Kelly, In the words of Whoopi Goldberg, from the movies Ghost, "Molly, gurl you in danger". You are. You are in danger of hurting your good name and reputation on that show. You obviously have personality and mood disorder issues and to continue to work with such manipulative people, production and press is not good. I would think a good therapist, maybe some medications and time out of the toxic waste dump, NYC Housewives, would do you all the world of good. Your just not cut from the same cloth as the rest of the, dare I say ladies, on the show. I love the fact that you try to be better and yet, with all the insecurities you have, you get defensive, then irrational and then, well just scary.

Spend time with your little ones, do more of the good work you are doing with the needy and get out of the NYC Housewives. I hope your summer is drama free and that you take to heart what I have to say. A concerned viewer and fell personality and mood disorder sufferer. I really do see many of the same problems I have in you. Hope I help. Loren Simpson, Torrington, CT

Yeahhhhhhhhhh Sherri P.... psst think they don't like too much of us honest ladies ... another hmmmm for Bravo

you are right kelly!

Oh brother! She didn't just write that did she? Well, Kelly I agree with you, I mean look at you. You are as about as insecure as a person can get. Just goes to show that you can be beautiful on the outside but if you don't have confidence, even the most beautiful swan can look like ugly. My GOD Kelly, everyone sees this but you, perhaps if you took a hard, honest look at yourself, and humbled yourself even you could change.

Kelly,

I know sometimes you talk in circles but you didn't deserve to be treated like that. I don't agree with everything you've ever said or done but you felt like you had to defend yourself before they started to attack you. You seem so nice. Don't surround yourself with drama Jill and LuAnn seem like cool people.

Kelly,
Print what you just wrote and pin it to your mirror...so YOU, see it every morning when you wake up. Because what you are projecting and accusing the others of doing....is YOU, YOU, YOU, YOU!

Kelly,
Just wanted to support you in light of this past season's episodes and the horrible way in which you were treated by the others. Boy, did you and Jill take it in the shorts! It's nice to know that not everyone does one-night stands like it's no big deal; they looked at you like you were speaking a whole different language or that you were some kind of alien creature. Problem is, they don't understand your language because they come from far different backgrounds and experiences from which you've come. They may think you're crazy, but many east coast people seem to live in/on a whole different world themselves! Keep striving for higher standards and all will be well. We all will have Someone to answer to for our actions and words someday, and I for one would like to have that experience be more rather than less pleasant, even if ridiculed by others. I remember many times asking my mother if I could do something that deep in my heart I knew wasn't right, and her answer was always the same: "Would you jump off a cliff just because everyone else was?" Bottom line: you're unique, and your values seem mostly on track, so keep on fighting for yourself and beliefs despite those that may make fun of you. Take care; wish you well.

I think Kelly can not fight the hard core N.Y. women. They are brought up different. Jill has that Long Island
Mentality and Betheny, holy catfish...she is snippy. I think in the end Alex kind of looks good. She really did not do a number on anyone these past years and boy did they rip her up the back. LuAnne, not sure if she is real or not. Now Ramona, she is the real deal, no class but not a bad guy either. She spouts like a whale...says exactly what she thinks, some things are better left unsaid. To be honest looks like a whole lot of jealousy going on and I think mostly its Jill that is the jealous one.

Thanks Confucius. Fascinating. Get some help. And an English as a Second Language tutor.

I just watched the reunion, I was so glad to see you walk off the set. I'm hoping this means you are leaving the series. Kelly Land is too much. You never make sense and you always say crazy and mean things to the other ladies. I don't think TV is your thing. You always make things up as you go and its always in your favor. Always acting like you are the sweet and innocent one. Remember who boldly went and posed for Playboy. You never seem to say anything crazy about that subject.

Kelly - It seems you have thoughts you try to convey when speaking, however you have a problem putting them into words when making a statement. Perhaps you should seek a professional to help your speech become more effective. Going off on a tangent never accomplishes anything really. I do wish you well for the sake of your children.

THINK OF YOUR CHILDREN AND LEAVE THE SHOW. IT IS OBVIOUS YOU DONT NEED THE MONEY. IT IS SAD TO SEE YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T MAKE SENSE. GO BACK TO YOUR REGULAR LIFE AND MAKE YOUR KIDS YOUR PRIORITY.

Take your own advice!!!!!!!

Seriously.

Also, I want to say this as gently as possible so will take a cue from LuAnn's wording on the Monday night Reunion Special. You instigated about 75% of the conflicts with the other women this season. Then you would not let it drop, nor would you let them speak their mind on your accusations and/or comments. If ANYONE was a bully - be it on the island, the boat or just in general it was YOU. Kelly Killoren Bensimon is the bully, not everyone else.

AND GET A HAIRCUT.

Kelly, your head must be spinning out of control.. With so much to say and can't connect the words to say it.. You come across like you got up, left the house & forgot to take your meds... You say mean things and smile, like that makes it okay.. You and your snarky remarks should go back BEHIND the camera.. Geesh.. You haven't put together one coherent sentence all season!!!!!

Kelly I really get you!!! I sincerely understand you and you are not crazy. If everyone was like you this would truely be a better world for the meek and kind heart. My advise to you "Protect your heart and feelings put them somewhere safe when you are around people you know are not like you. save your emotions for the really tough times that will come so you will save yourself from spinning.

Kelly you are soooooo sweet and you are not nuts. You are right these girls are petty. I absolutely think you are kind and true to who you are. You dont need a one night stand or a quicky you need to remain who you are and wait for the right one to come along. When you were with all of the girls on vacation they completely were out of line. You are a respectable person. Dont get sucked into this drama around you. Keep Jill close she is a good friend. You dont have to be expressive or share your feeling with these girls they will just turn it around and use it against you.

Are you a Midwest girl? Thank you for standing up for relationships and avoiding the whole "one-night-stand" issue. Some of us do that because of our values, but I have also worked at a job for 12 years where a one-night stand could get me fired.

How many times do we have to watch Kelly's eyes rolling. I get enough of this from my teenager, must a grown women have to behave this way, and on camera!

I don't understand how a mother of two cannot be completely empathetic to a woman pregnant in the early stages, not to mention bearing the fact that she's just lost her father?! Every one can sypathize with the death of a family member! Maybe her 'grapes' comment set you off and you crossed the proverbial 'point of no return' for the whole remainder of the week - I just don't understand how you talk so much about 'why can't women support each other and lift each other up' and you seemed to be out for her throat from the beginning. Finally the Countess is making some sense...why didn't you just lay low and lay off Bethany?

And how can you still not own your part in the drama?! You've taken absolutely no responsibility and you're the one that spewed by far the most venom. Maybe you're upset that she's more quick witted and her points are actually on target? - Very confusing...

Just apologize already...

Why do you try to come across as "the nice, innocent one"? You have been just as mean if not meaner than Ramona and Bethany, Do you even watch the show?

Last time I checked Kelly, you were putting Bethenny down the whole time you on "Scary Island." She is a chef! You kept calling her a cook. You called her a "ho bag." Your the one putting others down to make yourself feel better. Go get help and get off this show. I can't stand looking at you anymore.

I strongly suggest you re-watch the show and see who your friends are! I have seen the episode where you were up and down and I just don't get it! You are different, which does not mean bad, but you should really evaluate if this show is for you! Bravo should really give you your own show too, called Kelly Land!

Kelly,

You are the only one with class and grace. I hope you leave the show to get away from those creepy women. You have tried to set a good example and they don't appreciate you. They seem to be jealous of you and will attack and bully you to try to make themselves superior. It hasn't worked. Good Luck to you

Kelly- when u 1st came on...I REALLY wanted to like you. You have a beautiful family and a FAB life. U work as a writer and u have a degree but u r not ARTICULATE. I think you need to let go of all the drama and stop judging so much. I really want to see you next season but I am not sure you can handle the show.

I am not on anyones side on this show. But how can anyone watch these episodes and not notice kelly is not the innocent victim she pretends to be.
Of all the accusations of people attacking her I just didn't see it. Kelley was usually the one making comments about others and then couldn't back them up. whenever she was pressed about things she said she would turn it around and say she was being attacked.
ALmost all the other ladies admit when they have been wrong , Kelly doesn't.
I don't know if she well or not but she certainly acted unstable on that trip.

you are the writer and you don't write anything really? what gives?

Kelly giving advice on how to behave. Now THAT'S funny.

Kelly,

You are a sweet girl, and very beautiful. But half the time I have no idea what you are talking about.. I am lost.. Sorry.. I think you need some help..

Kelly,

I think you have a wonderful heart, but you have to get it together. I thought you and Betheney were going to be friends, but I think with Jill and Luann's influence you began to take on their feelings toward her this season.

Be your own person. Think about what you say before you say it.

Kelly,
You don’t need the other housewives on the show to acknowledge you and respect you. Stay strong and don’t let the turkeys get you down!

kelly i really do like you, just please think about what your going to say before you say it

Teresa from Real Housewives of New Jersey is on your side. Now THAT ought to be enough to keep you awake night......

Good job Kelly on the part 1 of the reunion. Keep deflecting the lousy comments from Alex, Ramona and Bethenny! You are in a higher vibe than those 3. So, what you gotta do is learn to speak their language to get your point across. You will be even more effective!

Blessings!

In agreement with Janet Weikel - you were spot on re Kelly's selective sensitivity. Both her friend Luann and Jill pretty much referred to her as an "immature child" with their comment and Kelly DID NOT take offense to that.

Also interesting she told Sonja to stop referring to "the past" and yet that's all she's done re B. I enjoyed your comments Janet. :)

where can we find the fashions worn on the reunion show just recently aired???

Kelly: You have very good intuition and a good sense of "what's going on here", and you are a sensitive person. You don't have words to express your intuitions and feelings, your awareness of the games being played and the real undercurrents... so you get stuck unable to express yourself.
The Housewives [even viewers] take advantage of that and rush in to make you seem dumb/stupid/crazy. You are none of those. You need to learn words to describe and communicate intuitions/feelings/awareness.
One useful method is Transactional Analysis which would put names on what you are experiencing and words for your insights and awareness. Please consider it. It would clarify everything for you and you would not be confused again or have *anyone* make you crazy. There are probly quite a few Transactional Analysis counselors in your area.
It would open your eyes and be a tremendous comfort and validation to you.

hmmmmmm........what can i say about this....... words to live by.

I think it's really just sad how you grasp at straws to hold on to your point of view. I have NEVER once seen you try to see things from Bethenny or Alex's P.O.V. Or anyone else's for that matter. You are completely Kelly-centric. A little empathy would add A LOT of rainbows and unicorns to your life.

Something I've noticed again and again and again is that none of the cast members ever let you finish a sentence.

Ever.

They repeatedly cut you off with their own viewpoints. And then say that you are spacey because you make no sense. How can you, when you're never allowed to finish a sentence or a thought? I just today came across some of your videos on YouTube. What a pleasure it was to hear and see you speak uninterrupted. You are calm and relaxed. I would love to see you post more videos more often. And I would love to see some segments on Bravo (without the other cast members) where you talk about fashion and style.

kelly,treat others how u wanted to be treated and DONT say things that u cant live bye.

The best way to get your point across is to practice what you preach. Kelly wants everyone to be what she wants them to be. She'd get in a lot less arguments if she allowed the other ladies to be who they are by accepting their differences.

i never go online. but i can't get enough of the NYC girls. i have posted like 4 or 5 times. i never say anything that can't be posted and i don't write but a few lines. so whats the deal? BRAVO

Nope...I'm pretty sure Bethenny looks better either way.

Kelly, Please take a long, deserved vacation. Long season and it shows when you speak. Take all that defensive energy and steer it towards your beautiful girls. Take all that beautiful body energy and steer it towards your heart. Until then, please stop doing interviews, you're KILLIN us viewers!

Kelly,
If you had said that quote over and over like a mantra. Maybe the trip on the island would have been more peaceful. I got you last year. You really dont like drama ans gossip. Last year I noticed how uncomfortable you would become whenever anyone would gossip. I remember when helping Jill shop for her 16k Berk. Jill made a rude comment about the van campens very young healthy normal kids. Making you(I could tell) very uncomfortable. She said Alex and Simon could take parenting lessons from you. Then Jill said, "I'm sorry I'm just saying their kids are not very well behaved and your daughters are so very well behaved."You completely ignored her comment and changed the subject. If you ask me your girls looked bored out of their minds. No need to stick up for Jill. I havent seen ot heard her defending you since the return home. She's actually berated you and tried making you look like a fool especially when trying to explain the jelly bean story.It seemed she had already heard the story along the grapevine. Kelly Killoreon Bennsimon leaves the DRAMA at the door. I'm sure I havent been the only one who noticed that from the get go.

Love the way you now seem to be all enlightened taking the high road. Too little, too late.

Kelly,

When asked a question, you need to take a deep breath, think...no matter how long it takes...and then, think again, and then, think again, and then, speak. Then, if you misspeak, admit it and apologize.

Kelly:

Could you like, expand a bit? The teaser is that you are going to blog about the Housewife's press addiction and instead you deliver two sentences of bad Haiku? I try so hard to understand where in the heck you are coming from and for the life of me, I cannot! Why bother?