The truth is that I am very a sensitive person. I hate confrontation, and I am annoyed by the soap opera/mafia sit-downs. I am a very easygoing person, and I don't ever come across these types of moments in my every day life, so I honestly don't have experience handling confrontation. I just want to enjoy the life I am so lucky and grateful to have.
I tried to be nice to Bethenny at the Jill Stuart fashion show. She chose to fight with the new girl, and was rewarded with press and airtime. She did what she set out to do, and honestly, what is wrong with that? It's a TV show!
We speak two different languages. I don't need to get to the bottom of why we had an argument, nor do I like to be policed on a constant basis. What's in the past is in the past, and we are working together, so let's move on.
I am always nice to everyone. But, as I always tell my children, not everyone is expected to be friends. You always have to make the effort to be polite. Bethenny and I don't travel in the same circles, and we have some mutual friends, but I rarely see the cast outside of the show. That isn't good or bad - it's just different.
If Bethenny wants my attention I'd rather do something with her that is fun and productive, rather than indulge her negative behavior. I just wanted the conversation to be over so we could focus on the real reason I was there. Jill invited me over to help with the charity meeting, and I wanted to get started.
"I was so happy to be invited to Alex and Simon's home in Brooklyn, as I had only been there one other time. I went early so I could spend some time there without the other wives,"
...im watching the show and you said you got there early because you didn't know how long it would take to get to brooklyn.... why are your stories from your blogs and the actual show always different? i don't understand
I think you are way wrong on how talk about bethanie. you dont fit in with these girls and should not be on this show!
Wow! I think you need to watch this entire season back to back and maybe you will realize that you are in need of some help. The way you behave around Max is just plain embarassing and the way you flip flop on your views and twist around the fight you had with Bethenny is very disturbing.
oh honey. you may be by law an adult, but you are really, really disturbed. keep talking about yourself-- everyone seems to LOVE it!
I think Bravo dropped the ball on this one. Kelly, you add nothing even remotely interesting to the show. You think you are above everyone else, and really, you are nothing but an air head. You don't even remember what you said to Bethenny at the earlier show. You are a nut bar!
I think Kelly has a very bad memory... she doesn't have a very good memory when she doesn't remember the things the nasty things she said to Bethany... maybe she should watch the re-takes?
Are you an idiot of do you really have no memory of what you say. You denied something that you said on TV, TIVO it, your attack on Bethenny was recorded! You make NO sense! I really wish you weren't on this show.
What is wrong with you? Bethenny is just repeating what YOU said to her and you act like you have never heard it before. You must really be an airhead. Everytime you open your mouth I laugh at how stupid you are.
I didn't even read the blog.....I only came on here to give my opinion about Kelly. The person she is presented as on the show she should be ashamed of. She looks crazy! Did you not remember anything you said to Bethenney? Maybe you don't care what fans of the show think of you but Bethenney is by far a favorite and you are conceited, selfish and just ridiculous. You act like a little kid...."stooooop Bethenney, stoooooop!" Grow up already! "I'm up here and you're down here!" Then you act like you don't even remember saying it, you seriously make yourself look like an idiot......you need to evaluate if you want to be on the show and keep making yourself look like a fool or spare all of us and leave already!
I just want to let you know that I think you are the most immature person I have ever seen on this show. You have children yet you can't even hold an adult conversation with someone. Bethenny is extremely classy and mature for sitting down and trying to talk to you, but I do not blame her for hating you. You swear that your being "an adult" when you can't even talk to an adult without getting heated and ridiculously interruptive. Maybe you should take your own advice.
Kelly, Time to get over yourself. Your manners are atrocious and your overall sense of entitlement and self-importance leave little doubt as to your inflated sense of grandiosity. I enjoyed the show very much before you joined this season and can only help that the producers have the good sense to end your participation in the show as quickly as it began, as your nastiness truly takes the joy out of the show for me.
Bethenny was absolutely correct that you a) are not in charge of her and cannot actually tell her not to speak, as she is, in fact an adult b)communication with you will go nowhere, as you clearly are uninterested in anyone else's opinion or thoughts. Kelly, note to self - it's not 7th grade lunch anymore, you are an adult. You aren't that important outside your grand vision of yourself and your narrow world of entitlement in which you function. It's important that you attempt to gain some insight into the reactions of others as it will certainly benefit your social skills and perhaps make you more palatable to other adults who haven't actually behaved in this condescending and self-aggrandizing manner since middle school.
Kelly is seriously a jack hole. She is clueless and such a baby. She is an idiot and has absolutely no people skills. I have never seen anyone who has worse socializing skills than this woman.
You were entirly annoying on tonights show. You cannot recall one thing you had said to Bethany? GROW up and realize your faults instead of trying to blame other people.
First of all I have to say this. I have never in my life goton a website to post comments. But I just have to after seeing the last few episodes! Kelly, you are honestly.... a bit of a crazy person. You obviously do not recollect anything you ever said to Bethenny about you being better than her and have a very selective memory. Hope you address that.
I think by watching both of you on TV,I can see that your very weirdly intimated by Bethany..I think your very much stuck in your own world as the huge main character and everyone else are just replaceable extra's.. self absorbed,maybe you should view your self as an equal with the girls on the show and you then can start speaking the same language..
Kelly you really are living in your own world. You do not add anything to this show except to show that you suffer from short term memeory loss. You say and do things...then turn around and say that you didn't.
you are so weird. I think you really have a problem. You like to act like you don't remember saying certain things. You try to look so innocent but you are not you are such a freak. No one attacked you, you talk in circles, you are an issue. Strange, strange freakazoid. Something is really wrong with you, learn how to have a normal grown up conversation. You might need help on how to communicate and just be normal with other people. Good lord grow up.
I'm not the type to comment on the behavior of others. I think everybody has their own story, and that makes them who they are. Every once in a while, though, I witness behavior that is inexcusable. That happened watching this "Kelly" person tonight. What a fake yucky person.
You need to get over yourself and recognize you were rude. Its on tape....let see "your here and I'M HERE>>>>"
doesnt get much more clearer than that...
Aplogize,,,you two could be the dynamic duo...
Kelly you look like an idiot in this "drama." You claim not to know what Bethany is talking about concerning the last fight that happened. Basically you looked crazy.. and how were you trying to be nice to her because i never saw that. We will see how things are at the end of the season when everyone gets back together for the tell-all.
I think you both need to resolve the issue or agree to disagree but Bethany was correct. You did tell Bethany that you were up here and she as down there - or at least that is what aired. Evfen if you don't mean to you do come across as being better than some of the other cast members.
If this doesn't get posted I know your scared of hearing the truth.
Truth is your dillusional. Shining your pearly whites will not get you through every encounter with a person. Also its clear when you've heard yourself talk enough and someone says something you dont care to hear you feel the need to shut down. GROW UP and carry on a conversation if your interested in clearing the air you might actually want to hear what someone else has to say. Your apologizes are so not sincere and you yourself is a FOIL (see if you understand that). What I find so funny about your conversation with B is that you dont even remember telling her you are better than her or just care not to remember because you showed your a** and knows their is no excuse for it. All I have to say is the world does not revolve around you, being on nationally tv in that getup you had on for Halloween was "inappropriate" and I have just three words GET OVER YOURSELF.
Whoa.. if I were in front of you, I would not be able to stop myself from slapping your face!!! Betheny handled that 'talk' better. If you are a drama queen in a different way, you claim you are easy going, but you go around town telling everyone about your 'fight' with Betheny. Funny thing.. when Betheny confronted you, you just basically couldn't handle it... Stop... stoppp..stoppp. OH GOOD GOD girl!!! even my husband couldn't stand you...
Kelly, Honestly, acquire some people skills. It's for your own good. You embarass yourself to no end. The way you deal with Bethenney is incredibly childish and self-centered. All Bethenney has attempted to do is clear the air and you don't even have the capacity to understand what she is saying to you. It is a shame that you do not realize the world does not revolve around you. You parade around like you have no idea what is going on around you. It seems that you have some serious confidence issues because of the way you completely attacked Bethenney. Stop acting like a child and be a mother your kids can be proud of.
I think all of the conversations you've ever had with anyone on the show could have been handled much better. You are extremely arrogant and for you to say you do not know what Bethanny was talking about is overly ignorant and immature. Bethanny is way more of a woman then you are and she was the one being attacked. I can not believe you allow yourself to be the way you are. Watch yourself on the show and I hope you grow up and change.
Kelly is such a rude, short-tempered, and self-centered person. GET OVER YOURSELF!!!! I have watched every episode and Bethenny has done NOTHING to provoke you. YOU are the one doing the attacking! I feel sorry for your daughters, it is a wonder they are not little devils with you as their example. You need to appologize and watch the footage. You did everything Bethenny said you did and you have no idea, but guess what honey, its all on camera. Own up to the nasty B***h you are, and apologize not only to Bethenny but to everyone else you treat like s**t.
You do not make any sense at all and you can't seem to remember the awful, cutting, and rude things that you said to bethany. GROW UP. You and your awful behavior make me sick. (not to "police" you or whatever). You are probably the biggest airhead I have ever seen on this network. By the way, that isn't a compliment, so you don't have to go telling everyone what an awesome airhead you are and how you are the best airhead in town....but after viewing your behavior you probably will.
Dear Kelly, You need to get a clue or dvr so you can see that epispode were you freaked out on Bethenny. You attacked her at that bar and you did you saw you were better then her (just press rewind). You need to act your age. You go out with Luanne's nieces and invite your b/f? really??? You are forty you need to grow up. You don't live a positive life but a life of denial. You are full of yourself and its so sad. You say " I am flatteed" what ????/ bethanny didn't say anything to you, to make you feel flattered. You need some serious help
Kelly, You are strange and seem to live in your own little world. I think you're jealous of Bethenny and it shows. You attack her and try to belittle her every chance you get and its sad.
No matter what you say and how many times you say it, you attack her not the other way around. I hope you're watching each episode and plan to change your behavior. I know you will be embarrassed when you see the jealously for yourself.
Kelly you are a very sad woman! I hope Bravo doesn't allow you to be on next season's show. Your idea of conversation sounds like a crazy person!
PLEASE someone get this woman off my show before I quit watching it!!!!!
I thought that the second confrontation that Kelly had with Bethany was so bizarre. Kelly was so evasive and totally tried to dominate Bethany. Not to mention, the fact that Kelly would not acknowledge nor own up to some of the mean things that she had said to Bethany during there first conversation at the restaurant. I can understand why Bethany does not care for Kelly- I do not think I would either.
What is wrong with Kelly? She is such a freak! And why can't these girls stop fighting. I mean Holy crap.
Man, I don't know what planet your from, but Bethenny wanted to clear the air, she wasn't be confrontational. Get a grip.
You are delusional...you asked for the first "mafia" like sit down...did you not?? I think you need to watch yourself on TV to be reminded of what you say, then perhaps you won't look so stupid in the future!!
Kelly -- you're a self absorbed, conceited, control-freak and obviously Bethenny gets under your skin! Probably, because she's a strong, intelligent, real self-made woman that doesn't need her looks to get her through. Face the fact that you are intimidated by Bethenny!
Bethenny is clearly very jealous of Kelly in every episode! I'm sure some of the real confrontations are cut out of the show, but it seems like Bethenny is threatened by Kelly. Bethenny's witty and funny, but that's about all she's got going for her. Insecure people definitely need to work on being more secure, but I guess it's hard when you look like the Grinch! LOL.
Are you really that into yourself that you can't see how rude you are? Between the show and the blog you seem to need a reality check. Best of luck in what you do and hopefully you can join the real world soon; in the meantime why don't you try being a bit empathetic and not so egocentric.
Get over yourself already! You are full of contradictions; whether its what you say on the show or what you tell Harper's Bazaar! Or maybe you just can't remember what you say from one moment to the next! If you say "like" over 20 times in another episode I'll scream! Maybe Bravo will replace you with someone with some sort of a brain next season. Your 15 minutes are over!
Kelly GO AWAY I DO NOT LIKE YOU. YOU SEEM VERY JEALOUS OF BETHENNY SHE'S VERY PRETTY AND SUCCESSFUL AND YOUNGER THEN YOU. REALITY CHECK YOU NEED TO GO GET A JOB ANG GET OFF MY TV!!
Sometimes I question your sanity. You seem to never have any consistent story about anything, whether it is the sit down at the bar with Bethenny or the Halloween party. If you want me and other viewers to start liking you please be real, chill down, and get your stories straight!
Kelly, I just want to tell you that it is incredibly obvious that you are not used to confrontation. What you don't seem to realize is how immaturely you handle them! You are so caught up in your sensitive feelings (I have them too!) that you are oblivious to what you say and do and you act like a high school girl! Seriously, you need to get a backbone, learn to listen and realize that mature people dialogue and don't have to control a conversation because you can't handle it... Bethenny may have her faults but yours are bigger. I hope you figure it out.
You are so classless. You think that you are above everyone on the show, but in reality, you are so far below them. Your insecurity is what you are showing on Real Housewives. Bethenny has never engaged you in an argument-it's always you....and by the way, when you engage her in an argument, you ALWAYS sound like a moron. You accuse Bethenny of saying or doing things when you are just uncomfortable with yourself and acting out. I would say that I felt sorry for you, but that would imply that I thought you were a good person.
I hope you don't resign for next season.
kelly, i think you are one of the most self-centered people i have ever seen or heard, it's like all you eve talk about is yourself. seriously, YOU need to grow up.