I thought it was amusing that Bethenny was knocking my dating rules for marriage. But the laugh is on her. She has no clue on how to date for marriage. She is still single, always in the wrong relationships, and was married once for a split second. I remember last season she said she did not mind that her boyfriend had 3 children and at the end she said she broke up with him because he had 3 children. She wasted precious time. She does not sound like a woman who knows how to date.
Now lets talk about the silly (but funny) comment, that her "vagina is a vase, a man should be sending flowers when they have sex." WRONG again Bethenny! A man that you want to date and marry sends flowers way before he even gets near that area, and if he doesn't, drop him. There is a century-old saying, "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?" Bethenny, this rule still applies today, just like my rules still work for today. I've had girlfriends who had problems dating. They used my rules and are now married. For those of you who missed them the first time around, you can click here to read my dating rules!
I've been happily married for 17 years with a wonderful daughter, and that is no accident. I followed my rules! Bethenny is a very special person but she really has no clue about dating the right way - I hope she takes my rules to heart. Any questions on this just write in to www.ramonasinger.com
This is the first time
i visited your blog came to know of it through a friend of miner . The qaulity of the posts on this site is simply fabulous .
I ll be waiting for some more great posts.
Ramona, I think sometimes you need to work on your delivery. The way you express yourself comes across rude at times. And I think you might want to consider judging people less. People are more likely to judge someone they feel judged by.
I truly love Ramona's strength and honesty. makes me laugh and i admire her for working for herself and not deending on a man.
Wow! just because you are married that gives you no right to tell other people how to get there! Let her figure it out on her own dr. phill.
ramona, you really do have crazy eyes...not a very attractive trait...bethenny is right...so is jill...both u and ur husband are nuts!
RAMONA!!! You look fabulous and are my favorite!! Jill has some major jealousy/rivalry with you. She seems to note all your moves. Creepy. You tell it like it is and apologize if your were wrong, that is great! You also are very beautiful and don't look a day over 38!!! Just wanted to say, you're my favorite housewive, love the fam too. Jill is jealous for sure that you built your own empire and she had to marry a man to get to the top.
Mario is hot and Avery is a doll.
I love you!!!!! You tell it like it is and that's honest. Brutally honest, but honest just the same. Anyone is lucky to have you for a friend. Keep dancing!!!
Can't wait till Thursday night. I hope they don't gang up on you. Isn't anyone annoyed with Bethany yet. Quip after quip after quip and snarky comment after comment and saying "Bobby....". Enough.
Love you!!
Bethany has you pegged! Your ugly side was hard for you to hide, since that seems to be your true personality. All I have to say is Karma is a wonderful thing!
Ramona,
I enjoy this show and relate to you for a reason
others may not get. I lost my mother so many years
ago and I also feel she was trapped. She gave up her
career and I never felt she was truly okay with that.
She wasn't abused in anyway just that I understand
your need to make money and build a career in your own right.
Good for you. Being vision impaired, I no longer work
but poetry gives me joy so that's what I do. No, there's no money
in it, unfortunately, but for me, it's about expression.
I never felt my mother ever expressed herself.
I see you as giving a gift to yourself that your mother never had.
That's what I feel I do. Anyway, I love all the ladies
even though I don't "like" all of them. Be happy, well,
much success to you in all your endeavors.
Kathleen
I just watched the clip of the reunion show where you, Bethenny, and Jill duke it out over whether or not you insinuated something inappropriate about Bethenny not being able to date and "giving away the milk for free". I decided to go back and see exactly what you said, and you *did* insinuate that Bethenny was sleeping around in this blog. Not only do you do that, but you then proceed to talk about her relationships and (possibly) air her dirty laundry for everyone to see. How is it any of your business who she dates and what she does? Since when did you become the Queen of Dating? You're married to Mario, for God's sake, and he's a bigger queen than Simon. An old, outdated column in Cosmo doesn't make you the dating expert, and frankly, you just need to shut the f*** up.
I think you have it twisted.
Jill isn't jealous of you - she's annoyed by you.
Big difference sweetie!
Admit it! You wanted to beat Jill at tennis. You and your husband were so desperate to beat her that you were chomping at the bit. Your husband is a real loser for talking to her the way he did at the Page Six party. Had it been me in Jill's place my husband would have punched that cad out.
You and your husband came across as ugly petty people.
Initially, I was gonna bash you about how you treat Simon and Alex; or, how you insulted the Countess about being half her husband's age, or how you call Bethany the "underdog" as if she's some paeon.
But...
After thinking about it. Like most viewers, I love you and hate you at the same time. I hate to love you and love to hate you.
You're the kind of person one is not sure whether to strangle or give a big hug too.
Ramona. I think your blog is a bit rediculous. I don't think that Bethanny is the underdog just because she doesn't have a husband or a house in the hamptons. A house in the hamptons is materialistic and really doesn't prove anything, if it did the majority of America would be considered "the underdog". Oprah isn't married, is she an underdog as well? Jill ad Bethanny are friends because they have a relationship based on mutual like for one another not cattyness!! Bethany is very sucessfull in my opinion just like Jill and yourself. Your reasoning sometimes is really off.It seems like their is some underlying tension between you and Jill. I think you are the one who wishes you had a friendship like Jill and Bethenny have. Bethenny doesn't have many gal pals because she is an alpha female,and "tells it like it is" just like you I might add. Why is it right for you to tell it like it is but wrong for her? also I think she can tell when people like you aren't being sincere. Who needs ten fake friends when they can have one really great friend??! I am a lot like Bethenny, I have few female friends because frankly females are catty and fake and as soon as you turn your back they call you the underdog.
RAMONA,
HERE'S WHAT I DON'T GET...LAST SEASON YOU GAVE SIMON SUCH GRIEF OVER SHOWING UP AT THE REUNION SHOW, OR HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH A SHOW ABOUT HOUSEWIVES. AND YET HERE IS YOUR HUSBAND, BLOGGING ON THE SITE...LIKE HE'S A HOUSEWIFE!!! NOW I SEE WHY HE MARRIED YOU...YOU'RE BOTH BASKET CASES...HIGH STRUNG AND JERKS! I HAD TO LAUGH WATCHING YOUR REACTION TO SIMON SHOWING UP AT THE TENNIS MATCH...YOU LOOKED LIKE YOU WERE TRYING VERY HARD NOT TO REACT, BUT CLEARLY YOU WERE FLUSTERED BY HIS PRESENCE. I LOVED WATCHING YOU SQUIRM!
Dear Ramona
I know that you get alot of negativity for telling it like it is but I think your fantastic. I wish I had the drive to be a successful business woman like you. I really admire your ambition. Keep doing what your doing.
Hi Romona, When you said Jill likes to be your friend because your the Underdog to Bethenny...I was kind of upset with you... I loved Jill and Bethenny's friendship...they were real BFF's! Now, That Kelly made a Total Fool out of herself, with being Really Self Absorbed with Herself, Manipulating, Lying and Really Rude to Bethenny and Being Rude to Jill and her Sweet Daughter too(Now Kelly is a Real True Underdog!)...Most Viewers do Not like Kelly but now that I see Jill taking Kelly everywhere now...I think you might be right! That really does break my Heart! Especially, the comment with Jill telling Kelly that Alex and Simon should take lessons of off Kelly???(about raising kids)Please...the kids are NOt even the same ages...Come on Jill should know better than that...I don't get why all of a sudden Jill is getting so chummy with Kelly...I think you might be right...Kelly is for sure the UNderDog!!!
Ramona,
Your rudeness is perplexing. It is boldfaced rudeness and shows no apparent awareness of your life or the lives around you. It is unkind and I am embarrassed for you.
RAMONA KINDNESS IS ENDLESS U HAVE BEEN BLESSED IN YOUR LIFE MARIO AND U NEED TO GO EAT A WHOLE PLATE OF HUMBLE PIE STOP BEING JEALOUS OF BETHENNY,ALSO BETHENNY WAS RIGHT ABOUT KELLY TAKE A CLUE KELLY SHE DOES NOT LIKE ANY OF YOU HOUSEWIVES SHE THINKS SHE IS BETTER AND ALL THE HOUSE WIVES ARE BENEATH HER.FOR U TO BE SO SMART U ARE PLUM DUMB.BETHENNY TRIED TO GIVE U GOOD ADVICE ABOUT YOUR PRODUCT AND U WOULD NOT EVEN LISTEN. JILL REALLY IS A GOOD FRIEND TO U BUT U ARE SO BUSY BASHING HER THAT U DO NOT EVEN SEE IT.WAKE UP RAMONA.
Ramona you are very jealous of Bethenny I think for u to hang out with Kelly speaks volume about u she insulted u right to your face I like that u are a women that works hard. But for u to diss Bethenny the way u did speaks jealousy with a capitol J.And if u think Kelly is cool people then something is truly wron with u,Your daughter is a beautiful child and she will excel in whatever she does,but u hurted her feelings when u asked her to leave the room if u wanted to do that then u should have stopped the cameras explained to her then roll the cameras.Mario is not that hot he needs to get a life with some men and stop being a bully to women.all the money u claim to have get your eyes right girlfriend.
Ramona, did I not read in People that you not only use botox on a regular basis, but also use laser treatments on your neck? How good could your line of creams be?
Ramona,
I think you can be a nice person deep inside and at most times you mean well. However, a lot of times you can be too judgemental. You cannot judge people because you have absolutely no right to do so. You need to back off and leave Simon and Alex alone. Stop being so rude and look at yourself in the mirror, you are far from perfect.
I was just watching a rerun of the fashion show you took Kelly to and it stuck me as weird that when you asked her if she thought there was jealousy between Bethany and you she acted like "why would I be jealous?" Then she said " like why would I be jealous of you?". Do you not think that was an insult to you? Like your life isn't that great compaired to hers so why would she want to have anything you do. A good marriage, a healthy well behaved daughter, work that you love etc. That was a so rude.
I love you Ramona, but I think you should definitely learn to loosen up girl. You are so uptight, it makes people dislike you. Little sense of humor and humility goes a looooong way. and you definitely need some.
I think Team Jill is waaaay overrated. She is such a show-off.
I love you and Mario! You guys are a loving couple. Probably the best couple on the show, who is actually nice to look at. Silex is disgusting.
I don't like you at all you are so rude.
listen, in all honesty, I can barely stand you and your husband- you (both), to me, are just plain mean and quite frankly dark in the heart- anyway, we including myself has always said how did you raise such a great kid. We saw her in maybe two episodes where she was making fun of you (which we loved, Barboe outfit) and acting classes- I think there is no way you two "people " could raise a child like Jills'. I think we are seeing (last week while you tried to film your yet another shopping on line something or other) the real family now- ALL including children will show true colors- it has started. I knew it-----
TEAM JILL!!!!!!!!!! Ramona: please just take a step back and take a closer look at the way you and Mario behave on the show. Aren't you embarrassed at the way the 2 of you are constantly knocking Jill? I think it makes the 2 of you look kind of MENTAL.And your husband is so obsessed with seeing himself on T.V. he seems to have forgotten this is suppose to be a show about HOUSEWIVES!!!
Are you really 52? I just read that online. I cant believe that. Cant wait for your skincare line to be available.
Ramona
I love that you tell it like it is. So please keep doing you. However, i think you should listen to Bethanny about the branding.
I have been trying not to let you get to me but it takes too much energy. I really don't know how you have any friends. Jill and Bethany should drop you like a hot potato. They consistantly treat you with the respect you don't deserve. Your opinion is yours, but others have theirs. It doesn't make them wrong and it definitely doesn't make you right. Others have told you to stop look and listen...You have the look part down try the other two.
Ramona I think you and Mario are great...I especially loved how you gave it to the Countess and to Alex and Simon they are all so damn pretentious and you are just yourself..no pretense.
I especially admire how you approve all the blogs positive AND negative unlike Alex who posts 98% positive.
It proves that you are a person secure with herself.
Ramona, you are no expert on how to marry, after all you married Mario! Not to much to brag about. I think Bethany wants to marry a man of quality, but you don't seem to get that.
Here is some advice, before you say something think for a minute about how it would sound if you heard someone else say those rude things.
Gosh Romona. Just because someone went through rough times doesn't mean they're not smart. So what if 2 whole years ago, Bethany had trouble paying rent, NOW she's doing great! Her book is number 3 on the best seller's list (but of course you already knew that and tried to take CREDIT for it?? saying i was right it did do well!! cheap trick to bring the attention to you. really cheap) so i'd say she's doing pretty well!! Take some advice without throwing a fit! PLUS its gross of you to sell skin care and pretend that that's the reason you look young.
WATCH THE VIDEOS. SHES HAD A TON OF PLASTIC SURGARY.
Gross. Gross. Gross
You should attempt to control your husband. If you're rules catch a jerk like that, you need to regroup.
Ramona, Even though it's said that honesty is the best policy, sometimes we have to edit what we say. You're entitled to your opinion of people, but watch what you say and how you say it. I think you love your husband and daughter, and they love you too so right there you're ahead of the game. Please try to be nice to Simon, he really doesn't deserve to be treated the way you are to him. Rude is rude.
i have to agree with the comments mande by other bloggers. you say you tell it like it is. you are just rude and mean spirited. you talk about "good energy", when i see you being rude to almost everyone, where is your good energy? you need to really sit back and WATCH yourself. i find it hard to believe that you are not embarrased by what come out of your mouth. i really think you have some issues you need to face. once you do that then you will have good energy.
Boy, if I were you I'd take Bethenny's advice. Have you seen the marketing for the show? Her one-liners are, consistently, a defining feature in all of the promo materials. Bravo's even got a whole video clip just of Bethenny one-liners up on the website. She's got a way with words, and if Bravo's market research is correct, it's resonating with people. That's why I think it makes sense that she'd have Bethenny Bakes (which was already a business before all of this) and Skinny Girl Margarita, which came out of one of her one-liners from the last season. Rather than having to convince yourself that you're better than Bethenny because you are richer, are married, and have a house in the Hamptons, maybe you should take good advice where you can get it!
You have changed for the better. I like the way that you have pulled yourself up by the boot straps. Just remember, sometimes you shouldn't always just blurt out what you feel. Doing this hurts others and can really burn social and bussines bridges.
From the looks of it you are either in hiding or letting Mario fight your battles. Maybe the re-union was a bit much for you? By the sounds of it I hope they did put you and your side-kick in your place!
Andy Warhol's ghost called, he wants his 15 minutes back!
So, you had "seven figures" saved in the bank by the time you were Bethenny's age? Let me ask - did you raise that money by yourself or did you do with Mario? Thought so. And would the you two have made it as far as you have without building upon a 4th generation business? GIVE ME A BREAK, Ramona. You are not fooling anyone. The day you build a business from scratch without the help of a husband who comes from wealth is the day I will believe you are a "business maven". Stop pretending like you hit a homerun businesswise when it's obvious to EVERYONE that you woke up on 3rd base the day after your wedding.
Ramona - When you filming your test run for your QVC appearance, you stated that your daughter gets her perfectionism from you and then you said "WALLA". The word is pronounced "VOILA".
Ramona,
I don't understand why Bethenny thinks you or anyone should be taking advice from her, if they ask her then that would make sense. So what if someone doen't ask her? Why does she take offense that everyone doesn't think she's the go to person for business advice? Talk about an overblown ego.
From what I can tell, you are already a very successful business woman. It's great to see a successful woman that also has a great marriage and family life.
The fact that Jill has a "team" just shows how competitive she is towards you, why else would she need a "team"? I'm glad you don't feel it's necessary to wear such a shirt in order to gang up against her.
Ramona,
Looks as though your husband wants to steal your crown! Mario’s blogs and appearances on the show are your style and character. How dare he try to steal your thunder. With a husband like that, maybe that’s why Bethenny would rather stay single!
Hello Ramona,
I was shocked to see you send your daughter out of the room while doing your "run through' It is national television and I can't imagine telling my daughter to "leave the room" like that. It surely embarassed and hurt her. Understood that she made you nervous, but jeez...think about someone elses needs before your own sometimes. You could have done it while she was there and left the rest for off camera!
Ramona who you think you are, seriously you are fake and you are not a friend, a real friend doesn't tell to another friend you are the underdog, you have problems...what's wrong with you, Bethenny is successfull and she's defenitely not the underdog..i think you are just jealous of her because she is younger than you and have a nice personality..on the other hand, you are rude, fake and old!!..lol..peace out b....!
Ramona - I am a branding expert with 17 years experience launching some of the most profitable brands in the world and I can tell you Bethenney was right on about brand consistency. Fact is consistency breeds credibility. If you want to truly build a brand, then every product must represent that brand.
You really should stop pretending you know everyone and accept good advice when it is given to you. Build one consistent brand across many lines.
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