You are so right on! I think the problem LuAnn has is that if Bethanny is back in the picture she won't be Jill's BFF. LuAnn and that author gives me the creeps. You can tell it is all for show. Notice how when he wants to kiss her she like pulls away, then comes back at him again....Creepy

Hello!! I happen to come across this blog and I have to say LOVE IT!!You say all things I am thinking!! I look forward to reading your furture comical revelations about the show. I also love your show Teresa. I want to be a New Jersey housewife! I plan to visit New York this summer and I secretly wish to run into any of you from either show,event though I know we dont run in the same circles.

Teresa, Jill has so many friends and she opened her heart and her home to Bethenny. She seems to me to have closed her heart since her friendship with Bethenny went sour. I can't believe that in a course of months, that a woman with such a beautiful and loving spirit has changed that drastically. I really enjoyed watching your first season and I am looking forward to seeing the new season. lol:)

Teresa-When Bethenny was the guest commentator on this blog for the New Jersey housewives, she said some really mean things about you and your friends. I'm sure it hurt your feelings at the time because the ridicule would have hurt me. With that said, Jill is the "mean girl" this season. You are such a sweet person, and I hope you can forget Bethenny's treatment of the NJ girls long enough to be fair about the Jill/Bethenny feud. You've definitely paid her back for the hurt I think she caused you.

LETS JUST PUT IT OUT THERE, IF JILL AND BETHANY WE TRULY "GREAT FRIEND" THIS ISSUE THEY ARE HAVING WOULD BE A THING OF THE PAST. WE'VE ALL ARGUED, HAVE GOTTEN HURT, FELT BETRAYED, ANGRY, ARGUED, ETC, AT SOME POINT IN TIME WITH OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER,FRIEND,MOTHER, SISTER, BROTHER. WE ARE NOT IMMUNE TO THESE FEELINGS. THE OLDER I GET THE MORE I REALIZE MY FAMILY AND MY GOOD FRIENDS, THE ONES WHO KNOW ME THE BEST AND PROBABLY I HAVE FELT DISAPPOINTED AND HAVE ACCEPTED THEIR APOLOGY JUST I HAVE APOLOGIZED IN THE PAST IF I HAVE HURT. SORRY AND A DEEP FRIENDSHIP GOES A LONG WAY. NOT MANY PEOPLE TRULY ARE YOUR FRIENDS, THEY ARE OUR AQUAINTANCES. IF YOU CAN COUNT ON A HANDFUL OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE, YOU HAVE MANY RICHES, THAT TRULY MARKS YOUR WEALTH!

Hey Teresa,
Did you hear Jill make the comment on "Watch What Happens" that she tried to get Bethenny to talk in the bedroom with out the cameras, and she said no way. Makes me kind of wonder if Jull is all bad, and Bethenny may have an agenda. I don't think Jill is all the bad one, and Bethenny the angel. Can't wait to see you Jersey girls soon.
God Bless,
Elizabeth

I think that all of the New York Housewives need to take a good look at themselves. They all lie(with the exception of Alex-and we have yet to have Sonja prove herself)or have their own version of the truth-even when it's recorded. Why can't they ever apologize to each other and mean it? I don't think one of them even knows what humility and friendship is, and being a mean girl after high school-or at all-is just ridiculous.

Jill, you are not always right.
Bethenny, you need to stop trying to be funny at the expense of others-and just let the issue with Jill go and move on with your life. If you're really friends, she'll be back.
LuAnn, you need to come down to earth. Royalty has always lived off the "peasantry", and we all know what happened to Marie Antionette, the Tsars of Russia, etc. etc.
Kelly, what planet do you live on?
Alex, Simon needs to learn how to dress.
Sonja, you need to settle down and stop with the sex talk. It's embarrasing.

What is this, seventh grade??? Grow the #$%@ up ladies! It must be nice to have all day to be involved in these petty little disputes when the rest of us have to raise our kids, balance our budgets and get dinner on the table by six!

I agree with Teresa 100%!!! I couldn't have said it better myself. Also viewer who said Teresa isn't bright! Jump off her blog then! She is obviously doing something right cause your reading!!

Teresa you are hilarious!

Jeeezz Bethenny needs to get over it and get a new best friend or "hobby". Earth to Bethenny! Ramona does not want to be your friend anymore and for very good reasons! She has made that very clear so move on and stop mopping and crying around. To the contrary, I think Bethenny is jealous of Ramona and her new relationship with Luann. Ramona has moved on.

You're the best, Theresa! Can't wait for new season to start! Lots of love to you and your beautiful family!

Oh Theresa- I think you are great, funny, a good mother&friend. Maybe I am missing something but I think Jill is totally cruel. She gossips, she talks behind peoples back. She gets mad at others who talk to Bethenny; which means to me she is insecure. Bethenny begged to talk to Jill and asked for forgiveness. Jill walked out on her-what would it take to listen. She wanted Beth&Kelly to talk but when it came to her ohhhh noooooo. She is a baby who acts like a 2nd grader. Good luck this season.

I think it was rude of Ramona to accuse Bethany of planting the story! Just the way she said it was rude especially when Bethany was expressing how much this publicity had been hurting her.

Ok as we all know Bethany isnt perfect she is a human being and Jill does need to look at herself and realize this is stupid they have been friends forever and Luann needs to get a life and let them atlk it out. I think she is afraid that if they do make uo she will be kicked to the curb.

VERY well spoken, Teresa! Nobody has said it all better yet (that I've read anyway). You took the words right out of my head, with one exception...I still can't get over Luann encouraging Jill to tell Bethenny that she was alone when Bethenny called Jill. Kethenny asked "are you alone?", and Luann sat there and nodded her head "yes", wanting Jill to lie to her. I lost all respect for Luann at that point....I hope that changes in episodes to come.

Jill is crazy and thinks everyone owes her something. Jill does keep taps on what she does for her friends.
Bethany she cancel Jill out of her life for GOOD!!
Jill last season help n listen to Bethany problem, Jill loves it when your DOWN!! (another problem friend on her belt) Jill was upset, cause Bethnay got a man.

People need to go back and watch the show...Look Jill has Luann in her web.

Now look I liked u ever since you threw the table...my style...I really liked your blog and think you have more sense than any of the others I have read. If it gets much worse I will not be able to watch the drama anymore.

love you teresa! you have the life everyone wishes they had :-) wish you happiness always!

you are right on the money with your comments about jill & bethenny! jill has denied B repeatedly...that is SO not what a good friend should do. friendships mean ups and downs and most especially forgiving faults.

I agree whole completely!!!!

i can not wait till you wives are back on monday night bravo may 3.i just bought the first season. and the second season looks like there is no less drama.love you all.bevy!

I agree with you 200%

Teresa, I am a fan! I couldn't have said it better myself! Kuddos!! I am looking forward to Jersey!!

Peg210
that is so very true!! Jill for me is so very bad I really thought she was the one who had it altogether and more mature but I guess I thought wrong.

I think that this is possibly the worst housewives show. They are very cruel and heartless and a bunch of back stabbers. Bethany is the worse one yet she is always yelling about being talked about. She has an absolutely horrible attitude although I am glad she has a husband and a baby maybe she will chill out a little and possibly grow up.

Wow Teresa, what a great post. Your insight this week is so spot on and the way you broke it all down and composed it was some of the best writing I've seen. Great job.

I don't care what anyone says--Teresa is not very bright--come on

Bethany is now upset when nobody gives her attention. Please, it is not like she is the nicest person, she always has something mean to say. Now she is scared that she is not liked anymore and have to cry a little to the camera. And who knows what is the real story with her dad.

Here it is in a nut shell. Both are selfish and can not see past their own self. Sad really. Both ladies have good reason to be upset, ver good reasons and both need to see that.

I think you had it right before. Bethanny has been nothing short of obnoxious this season, and she hasn't been a good friend to Jill who was there for her all of last season. She was just making excuses over the phone, and I think Jill's just tired of her bs.

Cant wait fo you to come back on You rock

Theresa, what we weren't told was that Jill kept the phone message for four months before the show aired and then played it. She had already ended her friendship with Bethenny "Bethenny we are through" BEFORE Bobby got cancer. So Bethenny didn't know. I think Alex says it best. Jill wants payback for all her efforts. She doesnt' have to work. Bethanny does.

bethenny and jill ad nauseum, when will it end?.. can't stand either one of them. bethenny is a snarky and mean mess with deep issues and no friends getting hit with overdue karma big time and jill is a spoiled brat. they do not need to be friends for god's sake! and like many viewers i am SICK of it all. give us something decent to watch for a change.

Teresa, I couldn't have put it better myself! I enjoyed your blog! =)

Teresa, I think that ever since you threw the table...that you think your hott stuff, its clear that you are a hippocrit. One week your against Bethany, then your against Jill. I think you have too much to say and it makes you look like a confused hater. To me its clear that between NY and NJ, all of you women are jealous of Bethany and to me, I say TEAM BETHANY all day!!! Hater

i think this is a he said she said, and the peoples that weren't there are the 1's keeping jill and bethany apart..every1 has a apast, and you do sometimes make up...i think jill wants 2 make up with bethany, but luanne is keeping that from happening..Jill, bethany is your freind..she's not perfect, but she loves you like a sister girl..don't let this awful thing end your friendship!!

You said it right, I think Jill and Bethanny should make up, being that close for that long should count more than keeping the hatred alive. I have had a best friend/sister for over 15 years, and we had a falling out years ago and both had done things wrong, and it lasted for a few months, but we both apologized for what we had did and vowed to always talk about what bothers us and not let that happen again. I agree with Bethanny's side more, she actually wants to set things right, and move on. I cant wait to watch New Jersey's new season, you are truly the realest woman Ive seen lately and that is totally refreshing, don't take nothing from no one!! You go Girl!!!

Teresa,
I cannot WAIT for May to see your new season! You are such a delight to watch. You seem so carefree, loyal, and happy. You have a beautiful family and you crack me up. :) Thank you!

Great point Teresa!!!
How quickly people forget- "- it was EXACTLY the same thing Jill did to Bethenny and Kelly last year. Jill literally locked them in a bedroom and told them not to come out until they were friends. Jill and LuAnn have no right to be mad at Ramona."

Regarding LuAnn, I think she's afraid that B and Jill will go back to being buddies and she'll have no one (again). It did seem childish how she kept interjecting into their conversation "tea anyone"...."the car is here Jill". C'mon! Leave those two alone to hatch it out.

Ramona is ALL over the place with her emotions. I wished six-flags would name one of their rides after her LOL The Ramonacoaster, perfect!

Teresa.... I agree. You can't see it any other way. Jill is JEALOUS and hanging on to that one thing and won't let it go. Just let it go. Jills knows that Bethenny would be there by her side if she knew any different. I didn't see Luann and everyone else there with Jill and her husband. Why isn't she chastizing them for not doing enough. Let Bethenny have some happiness and let her enjoy it without making her feel guilty. She earned it. I see Luann being in the hot seat next. The countess will find another suitor soon and will it be thanks to Jill and Bobbie or something to do with "thanking Jill". She brings bad vibes. She won't be a good enough friend to Jill, same with Kelly. Everyone was successfull before Jill, so there. What will a friendship with Jill cost? I mean really. C'mon Jill, you've got it all wrong and it's almost too late.You look like a fool with your grudges. Shame on you.

I agree that Jill is being ridiculous!!!

Teresa;

Bravo.....For the first time, I agreed with you on all counts. excellent observation and thoughts on what went down and how things are handled..

YOU ARE SO DARN SMART AND CUTE...AND OH SO RIGHT,,,JILL IS A MEAN GIRL

I too wonder what Jill's mom is thinking when last reunion, Jill stated that her mother would be "disappointed" in the behavior and how Jill was very embarrased that her mother was watching. Hmm. And for Luann, she had no friend and now she does so I believe that is why she is clinging to Jill and not wanting to give her back to Bethenny and leave her the lonely Countess again.

I am on Bethenny's side here. Ramona is actually taking it upon herself (who knows why) to get Bethenny and Jill back together. Ramona then appears conniving, but all she seems to desire is two friends reconciling (hmmm). Ramona may have her own ("renewed") reasons for wanting friendships to last; however, ultimately, she helped reveal a much larger issue between the two women. Jill seems to find fault in everything--I wonder where she gets that--maybe two episodes ago could give us a clue in which her mother had nothing good to say about the photo shoot. Bethenny happened to stick around long enough in Jill's life to be inducted into Jill's family scrutiny--poor Bethenny when she has virtually no family experience--and Bethenny wonders why she feels blind sided! Why do women do this to each other--make each other extensions of our family destined to live out our unresolved issues--relax a little ladies! Shouldn't we reserve our abuse for our husbands??!!

Teresa

You summed it up so well! My blog reading of housewives stops here! Of course I read B's! However, yours is so on the money especially since you are not in the NYCHW bubble. Can't wait for your season of housewives. You are my favorite NJHW and nooo not because we have the same name! Well, maybe a little bit. :) Peace & <3

Teresa

Great blog!

I Agree 100%

Teresa, I'm pleasantly shocked at how perceptive and articulate you are in your writing. You come off as shallow and dense on the shows. Your blogs are great. Keep it up the good work and I look forward to reading your future blogs.

Well said Paisan!