View All Posts
1 of 4 pages

I thought it was amusing that Bethenny was knocking my dating rules for marriage. But the laugh is on her. She has no clue on how to date for marriage. She is still single, always in the wrong relationships, and was married once for a split second. I remember last season she said she did not mind that her boyfriend had 3 children and at the end she said she broke up with him because he had 3 children. She wasted precious time. She does not sound like a woman who knows how to date.

There is a century-old saying, "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?"

Now lets talk about the silly (but funny) comment, that her "vagina is a vase, a man should be sending flowers when they have sex." WRONG again Bethenny! A man that you want to date and marry sends flowers way before he even gets near that area, and if he doesn't, drop him. There is a century-old saying, "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?" Bethenny, this rule still applies today, just like my rules still work for today. I've had girlfriends who had problems dating. They used my rules and are now married. For those of you who missed them the first time around, you can click here to read my dating rules!

I've been happily married for 17 years with a wonderful daughter, and that is no accident. I followed my rules! Bethenny is a very special person but she really has no clue about dating the right way - I hope she takes my rules to heart. Any questions on this just write in to www.ramonasinger.com

Comments

265 Comments
08/06/2009 - 8:29am
Eric taylor

This is the first time
i visited your blog came to know of it through a friend of miner . The qaulity of the posts on this site is simply fabulous .
I ll be waiting for some more great posts.

07/22/2009 - 5:57pm
Elise

Ramona, I think sometimes you need to work on your delivery. The way you express yourself comes across rude at times. And I think you might want to consider judging people less. People are more likely to judge someone they feel judged by.

06/02/2009 - 4:00pm
Roxie

I truly love Ramona's strength and honesty. makes me laugh and i admire her for working for herself and not deending on a man.

05/28/2009 - 10:00pm
Kalyn

Wow! just because you are married that gives you no right to tell other people how to get there! Let her figure it out on her own dr. phill.

05/28/2009 - 9:41pm
matthew

ramona, you really do have crazy eyes...not a very attractive trait...bethenny is right...so is jill...both u and ur husband are nuts!

05/15/2009 - 2:09am
Pauline

RAMONA!!! You look fabulous and are my favorite!! Jill has some major jealousy/rivalry with you. She seems to note all your moves. Creepy. You tell it like it is and apologize if your were wrong, that is great! You also are very beautiful and don't look a day over 38!!! Just wanted to say, you're my favorite housewive, love the fam too. Jill is jealous for sure that you built your own empire and she had to marry a man to get to the top.

Mario is hot and Avery is a doll.

05/14/2009 - 10:56pm
Viewer

you are insecure romona

05/12/2009 - 10:29pm
Greta

I love you!!!!! You tell it like it is and that's honest. Brutally honest, but honest just the same. Anyone is lucky to have you for a friend. Keep dancing!!!
Can't wait till Thursday night. I hope they don't gang up on you. Isn't anyone annoyed with Bethany yet. Quip after quip after quip and snarky comment after comment and saying "Bobby....". Enough.
Love you!!

05/12/2009 - 10:23pm
nancy in Savannah

Bethany has you pegged! Your ugly side was hard for you to hide, since that seems to be your true personality. All I have to say is Karma is a wonderful thing!

05/12/2009 - 10:18pm
Kathleen

Ramona,

I enjoy this show and relate to you for a reason
others may not get. I lost my mother so many years
ago and I also feel she was trapped. She gave up her
career and I never felt she was truly okay with that.
She wasn't abused in anyway just that I understand
your need to make money and build a career in your own right.
Good for you. Being vision impaired, I no longer work
but poetry gives me joy so that's what I do. No, there's no money
in it, unfortunately, but for me, it's about expression.
I never felt my mother ever expressed herself.
I see you as giving a gift to yourself that your mother never had.
That's what I feel I do. Anyway, I love all the ladies
even though I don't "like" all of them. Be happy, well,
much success to you in all your endeavors.

Kathleen

05/12/2009 - 4:16pm
Viewer

I just watched the clip of the reunion show where you, Bethenny, and Jill duke it out over whether or not you insinuated something inappropriate about Bethenny not being able to date and "giving away the milk for free". I decided to go back and see exactly what you said, and you *did* insinuate that Bethenny was sleeping around in this blog. Not only do you do that, but you then proceed to talk about her relationships and (possibly) air her dirty laundry for everyone to see. How is it any of your business who she dates and what she does? Since when did you become the Queen of Dating? You're married to Mario, for God's sake, and he's a bigger queen than Simon. An old, outdated column in Cosmo doesn't make you the dating expert, and frankly, you just need to shut the f*** up.

05/12/2009 - 3:55pm
Longtime Viewer

I think you have it twisted.
Jill isn't jealous of you - she's annoyed by you.
Big difference sweetie!

05/05/2009 - 8:40pm
Viewer

Admit it! You wanted to beat Jill at tennis. You and your husband were so desperate to beat her that you were chomping at the bit. Your husband is a real loser for talking to her the way he did at the Page Six party. Had it been me in Jill's place my husband would have punched that cad out.

You and your husband came across as ugly petty people.

05/05/2009 - 5:10pm
tones

Initially, I was gonna bash you about how you treat Simon and Alex; or, how you insulted the Countess about being half her husband's age, or how you call Bethany the "underdog" as if she's some paeon.

But...

After thinking about it. Like most viewers, I love you and hate you at the same time. I hate to love you and love to hate you.

You're the kind of person one is not sure whether to strangle or give a big hug too.

04/30/2009 - 3:39am
Team B

Ramona. I think your blog is a bit rediculous. I don't think that Bethanny is the underdog just because she doesn't have a husband or a house in the hamptons. A house in the hamptons is materialistic and really doesn't prove anything, if it did the majority of America would be considered "the underdog". Oprah isn't married, is she an underdog as well? Jill ad Bethanny are friends because they have a relationship based on mutual like for one another not cattyness!! Bethany is very sucessfull in my opinion just like Jill and yourself. Your reasoning sometimes is really off.It seems like their is some underlying tension between you and Jill. I think you are the one who wishes you had a friendship like Jill and Bethenny have. Bethenny doesn't have many gal pals because she is an alpha female,and "tells it like it is" just like you I might add. Why is it right for you to tell it like it is but wrong for her? also I think she can tell when people like you aren't being sincere. Who needs ten fake friends when they can have one really great friend??! I am a lot like Bethenny, I have few female friends because frankly females are catty and fake and as soon as you turn your back they call you the underdog.

04/28/2009 - 8:31pm
laura

YOU ARE SO ANNOYING!!!

04/28/2009 - 8:27pm
Kristy

RAMONA,
HERE'S WHAT I DON'T GET...LAST SEASON YOU GAVE SIMON SUCH GRIEF OVER SHOWING UP AT THE REUNION SHOW, OR HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH A SHOW ABOUT HOUSEWIVES. AND YET HERE IS YOUR HUSBAND, BLOGGING ON THE SITE...LIKE HE'S A HOUSEWIFE!!! NOW I SEE WHY HE MARRIED YOU...YOU'RE BOTH BASKET CASES...HIGH STRUNG AND JERKS! I HAD TO LAUGH WATCHING YOUR REACTION TO SIMON SHOWING UP AT THE TENNIS MATCH...YOU LOOKED LIKE YOU WERE TRYING VERY HARD NOT TO REACT, BUT CLEARLY YOU WERE FLUSTERED BY HIS PRESENCE. I LOVED WATCHING YOU SQUIRM!

04/28/2009 - 8:02pm
Erika

Dear Ramona

I know that you get alot of negativity for telling it like it is but I think your fantastic. I wish I had the drive to be a successful business woman like you. I really admire your ambition. Keep doing what your doing.

04/28/2009 - 8:00pm
Viewer

Hi Romona, When you said Jill likes to be your friend because your the Underdog to Bethenny...I was kind of upset with you... I loved Jill and Bethenny's friendship...they were real BFF's! Now, That Kelly made a Total Fool out of herself, with being Really Self Absorbed with Herself, Manipulating, Lying and Really Rude to Bethenny and Being Rude to Jill and her Sweet Daughter too(Now Kelly is a Real True Underdog!)...Most Viewers do Not like Kelly but now that I see Jill taking Kelly everywhere now...I think you might be right! That really does break my Heart! Especially, the comment with Jill telling Kelly that Alex and Simon should take lessons of off Kelly???(about raising kids)Please...the kids are NOt even the same ages...Come on Jill should know better than that...I don't get why all of a sudden Jill is getting so chummy with Kelly...I think you might be right...Kelly is for sure the UNderDog!!!

04/28/2009 - 5:33pm
Viewer

Ramona,
Your rudeness is perplexing. It is boldfaced rudeness and shows no apparent awareness of your life or the lives around you. It is unkind and I am embarrassed for you.

04/28/2009 - 5:22pm
Viewer

RAMONA KINDNESS IS ENDLESS U HAVE BEEN BLESSED IN YOUR LIFE MARIO AND U NEED TO GO EAT A WHOLE PLATE OF HUMBLE PIE STOP BEING JEALOUS OF BETHENNY,ALSO BETHENNY WAS RIGHT ABOUT KELLY TAKE A CLUE KELLY SHE DOES NOT LIKE ANY OF YOU HOUSEWIVES SHE THINKS SHE IS BETTER AND ALL THE HOUSE WIVES ARE BENEATH HER.FOR U TO BE SO SMART U ARE PLUM DUMB.BETHENNY TRIED TO GIVE U GOOD ADVICE ABOUT YOUR PRODUCT AND U WOULD NOT EVEN LISTEN. JILL REALLY IS A GOOD FRIEND TO U BUT U ARE SO BUSY BASHING HER THAT U DO NOT EVEN SEE IT.WAKE UP RAMONA.

04/28/2009 - 5:08pm
Viewer

Ramona you are very jealous of Bethenny I think for u to hang out with Kelly speaks volume about u she insulted u right to your face I like that u are a women that works hard. But for u to diss Bethenny the way u did speaks jealousy with a capitol J.And if u think Kelly is cool people then something is truly wron with u,Your daughter is a beautiful child and she will excel in whatever she does,but u hurted her feelings when u asked her to leave the room if u wanted to do that then u should have stopped the cameras explained to her then roll the cameras.Mario is not that hot he needs to get a life with some men and stop being a bully to women.all the money u claim to have get your eyes right girlfriend.

04/28/2009 - 1:30pm
Viewer

Ramona, did I not read in People that you not only use botox on a regular basis, but also use laser treatments on your neck? How good could your line of creams be?

04/28/2009 - 9:40am
Ana from Canada

Ramona,
I think you can be a nice person deep inside and at most times you mean well. However, a lot of times you can be too judgemental. You cannot judge people because you have absolutely no right to do so. You need to back off and leave Simon and Alex alone. Stop being so rude and look at yourself in the mirror, you are far from perfect.

04/27/2009 - 3:04pm
Viewer

I was just watching a rerun of the fashion show you took Kelly to and it stuck me as weird that when you asked her if she thought there was jealousy between Bethany and you she acted like "why would I be jealous?" Then she said " like why would I be jealous of you?". Do you not think that was an insult to you? Like your life isn't that great compaired to hers so why would she want to have anything you do. A good marriage, a healthy well behaved daughter, work that you love etc. That was a so rude.

04/27/2009 - 1:08pm
Viewer

I love you Ramona, but I think you should definitely learn to loosen up girl. You are so uptight, it makes people dislike you. Little sense of humor and humility goes a looooong way. and you definitely need some.

04/27/2009 - 1:06pm
Viewer

I think Team Jill is waaaay overrated. She is such a show-off.

I love you and Mario! You guys are a loving couple. Probably the best couple on the show, who is actually nice to look at. Silex is disgusting.

04/26/2009 - 10:53pm
Brittany

I don't like you at all you are so rude.

04/26/2009 - 9:42pm
sayin it real Mom

listen, in all honesty, I can barely stand you and your husband- you (both), to me, are just plain mean and quite frankly dark in the heart- anyway, we including myself has always said how did you raise such a great kid. We saw her in maybe two episodes where she was making fun of you (which we loved, Barboe outfit) and acting classes- I think there is no way you two "people " could raise a child like Jills'. I think we are seeing (last week while you tried to film your yet another shopping on line something or other) the real family now- ALL including children will show true colors- it has started. I knew it-----

04/26/2009 - 9:20pm
Jill and Bobby Fan

TEAM JILL!!!!!!!!!! Ramona: please just take a step back and take a closer look at the way you and Mario behave on the show. Aren't you embarrassed at the way the 2 of you are constantly knocking Jill? I think it makes the 2 of you look kind of MENTAL.And your husband is so obsessed with seeing himself on T.V. he seems to have forgotten this is suppose to be a show about HOUSEWIVES!!!

04/26/2009 - 5:35pm
Viewer

Are you really 52? I just read that online. I cant believe that. Cant wait for your skincare line to be available.

04/26/2009 - 4:41pm
Viewer

Ramona
I love that you tell it like it is. So please keep doing you. However, i think you should listen to Bethanny about the branding.

04/26/2009 - 4:13pm
Cindy C

I have been trying not to let you get to me but it takes too much energy. I really don't know how you have any friends. Jill and Bethany should drop you like a hot potato. They consistantly treat you with the respect you don't deserve. Your opinion is yours, but others have theirs. It doesn't make them wrong and it definitely doesn't make you right. Others have told you to stop look and listen...You have the look part down try the other two.

04/25/2009 - 9:02pm
Lou

Ramona I think you and Mario are great...I especially loved how you gave it to the Countess and to Alex and Simon they are all so damn pretentious and you are just yourself..no pretense.
I especially admire how you approve all the blogs positive AND negative unlike Alex who posts 98% positive.
It proves that you are a person secure with herself.

04/25/2009 - 7:20pm
BRENDA

Ramona, you are no expert on how to marry, after all you married Mario! Not to much to brag about. I think Bethany wants to marry a man of quality, but you don't seem to get that.
Here is some advice, before you say something think for a minute about how it would sound if you heard someone else say those rude things.

04/25/2009 - 1:21pm
Viewer

Gosh Romona. Just because someone went through rough times doesn't mean they're not smart. So what if 2 whole years ago, Bethany had trouble paying rent, NOW she's doing great! Her book is number 3 on the best seller's list (but of course you already knew that and tried to take CREDIT for it?? saying i was right it did do well!! cheap trick to bring the attention to you. really cheap) so i'd say she's doing pretty well!! Take some advice without throwing a fit! PLUS its gross of you to sell skin care and pretend that that's the reason you look young.

WATCH THE VIDEOS. SHES HAD A TON OF PLASTIC SURGARY.

Gross. Gross. Gross

04/25/2009 - 8:48am
Sonya

You should attempt to control your husband. If you're rules catch a jerk like that, you need to regroup.

04/25/2009 - 6:35am
mmc

Ramona, Even though it's said that honesty is the best policy, sometimes we have to edit what we say. You're entitled to your opinion of people, but watch what you say and how you say it. I think you love your husband and daughter, and they love you too so right there you're ahead of the game. Please try to be nice to Simon, he really doesn't deserve to be treated the way you are to him. Rude is rude.

04/24/2009 - 4:32pm
Viewer sherri in va

i have to agree with the comments mande by other bloggers. you say you tell it like it is. you are just rude and mean spirited. you talk about "good energy", when i see you being rude to almost everyone, where is your good energy? you need to really sit back and WATCH yourself. i find it hard to believe that you are not embarrased by what come out of your mouth. i really think you have some issues you need to face. once you do that then you will have good energy.

04/24/2009 - 4:30pm
nm

Boy, if I were you I'd take Bethenny's advice. Have you seen the marketing for the show? Her one-liners are, consistently, a defining feature in all of the promo materials. Bravo's even got a whole video clip just of Bethenny one-liners up on the website. She's got a way with words, and if Bravo's market research is correct, it's resonating with people. That's why I think it makes sense that she'd have Bethenny Bakes (which was already a business before all of this) and Skinny Girl Margarita, which came out of one of her one-liners from the last season. Rather than having to convince yourself that you're better than Bethenny because you are richer, are married, and have a house in the Hamptons, maybe you should take good advice where you can get it!

04/24/2009 - 2:59pm
Viewer

You have changed for the better. I like the way that you have pulled yourself up by the boot straps. Just remember, sometimes you shouldn't always just blurt out what you feel. Doing this hurts others and can really burn social and bussines bridges.

04/24/2009 - 2:56pm
Peek A Boo

From the looks of it you are either in hiding or letting Mario fight your battles. Maybe the re-union was a bit much for you? By the sounds of it I hope they did put you and your side-kick in your place!

04/24/2009 - 2:17pm
DepaCuckCoo

Andy Warhol's ghost called, he wants his 15 minutes back!

04/24/2009 - 12:20pm
Viewer

So, you had "seven figures" saved in the bank by the time you were Bethenny's age? Let me ask - did you raise that money by yourself or did you do with Mario? Thought so. And would the you two have made it as far as you have without building upon a 4th generation business? GIVE ME A BREAK, Ramona. You are not fooling anyone. The day you build a business from scratch without the help of a husband who comes from wealth is the day I will believe you are a "business maven". Stop pretending like you hit a homerun businesswise when it's obvious to EVERYONE that you woke up on 3rd base the day after your wedding.

04/23/2009 - 10:37pm
Viewer

Ramona - When you filming your test run for your QVC appearance, you stated that your daughter gets her perfectionism from you and then you said "WALLA". The word is pronounced "VOILA".

04/23/2009 - 9:55pm
Dawn

Ramona,

I don't understand why Bethenny thinks you or anyone should be taking advice from her, if they ask her then that would make sense. So what if someone doen't ask her? Why does she take offense that everyone doesn't think she's the go to person for business advice? Talk about an overblown ego.

From what I can tell, you are already a very successful business woman. It's great to see a successful woman that also has a great marriage and family life.

The fact that Jill has a "team" just shows how competitive she is towards you, why else would she need a "team"? I'm glad you don't feel it's necessary to wear such a shirt in order to gang up against her.

04/23/2009 - 5:18pm
Who owns the Crown of Nastiness

Ramona,
Looks as though your husband wants to steal your crown! Mario’s blogs and appearances on the show are your style and character. How dare he try to steal your thunder. With a husband like that, maybe that’s why Bethenny would rather stay single!

04/23/2009 - 4:31pm
Viewer

Hello Ramona,

I was shocked to see you send your daughter out of the room while doing your "run through' It is national television and I can't imagine telling my daughter to "leave the room" like that. It surely embarassed and hurt her. Understood that she made you nervous, but jeez...think about someone elses needs before your own sometimes. You could have done it while she was there and left the rest for off camera!

04/23/2009 - 2:44pm
D

Ramona who you think you are, seriously you are fake and you are not a friend, a real friend doesn't tell to another friend you are the underdog, you have problems...what's wrong with you, Bethenny is successfull and she's defenitely not the underdog..i think you are just jealous of her because she is younger than you and have a nice personality..on the other hand, you are rude, fake and old!!..lol..peace out b....!

04/23/2009 - 1:48pm
Jennifer

Ramona - I am a branding expert with 17 years experience launching some of the most profitable brands in the world and I can tell you Bethenney was right on about brand consistency. Fact is consistency breeds credibility. If you want to truly build a brand, then every product must represent that brand.

You really should stop pretending you know everyone and accept good advice when it is given to you. Build one consistent brand across many lines.

04/23/2009 - 12:47pm
Jen

I have to ask, do either you or you husband think before you speak? Or care that you may be offending people or coming across as cocky, arrogant and downright insulting? Perhaps try watching an episode of the show and take a look at how you're coming across. It's not a positive image.

04/23/2009 - 9:33am
Viewer

Ramona do you really have to spit out everything that comes into your head? Telling Bethany she's an underdog and calling LuAnn's husband old is inappropriate and most times rude and hurtfull. What makes you think "telling it like it is" makes your remarks OK. It doesn't! Think before you speak! You have the gall to say you would never critize someone in public....what? It has become your montra. We're just not that into you!

04/23/2009 - 12:15am
Viewer

Wow! For once I agree with you. Bethenny is a wonderful girl but you are right that she makes the wrong decisions when it comes to dating. I think your frankness in the matter served you well this time.

As for Jill, your rivalry is a hoot. Not everyone works as hard as you do but Jill and Bobbys business is a true partnership and THEY DO WORK or else they wouldn't have a nicer house and car than you do!

04/22/2009 - 11:18pm
Viewer

Bethanny is definitely not an underdog! It seems when you open up your mouth something demeaning always comes out of it. You can't take constructive critism at all even though you should take advantage of it. You don't like to talk about a subject when someone challenges you about it and especially it's you that brings it up. I think you should think before you speak. It's a must for you.

04/22/2009 - 9:21pm
Rachel D

Ramona - Jill and Bethenny are friends because they are both awesomely fabulous. You seem insecure.

04/22/2009 - 8:17pm
Tamara in VA

Ramona- You and Jill are the reason I still watch this show! You may have issues between yourselves but I Love you both....I think you're both two classy, awesome people!

04/22/2009 - 5:40pm
Cassandra

I have a solar company and I am always collecting suns. I have admired the necklace you wear in some of the interview segments and I'm wondering if it is one of your designs? It looks like a sun or star. Is it available for sale?

04/22/2009 - 10:54am
Viewer

Romano, Romano, Ramona!!!! I think Jill and yourself have a competition going. Friends don't bring each other down and that's all I see. You both are great women, just you both have issues between yourselves.

04/22/2009 - 12:26am
Viewer

Ramona I like you most of the time on the show.But there are times you should really think before you speak. I used to be the same way so I know your not trying to be rude but it does come across rude and hateful. You can only get your opinion across to people if you do it politley. You and your husband are definatly perfect for each other since you are alot alike. I also believe Bethenny was correct in her advice as to your line of skin cream and jewelry. They should be spelled the same. I would also agree with the viewer who said you are passive aggressive and I'm not sure why because you seem to have high self asteem.

04/22/2009 - 12:24am
Deb

So you say that Bethenny should follow your advice? Did you know that you are married to childish man..Hopefully no one will ever follow your "dating rules"..you make me laugh

04/21/2009 - 11:12pm
Viewer

ramona, im not the person to insult, or judge people, but it would be nice, if you ladies can stop bashing each other, and start helping each other. I really do like jill and bethenney's relationship. it doesnt matter what the situation is, friends should comfort one another when they are going through difficulties. as far as kelly, i really think that she has some issues of being honest about her feelings. i hope the real her comes out, so that we can move on without assuming that she's crazy.

04/21/2009 - 10:45pm
sondra

ramona, why are you alway have comments about jill no matter what episode you are in jill name come out of your mouth why so much negative are you that jealous an you so wrong putting bethenny down

04/21/2009 - 10:41pm
Twinkle Star

Ramona,

I am so glad that you told it to Betheny how it is. I cant stand her and cant understand how mainstream can relate to her. She is so fake in the show, no class, no manners. No really a good friend to you. I cant believe she gave Jill the idea of getting Simon as her tennis partner only to irk your nerves???? I wouldn't do that to a friend in a million years..She is just so insecure, does not know how to date men and you can tell she is envious of Kelly...do not mingle too much with her in the next season if there is one..and by the way do not invitate her to your beach home..she doesn't deserve it.

04/21/2009 - 10:07pm
Ohio viewer

Ramona...
How can you say you consider Jill a friend when every chance you get you slam on her to Bethenny? You are not a friend to Jill. So stop saying your a friend.
I do like your jewelry though..skin care line??? come on everyone is trying to sell lotion. Your not famous enough to make it on your name. Not a good idea.

04/21/2009 - 9:57pm
Kim

Ramona I am in my forties as well and work in film. I think that your beauty would be enhanced if you darken your hair, it would bring out your blue eyes and your skin would look revitalized by the color change, I know it is hard to leave the blonde hair but you can always dye it back, I changed my color to a dark blonde, it made me appear younger looking and my skin tone looks much better.

04/21/2009 - 9:55pm
Viewer

WOW!! You call Bethany your friend and you really went for the jugular about her in your blog. You and your husband are so immature. You both better watch out or next season you will be "reduced" to doing episodes with Simon and Alex because you have alienated all the other cast members.

You should listen to Bethany's business advice. She has been quite successful in building her brand name. Why most you be so aggressive???

04/21/2009 - 9:32pm
Viewer

Ramona called Bethenny an "underdog" because she likes to drop bombs and watch the reaction. It's a crummy thing to do but she does it often and then she likes to say "Okay, let's forget it." and then she just doesn't understand the BS she stirs up. AND she has no clue how to take responsbility for the crap she started. I like Ramona but many times she's just a twit!

Not like Kelly, who's just plain "My Sh-t don't stink, nose up in the air, pompous self indulgent dolt of a snob." But she can't help it and she never will. She's a rude cow of a bint. And it ain't her name she's lending to anything it's her ex-husband's. So freakin' what. . .

04/21/2009 - 9:32pm
u a hot meess

ME AND MY MOM WATCH "THE SHOW" ALL THE TIME...
LET US TELL YOU RAMONA; YOU ARE A JEALOUS WOMEN. DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND GET SOME WORK DONE ON THAT FACE B4 U START IN ON SOMEONE ELSE.. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO GIVE OUT ALL THAT "SOUND ADVICE" YOU FOREVER THINK YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO GIVE OUT.
P.S I DON'T USUALLY JUDGE PEOPLE;BUT YOU GET ON MY LAST GOOD ONE.. LOVE THE SHOW

04/21/2009 - 9:32pm
Viewer

WOW Ramona, you think you are the greatest thing to ever happen to New York City! If you could only stop to treat other people with decensy and respect (and stop blinking so much), you may have more of an impact on people. You are a snide and rude woman and you only take what you have for granted. When you are on I cringe and usually turn the channel.

04/21/2009 - 9:25pm
Viewer

You're obviously jealous of Bethany the way you talk about her
GROW UP

04/21/2009 - 9:22pm
Annoyed

Ramona, you are an annoying woman, about the whole bethenny dating thing I think how you came out about was wrong. You really dont know how to speak to people and I think it's funny how your so quick to jump and change the subject once you see that your in the wrong. I think you should try keeping your mouth shut alot more and get your husband to shut up as well...talk about annoying geez it was painful watching him talk to Jill in the manor that he did. Try getting him a muzzle, while your at it get one for yourself.

04/21/2009 - 9:04pm
italia

RAMONA---------You are the best...I really couldn't stand you last season, but this season, I think you kicked all the ladies' butts and I LOVE U! You are beautiful, graceful, and completely awesome. Keep being Ramona!

04/21/2009 - 8:55pm
Flower Power

Ramona, you seem like a honest and nice person deep down. On the outside, your a nut job! I would only be able to handle you in doses, if at all. Whenever I see the show I always notice how insecure and mean all you women can be, especially to Bethany. I think it's best if you just keep your comments about Jill to yourself and not share them with people that don't have a problem with her. P.S Jill is less annoying than you.

04/21/2009 - 8:21pm
Viewer

Stop judging others! And think before you speak! How would you like it if everyone treated you as you do to them! Don't cast judgment on others if you can't handle being judged. You know nothing about dating. You have been out of the dating world a really long time and everything has changed sweetheart! So just keep your thoughts to yourself! Bethany doesn't need you telling her how to find a man! You picked a winner with a man just as smug and as rude as you! GOOD JOB! Only one being can judge us all and that is our creator and you pumpkin ARE NOT anyone's CREATOR! So show respect to get respect! If I ever met you and you talked to me like you do to everyone you've ever spoke to I would unleash every ounce of disrespect that you have ever dealt to anyone else 10,000 fold more! You disgust me!

04/21/2009 - 8:09pm
Stacy

I don't really like to watch New York Housewives because of you. You say that Simon makes your skin crawl, And that's how I feel when ever you open your mouth!!! You have the worst personality of anyone I have ever seen. You and your husband are so smug. Who are you to pass any type of judgment on anyone! If you want people to respect you then treat all human beings with respect! I honestly feel like you have no disregard for anyone's feelings. You talk crap about everyone. If you weren't yourself you would hate you too! Please gain some HUMILITY! And I hope you find God! Because when you do you'll stop judging others and see them for all of who they really are! Just stop and think before you speak! No one has the right to judge anyone except GOD himself and YOU are NOT GOD or Jesus. So Get over yourself! Do something good for the world instead of bringing more EVIL into it!

04/21/2009 - 8:04pm
brooklyn

i love you !your my favorite on the show! bethenny is the underdog she thinks she knows every thing but the truth is that she doesnt you do!!!i think jill is so funny thinking simon was going to play well sick or not he still cant play simon is a freak !!i love you!!bye
love brooklyn

04/21/2009 - 7:44pm
Susan

Ramona,

You're my favorite on the show! You are successful in business, your lovelife and parenting. Your homes are beautiful and I am pleased you don't find it necessary to brag about what you own. You are proud of your successes and I applaud you for showing women that you can have it all.

Everyone on the show sticks their foot in their mouths but it seems you are held to a different standard than a few others. I don't agree with that treatment.

I like the fact you are quick to apologise and have noticed you are the only one on the show that actually acknowledges when you feel you've said something wrong.

Your explaination about Bethenny and Jill's relationship makes sense. I can see the differences in how they treat other women that they feel threatened by, it isn't positive or encouraging.

Since you live the situation, I enjoy hearing your take on the show and your castmates. I also feel it's fine to state if you are upset or bothered by something that has happened to you, everyone has feelings. Thanks for sharing.

04/21/2009 - 7:21pm
ShameOnYouRamona

Ramona, you and Mario are two of the rudest people I have ever seen. Shame on you both. What poor role models for your daughter. I have never written to a TV "character" before, but you make my blood boil. I am a nice person, but you would make me call you on the carpet for your rudeness. Shame on you.

04/21/2009 - 7:16pm
Viewer

Team Jill all the way.
You need to be asking Bethenny for advice instead of giving it. But that's right you are Romona. You are too busy talking and not listening to what you say. Your jealousy of Jill is embarassing. Although maybe it is justified Mario since Mario appears mto have a crush on Jill.
LuAnn could give you a book on class.
Learn from the other Housewives and you could go far.

04/21/2009 - 7:08pm
Viewer

SO you made the biggest deal last season because Simon was on the interview episode, WHY does your big mouth childish husband have a blog?????????? I liked you on the show at times but you have some major social skills issues. Now I see that your husband has the same issues. Maybe thats why your marriage works so well!

04/21/2009 - 7:04pm
kim

If you are so proud of saying what you think maybe....you should stop changing the subject when the people that are listening to your comments would then like to respond. If you are going to dish it out- you gotta take it!

04/21/2009 - 6:01pm
Jenna

Ramona you have such a great oppurtinity to be a positive light on the show! In ways I really like you but some of the comments and snide remarks you make about others is alarming. On your blog you stated how you viewed Bethany's comments about your line as an effort to put you down...I think if you feel sensitve about advice others are giving you recognize that the same offense can be taken from YOUR ADVICE. I don't think you mean to, but your off the collar mean comments are so negative and I don't even think you realize it!

Do you really think you are the #1 expert on dating and relationships? I saw you take offense when the countess made a remark about your dating technique(being seen around town with lots of men) at Hope Lodge. I feel lie you are doing the same thing to Bethany because she is single...

04/21/2009 - 5:51pm
Viewersuzanne

Ramona!!

You are definitely the youngest looking person on show (Bethenny is younger??)?? You and Mario's comments are abrasive for TV at times but I admire you for saying what you think!!! You have ALREADY proven yourself as a good business person!! Love your products/style/beauty!! You and Mario are the most good lucking couple!!!

Suzanne

04/21/2009 - 1:31pm
Good Advice

Ramona,

It's great how you don't look to others for validation and are a strong, intelligent woman. You have achieved a level of success in your business and personal life that is to be admired. Good for you!

Your relationsip with your husband and daughter seems very loving, secure and genuine. It's nice to see a couple that can joke around, obviously are best friends and still has that spark.

When I was single, I asked my friends that had wonderful relationships for their 'secret'. I wanted what they had and it only made sense to ask. They were very flattered and gave me similar advice you have given your single friends. Who better to learn from than friends in successful relationships?

Relationships don't just have a beginning and it's great you have offered sound advice for not only developing a great relationship but how to keep it that way.

04/21/2009 - 12:41pm
Viewer

My, you ARE perfect, aren't you,Ramona??

04/21/2009 - 11:22am
Viewer

I agree with bethany, the spelling of tru and true is confusing, a name of a product should stand out and work well together. you want strength and familiarty with potential clients. why on earth would you spell it one way and then another way? it makes no sense.
But I agree with ramona that, although I adore jill and bethany, jill wants to be the alpha and likes to be around people who are not competition with her. Not that bethany isn't successful, not that she is a train wreck or anything, bethany is humble and ramona is not. I'd rather hang out with bethany too.

04/21/2009 - 8:53am
Viewer

I'm sorry but what has this show become "The Real Housewives of New York City- Hour Long Infommercial" did I miss some quick waiver at the front of the show that instead of a reality tv it is now a "un"paid advertisement? Each time the NY women mention their products I roll my eyes. Whether it's one of your many products, Bethanny's books, the Countess' books, Jill's fabric shop, Kelly's jewelry or an upcoming book from Simon and Alex--WE GET IT! It's on the show, on the blogs you guys should become agents in Hollywood, you know how to get your stuff filmed. I just wonder if there are other viewers who are getting tired of the infommericals too!

04/20/2009 - 11:08pm
Viewer

Ramona,

Please ignore the negative comments. You add spark to the show because you are crazy and hilarious. Mario is just as crazy, and now I know why you 2 make a good couple.

04/20/2009 - 8:53pm
Casey

Geezzzz!
Stop with the snide remarks about Bethenny & Jill!

It doesn't reflect well on you.

04/20/2009 - 7:36pm
jen

Hi Ramona! You & Mario are the best! And might I say that you looked absolutely fabulous in the fashion show for the A-List awards!!! The dress was gorgeous!

I completely agree with you on Bethenny, she needs to start listening to people like you who are clearly wiser! Obviously you know your stuff when it comes to business and dating/marriage. She should be begging you for advice, not giving you silly advice on marketing.

I also agree with you on the tennis match. Asking Simon to play was just ridiculous. What about it was funny? All Jill & Bethenny achieved was making Simon (someone who agreed to HELP Jill out and play with her) look like a fool. They need to grow up! Although I do blame Bethenny more than Jill, she seemed to convince Jill of this nonsense.

The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly.
*3,000 character limit

More Housewives NYC Blogs

Ask Gloria: Volume III
Ask Gloria: Volume III
Real Housewife of New York City Jill Zarin's mother, Gloria, responds to reader comments and questions.
Ask Gloria: Volume II
Ask Gloria: Volume II
Real Housewife of NYC Jill Zarin's mother, Gloria, answers your life questions.
Ask Gloria: Volume I
Ask Gloria
Jill Zarin's mother, Gloria, answers your questions
 

Top 5 by Bravo -- What's popular on BRAVOTV.com this week

Get Mobile

Take Bravo With You.
Get games, show updates, and more on your cell phone.
Sign Up
Standard message charges apply.

YAHOO! sponsored links