Ramona,
Every time the last episode airs, I have to watch it. I love when youdancedx with Simon. I really think you should be friends. I think you should get over what happened in the past and hang out.

all of you are using this show as a vehicle for your lotions and potions, books, decorating, etc. and now it's just become one big commercial - BORING - I am finished watching this show!

Ramona,
I really enjoyed watching you ladies this season. I just have one comment. Do any of you really like each other? .

Ramona
You were my absolute favorite the first season and you were my favorite again this season!! I love the way you put the other housewives in their place. I liked the way you told Luann that everyone laughed and talked about her behind her back. Those other two tried to pretend that they didn't. I love the way you told Alex to her face that you thought her and Simon were weird when everyone else tried to act like they didn't think so also. I think Jill Zarin wants to be more like you but she dosen't know how. Bethenny is so ridiculous!! She wants to be Kelly's friend so bad it's embarrasing!! After all the junk Kelly said about her she still couldn't say they could never be friends. Pathetic. Oh and when they said your husband was checking out othere women you should have said "well at least he likes women" that should be pointed to Jill Zarin and Alex!! Jill's husband is always hanging out with her gay interior designer!!

Have a good life Ramona!! And keep dancing!!

Hi Ramona,
I just finished watching the reunion. I think you are great! You don't have crazy eyes! You are really self-aware and don't need therapy. Having a disfunctional family/childhood just makes you like everyone else. Good luck with your business. Kelly is really the one that needs therapy.

Ramona,

LOVE YOU LOVE YOU LOVE YOU. You may say some things that people find rude or classless, but I applaud you for being honest and shooting from the hip.

Ramona,

I wish they all didn't pick on you so much at the reunion. Anyway, I know you said you would never be with a man that was like your father, but I have this hunch Mario is a lot like your father. The way he treats women is terrible. He's a creep.

I LOVE U RAMONA!!!!!! U BETHENNY AND JILL R MY FAVORITE AND SHOULD HAVE YOUR OWN SHOW, ALTHOUGH BETHENNY COULD HAVE A ONE WOMAN SHOW BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, SMART AND SOOOOOOOO FUNNY! I LUV THE WAY U SPEAK YOUR MIND, RAMONA!

Ramona I think that you may be nice underneath your hard shell, but you say very rude things to people. Maybe you're just doing what you said your father did to your mom. Maybe you are very sensitive. But take some tips from Alex- when someone hurts your feelings, just say so. It might save you and the other housewives ALOT of drama in the future! Ps- Thanks for telling us that you didn't get married until 37..that's good news for the 30-somethings!! :)

Dear Ramona:

I am watching part 2 of the finale and I have to say... you really need to learn to stick to your guns. I know that Jill (or as I call her Kill Zarin since she is always going for your throat) has an issue when it comes to you. I just want to say, be factual and she will leave your alone.

I hate to see you back down in a heated situation. Give her a dose of her own medicine and maybe she will show more respect for you as a person.

I think you are great. You say what you feel. I am the same way and I can relate... but as adults we do have an edit button. Say whatever you want... but say it nicer on camera so that when the season finale comes around, they don't discredit your credibility.

We all have our opinions. You are entitled to yours ... and you get paid for them. So, stick to your guns!!!

Your show is my favorite indulgence!

Thanks,

Jacky

Ramona,
I love you!! You tell it like it is and you do not hold back any punches. I think Kelly should be like that instead of lying, half way answering questions and running in circles with her answers. If more people on the show would keep it real like you, there would not be so much drama that comes out later. You and your husband are adorable together!! He is fine too. : )

You are so rude! You behave like a 16 year old. You totally attacked LuAnn and should never attacked her for not being public with her failing marriage. She has children and was trying to protect them. You are cold as ice. You think your so hot but your not. Your body is gross and you should keep it covered and your eyes are wild. Are you on medication? Your childhood does define you and you are abusive and you seem to enjoy it.

I understand for the first time why men don't like women. Wow. Sad. Can't you guys let anything go? Why is important to make people look back on National Television? Don't have any compassion? That is so awful, it makes me sick.
Dj

It seems after reading the comments people are to quick to judge in all aspects of these people who you don't even know. People have bad lives and some handle it better than others. This isn't your business to say whether it's right or wrong. Why mention your own abuse? You made it through, good for you leave it out. I say this as someone who has come from an abusive home who realizes no one really cares but me. Judge your own lives be nicer.

Ramona,

I personally loved your dancing! I really like your spirit. You may have missed some beats, but I can see that you enjoy music and it moves your soul, which is beautiful to witness. And, as for the last episode where you danced with Simon, you two looked fabulous together. It was just about two people living in the moment and having a great time!

I really dont like all the fighting and drama of this show! but I was shocked to read that Ramona is 51 years old! You look great for your age! I thought Ramona was in her 30s and her skin is really great and I will now be looking into her skin care line!

BRAVO Isabella9958 !

Ramona you were asked a question on the reunion show about your blog about the last laugh being on Bethenny about dating, there was a heated debate and you were angry at Andy that he didn't go on to say that you had called Bethenny fabulous and great and that you just loved her. Well got some news for you sweetheart he couldn't do that because it didn't happen.
You told a bold faced lie on that one. You tend to try to lie your way out of a lot of things, don't you realize or haven't you heard of Tivo deary. All anybody has to do is rewind.
Your sorry excuse for bad manners about coming from an abusive home is so lame. There are thousands of us that come from way worse than just bad things being said and we rise above it and don't treat people the way you do.
Instead of spending so much money on your thighs try spending some on a therapist to get rid of your feelings of inadequacy which might be money well spent.

Ramona,
RE: Reunion Part One, it looked like the other ladies decided to gang up on you, and keep on talking about you, without a chance to answer all questions they posed, Plus the reason someone does that, is because they do not want to give that person a chance to talk about them. Plus, they know you will stand up for yourself, being honest and loud, and they counted on that. I hope Part Two, is more hosted by the guy, that allowing Jill, Bethany and "the countess" to run things, like they did in part one.
Also, your honesty is good, people know where you stand about EVERYTHING. I am the same way, and I have learned recently that Most people do not really appreciate the truth. They do not really care how you feel about anything, unless its helping their own agenda.
So, be honest with honest people, or those that arent so offended by "outgoing gals".
Good luck with your business's, I'll be watching HSN in June to see your jewelry.
a viewer and a fan, of yours!
Karry

You have no class!

Ramona, I think you shaped up a bit this season, but you still have a ways to go. Chill out, don't be so defensive and stop justifying poor behavior. Take a note from Bethenny and own your mistakes and faults.

I don't get why people think Jill and Bethenny are jealous of you.. I don't see that, at ALL. Nor do I think you're jealous of them.

sorry you might be honest but you are simply out of your mind and have nooooo couth what so ever!!!!

Ramona, You are the Best looking of all the cast and YOU are the ELDEST!! Fake Jill,Nasty Bethenney,The Snooty Countess Luann are just plain jealous of your looks and talents(you look 30ish and I think you are 51!!! Your skincare line should fly off the shelves!!And why did Jill have to dispute (on part 1 of the reunion )when you started working on the Tru renewal by Remona anyway? She is so jealous of your creativity- the jewelry line, skin care line ,etc. she (Jill)has to spend all of her 2nd husband's money,(it's a wonder he has any money left)to make herself feel important and Special and she still is not Happy!You seem to work hard, play hard ( Keep Dancing) and have FUN !!!! Do Not let the other "ladies of the cast get to you , you are GREAT!!!

Romona may I have the name of your dermatologist? Thank you, you look great.

must have
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your declassee-ness is showing!
but you are funny whether you know it or not. it's been great. thanks to you and all the nyc gals!

Ramona, Ramona, Ramona. In the 1st season, you definitely walked to the beat of a different drummer. I thought you were interesting. The 2nd time around, well, I thought I saw little glimmers of maturity, compassion and kindness when you were with Avery, during your business meetings and during 1:1 moments with people you really cared for. But those glimmers were over shadowed by your mean spirited, off the wall, crazy comments you would fling at anyone you perceived as a threat. I finally understood you when you spoke about your childhood and your parent's relationship. YOU definitely need to continue therapy. You have NO boundaries and you continue the cycle of learned abusive behaviors from your parents. When others are confronting you about an issue, you cannot carry on a decent conversation. You yell and scream your response, you're defensive and you're vindictive. "...I said that because you hurt my feelings..." "...I did that because of ____ (an event that happened days before)..." You really need to edit yourself BEFORE you open your mouth. Take a chill pill and PLEASE be nice.

Ramona i just love your energy, you just look like a great girlfriend to spend the day with just laugh and care free. Keep up the good energy and take care of your husband and daughter hope to see you next season.

Ramona,

Your daughter is beautiful and you speak of her so well. You did great with her.

But, your husband acts abusive towards other people,,,,very rude, very disrespectful.

You cannot be a good business person if you say the wrong things all the time. You could be saying rude things to people you need connections with.....

Ramona, I LOVE YOU! You are so REAL! I love that you defend yourself. I love that you always let people know if they are being and ass. I love that you sometimes live by an eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth. You are so fun! I wish I could go out with you and Kelly sometime. Maybe I will see you at Dellafamina's resturant. Please keep ENJOYING YOUR LIFE!! God bless you!

Ramona,

You are my favorite on the show! I thought it was great how you stood up to the bullies, Andy included.

Jill sure did let the cat out of the bag, she watches YOU 24/7! She is obsessed over you and her attacks show how delusional she has become. She made a fool out of herself with her attacks and self righteous attitude.

Her "team Jill" shirts shows how much she wants to knock you down and fight with you. She is actually trying to turn people against you with her stupid shirts. That is so sick!

She loves to attack the other women and act like she is the Queen looking down her nose at her servants.

It was pathetic how she and Bethenny held hands, acting like Bethenny was a little underdog victim.

Bethenny has made it her job to insult and degrade the other women and now she needs Jill to talk over everyone, fling accusations and make excuses for their horrible behavior.

It was clearly set up during the reunion for the bullies to attack you, Kelly and Alex. After the reunion, I like the women on your sofa and can't stand the bullies. (including the 4th bully, Andy)

Ramona, you're great. Love that you don't let those childish woman bring you down!

Ramona, your dress for the reunion show was so pretty, and you looked wonderful in it. Why did Bethenny have to blog something tasteless regarding you? That hot mess of a girl needs major therapy. Good luck to you, Ramona, with your businesses and family. You're a good person.

Ramona, who cares what that insecure baby Bethenny thinks?! You looked stunning at the reunion show! Your dress was absolutely gorgeous...you're a natural beauty and I love your quirky personality...you don't have a mean bone in your body, unlike TeamJill and TeamBethenny (gag me); they are like two unhappy teenagers bullying all the cute girls. Good luck to you, Mario and your adorable daughter.

CLASS is never having to talk about it

Ramona, you're great, and I get you. You are not meanspirited at all, unlike Jill and Bethenny. Those two are a complete trainwreck. They have become caricatures of themselves. Jill's exhausting list of excuses for Bethenny's rude and nasty behavior is a shame. There IS NO EXCUSE for an adult carrying on the way in which Bethenny does. Don't talk to me about bad childhoods and, for the record, those of us with horrible pasts, actually treat people with more understanding, compassion and dignity than others. I find Jill and Bethenny to be very insecure and envious. My mother always warned me about girls like that...IN JUNIOR HIGH...

Ramona, Yes I also think that you are crazy, kooky, mean, rude, loud, and have some kind of problem with your eyes, but I like you, It is never a dull moment when Ramona is around, but using your parents as an excuse for your own behavior is a no no. We all need to take resposibility for our own actions, to me it seemed to be a therapy driven sympathy seeking cope out, with maybe a little publicity stunt thrown in for good measure. It will be interesting to what the future holds.

Hello to all the bloggers-it's a REALITY show, it's supposed to be dramatic and gossipy, otherwise no-one would watch it!! I often wonder if a lot of these types of shows are "acting" and these women actually get along off camera. We all know women talk about each other behind our backs,were gossipy- it's been that way since grade school-deal with it. I think anytime you get a group of successful and powerful women together,there's going to be insecurities and competition with one another duh!!! Kelly, is just weird and says one thing, but does another,that is why she is hard to figure out-Bethanny is real, people generally do not take well to those that are brutally honest all the time. I am partial to Jill and Bethanny, all the housewives (which they are not really housewives, they work)have good and bad traits as well all do, so just sit back and enjoy the show, it's purpose is to entertain it's audience.

Ramona;
You say, and I believe, you were verbally abused by your father. It was destructive and hurtful to you and made you defensive. OK, I get it. Then why is it OK for your husband to be verbally abusive to your friends? Mario was so abusive to Jill in person that I had to turn off that segment. He has been horribly abusive to all the housewives, except you, in his blogs. Nasty, hurtful, spitful things were said by him and I never heard a word of reproachment from you. Is abuse fine in your world, as long as it isn't aimed at you? Shame on you. That's not being a friend, or even a decent human being.

Ramona!!! You do keep me entertained! but sometimes I am almost embarrassed for you. However, what do you care what anyone thinks of you? Be yourself, but do not be afraid to grow as a person and develop considerate loving relationships, and do not lean on past history as an excuse for bad behavior. Tell the truth with love.

Ramona, I think I understand why you are so MEAN. If you grew up with parents being MEAN to one another, you would be compelled to develop a "voice" to express your unhappiness. You probably don't see yourself as MEAN, but rather as a survivor. The problem is, your daughter will eventually be compelled to develop her "voice", and it will result in her being MEAN as well. How sad she will inhereit this legacy. My own mother was MEAN, I am MEAN, and now I watch with great regrets as my teenage daughter becomes MEAN. Be careful...

I have two words to say, LOVE YOU! You are the best and I really admire you on the show. I hope you continue to stand strong against these evil women who don't have a clue to be successful like you. Don't let them bring you down. Love your business and your hard work. LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!

Ramona, I watched the reunion show and would like to say a few things. You used the premise that your parents treated each other badly and said horrible things to each other as an excuse for your own behavior. I can tell you that I grew up in an abusive home in the same way and can tell you stories and give examples that I am positive equal your experiences. Please do not use it in your present life as an excuse to be so mean. You might be using it as your strength in your everyday life or business. But, it makes you look unhinged and bitter. You must look past that life and make your life your own. You are allowing your childhood to define you today. There is no need to use that behavior anymore. You have to work to get past it and define yourself and what you would like to create in your life for yourself. I don't know how much room I have here but I am sure it is running out. Good Luck.

Ramona is a perfect example of how money can't buy class! She is a vindictive, hurtful person and is certainly not in the same league as the others. It's obvious why she and Kelly get along so well!!

Avery is an absolutely gorgeous young girl and seems to have a good head on her shoulders. Her priorities seem very mature for her age.

Ramona, I have left messages on most other housewives' blogs but not once on this blog because I thought you were loud in an obnoxious way. But after seeing you letting loose (probably from being intoxicated) your fun size came through...It was great television. Oh and I like how you laughed on the reunion clip when Kelly was saying let's talk about stuff. Haha!

Ramona, on the first half of the reunion blog you defended your actions based on your childhood being so bad. No, doesn't justify. It's great that you made the realziation that your actions stems from your childhood, but now that you've made that realization you CAN NOT use that as an excuse for your behavior. Grow up! Work through your pain and become a nicer person without feeling justified for how you act!

Ramona, You are 100% correct about Bethenny and Jill,

1. Jill HATES anyone who is better than her in ANY way be it money, looks, Tennis, social status, etc. Jill hated the fact that Alex and Simon got a book deal.

2. Bethenny would NOT leave the charity event EVEN after Jill told her to leave because she knows better, she knows that without Jill, she is NOTHING. all that anger Bethenny had went a way and she coulnt' even answer Jill when she asked her to leave...basically Betheny ended up apologizing to Jill when Bethenny wanted Jill to apologize...in other words bitch(Bethenny) recognized that WITHOUT Jill she is NOTHING.

Ramona, You are 100% correct about Bethenny and Jill,

1. Jill HATES anyone who is better than her in ANY way be it money, looks, Tennis, social status, etc. Jill hated the fact that Alex and Simon got a book deal.

2. Bethenny would NOT leave the charity event EVEN after Jill told her to leave because she knows better, she knows that without Jill, she is NOTHING. all that anger Bethenny had went a way and she coulnt' even answer Jill when she asked her to leave...basically Betheny ended up apologizing to Jill when Bethenny wanted Jill to apologize...in other words bitch(Bethenny) recognized that WITHOUT Jill she is NOTHING.

Ramona,

You need some serious counseling....

It is painfully clear you don't own up to your bad behavior as you are incapable of self-reflective analysis. I personally don't cultivate relationships or friendships with people like you because you are not whole and centered as a person. You are clearly not healthy emotionally.

People like you love to criticize and humiliate others around you that exhibit healthy behavior as it is such a threat to your own dysfunctional identity. Healthy behavior from others "calls you out" as a crazy woman.

You don't care how mean you are and how your words and behavior affect others. You act like you deliberatly want to hurt people. Then when people tell you you hurt them, you zing it back at them like it's their problem and you are the victim now and are being attacked. Wow. They call people like you psychotic and sociopathic; incapable of feeling remorse for their own behavior or even recognizing that their behavior is wrong.

You need to read the book Boundaries and learn how to respect people. Here's a few other things to put on your "to do" list.

1) Deal with your past...feel it, heal from it, and own it.

2) Leave the past behind you. Bethenny had a much worse life growing up and she is 100 times healthier than you. She owns her own crap and IDENTIFIES and RECOGNIZES IT. Only then can you learn and grow into a healthy woman. Otherwise, you remain trapped by your old emotions and feelings and you react to things in the current day with 20 year old perspectives that are unhealthy, negative, and counter productive.

3) Your husband is just as arrogant, self-absorbed, and elitist as you are. Wow, the way he yelled at Jill over the tennis match at the Page Six (?) party was unreal. He looked a little sauced as well....Must be nice to be Ken and Barbie of NYC. Both of you dial it down a notch...

If having so much material possession means that there is a possibility that anyone could end up like you, everyone is better off living in the middle of no where with nothing. You are so bitter and you should not be. I cant believe you would pick on some one else's husband, look at your own. You spend so much time picking on Alex and Simon because your so jealous that you should start looking at home.