Teresa, I love your show, you are one of my favorite housewives by far. BUT...SO IS BETHANNY on the New York show. I am stunned that you would side with Jill!!! Yes, perhaps Jill helped Bethanny network, but that does not give Jill any rights to Bethanny's life as a controlling friend. I believe Bethanny when she said she was busy working: book tour, Skinny Girl Martini, etc. She has been away, and Jill expects her to drop her life whenever she comes calling and it's not fair--especially if Bethanny was building a relationship with her future husband (the girl needed to establish her love life too, why didn't Jill get it). I do believe Bethanny is appreciative of anything Jill and Bobby has done for her, but I don't think Jill is being a true friend. A true friend gives well wishes and gives from the heart, no conditions or expectations. Jill makes it seem as though Bethanny owes her something (and she doesn't). I just believe Jill is behaving childish, and wants her friend to kiss her feet. Jill has been a selfish friend and must not really want for B to have a chance at happiness.

Aside from disagreeing with you on the Jill vs. Bethanny perspective, I want to say that I think you're great!!!

I just love your show!! I watch the Housewives of Orange County and thought they were the best, but i have to say, i have changed my mind! Although I still like the housewives of O.C., your show has become my favorite!!..You are my absolute fav on the show!! You keep it real and i like that!! you are a great mom and wife, and also a wonderful friend to your friends!! Love all that you say and do!! love your style as well!!...Keep on doing what your doing!! I will keep watching!!..I cant wait for Monday night, to watch the real housewives of New Jersey!..You Rock!!!!

P/S..one question...how tall are you? sometimes you look very tall and other times you dont look that tall!!...anyway, take care!!...From one of your biggest fans:Cindy!

Teresa,

I am so glad to hear that NJ is returning soon. Your women are the most real and down-to-earth bunch of all the housewife shows. No nannies, spa-days, fake high-faluting luncheons. With the exception of Danielle, you all sincerely love and respect one another; are honest-go-God friends.

One more thing, Teresa ... the next time you flip a piece of furniture, make sure it lands right on top of Danielle.

Luv ya!

I just love all of you New Jersey housewives and you are so adorable and such a wonderful mom and wife and it's lovely to see a woman who loves her family so much and is still crazy about her husband. I loved it last season when you tipped that table over while you gave that rotten woman whose name I prefer to forget what she had coming to her. Keep up doing what you are doing, and congratulations on your new little girl, I'm sure she is just as beautiful as her older sisters. Love you lots and send lots of hugs

I think Alex is a nicer person than that moment in the kitchen with Simon. I think at the time she was a little hurt and frustrated with Jill and it was a vent session.

I do not know you personally, but can't believe someone said you and Bethany are alike or that you would make a great team! Please! You and Bethany are nothing alike. Being a passionate Sicilian American who is a loving wife and mother is often misunderstood by others. Bethany while I like her is not a mother and wife. I wish her all the best with her new boyfriend.

For me growing up in a close Itailian family we were and remain a close knit unit. We are very protective of each other. Also we are taught to respect ourselves, (but if pushed over the edge we will protect our loved ones to the utter end). I feel so fortunate to have the family and life experiences I do.

I love the show and the Jersey RHW are my favorite because it's like watching family. Moving from Mass to NW Florida which is really Lower Alabama I miss exactly the type of relationships all of you have. It's complete culture shock here, so I have to fly home to Boston at least once a year to soak it in with my family. don't get me wrong I love my family here and would not trade them for anything. Your show just gives me a dose of home. Can't wait until the new season.

I wish you, your family, the girls and their families all the best.

Constance Sirignano Wilson

y do u hate Bethenny so much? ur always sure to make digs about her in your blog...i mean..i like u but, leace Bethenny alone

I love Bethaney and I think that you should take it easy on her. You are the queen over overreacting! You were my favorite New Jersey housewife and my opinion of you has been changed after reading your blog.

Will the wives of New Jersey be coming back for another season? I am waiting, as you ladies are my favorite.

I think bethaney should be ashame of her self , what she did to jill shame shame shame

So far, this is the most "decent human" blog I've run across. You look for the positive but also call it like you see it, but in a tactful way. Keep up the good work!

T, Just LOVE ya on your show and your blogs! You're so honest and direct to the point and do know how to HOLD your own. The "famous" table toppling episode is one of my all time favorites!! It all finally got to you and you do not hold back, that's the way the ball rolls... ;) Cannot wait to see your show back on in May! Take care of your wonderful family and will see you on the Tube... ;)

First of all, I gotta say, you are my favorite Housewife. You are so beautiful and real, and I just love, love, love your husband. He is sooo cool. I love his line, "Happy wife, happy life." But when did Bethenny go overboard? I mean really, I haven't seen her tip over any tables yet. LOL! Honestly, that was the greatest scene out of all the Housewife shows. NJ Housewives are the BEST!

Teresa...girl, you "ROCK"! You make us viewers feel important. Your show is not even aired right now and you update your blog with direct comments to the viewers that comment! THAT IS AWESOME! You are by far the most appreciative housewive out of ALL the shows! I LOVE YOU GIRL...You ROCK!

Teresa I have to say you really surprised me.When I watched your season I thought you were a little meek and mild until that last episode.I thought the sisters and Danielle might have over shadowed you but in your blog your personality and intellect has come out.I cant wait to read and watch more of you.I do have to say that your daughters are beautiful, and you have your hands full but after hearing from you I know you hold your own.

Love your blog! And totally agree with you on Kelly- I love her this season!

I have to say that I think you are one of the nicest people and truest person on any of the housewives shows! Thank you!

all I want to know is what hair spray is your is favorite and works the best. I am a "big hair" girl and proud of it! So what is your gorgeous hair secret!

Teresa - I'm so glad you're blogging about NY. It's like you see all the things we see as viewers so I agree with everything you say. Especially about Bethany. I think my problem with her is I've had way too many friends like that, where as soon as they get a new boyfriend want to just cast you off. I can't wait for a new season of New Jersey!!

Love you. You are so cute. And I appreciate your comments and opionions.

I think its hard to love Bethaney because she is a fighter. If her point being made isn't the one everyone is agreeing with, she gets defensive. Even if it is about something as simple as the weather. If your opinion is different, she mocks you and makes fun of you. It is annoying!

love danielle

Ummm....I absolutely LOVE B! I wouldn't watch the show if she wasn't on there!!! She's the most entertaining!! Lay off, did she not say that she was pregnant this season??!!! GIVE HER A BREAK!

I am also from the garden state and luv it!I wish you and your daughters the best!Were yoour daughter in party city mag? It looked like her luv ya

Hey Girl, Just wanted to let you know your my favorite housewife out of all four cities. Hell NJ is the best of the four shows anyways. My husband even asks me "when are those Jersey girls comming back on? I swear you are related to those ladies." I take that as a compliment!!! Can't wait for your next season to start!!!!

There was a bunch of re-runs of your season on yesterday and I have to say you truly crack me up! I used to be a fan of NYC housewives, but this season is really getting to me. I know they say drama makes a good reality show, but this is just pushing it. I agree with you on Kelly, I couldn't stand her last season but she is really starting to grow on me this season. Her handbag collection was gorgeous! Do you have a favorite bag? I just got the Azul Damier Speedy from Louis Vuitton and I am in love! Come back to bravo, we miss you Jersey Girls!!

Teresa,
You're pretty spot on with your comments - I was kind of shocked by Alex being so catty about Jill. As a matter of fact, I am just surprised by the overall cattiness in general. It seems like it went up a few notches with the NY crowd.

And I feel a little like Betheny is getting ganged up on, don't you? I know she said something really kind of cruel but what they don't show is the conversations that lead up to that response. Don't you hate being taken out of context? I kinda feel like that is what they did.

I am also from Jersey and you are so real to this area.

Hi Teresa,
I think you are great. I am happy that you are for what right. Jill is a good person and I love her also.
I love reading your posts, so keep writing.

Wise men speak because they have something to say;
Fools speak because they have to say something.

Teresa~Love Love Love you!!! :) I agree with you about Bethany..enough already with her mouth..blah. Show some class..she's the one always making the digs..are you kidding me? I'm so over her already! She was such a victim last season and bada-boom..new man (Jason #2), knocked up, great book sale and now she needs no one. Who does that?
I watched NJ Housewives today (all day Sunday) and I'm ready to see you ladies again!!!
xoxox

from one piason (?) to another housewives of NJ are the best! WHEN ARE YOU COMING BACK ON? could you email this I normally don't read the blogs but I had to get in touch with you after seeing the reunion rerun tonight. My girls and I just love you guys the best! Thanking you in advance suzanne, sophia and eva

are you gals coming back for another season i truely believe that out of all the housewives jersey is the best so real love you

Love Love Love you Teresa!!! But I have to say this...I know everyone on the blog feels me. WHO IN THE HECK SAVES A VOICEMAIL FOR THREE MONTHS?!?!?!?!?!?

and..

IF YOU SAVED IT WHO WOULD ALLOW PEOPLE TO LISTEN TO IT!!!!

C'mon be forreal!!! I think Jill strategically saved it to the taping of the show to make Bethenny look bad. I was "Team Jill" but I'm slowing turning to the Bethenny side! I can't get with the rallying everybody up trying to get them on your team.

BTW I can't wait for NJ Season 2 to come!!!

Rochelle from the D

T-
1st, love, love, love you. 2nd, love, love, love the Jersey Wives & cannot wait til they return!
Thank you for having a refreshing take on the New York wives. I believe the show is edited to the point that nothing is really as it seems--which is so disappointing. I believe all of the wives are real women with real lives and not nearly as superficial, shallow, and mean as the editing makes them out to be.
Keep us balanced with your insight!
Lots of Southern Love,
K in Tennessee

LOVE you!!!!

Therrreeesaaaaa! lol...What's up! I watched the Housewives of New Jersey reunion show and couldn't believe that you were pregnant. If you read your comments as you say, I hope you find time in your schedule to give a quick answer to my questions. Please! lol
Anyway, how much time does filming take before it finaly gets on the air? I mean, as a viewer, I'm seeing everything take place as it airs on television. Than I see you're pregnant (reunion) and I know you were tiny in the previous show I watched. So, what is that like six months to complete filming before it finaly goes on television? The blue dress you wore on the reunion episode was very pretty and elegant by the way. During that reunion, you made a comment to a man approaching you to do your make-up or hair, "Don't touch me you're disgusting!" What was up with that!? lol one more, can I expect to see new episodes of NJ housewives? Tell Caroline 'Love Ya' for me please. I love Jersey Wives but I gotta admit, my husband hates all these housewives shows because I watch every one of them and he's stuck with them. He says, "It's bad enough I have my own wife, but now I gotta watch someone elses!" LMAO !

Your are so cute and funny, however, get over Bethanny, She looked fab at the fashion show and she took the high road when she spoke with Jill. Can not wait for your shows to start............

Doesn't it seem like the NY housewives can't ever have a get together without bringing up something that that one of them has done to annoy each other? Why not talk about it at the moment the offense occurs instead of spoiling a completely new evening with old baggage?

It's only the second week of NY Housewives and I'm done!!! Can't stand any of them. Can't wait for NJ to return Miss you Guys!!!!

Melanna, You are dead spot on!! The obvious bashing of Bethany is horrible. There is a reason she is getting her own show. I know you wouldn't like it if someone repeatedly made fun of your children the way Jill and Luann always bother Alex and Simon about it. If Jill has something to say to Bethany, she should say it directly to her and not to (stir the pot Luann , I want to be in Playboy also, Delesseps). Theresa, it has become way too personal.

You are SO right on!! Way to stay down to earth!!

What she said was: "Talk to the BOOTY 'cause the hand's off duty." Ask any fourth grader. (Booty and duty rhyme.) Talk to the booty implies, I'm not just ignoring you with a hand to your face, I'm turning my back to you. Talk to the boobies is just ... weird. Of course, if you MOM is posing in Playboy, perhaps you do think it is "talk to the boobie." Kelly is psycho, but her kids are cute. I feel sorry for them. YOU are funny -- keep blogging! And finally, I love Bethany. I would not watch if she were not on the show.

It is so fun to read your blogs. Everything you said about the NY housewives is so true. Your girls are sooo beautiful btw.

Teresa, I love you, but please stop bashing B. When B posed nude for Peta, you only had bad things to say, however Kelly posing for Playboy gets praise from you? How is that any better? Posing nude is posing nude. You're only coming off as jealous of B like the other bashers. There's a reason why she's the most popular and most followed NY housewife on Twitter. People love her, and clearly people love to hate her. It would be nice to see an unbiased blog from you. Oh, BTW, B supposedly called you "Whiny and unintelligent." Shouldn't you heed your own advice and take it as a compliment being that you still have a husband that loves you anyway? You're still one of my favorite NJ housewives!

Theresa- I've never commented before but reading your blogs has inspired me. First of all LOVED you last season and admire your fiesty-ness... You are so awesome and it just goes to show that no matter how much you have you can still be that fun,down to earth girl next-door! Love that about you....but I love Bethany too so don't hate me because I truly am a HUGE fab. Can't wait for season 2!

I get your issue with Bethenny but what I don't get is how it is any different then how Caroline or Dina spoke about Danielle during your season?

Why do people think you are obsessed with Bethenny? You are blogging about the show and her change of behavior and relationship ties has been a HUGE part of the story lines in the first three episodes. A number of people feel the same way about Bethenny this season...

Love your blogs! I rather read yours than the cast members'!

You are SPOT on... I LOVED Bethenny last year - people who can make cracks like that keep me laughing all day... But, this year, she seems more malicious, and less humorous. You are my FAVORITE - your girls are such sweat peas, and I love how you have your priorities right. PLUS, you also stand up for what is right and are hilarious!

Can't wait for Housewives of New Jersey!! Love, Love, Love you Teresa!! You and your hubby are so delicious together, love how juicy he is =) Keep up the blogging, we miss you!!!