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- LuAnn de Lesseps
- Dating Philosophy
- LuAnn shares her thoughts on Kelly's dating philosophy.
I was not critical about Kelly's dating philosophy - just confused. I just didn't understand when she said she liked to do "stuff" on a date. She was being so vague. I guess I'm old fashioned and still like the idea of dinner and a movie.
I think Max and Kelly are a gorgeous couple. I don't get the impression they are really boyfriend/girlfriend though. She certainly doesn't share that info with me. I don't know why Kelly is so secretive about dating. She says she's private, but then why do a reality show?
I thought Alex and Simon's renovation made the house look so much better. It certainly was a big improvement from before. They look very happy with their new home. Jill did a great job.
I think that Kelly and Bethenny rub each other the wrong way and after what happened between them it will be difficult, if not impossible, for them to mend their relationship. Not holding my breath!
- 05/15/2009 - 6:23pm
- Dalia
Hi LuAnn,
You were absolutely correct about the man paying for the dates. Men and women are different and we should celebrate those differences. You are correct about most of your etiquette tips however you were wrong about the "no lipstick at the table" tip. Emily Post writes that it is perfectly polite for ladies to apply lipstick at the table in a restaurant as long as it is brief and no other make-up is applied.
PS. saying Ramona has "crazy eyes" is impolite and it attacks her appearance when you should have stuck to her behavior.
- 05/12/2009 - 7:25pm
- Courtney
Luann~
You are so beautiful and classy. I love watching the show because of you! I can't wait till next season:).
- 05/10/2009 - 7:15pm
- Viewer
How it is that you can not get alone without Rosie amazes me. That may have been a compliment to Rosie, but what the heck does that say about your skills? While Bethenny is giving Rosie cooking classes ( so she will not have to leave the house) Maybe you should stay home a day or two and have Rosie refresh your memory on what it is like to
do housework and be a mother to your child!
- 05/05/2009 - 9:31pm
- krizia
luanne i think that you are very classy, i love you so much. keep being classy, cause you are best at it.
- 05/05/2009 - 8:30pm
- CTgirl
Hi LuAnn,
I just wanted to say out of all of the girls I think you are the the most classy you never get into those ridiculous fight. ( like kelly does.... she thinks that she is all that..)
I also have to say that you are one of the strongest women on the show to you never take anything from anybody but you also don`t start anything... I enjoy watching you every week...
- 05/05/2009 - 8:26pm
- Viewer
LuAnn,
I think you are lovely. As far as the cast goes - Bethenny and Jill are the most entertaining characters (and I love them both). But I really think you seem like a fantastic person. Plus, I appreciate your understated humor. I love the way you comment on things in a polite, respectful manner - but I think we all know what you are really thinking :o)
Thanks for the entertainment and good luck with your book. Sorry about the bad news that has surfaced. You a beautiful woman with a beautiful family. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.
Stay strong and good luck with everything.
- 05/05/2009 - 5:57pm
- Kim
LuAnn,
You are the class of the show. Keep up the loving spirit!
- 05/05/2009 - 5:12pm
- cecilia
Luann I think your kids are great they are so well behave and they are so good to Rosie that says a lot about your character and what a great mom you are also good luck with your book!!!
- 05/05/2009 - 1:43pm
- Viewer
Shocked. I am shocked. I just read the excerpt of your book, expecting nothing much . . . and it's interesting!
The philosophical part intertwined with life experiences is actually of value!
- 05/04/2009 - 8:02pm
- Anne
I think that you are a very classy woman. I agree that class is about making others feel comfortable. You do a good job with that. I just think that 1) you need to get over the fact that your husband is and looks much older than you do.... love is blind and that is why I think you don't see it for what it is...no big deal, especially if you're happy. 2) I think that it is very cool that you are a countess and that your husband's family contributed a great deal to this country (Suez Canal)and that you are proud of that fact, but you married a count... his family's contributions are not yours, and having a snit over who called you "Countess" or not makes you seem petty and snobbish which I don't think you really are. Try to stay true to yourself... the girl from Connecticut.
- 05/04/2009 - 5:39pm
- Jacqueline
LuAnn,
You are having a bad year and the manner in which you have been portrayed this season is rather disappointing. Please exercise caution to protect your reputation. Stay away from Kelly (she is clearly bad news). Surround yourself with people who truly love you and take care.
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- 05/04/2009 - 12:24pm
- Viewer
I like how Kelly enters the show as LuAnn's friend and now LuAnn talks about her.
I also found it odd how LuAnn drooled over Max. So classy!
- 05/04/2009 - 11:09am
- Viewer
I would have thought someone who has traveled the world would know the difference between Latin America and South America. Argentina is in South America. Makes no difference where the man is from he is beautiful.
- 05/04/2009 - 8:44am
- Jacqueline
Let me say, you are setting the utmost proper example for all the women of today's society. I admire you greatly and I feel as though you are a very strong, intelligent classy, lady.
God Bless you,
Jacqueline
- 05/03/2009 - 5:23pm
- MrsLewis98
I find it funny that people want you to "ditch" your title. It is what it is. I agree that you make a bit much of it, but I excuse it because I believe it is because you have an honest pride about it. Many of your tactless statements stem from honestly not realizing how things might sound to others. I believe you have a good heart and an real desire to help others. While I do not find everything you say and do appropriate, I do hope to see you on subsequent seasons.
- 05/03/2009 - 4:03pm
- Texas
Countess,
You are my favorite housewife! You are caring, giving,and polished. Sorry to here about the divorce, its the Count's loss. You definately should open a manners boot camp. Ramona, Mario and Kelly should be enrolled pronto, if not sooner.
- 05/03/2009 - 7:44am
- Viewer
I've been ill the last few days so spending most of my time on the computer while resting. I did a google search of Kelly, and it appears many, many people who have worked with Kelly over the years echo the same comments posted on these blogs.
A lot of unsavory issues. I think her Halloween getup and Max's attire speak volumes regarding her lifestyle.
The legal issues regarding the jewelry line, and the assault charge are very troubling. I doubt her ex-husband was aware she donated his services to Jill's auction.
I hope Bravo terminates her contract, however, if they persist in keeping her in the mix, I hope you're scenes with her are very limited.
- 05/03/2009 - 1:14am
- Viewer
LuAnn,
Please disregard that crazy woman that wrote "I can't believe I am communicating with royalty". People like her has nothing to do.
You are great and a very classy lady. That is all that matters.
- 05/03/2009 - 12:51am
- Viewer
Luann,
Being a youngin and literally decades closer to 21 then Kelly, I don't think dinner and a movie is old fashion at all. I don't know what this "stuff" is that Kelly is talking about, wish she had been more clear but I think Kelly was just trying to see "cool" and "hip" in front of the girls. Inviting Max seemed to be a bit of "look at what I have" to me and was not becoming of a women at all. I think Kelly needs to take some lessons in class from you because you seem to have it. Being in a relationship is not about doing "stuff" but building your life together with another person. I love my boyfriend so much that just laying in his arms all day and watching movies is enough for me. I also think Kelly is very private about somethings because she has something to hide or she doesn't want anybody to see the truth behind whats really going.
- 05/02/2009 - 4:56pm
- Viewer
I can't believe I am communicating with royalty. This is too good to be true. Really!!!
You know when you told that pretty little black girl that she can be a model when she loses weight, it was like you were talking to me. Now I am inspired to lose weight and be a model too! I could not have done it without you. You are royalty so I am sure you know what you are talking about and Indian too??? I can't not believe it. Imagine that! I will write all my relatives in India and tell them that next time they see me, I shall be slim and work as a model because the beautiful royal Indian lady inspired me!!!!
- 05/02/2009 - 3:47pm
- Lisa-Suffolk Ct
For the LOVE OF GOD.....Hang it up with the "Countess" thing already.
It is nauseating.
- 05/02/2009 - 3:00pm
- Abby
I think you are beautiful. You are so strong. You love your kids unconditionally. I'm going to buy your book.
- 05/01/2009 - 7:22pm
- TVannie
Dear Luann,
I am so glad you are holding Kelly at arms length instead of becoming close friends with her. You are wise not to befriend someone until you know them a little better.
Kelly seems a little immature on camera. When you said "Kelly thinks she is 21" you hit the nail on the head. It's not that Kelly is aging badly, she is very striking and has a great figure. However, the high pitched baby voice is bad. I think she probably makes her sound younger. Actually it makes her sound silly.
I saw a video of a photo shoot that all of the housewives did after this season. You were all posing together. You had on a stunning green cocktail dress that looked great on you.
During the shoot I got to hear Jill make a very crude remark about her breasts and I got to hear Bethenny say that anyone who doesn't have money right now is an idiot.
You wisely didn't get into any of that stuff and instead just acted professionally and got ready and followed instructions.
Good for you.
- 05/01/2009 - 7:16pm
- Kelly
I can't believe YOU are writing a book on manners given several incidents on the show - seems to me you need to read a book on manners.
- 05/01/2009 - 5:22pm
- Viewer
You have style and grace.. you're a wonderful mother and a caring friend. You have integrity.. you're intelligent, you have a great sense of humor and you have the confidence to laugh at yourself.
Ditch that stupid Countess title.. you're a native American.. you can't top that, Europe and the mideast is full of "royalty".. and most of them live off their title and have no core character and none of the qualities you possess.
- 05/01/2009 - 5:11pm
- Rosanne
Hi Luann, I can't believe you of all people can't understand Kelly. She is the "It girl" of today. She does not think that things are not that important unless it's about her kid's. I get her. Why was it so important that she was not there at her party when all of you who went should like each other? You had to know she would arrive at some point. Enjoy the night! It's a party. As far as having a cash bar is concerned. I don't blame her it's Holloween! You don't know all these people who are attending. Want better way to keep someone from getting out of control then having a cash bar? Unless it's a private party, then that's a different story. By the way, how come you did not go to Alex and Simond's open house party? You and Romona were the only ones missing.
- 05/01/2009 - 3:42pm
- Viewer
You do come off a bit high and mighty at times with the countess bit, but for the most part I do find you charming and of all the gals on the show, you appear to be the only one who gets along well with everyone, doesn't create drama for drama's sake, doesn't talk about others behind their backs and actually has manners (whatever happened to that concept). My sympathy on your divorce. Even though I know this must be devastating for you, you are an attractive, intelligent and cultured woman, and I know you will do well.
So far as Kelly is concerned, I just can't resist a jab (I'm not so well mannered as you.) I have to watch eating before I watch the show, as Kelly tends to make me gag!!
- 05/01/2009 - 1:18pm
- SF grrrl
Dahlin',
If you ever need a gal-pal who will adore you, treat you grandly and engage your mind, just travel to the romantic city of San Francisco and transform your existence. You never know until you try! You're beautiful, genuine, and have a ton of fun to look forward to! Encipher a code in your next blog and look for a response.
Your SF Poet
- 05/01/2009 - 10:51am
- Cristina
You are such a classy, elegant, yet personable woman. Thank you for sharing your life with us!
- 05/01/2009 - 6:12am
- Rebecca
LuAnn, you are my favorite. You're the most sensible and understated in you opinions of the others. I think you're classy. I know the Count is the father of your children but you are the strong figure in the household and you don't need him. His loss. Good luck to you and continue to be who you are, a real American Princess!
- 05/01/2009 - 2:15am
- Niks
Ok, I kinda like you but I have an issue. The day you went to the girls club (organization) and talked to the young african american girls. YOU WERE SUPER SELF INVOLVED!!! Those girls could have cared less about your Countess status. Not to menchion the comment you made about the young girl who was obviously overweight, but stated she wanted to be a model. "Loosing weight is the easy part" How dare you! It's hard enough for those kids, the encouraging comment would have been, you can do anything you set your heart out to do, or something to that effect. There are numerous types of models, even plus size! Lane Bryant has been doing runway shows for years with their plus size models. I think sometimes those who have can't relate to those who don't have
- 05/01/2009 - 12:31am
- Haley Hamner
LuAnn I just wanted you to know that you are so cool, sweet & nice. I wish I had a mom like you. The comment you made about Kelly putting her hair down went straight over that dumb girls head. Is she really that spacey?
I think you, Betthenny, and Jill ROCK!!
Go Countess
Haley 22
Dillon, SC
- 04/30/2009 - 10:29pm
- Viewer
How come you didn't go to Alex's party? I have noticed there has been zero interaction between you 2 this season. Has there been a falling out with you guys?
- 04/30/2009 - 6:56pm
- ashley
LuAnn, you are awesome! I love it when you're on - you, bethenny, and jill!
- 04/30/2009 - 6:52pm
- Viewer
Luann, you are a classy chic. Kelly is in some serious need for a few etiquette classes! Seriously!
- 04/30/2009 - 4:59pm
- Louise
Wow, Luanne. I am just reading the details about your pending divorce. The Count owed you more than an email. 16 years, 2 kids, he owed you much more. I wondered what was going on with him because I never saw him this season and then you and Ramona had that big fight and then you were arguing with him about missing the horse event with your daughter. Well, keep your head up. There will be good days and some lonely nights but I know you will be okay.
- 04/30/2009 - 2:22pm
- Viewer
LuAnn,
We can always count on you to hold your head up high but not in a self rightous way. And you are right, manners count.
- 04/30/2009 - 12:10pm
- NY Gal
Hi LuAnn,
I hope this finds you well. I have to admit - I was not your biggest fan earlier in the season, however, you are truly "growing" on me. I'm impressed with your excellent parenting skills as well as how you conduct yourself. Your reaction to Kelly bringing Max on your girls night out thing was priceless and I was thinking the same thing (what exactly is "stuff"?)
Anyway, I am sorry to hear about the recent personal changes you're going through and my thoughts are with you and your children. By the way, I was completely appalled at the classless stab Mario took at you in one of his blogs. He's an idiot, so don't associate yourself with people like that - you are above it.
I enjoyed this season and wish you the best of luck with everything.
- 04/30/2009 - 11:28am
- Mighty Mouse
Hi LuAnn,
I thought it was hilarious when you said Kelly's meeting Max to where you all met for drinks was bizarre. First off, he's not that great. Secondly, if she needs a boy toy, I would suggest her getting the Ken doll, plastic, on her key chain. Maybe she is in love with him - stare at him w'/giggles much? - but he seems to enjoy anyone looking at him just as much himself. I doubt he is on the show just to be with her. Thirdly, she keeps saying she did the show to promote herself/her business stuff she is trying to sell. So there is the real reason she is there. I don't think you'll ever see her really making deep friendships like you do. You are too good for her and her boy-who-appears-where-the-camera-is.
- 04/30/2009 - 10:39am
- Jennifer618
After hearing Kelly's definition of a date, I feel old!! I always thought dinner, movies, etc. was nice. I have always loved having day dates where we go hiking, horsebackriding, etc. A nice quiet dinner is just fine with me, especially in today's chaos!
- 04/30/2009 - 10:33am
- Coleen
LuAnn,
I think you are great, I think you do offer alot of great advice. i just bought your book, and I am sharing it with my 2-teenage daughters. I wish you all the best!!
- 04/30/2009 - 8:00am
- Viewer
I find it interesting that only positive comments about you seem to reach your blog. I am certain this will not "make the cut" but here goes . . .
I feel you are only a Countess in title and certainly have alot to learn about true "class". Having class is not having to push your title on everyone, true class is not feeling as if you know more than others simply because you happened to marry someone of royal descent, true class is not believing all your own hype about how "wonderful or fabulous" you are. Honestly, some of the things that come out of your mouth, like telling that young gal you that she had time to "lose weight". Having a daughter who had an eating disorder, it is people like you that perpetuate the problem and foster the disease! Get a clue! I have more class in my little finger than you will ever have with all the titles in the world in front of your name.
- 04/30/2009 - 4:11am
- Viewer
Dear LuAnn,
I like you much more too when you stop fussing about the countess title. I like how you are portraited in this episode - cool, collected, much smarter than Kelly.
- 04/29/2009 - 11:52pm
- Geography with the Countess
LuAnn,
FYI: Argentina is not in Latin America. It's in South America. In your conversation with Max you stated something about him being the best Latin America has to offer.
Good luck with the book!
- 04/29/2009 - 9:08pm
- Anne
LuAnn, you're still my favorite. I like the fact that you act and dress your age. You have great style and you're absolutely gorgeous. Your kids are beautiful, too. Oh and Rosie is fantastic. This show needs more Rosie time. Lol. Best of luck to you with the book.
- 04/29/2009 - 9:03pm
- Viewer
I think you are a beautiful woman. Good luck and god bless!!!
- 04/29/2009 - 7:41pm
- Viewer
I really enjoy you, the way you handle yourself, and still maintain your sense of humor is fantastic. Good luck to you.
- 04/29/2009 - 6:43pm
- Astrid
Luann,
I really like you and I just wanted to say you gave me the biggest giggle last night. When you asked Kelly what does she do when she lets her hair down and she lets her hair out of the ponytail. Priceless!
- 04/29/2009 - 6:35pm
- Diana
Dear Luann, I have never written to anyone that is not a personal friend before but I just wanted to tell you that I think you are class upon class. I have never heard you say a bad word about anyone on the show though at times, I am sure it was tempting. You have beautiful children and a wonderful life. I love the fact that you seem to have a great time no matter the age group(nights out with your neice) or the function.I love your sense of humor and style. I too, grew up in Connecticut, am a former model, a mother though unfortunatly now divorced. Thrust back into the dating world, I agree with the old fashioned dinner and a movie date you mentioned in the last episode! You can take the girls out of Connecticut...I wish you and your children all the happiness and I look forward to next season and your next chapter in life.
- 04/29/2009 - 5:26pm
- Viewer
LuAnn
You are the only one, that's acts like an adult, and don't really encourage confrontation. Now, Kelly is totally whacked and dense headed at the same time.
- 04/29/2009 - 4:15pm
- Viewer
LuAnn, You are a shining example of class and elegance. I understand that you are having a tough time with the Count. I know that your inner beauty and love for your children will get you through the tough times. Remain positive and know that EVERYONE watching the show loves and supports you. Honestly, I want to be just like you when I "grow" up!!
- 04/29/2009 - 3:48pm
- Laura S Dudley
Earth to Kelly--come in please!
LuAnn,
Hands down, you're the classiest of the NY housewives. I have more respect for you with each new show.
- 04/29/2009 - 1:57pm
- Viewer
LuAnn, You are one of my favorites and I am glad you are on the show! I love your kids too! I know you like Kelly but spending time with her shows how confused she is. Keep up all the good that you are doing. I enjoy watching you!!
- 04/29/2009 - 1:37pm
- Viewer
Luann, good luck with your book. You are a very classy person. You are not old-fashioned, my kids are in their 20's, and still do dinner and a movie. Kelly sound like they did in junior high, when they were asked what they were doing, they'd say "stuff"....need I say more about where she is emotionally and mentally?
- 04/29/2009 - 1:35pm
- FHL
The look on your face when Kelly took her hair down was priceless! I enjoy you so much! :) That Kelly is something else!
I know you're going through some stuff right now. Hang in there! You deserve any and all happiness!
- 04/29/2009 - 12:55pm
- Viewer
LuAnn,
I like you very much. I think that you are a nice person. I liked your book.
Enjoy your children. As we all know the grow up very fast. Victoria is a very
smart, sweet, and classy like her mom. She is very pretty too.The best for you,
Nadia
Newport Beach
- 04/29/2009 - 12:02pm
- Ana
Thank you for your kind comments about my country, Argentina.
- 04/29/2009 - 11:28am
- Rita
Luann -- you do have a good sense of behavioral advice. . . but Kelly is delusional. She is dating a man who looks half her age because she thinks it makes her looks younger, when in fact, she looks so much older next to him. She looks like a 16 year old on a date, when she throws her head back and giggles. She looks nuts, not to mention how she lies to him about things that have happened -- that are on tape!
Anyway -- love the show -- can't wait until the reunion.
- 04/29/2009 - 10:51am
- Viewer
Luann- You have become my favorite "housewife". You are funny, beautiful, graceful, and smart. I read your book and really enjoyed it. One thing I have learned from this show is to give people time to come out and be real before decidng whether they are likable or not. First impressions are great, but sometimes a bad first impression does not define the person. You are fabulous!
- 04/29/2009 - 10:39am
- Bart
How do you go about telling someone like Bethenny to put on her big girl panties and move past her conflict with Kelly?
- 04/29/2009 - 10:27am
- Sheri
LuAnn,
I literally fell off the sofa last night when you asked Kelly if she ever let her hair down!! I hope that she has the sense to go back and watch all of the episodes of this show, and if she does, I hope she is incredibly mortified! I have really appreciated your maturity and sensibility. I am a stay at home mom, so we differ on the nanny issue, but I still would not hesitate to send my children to boarding school in their teens if I thought it would be good for them, and it was their choice. We can't stay tied to our children forever.
Hold your head high during this difficult time in your life. You have a lot of people cheering for you!
- 04/29/2009 - 10:04am
- Viewer
LuAnn,
Kelly is okay, really. Yes, she behaves still like a tween and she obviously likes the bohemian lifestyle - but this is her choice, she owes nobody an explanation. And she is not mean or bitchy - I mean, Bethenny is really rude to her, too. And finally, I was impressed that - when she realised that she had done something wrong, like e.g. arrive too late for Jill's charity meeting etc., she addressed it later and tried to fix it, e.g. by organising some expensive gifts to auction off.
Oh, and I am sure you do not tell everything on national TV either, so do not accuse her of being secretive.
Btw, you and Jill seem to be the most likeable characters on the show. You try not to get involved in too many catfights, and that is a good thing.
- 04/29/2009 - 10:03am
- FanFare
Dear LuAnn,
I really appreciate your calm demeanor in most social situations. It surprises me that you were jarred by the inclusion of Max, the handsome beau of Kelly. You took less umbrage when Simon crashed the GNO of Season 1.
He remained too long at the fair than hunky Max.
- 04/29/2009 - 9:00am
- Viewer
You have really grown on me. I use to think you were very snoddy but actually your pretty funny and down to earth. I would say you are probably one of my favs.
- 04/29/2009 - 8:51am
- FanFare
Dear LuAnn,
I enjoy watching interact with anyone you meet. You are always so self possessed and know exactly what to say. I noticed that Kelly kept speaking in forked tongue (or evaded conversation) except when her hunk showed up. Then it was all smiles, and "HIIIIIII". She certainly used the word "like" like every other word. Is she intellectually challenged or what?
You seemed jarred by the appearance of a male interloper into the GNO. You took less umbrage when Simon crashed the scene last season. At least Max was gentlemanly enough to get the vibe and depart quickly.
- 04/29/2009 - 8:41am
- Viewer
Regarding Kelley and Max...it appears she's giving him air time for a career help..maybe he's a model or wants to be an actor.
- 04/29/2009 - 8:26am
- Viewer
Hi LuAnn,
This probably won't be posted but I'm going to try anyway. My 11 Year old daughter and I went to your book signing last Friday in Madison CT. You were standing right next to us waiting to be introduced by the store owner. I knew you were tall but boy did you tower over us and you also had high black heels on. You looked lovely and I wanted to take your picture but didn't want to distract you. My daughter and I had a big laugh at calling each other Countess Brittany and Countess Mommy. I hope that doesn't offend you. Take care.
- 04/29/2009 - 8:25am
- viewer
I think Kelly is extremely insecure - the way she twirls her hair and how she tried to "show off" in front of your niece and her friend by having Max show up - I think she acts so odd - I can't put my finger on it - but she is not "living her authentic life" -
Thanks for being "true" to yourself!
- 04/29/2009 - 8:24am
- Viewer
I love the fact that you're not overly judgmental and you always try to find the positive. Your intellect and grace is delightful to watch. And now that we're hearing a lot less about your being a Countess, I really enjoy your scences. Please keep up the good work. It's refreshing to see someone who isn't confrontational and catty and who actually acts like an adult!
- 04/29/2009 - 7:39am
- Francesca
Ok, ok, but who cares? Kelly wears Max like a bracelet. I wonder what his angle will be.Perhaps he's looking for a modeling job and the airtime is working in his favor? The coy-girlish-adoring stares she assults him with are wishful thinking at best. Don't you think, all language barriers aside, that Max would prefer someone with grey matter between the ears? She can wear him as her "he's my boyfriend, really he is, honestly" bracelet and endlessly hear accolades on what a beautiful couple they make! Hmmm.wait a minute. Kelly might just be a genious. She's wearing Max to take the spotlight from herself!!If she's with someone young, people assume she is as well. They never really see her as they are looking at Max! Ouch, my brain hurts thinking of Kelly. Your's should too.
- 04/29/2009 - 7:39am
- Jan
LuAnn you are such an example to all women out there. We love the way you handle yourself with such class and elegance. We whole heartedly agree with you on dating and other protocol. I wish the show wasn't ending! Good luck and know that there are a lot of people who love you and support you.
- 04/29/2009 - 2:55am
- Patty B
Hello Luann, I just love you!
You are such a Lady, and I love the fact that you bring manners and a sense of respect back into the mix of things. I can't wait to read your book :)
As for Kelly's view on anything, what does it matter? She clearly doesn't remember
what she says or even take responsibility for her actions. She is the last person
I'd want an opinion from regarding any manner.People who "act" private give that illusion because they are so damn boring!
Here's to you! Have a wonderful summer with your family, tell the kids no pets
this summer, except the dog, LOL
Patty B
Newport, DE
- 04/29/2009 - 1:39am
- Viewer
Dear Countess,
I understand you are very well travelled.
For this reason, I was surprised when you mentioned, in your conversation with Kelly and Max Max, that Argentina is in Latin America. It's in South America.
Please refer to World Atlas.
- 04/29/2009 - 12:42am
- Kim
Countess, I must say that in the first season I wasn't very keen on you. I was a little off on the royalty theme and that of course, is of my own ignorance. I have come to realize that you were born and raised much like the rest of us here in the States. I understand now though, when you marry someone who holds a title and their family is of a certain stature, you must learn to practice and live the lifestyle in which the family is accustom to. Therefore you are not being pretentious, but living a lifestyle that is inherited. Having been raised here you must know that most Americans do not see royalty. That is why I think people have given you a bit of a hard bite, when it comes to your title and what it means to you and your family. You are a very generous person with your charities, and where I come from that is well thought of. I have noticed of you this season, a much more tender, playful and motherly side to you. As I am sure it has always been there, but due to editing we on the outside cannot always see. I would also like to say that I have only best wishes for you and your family in this troubled time. As my dearly departed Grandmother would say, "whom I might add was Native American as well" Is that this too shall come to pass and things will be set right for you and yours' once again. I hope that your book becomes a hit. I have nothing but admiration for the Countess who has shared part of her life with us for the past two years. You are a very infectious person and I mean that only in the nicest of forms. Because of you I have decided to write about something that has taken place in my life that may be of some help to others. If it never makes it into book form oh well, it will still be my documented thoughts and experiences of a dreadful time that I somehow survived. Best wishes and good health to you.
- 04/29/2009 - 12:36am
- sean
You probably know this, but it is not about kelly and Bethany. Kelly believes it is all about her, and feels an equal amount of disdain for all of the housewives, she just hasn't shown it yet.
Right now it is about manipulating the situation with hopes that Bethany will look bad. You all will get your turn. Kelly has told you all who she is; believe her.
- 04/29/2009 - 12:07am
- Amy
Short and sweet, well-done!
You come across as likeable but you put on so many airs. Why?!?
Your children are gorgeous and they both seem lovely.
- 04/29/2009 - 12:05am
- Stacey
Luann,
Since you're not harping on the whole "countess" thing as much anymore, I'm reminded that I think you're a nice, and classy lady.
Funny too.
All the best.
- 04/29/2009 - 12:03am
- Jenny
LuAnn,
I have agreed with you on many things and disagreed with you on some too but I think you have it spot on with being confused about Kelly's dating philosophy... I was confused as well. I have no idea how it comes off in reality but on the show it comes off as possibly Kelly is shy and sometimes acts/says things in her shyness that don't always make sense. I'm not trying to "bash" Kelly on your blog, I am just agreeing with you I was confused, as often I am confused with her actions/behaviors/words.
- 04/28/2009 - 11:04pm
- Janie
Countess,
I don't normally comment on blogs, I just have to say that you are just fabulous! I love the way you carry yourself and respect your views on how people should behave. Also I don't think anyone buys that Kelly is with Max.
- 04/28/2009 - 10:55pm
- Viewer
Kelly has the ego the size of Manhattan and thinks the world revolves around her. Its reflected in her secretive dating habits. In her own mine she is sooo famous that she has to keep everything secret so the paparazzi won't hunt her down. She's a joke!
- 04/28/2009 - 10:52pm
- Trista
I don't think that Kelly and Betheny rub each other the wrong way, I just think that Kelly is a vacuous, self-centered person, who doesn't relate to real people like Betheny. It shows in her comments or lack thereof on any topic of substance. If she had to succeed in this world by sheer whit and brains like Betheny, she would have been "down here" (as she pointed out bo Betheny) and Betheny would still be up "here" (hand motion). I guess every show needs its villan and for me that is Kelly. She's a total fake.
- 04/28/2009 - 10:41pm
- Viewer
KELLY IS CRAZY AND YOU SHOULD STAY AS FAR FROM HER AS YOU CAN. I WILL NOT WATCH THE SHOWS EVER AGAIN THANKS TO HER. SHE IS DISGUSTING AND MAKES YOU ALL LOOK SO FOOLISH. SHE GIVES REAL WOMEN A BAD NAME.
- 04/28/2009 - 10:38pm
- Viewer
Countess Luann,
Congratulations on your book! So Happy for you!! :) I am so glad you can see through all of Kellys Bizarre, Manipulating, Attention Seeking Evil Behavior...I can not wait till all of the house wifes see what we all saw from Kelly...She was very mean and jealous to Bethenny. I really hope she is Not on the show next season...She is so Annoying and likes to push peoples buttons and insult peoples intellegence...she ruins it!!! Go Away Kelly!!!
- 04/28/2009 - 10:36pm
- Our Family Loves LuAnn
Our family adores you, LuAnn, and is thinking of you. We know you will handle the situation with class and dignity.
You are quite a role model, one unlike any we've seen on TV. Thank you for sharing your insights, and yourself.
Keep your head up. You deserve to hold it high.
P.S. -- You really do 'shine through' all of the BRAVO TV editing! They should be more careful to portray your class and dignity.
- 04/28/2009 - 10:12pm
- teckla
luann kelly is not vague she always talks in circles. if she looks at any episode she has never made any sence there is no depth to any coversation w/ you or anyone for that matter. Bethany trys to make peace & once again kelly talks talks & talk but nothing comes out. I think you are the most real and I respect you for that . thanks Teckla , NY
- 04/28/2009 - 10:10pm
- Kath
LuAnn,
Everyone on the show has gone crazy! You truly are the only one the "mother ship" is not circling the sky waiting for. Good Lord, Kelly is whacked ... or should be, I guess I should say. When you say why don't you let your hair down and she literally did just that, I fell off the sofa laughing. Can anyone be that dense? I guess so. Wow! Anyway, I have so enjoyed this season with you. Thank you.
- 04/28/2009 - 10:05pm
- Real Housewife of KS Diva - Fighting Parkinsons
Short and sweet and to the point... I like that! By the way I think a good date is not doing stuff either, I can do that with my girlfriends... I like to be romanced, nothing old fashioned about that:)! ~ Mary Kellerman
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