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Ramona Singer

Only (Turtle) Time Will Tell

After a wild and crazy reuinon, Ramona reacts to Jill's apologies, Kelly's "wackiness," and more.

June 15, 2010

 

Well everyone, where do I begin!?!

You need to understand that when we filmed the reunion, I had just come back from a two week safari with And Beyond (here's the video to show you what I was experiencing). More importantly, I went into the community to visit schools and children that Africafoundation.com and my group of girlfriends helped raise money to support.

That said, it was surreal to sit on the couch and listen to Kelly's wackiness and all the nonsense coming from Jill's mouth. I wanted to be back in the bush with the zebras and elephants!!!

I found it very sad that Kelly does not realize her problems and tried to spin it as though we bullied her, four against one. Bullying is a very serious issue that is happening to young children and young adults and she is making a mockery of it by her claims. I always knew something was off with her, but now all of America can see how really out there she is in "Kellyland." I do only wish her the best and one on one she is quite lovely. When she is in a group situation something snaps. I really had no more patience to listen to her nonsense, that's what happens when you get away from it all like I did in Africa.

I found it difficult to comprehend Jill's excuse for the way she was speaking negatively about everyone. Her excuse was that she was trying to be funny?!? Really!?!? Jill never had one-liners like Bethenny and never will. There was nothing funny about any of her comments, they were all mean-spirited and came from a place of negativity. I also found it very interesting that Jill would say very angrily one minute "You're lying! Prove it!!" and then on a flip of a coin, "You're right, I did say that." I really do not know what's going on with her anymore and I hope she works it out and becomes a better person. Only time will tell.

 

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516 Comments

Ramona, you were just brilliant this season, such a lovely person, so caring and also not putting up with rubbish. I agree with you that I do hope Kelly gets help as she needs it urgently, god help her when she goes through menopause!!!

Hi Ramona:
Wow - you're such a breath of fresh air! I can't tell you how much I enjoy you on this show and it was great to see that you've bonded with the right group of gals! Jill's side of the couch was the "shallow, nasty, jealous side and your side was just as it should be. I'm going to try your skin line. Please don't change one little thing about yourself next season! All the best to you and your lovely family :)

Hi Romona,
You can be very rude and nasty, it is apparent that is an issue you must deal with, but you are classy and don't need to brag about sex lik Sonja and Bethanny.
I like you, Luann and Jill
3 great ladies...

Just wanted to let you know it
was nice to see you with Andy
tonight. You look wonderful!
Miss your fun personality and
I'll try to watch you on RHONY next
season! It won't be the same
without Bethenny. I'll give your show another
chance as long as Jill, Lou Lou
and Kelly don't start drama! If
so the off button get's hit!
Please go on BGM as often
as possible. Miss you, Alex and
Bethenny and your families.
Be well~

i do love your honesty and the way u dont back down, love ya heaps darl.. keep all the gud work up... ur amazing

i do love your honesty and the way u dont back down, love ya heaps darl.. keep all the gud work up... ur amazing

Hats off Ramona, you did become a better person. I didn't like you much the other seasons, but this season, I thought you were great. You carried yourself well this season (3), keep it up sweets

Ramona,

Your great. You seemed really happy this season for the most part although you have to sometimes, think before you speak. Your comments to Bethenny on the bridge were crude and hurtful. On a lighter note your renewal vows were beautiful and you looked amazing. Best to you and all the ladies and their families.

For those of us who view every week, Kelly has no clue. It's unfortunate. I just think she is a very insecure person. She should get some counseling, I think it would help her tremendously to see the issues everyone else sees.

Ramona, thuis evening my family and I went to a resturant named Oh Mama Mia on 3rd between 76th and 77th. It was mentioned to me that you had gone there with your daughter. It was delicious. Good choice. Hope to see you all back next season in the big apple.

hey Ramona, I had some questions for you. i have had some perspiration problems too. i was wondering how you can fix it. cause i am 15 i don't really know how to tell my parents. i was wondering how do you also cover it up? and if any certain deodorants help. and did it hurt when you had that surgery to stop sweating. also did the surgery actually work to stop the sweating? would you recommended it?

This is just not for you, but for all of the ladies. It seems as though you all have the same "backstabbing and kindergarten ways". You say you have been friends for years (as far as Jill goes), if you are all "such great friends" why isn't sorry enough? It is really sad that in this huge world none of you can seem to find one good friend.... We don't have much but are friends are our friends through good and bad- just let it go.... that's what the simple folks do-life is just to darn short to hold a frickin' grudge and it angers me that you are all so quick to give up on your friendships like that!

Romona

I love you and I love your crayzeness. You are a genuine and kindhearted person. Continue to be crazy and have a big heart.

Ramona,
After this last season, you are one of my favorites...You, Bethenny and Alex. You guys are real...honest, sincere and really know how to be a friend. I'm glad you and Alex were there for Bethenny this last season. I think all three of you and Sonja are class acts. It was so good of you to try to get Bethenny and Jill back together. I think they have LuAnn to thank for keeping that from happening. It was so nice to see you at Bethenny's wedding. Looking forward to seeing you more on Housewives and Bethenny Getting Married. Best wishes in all you do.

I am a definite fan! I could enjoy a show of just you, Bethenny, Alex and Sonja. You all have great personalities and are usually caring about others and show a great deal of class.

You are so right on about Jill and Kelly! WOW, what a pair! They both need help and I hope they get it.

Romona Sweetie, no more fashion show runway walks please !Thanks Love

Ramona!! I just love you. You are a little nutty at times but I get you. You are a light and you truly have a good heart. I agree with you on every level. Jill desperately needs Jesus. She's a very angry, selfish person - with a lot of money. Dangerous combination. Enough said about her. I so pray that Kelly would have someone in her life that can get through to her that she's got a mental illness. I feel bad for her.

I wish you all the best in life. Stay the way you are always!

Ramona:

Watching season three, I want to say that if i was one of the houswife's on the show, i would choose you to be my best friend.

Out of all of them and i love Bethenny, you were the fair person who stood their ground when it was not popular-you could have kissed jill's ass all through town with Bethenny launching her own series and leaving you exposed-and you didn't.

You grew on me.

You are a stand-up person.

I rally for you everytime your segment appears on the show.

Your transforamion is real and I am glad you shared it with the viewers.

Be the example next season of how to act and be fair.

Ramona I LOVE YOU!!! You are the best!!!

Ramona,
I love the fact that you are trying. I didnot like you the first season and truly detested you the second. However, this season (while still not a fan) I found your presence tolerable. Watch what you say and do though as you haven't evolved fully. I saw you 'go off' on Jill and it reminded me of the old Ramona. I don't think Jill owed you All an apology for showing up. After all you did invite her and there is footage of you talking to B stating that you had a feeling that she would. The only reason you had this feeling is because you INVITED her and didn't rescend it. Common!!! Keep it real. Anyway keep working on being a better you and see you next season.

Ramona,
I really enjoyed and liked you this season. You were so much nicer and less weird than before, while still getting your point across. I just watched you and Alex and Simon and Mario at Bethenny's wedding and you all looked fabulous. Kadoos to you!

Hey Ramona! I have always loved you on the show, you are so honest and fun! I do have a question for you.... on the extra footage episode you got botox in your underarms for sweating, which is something I am seriously considering. What did you think, did it work for you? I am so tired of it and want a real solution! I would greatly appreciate your feedback. Love ya!

Sonja says you can dish it out but you can also take it. I agree and that's one of the most enduring qualities anyone can claim.

So Ramona! I have a great idea for you. I haven't looked at other people's posts BUT I was working out today, doing planks and I thought holy crap Ramona needs to make a work-out video!

Almost every single episode (yes, I'm a fan) where you are wearing a swim suit ect. the cast members comment on your beautiful shape. You seem to promote working out and "Doing planks."

So I was thinking... a; More Americans are working out than ever before b; many reality stars are making work out video's even Bethenny and c; People know you work out and look great because of it so I think it would be a great business opportunity if you were so kind to share with others your exercise secrets that keep you so fit.

Okay, I'm done pitching my epiphany. I think you should do it though!

XOXO- Marisa

You have always been one of my favorites and this season was no exception. You are real and true to yourself. This season you endured many changes in the dynamics of your costars and came out a winner. I loved it!

Loved seeing you, Alex and your husbands at Bethenny's wedding. You all looked so glamorous! Hope you're having a great summer. Can't wait til the new season. We miss the NY housewives entertainment during the break!!

Ramona: I watched the episode of Jason and Bethenny getting married. Seeing you and Mario there was wonderful!!! I love your dress!!! You looked beautiful!!!! Enjoy seeing Alex and Simon too!!! Keep up the good work. Have a wonderful summer!!! Debbie

Hi Ramona!
I have so loved watching your metamorphisis this season! You are such an interesting lady. I was happy to see you and Alex attending Bethany's wedding, I am glad you have been such supportive friends to her, I like the three of you together and also like Sonja. Your dress at the wedding was gorgeous and you looked stunning in it. I look forward to seeing much more of you in the seasons ahead. Much love to you and your family!

Ramona I just have to tell you that you looked ABSOLUTELY STUNNING in that red gown at Bethany's wedding. That tone of red is your color.

I'm ashamed to say that i didn't really like you much in season 1, but this season have absolutely fallen in love with you!! (well, as much in love as a gay boy can fall for a woman, lol)

I don't know if it's the "renewal" or that previous editing didn't let us see a more overall picture of who you are, but i was so happy watching you this season & couldn't wait for your next scenes to appear.

You're upfront, funny, sexy, smart, and you also showed that you weren't too big to say "i'm sorry" if you realized you'd done somebody wrong.

Loved the haircut. And the renewing of vows with that sexy Mario. And your daughter, just in these 3 short years, is growing up so fast to become as beautiful a young woman as her mom.

Good luck with the new line of jewelry & the skin care products, and everything else. I'm sure you don't need me to tell you to ignore the few bad comments that pop up on here. I think you're great!

Ramona,
I would like to be a represenitive for your skin care line or for new line of jererly. I love your changed attitude on life. I wish you, your daughter and husband tha best.
Plese let me know how I can get into your proram. I live in the state of FL. I could even do online sales.

Sincerely.
Kathy Wasson

Dear Ramona,

I love you in NY HOUSEWIVES! I am an actress/model and I have really great skin and I would love to be a part of your skin care line as spokesperson, face model etc! I see your jewelry on the show and know that you are a very successful and smart businesswoman. Thank you for being so fabulous!!!
Katie
www.katiesvela.com

WOW! what a change for the better this year! good work, Ramona. Love the fact that you are friends with the couple you were so terrible to in the past: Alex and Simon! They are really great, confident in who they are and very stable. I am delighted that you and mario have worked so hard to bring out the best in each other, your selves and others...
I could not beleive kelly! YOUR party, SHE is a guest and look how she behaved! of course she is insane, really...and I am only sorry it took so long for Bravo to get her off St. John's...you were all a lot nicer than I would have been...I would have shown her to door on the frst day...on the boat....it was not fun watching her melt down in public...
RE: Jill. She is learning the lessons you learned in the prior seasons....I hope. Watching Bethenny's show I couldn't help but think what a loss this was for both of them, Bethanny with so much to do, and no "mom" and really on overload, and Jill, who with her mom could have done that wedding with both hands tied and been there with her for support. Bad behavior has more than one victim. Not only did it hurt Jill, it hurt her friends who had to choose between her and another...
Try to be kind to Jill. She has really done herself great harm, and it may be a while before she can see it...refuse to discuss anything other than business, the weather, your kids, hubbies,clothes and nothing else, wheather filming or not. Do not discuss others with her, ever, because she will be the better for it, and you don't need the aggravation.
At any rate, you look great, you are so funny, your little family is great, and you are a smart woman. PLEASE let us see more of your work, as I recall you are also a clothes broker? I would love to know more about that side of your life, because I know you do work, and it is important to see that money doesn't fall off trees, that you are self made, and keep on being sweet and friends with Alex and Bethenny. The three of you are great together. If Sonja stays she will fit right into your little group.
thanks for showing us how change for the better can be so rewarding to see and do. loved the wedding...it's clear that mario loves you and "gets" you....lucky girl...the look on his face when you said your vows was priceless...

Ramona, What a season this was.I loved you and Mario renewing your vows.Jill and Bethenny lost their marbles and were not nice...i think they both were overwhelmed by life, Kelly really has problems....she really believes what she says. I hope she gets help.Sonja is great, but I can do without her talking about sex, and I hope Luann has good luck with Jacques.I wish Alex would not put so much trust in Bethenny because she can't be trusted.Jason is a wonderful guy and I hope Bethenny appreciates him.And i hope you, Mario, and Avery have a great summer!

I still do not see how you and Jill are friends. You are outspoken. REAL and a great LADY. Luv the relationship you appear to have with your hubby and your daughter.

Romona, I can also say that from season 1 when I did not like you to season 3 I think you are great! I may even buy some jewlery on HSN and NO this is not an alias trying to bring increase your sales:) You know what I mean.

Ramona,
This was your season, you really shined in a true light. Hope to see another season minus Kelly. (She truly scared me,not for myself but for her) Hope you and your family are well.

Keep shining and be well, luv ya luv ya

Big Mama

I'm liking the renewed Ramona....keep on renewing.....and Ramona, nobody dances like you.A little weird, but I love it!

Ramona...you rock, woman!!! I had a hard time liking you last year but this year I have had a change of heart. You are now my very fave. I also think a lot of Alex. I don't understand what happened to Bethany. She was such a scream but she now seems a bit mean and too over the top. That Kelly - wow!!! What's up with her. I also think there's the possibility of a breakdown - EVERYDAY. Something aint right!!! I do feel sorry for Jill. She seems to be a lost soul without her buddy, Bethany. I also think she was way wrong to have shown up unannounced. That is manners 101. Anyway, enjoyed this season and look forward to the next.

SEPERATED AT BIRTH...RAMONA AND CINDY ANTHONY (CASEY'S MOM) EVEN DOWN THE EYEBALLS. ANYONE AGREE?

OF ALL THE HOUSEWIVES YOU WOULD BE THE ONE THAT I NEVER WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THAT I WOULD WRITE THIS TO, BUT YOU ABSOLUTELY PROVED BEYOND A SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU ARE A RENEWED RAMONA. I WAS SO PROUD OF THE WAY YOU HANDLED KELLY AT THE HOUSE WHEN SHE WAS SO OUT OF CONTROL. BUT I DON'T THINK SHE WAS AS OUT OF CONTROL AS SHE WANTED YOU TO THINK SHE WAS. SHE IS AN ATTENTION JUNKIE. AND IF SHE DON'T GET IT SHE WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET IT. BUT UNTIL THIS YEAR I HAD MY DOUBTS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR STABILITY, BUT YOU SURE PROVED ME WRONG THIS SEASON. KEEP UP THE RENEWAL, IT LOOKS WONDERFUL ON YOU

Ramona,
Your anger issues are huge. You say things that are thoughtless and expect everyone to let it go and forgive you YET when it came to Jill - you are very unforgiving. At Scary Island - you should have asked Jill to come to a seperate area and ask her to leave - not the way you did. She was wrong in surprising you knowing the tensions that existed - yet you were cruel.
Think about it next year - don't throw a stone if you live in a glass house.

Ramona,
I loved watching you this season, you have made me laugh and cry. You are so sophisticated, likeable, smart and a peacemaker. This show needs someone like you. You have really renewed yourself and please don't change. I've learned to speak up and explain myself by watching the housewives of NY. Isn't that wonderful?
Love, and my best wishes to all.
Norma

Hi Ramona,
First I actually love your eyes,your daughter is very pretty and I suppose you have a great Husband,much success.
Let me comment on your Jewelry line,Finally some real art!
the designs are really strong pieces,to die for!
I like you,but you hurt my feelings when you could not let Jill down the classy way!although I like your up front ability,you are not fake in my eyes,continue to stay sweet take care.

Ramona, YOU are your biggest fan and it's nauseating! You are also mean, rude and crazy!! How can you possibly think that you are nice to everyone?? You're rude and then you act like you don't know what they're talking about. Get over yourself! You and Alex need to apologize to Jill and try to be better people next season.

Ramona,

I admire and respect you! Love your name. What did that come from? I watch the way you take car of yourself and wish we all had the ability to do that. I think you are a great mother! I would not watch NYC if you were not in the cast. Be honest(even if everyone thinks it is rude), be true to yourself. You deserve to be happy. Live it up! Avery loves you and we do also. You are so beautiful body and soul! You inspire me to renew myself!!

Cyn

You were mean to Jill on Scary Island and you were ridiculously rude on the reunion show. You can disagree with someone's actions without losing control of your temper. I think you are a good person, who doesn't know when to take a step back and try to understand what's going on. You create drama. At least, you are a good mother and wife as we can see from your great relationships with them and your daughter's amazing maturity and class.

ok, after watching the lost footage, you were so horrible to Jill on "scary island"! she was at your birthday party 2 days before!! how could you treat her that way??
i hope she sees you for what you are and finally moves on.....

I don't think you are honest or real. All of the drama between Alex and Jill makes NO SENSE! Because for 2 seasons it was YOU who made continual insulting remarks about Alex, Simon, and their kids and house. You never stopped! And NOW, you suddenly Alex forgives and forgets it all? I don't buy it for a second, especially seeing now how Alex is SO hateful towards Jill, for what? A couple of sarcastic comments? How many has ALex made about Jill? But nothing compares to your bashing of Alex during season one and two. You have gotten away with so much. Alex is suddenly your best friend, and all the mean things she said about your have gone where? You are the sneaky one on the show....and it is very suspicious

Ramona
On the show You always looked and acted with class. You were one of my favorites until I meet you the Hamptons in person. You and the friends you hang out with are loud, obnoxious, and rude. I was so disappointed. Not to mention your cheap too. You and your freinds expect star treatment, but give really bad tips for the serves and valeting. Show some class and treat people that serve you better!!

Avery is wonderful! I hope she remains the same always. She is beautiful, smart, CLASSY beyond words, and on and on and on the compliments go. Congratulations to you and Mario for a job well done.

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