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It's Thug in a Cocktail Dress time at last! Who will it be? Oh, wait, you're reading this after the episode aired, so let me ask you this. . .were you surprised? There might be more thuggery to come -- stay tuned.
LuAnn and Sonja acted as co-hostesses this year for our girls trip, and I was thrilled to get back to Morocco. One thing; I was surprised to see in the episode that LuAnn said she's been there often, since when we traveled she told us she'd only been there once 15 years ago. Maybe I was confused, and it's not important AT ALL, I just hate contradictions. But I'm letting it go.
I spent a week in Marrakesh previously, with Simon and 5-week-old François in the Baby Bjorn on my chest -- it was an amazing trip!! I won't make this blog all about that trip, but if you want to know more we discuss it in Chapter 5 of our book "The Screaming Kid on the Plane is Not Mine". That time, Simon got to ride camels while I nursed the baby, in the desert, with guides driving me around in a 4x4 -- which was actually pretty cool in and of itself. We came home with four carpets and tons of pottery. Anyway, when Sonja suggested it, I was beyond excited to go back and do the things I couldn't last time with a baby. Some time during the next three episodes I'll post pictures on our website.
Seriously, LuAnn? Ramona's going to screw up the whole trip? That's ridiculous. Although Ramona had some misconceptions about Morocco (it's not a third world country and they do respect women). She is usually the most fun on a trip, pitching in, helping out, and having a great time. Kelly shouldn't have been worried about anything, frankly -- the person she had the biggest problem with in St. John wasn't going on the trip! Ramona nailed LuAnn by saying that whatever she says, she says it face-to-face and not behind the back. That, in a nutshell, is why I like Ramona, and why some of the others constantly rub me the wrong way.
I think there are two types of people in the world: Cowards, who don't want to rock the boat and smile to your face while saying whatever they feel like behind your back, and In-Your-Face'ers, who have the courage to be honest about their emotions -- good, bad or ugly. There's a gray area in between where you just don't say anything (I lived there for a while, as you know, and sometimes go back when it's just not worth it.) I would rather have clunky, not-the-right-time, from-the-heart substance, than high handedness and bile with a smooth veneer and a polished wink. Moving right along. . .
I am thankful that you have hung in there on the show. I am one of those viewers that find your perspective to be fair and you can also be the voice of reason. I, too, find Ramona to be an honest, hardworking, and fun person who gets a bad rap repeatably by LuAnn and Jill and now Cindy.I also enjoy your command of the english language, and now your phrase "Thug in a Cocktail Dress" will live on forever! So funny!
Kudos Alex! I always feel as though I get the REAL story from you. Your pick for "thug" is straight on. LuAnn is a sneaky hypocrite....... watch your back!
I REALLY like ur hair in the pic for the blog.
Hi Alex,
I really respect you for speaking up for yourself. I can't even enjoy the show anymore. I used to watch it all the time, now I only watch it if I'm bored ands it just happens to come on. I do enjoy watching you, Simon, Ramona and Bethany. I feel sorry for Kelly but I think that Luann is obsessed with Jill, if she was a real friend, she would tell her when she's wrong.
Alex as usual love your blog. I for one have grown tired of Jill and LuAnn...LuAnn always meddling and Jill always the victim. I like Ramona and though she does get a bit out there on occasion she really does pretty much "speak her truth" unlike Jill and LuAnn who speak whatever truth seems to work in their favor. Thanks for always telling it like it is.
Alex, I believe that you are the brightest, smartest and prettiest person on the show. You have such a level head and see things very clearly. Keep posting, we look to your advice and knowledge to guide us through the storm of egos.
Your boys are gorgeous and smart.
Morocco is a third world country. I'm a Peace Corps Volunteer here. For the "real" Moroccan experience you'll have to travel outside of Marrakesh and into the "Bled" where mudhouses without running water or electricity abound! And personally I've lived here for a year now and women certainly are considered second class citizens. I came here to volunteer my aid to a local group of artisans and the man who runs our city's artisana will not speak to me directly but only to my male site-mate (just one example). Love the show but wanted to clarify that as it's clearly an issue close to my heart- something I'm sure you understand.
Everyone needs a friend like you. Don't change.
You are so right on with "thug in a cocktail dress". Luann is a condescending, critical bully who trys to justify her actions in the guise of manners. A five year old can tell you it's not good manners to walk into a party and start scolding someone and telling them no one wants to go on a trip with them. Someone needs to remind her she got her title by marriage, not by earning it.
TEAM BLOND!!!!!
Alex - love you and Ramona.... The show has definitely changed and not for the better since Bethenny left. Seems odd that Jill was always at odds with her and she was the reason for all the issues according to Jill, LuAnn and Kelly and now that she is gone the focus is now Ramona by this group with Sonja joining in.
The show is not as entertaining as before. There does not seem to be a real relationship with most of the woman and I feel more each episode that most are playing to the camera.... It is a shame but I find myself more and more taping the episode or not watching all of it.... In this day and age people want some entertainment with their realism; want to connect a little with the people on the screen; not just watching some rich women that do not seem to even enjoy life unless they are ridiculing someone else behind their backs....
Dear Alex
I have done this before but i want to say i think your great. You stand up for yourself and while holding your dignity. Keep up the good work and i look forward to watching more.
So glad you're on the show. Keep on keeping those fake housewives in line.
Love you, Alex. It's a guilty pleasure of mine to watch you stand your ground and not take any crap off of the other housewives! Keep it up and give 'em hell!
I hear you Alex, but there is a time and place for certain conversations and Ramona has very little situational awareness in that area. She acts as if she shouldn't be held accountable for her actions because she says comments directly to you. That's bologna and she will be confronted every time because people will not accept constantly being insulted. Self control and discipline also involves remaining calm and removing yourself from explosive environments. If she can dish it, then she should have no problem receiving the backlash. I believe the other ladies are just tired of her new found foolishness.
Dear Alex,
I think you are very calm & stable, & anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend!!!
Keep on being you!! Thank God there is ONE voice of reason on this show!
alex you are great, keep it up with your voice. you deserve to be a model and you do have good genes! don' feed into the drama. luv yu
Alex, you are still my favorite. You are the ONLY one with class and reasonable thinking! Stay the way you are. Please don't catch "The Crazies" from the others.
TEAM ALEX! WELL..TEAM ALEX AND RAMONA! LOVE YOU GIRLS!
Alex,
loved the scene of you and jill lunch to clear your differences. that was amazing, wished more woman could do that in real life. always be true to yourself and others..that will take you far. well wishes for you and your family
Alex, strong, classy, beautiful lady! That's you... I have to confess that on your first season I was not your fan at all... but girl, I see a new women this season, and it's incredible!
Keep your head up, and voice heard... You deseve to be happy!
alex is good to let people no how you feel but you do it a little bit to much to the point that you need to no when to be quiet and stop picking a fight with everybody
Alex, What are your thoughts on your friend Bethenney's well deserved successes this year. The COVER of Forbes? Amazing!
Kudos to you Alex! You are so well spoken.
You seem to be the only one with the cajones to stand up to LuAnn. Keep it up! She is SUPER yucky this season, reminiscent of the Countess who wouldn't speak to the driver....
You always speak the truth and so well. Thank you!
I always head straight to your blog for the truth of the matter. Thanks for another great read!
you are brillant!!! clearly the most intelligent one...Take Care
I Love reading your blogs! I feel your the only sane one in that whole group! I love Ramona and I get her she is so emotional and that really tickles me! Please Never change and pass this on to Ramona as well!
I love you. Don't change a thing!!!!!
Alex, I love your writing style, it's GREAT! You are able to describe the other ladies behavior, good and bad, perfectly!!
Alex, you are cool. Hope to run into you in NYC!
Yes... You and Ramona are my favorites too.
:)
Alex, all I can say is Thank God for you, the one voice of reason, among all the nuttiness!!!! Love you and your little family.
Thank you for being a friend to Ramona. She really needs one with this group of vipers.
Always the voice of reason. Love that about you. Also love you clear, straight-forward and fair blogs. Keep it up--that makes you more and more credible.
Alex,
You have definitely found your voice this season in more ways than one. Your writing has improved and your wit has sharpened. It was always there, but maybe you now have more confidence to express yourself. I have also been disturbed by the other housewives trying to paint Ramona as a drunk. I think Bravo seems to encourage that through the constant close-ups of her with a glass, or looking for a glass,etc. I am also very proud of you for standing your ground with LuAnn which is hard to do since she is always working that mouth and talking over you. It may not have hit home with her, but believe me, we viewers felt as if you had scored a homerun! I wanted to stand up and cheer when you told her she was the one who brought the negativity to the event. Keep up the good work...you are coming into your own!
You are the reason I still watch this show.
Your "blog" photo is verrrrrrrrrrrrrry flattering but looks nothing like the "real" you.
Love you Alex, you are one of the only ladies who doens't seem to ahve a hidden agneda!!! Keep it up
Alex -
You and Cindy are the only ones with class. Keep up the good work.
Thanks for such a informative blog. I can't believe how mean the brunettes are this year.
Alex, what did you think about the New Jersey Housewive's reunion?
Great blog entry! I liked the way you handled yourself while Ramona & Luann were going at it at Jill's event. I've noticed Luann has been butting in a tad bit too much, I don't know where she's coming from, but I really don't like it. I definitely like this new Alex! Keep it up!
Hi Alex,
You are always the voice of reason and I appreciate it as some of the NY housewives seem kind of nut-so. Keep it up Alex - I liked you from season 1 and am glad to see I can find someone to relate to on this show still. Don't get me wrong, the nuttiness is entertaining - but you need a balance and someone relatable. That would be you - looking forward to the next episode!
Another great, straight-forward blog Alex. Love the way you always stick up for Ramona. Love You Alex.
You and Ramona are my favorites! I like the way you speak the truth and embrace your family. Good luck and good fortune Alex!
Alex, you are the best and the brightest this show has to offer!! Your point of view is always spot on. I really think LuAnn is just so full of herself, she needs to watch these shows carefully to see just how ridiculous she is!!!! I love you and Simon and the kids and you and Ramona are my very favorites (also Sonja!!)
God Bless and best wishes...
Alex! Always the most insightful blog. keep it up. You are too centered to be on this show.
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