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Season 2
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View All PostsMario Singer
Love and Honor
Mario shares the vows he made to Ramona at their marriage renewal ceremony.
Jun 4, 2010
When Ramona asked me about renewing our marriage vows of course I responded yes. Though I was not sure what she had in mind, I had no idea she was planning such an elaborate event. Leave it to Ramona to outdo our wedding day 18 years ago. Though it was a wonderful wedding, it was not at such an iconic landmark as the Pierre Hotel. I really had no idea what to expect until just before the big event. I had thought about my vows but had not written anything down. Suddenly, it was the night before and I felt I had better write my thoughts on paper. When I arrived at the Pierre it hit me that I better have my vows memorized and not screw it up on national TV. The pressure was on. As you saw in the episode, I started writing my vows on index cards so I could read them if necessary. I really got nervous as the time came to leave the suite for the big event. I was even more nervous then when I actually got married!! Not only were many of my friends there but what if I messed up my vows??? I really put my memory to the test in the last hour as I prepared myself. Unfortunately, my vows were edited for lack of TV time, so for all of you who might be interested in the unedited version, here it is.
Ramona
Probably the biggest decision one will ever make is the person to spend the rest of your life with. Sometimes it takes quite a while before you know if you’ve made the right choice. I was fortunate to have known very early that I had made the right decision. My mom had suffered a stroke and she would need care for the rest of her life. Since Dad had already passed away I asked you if it was alright if my mom could live with us in our home in Southampton. Not only did you take her in but you embraced her with love and kindness like she was your own mother. That is when I knew I had made the right decision. I had absolutely chosen the women I would spend the rest of my life with. After 17 years of marriage you have been at my side through everything that life has thrown at us, both good and bad. You have been a steady rock in times of trouble had a ray of sunshine when I could not see the light. You have applauded my achievements and comforted me in my setbacks. You have given me the most wonderful daughter a father could ever have. For all of this I am blessed and so I reaffirm my vows that I said so long ago. Ramona, I will love and honor you through good times and bad for better or worse in sickness and in health until death do us part. May God continue to bless our marriage.
It was a magical night for both of us and sharing it with Avery made it truly special. The sight of her in her beautiful blue dress took my breath away. Some day I will be watching her exchange vows with the man of her life and I will think back to this day.
Mario, your vows were beautiful. It was touching to watch.
I actually got teary-eyed watching this last night and reading your vows here! I can only hope to find someone who loves me that much to marry. Congratulations!
Mario,
What a blessed day! You, Avery and Ramona are my favorites and even though I just know you throug a t.v screen and I have been watching you since the first show, it was nice to see you celebrate a special day with family and friends.
See you next season! Colorado Housewife!
Wow....your vows brought huge tears to my eyes. How sweet you are!!! I didn't know the extent of y'alls love, but now underestand y'all completely. Love love love y'all!!!!
ja
(sniff) OMG, that is so beautiful!!!
Congratulations to you and Ramona! What a beautiful, touching ceremony. I'm sure you know there wasn't a dry eye in the house when you and she recited your vows. All the best to you, Ramona and Avery.
I have to comment about the other women grousing about the timing of the renewal. They each had something to say about 17 years not being a real milestone, blah blah blah. My dear husband and I had always planned to renew our vows when we reached our 20th wedding anniversary. Like you and Ramona, we were very much in love, adored each other's company and held hands wherever we went. Sadly, my Lou passed away suddenly last year. We were married for 18 and a half years.
With all that said, I have to give Ramona a lot of credit for acting on the thought when SHE thought it was right and not when society or social groups dictate is more appropriate. Life can be short and unpredictable. Celebrate your blessings as often as possible.
Mario,
You do have a beautiful family. You should be so proud of both yourself and Ramona for making your marriage work for 18 years. You both should be proud of yourselves also for raising Avery so well. Congratulations, and I wish you guys many, many more years of love, support, and continuing to make wonderful memories together through this journey we call life! I wish you guys a life filled with all the joys you treasure.
The Ceremony was just beautiful and the exchange of vows was extremely touching. Thank you for sharing the unedited version of your vows. I wish they made more men like you Mario!
God Bless!
What a shame that they edited them, and I don't understand why. I guess that Bravo is more interested in the negative drama than it is something that is uplifting. I don't see that being long at all.
Beautiful vows - the two of you looked awesome.
You're the best Mario.
OMG, I burst out crying when you said your vows to Ramona. You are the hunk we all dream of, lucky Ramona!
Wow you finally managed to write a blog where you didn't trash Jill. Finally.
Last night was great.
I LOVED it when Ramona said you never controlled her.
And your response.
As if anyone *could* control Ramona. Good god, the Taliban would have a field day with her, Mario. She'd totally win. Plus, Osama would turn himself in and be begging for mercy by the end of the week.
I'm liking you two more and more.
You, Ramona, and Avery are very blessed to have each other. Thank you for sharing such a special occasion with us! What a hot couple you make!
Congrats to you and Ramona! Your vows were simple but heartfelt. Your wedding renewal ceremony was the highlight of a season that was mired in ugliness and drama. Tanti auguri!
OMG, I love LOVE you guys. Your vow is absolutely heartfelt and touching. God bless your wonderful family!
I was moved to tears by your beautiful vows to Ramona. What a lucky gal!
MARIO,
Sometimes you show your gentler side. It's much better than your snarky side. Thank you for sharing the complete version of your vows. I thought the televised sample seemed skimpy and I didn't realize that Bravo edited it down. What you write here, is beautiful!!
Mario -- really lovely vows .... you did yourself proud. Avery is very lucky to have been able to witness something that special ... and hopefully she will use this experience to guide her in making her life partner choice ...
Hey Mario! It was so nice to see the true love between you and Ramona last night! To end the season on that note was so much better than a catty party. The sincerity of the obvious love you two have for eachother shut down the drama - at least for a few minutes! Your vows were perfect. In the midst of all the divorce these days, it's nice to see two people that are in it for the duration. You have a beautiful family, Ramona making all of her life changes...she seems to be getting younger! I don't think you could ever get bored w/her! She's the whole package...from wife, mom, business woman, friend all the way to the teeny bikini to TURTLE TIIIIIME! She is a TRIP and fun to watch on the show. Never a dull moment there!
Well Mario,I didn't think it was possible but.....yes, I am now team Mario.
Mario:
What a beautiful blog! Ramona and you are lucky to have found each other! I celebrate my 18th year married in Sept! While we all have ups and downs, it is the strength of our commitment that keeps us going! Bless you!
Mario, That was absolutely beautiful. thank you for sharing the unedited version. The two of you are so connected.
Money can buy you classssssssssssssssssssss money can buy you classsssssssssssss my frind.....................
Mario, Your vows brought me to tears. Truly beautiful event!
Mario= You are a Prince! If you weren't already married, I would marry you!! Love,love,love your whole family! What a wonderful life!
xxoo
Mario, I have one word for your the beautiful words that you spoke to Ramona....BRAVO!
I thought Ramona's vows were so sweet, but when I heard yours, I starting crying. Now that I read the entire vows, I am crying again. What a wonderful family you are! Love ya'll
I hope I'm lucky enough someday to find a guy that loves me as much as you love her! Loved every minute of it, as I cried like a baby! :)
Mario - Your beautiful vows touched my heart & brought tears to my eyes. I thought Ramona's vows were very good as well...but, you words touched the heart of everyone who heard them!
Hugs and Blessings for another 50 years
Wow Mario.....wow, wow, wow. Ramona and Avery are 2 very lucky ladies. Your vows were absolutely beautiful and sincere and heartfelt. Ramona is awesome in may ways, and it shows on her face how much she appreciates you. Congratulations!! It was refreshing to see a man express himself so lovingly.
Very nice blog....it was a beautiful renewal ceremony. we could have done without Jill's rude comments though.
Your vows are just beautiful. They brought tears to my eyes when I read them last night and again this morning. I am so happy for you and Ramona.
Well said and well done. Thanks for sharing this, it brought tears to my eyes. We just celebrated our 25th, through good times and bad. God bless you and your family!
Perfect Mario, from a viewer that is going on 18 yrs of marriage too! You are the only couple on the show to make it that long! Be proud!
Perfect Mario, from a viewer that is going on 18 yrs of marriage too! You are the only couple on the show to make it that long! Be proud!
You never looked more handsome than when you spoke your vows. Ramona is a lucky woman.
Mario,
Thank you for including the complete version of your vows. Very heartfelt and beautiful. In marriage, it is special to love the parent and keep them in your home. Best of luck to you and Ramona. And keep blogging!
Wow, Mario, Ramona if a very, very lucky woman. Best wishes.
Mario;
Your vows were beautiful. Congrats to you, Ramona and Avery.
BEAUTIFUL!!! i can only hope to find a man as handsome, sexy, kind and intelligent as you. may you fall deeper in love everyday and continue to be a model marriage to all of us single women out here looking for a man like you!!
Thank you for sharing this wonderful milestone with us the viewers. It was beautiful and touching. I actually cried.
Now DON"T screw it up like most men do and stray. Stay true to Ramona. She deserves it and so does your daughter.
Mario...how beautiful those vows were! It was a magical place and you all looked amazing. I loved the dog's outfit! How cute was that? The part about your Mom touches me as my sister-in-law, who had alzheimer's, came to live with us. So I know how taking in a sick relative can make life very difficult for everyone. Ramona is definitely her own woman and is very kind and that doesn't always come across with the editing and all the drama.... Glad you shared with everyone!
Mario- Once again you brought me to tears! You are both so lucky to have each other and to make a marriage work through ups and downs, you grew together. It was wonderful to share your big night! Always knew you are not just a pretty face! Wishing you continued love on your journey with your beautiful girls!
Mario, your vows were beautiful! Ramona is one lucky gal. (And so are you). Bravo!
Ramona is so luckly you are a wonderful husband may your daughter be so lucky to find someone like you.
What wonderful vows! You are a good man Mario!
Mario, You made me cry! Your vows were so lovely, Ramona looked like a dream, and Avery is one of the MOST beautiful girls in the wordl. You are a very lucky man to have such strong beautiful woman in your life ~ God bless you and your beautiful family ~ P.s. I love the "renewed" Ramona ~ She took me by surprise this season. She has made some fantastic changes, and I'm speaking of her insides ~ Although on the outside she looks wonderful too ~ Good for her!
I'm embarrassed to say that I'm a little addicted to RHONY and read the blogs religiously. My favorite, by far, are yours. You seem to be a clear-headed man with your priorities in order who can also express himself -- very rare. Your insights and the love and respect you show your wife and daughter truly touch my heart. (I also love Simon's blogs, because no one recaps the episodes funnier than he does.)
Good Job Mario! Now, tell you wife to stay far away from Jealous Jill.
Thank you for sharing with the viewers. You have always been open an respectful of the audience and not tried to put an act on for tv. I'm proud of you, Avery, and Ramona for being a real family.
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