Hey Kelly, I think you are the funniest real housewife - apart from Jill, who is hilarious. You're a positive person that's for sure and to be applauded. It's not easy to be continually positive in a world that favours the negative. I love your smile and your energy - you go girl!

Dear BEAUTIFUL Kelly,

How can so many people be so ignorant? They most certainly egged you on at every turn, dissected every thing that you said over and over until I was sick for you! Mob mentality in action. It was absolutely so base and they think they are smart and sophisticated? I came from a wealthy family went to finishing school's in Europe. I haven't ever seen such vicious people! They don't have a clue what class is or manners. To treat a guest with contempt and ostracize her is very trashy behavior in most peoples worlds. What is the phrase? New rich? The Countess is so correct, money does not buy you class. You, JIll and The Countess are by far the nicest and the classiest on the show. Thank you for being a good role model. And by the way I would have reacted the same way, I would have absolutely terrorized.

I actually think you need serious help. Do yourself a favor and go back and watch this season and see what the rest of us see.

Kelly,

I honestly think ifyou can't take the heat get your fanny out of th kitchen...

Kelly, I was so horrified by your behavior this season. You are like a crazy person gone wild. At first, I thought you were just a little ditzy and were late to events and created drama for extra attention. Now I really have to wonder. It does seem as though you need professional help. Please consider this before you ruin your children. They must be so embarrassed to see you on the show. You are so judgmental and high and mighty. You also blame everyone else for anything not perfect in your life. You jealousy of Bethanny is scary. I think it is going above and beyond for those women to want to help you after you have acted like you have. You should be thanking all of them for being so nice instead of trying to blame them for your problems. You are the problem. Get some help, please! Get of the show until you do so that your family does not have to endure watching that and having their friends watch it.

There seemed to be a lot of people living by their emotions and playing the blame game in every little thing on the trip man. Kelly everyone has insecurities and acts irrationally at times. When you all were getting into it at the dinner table you would attack people then blame them. Then 2 seconds later try to make up with them to keep the peace. It seemed like it was just a very uncomfortable situation for you, because there were people there you seem to not care for; or have some type of un-forgiveness towards. When anxiety like you seemed to have to at that moment is at an excess it can cause confusion. You seem like you want to keep the peace a lot, but really sometimes you like to blame others for your bad actions, like everyone does on occasion. They were not all out to attack you in the end, especially when they were trying to understand where you were coming from. Of course, this is based on what they showed on tv, that im referring to. You all seem to work hard, and want to have a good life, and fame and emotions sometimes cause everyone to do things they would not do on a regular basis. Everyone makes mistakes, I do, and so does everyone. Sometimes people need help, but that is an individual choice, and whatever makes everyone progress forward sounds great. Who knows. Best of luck to everyone.

Kelly, I still am waiting to hear specific reasons or even a single reason why you felt attacked on that trip. Really.......please help your case some and give one example of how someone attacked you. Why do you say things like "rainbows" and "satchels of gold?" Is that your way of trying to sound innocent and childlike? You are anything but innocent. You can't keep saying that you don't like drama when you create it all around you. Also, what did you think would happen by acting the way you have on national television? People will talk and people will have an opinion. I am absolutely blown away to hear anyone be supportive of you and your behavior. Hopefully by having to watch yourself you can self reflect and make some changes to better yourself. I hope your daughters are doing okay with all of this. Good luck to you in finding some truth in your life!

Kelly,
kelly stop stop stop, you really need help and its creppy. You started all the drama and its funny how you think "EVERYONE" atacked when they didn't. Clearly you need help.

Again Kelly- 3 woman and the 4th helped you

Kelly, you are the most contradictory person I have ever witnessed. Please, please stop saying how nice and normal you are! There isn't a nice or normal thing about you yet. Maybe you would have had chance at slightly normal if you had never met Bethany and immediately found yourself up against someone who, not only could see through you but didn't care about you. Which is completely different then someone trying to ruin your life or kill you!!!!
Honestly you really do need some kind of help. Your behavior is far, far, far from normal. And I'm talking not just when you have an out burst, but when you have reactions to things that aren't even going on, or responses completely unrelated to the subject at hand.

I think Kelly needs to really think before she speaks, She had no right on the trip in St John to attack Bethany what so ever and she is the one who caused all the drama, her and Jill should just get their mouths wired shut

Kelly,
You are my favorite housewife! They bullied. They ganged up. They were junior high school mean girls except for Sonja.
Stay sweet, beautiful and smart. Choose better friends.Formulate your thoughts and words in your mind before speaking. They gave you the one, two, three and four punch on national television. Bad form.

Recover, heal, learn and move forward! Remember how amazing you are! Be there for your daughters.

You came across as an emotional train wreck! Bethenny certainly did not deserve to be attacked by you and the name calling was so completely childish. You really should seek some professional counseling because you have this weird ability to attack a person and then play the victim. It's like there's a psychological disconnect somewhere. Such an obvious display of petty jealous behavior toward Bethenny!

You need help not only for your self but your girl "SEEK HELP"

I don't know if it's an act or it's just who you are. You incite, then turn the tables, especially on Bethanny. Do you not watch the episodes? It's so obvious that you are the problem here. You don't make sense......you totally pick on Bethanny. The funny thing is that Bethanny is so funny - sarcastic, but funny. Hope you take a look in the mirror. It's you............

Sincerely Kelly,

If you had the same attitude toward the women as you do your daughters you would have 1/10 the problems. You think they are going to attack you, so you attack first and when they defend themselves you play poor Kelly. I don't know what happened but there is no shame in seeing someone about this. Its probably something you've carried around since childhood. Life could be so much better...

Kelley it might be a good idea to use words that you understand. In one of the shows you stated that you were looking for a "Renaissance man" - someone who will drink beer and play pool with you. Did you know that the definition of Renaissance man is: noun
1.a cultured man of the Renaissance who was knowledgeable, educated, or proficient in a wide range of fields.
2. (sometimes lowercase) a present-day man who has acquired profound knowledge or proficiency in more than one field.
Somehow I don't think beer drinking & pool describe that person.

Although I understand there is a lot of editing going on and we, the audience, does not get to see the action exactly as it happens, I do think that you are so self absorbed that you think everyone is attacking you out of envy or jealousy. You seem to always be on the defensive and react to people even before they are through with what they are telling you. Maybe you should take a good look inside to understand why you do that in order to become a better person, not so judgmental.

OMG honestly not to be a "bully", there is something not right with you now. You were always mean and thought you were better than everyone as does Luann but you were a normal mean, now I believe you may have had or be on the brink or in the middle of a nervous break down! you need to take time off relax and breath and get professional help to continue to be there for your kids!

Kelly, I watched the entire episode and I had no favorites going in...I wasn't on anyone's team. I honestly did not see you get bullied by anyone. All I saw was you interrupting and talking over everyone with a litany of complaints that goes back for years. I also saw the episode of you and Bethenny calling a truce and the Brooklyn Fashion Week meeting where you agreed to never bring any of the past up again and yet you did...over and over and over. What if you were to meet with a life coach or a communications expert and watch that episode together? The coach could observe the interactions and point out what went right and what went wrong. Please do something because you cannot go thru the rest of your life communicating in this way. You are a good person and I would like to see you seek help.

Kelly,

Perhaps you did have a breakdown, I am not sure. It did sound that way. You should seek professional help concerning your issues with Bethenny.

I think the show has gone by the wayside now. It is no longer funny. It is just a bunch of selfish, self-centered women starving for more attention. And worst of all, getting paid for it.

These women have all had luck on their side. There may have been some pitfalls, but they came out smelling like roses.

It is amazing how going through a divorce these women can still maintain their lifestyles. Well, of course their are the ones who remarried well so it is understanable that they can maintain their lifestyle.

I've never seen women behave this way before. They are crude, crass and uneducated. They want us to believe they are sophisticated, educated, elegant, philanthropic women. WOW - wrong. None of them have manners or social skills. I'm not watching this program again. New Jersey Housewives - here I come.

Your Breakthrough - More like your Breakdown... Yikes...

You do need help! This isn't bullying, its the truth. This is also the truth to, you put yourself in the situation where you feel like people are being bullies to you. Maybe if you didn't attack other people, they won't attack you either. Plus, stop changing the truth around to satisfy your own little world.

Bullying!?
Dude, you took offense to a gift basket!
How is it that everyone was attacking you yet you were the only person saying mean things. Bethanny had just lost her father and you call her a hoe bag??! Wow. Really Classy.

Kelly,

I have to say that it is quite difficult to be on a reality show, and be under the scrutiny of viewers. I do think you mean well, but you lack good communication skills therefore you sound harsh and like an air head at times. you seem like you are a little slow on the uptake. unfortunetly this crowd will run all over you and you would be the last to know. Since you seem like a spiritual person i hope that you would take yourself out of this environment. You did act inappropriately and instead of giving yourself a time out, just stay away from these people or situations. Good luck!!!

Why are you blogs so short? I thought you were supposed to be a writer. Can't you think of something to write...but please not fiction.

I feel sorry for bethenny and ramona,kelly really ruined that entire vacation for everyone.
kelly is just nuts,she started every arguement with each lady.
and then feels attacked.get a life kelly or some serious help.
ramona spent spent so much money on that retreat and kelly appreciated nothing.
she should of kept her crazyness at home and let the other ladies enjoy themselves and have fun.but i think she ruined it fot them.
she is so selffish and crazy.the lady has some deep issues that she needs to deal with and i hope she gets the help she needs and lays off of bethenny.
kelly your the one doing the bullying and bethenny is usually on the recieving end.

Hey, I get it, KKB....some folks just don't think in a straight line.....many of us noticed this about you from the get go....but invoking Al Sharpton? Really Kelly, Al Sharpton???? She's gone 'round the bend ladies...

Jack Nicholson doesn't look anything like Al Sharton. Like I tell my daughter "think before you speak" or my other fav.... "You can think whatever you want on the inside, but don't say it out loud". Sometimes what you say can make sense to you but no one else, and just make you look crazy...

I am a Certified Master Chef and a certified Executive Chef and I don’t understand why Kelly needs to be so offensive when she underline that Bethanny she not a chef but she is a cook.Most of the chefs in New York they are not certified any way but they cook in amazing way.Please Kelly you need Help................
Gabriele from San Diego

Kelly,
Im on your side girl :) Jill, Bethenny and Alex are so fake it makes me gag and so mean too! Bethenny seems like she just likes to make herself look good and dominate everything in a very catty way. Im so glad I dont live in NYC because I've never met any women this fake. And sleeping around and telling you that you should have a one night stand is maybe their way of saying their jealous of you because youre not a whore lol... and they regret their mistakes, Jill n Bethenny are so mean, I dont know anything about the press issue you mentioned if its true or not but I could totally predict either of them stabbing someone in the back and being two-faced. I think you, Ramona and Sonja are the only nice ones on the show.

you said you don't gossip. So why did you gossip to jill and luann when you got back home. I think you don't know how to tell the truth. You need help.

seriously, i need say things about people on shows because it's like WHATEVER....but i have never been more horrified for you in my life.....you are hate yourself so much that in order to make yourself like you you have to bring people down....you are a miserable human and do not deserve a damn bit of happiness...

It is hilarious that there are those who think just by declaring that Bethenny is not a chef it makes it so. Bethenny attended the Natural Gourmet Culinary Institute in New York to become a...wait for it...CHEF!!! She IS a chef no matter how many times Kelly or her followers insist that she is just a cook. It really makes you look petty and very foolish to completely ignore her training and credentials to fit your own agenda, which is to attack Bethenny over and over and over.

Kelly, you are delusional and need to take a good long look in the mirror. Rational people could see that you were the one on the attack no matter how you continue to try to spin it. The majority of us know who is at fault and it is you my dear. You really are in Kellyland where up is down, left is right and poor Kelly is the victim even though she is the one who did the attacking. Every thing is turned around and upside down in Kellyland.

Kelly, I find it so interesting that you say talking badly about people behind their backs is not your thing, but you don't seem to have any trouble talking badly about Ramona, Bethenny, or Alex behind their backs. What is that? You were also very offended when Ramona told you to shut up. Telling someone to zip it is so much more appropriate!!! What planet are you from?

Kelly, please get out the clouds. As Madea would say "Land child, please land!!!" PS Are you going to post the pictures you took?

Kelly:

We are really rooting for you girlie :) Tonight's party theme: Kelly's Return to Earth!

I cannot wait to watch you tonight as I know you will be back to your normal, together, likeable, fun-loving, beautiful self!

I know how flustering it can be when you're being ganged-up on - makes one feel worthless. Especially when the people who are doing it seem to revel and enjoy watching you squirm. But know this: It's not what people say about us that defines us...it's how we react to the things they say that truly defines us. We're all guilty of this - so hard not to get emotional over petty things sometimes. Now that you've taken the hits; get up off the floor, dust yourself off and start all over again :) It's never too late!

Big Kiss - Big Hug!!!!!

WHO CARES IF BETHANNY IS A COOK OR A CHEF?! The point is, Kelly was on the attack the entire trip and then acted like everyone was crazy when they got upset.

You always attack others, and never look at yourself...Beth may not be the nicest person in the world, but neither are the other women on this show. Look at them all....there are no "heroes" on this show. You poke and prod at others before they even speak to you..Beth is most def. a chef, she has a successful brand, has published a cookbook, and is quite expensive to book for a venue. This girl clearly knows her stuff, she even knows that gummy bears are full of high fructose corn syrup. Maybe you need to take a step back from this particular group of women if they make you flip your lid so easily. Obviously you are attracted to drama

I really felt after watching what I saw unfold this year in the episodes that your going thru something that is driving you crazy. Its hard at times when your dealing with one to many situations at once. But its how you react to them that matters the most. I would say to take a step back from the reality show and take time for you to get yourself back together. You are a beautiful woman and have a great kids. But I would concentrate on healing. I know we didnt veiw all that transpired so I can only assume it was much worse. For there is real concern for your mental state. I think you need to see someone about the issues in your life before you have a total breakdown. Bad press is something you just dont need. I wish the best for you.

Kelly, I felt sorry for you these past few weeks. And it seems like you have posted alot of nice things about yourself here all at once. You are trying too hard. I would prefer to just see you be fun and happy instead of constantly fighting your way through your shortcomings like this.

Kelly,

Last time I checked you were a grown woman & I don't feel a bit sorry for you! You knew who was going on that trip & none of them acted any different than usual. Every time Bethenny would open her mouth you had a catty comment that most of the time didn't even make sense & when she would try to end the conversation you would accuse her of being defensive...UH YEAH! If you insulted me every time I said something I would be defensive too! You should really work on your social skills......among other things.

Kelly: You are beautiful and talented with just one flaw. You can't stand not to be
the center of attention...which is why you snub the women who have men with them you have about ( which is why the problem with Bethanny began in the first place) --you snub these women especially if they have social standing, beauty and who might get more attention than you. At least Jill just openly puts them down in some way rather than ignoring them.

That kind of snubbing doesn't work anymore. It is an obvious admission of feeling inferior. Everyone sees that.

You have many talents, skills and fashion knowledge but I have never heard you express an interest in any of the housewive's accomplishments and talents. You never say anything sincerely complimentary to them. Some may consider you to be a narcissist.

I wish you would talk about your childhood and your height issue, which you have used brilliantly to your advantage and credit. Noone knows who you really are, as perhaps even members of your ancestral family. Kelly, have you ever really appreciated the talents of someone else?

You deserve better. I wonder who Ramona is underneath the pinot grigio. And I wonder who you are under all your gibberish. The viewers I think secretly love all of you housewives on some level. But I know I would like you better if you just would be who you really are. Many blessings.

I would LOVE if you could go one show without saying ...I'm a real person or that's gross or that's creepy. You say ALL the time you don't like drama and your not like the other housewives when your just like them or worse....you attack Bethenny every chance you get, that's all you did last week. You say that you had dreams of her killing you and she's always after you in the press.....seriously I think you need to get over yourself. I really don't think your that important to her to be talking about in the press.....I don't think she would really waste her time.

I saw some previews of tonights show when you have dinner with the other team, You out and out lied about stuff that was said. Bethany did not say half the stuff you said. Shame on you, you lied last year about the conversation you had with Bethany. FYI we watched, where do you come off telling such stories, at least the countess said she needs to hear the other side of the story, I think she's on to you.. I hope they rip you another one at the reunion show.

To annie56

She doesn't do shots. Remember? Zip it.

Looking forward to tonights episode; a title wave should blow in and selectively wipe Jill right off that island. (Not Bobby or the rest of the girls though).

I just watched last weeks episode again.. and try as I might, I just don't see anyone ganging up on you. Also, I watched it a second time, looking for places where something might have been edited out in an effort to make you look bad. Editing is a given or the show would be 24 hours long, but I can't imagine what was taken out, that would improve (or justify) the impressions your behavior and words left. I also never thought anyone could make me feel sorry for Ramona, but congrats you did. As to Bethany going on a trip right after her father's death.. we're talking about a man who never bothered to be present in his daughter's life, but was lucky enough to have that daughter at his side at the end. I totally get why Bethany went on the trip, but can't fathom why you did, unless you went solely to disrupt it.

You may not have had such a bad time if you were not set on making snide comments at every opportunity. There was absolutely no cause to question Bethany's qualifications as a Chef or Cook. You used the work "cook" to be rude and try to get a jab it and you got what you wanted so deal. If you can take it dont dish it. I swear every woman on this show can not wait to get their digs in. If this is how they treat friends I would be very afraid an an enemy.