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Kelly Killoren Bensimon

Learn From Me

Kelly is left speechless after an emotional episode.

May 11, 2010

 

Always follow your instincts.

I knew I should have never gone on the trip.

I am incredibly embarrassed by how I acted.

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Good Lord Kelly you have a serious problem. Have you ever listened to yourself? YOU NEVER, EVER, EVER MAKE SENSE. LEAVE BETHANY ALONE...

You know Kelly, I think you have an issue expressing yourself. Watching you over the last 2 seasons and you seem nice, but you CANNOT support an argument, EVER. Think before you open your mouth. You take what you hear other people talking about and then run with it but its not always the case. You should wait 3 seconds before you open your mouth about anything. And get a freaking sense of humor for Christ's sake, I mean come on. . . relax. You are so up tight.

You say this is not real life, this Bravo show you are on..... However, I'm not buying what you're selling. You need to seriously consider taking yourself out of the public eye.

I was a little surprised by your behavior, but how refreshing that you own it. Some of the other wives - and on the other shows - could take a lesson in humility from you.

Kelly.

Dont stress it. Things happen, tempers flare. I dont care what anyone says you are probably the most REAL person on there.Stay loyal to your friends it doesnt happen oftern on that show. Applause Applause

Is it just me or does it seem like this season is dragging on and on?!? Tonight's episode was totally uninteresting and seemed to lack the usual "fun"...Kelly seems to really be the only genuine one on the show and does not like all the drama and gossiping the other ladies so openly seem to always want. Although tonight's episode wasn't as interesting as the others have been this season, I will continue to watch! Good luck to all the ladies and their families!

Thats it? How about some public apologies...I am sure after next weeks episode this blog entry is going to seem even more appalling to me.

When you are wrong and say hurtful things, apologize. It is that simple.

Kelly, You should be ashamed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to apologize immediatley.

I was going to leave you a negative comment about your behavior but you owned it. Embarrassing is exactly the word about your behavior.

For someone that doesn't want to talk about "feelings"... you certainly were feeling more than anyone...

you really are a lost soul aren't you..

You can't hide your true colors. Enjoy your "non-processed" gummibears.

Kelly I truly feel for may I make a suggest don't speak and if you have to just stop think for a good 20 mins before saying anything because you are coming out to look like a dummie. If you don't like the crowad why go or may I ask was this a paid trip and you didn't want to turn down the freebie.

Good for you Kelly. No one is perfect and to recognize and be accountable for your behavior is commendable. You need to let go of your Bethany issues for your own happiness!

Kelly, I apologize profusely for believing that you were not intelligent enough to be embarrassed by your boorish behavior. I had seen nothing to make me believe that you were capable of being self-aware of your actions and attitude.

Now I might have to view you in a different light. Oh well, now I can go make lemonade from lemons.

You know for the most part I think you try to be positive. This episode displayed a very different side of you. I mean you attacked Bethenny without provocation and I really didn't understand where all that anger came from. She was just sitting there trying to support Sonya and you called her a ho bag? I really hate when anyone says that about women especially mothers of daughters. It seems that you are taking on the personailty and the issues of others - the same way you accused Alex of being last episode. I wish you the best and hope you don't attack anyone like that again.

No worries Kelly. I love you. They are a tough crowd and you were ambushed and outnumbered. You rock. Remain true to yourself. I hope Bravo posts this.

I am so glad you are embarrassed. You should be.

Kelly, Kelly, Kelly. You had so much to say during this episode and all you have to say for yourself now is that you're embarrassed? For someone who lives in the land of lollipops and cartwheels you sure hold a mean grudge.

You can't hide your true colors, and tonight's episode (and perhaps next week's too) proves it.

Kelly...Bethenny was right...why did you have to start crap...and you just kept it up...you need to grow up and personally I think you have issues....

I have huge respect for that.

kelly: you should review past episodes. you were the first to be rude and you still do it. bethany has NOT said anything about your children so dont try to use that as a sympathy bid! go back to school!

Kelly, this is by far, your most articulate blog yet! Congrats!

You are highly entertaining. That is the kindest thing I can say.

i agree with gracie: you at least owned your bad bahaviour! learn from it

for once....I agree with you!

Kelly.... I'm glad that you identified that the behavior of the other girls was catty and malicious. I was very surprised by your reaction to Bethanny, but am glad that you decided not to fake it. I wish that you could have held back a little bit, and just get in small digs, but I commend you for being a true friend to Jill and not wanting to partake in the gossip and negativity that the other housewives like to partake in. I love you, Jill, LuAnn and am starting to get to know and like Sonja. I think that the show would'nt be the same without you. Keep up the great job with your career and your kids! You rock!

Wow....I have to say my intention was to rip you a new one....but honestly to see that you owned up to your bad behavior I have to say I am shocked. I am sincerely shocked.....so for one episode I am not going to tear you apart!!!!!!!!

This may be your most intelligent blog so far. You always try to take the high road, or seem to, but my goodness! I think you've got some emotional scars from who knows where. Just lashing out at Behtenny was ridiculous! My goodness, she was pregnant and had just lost her dad. Have you no compassion? You brought up last year with her over and over again. Have you not learned it is better to forgive and move on. And in the previews Jill says you call her while you are on the vacation. I guess you were reporting back to Jill and LuAnn as to what was going on. Really????????????

Kelly I am glad you realized how crazy you acted. I was shocked! I hope to never see that side of you again. It was awful! Poor Bethenny...I am glad she didn't lose her baby as a result of the constant craziness you were throwing her way!

Apologize to Bethanny!!

Yes, verbally attacking a pregnant woman is never a good move.

By the shortness of your blog post, I have to wonder why you even bother? Since you tried so hard to publicly humiliate Bethenny, you should make a "real" attempt to publicly apologize for your cruelty. Her father just died, and she is pregnant. From a woman to another, a mother to another, stop with the passive aggressive behavior and stop disguising your so called "realness" to be cruel to another. And that my dear, did not involve editing.

You were very rude and insensitive to Bethenny regarding her Dad. I'm glad to see you say you are embarassed because you really did act inappropriate to Sonja and Bethenny.

When these show tapings are concluded, you need to sit back and take a good hard look at yourself. After watching you the last two seasons, I see that you can not hear what other people are saying. I'm trying to speak kindly but I think you are an "air head". I can't find the proper word...... sorry. You just won't let it rest about Bethany and you have the need to dig at her constantly. This is a sign of someone with "issues". Talk to someone ........

Kelly, you live your life with this "who cares" attitude and that works very well for you. Just remember that that is not how everyone chooses nor should choose to live. I do think you are smart but I think you get flustered and nervous when you get upset and rational thought seems to go out the window.

Wow. Pretty short winded when you blow it... waaaayyyy long winded criticizing every one else....

Kelly, once you said what you felt you had to say to Bethany, you should have let it go. You've been hanging around Jill far too much this season and she's rubbing off on you. Forget and forgive - and if you can't - then keep your mouth shut. It's doesn't do you any good to rehash and rehash.

Okay you are crazy!!! You may be a nice person but something does not register---I notice that when others speak you take everything they say out of context. I think you really need to listen, process and then speak. I will not beat up on you but until you have proof of something you cant accuse someone of something.

Kelly stop making a lemon out of a mole hill???????

Its ok Kelly you make Lemons of Lemondade, lol!

you know what Kelly? good for you. you did bad, you owned it, no excuses. I have a new found respect for you. Not like other housewives who keep digging themselves deeper by blaming other people. wow. that was the best blog you could have written.....Im genuinely impressed, you could teach some of your friends a lesson.

Loved the sunglasses you wore at lunch...who were they by?

You did freak out a tad bit. You should stop being so uptight and stop sticking up for Jill. Jill is the biggest problem on the show....WHY DON'T YOU SEE THE DRAMA SHE CAUSES?

Kelly

It's a shame you went on this trip with a group of fun women and managed to be mental! Why couldn't you just have fun?

After watching tonights show I don't think you are stable enough to be on this show. You should beg off and get some help. You just can't move on from the issues with Bethany you all settled that along time ago and you just keep bringing it up!

Are you planning on hiring her as your chef? If not why do you care what her title is? She is successful is whats she does. WOW you were over the top I think Jill has you tied up sooo tight and feeds you this hatred!!!!

In the words of Bethany " GO TO SLEEP"!!'

It's good that you acknowledge your appalling histrionics but what I'm not sure you will own is the specific accusations you leveled at Bethenny - none of which are true. It's one thing to call someone on the truth but to create a scene based on pure fiction is infantile and makes you easily the least attractive and least interesting to watch.

Before, I did not like you at all. Now I see the aftermath of early scars in your life. I see a very insecure woman, who puts a front. You need to be perfect for everyone to see. Look at your blog, you are apologizing to strangers for your behavior.

I really appreciated that you owned it and that says alot! I think you have some pent up anger at B because it really looked like you attacked her. Her father had just died and it was really bad timing. If you don't have sympathy at least have empathy!

I think for your own peace you should move on from this beef you have with her.

Che