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Tell It Like It Is

Ramona Singer explains more about her relationship with Jill!

March 3, 2009

Jill and I are both competitive. She won the tennis match last year and I know she wants to win again. I would feel the same way if the situation were reversed. We are both high-energy women who want to succeed at whatever we do. I think sometimes she shows it more than I do, but I am just as competitive. Only I tend to keep my competitive side more contained.

Since we are both strong willed and outspoken, I have learned to take the back seat and to avoid going head to head with her.

Jill and I are definitely getting along better this season. I really tried to make an effort to understand her better...and I think I do. Since we are both strong willed and outspoken, I have learned to take the back seat and to avoid going head to head with her. What I do is let her be strong first, contain myself (which is hard for me to do, but I am learning!) and later give her my viewpoints. I actually find I learn from her and she from me when I use this approach. Naturally there are times I cannot contain myself and we go at it. But at the end of the day, we have tremendous respect for each other and I know she has a heart of GOLD, and vice versa.

Avery has a type of juvenile rheumatoid arthritis it is called Spondyloarthropathy. It is so difficult to spell, let alone pronounce correctly. I hope Avery will grow out of it as she gets older, but we do not know. She has grown 4 inches in 12 months, which is very hard on her body and she has pain and needs to be on medicine 24/7. This problem is mainly in her foot, but she complains of aches and pains throughout her body if she is not on the medication.

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121 Comments

This guy is really lucky !

I’m impressed! It’s nice to see someone very passionate about what they do. Trust all your future posts turn out as well.Thanks!

Ramona you make the show very fun I thank you for that! you can be off sometimes but hats fine you're honest!!!

I hope you read this Ramona. You're such a total joke. So much so that I am not going to waste anymore time on you than it takes to say, read Bethenny's blog I've just added.

What is up with Mario, he is acting like Ramona, throwing a fit about a tennis match...get a life.

Ramona, I just found out you were 52. I cannot believe it, I would have guessed 38-42. You are an inspiration for women who want to continue to look fantastic as they get older. Keep up the great work, you truly look amazing!

The three of you had no business being in your "dating" conversation while donating time at the cancer residence. Your time there should be all about them not all of you!!

I must say I really like this new Ramona. It shows you have brains and class. Keep up the good work.

Is your husband's last name Singer as well? I looked him up on the USTA website and couldn't find him. You mentioned that he was #3 Nationally in the Men's 55s.

Mario is HOT!

I think you are great Ramona!! You make me laugh!

You are soo ridiculous! You are not always right

Ramona,

You had me until I just looked at this weeks video. I admire your stance on Alex and Simon but I think you are getting alittle carried away and that takes away from your justified opinion of Alex and Simon. I am so afraid that you will be omitted from the show and that may be the reason they brought in the new lady. She seems very boring to me. Thanks for standing firm on your opinions but don't become too overbearing with the others.

Ramona,
I think your family is fabulous. I'm a recently newlywed and I love to see married couples that have been together 10, 15 years have the kind of relationship you have with your husband. It's fun to see that you two still have fun together and you see that Mario really respects you.

I also think you're dead on about Alex and Simon. It's like their both Stepford wives, very bizarre. They creep me out. I'm totally against being codependent. You have to have your own lives in a relationship.

Anyway, keep being entertaining!

Ramona
You should not judge Alex and Simon, just because they like to spend time together and experience life with the one they love doesn't make them "not real". It just means that they don't have the same type of relationship that you and your husband have. Maybe you don'g like spending as much time with your husband as Alex does...and that should be okay with you. I think they have a great sense of self. Maybe you should just accept the fact that they don't care what you have to say about their relationship.

Ramona, it is good to take up for yourself and to express your felings, but do you have to shove everything down peoples throats?
You are judgmental and un forgiving try reaching out to people instead of kicking everybodys ass

I think your daugter has Ankylosing Spondylitis which is an autoimmune disease. It doesn't go away but can go in remission. It affects the spine and can affect the ankles. She needs to see a Doctor specializing in Autoimmune Diseases. It can be controlled but it has to be treated now. She needs to get a full blood workup for Autoimmune diseases. Good Luck.

Ramona,
Where did you get the beautiful pendant that looks a sunburst. Its beautiful. Also, love you True Faith line.

Ramona,

Avery is a wonderful young lady. You can tell she is wise beyond her years, is just beautiful, and will be very successful (just like you).

I don't think you take the backseat with Jill, at all. I think it's great that you are opinionated and say how you feel; it makes for good TV. I don't think that the kind of behavior you take on the show is acceptable in reality. You are very aggressive, and you attack peoples personalities. You made it seem like (in this blog) that you only respond to Jill (when you say you can't contain yourself) but I often see you as the instigator. Acceptance is a good quality, and tolerating other peoples flaws is not being fake.

By the way - your husband talks badly about Simon, but he acts the same way as him -- without the fashion.

Ramona, you are sooo right!! AlexSLIMEon make my skin crawl, too!

Will some one finally expose the "countess"? Please!!
I hope that someone is you.

Ramona,

You are too old for that nonsense behaviour. When did telling it like it is become such a virtue. No one says you have to pretend to like someone, but how about some common curtesy. Its very mean to speak so negatively about people who have done nothing to you. Please try keeping your unsolicited opinions to yourself. People have a right to be how they want to be and make decisions that they want to make. Don't put yourself on such a pedestal that you become intollerant of others. For goodness sakes you are not the first woman on the planet to make her own money.Its seems to me that you are masking some deep insecurities with your constant self compliments and criticisms of others. I think you are still hurting from the disfunctional relationship between your parents and you are secretly jealous of the closeness between Alex and Simon.

You are right. You do have a wonderful husband and daughter.

I love your honesty Ramona!! You look FANTASTIC for your age and I would never have guessed you are the age you are (if the PEOPLE magazine was correct). Don't change Ramona-tell people the way it is!!

Jill saying you should mind your own business was so funny coming from her, the one that has to have her nose in everyone's personal business.

When Kelly didn't introduce you to her friend I am reminded why so many people make fun of the Hamptonites. Then miss manners (cough!) LuAnn makes fun of you behind your back because you dressed up for the horse show last year.
I guess she did that after she skipped out on her surfing bill, what a class act.

I think you are funny and like the fact you will admit when you believe you are wrong and apologise.

It looks like you ruffeled the feathers of Luann about her older husband! She acted so offended then turns around and offends Bethenny without any thought.
I find her the most difficult to watch, she seems so fake.

you go girl - the other housewives seem to pick on you and you never back down! Please stay that way - that countess is annoying!

Ramona: Do you ever have anything nice to say? You are
so nasty. Set a good example. Don't make yourself out to be like Tamra and Vicki from RHOC. You need to be nice and not so judgemental of others. You are too quick to judge and its not attractive.

Ramona, you totally crack me up! I think your personality is way over the top but you are just being honest and even if you might come off as rude sometimes, I just think you are hilarious! Please don't censor yourself, or try to "contain yourself" just be yourself and you will give your viewers great tv and some great laughs

I just wanted to say your daughter is so cute and seems very smart. Hopefully she will get better soon.

Dearest Ramona,

Thank you for representing working women and showing the world that you really can have it all if you have your priorities in proper order. As one of the few women hedge fund managers on Wall Street, I totally agree with you that making your own way in the world is an aphrodisiac!!! Your beautiful daughter, Avery, is incredibly lucky to have such a loving mother and an amazing role model. Yes, you can be a bit too opinionated and outspoken at times. However, you are an honest,loving and extremely hard-working person. Mario seems like an equally wonderful person. Love him!!! You are fortunate to have each other.

Bravo should launch a spin off with you in the leading role----"The Real Goddesses of NYC". As a society, we should be showing our daughters that women can and should be equals. Let's stop propagating the myth that women are soley defined by their husbands!!! For example, LuAnn is completely defined by who she married, Alexandre--an accomplished professional and aristocrat. She should be much more proud of the fact that she was a nurse who used worked to help others. LuAnn is a 'Countess' in name only. You are a true self-made Goddess!!!! God bless you and your family.

Ramona,
I, personally, love you! You seem to have mellowed since last season.
What really sealed the deal for me is seeing your absolutely gorgeous jewelry on HSN. My 13 year old daughter and I watched it and it was so much fun to just have her with her head in my lap and stroke her hair as we watched the show. I am in total agreement with you as far as boarding school goes. I do not judge those who choose to send their children to these schools. Jill is right when she says it is a personal decision.
When we heard that you had been in Tampa that day, both my daughter and I looked at each other and gasped. We would have loved to have met you and admired your jewlery! We live only an hour away and I'll just bet you were at the International Mall!
Take care and I hope that Avery is doing well with school and her health. You are my favorite. Well, it's a close run with Bethanny. She is a hoot, to say the least!

Melissa

Dear Ramona,
I think that your daughter Avery is a beautiful child with excellent manners. When Jill was asking you about helping with her arthritis charity, you said that Avery was just diagnoised with rheumatoid something? My first thought was please tell me that she knows more about Avery's disease. After reading your blog I now realize that you know about rheumatoid arthritis. My heart goes out to you and Avery because she has a very serious disease. I also have RA and I live in constant pain, and have tried several of the medications used to treat RA. You mentioned in your blog that she is taking medication daily to help her joints. Please learn as much as you can about all of the RA drugs because they can have horrible side effects. Most of these medications suppress the immune system and lower your ability to fight infections. I hope that she is not having to take injections like methotrexate for her RA because they really attack your immune system. I had to be hospitalized several times a year because of infections from these injections. Ramona, you are a very intelligent woman so research everything you can about RA for Avery's sake. I know that she will get the best possible care from you and your husband as you are both excellent parents. I enjoy watching you and your family on the show and I have only seen Avery once this season. I hope that we will see more of her because she is a wonderful role model for young ladies. I hope that the show continues to do well as I enjoy watching it so much.
My regards to your family,
Victoria

The people who are making rude commentary about you, should be looking in the mirror. Why bother to point out something negative. Why are you watching? Like this world needs MORE.....

Ramona,

I have (nearly) the same type of arthritis as Avery (Juvenile Rheumatoid), and I know exactly what you mean about her athletic side becoming somewhat limited by it.

My love of exercise has gone unfulfilled this winter because of the disease but hopefully her 'flare up,' as they call it, will pass quickly & she'll be in remission in no time!

Love your ability to speak your mind in a clear, concise way and your fun personality!

Ramona....I like how you say what is on your mind...even if it is completely wrong. I think of all of the women, you are the most fun to watch and probably the most fun to be around.

Most of the time, you seem misunderstood because of how you present things.

Who cares...keep it coming!!!

Ramona, you are one of my all time favorite housewives! In the first episode of this season, my favorite part was when you were at the restaraunt with your husband and the waitress accidentally spilled the drink on you. You handled it with comedy and didn't get upset at all! I highly doubt the "Countess" would be so cool. You ARE crazy and I love it! Never apologize for who you are. There are many people across the country that would love to get crazy with ya!

Ramona, looking good for 52! We thought you were 42. Way to go girl!

Hi Ramona,
Last season you made a statement that you were starting a skin care line. Did you go through with that? I am an aesthetician and would be interested in your line. I just read you are 52, I think you look great.

I LOVE that AVERY is not some self-obsessed girl who attaches her self-worth to her material possessions or boys! She is studious, self-reliant and confident. These are all qualities that will bode her well in the future. From a former avid student who preferred pearls to push-up bras....you tell Avery to keep her eye on the prize. Hard-work and diligence will pay off for your lovely daughter in the future!

She is OK but a little on the weird side too just like Alex.

Oh Ramona. Unfortunately, Trampa is bloggin the RHNYC and she is stating that you and she are most alike. I don't think you deserve such an insult!

I saw your jewelry on HSN.. gorgeous. You presented it so well and were so reserved, it shocked me. You should tone down your demeanor on the show, it is so much smarter than your in-your-face thing.

I am so sad to hear about Avery, she is a lovely child and I am hoping all is well with her.

Hi Ramona,
I have more a of question than a comment.
I just turned 51 this past November, and I was laid off my last job so I'm not faced with the challenge of re-eventing myself. My children are now all grown (I have seven), so I'm now going in a new direction with starting my own business by selling womens' accessories. The problem is I'm not sure where to start! There are so many companies out there, but I have no way of knowing which companies are legitimate, and which ones are not. My question for you is how did you go about contacting reliable companies to do business with, and do you have any leads???

Mona, thank you so much for your help.
C.C.

I cannot wait until Ramona comments on the "ambiance" of the horse track. At least the usage would be correct this season. You should also keep pretty close tabs on that stallion of yours, honey. I loved how Kelly iced you at the race. I'm certainly not a fan of the Weird Wonders that are Alex and Simon, but maybe you can see how awful they felt being ignored by you when they were just trying to be friends. Perhaps you should think about the True Meaning behind your True Faith cross you wear every episode.

Ramona, you really need to update your picture on this blog, it is so obvious it is an old one. You use your frankness as an excuse for being tasteless, totally without class and rude. You would not last 2 minutes around my friends and I with that attitude. I am a very upfront and honest person, I have raised 4 sons and a daughter and did not have time for coddling, but things can be said without offending someone. Grow up, you are not in your twenties anymore and no excuses for your horrendous personality.

I thought you were basically fine in this ep. It was nice that you complimented Jill in the opening scene at the beach.

Your aversion to Alex and Simon should be respected. It is not as though you are all in a lifeboat together and forced to be in each others' company. If you don't want to hang out with them, that is your right. The others can be with that vain, vacuous couple and see them on their own time, without wasting yours.

That said, I do feel you went overboard with your opinion regarding the boarding school discussion. It is really none of your business. If Victoria truly wants a change of pace and go away, and her parents agree, great! It is a mutual decision made with much thought and care.

As for the discourse between you and the Gov, that was very odd. You came off as silly. Maybe you could do some self-editing. It would help you greatly.

Ramona, I think you and your husband are cute togther! and your daughter is a delight. I can't wait to seee you Luannn go at it. Don't take any of her fake a** crap. She is looking like a huge loser this year!

How exactly did you get on this show?? Wait, I know. You are probably the meanest most petty minded person I've ever encountered ( thank heavens you're on tv) and that makes great tv. Isn't there anything besides your clothes that you are capable of discussing? It was hilarious to see you at the classic trying to look as if you cared about anythinig but. Every episode yet another example of your insecurity, your narcissim, your lack of well, you'd probably call it class. Kelly has a real interest and passion in life and you only have yourself and your shallow interests.

Ramona, You seem to need to learn to listen... You inject too much of your opinions onto others. Everyone cannot be just like you/think the way that you do, etc. Listen and learn from others.. whether you agree/like their choices, lifestyles or not.. You were rude to LuAnn about the boarding school. That is her family's choice/business. You were rude to Alex and Simone. Their way of life/relationship, etc., is their business. No one is telling you how to run your jewelry business or where to send your daughter to school, or how to relate to your husband, etc. It's not all about you.. Everyone is interesting/different in their own style, beliefs, way of living, relationships/ mothering style, etc. Maybe you will learn something or make friends if you be a friend instead in trying to inject everyone you meet with your way??

Ramona, you are a piece of work

Jill, I too think that Simon and Alex are a little different. However, I cannot help but wonder if you are a little envious of their relationship. Have you noticed how your husband is constantly looking at other women? The first example would be in episode number 1 of this season where you and your husband are sitting down chatting at a restaurant. You are seated out doors and a woman walks by and he takes his eyes off of you and watches the woman walking by (not to mention how his eyes drop and watches her backside as she goes by). In the final episode of last season, he is looking down Jill's dress. If I am not mistaken I think he looked down Jill's dress in the third episode of this season. You may want to tell your husband to be less obvious. Perhaps maybe you aren't getting the attention you would like from your husband which is why Alex and Simon are such a thorn in your side...Hmmmmm. It's all on film take a look see.....

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