Teresa, I love your show, you are one of my favorite housewives by far. BUT...SO IS BETHANNY on the New York show. I am stunned that you would side with Jill!!! Yes, perhaps Jill helped Bethanny network, but that does not give Jill any rights to Bethanny's life as a controlling friend. I believe Bethanny when she said she was busy working: book tour, Skinny Girl Martini, etc. She has been away, and Jill expects her to drop her life whenever she comes calling and it's not fair--especially if Bethanny was building a relationship with her future husband (the girl needed to establish her love life too, why didn't Jill get it). I do believe Bethanny is appreciative of anything Jill and Bobby has done for her, but I don't think Jill is being a true friend. A true friend gives well wishes and gives from the heart, no conditions or expectations. Jill makes it seem as though Bethanny owes her something (and she doesn't). I just believe Jill is behaving childish, and wants her friend to kiss her feet. Jill has been a selfish friend and must not really want for B to have a chance at happiness.
Aside from disagreeing with you on the Jill vs. Bethanny perspective, I want to say that I think you're great!!!