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I want to say something about Simon and Alex. At first I didn't like them, but as I watched the show through Season One, I came to respect both of them as tasteful and gracious. They listened to many "put-downs" from the other cast members and handled them with pure class, never losing their temper or acting inappropriately. I think it is admirable that they enjoy buying clothing together and enjoying other social activities together; who cares what they wear?! They are sharing a mutual love for one another and enjoying the time they spend together. I think they are great parents, too. A little obnoxious when they're talking to the boys, but they treat them with respect and give them room to be the little people they are, learning new things daily. Many of us could have learned from their examples in my opinion.

I saw Ramona selling her jewelry on QVC a few months ago, It is lovely and I must say she acted much more refined than her personality comes across on the reality show. It was refreshing, actually.

I want to say something about Simon and Alex. At first I didn't like them, but as I watched the show through Season One, I came to respect both of them as tasteful and gracious. They listened to many "put-downs" from the other cast members and handled them with pure class, never losing their temper or acting inappropriately. I think it is admirable that they enjoy buying clothing together and enjoying other social activities together; who cares what they wear?! They are sharing a mutual love for one another and enjoying the time they spend together. I think they are great parents, too. A little obnoxious when they're talking to the boys, but they treat them with respect and give them room to be the little people they are, learning new things daily. Many of us could have learned from their examples in my opinion.

I saw Ramona selling her jewelry on QVC a few months ago, It is lovely and I must say she acted much more refined than her personality comes across on the reality show. It was refreshing, actually.

Ramona, you're back to yapping about Alex's nude shots. Did you forget about your scenes by the pool kissing a playboy bunny? When Alex and Simon brought it up you didn't know what to say, you looked like a fool.......

Ramona- seriously, who do u think you are that alex and simon have to tell you about their plans, their actions, etc -i.e. the nude picture. I'm not a fan of alex/simon, but you put yourself as low as them.

mario- gosh, if he wants to show off on the show, just admit it instead of using Jill with this useless tennis game.

Ramona move to New Jersey!
What's your problem, you love to kick people down, and you love to kiss asses?
you are rude, mean, insecure
why do you think you are an expert in anything?
you are not smart by any standard

I still don't get why you and Mario were so upset over naked pictures of someone else. Who cares?

Mario was correct in telling Jill off - she thinks way too much of herself; he left her speachless which isn't an easy task.

YOU are the one who create all the conflicts. You talk about only wanting to be with people with "good energy" like you are some sort of evolved, mature person but you are the one with bad energy. You seem to think VERY highly of yourself but you are mean, judgemental and narcissistic. I don't think Silex did anything to warrant all of your ranting - jeez, lay off already.

Silex came out of that whole "hypocrite" argument smelling like roses and you and Mario came out looking like complete jackasses! I used to detest them, but now I'm starting to really like them and I actually enjoy their eccentricities!

ur lucky mario didnt get his ass kicked. my husband would have if someone talked to me like that. looks like you need to train your husband how to act in public

You are married to a bully. Get over the tennis match issue. No one really cares about it except for you and Mario

Avery is such a sweet girl. You are blessed to have her. I hope to see you spend more time with her doing things around NYC other than shopping. Take her to a museum or the Statue of Liberty.

I love the show! You, not so much. I just can't understand why you are portrayed as a classy woman on the show. Go figure; you said Alex and Simon are a sham. What's your story. Some of us think the same about you.

New Jersey might fit you better!

That was the funniest post, ever!!

Ramona

Life is a rollercoaster with you, girl! Sometimes you can be so nice, so down to earth, and than , all is lost in some stupid thing that rings into your very agitaded mind!
relax ! You need to do some yoga /meditation, you will not focuse so much in what Simon and Alex are doing!
Live and let live. On more thing - your daughter seems to be so smart, so mature , down to earth girl. Where did she got that from ? It`s in you, and your husband. Let it out !

TEAM AVERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mario was way out of line with Jill. Enough said.

Ramona,
Please stop making excuses as to why you do not like Simon and Alex. They are not your cup of tea and you would rather not associate with them, period, end of story. People would have a lot more respect for you if you just said that rather than every week making up new stories. Just be true to yourself, just own it.
I don't like them either, so I can see where you are coming from.

Well you talk about Simon wanting all the spotlight, Mario has been look at me, look at me, put me in the story. I can't believe you watch the show and don't get how fake you are.

Ramona, you are one of my favorites on the show, but seem so out of place with most of the other ladies. I mean that as a compliment, really! You are not pretentious and say what you think and feel, (sometimes not always the right thing at the right time like with Gov. Patterson at that Hamptons party), and that is what I love about you. Hopefully when you are not taping you hang out with people with appreciate you, just for you.

You and Mario are the "fakes" that you claim Simon and Alex are! Last season I was agreeing with you about Simon going to the "girls night out" although the way you handled yourself was so RUDE! Then the way you acted on the season finale! Just like a CHILD! Now you are doing it all over again with Mario. Why did "HE" do the inviting of the tennis match with Jill? This is the "Housewives" show not the "Husbands" of the wives show! The way you and Mario jumped on Simon and Alex was a mistake because they made you both look like the fools you are, and the way Mario spoke to Jill, my husband would've slugged him for talking to me that way! It looks like Mario is the one trying for HIS "15 minutes of fame"

Ramona - You Go Girl you are the most real housewife on the show. I like the way you speak your mind. I just love yeah! TEAM RAMONA

Jill might be willing to indulge you guys and she might be willing to spar, but I was ashamed for you in front of her lovely and amicable husband Bobby. Jill and Bobby are a class act. You and Mario looked ridiculous trying to engage them.

I think Mario is HOT and Romona also grows on people. I love how they support each other too.

I love you guys.

I think you and Mario are awesome! I love how you care for each other and how Mario stands behind his wife, evenif she has her vice.

I love you two, much better than Silex. They really gross me out (yack!) I know for a fact that they leaked their nude picture out on purpose. How shallow (yack again!)

I think you are Mario are real and great!! I love how you two take care of each other. That's what family is about. You are sexy, beautiful, smart and Mario is really hot. I envy your relationship with each other.

I would be so embarassed! How dare Mario treat a woman like that! I love you guys but I am starting to see a new side. Hopefully that was just the alcohol talking and he will soon apologize to Jill. Friendly competion is one thing, there is no need to be disrespectful!

From here on out, Ramona and Mario will be known as Marona. BTW, you have nothing over Silex.

Ramona
In the beginning you said the tennis match should be fun, but you and Mario have taken it too far. He looks like a fool. I don't blame Jill for saying she would punch him out . Let it go.... I am not a major fan of Alex or Simon, but if you are so concerned about how it affects you or your daughter .. why are you still on the show? You obviously feel your 15 minutes of fame and constant self promotion are more important. Get over yourself.

You were so concerned about your daughter's exposure to Alex & Simon that you signed on for another year?? Please!

Dear Ramona,

May I suggest that Mario and yourself need to step back and reflect for a moment about your actions? I have to agree with one and all who are deeming your actions 'hypocritical' especially... especially... considering your line of business is to sell christianity symbols, which espouse the virtues of being non-judgemental. Ouch. Plus, Mario's behavior with Jill? Yuck. What happened to the both of you being so fun loving??

As a fellow mom of teens, I understand how you want to be protective, but I am not seeing protectiveness. Instead, if the last show is how you set an example for your daughter, it's a poor one.

Is it true your a Christian? Really? Honest? Your kidding right, practice what somebody preaches. I am still in shock, "she's a Christian" no way. This is the way people see you. If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, then it is a duck. The duck not being a Christian who lives what they preach.

Hi there!
Afford me a moment of clarity. In your blog you stated that Mario takes his tennis seriously. How, exactly, did your annual doubles game with Jill turn into "HIS"?

Further, how is that any different then Simon coming to a girls dinner? Looking forward to an explanation.

I love Alex and Simon...you should too. They love eachother, they love their kids and have sooo much fun together. Maybe you could learn something from their relationship. Don't close yourself off to learning from anyone. Simon is just a big kid with a beautiful wife.

Ramona

You and Mario need to take lessons on class from Jill and her husband!!!

Ramona, You and Mario really need to get over yourselves. First of all, Alex and Simon owed you nothing. They did not have to tell you about the photos. I loved how you squirmed and tried to pull Mario away when Alex mentioned you kissing your 'girlfried' at the pool. OOPS, did we get caught!!
Mario is no professional tennis player. He is looking to beat a woman to make himself feel better. Bobby has so much class compared to Mario.

You went crazy when Simon joined the ladies for lunch. You said it was a girl thing. Crazy Mario is trying to do the same thing with the tennis game. The tennis started with only women and it should stay that way. I can't believe that Mario is so excited over this, he must not have much going on in his life.

Oh no, I think Bravo made a mistake... they have Ramona as a Real House wife of New York... I think they meant New Jersey...

Hopefully the oversight will be corrected.

I can't believe that I am saying this, but Silex - I like you guys. Last season you grossed me out, and although you still kinda do, I like you guys. Screw Ramonna and her child husband, keep your heads up and stay true... I can't believe I said that...

So you thought your husband's behavior was amusing? I found it outrageously rude. I assumed the guy was three sheets to the wind to treat someone that way. What a jerk.

Who made you the moral compass of NYC? What happened to letting people live their own lives and being accepting of others? Why should Alex and Simon have to consult you or give you a heads up to anything they do, get a grip. Isn't your daughter old enough to sit down and discuss these things with? I thought that's how you instill values in her. Besides, from what I saw of those photos they certainly weren't worth getting upset about. As for how you feel about Simon, I'm starting to like him more and more!

Ramona, I am so much like you. We speak our minds and are not afraid to have an unpopular opinion. I totally ~get~ you.

Ramona,

As a Christian, I am taught to love, forgive, and not to act judgemental or to gossip. I find it quite dissapointing to see how you and Mario went on the attack at the party; first towards Jill and then towards Alex. Who are you two and what makes you better? Mario had no right to question Jill's work ethic nor did you have a right to judge Alex or demand an explanation from her. If you want "True Faith" jewelery to enjoy continued success, I would start acting like a person of "true faith". You are hurting your image with your shallow behavior. I like you, Ramona - but I would think twice about buying your products due to your questionable behavior.

Mmmmmmm, does Mario ever speak to you that way? It was shocking when he went off on Jill. A screaming match over a tennis match? Take care, Suzie.

I am completely blown away at how your husband felt the need to confront Jill about the tennis match at a magazine party. He was totally out of line for being a rude jerk to Jill in front of her husband! I truly feel you and Mario are made for each other. I think it's sad how you guys focus so much of your attention to everyone else's life instead of your own. Why are you guys so upset about Alex's nude pics? WHO CARES? She's an adult for Christ sake. She doesn't owe your or anyone else an explanation about that at all. I'm a 27 year old woman and I can't get over the fact that people your age that are so accomplished can act this way.

Mario is worse than Simon - the way he went after Jill was ridiculous --- if Jill didn't want to play tennis, leave it be! Why badger the woman? I found Simon to be the most annoying person on the show, until this week. Mario and Kelly are the worst! It was much better when Mario didn't say much---

I HAPPEN TO BE AT THE PARTY AT KELLY`S HOME.I WAS INVITED. BETH WAS REALLY BAD THERE. HER BOYFRIEND WAS TRYING TO TAKE SHOTS OF KELLY AND SHE WAS MAKING RUDE CONMENTS. HE WAS FLOORED BY HER BEHAVIOR. THE OTHER GUEST WANTED KELLY T ASK HER TO LEAVE. BET IS SO DIRESPECTFUL.THATS WHY HE DUMPED HER.

Ramona, I kinda like you and Mario but face it, Simon one upped you guys! You don't like them PERIOD, admitting that is so much better than that ricidulous excuse of Alex's photo's. There is absoloutely no reason why they should have alerted you about what they do in their life! Get real. That really said alot about how "real" you and Mario are!

Ramona, You've a great role model for your daughter. And she is growing up to be a beautiful young woman. I have a step-daughter whom I love and have found being with a daughter to be a very rewarding part of life. She lives in Brooklyn now and works for a non-profit in Manhattan. It's good to see you again on the series, I hope you continue to be in our virtual lives.

Ramona,

The way your husband acted towards Jill at the Page Six party was appalling, to say the least. No gentleman would ever, and I mean EVER, speak to a lady like that. The way Mario acted towards Jill at the party is a true testament to his vile character.

I'm so glad Simon called you out on your hypocrisy. It's such a shame you're so blind that you don't even see how hypocritical you are!

Hey, Ramona. Are you related to Kevin Mazur, Bethanny's old boyfriend? I keep wondering how they put you all together.

Ramona:
Your husband was a bully ! A gentleman does not speak to a lady the way Mario spoke to Jill NO MATTER WHAT. You may put up with that behavior but sure hope Jill doesn't.

Get real girlfriend!!! Nobody owes it to you to notify you of what they do in their private lives, for you to suggest that is ludicrous. You are a piece of work Ramona, do you really think viewers have forgotten your "playmate" friend. Not that there is anything wrong with it, but if your gonna state that "you have a problem with people selling their bodies for money or fame", what do you call your girlfriend by the pool???? C'mon, get over it, you don't like Simon, and I'm here to tell you it's okay not to like someone. Quit trying to justify it, and definitely don't get caught lying about it.

" I really never expected to be on a show with people who exploited their bodies for money."

Oh really? Wasn't that friend you were kissing by the pool in the 1st season a former Playboy model? Isn't that a job where people exploit their bodies for money? Your daughter was repulsed by your affectionate display and left the pool. Your only response was that she judges you as much as your mother did. Pretty hypocritical stance towards Silex.

Ramona,

Please inform your husband (Mario) that high society women do not work; however, they do lunch, shop, attend couture fashion shows, travel around the world and donate time and money to multiple charities. Please explain to him that the two of you are upper middle class but definitely NOT high society. The Zarins are the most representative of how high society individuals live.

Ramona,

You had me in your corner until this past episode. First off - your excuse about disliking Team Silex is disingenuous. The claim that they should have informed YOU of nudie pix floating around is absurd. By your own admission, you hardly knew them. Should they tell the sound crew of the show personal information? More importantly, you give too little credit to Avery. She has proven to be an extremely mature girl. From this stupid cat fight started by your cuter half, Avery may be the ONLY adult in your house! The true reason you dislike Simon is because you found him to be a creepy, controlling party crasher. (I agree with you there.) You never got over your first impression. Admit that and forget him. Mario's condescending comments toward Jill (fueled by your venom) was an atrocious display. Did he channel Simon? As far as I can see, none of you people are true friends. The show has taken a most unpleasant turn.

If you weren't so busy hawking your "cross business" (as Simon Says); you might be able to practice what you preach...

Grow up Ramona, don't wear a Christian cross then not forgive. No one says "oh Alex posed nude....I'm never speaking to Ramona again." There are 2 other mothers of teenage girls on this show who have no issue! Get over it!

Ramona!
You are my fav. I think the lessons you teach your daughter about being independent are great. Anyhoo, as for the Simon thing.... you kissed a playboy model on national tv (in front of your daughter) and said she (the former playboy model) is a close friend. That's why people (Bethenny, viewers, Simon, etc.) dont get why you care that Alex posed for some nude pics. Clearly, you don't have any problem being friends w/ women who "exploit" their bodies for money. I laughed out loud when you said they owed it to you to tell you about the nude pictures. You are so funny and I really enjoy watching you.
Timothy Geithner owed it to Obama to warn Obama that he hadn't paid taxes BEFORE Obama nominated Geithner to be Treasury Secretary, but somehow Obama got over it (even though nominating someone - who didn't pay their taxes- to head an agency that oversees the IRS certainly reflected poorly on Obama). Not only did Obama stand behind and support Geithner, but he continues to do so. So I'm sure you can find it in your heart to forgive Silex for failing to mention the nude pics and no, I don't think they owed you anything. LOL.

You're still my fav though.
xo

What I do in my life is none of your business. My private life does not reflect on you. If we are out in public together no one is going to think what I do, you do.
You have a very backwoods way of thinking.

I don't know who decides what gets posted but mine never seem to appear here - hopefully it will this week!

Ramona, you are a piece of work. I am not huge fans of the Van Kampens but I say kudos to them for calling you out on your hypocrisy. You were appalled that they planted nude photos in the press because of how it would affect your daughter? Pleeeaaase! If you were so concerned about that, then why were you kissing and cavorting poolside with a "good friend" of yours who got paid to take off her clothes for a pornographic magazine? Even Avery was disgusted during that episode last season - she apparently has a higher standard of taste than you. You are rude and classless - how you have wiggled your way into "high society" is beyond me. And as for your camara loving husband, he is no better than Simon as far as attention seeking. Is he going to start blogging on here too? I was appalled at how rude and agressive he was to Jill. If a man ever spoke to me like that he would get decked - she should've thrown her drink in his face and walked off. How would you feel if someone spoke to your daughter that way? You two need to read up on what those crosses you love to peddle stand for! God bless and God help you both!

I would like to know if any of the NYC Housewives and their families go to church or temple?

who's the drama queen ? your husband. hands down he wins.

Ramona,
My family comes from great men who build hospitals, libraries, and museums.
If my husband had spoken to a lady the way Mario had, I would have been beyond furious. Actually, my husband has so much more class than that.
You should go one of my family's great libraries and look up the word 'tact'.
How dare you wear religious items?

I may be the only one making this comment.

I think the way you handled yourself at the fashion show when Simon harrassed you was great. He should have never approached you the way he did, and you kept tellling him to bug off. You did good.

At the party, though, totally different story. I think you felt that you had been caught unaware when someone from the press asked you about the nude ALex photos...well, I have to say, it really is none of your business and that's all you have to say to the press. "Really I had no idea, perhaps you should speak to them about it." end of story.

I like you Ramona, you do make me laugh.

I don't get it, why would Alex have to inform you of anything she does. You assume an awful lot with people, you assumed that Alex and Simon planted the photos, you assume that Jill does nothing but shop and lunch, you assume that Jill is just trying to be difficult and you assume that Alex and Simon had prior knowledge of when the photos would be released, that's a lot of assumptions.
As far as your husband and Jill you both should very bad manners, why does your husband care so much who Jill plays with, I'm assuming it's because you lost last year and he wants revenge. How do you like that assumption?
Please Ramona show a little lady like behavior from now on and know for a fact before you go accusing anybody of anything, same goes for your arrogant husband.

I have never been compelled to comment, but your lame explanation for not liking Silex is ridiculous!!! They do not have to inform you of or explain to you any of their decisions just because you are on a show together! I don't buy that this is why you don't like them.....

By the jewelry you sell and wear, I gather you are a Christian. If you are a Christian, why don't you forgive and forget and not worry about being right all the time?

Ramona,
Have you ever heard, if you don't have something nice to say then say nothing at all. This might want to be something you and your husband should practice!

If my husband spoke to a woman like that I would be mortified. Your husband denigrated Jill's job and the way he was screaming at her while he walked away was embarrassing to watch.
I hope you told him that he was WAY out of line.

Ramona,

You and your husband seem nice enough. Honestly, why would you care if an acquaintance you went out for an evening with, posed topless?
How does it make a difference in your life?

I have three daughters, 14, 15, and 27. We are a upper middle class family with good morals and values, do I care
if someone I know has some pictures floating around out there, would I care if my daughter's knew? Not really. It makes no difference in our lives.

You may live in NYC, but you are acting like an uneducated, unsophisticated bumpkin!

Life is too short for this kind of behavior.

Good Luck to you.

I really believe there is more to the anger against Alex and Simon than just the photo's. You need to really be honest with yourself. There you go.

Ok Ramona, I'm trying to understand your explanation for the nude picture thing.  I sincerely think you blew it a bit out of proportion.  So, now it's over, let it go.  I  get that Alex and Simon aren't your cup of tea, but ya know what, that's life!  Everybody doesn't like everybody.  Bottom line is that when you have to have dealings with people you don't care for, you have to suck it up and make nice!  I think Mario went a little nutso this week.  It did give me a chuckle!  The show is my guilty pleasure and I look forward to watching every week.  You, in particular, have certainly grown on me this season. Can't wait to see whats next!!!

Mario came off as the Drama Queen this week.

What do you care if Alex posed nude or not? What do you care if the pictures were "planted" or not? Judgemental much? You really look bad when you go on the attack. Really BAD!

Leave Silex alone! It's unnecessary and you come off looking awful.

Wow, where to start with only 1k of characters to work with? I must say that I find your relationship with your husband to be very loving and playful. You both were obviously made for each other. We can see that this is LOVE and it looks like it will last you both a life time. Good for you!

You tried to follow Kelly's advice but you forgot to follow thru with the last part of the advise (i.e. Provide your greeting and then EXCUSE yourself). That was the part that you forgot, (to excuse yourself).

Continue on your path dear and you will be JUST FINE. But don't forget to keep your heart open and try not to say anything that will make your heart hurt later on.

Silence can be "golden".

Good luck to you and have a blessed day.

RAMONA, COME ON...YOU SEEM LIKE A SWEET LADY..LEAVE ALEX AND SIMON ALONE..THEY ARE NICE FOLKS...BE NICE TO THEM...

Ramona I don't understand why you didn't call your husband off when he was attacking Jill. Mario showed himself to be alot like Simon. Mario came off as small, a sexist, and not much more then a bully. I was waiting for Jill's husband to ask him to step out side. What would your husband do if a man got up in your face, yet alone did it at a very public event. Sorry Ramona this makes Mario look very bad and I can't think it's going to do a lot for the type of business he runs.

Geez Ramona let it go. I agree with Simon and Alex, it was none of your business. It does not reflect on you in the least. I see your point, but I disagree with you. You are so negative about it, move on let it go. The more anger you harbor about it, the worse you become.
You come from different worlds and have different opinions, and you need to respect that. Let go of the hate, grow up!

Ramona, you and Bethenny are my favorites!