and be spontaneous and thats what makes you a great example of a life well lived.

What a breath of fresh air!

I hope many take your advice & enjoys lots of popcorn & beer! What a great attitude.

Thanks & best to you & yours--

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